Oneself

Summary

In this episode, Stephen Maher and Adam Bartleman delve into the complex topic of objectification, particularly in the context of masculinity and societal roles. They explore the roots of objectification, the impact of male-dominated environments, and the importance of recognizing and addressing abusive behaviors. The conversation emphasizes the need for men to embody integrity, protect vulnerable populations, and engage in self-improvement. They also discuss the significance of gratitude and perspective shifts in personal growth, concluding with a call to action for men to listen to their hearts and strive for betterment.

Takeaways

  • Objectification is not just a label; it's a deep-rooted issue.
  • Dehumanization of others reflects a dehumanization of oneself.
  • Men often have 'aha moments' when they become fathers.
  • A healthy man embodies integrity and awareness.
  • Protecting vulnerable populations is a crucial role for men.
  • Recognizing and addressing abusive behaviors is essential.
  • Self-improvement is a continuous journey.
  • Gratitude can shift perspectives and enhance well-being.
  • Simple practices can lead to profound changes.
  • Listening to one's heart is key to navigating difficult situations.

Chapters

00:00
Understanding Objectification and Its Roots
10:09
The Role of Integrity in Healthy Masculinity
14:58
Protectors vs. Abusers: The Male Responsibility
20:02
Confronting Societal Norms and Personal Accountability
27:26
Addressing Drink Safety and Responsibility
33:08
Defining a Good Man in Modern Society
38:55
Perspective Shifts and Gratitude
45:02
The Power of Simple Practices
51:04
Closing Thoughts on Integrity and Heart

Creators and Guests

AB
Host
Adam Bartleman
SM
Host
Stephen Maher

What is Oneself?

Oneself is a raw and reflective podcast about identity, purpose, and transformation. Hosted by Stephen Maher and Adam Bartleman, the show explores how we come to understand who we are—through our experiences, relationships, and the deeper work of self-discovery. In each episode, they share personal stories and honest conversations around topics like mentorship, trauma, masculinity, healing, and growth. Whether you’re navigating your own path or curious about the human experience, Oneself invites you into a space where vulnerability meets wisdom and reflection leads to action.