The Power of Appreciation: Teaching Kids to Say Thank You—Even When It’s Hard

In this week’s Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman unpacks a striking lesson from Parshas Chukas that flips our understanding of gratitude on its head. Why was Moshe Rabbeinu afraid to confront Og Melech HaBashan—even though Og’s original intent was malicious? The Torah teaches that gratitude isn’t about someone’s intentions, it’s about the benefit we received.

As parents, we often hear, “You only did that for yourself!” Rabbi Shifman explores how to raise children who internalize true hakaras hatov—appreciation—even when it feels undeserved. This episode will shift how you view relationships, entitlement, and the foundation of respect in your home.

Listen now and discover why the Torah demands we teach our children to say “thank you”—no matter what.

What is Guiding Generations?

"Guiding Generations" with Rabbi Mordechai Shifman merges timeless Torah wisdom with contemporary parenting insights. Each episode draws from the weekly Torah portion, offering practical advice and spiritual guidance to help parents navigate the challenges of raising children with integrity, respect, and compassion. Join Rabbi Shifman as he connects ancient teachings to the realities of modern family life, empowering parents to cultivate a nurturing and value-driven home environment.