Oneself

Summary:

In this conversation, Stephen Maher and Adam Bartleman explore the often-taboo subject of death, discussing its cultural implications, personal experiences, and the importance of embracing mortality. They reflect on how different societies view death, the role of emergency services in confronting it, and the profound insights gained from near-death experiences. The discussion emphasizes the need for open conversations about death, the significance of grief, and the value of community support in processing loss. Ultimately, they advocate for a healthier relationship with death as a means to enrich life and foster deeper connections with loved ones.

Takeaways
  • Death serves as a reminder to live in the moment.
  • Different cultures have varied perspectives on death.
  • Emergency services professionals often confront death regularly.
  • Near-death experiences often reveal feelings of love and peace.
  • Grief is a natural process that should be shared in community.
  • Our society often treats death as a taboo subject.
  • Talking about death can help alleviate fear and anxiety.
  • Cultural practices around death can provide healthier coping mechanisms.
  • The fear of death can lead to unhealthy obsessions with longevity.
  • Accepting death can lead to a more fulfilling life.
Chapters

00:00
Embracing the Conversation on Death
03:16
Cultural Perspectives on Death
06:11
Personal Experiences with Death
09:24
Near-Death Experiences and Love
12:18
The Fear of Death in Society
15:15
Death as a Natural Process
18:06
Cultural Differences in Death Practices
21:12
The Taboo of Death in Western Society
24:22
Finding Peace in the Conversation about Death
29:43
Understanding Death and Grief
36:06
The Importance of Presence and Connection
38:22
Cultural Perspectives on Grief
45:03
Reconnecting with Indigenous Wisdom
52:58
Empowerment Through Awareness

Creators and Guests

AB
Host
Adam Bartleman
SM
Host
Stephen Maher

What is Oneself?

Oneself is a raw and reflective podcast about identity, purpose, and transformation. Hosted by Stephen Maher and Adam Bartleman, the show explores how we come to understand who we are—through our experiences, relationships, and the deeper work of self-discovery. In each episode, they share personal stories and honest conversations around topics like mentorship, trauma, masculinity, healing, and growth. Whether you’re navigating your own path or curious about the human experience, Oneself invites you into a space where vulnerability meets wisdom and reflection leads to action.