WEBVTT Kind: captions Language: en-GB 00:00:08.350 --> 00:00:12.540 Travis Bader: I'm Travis Bader, and this is the Silvercore podcast. 00:00:13.380 --> 00:00:17.930 Silvercore has been providing its members with the skills and knowledge 00:00:17.950 --> 00:00:22.620 necessary to be confident and proficient in the outdoors for over 20 years. 00:00:22.710 --> 00:00:26.790 And we make it easier for people to deepen their connection to the natural world. 00:00:27.730 --> 00:00:30.500 If you enjoy the positive and educational content. 00:00:30.710 --> 00:00:35.530 We provide, please let others know by sharing, commenting, and 00:00:35.530 --> 00:00:39.630 following so that you can join in on everything that Silvercore stands for. 00:00:40.710 --> 00:00:43.340 If you'd like to learn more about becoming a member of the 00:00:43.340 --> 00:00:47.929 Silvercore club and community, visit our website at silvercore. 00:00:47.940 --> 00:00:48.370 ca. 00:00:52.170 --> 00:00:54.940 It's that time of the year again, Christmas is upon us. 00:00:55.120 --> 00:00:56.440 New Year's just around the corner. 00:00:56.440 --> 00:00:57.460 This is the very. 00:00:57.480 --> 00:01:01.830 Last episode of the Silver Corp podcast in 2023, and we thought we'd try and 00:01:01.830 --> 00:01:05.129 do something a little lighthearted, a little fun, a little frivolous. 00:01:05.820 --> 00:01:08.370 I'm joined today by my wife Tiffany Bader. 00:01:08.375 --> 00:01:11.820 You might remember her from such podcasts as the Silver Corp Podcast, 00:01:11.820 --> 00:01:16.140 episode 100, the Ask Me Anything and Silver Corp Podcast, episode 40, 00:01:16.140 --> 00:01:19.949 which is the The Woman's Fly Fishing Group down here in the Lower mainland. 00:01:21.570 --> 00:01:22.679 What are we doing today, TIFF? 00:01:23.610 --> 00:01:26.910 Tiffany Bader: We are gonna melt our faces off with some, uh, hot wings. 00:01:27.350 --> 00:01:32.560 We've got the, uh, the lineup from hot ones, one through 10, and, 00:01:32.560 --> 00:01:34.429 uh, I can say that they are hot. 00:01:34.440 --> 00:01:36.410 My fingers are burning from saucing them. 00:01:36.480 --> 00:01:38.240 And I was coughing and hacking. 00:01:38.520 --> 00:01:39.560 I can smell it from here. 00:01:39.619 --> 00:01:39.750 Yeah. 00:01:39.750 --> 00:01:42.609 When they were airborne, they're like, I, I've really caked it on. 00:01:42.610 --> 00:01:44.369 So we're going to be in some pain. 00:01:44.679 --> 00:01:47.930 Travis Bader: So what I'm not, I see you got Pepto the table as well too. 00:01:47.930 --> 00:01:48.110 Is that fair? 00:01:48.110 --> 00:01:49.300 Tiffany Bader: Yeah, I don't know. 00:01:49.300 --> 00:01:50.200 I don't know what to expect. 00:01:50.740 --> 00:01:51.150 Okay. 00:01:51.520 --> 00:01:52.840 I'm not very good with spice. 00:01:53.295 --> 00:01:55.455 Travis Bader: So, well, I can smell them from here. 00:01:55.545 --> 00:01:56.765 I love hot wings. 00:01:56.955 --> 00:01:58.135 I love chicken wings. 00:01:58.135 --> 00:01:59.845 I should say, maybe not necessarily hot wings. 00:01:59.845 --> 00:02:00.945 I love chicken wings. 00:02:01.465 --> 00:02:06.774 Um, melt my face off hot, not a fan of, but I can tell you, these are 00:02:06.775 --> 00:02:09.294 all going to be frozen cold, like people will watch this, probably won't 00:02:09.304 --> 00:02:12.065 realize that all the chicken is going to be cold by the time we get to it. 00:02:12.135 --> 00:02:12.395 Tiffany Bader: Yep. 00:02:12.505 --> 00:02:12.705 Yep. 00:02:12.725 --> 00:02:16.655 We cooked it this morning and brought it over and saw some and got stuff together. 00:02:16.655 --> 00:02:18.885 And it's now hour and a half later. 00:02:20.815 --> 00:02:24.844 Travis Bader: So to make up for that, you, uh, You extra sauced each and every one. 00:02:24.855 --> 00:02:25.504 Yes, I did. 00:02:25.545 --> 00:02:25.885 Yeah. 00:02:25.924 --> 00:02:26.904 So what's your strategy? 00:02:27.515 --> 00:02:30.965 Tiffany Bader: Uh, I'm pretty good at turning off my brain, 00:02:31.874 --> 00:02:33.674 which, you know, and, uh. 00:02:33.695 --> 00:02:34.734 I too share that trait. 00:02:34.945 --> 00:02:35.544 So that's excellent. 00:02:35.575 --> 00:02:38.075 I can, I can push through things that kind of suck. 00:02:38.084 --> 00:02:38.445 So. 00:02:39.325 --> 00:02:39.785 You say now. 00:02:39.874 --> 00:02:43.765 I say now, but, uh, come da bomb or I don't know, I don't know 00:02:43.765 --> 00:02:46.804 how far I'm going to get before I start complaining, but, uh, we have 00:02:46.804 --> 00:02:48.825 eggnog, so that should help too. 00:02:48.845 --> 00:02:51.825 Travis Bader: So we've got 10 different sauces and Tiff brought some Pepto Bismol. 00:02:52.095 --> 00:02:53.675 The bomb is number eight. 00:02:53.685 --> 00:02:56.635 And by all accounts from the internet research I've done, people say that's 00:02:56.635 --> 00:02:59.814 supposed to be the hottest, even though it's rated lower on the Scoville scale. 00:03:00.475 --> 00:03:01.925 So I guess we'll find out. 00:03:01.925 --> 00:03:04.094 So the drill here as well. 00:03:04.094 --> 00:03:07.025 We've got a bowl in front of us with a bunch of questions that have been put in 00:03:07.025 --> 00:03:08.895 there and we'll work our way through it. 00:03:08.925 --> 00:03:09.845 Do we eat first? 00:03:09.905 --> 00:03:12.614 Do we, do we ask a question first? 00:03:12.614 --> 00:03:13.135 How's this work? 00:03:13.174 --> 00:03:13.285 I 00:03:13.285 --> 00:03:13.585 Tiffany Bader: don't know. 00:03:13.585 --> 00:03:14.315 It's your podcast. 00:03:14.315 --> 00:03:15.895 I say we do it every, whatever you want. 00:03:15.935 --> 00:03:19.555 Maybe on the show, they. 00:03:20.435 --> 00:03:25.345 They, I think they ask the question while they're eating it so you can like have to 00:03:25.345 --> 00:03:27.125 go through the pain of eating a hot wing. 00:03:27.195 --> 00:03:28.864 And then, 00:03:29.424 --> 00:03:31.995 Travis Bader: yeah, well, my strategy for this is going to be simple. 00:03:32.015 --> 00:03:35.495 I'm going to do my best not to have any water, not to have any eggnog. 00:03:36.015 --> 00:03:41.194 I have found that if I have hot stuff and I have a temporary relief from the 00:03:41.194 --> 00:03:44.854 water or milk or whatever it might be, it just comes back 10 times worse for me. 00:03:44.855 --> 00:03:46.905 So I'm going to see if I can make it through the whole thing. 00:03:47.679 --> 00:03:51.760 Without anything, I'll say that now, all brave before I even bite into 00:03:51.760 --> 00:03:52.299 Tiffany Bader: number one. 00:03:52.439 --> 00:03:52.630 Okay. 00:03:52.739 --> 00:03:53.980 And I'll probably drink your eggnog. 00:03:54.470 --> 00:03:55.370 Travis Bader: Do we have a 00:03:55.480 --> 00:03:55.840 Tiffany Bader: question? 00:03:55.870 --> 00:03:56.399 Yeah, sure. 00:03:56.409 --> 00:03:57.469 Oh, I'll ask yours first. 00:03:57.480 --> 00:03:57.739 Yeah. 00:03:57.739 --> 00:03:59.159 Travis Bader: And what side do I start on here, by the way? 00:03:59.250 --> 00:04:00.799 I don't want to start on the number 10. 00:04:00.899 --> 00:04:01.760 The left side. 00:04:01.960 --> 00:04:02.230 Okay. 00:04:02.370 --> 00:04:02.759 There we go. 00:04:05.495 --> 00:04:05.825 Tiffany Bader: Okay. 00:04:06.595 --> 00:04:08.135 First question. 00:04:08.885 --> 00:04:10.515 How big is your inner circle? 00:04:14.445 --> 00:04:14.985 Travis Bader: Not big. 00:04:15.885 --> 00:04:16.565 Inner circle? 00:04:17.125 --> 00:04:17.945 Intentionally? 00:04:18.055 --> 00:04:18.615 Not big. 00:04:18.625 --> 00:04:19.774 Oh, I guess I should eat my wing. 00:04:20.144 --> 00:04:21.114 You're going to have to eat your wing. 00:04:23.425 --> 00:04:26.964 There's a lot of people that I love that are part of my life. 00:04:28.425 --> 00:04:33.255 If we're going to talk absolute inner circle, you know, in life 00:04:33.255 --> 00:04:35.025 there's givers and there's takers. 00:04:35.265 --> 00:04:36.585 Are you sure I started on number one? 00:04:37.265 --> 00:04:37.485 Yep. 00:04:37.835 --> 00:04:38.045 It's number one. 00:04:38.165 --> 00:04:38.615 Okay. 00:04:40.195 --> 00:04:40.815 There's givers. 00:04:40.815 --> 00:04:41.435 There's takers. 00:04:41.435 --> 00:04:42.164 There's matchers. 00:04:43.995 --> 00:04:47.164 Not to be egotistical, but I view myself as a giver. 00:04:48.114 --> 00:04:52.575 One thing I've found and people have pointed out to me is a goodwill. 00:04:53.395 --> 00:04:56.034 People with goodwill will have their goodwill taken advantage 00:04:56.034 --> 00:04:57.664 of by those with ill will. 00:04:58.065 --> 00:04:59.815 There's going to be lots of takers in the world. 00:05:00.825 --> 00:05:04.415 I do my very, very best to try and surround myself with savages. 00:05:04.455 --> 00:05:07.705 Other people who are going to want to give, not just at the same level, 00:05:07.705 --> 00:05:10.844 but try and outdo you on a regular basis when I try and outdo them. 00:05:10.844 --> 00:05:11.505 And I find that. 00:05:11.935 --> 00:05:16.554 That drives me, and it helps that inner circle just do that much better. 00:05:16.905 --> 00:05:17.224 How about you? 00:05:17.224 --> 00:05:18.174 What's your inner circle like? 00:05:20.374 --> 00:05:22.694 Tiffany Bader: Yeah, I mean, you put it a lot nicer than I would. 00:05:23.084 --> 00:05:27.364 Um, I feel like I'm getting older, and maybe crabbier, and less willing to, 00:05:27.364 --> 00:05:31.454 uh, I don't know, you're young and you want friends, and you put up with stuff 00:05:31.454 --> 00:05:34.835 you're not maybe super happy with, and you get older and you realize what 00:05:34.835 --> 00:05:38.155 your tolerances are, and what makes you happy, what doesn't make you happy, 00:05:38.155 --> 00:05:40.254 and it's definitely getting smaller. 00:05:40.830 --> 00:05:44.500 Um, you know, I feel like we've been through some stuff and it's 00:05:44.500 --> 00:05:45.720 taught us who our friends are. 00:05:45.720 --> 00:05:50.149 And it really like tested those, those bonds. 00:05:50.149 --> 00:05:54.760 And I feel like coming through those things is like, man, there's people I know 00:05:54.760 --> 00:05:58.920 in our life that they would do anything for us and we would do anything for them. 00:05:59.895 --> 00:06:02.245 I don't care how many people are in our, our inner circle. 00:06:02.245 --> 00:06:05.275 As long as there's a few of these people, I'm, I feel so 00:06:05.275 --> 00:06:06.525 grateful and so happy for that. 00:06:07.385 --> 00:06:07.445 That's a 00:06:07.465 --> 00:06:08.075 Travis Bader: good question. 00:06:08.275 --> 00:06:11.265 So that's number one, you sauced the heck out of these guys. 00:06:11.275 --> 00:06:12.465 I, I, I really did. 00:06:13.045 --> 00:06:15.875 And I'm wondering, I'm wondering what it's going to like. 00:06:16.235 --> 00:06:19.345 So what number one here is what they got a chart that says it 00:06:19.374 --> 00:06:22.875 is 1, 600 Scoville heat units. 00:06:24.080 --> 00:06:25.080 I did a bit of research. 00:06:25.480 --> 00:06:29.770 I'm not too sure how well Scovilles are representative of what the heat's going 00:06:29.770 --> 00:06:32.940 to be like, because if they're calling the bomb, one of the hottest ones, and there's 00:06:32.950 --> 00:06:34.610 still ones that are rated a little higher. 00:06:35.130 --> 00:06:40.280 But I'll tell you, you sauced a heck out of that one and it's got a good flavor. 00:06:41.250 --> 00:06:41.980 It's got some heat. 00:06:42.410 --> 00:06:42.700 Tiffany Bader: It does. 00:06:42.700 --> 00:06:42.940 Yeah. 00:06:44.450 --> 00:06:45.110 Travis Bader: What do you think? 00:06:45.780 --> 00:06:48.390 I'm just going to go out on a limb while we're in our early stages here. 00:06:48.450 --> 00:06:48.700 Yeah. 00:06:49.229 --> 00:06:53.350 Do we want to go full sauce on each one of these wings as we go through and just 00:06:53.369 --> 00:06:55.289 add a little extra sauce from each one? 00:06:55.479 --> 00:06:57.980 Tiffany Bader: I think, I think you're being over, I've watched the show. 00:06:57.980 --> 00:07:01.170 I've watched almost every episode of the show, the online hot one show. 00:07:01.680 --> 00:07:02.250 I think. 00:07:02.974 --> 00:07:04.354 You're asking for trouble. 00:07:04.354 --> 00:07:09.094 You're being the Eddie Huang going to wing number 10 and eating them in reverse. 00:07:09.104 --> 00:07:11.444 And then being like, Oh my God, throwing up and can't do it. 00:07:12.104 --> 00:07:15.504 I think it's a bad idea because I say that because I have sauced, I've 00:07:15.525 --> 00:07:17.015 sauced the hell out of these wings. 00:07:17.384 --> 00:07:17.434 Travis Bader: Okay. 00:07:18.114 --> 00:07:19.705 I like the, uh, the Mayor Rudolph. 00:07:19.724 --> 00:07:22.765 Someone sent that one over to us Saturday Night Live. 00:07:22.885 --> 00:07:24.495 If anyone hasn't seen that one, watch it. 00:07:24.495 --> 00:07:25.265 It's hilarious. 00:07:25.315 --> 00:07:30.145 She does a, uh, a skit on a whole hot one saying, okay, well, 00:07:30.184 --> 00:07:31.115 let's get into wing number two. 00:07:31.125 --> 00:07:31.164 Okay. 00:07:33.815 --> 00:07:34.705 Tiffany Bader: I'm going to ask you a question. 00:07:36.015 --> 00:07:36.375 Travis Bader: Okay. 00:07:36.435 --> 00:07:41.805 Now, I got the flats because I find them easier to eat with a mustache and 00:07:41.805 --> 00:07:43.295 I'll get it everywhere with the beard. 00:07:45.865 --> 00:07:54.055 Wing number two is Shakonda's 6, 200 Scoville. 00:07:54.734 --> 00:07:55.645 So that's quite the step 00:07:55.645 --> 00:07:55.945 Tiffany Bader: up. 00:07:56.125 --> 00:07:56.355 Yeah. 00:07:56.375 --> 00:07:57.704 It looks like it's got dill in it too. 00:07:58.234 --> 00:07:58.765 Tastes okay. 00:07:58.865 --> 00:07:59.125 Yeah. 00:07:59.975 --> 00:08:00.335 Okay. 00:08:00.405 --> 00:08:00.875 Question. 00:08:01.124 --> 00:08:02.695 You, you want to answer it first? 00:08:03.725 --> 00:08:03.755 Travis Bader: Okay. 00:08:03.755 --> 00:08:04.865 I'm going to eat the wing 00:08:04.865 --> 00:08:05.145 Tiffany Bader: first. 00:08:05.145 --> 00:08:05.524 Go ahead. 00:08:05.525 --> 00:08:05.805 Okay. 00:08:06.075 --> 00:08:09.825 Are there specific books that have, have had a profound impact on your 00:08:09.825 --> 00:08:11.124 perspective or outlook on life? 00:08:11.835 --> 00:08:12.325 Travis Bader: Mm hmm. 00:08:14.910 --> 00:08:15.260 Good. 00:08:15.320 --> 00:08:15.960 Eat your wing. 00:08:21.610 --> 00:08:22.040 Okay. 00:08:23.530 --> 00:08:24.420 Tiffany Bader: Tastes like clam chowder. 00:08:25.550 --> 00:08:26.640 Travis Bader: You tasted dill in there, eh? 00:08:26.990 --> 00:08:27.090 Yeah. 00:08:28.950 --> 00:08:30.420 I feel like the first one was hotter. 00:08:33.420 --> 00:08:35.550 Well, I've got a theory on this as well. 00:08:36.259 --> 00:08:36.609 I did 00:08:36.610 --> 00:08:37.820 Tiffany Bader: pour a lot on that 00:08:37.820 --> 00:08:38.189 Travis Bader: first one. 00:08:38.339 --> 00:08:38.659 Okay. 00:08:39.760 --> 00:08:40.900 I've got a theory on this. 00:08:42.250 --> 00:08:46.630 My theory is, and we're at the Silvercore Christmas party last 00:08:46.630 --> 00:08:50.460 night over at, uh, Franco's restaurant Taverna Gorgona in Ladner. 00:08:50.470 --> 00:08:51.239 Love that place. 00:08:51.250 --> 00:08:52.000 Great restaurant. 00:08:52.670 --> 00:08:56.220 I love the fact that I can walk home from there because it's right by our 00:08:56.220 --> 00:09:00.919 office and sorry, everybody else, but, uh, makes for a fun time, but. 00:09:01.290 --> 00:09:03.980 We were talking about the fact that we're going to record this today. 00:09:04.090 --> 00:09:09.490 And, uh, Ray was saying that he had one of these sauces and he just 00:09:09.490 --> 00:09:12.540 touched it to his tongue on a toothpick and he was absolutely on fire. 00:09:12.900 --> 00:09:15.579 So I'm wondering, here's a theory. 00:09:16.560 --> 00:09:17.619 We'll see if we can test it out. 00:09:18.009 --> 00:09:21.810 If you put a whole bunch of that hot sauce on, will it numb you out? 00:09:22.205 --> 00:09:24.545 Well, I make it so you can just reach a level and it 00:09:24.545 --> 00:09:25.845 doesn't, it's no longer spicy. 00:09:27.055 --> 00:09:32.525 I do know I specifically scheduled my tomorrow in such a way that I'd have no 00:09:32.525 --> 00:09:35.575 hard and fast commitments that I have to work through just in case there's 00:09:35.575 --> 00:09:36.765 going to be a bit of revenge here. 00:09:37.325 --> 00:09:38.254 Tiffany Bader: I'm taking tomorrow off. 00:09:38.765 --> 00:09:39.605 Now, did you ask a question? 00:09:39.615 --> 00:09:40.055 I did. 00:09:40.085 --> 00:09:45.045 And, and, uh, I will pick it out on, yeah. 00:09:45.275 --> 00:09:47.615 Are there specific books that have had a profound impact on your 00:09:47.615 --> 00:09:49.035 perspective or outlook on life? 00:09:49.314 --> 00:09:49.514 So 00:09:49.515 --> 00:09:51.865 Travis Bader: people who regularly listen to the podcast would 00:09:51.865 --> 00:09:55.854 probably pick up on the fact, uh, you often quote Viktor Frankl. 00:09:56.135 --> 00:09:57.855 He wrote a book called Man's Search for Meaning. 00:09:59.300 --> 00:10:01.570 I'd say that one was a powerful book. 00:10:02.110 --> 00:10:06.550 I think anybody who's, uh, going through difficult times or looking 00:10:06.550 --> 00:10:08.750 for some meaning, it's worth a read. 00:10:08.820 --> 00:10:11.970 It's not going to give you all the answers, but he is the 00:10:11.980 --> 00:10:14.400 father of modern logo therapy. 00:10:14.839 --> 00:10:19.520 He approached concentration camps that he was in from a analytical perspective 00:10:19.930 --> 00:10:25.224 and looked at finding meaning in life, even in the worst possible. 00:10:25.524 --> 00:10:29.905 Circumstances so man searched for meaning Viktor Frankl that 00:10:29.905 --> 00:10:33.635 book I'd say helped a lot You 00:10:35.035 --> 00:10:36.785 Tiffany Bader: so I I mean, you know me. 00:10:36.785 --> 00:10:44.425 I I will read first and foremost I read cookbooks like I will read cookbook after 00:10:44.425 --> 00:10:51.075 cookbook I read novels And those tend to stick with me a little bit better. 00:10:51.115 --> 00:10:53.895 I mean, obviously, there's not a lot of cookbooks that have really, 00:10:53.965 --> 00:10:55.745 like, formed me as a human being. 00:10:56.125 --> 00:10:59.425 Uh, I, I read the odd self help book, but they never stick. 00:10:59.645 --> 00:11:02.094 I, I find them interesting as I read them, but they just, in 00:11:02.095 --> 00:11:03.675 one ear and out the other, but. 00:11:04.645 --> 00:11:08.584 Honestly, like, as a little kid reading, uh, Little House on the 00:11:08.584 --> 00:11:13.385 Prairie, um, man, it was like, I thought it was the coolest thing. 00:11:13.644 --> 00:11:15.685 I, like, I just, I love those books. 00:11:16.194 --> 00:11:17.174 And What did you like about them? 00:11:19.814 --> 00:11:21.054 I like that people worked. 00:11:21.724 --> 00:11:28.740 I like that they Like it just seemed simple, everybody, like it wasn't about 00:11:28.750 --> 00:11:31.669 fights and if there were, there were challenges in their life, like a bear 00:11:31.669 --> 00:11:36.459 came into their homestead and they had issues and they had to all work really 00:11:36.459 --> 00:11:39.689 hard together, but everyone sort of like cooperated and worked together. 00:11:39.689 --> 00:11:45.380 And it just seemed like, I don't know, it seemed like a cool, hard life. 00:11:45.410 --> 00:11:48.570 Travis Bader: So was it that book that had them going out and 00:11:48.570 --> 00:11:50.330 pouring maple syrup in the snow? 00:11:50.360 --> 00:11:50.600 Yep. 00:11:50.660 --> 00:11:51.060 Okay. 00:11:51.100 --> 00:11:51.820 So I'm glad you. 00:11:52.090 --> 00:11:54.939 I'm glad you read that book because that's definitely a fun tradition, 00:11:55.530 --> 00:11:57.910 just boiling down some maple syrup and pouring it in the snow. 00:11:57.910 --> 00:11:59.420 That's kind of a fun thing to do with the kids. 00:11:59.610 --> 00:11:59.900 Tiffany Bader: Yeah. 00:11:59.960 --> 00:12:00.470 I loved it. 00:12:00.550 --> 00:12:02.780 I mean, I just, I don't know. 00:12:02.820 --> 00:12:04.760 I, and then I went to my grandparents house. 00:12:04.789 --> 00:12:07.499 My grandparents house was so much like that, that book. 00:12:07.510 --> 00:12:11.699 Like they lived on a farm and we'd go pick mushrooms and we'd go pick berries and go 00:12:11.699 --> 00:12:13.290 fishing in the stream behind their house. 00:12:13.300 --> 00:12:15.879 And it just felt like, it just. 00:12:16.234 --> 00:12:19.925 I had grown up in the city and it, it opened up my eyes to like, okay, I know 00:12:19.925 --> 00:12:23.395 this was supposed to be a long time ago and this is how people used to live 00:12:23.395 --> 00:12:27.915 and homesteaders and all this stuff, but like, I could take snippets of it. 00:12:28.055 --> 00:12:31.915 And I found as I got older and got to know myself a little bit better, 00:12:32.345 --> 00:12:35.805 those little snippets of like going for hikes and foraging and doing 00:12:35.805 --> 00:12:39.115 all these things was like, it's, I don't need to be the city person. 00:12:39.115 --> 00:12:41.885 I can like, I can enjoy this stuff, even though it might be kind of old fashioned. 00:12:42.374 --> 00:12:42.935 So, yeah, 00:12:43.124 --> 00:12:43.555 Travis Bader: I love it. 00:12:44.435 --> 00:12:44.855 Okay. 00:12:44.865 --> 00:12:46.675 Well, let's get onto the next wing. 00:12:46.675 --> 00:12:47.265 What is that? 00:12:47.495 --> 00:12:48.295 Number three? 00:12:48.375 --> 00:12:48.725 Yeah. 00:12:49.514 --> 00:12:54.055 1500, 1500 Skogul for jumping from 6, 200 to 1500. 00:12:55.444 --> 00:12:55.974 All right. 00:12:59.485 --> 00:13:00.535 That one wasn't that hot, eh? 00:13:00.694 --> 00:13:01.125 The last one. 00:13:01.125 --> 00:13:01.485 Did you find 00:13:01.485 --> 00:13:01.694 Tiffany Bader: that? 00:13:01.745 --> 00:13:04.405 No, like it just tasted like clam chowder. 00:13:05.295 --> 00:13:06.834 I mean, it was like spicy clam chowder. 00:13:06.835 --> 00:13:08.205 All I could get was dill out of that one. 00:13:08.724 --> 00:13:09.015 Okay. 00:13:09.104 --> 00:13:09.505 They're so 00:13:09.505 --> 00:13:09.834 Travis Bader: cold. 00:13:09.834 --> 00:13:10.995 It's hard getting the bone off. 00:13:11.515 --> 00:13:12.295 I'll just eat the bone. 00:13:14.905 --> 00:13:17.844 Tiffany Bader: Uh, what is the most significant lesson you've learned from 00:13:18.104 --> 00:13:19.864 a failure or mistake in your life? 00:13:24.205 --> 00:13:26.375 Travis Bader: So we're assuming that I make mistakes. 00:13:26.375 --> 00:13:27.625 Tiffany Bader: Yeah, no, I know, but. 00:13:28.335 --> 00:13:29.675 We've been together a long time, so. 00:13:33.235 --> 00:13:34.905 Travis Bader: It is hard getting them off these bones. 00:13:34.915 --> 00:13:34.935 You 00:13:37.385 --> 00:13:38.074 Tiffany Bader: want a drum? 00:13:38.655 --> 00:13:38.944 Hmm? 00:13:39.785 --> 00:13:40.685 This one's hotter for sure. 00:13:41.545 --> 00:13:42.025 Travis Bader: Mm hmm. 00:13:44.675 --> 00:13:46.935 I saw you put lip balm on before we recorded. 00:13:47.585 --> 00:13:47.845 Yeah. 00:13:47.915 --> 00:13:49.075 That may have been a good idea. 00:13:49.415 --> 00:13:49.735 Yeah. 00:13:50.345 --> 00:13:53.145 I have to remember not to touch my face. 00:13:53.224 --> 00:13:53.564 Mm hmm. 00:13:53.714 --> 00:13:55.104 Not to rub my nose. 00:13:55.615 --> 00:13:56.665 This one's got some heat. 00:13:56.695 --> 00:13:57.075 Mm hmm. 00:13:57.935 --> 00:13:59.635 Um, okay. 00:13:59.734 --> 00:14:00.635 Yeah, feeling that one. 00:14:02.035 --> 00:14:03.415 And that's only number three. 00:14:05.994 --> 00:14:07.175 Are we gonna make it to number seven? 00:14:08.630 --> 00:14:14.670 We have to, we will failure or mistake, most significant lesson. 00:14:15.689 --> 00:14:21.289 It's never too late to stop regroup and find a more desirable 00:14:21.289 --> 00:14:22.569 direction to move towards. 00:14:22.680 --> 00:14:25.499 I'd say that's probably the biggest thing that I've learned 00:14:25.499 --> 00:14:27.990 from past failures or mistakes. 00:14:28.699 --> 00:14:32.959 As well to reframe the failure and mistake as something that's just 00:14:32.969 --> 00:14:34.380 an important part of the process. 00:14:34.589 --> 00:14:39.550 Cause if I'm not failing and if I'm not making mistakes, I'm not pushing myself. 00:14:39.709 --> 00:14:41.790 I'm just doing the same thing day in day out. 00:14:43.889 --> 00:14:46.550 Cause I know it's safe and I'm, I'm not going to fail. 00:14:47.709 --> 00:14:52.960 So I know when I was younger, very, very pigheaded in my approach, 00:14:52.960 --> 00:14:56.829 very, um, stubborn, let's say, and. 00:14:58.240 --> 00:14:59.740 I would say I can figure this out. 00:14:59.850 --> 00:15:00.670 I can work through it. 00:15:00.720 --> 00:15:03.520 I can make it go because I don't want to give up. 00:15:03.870 --> 00:15:04.860 I don't want to fail. 00:15:06.030 --> 00:15:10.880 And I think having that distinction between giving up or running away 00:15:10.880 --> 00:15:16.889 from something and maybe reframing that as running towards or moving 00:15:16.889 --> 00:15:18.579 towards something that's more positive. 00:15:19.740 --> 00:15:23.660 So I think that's probably the biggest lessons that I've learned is to enjoy the 00:15:23.660 --> 00:15:28.349 failures, enjoy the mistakes, make them often do so in a way that you're not. 00:15:29.214 --> 00:15:32.984 Totally taken a step so far that you can't get back up again afterwards. 00:15:34.375 --> 00:15:34.584 Yeah. 00:15:34.615 --> 00:15:35.515 That's probably it. 00:15:35.724 --> 00:15:36.204 How about you? 00:15:37.815 --> 00:15:38.754 Tiffany Bader: I think it's similar. 00:15:38.754 --> 00:15:43.234 I mean, I grew up feeling like, like I had a blessed life. 00:15:43.344 --> 00:15:45.745 I don't know why, because when I look back on it, I'm like, 00:15:45.954 --> 00:15:46.904 there's a lot of crap going on. 00:15:46.915 --> 00:15:51.754 It wasn't really truly blessed living, but like, I always felt lucky. 00:15:51.984 --> 00:15:53.834 Um, and then. 00:15:55.175 --> 00:15:59.324 You know, you make mistakes, you do things, but I always felt like I didn't 00:15:59.324 --> 00:16:03.655 want to grow up, I didn't want to look back on my life and have regrets, and 00:16:04.515 --> 00:16:09.374 having that feeling of like, that's, that's all easy when you're young, 00:16:09.434 --> 00:16:13.054 and you're not making big choices and big decisions, and, and then I got to 00:16:13.055 --> 00:16:16.995 a point in my life where I did, like, I got what I wanted, I got the job I 00:16:16.995 --> 00:16:21.224 wanted, at the place I wanted to work at, and like, I felt like it came too 00:16:21.224 --> 00:16:24.940 easy, and when I got it, I realized I didn't, I didn't want it anymore. 00:16:24.940 --> 00:16:29.540 So I quit and I quit in a way that I quit in a way that I'm not proud of. 00:16:29.700 --> 00:16:36.030 I just kind of walked out and, um, and I look back and, and out of my 00:16:36.040 --> 00:16:39.879 life, that's, sorry, that's one thing that I wish that I did differently. 00:16:40.290 --> 00:16:45.730 And for a while, I, I, I said, I don't regret it, but, and, and I kind of framed 00:16:45.730 --> 00:16:49.460 it like that, but I really, if I'm being honest, I wasn't proud of what I did. 00:16:50.010 --> 00:16:51.870 So yeah, I mean, like. 00:16:52.714 --> 00:16:59.974 Out of that, I learned, you know, I didn't want that job, really. 00:17:00.244 --> 00:17:01.585 Sure, you would have stayed there. 00:17:01.605 --> 00:17:01.845 Yeah. 00:17:01.875 --> 00:17:02.464 I didn't want it. 00:17:02.535 --> 00:17:05.974 I, um, I thought I wanted something. 00:17:05.974 --> 00:17:07.595 I thought I wanted a certain lifestyle. 00:17:07.595 --> 00:17:10.095 I thought I wanted all these things and I got it. 00:17:10.155 --> 00:17:11.374 I realized I didn't, I hated it. 00:17:11.555 --> 00:17:15.644 So to beat myself up over it, like you said, like it's, you 00:17:15.644 --> 00:17:16.505 know, you're not, I wasn't. 00:17:17.650 --> 00:17:19.220 I wasn't running away from something. 00:17:19.970 --> 00:17:22.590 I just was a little too scared to admit it to myself at that time. 00:17:22.590 --> 00:17:25.360 So it took me many years to come to that realization, but. 00:17:26.920 --> 00:17:28.930 Travis Bader: You know what I like about how you're framing your 00:17:28.930 --> 00:17:31.629 childhood, feeling like you lived a blessed life and in hindsight, you 00:17:31.629 --> 00:17:36.549 look back and like, maybe that wasn't the right perspective, but I disagree. 00:17:36.549 --> 00:17:38.360 I think that was absolutely the right perspective. 00:17:38.390 --> 00:17:39.880 And that goes back to that book. 00:17:40.280 --> 00:17:41.310 Man starts for a meaning. 00:17:42.430 --> 00:17:45.080 That's the one thing that you can control, no matter what's going 00:17:45.080 --> 00:17:47.660 on around you is your perspective of what's happening to you. 00:17:47.910 --> 00:17:49.030 I can be mad at it. 00:17:49.120 --> 00:17:50.180 I can accept it. 00:17:50.400 --> 00:17:51.530 I can get over it. 00:17:52.169 --> 00:17:54.260 One thing you can't take from me is the way I choose to 00:17:54.260 --> 00:17:55.369 respond to what you do to me. 00:17:55.709 --> 00:17:59.920 Last of life's great freedoms is one's ability to choose their attitude in any 00:17:59.930 --> 00:18:02.759 given circumstance over and over again. 00:18:02.809 --> 00:18:04.479 You choose your attitude. 00:18:04.989 --> 00:18:05.870 Was it a blessed life? 00:18:05.880 --> 00:18:06.640 Hell yeah, it was. 00:18:07.100 --> 00:18:07.960 And it still will be. 00:18:08.080 --> 00:18:08.350 Yeah. 00:18:08.710 --> 00:18:09.260 Yeah, for sure. 00:18:09.960 --> 00:18:10.480 I love that. 00:18:10.680 --> 00:18:11.139 Okay. 00:18:11.620 --> 00:18:12.210 Uh, my lips are 00:18:12.210 --> 00:18:12.590 Tiffany Bader: tingling. 00:18:12.740 --> 00:18:13.379 Yeah, mine are too. 00:18:13.410 --> 00:18:16.499 I, I mean, I had some ChapStick on when you were talking there, 00:18:16.499 --> 00:18:19.750 so I don't know if everyone else can see that I was reapplying. 00:18:20.209 --> 00:18:21.570 Travis Bader: We'll have to make sure we edit it in. 00:18:21.570 --> 00:18:25.650 So we show each one of these little tactics and tricks that you're using. 00:18:26.024 --> 00:18:26.335 Yep. 00:18:26.395 --> 00:18:32.274 So far, no water's been touched, no eggnog's been touched and we're on to the 00:18:32.274 --> 00:18:32.685 Tiffany Bader: next wing. 00:18:32.735 --> 00:18:34.325 Is this a competition between the two of us? 00:18:34.325 --> 00:18:36.504 Or like just Everything's a competition, Tiff. 00:18:36.544 --> 00:18:36.965 Come on. 00:18:36.974 --> 00:18:38.004 It truly is, isn't it? 00:18:38.504 --> 00:18:38.935 Okay. 00:18:39.905 --> 00:18:40.595 Travis Bader: This is what? 00:18:40.685 --> 00:18:43.105 Um, number four. 00:18:43.754 --> 00:18:44.034 Okay. 00:18:44.034 --> 00:18:48.705 So we're jumping from 1500 Scovilles, sorry, 15, 000 00:18:48.764 --> 00:18:52.094 Scovilles to 36, 000 Scovilles. 00:18:52.875 --> 00:18:53.585 Do we eat first? 00:18:53.605 --> 00:18:53.835 Okay. 00:18:53.835 --> 00:18:54.784 I got some in a cut. 00:18:55.415 --> 00:18:56.705 Oh, that's gonna feel awesome. 00:18:56.745 --> 00:18:59.465 I was working in the shop yesterday and I got a few cuts on the hands 00:18:59.465 --> 00:19:01.034 here and I can, this is spicy. 00:19:01.065 --> 00:19:01.755 I can feel it. 00:19:12.325 --> 00:19:12.935 Tastes good. 00:19:17.165 --> 00:19:19.995 I wish it was easier to get off the bones and I didn't have to eat the bone. 00:19:24.210 --> 00:19:25.639 Tiffany Bader: I might not keep eating all of them. 00:19:30.950 --> 00:19:32.150 Well, there's a lot of sauce on that one. 00:19:32.740 --> 00:19:33.159 Mm hmm. 00:19:33.750 --> 00:19:34.160 Travis Bader: Um. 00:19:34.990 --> 00:19:36.010 But it's got a good flavor. 00:19:36.440 --> 00:19:36.770 I like the 00:19:36.770 --> 00:19:37.210 Tiffany Bader: flavor. 00:19:37.490 --> 00:19:38.009 It's really good. 00:19:38.249 --> 00:19:38.879 That's this one here? 00:19:39.480 --> 00:19:40.309 Travis Bader: Mm hmm. 00:19:43.389 --> 00:19:45.359 Los Calientes Verde. 00:19:45.539 --> 00:19:45.800 I don't 00:19:45.800 --> 00:19:46.470 Tiffany Bader: know what that is. 00:19:47.290 --> 00:19:50.349 It looks like a hairless, like, panther deer. 00:19:50.659 --> 00:19:51.289 Do you have a question? 00:19:51.749 --> 00:19:52.430 Yeah, I do. 00:19:53.020 --> 00:19:54.810 Uh, how do you express yourself creatively? 00:19:56.870 --> 00:19:57.370 What were you gonna say? 00:19:57.645 --> 00:20:03.605 Creatively through my, through my expression of my language. 00:20:03.965 --> 00:20:04.225 How do I 00:20:04.225 --> 00:20:05.455 Travis Bader: assess myself creatively? 00:20:06.215 --> 00:20:12.824 I am, I feel I'm a fairly creative person who lacks talent in any specific area. 00:20:13.114 --> 00:20:14.114 I'm not an artist. 00:20:14.114 --> 00:20:14.844 I can't sing. 00:20:14.844 --> 00:20:16.629 I don't play musical instruments well. 00:20:17.330 --> 00:20:23.380 Um, but I do enjoy photography and learning the creative 00:20:23.380 --> 00:20:24.480 process and art through that. 00:20:24.550 --> 00:20:29.040 I enjoy videography and video editing and audio editing, like doing this podcast. 00:20:29.059 --> 00:20:32.149 I enjoy that, uh, woodworking, metalworking, things 00:20:32.150 --> 00:20:33.250 working with my hands. 00:20:33.380 --> 00:20:34.590 I enjoy to create that way. 00:20:34.590 --> 00:20:38.840 I recently started, um, I've made a couple of knives in the past 00:20:39.010 --> 00:20:44.060 with no real idea what I'm doing, starting the very slow process of 00:20:44.080 --> 00:20:46.049 learning how to properly make knives. 00:20:46.049 --> 00:20:51.050 So maybe in the future, we'll see a few knives coming out that, uh, 00:20:51.590 --> 00:20:54.520 that I've created that will be an expression of my creativity. 00:20:55.860 --> 00:20:56.230 How about you? 00:20:56.249 --> 00:20:56.940 You have like. 00:20:57.220 --> 00:20:57.920 Tiffany Bader: Like I know you. 00:20:58.439 --> 00:21:03.463 You, well, yeah, I mean, I'm, my, my interests are less varied than yours. 00:21:03.463 --> 00:21:05.389 You have. 00:21:05.699 --> 00:21:08.479 Like literally it feels like every month you're like, Oh, 00:21:08.479 --> 00:21:09.800 I'm going to learn this now. 00:21:10.489 --> 00:21:12.399 I'm going to, I'm going to do this new hobby. 00:21:13.120 --> 00:21:15.260 Travis Bader: Life's too short to not try and learn everything, 00:21:15.260 --> 00:21:17.880 or at least try it out and see if it takes and if you like it. 00:21:17.919 --> 00:21:18.329 Yeah. 00:21:18.520 --> 00:21:24.779 Tiffany Bader: I feel like I want to like master stuff and I, I love 00:21:24.779 --> 00:21:28.730 cooking and I feel like I could live a million lifetimes and never get 00:21:28.730 --> 00:21:30.070 to the point where I feel like I'm. 00:21:31.385 --> 00:21:32.155 A master. 00:21:32.975 --> 00:21:37.455 I, I, I mean, I, I look at these, like, Japanese sushi chefs and, and 00:21:37.465 --> 00:21:41.365 how they dedicate their lives to their craft and I just think that's amazing. 00:21:43.045 --> 00:21:43.364 Again. 00:21:44.165 --> 00:21:45.945 Travis Bader: Well, that's a whole Dunning Kruger thing too, right? 00:21:46.105 --> 00:21:48.905 People on the outside would look in and say, Hey, you've, you've 00:21:48.915 --> 00:21:52.145 mastered at least certain levels of cooking and types of cooking. 00:21:52.455 --> 00:21:56.765 You're formally trained, you've worked in bakeries, you've worked in fancy 00:21:56.765 --> 00:21:59.585 restaurants, uh, French trained, a lot of. 00:21:59.585 --> 00:22:00.624 You've quit fancy restaurants. 00:22:00.745 --> 00:22:02.354 You've quit fancy restaurants too. 00:22:04.315 --> 00:22:06.295 But you know, it's always perspective. 00:22:06.480 --> 00:22:06.790 Yeah. 00:22:06.960 --> 00:22:07.730 Are you a master? 00:22:08.230 --> 00:22:08.410 No. 00:22:08.410 --> 00:22:08.810 I don't know. 00:22:08.870 --> 00:22:09.580 No, I'm not. 00:22:09.720 --> 00:22:10.800 Not by my assertion. 00:22:10.800 --> 00:22:12.020 I'm not a master in anything. 00:22:12.030 --> 00:22:14.470 Other people looking at it might say, man, that guy's got to figure it out. 00:22:14.470 --> 00:22:15.830 That gal's got to figure it out. 00:22:17.829 --> 00:22:18.550 Tiffany Bader: Something to work towards. 00:22:19.150 --> 00:22:20.810 But yeah, if I want to be artistic, it's through 00:22:20.810 --> 00:22:21.080 Travis Bader: food. 00:22:21.810 --> 00:22:23.960 But I think there's also a process of celebrating wins. 00:22:23.970 --> 00:22:27.040 Cause if we hold that mindset all the time of like always learning, 00:22:27.169 --> 00:22:32.420 always working forward, no matter what plateaus we reach or what wins we get, 00:22:33.179 --> 00:22:37.239 if we don't stop and celebrate them, which I've, you and I have both been 00:22:37.240 --> 00:22:40.060 bad for, what are we doing this for? 00:22:41.189 --> 00:22:45.360 So that's, uh, not that I'm a New Year's resolution type person, 00:22:45.550 --> 00:22:48.669 but just resolution in general, something that we work on is when we 00:22:48.929 --> 00:22:51.239 have wins, stop and celebrate them. 00:22:51.590 --> 00:22:51.779 Yeah. 00:22:51.889 --> 00:22:52.759 Celebrate the wings. 00:22:52.929 --> 00:22:54.279 Celebrate the wings. 00:22:54.870 --> 00:22:55.090 All right. 00:22:55.090 --> 00:22:56.209 What, what do we got next? 00:22:56.480 --> 00:22:59.559 Tiffany Bader: Uh, uh, Los Calientes, I think, 00:22:59.559 --> 00:22:59.969 Travis Bader: isn't it? 00:23:00.479 --> 00:23:02.799 Uh, no, uh, we're on number five. 00:23:02.809 --> 00:23:04.110 One, two, three, four, five. 00:23:04.110 --> 00:23:04.469 No. 00:23:05.600 --> 00:23:06.130 Oh, I 00:23:06.219 --> 00:23:07.859 Tiffany Bader: counted the Pepto Bismol as a bottle. 00:23:10.560 --> 00:23:12.720 Brooklyn Deli, I think, is ghost pepper. 00:23:13.370 --> 00:23:13.630 Travis Bader: Yeah. 00:23:13.680 --> 00:23:14.330 We're on five. 00:23:14.380 --> 00:23:16.870 So somebody asked, will there be ghost peppers? 00:23:16.870 --> 00:23:18.310 That was on social media. 00:23:18.390 --> 00:23:18.630 Yeah. 00:23:18.720 --> 00:23:20.600 Apparently, this one's got a ghost pepper in it. 00:23:20.760 --> 00:23:21.200 Tiffany Bader: Mm hmm. 00:23:21.300 --> 00:23:22.959 I think there's a few with ghost peppers, actually. 00:23:24.349 --> 00:23:28.540 We didn't get this year's hot ones set, but the new one has like this 00:23:28.550 --> 00:23:32.140 new pepper X or whatever they call it that I don't think that one does. 00:23:32.530 --> 00:23:32.710 This 00:23:32.710 --> 00:23:34.930 Travis Bader: is what, last dab, Apollo hot sauce. 00:23:34.930 --> 00:23:35.310 Okay. 00:23:36.070 --> 00:23:38.690 Pepper X, the merciless peppers of. 00:23:38.750 --> 00:23:39.390 Oh yeah. 00:23:39.390 --> 00:23:41.150 Quetzal, Zacatecinaga. 00:23:41.280 --> 00:23:41.500 Tiffany Bader: Yeah. 00:23:41.500 --> 00:23:42.200 And I drank it. 00:23:42.219 --> 00:23:44.010 I drank a candle before this. 00:23:45.739 --> 00:23:46.569 More please. 00:23:47.220 --> 00:23:47.770 Travis Bader: Yes. 00:23:47.790 --> 00:23:48.100 Hold on. 00:23:48.100 --> 00:23:48.679 Do we eat first? 00:23:48.680 --> 00:23:49.360 We ask first. 00:23:50.015 --> 00:23:50.325 Tiffany Bader: I don't know. 00:23:50.405 --> 00:23:50.665 Let's eat. 00:23:50.665 --> 00:23:51.605 We want to eat first, Kat. 00:24:03.615 --> 00:24:04.985 Everyone sits and watches us eat. 00:24:05.485 --> 00:24:06.045 Travis Bader: I think so. 00:24:06.235 --> 00:24:06.605 Mm hmm. 00:24:09.595 --> 00:24:13.654 Now, if people are listening to this, they're gonna miss out on the fact that 00:24:13.655 --> 00:24:15.325 I already feel my face turning red. 00:24:15.565 --> 00:24:16.055 Mm hmm. 00:24:17.565 --> 00:24:19.264 I can feel it in the back of my throat. 00:24:20.365 --> 00:24:22.915 I'm feeling like, remember on Dumb and Dumber when Lloyd and Harry, 00:24:23.555 --> 00:24:24.594 they're having the hot stuff? 00:24:24.895 --> 00:24:25.805 They're like spraying ketchup. 00:24:26.125 --> 00:24:27.957 It's not hot, just kind of tickles a little bit. 00:24:27.957 --> 00:24:29.325 Right now, I'm feeling the tickle. 00:24:29.425 --> 00:24:29.825 Mm hmm. 00:24:31.715 --> 00:24:35.855 Tiffany Bader: Yeah, speaking of that, um, maybe preemptively, in like half 00:24:35.855 --> 00:24:38.405 an hour when we get to the end, what do you think happens when you die? 00:24:38.855 --> 00:24:39.185 Ha! 00:24:40.075 --> 00:24:40.225 Travis Bader: Okay. 00:24:43.784 --> 00:24:44.655 I've got no clue. 00:24:45.234 --> 00:24:46.315 What happens when you die? 00:24:47.055 --> 00:24:50.205 Um, you know, you could be like Keanu Reeves, I think the people 00:24:50.205 --> 00:24:51.634 who love you the most will miss you. 00:24:52.145 --> 00:24:52.885 Which is true. 00:24:53.785 --> 00:25:00.735 Um, I don't necessarily believe that there's some ethereal mansion that 00:25:00.735 --> 00:25:02.885 we will be ascending to upon death. 00:25:04.065 --> 00:25:06.855 I like to think that that's where we are right now. 00:25:07.414 --> 00:25:10.764 And this is our opportunity to live things in whatever way we want. 00:25:11.794 --> 00:25:16.195 And if we can't enjoy it while we're living now, I don't know, 00:25:16.195 --> 00:25:17.405 maybe we get more chances. 00:25:17.445 --> 00:25:18.815 Maybe there's reincarnation. 00:25:18.905 --> 00:25:23.495 I'm not sure, but I do believe that there is a, uh, a natural order to things. 00:25:24.475 --> 00:25:27.724 And we, as people are connected. 00:25:28.525 --> 00:25:33.485 In more ways than we're disconnected with each other and our environment 00:25:34.135 --> 00:25:38.845 where that's the trees, the animals, your natural surroundings, without 00:25:38.845 --> 00:25:43.864 sounding too hippie here about crystals and energy, I have had conversations 00:25:43.864 --> 00:25:47.335 on the podcast about it, and I think there's a lot of value to that. 00:25:47.394 --> 00:25:51.525 I think there's just a natural energy and there's a natural order of things. 00:25:51.845 --> 00:25:56.435 And when you die, that energy, which is neither created nor destroyed. 00:25:57.199 --> 00:26:01.310 Is just part of everything else. 00:26:01.400 --> 00:26:06.439 So obviously no, this is something that people have 00:26:07.450 --> 00:26:11.430 quandered over, over existence. 00:26:12.140 --> 00:26:16.250 I got no idea, but I do think that there is an energy and that we're a part of it. 00:26:16.330 --> 00:26:20.299 And when we, the dust returns onto the earth as it was, and the soul 00:26:20.299 --> 00:26:25.359 returns into God who gave it or whomever that might be, that that's 00:26:25.359 --> 00:26:28.209 essentially the, um, the culmination. 00:26:29.054 --> 00:26:29.384 How about you? 00:26:30.895 --> 00:26:35.005 Tiffany Bader: Well, I mean, you know me, I'm not, I'm not a religious person. 00:26:35.485 --> 00:26:37.695 I think I'd say I'm spiritual, but not religious. 00:26:37.695 --> 00:26:41.824 But it might be because I've been reading a lot of no dig gardening books, but like 00:26:41.895 --> 00:26:50.255 I'm kind of learning more about soils and at the very base, like I think that You're 00:26:50.255 --> 00:26:54.455 part of a system, you rot, you become part of it, you're like, you're rotting 00:26:54.455 --> 00:27:01.475 corpse is going to feed bacteria and fungi and, and grow new plants and I think 00:27:01.475 --> 00:27:02.845 there's something really cool about that. 00:27:02.954 --> 00:27:06.075 You're just like, we're not going to escape this, you know, 00:27:06.114 --> 00:27:10.235 you're going to die, you're just You're going to become nothing. 00:27:10.235 --> 00:27:12.805 So it makes our time here that much more important. 00:27:13.005 --> 00:27:14.855 Travis Bader: Or become everything. 00:27:14.855 --> 00:27:16.555 It's like a Dalai Lama ordering a pizza. 00:27:16.705 --> 00:27:17.655 Make me one with everything. 00:27:17.755 --> 00:27:18.335 Tiffany Bader: Yeah, there you go. 00:27:18.735 --> 00:27:20.385 So I mean, there's, there's that. 00:27:20.595 --> 00:27:25.394 However, I still like, I kind of want to hedge my bet. 00:27:25.394 --> 00:27:29.645 So when I die, I don't want to be like shot up into space. 00:27:29.645 --> 00:27:31.725 I don't want to be cremated and thrown in the ocean. 00:27:31.725 --> 00:27:35.695 Like I kind of want all of my rotting bits and pieces to still be. 00:27:37.005 --> 00:27:37.495 Okay, so let's 00:27:37.755 --> 00:27:38.875 Travis Bader: get this straight, no cremation? 00:27:39.335 --> 00:27:39.825 Tiffany Bader: No, I want to be 00:27:39.825 --> 00:27:40.325 Travis Bader: cremated. 00:27:40.435 --> 00:27:40.845 Okay. 00:27:40.875 --> 00:27:42.345 Well, how does that go towards? 00:27:42.535 --> 00:27:44.375 Tiffany Bader: Well, I just don't want to be spread over a large 00:27:44.385 --> 00:27:44.925 Travis Bader: area. 00:27:45.665 --> 00:27:46.045 Got it. 00:27:46.155 --> 00:27:52.545 I always figured one way, if there's going to be a wake or funeral for 00:27:52.565 --> 00:27:58.225 me, if I could, I'd like everyone to enjoy me for one last time. 00:27:58.265 --> 00:28:02.635 I lead a healthy lifestyle, make some Trav burgers, I can 00:28:02.635 --> 00:28:04.015 be spread over a large area. 00:28:04.155 --> 00:28:05.185 Without being cremated. 00:28:05.345 --> 00:28:07.095 Tiffany Bader: It's like, it's, it was disgusting. 00:28:07.095 --> 00:28:09.505 The first time you said that, it's disgusting now. 00:28:09.505 --> 00:28:11.425 Travis Bader: It's my dying wish. 00:28:11.425 --> 00:28:11.945 I'm sorry. 00:28:12.055 --> 00:28:14.564 It's not a problem for other people. 00:28:14.585 --> 00:28:16.774 Tiffany Bader: Yeah, no, I'm not eating a Trap burger. 00:28:18.634 --> 00:28:18.964 Travis Bader: All right. 00:28:18.964 --> 00:28:19.895 What's the next one here? 00:28:20.534 --> 00:28:21.795 Six, a torchbearer. 00:28:22.385 --> 00:28:23.815 Mushroom mayhem. 00:28:24.385 --> 00:28:26.325 So the last one was 39, 000. 00:28:26.325 --> 00:28:28.774 This one's 68, 000 Scoville. 00:28:28.775 --> 00:28:29.575 So it's a bit of a step up. 00:28:29.855 --> 00:28:30.665 So I feel it. 00:28:30.665 --> 00:28:34.925 I feel like I got some of the hot sauce on my beard and it's just, it's on my cheeks. 00:28:35.544 --> 00:28:36.495 My lips are tingling. 00:28:36.685 --> 00:28:37.664 The cut on the finger. 00:28:37.785 --> 00:28:38.504 I feel that one. 00:28:38.645 --> 00:28:38.905 Tiffany Bader: Yeah. 00:28:38.905 --> 00:28:42.905 I mean, my fingers are still like, I have notoriously. 00:28:43.110 --> 00:28:46.440 Thin skin, I think, and when I touch peppers, normally I have to wear 00:28:46.440 --> 00:28:50.510 gloves, and when I'm saucing the wings, it's affecting my skin, so. 00:28:51.330 --> 00:28:52.390 Looking forward to this one. 00:28:52.440 --> 00:28:52.560 Hmm. 00:29:10.770 --> 00:29:11.139 Travis Bader: Okay. 00:29:14.610 --> 00:29:15.129 Taste that. 00:29:15.130 --> 00:29:16.590 Feel the heat. 00:29:17.469 --> 00:29:18.380 What's the flavor to you? 00:29:19.610 --> 00:29:20.389 It just tastes hot. 00:29:20.510 --> 00:29:21.579 That's kind of what I'm getting, too. 00:29:21.579 --> 00:29:22.470 I'm not getting the mushroom. 00:29:23.399 --> 00:29:24.169 Mm mm. 00:29:25.249 --> 00:29:26.820 Tiffany Bader: I didn't chew it very well, hoping to just 00:29:26.820 --> 00:29:27.800 kind of get it down quickly. 00:29:28.000 --> 00:29:30.250 And it just, like, dragged the heat down my throat. 00:29:30.250 --> 00:29:31.300 Travis Bader: Is that the trick? 00:29:31.960 --> 00:29:32.700 Just swallow it. 00:29:34.610 --> 00:29:37.159 You'll be seeing coyotes, talking coyotes pretty soon. 00:29:37.330 --> 00:29:37.870 Pretty much. 00:29:38.620 --> 00:29:39.200 What's your question? 00:29:39.930 --> 00:29:40.540 Should I pick one? 00:29:40.629 --> 00:29:40.919 Yeah, sure. 00:29:40.919 --> 00:29:41.570 I'm going to pick one. 00:29:43.250 --> 00:29:44.869 I got crap all over my hands here. 00:29:45.610 --> 00:29:46.310 There's napkins there. 00:29:46.350 --> 00:29:47.520 Oh, this is the perfect one. 00:29:48.590 --> 00:29:50.340 Who's your favorite podcaster right now? 00:29:50.439 --> 00:29:51.459 Well, obviously, 00:29:52.869 --> 00:29:54.179 Tiffany Bader: obviously it's Joe Rogan. 00:29:54.610 --> 00:29:57.370 Um, I may be biased, obviously. 00:29:57.800 --> 00:30:02.610 I have to, I shouldn't say have to, as part of my, as part of my duties 00:30:02.610 --> 00:30:07.610 here at Silvercore, I listen to all the podcasts, help get them, uh, up 00:30:07.610 --> 00:30:09.120 on the website and all this stuff. 00:30:09.159 --> 00:30:13.310 And so I get to, I get to listen and I really do enjoy it. 00:30:13.610 --> 00:30:19.509 It's, uh, it's on one side, it's cool to see you do this thing that 00:30:19.509 --> 00:30:21.289 like brings you so much joy and. 00:30:21.820 --> 00:30:22.840 Happiness in your life. 00:30:22.840 --> 00:30:25.770 So it's different than listening to someone else do a podcast. 00:30:26.360 --> 00:30:31.530 Um, so yes, a hundred percent bias, but it's, I love watching you do this. 00:30:32.280 --> 00:30:33.060 Aside from you. 00:30:33.529 --> 00:30:33.959 Yes. 00:30:34.410 --> 00:30:35.599 Aside from you. 00:30:35.980 --> 00:30:38.479 Um, I like Simon Sinek. 00:30:39.630 --> 00:30:40.549 Super positive. 00:30:40.550 --> 00:30:41.400 I know I can go out. 00:30:41.439 --> 00:30:42.700 I'm not going to hear people. 00:30:43.220 --> 00:30:47.080 Stories about people getting murdered or people fighting or anything like that. 00:30:47.090 --> 00:30:50.890 He's just like, positive people, positive stories. 00:30:51.240 --> 00:30:51.900 Yeah, I like it. 00:30:52.270 --> 00:30:52.440 So 00:30:52.440 --> 00:30:53.000 Travis Bader: I'm a snack. 00:30:53.009 --> 00:30:53.610 His is what? 00:30:53.610 --> 00:30:54.610 A little bit of optimism. 00:30:54.640 --> 00:30:55.000 Mm 00:30:55.009 --> 00:30:55.019 Tiffany Bader: hmm. 00:30:55.140 --> 00:30:56.429 He's got a couple, but yeah. 00:30:56.830 --> 00:30:58.330 The little bit of optimism is what I 00:30:58.339 --> 00:30:58.439 Travis Bader: like. 00:30:58.989 --> 00:30:59.970 So for me. 00:31:00.200 --> 00:31:01.880 I don't typically listen to podcasts. 00:31:01.880 --> 00:31:07.280 And in fact, when I started this podcast, I'd been on one as a guest, and I think 00:31:07.280 --> 00:31:09.800 it's that podcast for a long time. 00:31:09.800 --> 00:31:11.180 It was the number one episode they had. 00:31:11.180 --> 00:31:12.560 It's number two, I think right now. 00:31:13.160 --> 00:31:16.060 Um, and we watched one, right? 00:31:16.060 --> 00:31:16.945 You took up me tickets. 00:31:16.945 --> 00:31:17.215 Oh yeah. 00:31:17.215 --> 00:31:19.240 Meat eater one to the meat eater Live one. 00:31:19.240 --> 00:31:20.710 And that time I'm like, what's meat eater? 00:31:20.770 --> 00:31:21.280 What is this? 00:31:21.280 --> 00:31:21.400 Like? 00:31:21.400 --> 00:31:25.890 I wasn't watching TV and it's not something I, I spent 00:31:25.890 --> 00:31:27.030 a lot of time looking at. 00:31:27.800 --> 00:31:32.060 Not on social media a whole ton, like number one, who is this 00:31:32.060 --> 00:31:33.140 guy that I'm going to go watch? 00:31:33.170 --> 00:31:37.540 And number two, why would I want to go watch some podcasts? 00:31:37.550 --> 00:31:37.720 Right. 00:31:37.720 --> 00:31:38.740 And this is a Christmas present. 00:31:38.740 --> 00:31:42.930 And so I'm sitting here thinking like, how's a nice way to say this? 00:31:42.940 --> 00:31:44.580 Like, this is a terrible Christmas present. 00:31:45.490 --> 00:31:46.300 Yeah, no, pretty much. 00:31:47.260 --> 00:31:49.800 But we went down, we traveled into Seattle. 00:31:50.060 --> 00:31:51.930 We saw him, got to meet with Steve and. 00:31:52.205 --> 00:31:55.935 Jan, Janice, Janice and actually that's where we met April too, 00:31:56.295 --> 00:31:57.195 met April for the first time. 00:31:57.205 --> 00:32:00.325 I had no idea that she was going to be on the stage and talking. 00:32:00.325 --> 00:32:03.375 I just thought she was some cool person in the crowd that 00:32:03.385 --> 00:32:04.925 grew up in Surrey like I did. 00:32:05.745 --> 00:32:06.135 You 00:32:06.135 --> 00:32:07.115 Tiffany Bader: guys will always have Surrey. 00:32:07.495 --> 00:32:08.315 Travis Bader: Always have Surrey. 00:32:09.324 --> 00:32:12.175 Um, so yeah, generally didn't listen to podcasts. 00:32:13.425 --> 00:32:15.785 Work is what a 10 minute walk from house. 00:32:15.825 --> 00:32:18.445 This studio is a 10 minute drive from our house. 00:32:18.740 --> 00:32:21.090 If I'm going to listen, it's going to be when I'm going out hunting, when 00:32:21.090 --> 00:32:22.670 I'm going out on a road trip somewhere. 00:32:23.690 --> 00:32:28.800 But when I do that, um, diary of a CEO, I'll listen to that one. 00:32:29.030 --> 00:32:29.979 Steven Bartlett. 00:32:30.600 --> 00:32:33.249 Uh, I like the fact, you know, he's honest about things. 00:32:33.259 --> 00:32:34.770 He's got interesting people on there. 00:32:35.659 --> 00:32:39.619 Um, yeah, I think he's got some good episodes. 00:32:40.610 --> 00:32:41.510 And, um. 00:32:42.310 --> 00:32:45.350 You know, John Sinai, oh, feeling the heat there. 00:32:45.930 --> 00:32:48.220 I will, uh, I'll listen to his podcast as well. 00:32:48.220 --> 00:32:50.350 The expansive, he's a past podcast guest. 00:32:50.630 --> 00:32:52.990 And I listened to these ones cause both of them are very positive 00:32:53.070 --> 00:32:57.200 and they're always, I love the way that John can look at things that 00:32:57.210 --> 00:32:58.970 could be difficulty, difficult. 00:32:59.860 --> 00:33:03.670 Problematic and just find a positive spin or a different way of looking at it. 00:33:03.700 --> 00:33:05.360 Maybe you haven't thought of, and I enjoy that. 00:33:05.430 --> 00:33:08.139 And that's what I try and do with the Silvercore podcast. 00:33:09.020 --> 00:33:12.080 Ooh, it's hard with the, uh, the wings to hold a conversation, 00:33:12.240 --> 00:33:16.270 but, uh, I try to bring positivity with every single episode we do. 00:33:16.359 --> 00:33:20.770 We've had a lot of opportunity to talk about things that are going to get a lot 00:33:20.770 --> 00:33:24.900 of clicks and get a lot of views, but I haven't been able to square myself with 00:33:24.900 --> 00:33:28.520 finding a way that we can talk about it with some sort of positive resolution. 00:33:29.820 --> 00:33:33.090 And if I'm not bringing in something that's going to be helpful into 00:33:33.090 --> 00:33:36.950 people's lives, it's just more complaining of the same, I, I just 00:33:36.950 --> 00:33:37.810 don't want to be a part of it. 00:33:38.340 --> 00:33:38.660 Tiffany Bader: Yeah. 00:33:38.860 --> 00:33:42.530 I mean, it kind of reminds me of, um, saw some clip with Jordan. 00:33:42.579 --> 00:33:46.469 I think Jordan Peterson was on, he was on Stephen Bartlett's podcast and he 00:33:46.470 --> 00:33:53.190 was talking about, uh, relationships and, um, if, if, you know, your, if 00:33:53.190 --> 00:33:55.450 your wife's complaining about something and she comes there and she's like, 00:33:55.450 --> 00:34:00.489 got all the, her list of grievances, if there's no solution or what do 00:34:00.490 --> 00:34:02.020 you want me to do about it or no. 00:34:02.370 --> 00:34:05.820 You know, way I'd rather see things than what's the point, right? 00:34:05.920 --> 00:34:10.110 So I think with, with the podcast, what's the point in bitching? 00:34:10.270 --> 00:34:12.710 What's the point in having people on airing their grievances unless 00:34:12.950 --> 00:34:16.169 there's some sort of light at the end of the tunnel or, or 00:34:16.240 --> 00:34:17.950 resolution or solution or something. 00:34:18.120 --> 00:34:18.310 That's 00:34:18.310 --> 00:34:19.140 Travis Bader: always been my take. 00:34:19.209 --> 00:34:21.730 It doesn't get the same hits that having something 00:34:21.730 --> 00:34:23.550 inflammatory or provocative with. 00:34:23.730 --> 00:34:24.440 I think sometimes 00:34:24.440 --> 00:34:25.150 Tiffany Bader: people want to bitch. 00:34:25.520 --> 00:34:27.410 It feels good sometimes to bitch too, right? 00:34:27.430 --> 00:34:27.840 Sure. 00:34:28.995 --> 00:34:29.365 Travis Bader: Okay. 00:34:29.405 --> 00:34:33.095 So I'm feeling kind of brave right now, like my mouth is on fire. 00:34:33.255 --> 00:34:34.385 Tiffany Bader: This is where it goes downhill though. 00:34:34.395 --> 00:34:35.735 Everyone's like, ah, it's not so bad. 00:34:35.745 --> 00:34:39.025 And then they, then they get to the last three or four and then they start crying. 00:34:39.865 --> 00:34:41.155 Travis Bader: So this was called angry goat. 00:34:41.164 --> 00:34:44.044 The next one in here, dreams of Calypso make their shack 00:34:44.044 --> 00:34:47.074 face 101, 000 school bills. 00:34:47.805 --> 00:34:48.395 Angry goat. 00:34:48.415 --> 00:34:53.795 I am a simple goat, live on the back of a pickup truck. 00:35:00.485 --> 00:35:02.195 Okay, I can feel that in the cat. 00:35:17.395 --> 00:35:18.875 Tiffany Bader: Glad I bought organic wings. 00:35:19.415 --> 00:35:19.775 Hmm? 00:35:20.584 --> 00:35:22.275 I'm glad I bought organic wings. 00:35:24.835 --> 00:35:25.365 Travis Bader: Mm hmm. 00:35:26.575 --> 00:35:28.725 Usually when it's hot, it comes off the bone. 00:35:29.764 --> 00:35:32.774 If I'm doing this, I'm not gonna do it half arsed. 00:35:32.825 --> 00:35:33.105 Yeah. 00:35:33.685 --> 00:35:34.725 I'm gonna eat the things. 00:35:35.245 --> 00:35:37.235 It's not coming off the bone, so I'll just eat the bone. 00:35:37.475 --> 00:35:37.705 It's, 00:35:37.735 --> 00:35:38.375 Tiffany Bader: that's toasty. 00:35:38.775 --> 00:35:39.225 Mm hmm. 00:35:39.655 --> 00:35:40.385 Travis Bader: Oh, that's a good question. 00:35:40.385 --> 00:35:41.145 What flavor are you getting? 00:35:44.125 --> 00:35:44.535 Okay. 00:35:45.725 --> 00:35:46.835 I'm going to see how this hits. 00:35:46.845 --> 00:35:47.145 Yep. 00:35:47.655 --> 00:35:49.015 And then I'm going to make a proposal to you. 00:35:49.135 --> 00:35:49.535 Oh my God. 00:35:50.375 --> 00:35:55.595 The bomb from the internet research, even though it's a couple down from the 00:35:55.595 --> 00:35:58.094 end, it's supposed to be the hottest. 00:35:58.265 --> 00:35:58.435 Yep. 00:36:00.005 --> 00:36:02.145 Let's extra sauce the last three. 00:36:03.455 --> 00:36:03.965 You up for that? 00:36:04.435 --> 00:36:04.875 Tiffany Bader: Yeah, sure. 00:36:06.575 --> 00:36:07.285 It's all going to 00:36:07.285 --> 00:36:07.785 Travis Bader: go downhill. 00:36:07.785 --> 00:36:09.465 We'll see. 00:36:09.585 --> 00:36:10.015 We'll see. 00:36:10.645 --> 00:36:11.805 Tiffany Bader: I do have to work this weekend. 00:36:11.805 --> 00:36:12.864 So, yeah. 00:36:13.555 --> 00:36:16.005 Um, okay. 00:36:18.825 --> 00:36:19.054 Yeah. 00:36:19.054 --> 00:36:21.305 There's no, I'm not getting any flavor except hot from that wing. 00:36:21.915 --> 00:36:23.524 I like it when you can actually taste something. 00:36:23.534 --> 00:36:24.505 Travis Bader: The side of my mouth. 00:36:24.780 --> 00:36:25.040 Yeah. 00:36:25.070 --> 00:36:27.270 On my cheek, just probably because I wiped it. 00:36:27.270 --> 00:36:28.410 It's just fire. 00:36:28.590 --> 00:36:28.880 Yeah. 00:36:28.890 --> 00:36:29.300 All up the side. 00:36:29.340 --> 00:36:29.440 Do you want a 00:36:29.440 --> 00:36:29.970 Tiffany Bader: chapstick? 00:36:30.260 --> 00:36:30.740 No. 00:36:30.890 --> 00:36:31.100 Okay. 00:36:31.980 --> 00:36:35.459 If you were going to live on a desert island, but it could take only one 00:36:35.460 --> 00:36:36.490 thing with you, what would it be? 00:36:38.279 --> 00:36:38.970 Travis Bader: That's an easy one. 00:36:39.100 --> 00:36:39.350 Yep. 00:36:40.190 --> 00:36:41.460 That one thing would be a person. 00:36:43.090 --> 00:36:44.650 Who would that person be? 00:36:44.670 --> 00:36:45.739 Better 00:36:45.740 --> 00:36:47.020 Tiffany Bader: be me or the kids. 00:36:47.570 --> 00:36:48.480 Travis Bader: Thousand percent. 00:36:48.570 --> 00:36:52.030 If I could only one thing, I'd bring you, I'd bring you. 00:36:52.350 --> 00:36:52.800 Why? 00:36:52.840 --> 00:36:55.570 Because time and time again, it's proven that there's a lot of things that I'm 00:36:55.570 --> 00:36:58.899 really good at, but the areas where I'm deficient, you're a perfect teammate. 00:36:58.980 --> 00:36:59.540 Got you. 00:36:59.629 --> 00:37:01.919 And likewise, areas where you're deficient. 00:37:02.165 --> 00:37:03.145 Hey, I excel. 00:37:03.235 --> 00:37:04.765 Tiffany Bader: Did you just answer my question for me? 00:37:04.805 --> 00:37:05.395 Yeah, I did basically. 00:37:05.745 --> 00:37:06.515 So I have to choose. 00:37:09.515 --> 00:37:09.755 Yeah. 00:37:10.025 --> 00:37:10.815 I thought it was a given. 00:37:10.815 --> 00:37:11.195 Come on. 00:37:11.215 --> 00:37:14.785 You're the tall one that can reach stuff on the top shelf, can get smack the 00:37:15.225 --> 00:37:17.185 coconuts out of the, uh, out of the tree. 00:37:19.015 --> 00:37:19.355 Yeah. 00:37:19.425 --> 00:37:24.395 No, you're a, I, I, I think that's, I, I like that answer. 00:37:24.965 --> 00:37:30.235 Um, yeah, no, I mean, like even when we go hunting and stuff, we've, we've kind 00:37:30.235 --> 00:37:33.595 of like fallen into our roles a bit and. 00:37:34.250 --> 00:37:37.470 But we will put you push each other in and out like when I when you 00:37:37.470 --> 00:37:41.570 first heard take me out hunting I definitely was like kind of along for 00:37:41.570 --> 00:37:45.900 the ride there to help support I do the spotting and things like that. 00:37:45.900 --> 00:37:51.575 But in that role of spotting it was It was a perfect way to learn how to hunt 00:37:51.585 --> 00:37:55.865 because then I, I, all the pressure was on me so I could, I could like 00:37:56.725 --> 00:38:03.494 look down, I could look at, practice, uh, identifying between the different 00:38:03.505 --> 00:38:05.165 deer, identifying all these things. 00:38:05.645 --> 00:38:06.005 The different 00:38:06.005 --> 00:38:09.574 Travis Bader: vegetation that they might be eating and I remember, um. 00:38:10.130 --> 00:38:11.710 You know, like, oh, there's spruce tips. 00:38:11.810 --> 00:38:15.060 When, when the spruce tips stop, our elevation is going to be too high. 00:38:15.060 --> 00:38:17.320 I'm like, that's a good indicator for elevation. 00:38:17.320 --> 00:38:19.140 If we're looking for things, the critters are going to be down 00:38:19.140 --> 00:38:20.370 where there's new vegetation. 00:38:20.820 --> 00:38:23.809 Spruce tips are a good indicator of fresh growth. 00:38:24.149 --> 00:38:26.080 Like these are things that I never looked at before. 00:38:26.559 --> 00:38:29.680 I think there's a, uh, the perfect sort of complimentary thing there. 00:38:30.430 --> 00:38:32.670 But, you know, those questions, what's the one thing you'd bring? 00:38:32.780 --> 00:38:32.990 I don't know. 00:38:33.060 --> 00:38:34.050 You're in a desert Island. 00:38:34.110 --> 00:38:35.530 Do you want to leave the Island? 00:38:35.750 --> 00:38:37.960 I mean, maybe it's a great desert Island. 00:38:37.960 --> 00:38:39.989 You want to spend the rest of your life there on, right? 00:38:39.990 --> 00:38:41.479 Yeah. 00:38:41.479 --> 00:38:44.535 Um, That might change a physical object. 00:38:44.605 --> 00:38:49.005 If I want to leave, well, maybe just an in reach or a satin, that way I 00:38:49.005 --> 00:38:52.254 can just put a, uh, put something out and bide my time till something comes. 00:38:52.255 --> 00:38:54.935 Having those communications would be, would be vital. 00:38:55.405 --> 00:39:00.274 So if I'm going to go and have it as nebulous as that, you, a thousand percent. 00:39:00.945 --> 00:39:01.165 Tiffany Bader: Yeah. 00:39:01.195 --> 00:39:03.975 I like, I'm not the greatest at building fire. 00:39:04.160 --> 00:39:07.840 And I think, I don't, I don't blame you for that, but I will 00:39:07.840 --> 00:39:11.920 say your strength in that skill allows me to focus on other things. 00:39:11.930 --> 00:39:16.500 So, like, I, I just, I, I don't want to, I don't want to build it up too 00:39:16.500 --> 00:39:21.870 high, but like, dear God, like, you have bags and bags of birch bark. 00:39:22.360 --> 00:39:26.690 Because, you're like, we'll be driving on the highway and you pull over, oh, 00:39:26.690 --> 00:39:30.180 I gotta get some birch bark, and you're scaling trees and grabbing it off some 00:39:30.180 --> 00:39:35.085 dead snags and stuff, and, yeah, I think, We just kind of like, we have 00:39:35.085 --> 00:39:41.675 like this comfort of knowing, knowing what we're good at, but I think as well, 00:39:41.675 --> 00:39:43.534 like, you're, you're good at pushing me. 00:39:44.445 --> 00:39:46.855 Uh, you're really, like, you're, you're good at pushing yourself, but 00:39:46.855 --> 00:39:49.455 you're good at pushing me to be like, okay, no, I want you to do this now. 00:39:51.715 --> 00:39:53.984 Travis Bader: You know, it's funny you talk about falling into roles. 00:39:54.075 --> 00:39:59.504 I think that's something that, for a long time, society, in 00:39:59.504 --> 00:40:00.904 general, was shying away from. 00:40:01.645 --> 00:40:02.905 Oh, you can't define me. 00:40:02.995 --> 00:40:04.895 I don't, I shouldn't be in this role. 00:40:05.075 --> 00:40:07.445 A man's place is here, a woman's place is here. 00:40:08.435 --> 00:40:12.315 And I think people are starting to realize that it's not that one's 00:40:12.315 --> 00:40:14.695 better than the other, or one position is better than the other. 00:40:15.375 --> 00:40:20.744 It's the fact that naturally certain people will gravitate towards 00:40:20.744 --> 00:40:22.285 certain things that they enjoy to do. 00:40:22.295 --> 00:40:23.794 Why should we shy away from that? 00:40:23.894 --> 00:40:26.635 Just because everyone else says, well, I shouldn't be cooking. 00:40:26.635 --> 00:40:27.955 You're a fantastic chef. 00:40:28.485 --> 00:40:33.585 And I love to cook, but I know if I want to have the absolute best meal, having you 00:40:33.585 --> 00:40:36.435 in the kitchen is going to be a hell of a lot better than having me in the kitchen. 00:40:37.065 --> 00:40:37.455 Tiffany Bader: Wow. 00:40:37.965 --> 00:40:39.215 I don't know. 00:40:39.215 --> 00:40:42.710 I think I may have Um, I may be holding you back as well 00:40:42.710 --> 00:40:44.699 from developing your, your. 00:40:44.780 --> 00:40:44.990 I'm 00:40:44.990 --> 00:40:46.930 Travis Bader: secretly, secretly developing on the side. 00:40:46.940 --> 00:40:47.270 Oh, okay. 00:40:47.270 --> 00:40:47.470 Good. 00:40:47.630 --> 00:40:48.210 Tiffany Bader: Well, that's good. 00:40:48.390 --> 00:40:48.650 Yeah. 00:40:48.780 --> 00:40:49.590 As long as it's secret. 00:40:51.790 --> 00:40:55.720 Travis Bader: Yeah, no, I, I think that the, the idea of, uh, these 00:40:55.790 --> 00:40:59.899 different gender roles, oh, man's out there making fire, a woman's out there 00:40:59.899 --> 00:41:05.190 cooking, well, I enjoy making fires and I practice, you enjoy the cooking and. 00:41:05.880 --> 00:41:08.550 It's not a one person, keep the other person down. 00:41:08.760 --> 00:41:11.230 We're essentially in the military, they'd call force multipliers 00:41:12.210 --> 00:41:13.450 and you're my force multiplier. 00:41:13.630 --> 00:41:13.850 Tiffany Bader: Yeah. 00:41:13.850 --> 00:41:17.209 And you know, it's funny when I was, when I was working in kitchens 00:41:17.209 --> 00:41:22.750 and working long shifts and like, that was, my career was everything. 00:41:22.760 --> 00:41:25.710 Like I, I never thought that I would quit that. 00:41:26.210 --> 00:41:32.090 And then we had kids and I'm like, no, like it's a switch flicked in me. 00:41:32.090 --> 00:41:33.300 I like, nope, there's. 00:41:34.635 --> 00:41:35.725 I don't care about my job anymore. 00:41:35.755 --> 00:41:37.465 I want to, I want to raise these kids. 00:41:37.805 --> 00:41:38.925 I want to have a home. 00:41:38.945 --> 00:41:39.865 I want to do these things. 00:41:39.875 --> 00:41:42.485 And I remember I got so much flack. 00:41:42.745 --> 00:41:46.044 And I remember my sister saying, What the hell is your problem? 00:41:46.054 --> 00:41:48.165 Like, Why did you spend so many years in school? 00:41:48.165 --> 00:41:51.004 Why did you work so hard on your career just to throw it all away? 00:41:51.004 --> 00:41:54.085 And I just thought, I'm not throwing anything away. 00:41:54.094 --> 00:41:59.275 Like, it would, I've made decisions in my life that I'm proud of, it's 00:41:59.295 --> 00:42:04.294 taken me to a place that I'm proud of, why would I go away from it 00:42:04.294 --> 00:42:10.925 because I'm afraid that I'm, you know, working some typical female role? 00:42:11.405 --> 00:42:13.384 Like, why, why should I be ashamed of that? 00:42:13.395 --> 00:42:16.624 And I, I know people talk about it now, but like, people weren't talking about 00:42:16.624 --> 00:42:18.555 it like 15, 20 years ago, they weren't. 00:42:18.565 --> 00:42:24.625 Like, I, I, so much, so much flack from friends and family about it. 00:42:25.925 --> 00:42:27.265 So what do you do all day? 00:42:27.265 --> 00:42:29.025 I'm like, I spend time with my kids. 00:42:29.025 --> 00:42:30.345 Like I do awesome things. 00:42:30.345 --> 00:42:36.385 We go on adventures and I'm supporting my, my husband in his business and he's, 00:42:36.395 --> 00:42:41.114 he's able to like take risks and do things because we're part of a unit and 00:42:41.115 --> 00:42:44.855 a team because he knows that we support each other and I just, I don't know. 00:42:45.325 --> 00:42:45.594 Do you 00:42:45.595 --> 00:42:49.265 Travis Bader: remember after our second child was born? 00:42:50.365 --> 00:42:56.005 And you decided to make that step full time out of the kitchen and you're working 00:42:56.005 --> 00:42:59.345 on the house and going through that period of listening to all the people 00:42:59.365 --> 00:43:00.745 talking to you, like, what are you doing? 00:43:00.745 --> 00:43:01.785 Why are you doing that? 00:43:01.785 --> 00:43:05.414 And you're throwing it all away and out kind of sitting in the back of your head. 00:43:05.414 --> 00:43:09.695 And do you remember what I did to, um, help boost your morale? 00:43:10.545 --> 00:43:11.585 Tiffany Bader: Oh, the mountaineering trip? 00:43:12.455 --> 00:43:13.065 Yeah, I know that. 00:43:14.335 --> 00:43:15.735 I think I blew out the speaker there. 00:43:16.295 --> 00:43:19.895 Uh, Yeah, I was like, I was really struggling because I, I had spent 00:43:19.915 --> 00:43:23.485 my whole life like I'm going to live in a city, I'm going to do this, I'm 00:43:23.485 --> 00:43:26.355 going to have a career, I'm going to like, this is, I'm the breadwinner 00:43:26.355 --> 00:43:29.824 of our, like, we, we figured that you were like the guy that was going to go 00:43:29.825 --> 00:43:36.095 surfing and hang out and have fun and the stay at home dad and like, And, 00:43:37.095 --> 00:43:42.675 yeah, I was like, my whole life kind of flipped and I was, I was struggling. 00:43:42.685 --> 00:43:45.005 Like I really was like, I lost myself for a bit. 00:43:45.035 --> 00:43:47.505 I didn't know what I wanted, or I knew what I wanted, but I 00:43:47.505 --> 00:43:49.925 didn't trust myself to like just kind of push through and do it. 00:43:50.755 --> 00:43:55.344 And yeah, one Christmas, we talk about crappy Christmas presents, um, you 00:43:55.344 --> 00:43:56.774 got me a trip away in the mountains. 00:43:56.775 --> 00:43:59.105 I was like, I don't want to go in the mountains. 00:43:59.105 --> 00:44:00.085 I don't want to do this. 00:44:00.085 --> 00:44:00.525 And like. 00:44:01.570 --> 00:44:05.910 I still remember, I still remember packing up my stuff, getting in my vehicle, and 00:44:05.910 --> 00:44:09.350 driving away while you and the kids were sitting on the front step waving at me, 00:44:09.350 --> 00:44:13.009 and I was like, I don't know if I started crying as I was driving away, or it took 00:44:13.010 --> 00:44:22.725 like, A bit, but I get up to Jasper, I'd driven all day and I hardly slept, I 00:44:23.085 --> 00:44:26.805 slept in my vehicle unfortunately right next to train tracks, I didn't realize 00:44:26.805 --> 00:44:30.745 it when I parked and then got up to the camp and where I was meeting everybody 00:44:30.745 --> 00:44:32.604 and like, I was just freaking out. 00:44:32.635 --> 00:44:34.304 I called you and I'm like, I don't want to do this. 00:44:34.335 --> 00:44:37.924 I don't want to be away for a week and you're like, no, it's good for you. 00:44:37.924 --> 00:44:38.285 You should do it. 00:44:38.355 --> 00:44:38.865 You should do it. 00:44:39.195 --> 00:44:43.655 And I did, and it sucked for like the first 00:44:43.655 --> 00:44:43.925 Travis Bader: day. 00:44:44.455 --> 00:44:45.734 I didn't say you should do it. 00:44:45.735 --> 00:44:46.445 You should do it. 00:44:46.455 --> 00:44:51.754 I think what I said was you can come home if you want, but will 00:44:51.764 --> 00:44:53.985 you look back at this fondly? 00:44:54.165 --> 00:44:56.914 How do you want to remember yourself afterwards? 00:44:57.155 --> 00:44:59.574 I said, I think you will get a lot out of this trip. 00:44:59.605 --> 00:45:01.665 It was a woman's trip up in the mountains. 00:45:01.665 --> 00:45:05.415 You'd never done mountaineering before, and you were going to be going up, 00:45:06.055 --> 00:45:08.725 uh, on glaciers and rock climbing and. 00:45:09.330 --> 00:45:15.060 Crampons and carrying all your kit up into a remote Alpine location and spending 00:45:15.060 --> 00:45:18.420 a week out there with a group of people you've never met before doing some 00:45:18.430 --> 00:45:26.120 extremely difficult, arduous things and arguably, um, in a dangerous environment. 00:45:26.640 --> 00:45:27.190 Tiffany Bader: Oh, I did. 00:45:27.190 --> 00:45:30.740 Like that, that first day, I don't know what I was thinking. 00:45:30.740 --> 00:45:35.360 I like, I carried the ropes and I, so my pack was, it was, I know 00:45:35.360 --> 00:45:40.289 when I left, it was almost 50 pounds with just my stuff and then 00:45:40.289 --> 00:45:41.480 carrying the ropes and everything. 00:45:41.510 --> 00:45:43.690 It was a heavy pack going uphill. 00:45:43.919 --> 00:45:45.440 I didn't break in my boots properly. 00:45:45.440 --> 00:45:48.930 So anyone that takes a core course, I didn't break in my boots. 00:45:48.930 --> 00:45:51.760 So my feet were just like a hot mess all week. 00:45:52.340 --> 00:45:54.029 But after that first day, I'm like. 00:45:54.425 --> 00:45:58.315 Everything was easier and everything was fun and it was cool, like totally 00:45:58.315 --> 00:46:02.155 different experiences and pushing myself and challenging myself, climbed to 00:46:02.155 --> 00:46:06.325 the very top of a mountain and almost fell off the side of the mountain and 00:46:06.325 --> 00:46:08.614 had to do like a, what do you call it? 00:46:08.764 --> 00:46:10.625 Arrest with a pickaxe? 00:46:10.625 --> 00:46:10.934 Self arrest. 00:46:10.934 --> 00:46:11.935 Self arrest with a pickaxe. 00:46:11.935 --> 00:46:17.760 And, and in retrospect, that was actually like, It was probably a 00:46:17.760 --> 00:46:20.510 heck of a lot more sketchy than, than I thought it was at the time. 00:46:20.510 --> 00:46:23.900 I was just like, yeah, like I did that in practice and I got to do 00:46:23.900 --> 00:46:26.240 a self arrest and stop myself from going off the edge of a cliff. 00:46:26.240 --> 00:46:26.390 And, 00:46:27.210 --> 00:46:27.830 Travis Bader: um. 00:46:27.990 --> 00:46:28.800 What were the others like? 00:46:28.860 --> 00:46:32.299 Because usually that's how I gauge is by other people's reactions, like, 00:46:32.600 --> 00:46:33.959 okay, well, maybe that was a little bit 00:46:33.959 --> 00:46:34.459 Tiffany Bader: sketchy. 00:46:34.480 --> 00:46:35.800 So that's how I know it was sketchy. 00:46:35.850 --> 00:46:38.160 It was because the guide was like. 00:46:38.720 --> 00:46:44.550 She looked like she literally destroyed her pants, like, she, she was pretty 00:46:44.550 --> 00:46:48.420 unflappable, but she was scared, and for the rest of that day, she 00:46:48.420 --> 00:46:50.800 was, she was right, right behind me. 00:46:51.480 --> 00:46:55.210 Um, yeah, no, it was, it was awesome. 00:46:55.350 --> 00:46:58.800 It was, it was such a great trip, and it really was the thing that, 00:46:58.800 --> 00:47:01.750 like, flicked that switch off. 00:47:02.150 --> 00:47:06.740 And I was able to just kind of move on and do my 00:47:06.740 --> 00:47:07.030 Travis Bader: thing. 00:47:07.390 --> 00:47:07.660 Yeah. 00:47:07.700 --> 00:47:13.040 And because I knew there was no way that I could push you in my role as a husband, 00:47:13.040 --> 00:47:16.440 without some sort of resentment, right. 00:47:17.210 --> 00:47:21.020 But I can give you this beautiful gift where other people can push and provide 00:47:21.020 --> 00:47:24.600 you with the opportunity to do things that are so outside of your comfort zone. 00:47:25.140 --> 00:47:26.090 And I'm glad you did it. 00:47:27.135 --> 00:47:29.275 I think that was, I think that was the right 00:47:29.275 --> 00:47:29.615 Tiffany Bader: move. 00:47:30.155 --> 00:47:33.445 Yeah, no, I, it was, it was an epic, awesome trip. 00:47:33.515 --> 00:47:34.235 I loved it. 00:47:34.425 --> 00:47:35.305 I loved it so much. 00:47:37.295 --> 00:47:38.585 Travis Bader: Well, should we try another wing here? 00:47:38.625 --> 00:47:38.945 Yeah. 00:47:39.235 --> 00:47:40.794 So we're on Dabam now. 00:47:41.475 --> 00:47:43.224 Dabam evolution hot sauce. 00:47:43.335 --> 00:47:44.964 Hey, is that water you're drinking? 00:47:45.534 --> 00:47:46.044 Okay. 00:47:46.915 --> 00:47:49.525 So do we sauce our own or do we sauce each other's? 00:47:49.525 --> 00:47:50.205 I say we sauce 00:47:50.415 --> 00:47:50.475 Tiffany Bader: each other's. 00:47:50.475 --> 00:47:51.814 No, no, no, no, no, no, no. 00:47:51.815 --> 00:47:53.935 I honestly, I put so much on mine. 00:47:53.945 --> 00:47:55.535 It is really, really caked. 00:47:55.575 --> 00:47:57.105 I'm, Jesus Christ. 00:47:58.665 --> 00:48:01.145 Travis Bader: Just a bit, just a little dab will do you, right? 00:48:01.465 --> 00:48:01.965 There you go. 00:48:03.035 --> 00:48:03.885 Here, I'll sauce it for you. 00:48:04.015 --> 00:48:04.655 Tiffany Bader: No, it's okay. 00:48:06.155 --> 00:48:08.085 Travis Bader: I don't know if the cameras can actually pick it up. 00:48:08.165 --> 00:48:12.575 Uh, let's see, your head's in the way. 00:48:13.445 --> 00:48:14.064 There it is. 00:48:15.855 --> 00:48:16.594 Did you put any on? 00:48:16.715 --> 00:48:17.214 Yes, I did. 00:48:17.615 --> 00:48:18.075 Okay. 00:48:18.414 --> 00:48:19.155 Look, there's a bunch. 00:48:19.864 --> 00:48:21.075 Okay, here we go. 00:48:21.075 --> 00:48:21.785 Do we ask the question 00:48:21.794 --> 00:48:22.214 Tiffany Bader: first? 00:48:22.905 --> 00:48:24.505 Yeah, because I don't know if I'm gonna. 00:48:24.825 --> 00:48:25.885 Okay, let's do 00:48:25.885 --> 00:48:26.045 Travis Bader: it. 00:48:27.955 --> 00:48:28.945 You ask, I'm gonna eat. 00:48:30.605 --> 00:48:33.285 Tiffany Bader: What is the most inspiring or life changing piece 00:48:33.285 --> 00:48:34.695 of advice you've ever received? 00:48:36.735 --> 00:48:37.595 Travis Bader: This is hot as hell. 00:48:44.764 --> 00:48:45.295 Tiffany Bader: Oh my god. 00:48:51.054 --> 00:48:51.845 Travis Bader: What flavor do you feel? 00:48:51.845 --> 00:48:53.252 I just feel heat. 00:48:53.252 --> 00:48:54.644 It's spicy. 00:48:57.114 --> 00:48:57.954 Tiffany Bader: Is this really spicy? 00:48:57.954 --> 00:49:00.604 I'm just trying to get it down before I can't. 00:49:01.215 --> 00:49:01.445 Travis Bader: Okay. 00:49:04.155 --> 00:49:04.825 Oh my god. 00:49:06.785 --> 00:49:07.675 Did you bring the bucket? 00:49:08.115 --> 00:49:08.904 Mm mm. 00:49:09.385 --> 00:49:12.505 Okay, I'm telling you right now, that's got some heat. 00:49:12.645 --> 00:49:13.059 Mm hmm. 00:49:15.300 --> 00:49:21.790 Remember, uh, Jameel's mom, cooking up the, um, African food, spicy stuff 00:49:22.210 --> 00:49:23.850 and the endorphins that it releases. 00:49:23.870 --> 00:49:24.110 Yep. 00:49:25.250 --> 00:49:27.340 I can feel, I can feel that coming. 00:49:29.360 --> 00:49:29.660 Okay. 00:49:29.660 --> 00:49:33.749 So my eyes are watering for those who aren't watching it. 00:49:33.860 --> 00:49:38.049 My face is probably the same color as, I don't know, same 00:49:38.050 --> 00:49:39.400 color as a hot sauce right now. 00:49:39.400 --> 00:49:41.940 I don't remember what the question 00:49:41.940 --> 00:49:42.260 Tiffany Bader: was. 00:49:43.130 --> 00:49:45.680 That's why I didn't, I crushed it, but didn't move it. 00:49:47.060 --> 00:49:49.570 What is the most inspiring or life changing piece of 00:49:49.570 --> 00:49:50.750 advice you've ever received? 00:49:53.940 --> 00:49:56.940 Travis Bader: I've later learned that Theodore Roosevelt said 00:49:56.940 --> 00:49:58.470 something really similar to this. 00:49:59.375 --> 00:50:03.985 I don't know if the individual knew that, but essentially nothing in 00:50:03.985 --> 00:50:05.775 life worthwhile ever comes easy. 00:50:06.505 --> 00:50:11.605 And now my eyes are watering and my, oh, you can feel it all 00:50:11.605 --> 00:50:13.005 the way down into your stomach. 00:50:13.194 --> 00:50:13.214 So 00:50:14.885 --> 00:50:16.254 Tiffany Bader: you should have eaten a candle. 00:50:18.915 --> 00:50:19.884 Travis Bader: I should have eaten a candle. 00:50:21.055 --> 00:50:24.124 It would be that nothing worthwhile in life ever comes easy. 00:50:25.884 --> 00:50:27.054 And when things are getting tough, 00:50:31.304 --> 00:50:32.864 Tiffany Bader: that gulp was like audible. 00:50:33.725 --> 00:50:35.195 Travis Bader: I have the resolve. 00:50:35.500 --> 00:50:38.430 To know this is a beneficial thing. 00:50:38.430 --> 00:50:39.150 This is positive. 00:50:39.330 --> 00:50:39.930 It's tough. 00:50:39.980 --> 00:50:43.840 And I'm going to keep pushing through because there's going to be something 00:50:43.840 --> 00:50:45.400 so worthwhile at the end of this. 00:50:47.020 --> 00:50:48.020 The eggnog helps. 00:50:48.360 --> 00:50:50.100 I am not touching anything to the end. 00:50:52.749 --> 00:50:53.260 Does it help? 00:50:53.260 --> 00:50:53.970 Or is it worse now? 00:50:54.630 --> 00:50:55.160 Tiffany Bader: It's not worse. 00:50:55.170 --> 00:50:56.699 For like five seconds, it goes away. 00:50:57.720 --> 00:50:58.800 Uh, maybe it does make it worse. 00:51:04.340 --> 00:51:04.560 That's 00:51:04.570 --> 00:51:05.000 Travis Bader: spicy. 00:51:05.120 --> 00:51:05.520 Okay. 00:51:07.290 --> 00:51:07.770 There we go. 00:51:07.830 --> 00:51:08.610 That's da bomb. 00:51:08.620 --> 00:51:10.060 If that's supposed to be the hottest. 00:51:11.270 --> 00:51:13.579 Tiffany Bader: I think it just, honestly, I think what it does is it 00:51:13.579 --> 00:51:16.139 just like, it's like scorched earth. 00:51:18.390 --> 00:51:18.420 Travis Bader: Okay. 00:51:18.730 --> 00:51:19.220 I think. 00:51:19.280 --> 00:51:19.540 Okay. 00:51:19.540 --> 00:51:20.410 You answer the question. 00:51:21.210 --> 00:51:22.200 Tiffany Bader: Best piece of advice? 00:51:22.220 --> 00:51:22.240 Yeah. 00:51:22.630 --> 00:51:23.250 Um, 00:51:28.630 --> 00:51:29.180 you know what? 00:51:30.240 --> 00:51:37.390 My, my sister, who has been the, uh, the giver of terrible advice for years, 00:51:38.319 --> 00:51:42.900 actually gave me a really good piece of advice when I was in my early twenties. 00:51:44.519 --> 00:51:47.680 She's like, don't live with regrets. 00:51:48.090 --> 00:51:49.859 You're, I think I was 20 or 21. 00:51:49.860 --> 00:51:52.010 She's like, don't live with regrets. 00:51:52.595 --> 00:51:56.395 You're living probably the best years of your life, which that was, that 00:51:56.395 --> 00:52:02.245 wasn't true, but she's like, just live, she didn't say balls out, but you 00:52:02.245 --> 00:52:04.125 know, basically like live every day. 00:52:04.145 --> 00:52:11.735 Like it's the last, um, and that's kind of stuck with me for like most of my life. 00:52:12.215 --> 00:52:14.575 Um, I don't know. 00:52:14.654 --> 00:52:17.475 I think she was maybe not in the best place in her life and 00:52:17.475 --> 00:52:21.315 she wanted me to like appreciate my early twenties, which I did. 00:52:21.325 --> 00:52:24.455 And it's just kind of, I haven't gotten out of that. 00:52:24.455 --> 00:52:25.729 And I'm like, now I'm in my, yeah. 00:52:26.010 --> 00:52:28.250 In my super, super late thirties. 00:52:29.840 --> 00:52:35.620 And I just like into my forties, but I just, yeah, live every day. 00:52:35.620 --> 00:52:36.450 Like it's your last. 00:52:36.460 --> 00:52:37.049 Cause you never 00:52:37.049 --> 00:52:37.329 Travis Bader: know. 00:52:37.370 --> 00:52:38.850 So it wasn't the advice that I gave you. 00:52:39.640 --> 00:52:42.630 No, I mean, like, do you, do you remember that advice when, uh, 00:52:44.459 --> 00:52:45.789 we're having our first child? 00:52:46.815 --> 00:52:48.055 And there is so much pain. 00:52:48.605 --> 00:52:51.995 And do you remember the advice advice I gave you, which everyone 00:52:51.995 --> 00:52:53.085 says, what the hell Travis? 00:52:53.085 --> 00:52:53.935 Why would you say that? 00:52:53.935 --> 00:52:56.345 But at the time you said it helped. 00:52:56.885 --> 00:52:58.405 Tiffany Bader: Oh, pretend that I'm my 00:52:58.405 --> 00:52:58.835 Travis Bader: grandma. 00:52:59.105 --> 00:53:00.174 It was two things. 00:53:01.215 --> 00:53:05.294 It was, um, how, how would your grandma deal with something like this? 00:53:05.325 --> 00:53:11.155 Because he held her in very high regard and she's done a lot of great things and. 00:53:12.340 --> 00:53:13.520 It's one day of your life. 00:53:13.580 --> 00:53:15.020 How do you want to look back and remember it? 00:53:15.520 --> 00:53:21.250 Tiffany Bader: Yes, that was like very, it is hard to speak 00:53:21.280 --> 00:53:22.540 when you can't feel your tongue. 00:53:22.590 --> 00:53:26.539 I'm just going to say that now, but yeah, honestly telling me 00:53:26.539 --> 00:53:28.440 to live like my grandma, it was. 00:53:29.485 --> 00:53:33.225 It took the birth of our first child, which was, they'll just 00:53:33.225 --> 00:53:35.305 say, not an enjoyable experience. 00:53:36.895 --> 00:53:37.325 Travis Bader: Tell me about 00:53:37.325 --> 00:53:37.435 Tiffany Bader: it. 00:53:37.475 --> 00:53:40.285 Yeah, I was able to use it for our second. 00:53:41.525 --> 00:53:42.935 And it was completely different. 00:53:42.955 --> 00:53:43.784 It was like night and day. 00:53:44.615 --> 00:53:49.294 Um, I do channel my, I do channel my grandmother as much as I can. 00:53:49.305 --> 00:53:53.375 Cause like, like you said, I don't look up to famous people, 00:53:53.615 --> 00:53:55.495 um, cause I don't know them. 00:53:55.555 --> 00:53:57.555 I don't pretend to think that I know them. 00:53:57.675 --> 00:54:01.065 I hold my grandmother in about the highest regard and my grandfather. 00:54:01.515 --> 00:54:04.225 Um, about as highly as you can regard anyone. 00:54:04.995 --> 00:54:07.925 So yeah, there's lots of times where I'm like, what would my grandma think? 00:54:08.235 --> 00:54:09.665 Would I act like this in front of her? 00:54:10.385 --> 00:54:13.085 Um, yeah, that's another one. 00:54:13.475 --> 00:54:15.694 Travis Bader: Well, why don't we, uh, cap up the bomb? 00:54:15.694 --> 00:54:19.244 Cause I think the fumes from it alone are, um, causing my eyes to water. 00:54:19.305 --> 00:54:19.735 It's hot. 00:54:20.855 --> 00:54:23.074 We have two more to go and we. 00:54:23.144 --> 00:54:23.414 You're still 00:54:23.414 --> 00:54:25.385 Tiffany Bader: feeling like you want to keep dabbing all of these? 00:54:26.225 --> 00:54:27.355 Travis Bader: We said it, we do it. 00:54:27.405 --> 00:54:27.795 Yep. 00:54:28.035 --> 00:54:28.615 Okay. 00:54:29.825 --> 00:54:30.365 Whoa. 00:54:30.525 --> 00:54:30.985 Here you go. 00:54:30.985 --> 00:54:35.864 Tiffany Bader: You see the chilies in this one? 00:54:36.695 --> 00:54:37.724 I never noticed that. 00:54:38.624 --> 00:54:39.554 I did shake it up. 00:54:41.315 --> 00:54:43.344 Travis Bader: Move it away from the other ones so you don't cross contaminate. 00:54:45.305 --> 00:54:46.705 You don't want to water down the next one. 00:54:47.915 --> 00:54:49.535 Come on, do a proper pour. 00:54:50.075 --> 00:54:50.835 All right. 00:54:50.845 --> 00:54:51.665 That was a really, 00:54:53.695 --> 00:54:54.605 Tiffany Bader: oh man. 00:54:55.105 --> 00:54:55.455 Travis Bader: Okay. 00:54:55.455 --> 00:54:55.815 What do we have? 00:54:56.275 --> 00:54:57.525 This is second from the end. 00:54:58.455 --> 00:55:01.134 638, 000 Scoville. 00:55:02.745 --> 00:55:04.855 Tiffany Bader: I'm going to try to sniffle away from the microphone. 00:55:05.465 --> 00:55:06.825 I think we asked the question first. 00:55:06.855 --> 00:55:07.115 Okay. 00:55:08.125 --> 00:55:09.364 Are you superstitious? 00:55:10.700 --> 00:55:12.340 Travis Bader: I wouldn't say I'm superstitious. 00:55:12.590 --> 00:55:15.920 I'd say I'm kind of stitious, but not superstitious. 00:55:16.010 --> 00:55:16.750 That joke just 00:55:17.680 --> 00:55:18.310 Tiffany Bader: never 00:55:18.360 --> 00:55:18.960 Travis Bader: gets old. 00:55:18.960 --> 00:55:21.340 Okay, finger burning. 00:55:21.380 --> 00:55:22.170 I'm just going to eat this. 00:55:22.170 --> 00:55:22.760 I'm going to answer, 00:55:22.760 --> 00:55:23.100 Tiffany Bader: okay? 00:55:23.269 --> 00:55:23.660 I just, 00:55:39.169 --> 00:55:40.700 Travis Bader: I Alright, all the meat off? 00:55:41.100 --> 00:55:41.440 Yeah. 00:55:42.000 --> 00:55:42.320 Alright. 00:55:43.390 --> 00:55:44.449 My grandpa would be proud. 00:55:45.570 --> 00:55:46.120 Alright. 00:55:49.810 --> 00:55:52.320 I guess it depends on how you define superstitious. 00:55:52.520 --> 00:55:52.900 Mm hmm. 00:55:53.160 --> 00:55:55.140 And I'm still chewing on this because there's a lot of heat. 00:55:55.430 --> 00:55:55.920 Mm hmm. 00:55:58.210 --> 00:55:59.680 Taco vibes only, huh? 00:56:00.190 --> 00:56:02.030 Tiffany Bader: I think the, the bomb was hotter though. 00:56:02.240 --> 00:56:02.620 Travis Bader: Mm hmm. 00:56:04.410 --> 00:56:05.280 This has a flavor. 00:56:06.030 --> 00:56:08.729 I think the bomb, I think it's my theory from before. 00:56:08.860 --> 00:56:13.945 Where you just wipe out your sensors and everything afterwards is Eh, whatever. 00:56:14.045 --> 00:56:14.405 Yeah. 00:56:14.555 --> 00:56:16.675 It's like I got a third degree burn, don't feel anything now. 00:56:19.965 --> 00:56:20.235 Tiffany Bader: So. 00:56:20.345 --> 00:56:20.895 My nerves 00:56:20.895 --> 00:56:21.225 Travis Bader: are gone. 00:56:22.695 --> 00:56:25.514 It's, I'm sweating more though, whereas I'm not feeling the 00:56:25.514 --> 00:56:26.835 heat in my mouth the same. 00:56:27.025 --> 00:56:28.245 I'm sweating off of this one. 00:56:29.354 --> 00:56:33.885 Um, no, I'm not superstitious, but it depends on how you define it. 00:56:33.895 --> 00:56:37.214 Like there will be times when things will happen and I'll say, I've got 00:56:37.214 --> 00:56:40.018 a gut feeling and I'm not doing it. 00:56:40.018 --> 00:56:45.605 I know, uh, Jamie Flynn from a podcast, he did, he's a base jumper 00:56:45.605 --> 00:56:50.055 and horrific injuries off of a, excuse me, off a jump he did. 00:56:50.055 --> 00:56:51.910 Um, He says, I got the rule of three. 00:56:51.910 --> 00:56:52.910 He says, there's three things. 00:56:52.910 --> 00:56:55.490 My alarm doesn't wake me up on time or somebody cuts me off in 00:56:55.490 --> 00:56:58.050 traffic or I get this weird feeling. 00:56:58.745 --> 00:57:00.645 I counted up, if there's three, I don't jump. 00:57:02.065 --> 00:57:03.045 Is that superstitious? 00:57:03.125 --> 00:57:08.365 Maybe, or maybe it's being in tune to your natural environment, not being 00:57:08.365 --> 00:57:13.605 able to, uh, quantify it, rationalize it and say, I feel this way because, 00:57:15.065 --> 00:57:19.254 because I think we get those feelings much faster than we're able to actually 00:57:19.405 --> 00:57:21.225 qualify why we have those feelings. 00:57:21.565 --> 00:57:23.235 So I've really learned to trust my gut. 00:57:23.475 --> 00:57:28.385 And if my gut says, not feeling it because there's been so many occasions that I've. 00:57:28.875 --> 00:57:33.705 Just not trusted the gut, I found myself in a world of hurt where 00:57:33.735 --> 00:57:38.414 it could have easily been avoided, luckily get out, survive, I'm alive. 00:57:38.415 --> 00:57:39.155 Everything's good. 00:57:40.275 --> 00:57:44.035 But that's been a, uh, the learning process. 00:57:44.035 --> 00:57:45.234 I wouldn't call it superstitious. 00:57:45.245 --> 00:57:46.804 I call it trusting my gut. 00:57:47.565 --> 00:57:47.595 Okay. 00:57:50.470 --> 00:57:55.120 Tiffany Bader: Um, I used to be like to the point where like every night 00:57:55.190 --> 00:57:58.190 before bed, I, I'd like knock on wood. 00:57:58.460 --> 00:58:00.320 And if there wasn't something wood, I'd knock on my head. 00:58:00.800 --> 00:58:01.500 Travis Bader: That's OCD. 00:58:01.530 --> 00:58:02.509 That's not superstitious. 00:58:02.710 --> 00:58:03.030 Okay. 00:58:03.030 --> 00:58:03.160 So 00:58:03.160 --> 00:58:07.730 Tiffany Bader: maybe maybe I'm a little superstitious or maybe I'm 00:58:07.780 --> 00:58:14.440 OCD that, uh, yeah, I, I mean, OCD to like put on one sock. 00:58:15.035 --> 00:58:17.585 Like your left sock before your right sock before a soccer game 00:58:17.585 --> 00:58:18.565 and like eat the same lunch. 00:58:18.565 --> 00:58:19.165 Is that, that's 00:58:19.175 --> 00:58:19.815 Travis Bader: OCD? 00:58:19.815 --> 00:58:20.655 Why don't we ask the audience? 00:58:20.655 --> 00:58:21.495 Is that OCD? 00:58:21.565 --> 00:58:21.945 Yeah. 00:58:22.035 --> 00:58:22.475 Hold on. 00:58:22.525 --> 00:58:23.005 I can hear him. 00:58:23.885 --> 00:58:24.265 I can hear him. 00:58:25.755 --> 00:58:26.344 Yes, Tiffany. 00:58:26.345 --> 00:58:26.665 That's OCD. 00:58:26.745 --> 00:58:27.125 Okay. 00:58:27.314 --> 00:58:29.115 Tiffany Bader: So superstitious. 00:58:29.425 --> 00:58:29.825 No. 00:58:29.885 --> 00:58:33.825 And like with you, oh, my nose is starting to run now. 00:58:34.044 --> 00:58:35.145 Um, yeah. 00:58:36.600 --> 00:58:39.520 Yeah, I just, I, I trust my gut because like you said, like there's, 00:58:40.580 --> 00:58:45.430 like you, you walk past and like, you know, there's signs and there's 00:58:45.430 --> 00:58:46.500 signs and you just ignore them. 00:58:46.519 --> 00:58:49.340 I think we're just, we trust ourselves a little bit better. 00:58:49.890 --> 00:58:51.449 We trust our gut a little bit better. 00:58:52.070 --> 00:58:58.219 I trust you as well, which is good because, dear God, when we were 00:58:58.220 --> 00:59:01.510 first dating and you'd be like, yeah, no, I don't like that guy. 00:59:01.520 --> 00:59:02.540 He's going to cheat on his wife. 00:59:02.740 --> 00:59:04.360 I was like, you're crazy. 00:59:04.380 --> 00:59:08.260 And then, And every single time that happens, you're 00:59:08.260 --> 00:59:09.560 like, oh, this person, this. 00:59:09.950 --> 00:59:12.410 And you're not judgmental, but you're very good at, at. 00:59:13.080 --> 00:59:14.150 It's an ADHD trait. 00:59:14.160 --> 00:59:14.400 Yeah. 00:59:14.400 --> 00:59:15.640 You're good at sizing people up. 00:59:16.510 --> 00:59:21.180 Dinner party go and you would just size people up. 00:59:21.460 --> 00:59:23.499 And it's always true. 00:59:24.480 --> 00:59:27.459 You have, you have a very good radar for people that are going to cheat on their 00:59:27.459 --> 00:59:29.049 spouse because that's happened to me. 00:59:30.369 --> 00:59:31.079 We've seen that a few times. 00:59:31.500 --> 00:59:33.470 It's a sad, sad, you know. 00:59:34.165 --> 00:59:36.375 Sad of skill, but it's when you have. 00:59:36.915 --> 00:59:39.495 Travis Bader: Well, I think it's just about seeing if somebody is going to 00:59:39.495 --> 00:59:45.135 be honest or trustworthy and, you know, you can only get, uh, taken advantage 00:59:45.135 --> 00:59:48.895 of or lied to or whatever so many times before you start seeing patterns 00:59:48.895 --> 00:59:52.405 that reoccur and they say it's an ADHD thing, being able to pick up on these 00:59:52.405 --> 00:59:56.665 little traits, whether it's verbal, non verbal, paraverbal, whatever it 00:59:56.705 --> 00:59:58.195 might be that you're picking up on. 00:59:58.315 --> 00:59:58.585 Yeah. 00:59:58.920 --> 01:00:01.760 I stopped trying to rationalize and suss it out. 01:00:02.060 --> 01:00:05.950 Part of me wonders sometimes if it just becomes a self fulfilling prophecy, 01:00:06.150 --> 01:00:09.240 because if we're living in a matrix and we're creating our own realities 01:00:09.240 --> 01:00:11.810 and I'm like, this is going to happen here and that's going to happen here, 01:00:12.070 --> 01:00:15.270 like scarily so that happens, am I? 01:00:15.840 --> 01:00:18.570 Are we just so in tune with what's going on around us that we can 01:00:18.570 --> 01:00:23.580 make those presuppositions, or are we somehow putting that energy 01:00:23.580 --> 01:00:24.740 out there and making it happen? 01:00:25.110 --> 01:00:27.920 I don't know, but whatever the end result is, it turns out 01:00:28.870 --> 01:00:31.760 basically how, how it's getting called, so I'll just stick with it. 01:00:32.290 --> 01:00:35.510 Tiffany Bader: Yeah, I, I I don't know. 01:00:35.540 --> 01:00:39.630 I think in a couple of cases where you've like called things, you're 01:00:39.630 --> 01:00:44.540 not living a life so connected with these people or situations where 01:00:44.540 --> 01:00:49.380 like you're actively like making it happen, they're pretty disconnected. 01:00:50.970 --> 01:00:51.280 Yeah. 01:00:51.640 --> 01:00:52.010 I don't know. 01:00:52.230 --> 01:00:52.840 I think you're just. 01:00:53.340 --> 01:00:57.120 Travis Bader: Unless we subscribe to the, we are all connected at the cosmic level. 01:00:57.390 --> 01:00:58.790 Tiffany Bader: Well, which I totally agree with. 01:01:00.930 --> 01:01:01.370 Travis Bader: Okay. 01:01:02.000 --> 01:01:03.410 So do we want, do 01:01:03.410 --> 01:01:05.490 Tiffany Bader: we want to do one more question in between the next one? 01:01:05.915 --> 01:01:07.725 Travis Bader: Before, how many questions we got left? 01:01:07.805 --> 01:01:08.065 I don't know. 01:01:08.275 --> 01:01:08.995 Tiffany Bader: Yeah, let's do it. 01:01:09.645 --> 01:01:11.945 Um, just give our, our mouth a little bit of a break. 01:01:11.975 --> 01:01:12.165 Yeah. 01:01:12.165 --> 01:01:12.615 Okay. 01:01:13.815 --> 01:01:15.635 Travis Bader: And for the record, I have had no water. 01:01:16.045 --> 01:01:16.995 I've had no eggnog. 01:01:17.045 --> 01:01:18.575 My belly is on fire. 01:01:20.855 --> 01:01:23.745 Tiffany Bader: Do you want me to tell everyone what I've, I've been putting 01:01:23.745 --> 01:01:25.195 ChapStick on after I've been weighing. 01:01:25.715 --> 01:01:28.575 I drank a bunch of water and I've also had eggnog. 01:01:30.435 --> 01:01:31.835 Travis Bader: A little bit of my water, because I think your water 01:01:31.835 --> 01:01:33.015 is actually empty now, isn't it? 01:01:33.155 --> 01:01:33.835 No, no, no, 01:01:33.845 --> 01:01:35.675 Tiffany Bader: I don't actually want water anymore because 01:01:35.675 --> 01:01:36.537 it's going to make it worse. 01:01:36.537 --> 01:01:38.675 Travis Bader: It does make it worse and I'm just looking 01:01:38.675 --> 01:01:39.575 forward to watching the show. 01:01:39.835 --> 01:01:42.745 Tiffany Bader: Once, once the heat subsides of it, the eggnog 01:01:42.745 --> 01:01:43.655 actually does make it better. 01:01:44.265 --> 01:01:44.955 What's the next question? 01:01:45.285 --> 01:01:47.825 Um, have you ever seen a ghost? 01:01:48.605 --> 01:01:53.245 Um, I ask because I've slept in the basement of your family home 01:01:53.245 --> 01:01:58.175 when I was a teenager and it's definitely got a ghosty vibe to it. 01:01:58.835 --> 01:02:02.765 It's like, if there ever was a house that was haunted, I think, 01:02:03.435 --> 01:02:04.685 I think that one's on the list. 01:02:05.485 --> 01:02:05.675 Have you 01:02:05.675 --> 01:02:06.755 Travis Bader: ever seen a ghost? 01:02:07.075 --> 01:02:10.325 Well, there's a couple of things that happened that I can't explain. 01:02:10.335 --> 01:02:12.345 And I'll, I'll back you a thousand percent on that. 01:02:12.345 --> 01:02:13.235 That house was haunted. 01:02:13.245 --> 01:02:14.295 There is something going on. 01:02:14.305 --> 01:02:21.015 There is some bad energy going enough, enough bad energy that 01:02:21.595 --> 01:02:25.325 people would come in who didn't even know us would say it feels off. 01:02:25.375 --> 01:02:26.545 There's something not right here. 01:02:27.285 --> 01:02:32.615 Uh, man, I was terrified of my downstairs when I was a kid, probably a common thing. 01:02:32.615 --> 01:02:36.225 Cause I've seen these Tik Toks where people are running up the stairs 01:02:36.225 --> 01:02:38.715 and there's someone dressed all in black running up behind them. 01:02:39.795 --> 01:02:43.615 Turning the lights off and, you know, there's times when lights to turn back on. 01:02:44.925 --> 01:02:47.035 It's not a supernatural event. 01:02:47.035 --> 01:02:48.865 It maybe just didn't turn it off properly. 01:02:48.865 --> 01:02:49.885 It got stuck halfway. 01:02:50.615 --> 01:02:51.235 Um. 01:02:52.665 --> 01:02:57.175 I remember as a young child waking up in the middle of the night and at the 01:02:57.175 --> 01:03:01.805 foot of my bed on the left hand side, on the, just right near the end of the 01:03:01.805 --> 01:03:05.765 left hand side, I wake up and I look, I'm like, Oh, what's my mom doing in here? 01:03:05.775 --> 01:03:06.115 Right. 01:03:06.405 --> 01:03:09.265 I started calling out to her, like, well, what are you doing here? 01:03:09.835 --> 01:03:14.135 And this really old haggard woman looks back at me and says, 01:03:14.145 --> 01:03:16.955 back to sleep, go back to sleep. 01:03:17.415 --> 01:03:19.705 And it scared the crap out of me. 01:03:19.725 --> 01:03:21.405 And I hid under my blankets. 01:03:21.405 --> 01:03:22.195 I'm like, just go away. 01:03:22.195 --> 01:03:22.795 Just go away. 01:03:22.795 --> 01:03:23.385 Just go away. 01:03:23.385 --> 01:03:24.065 Just go away. 01:03:25.340 --> 01:03:28.650 And I asked my mom about it in the morning and she says, no, I wasn't in your room. 01:03:29.410 --> 01:03:30.610 So was I dreaming that? 01:03:31.740 --> 01:03:33.130 Probably right. 01:03:33.450 --> 01:03:35.700 It was a hyper realistic dream. 01:03:35.700 --> 01:03:39.200 I've Googled it and they have a thing about the old hag at the end of the 01:03:39.200 --> 01:03:43.210 bed, but it's usually to do with, uh, or old hag kneeling on your chest. 01:03:43.370 --> 01:03:48.210 Funny that it's always an old hag, um, to do with like, uh, sleep 01:03:48.240 --> 01:03:50.330 asphyxiation or something like this. 01:03:50.620 --> 01:03:50.910 Yeah. 01:03:50.910 --> 01:03:52.900 People who stop breathing or sleep paralysis. 01:03:52.900 --> 01:03:53.450 That's what it was. 01:03:53.460 --> 01:03:56.230 Sleep paralysis where you're awake, but you're can't move. 01:03:56.390 --> 01:03:59.280 Well, I could move and I was talking. 01:03:59.680 --> 01:04:00.710 So was that a ghost? 01:04:00.710 --> 01:04:02.050 Was it my imagination? 01:04:02.230 --> 01:04:03.970 Cause I've always had a good imagination. 01:04:05.190 --> 01:04:05.840 I don't know. 01:04:06.580 --> 01:04:11.270 I do remember one other occasion in that same house, I wasn't feeling well, 01:04:11.290 --> 01:04:13.350 didn't want to go to karate practice. 01:04:14.330 --> 01:04:15.560 Dad's at work. 01:04:16.100 --> 01:04:20.280 My mom's, my younger brother, I have a younger brother yet. 01:04:20.290 --> 01:04:21.720 He was, he was seven years younger. 01:04:22.270 --> 01:04:28.810 Um, probably anyways, um, takes my older brother off to karate practice 01:04:28.810 --> 01:04:30.710 as you're not allowed out of your room. 01:04:30.830 --> 01:04:33.250 You stay in your room for whatever reason. 01:04:33.350 --> 01:04:34.340 There's a bucket in there. 01:04:34.400 --> 01:04:36.560 You use that bucket and you don't get out, right? 01:04:37.280 --> 01:04:37.740 Okay. 01:04:38.830 --> 01:04:45.160 So, um, anyways, then I hear, hear her come home, vehicle comes in. 01:04:45.560 --> 01:04:45.940 Okay. 01:04:45.940 --> 01:04:46.750 I'm that's her. 01:04:46.750 --> 01:04:48.590 And then I hear in the kitchen. 01:04:48.590 --> 01:04:50.090 I'm like, man, I really want to come out. 01:04:50.090 --> 01:04:51.060 I gotta go to the washroom. 01:04:51.060 --> 01:04:54.440 And so I'm yelling, I'm like, I'm not, I'm not supposed to come out. 01:04:54.740 --> 01:04:55.190 Promised. 01:04:55.190 --> 01:04:57.370 I wouldn't mom, mom, can I come out? 01:04:57.390 --> 01:04:58.430 Mom, can I come out? 01:04:59.470 --> 01:05:00.260 And. 01:05:00.635 --> 01:05:01.115 Nothing. 01:05:02.065 --> 01:05:07.035 So I walk into the kitchen, I'm going down the hallway and as I'm walking and 01:05:07.035 --> 01:05:11.975 I'm calling it out, I hear someone and I see something just around the corner. 01:05:12.055 --> 01:05:13.885 You know, you should see something move around the corner. 01:05:14.315 --> 01:05:16.205 There's three steps to go down to the playroom. 01:05:16.205 --> 01:05:18.695 And then the flight of steps that goes downstairs and I heard a thump, 01:05:18.805 --> 01:05:21.155 thump, thump, thump, thump, thump, go all the way down the stairs 01:05:21.995 --> 01:05:24.125 and I'm like, what the hell mom. 01:05:24.495 --> 01:05:28.505 And it was just a short flash of a shadow that I, that I saw. 01:05:29.175 --> 01:05:32.325 I walked to the end of the kitchen, looking out through the playroom into 01:05:32.325 --> 01:05:34.355 the driveway and there's no car there. 01:05:35.345 --> 01:05:36.175 What the hell? 01:05:36.435 --> 01:05:39.085 So I come back in the kitchen, I grabbed the biggest knife I can find. 01:05:39.880 --> 01:05:41.480 And I started yelling out, I got a knife. 01:05:41.630 --> 01:05:42.550 I got a knife. 01:05:42.710 --> 01:05:44.950 And I go into my bedroom. 01:05:44.950 --> 01:05:48.620 And at that time I thought, well, probably she'd get out of here. 01:05:48.620 --> 01:05:53.230 So I jumped out my window, uh, brought my skateboard with me and I was, my 01:05:53.240 --> 01:05:56.480 mom came home to me in my pajamas. 01:05:56.700 --> 01:05:59.260 With my skateboard with the largest kitchen knife that we 01:05:59.260 --> 01:06:00.610 had at the end of the driveway. 01:06:00.610 --> 01:06:03.790 Cause my thinking was like, I don't know where to go, but if someone 01:06:03.850 --> 01:06:07.200 comes out of the house, if something comes, I'm going to skate away faster 01:06:07.200 --> 01:06:08.240 than they'll be able to come up. 01:06:08.910 --> 01:06:11.020 And so, yeah, caught some heat for that one. 01:06:11.020 --> 01:06:12.440 What the hell are you doing out here? 01:06:12.440 --> 01:06:15.490 All the neighbors can see in your pajamas with this knife and skateboard. 01:06:16.100 --> 01:06:22.120 Have I seen a ghost, um, or were we subject to a B and E at the time? 01:06:22.120 --> 01:06:22.880 Did I interrupt that? 01:06:22.880 --> 01:06:23.850 Yeah, I've always kind of wondered with that. 01:06:24.060 --> 01:06:24.400 Right. 01:06:24.470 --> 01:06:30.050 Or did I just have an imagination that was so damn vivid? 01:06:30.680 --> 01:06:31.080 I don't know. 01:06:31.590 --> 01:06:31.940 How about you? 01:06:31.990 --> 01:06:32.920 You ever seen a ghost? 01:06:33.860 --> 01:06:37.410 Tiffany Bader: No, there's been multiple situations where people around me have 01:06:37.410 --> 01:06:41.230 like woken up in the middle of the night to give me messages from people. 01:06:41.550 --> 01:06:41.890 Mm. 01:06:42.020 --> 01:06:46.290 Uh, that were either, uh, in trouble or had passed away. 01:06:47.460 --> 01:06:51.810 Um, so I, I believe, like, when I was younger, I used to 01:06:51.810 --> 01:06:54.900 believe that, um, I didn't know. 01:06:55.390 --> 01:07:00.290 And so I would hedge my bets and I would tell the ghosts that I believed 01:07:00.290 --> 01:07:01.650 in them so they wouldn't haunt me. 01:07:02.210 --> 01:07:07.020 But I don't, like, and I would just kind of leave it at that. 01:07:07.180 --> 01:07:10.560 And I feel like that may have worked because now, like, there's 01:07:10.560 --> 01:07:13.920 been situations where potential. 01:07:13.920 --> 01:07:14.170 Mm. 01:07:14.440 --> 01:07:17.830 Ghosts have, have communicated with the people around me. 01:07:18.490 --> 01:07:26.130 Um, maybe I'm just not receptive to, to being visited by different realms. 01:07:26.130 --> 01:07:26.890 I don't know. 01:07:26.940 --> 01:07:27.070 So 01:07:27.260 --> 01:07:28.930 Travis Bader: I think it's like gut feeling thing though, too, right? 01:07:29.010 --> 01:07:32.060 Like, what, is that a ghost or is it that people are just picking up or an 01:07:32.060 --> 01:07:35.030 in tune with things that are happening around them that you just can't quantify? 01:07:35.610 --> 01:07:35.920 Tiffany Bader: Yeah. 01:07:35.950 --> 01:07:39.820 I mean, I, yeah, I think, I think there's so much we don't understand. 01:07:40.700 --> 01:07:46.060 Um, I mean, I think the people around me in my life are a lot more. 01:07:47.175 --> 01:07:49.885 Sensitive and intuitive than I am. 01:07:49.895 --> 01:07:50.215 So 01:07:50.965 --> 01:07:52.145 Travis Bader: you're feeling the endorphins, eh? 01:07:52.265 --> 01:07:52.585 I am. 01:07:52.585 --> 01:07:52.895 Yeah. 01:07:53.135 --> 01:07:53.875 Do you want to try one more? 01:07:53.915 --> 01:07:54.215 Yeah. 01:07:54.395 --> 01:07:54.845 Okay. 01:07:55.335 --> 01:07:58.225 So this is the last stab Apollo. 01:07:58.435 --> 01:07:58.465 Okay. 01:07:58.465 --> 01:08:01.855 Googled it because on the back on this thing in here, it says 01:08:02.635 --> 01:08:06.385 number 10, hot ones, last stab Apollo to be announced Scoville. 01:08:06.835 --> 01:08:10.495 So one thing I found out on Google, it was between like 2 million, 01:08:10.515 --> 01:08:13.284 uh, 22 million, yeah, 22, 2. 01:08:14.065 --> 01:08:17.565 2 million, I think is about what the Scoville's on this guy. 01:08:18.010 --> 01:08:21.590 We're going to dab it up, the last dab. 01:08:22.410 --> 01:08:24.620 We still have three questions. 01:08:25.380 --> 01:08:26.610 Okay, well let's ask another one. 01:08:27.710 --> 01:08:29.970 And, that's not a dab, is it? 01:08:30.450 --> 01:08:33.530 Tiffany Bader: No, Travis, that is like, way more than 01:08:33.530 --> 01:08:34.660 other people put on the show. 01:08:36.140 --> 01:08:37.830 Travis Bader: Okay, well I'm into it now, I guess. 01:08:38.070 --> 01:08:39.190 Go ahead, you want to match? 01:08:42.190 --> 01:08:43.350 Feats of strength. 01:08:46.240 --> 01:08:51.940 Okay, we'll do the question, we'll melt her face off. 01:08:52.010 --> 01:08:54.640 Are you not entertained? 01:08:56.570 --> 01:08:59.879 Tiffany Bader: This better be the highest podcast rank ever. 01:08:59.960 --> 01:09:00.660 I'm just joking. 01:09:01.280 --> 01:09:01.590 Travis Bader: Okay. 01:09:01.690 --> 01:09:02.210 What is it? 01:09:02.360 --> 01:09:02.510 Tiffany Bader: Okay. 01:09:03.430 --> 01:09:05.750 Question is, and I think this one's telling, I, I picked 01:09:05.750 --> 01:09:06.530 through the other ones. 01:09:06.650 --> 01:09:08.660 Uh, what is the most scared you've ever been? 01:09:10.300 --> 01:09:12.280 I can tell you, it's not right now. 01:09:13.310 --> 01:09:14.090 Travis Bader: Most scared? 01:09:14.150 --> 01:09:15.020 I don't get scared. 01:09:15.020 --> 01:09:16.040 What are you talking about? 01:09:16.480 --> 01:09:16.890 Yeah. 01:09:17.330 --> 01:09:22.210 Um, I'm kind of scared right now to eat this hot wing to tell you the truth. 01:09:22.280 --> 01:09:23.160 Tiffany Bader: I'm scared right now. 01:09:23.540 --> 01:09:26.460 This is like, a stupid amount of hot sauce to put on this. 01:09:27.820 --> 01:09:28.540 Travis Bader: Did you scrape some off? 01:09:28.600 --> 01:09:29.270 No, I didn't. 01:09:29.280 --> 01:09:30.270 Do the cameras pick it up? 01:09:30.270 --> 01:09:32.990 Look at, I saw you tapping yours. 01:09:33.030 --> 01:09:34.670 Tiffany Bader: No, but there's, there's none that 01:09:34.670 --> 01:09:35.280 Travis Bader: I knocked off. 01:09:36.940 --> 01:09:37.570 Here we go. 01:09:37.570 --> 01:09:39.370 3, 2, 1. 01:09:46.380 --> 01:09:47.420 All I taste is heat. 01:09:53.340 --> 01:09:54.340 You didn't spit it out, did you? 01:09:54.440 --> 01:09:54.580 No. 01:09:57.100 --> 01:09:57.480 Okay. 01:09:57.780 --> 01:09:58.380 That's hot. 01:09:58.500 --> 01:09:58.860 Mm hmm. 01:10:01.610 --> 01:10:02.560 Most scared I've been. 01:10:05.620 --> 01:10:07.010 Probably around 2007. 01:10:10.130 --> 01:10:11.090 All over my face. 01:10:11.200 --> 01:10:12.320 You got some chicken wing in your beard. 01:10:16.680 --> 01:10:17.390 You feeling that? 01:10:19.630 --> 01:10:19.700 It's hot. 01:10:19.880 --> 01:10:20.400 You okay? 01:10:20.600 --> 01:10:20.680 Yeah. 01:10:20.940 --> 01:10:21.330 Okay. 01:10:21.930 --> 01:10:22.690 Yeah, that'd be it. 01:10:24.875 --> 01:10:28.715 Yeah, that was, uh, I guess for people listen, who don't know, cause I did 01:10:28.715 --> 01:10:35.295 talk about it once on the podcast before we had a midwife and, uh, uh, 01:10:35.725 --> 01:10:38.965 hospital birth and the midwife is in there and, you know, doing the 01:10:38.965 --> 01:10:40.385 midwife thing, everything's normal. 01:10:40.385 --> 01:10:41.045 This is fine. 01:10:41.045 --> 01:10:41.855 This is good. 01:10:42.605 --> 01:10:47.525 Nurses are coming in, you know, as a husband in there, really, you're, 01:10:47.625 --> 01:10:51.155 you're just, you're Superfluous to the whole ordeal and supplier of 01:10:51.155 --> 01:10:52.965 ice chips and back rubs, basically. 01:10:52.975 --> 01:10:53.315 Yes. 01:10:54.285 --> 01:10:58.935 And you keep looking to me for, because you're in so much 01:10:58.955 --> 01:11:00.665 pain, like, what would you do? 01:11:00.775 --> 01:11:05.025 I'm like, I don't know, like, from my objective position outside 01:11:05.025 --> 01:11:06.065 here, not feeling the pain. 01:11:06.065 --> 01:11:07.195 Here's some things I see. 01:11:08.315 --> 01:11:10.855 But of course, the doctors and nurses are like, Nope, it's got to come 01:11:10.855 --> 01:11:12.295 from you, which you can see the. 01:11:12.840 --> 01:11:13.890 The reasoning for that. 01:11:13.930 --> 01:11:14.250 Yeah. 01:11:15.970 --> 01:11:16.710 Tiffany Bader: Like, I haven't done it before. 01:11:16.710 --> 01:11:17.260 I don't know. 01:11:17.460 --> 01:11:17.740 Travis Bader: Right. 01:11:18.530 --> 01:11:18.810 Yeah. 01:11:18.970 --> 01:11:20.030 Brand new for all of us. 01:11:20.450 --> 01:11:21.640 But that was long. 01:11:21.820 --> 01:11:24.730 So we're into day two, basically, of labor. 01:11:25.180 --> 01:11:25.460 Yeah. 01:11:25.580 --> 01:11:29.390 And, um, they say, well, hey, do you want to, do you want 01:11:29.390 --> 01:11:30.980 to call in a, uh, an expert? 01:11:30.990 --> 01:11:32.990 We got a obstetrician we can call in. 01:11:34.480 --> 01:11:37.010 I'm like, yes, definitely let's call the person in. 01:11:37.010 --> 01:11:37.270 Right? 01:11:37.270 --> 01:11:39.860 Like this is, things are obviously not going the way they're 01:11:39.860 --> 01:11:41.140 supposed to be doing the one. 01:11:41.710 --> 01:11:42.450 No, no, no, sir. 01:11:42.450 --> 01:11:43.260 It's not your decision. 01:11:43.260 --> 01:11:44.190 It's gotta be your decision. 01:11:44.190 --> 01:11:47.720 You look at them like, yes, you gotta call them in. 01:11:47.720 --> 01:11:49.400 And so they're, they're dragging their feet. 01:11:49.400 --> 01:11:52.210 And I said, look at, if we have to, I'll pay the person for their time. 01:11:52.220 --> 01:11:54.860 Like, cause I said, well, what if you give birth and they're on their way over? 01:11:55.290 --> 01:11:56.590 So we'll then send them home. 01:11:56.700 --> 01:11:57.110 Right? 01:11:58.040 --> 01:12:01.580 Anyways, person ends up coming a British woman. 01:12:01.930 --> 01:12:06.620 Um, Who had her helper with her, really professional. 01:12:07.120 --> 01:12:10.200 And she comes on in and she's got the helper and more and 01:12:10.200 --> 01:12:11.520 more nurses are coming in. 01:12:11.520 --> 01:12:20.180 And a lot of people on standby and, um, said, well, let's get suction cups. 01:12:20.180 --> 01:12:23.450 We get forceps, we're doing this and they're working at it, working at it. 01:12:23.450 --> 01:12:26.430 And like, Oh, I think the umbilical cord is wrapped. 01:12:26.570 --> 01:12:29.720 We'll just cut the umbilical cord and then we'll, uh. 01:12:30.210 --> 01:12:31.470 Everything will go smooth sailing. 01:12:31.470 --> 01:12:35.110 Well, they cut the umbilical cord and everything was not smooth sailing. 01:12:35.970 --> 01:12:42.990 So in the same way, when you look to other people, when you're self arresting 01:12:42.990 --> 01:12:45.540 on the mountain, you're like, Oh, well, maybe there's something wrong here. 01:12:45.900 --> 01:12:48.730 When people keep saying everything's fine, everything's fine. 01:12:49.425 --> 01:12:51.775 And all of a sudden they just go to threat level at midnight. 01:12:51.965 --> 01:12:54.575 Like they just go right through the roof and everyone's panicking, 01:12:55.385 --> 01:12:56.675 you know, that things aren't fine. 01:12:57.745 --> 01:13:04.195 And the, uh, the obstetrician looks over their helper and there's a 01:13:04.195 --> 01:13:06.885 heightened level of, uh, urgency. 01:13:07.180 --> 01:13:09.840 And she says, get on the belly, start pressing. 01:13:09.840 --> 01:13:10.030 Right. 01:13:10.030 --> 01:13:12.340 And the helper is doing something else. 01:13:12.340 --> 01:13:15.540 And she looks at her, helps me get on the belly and start pressing. 01:13:15.550 --> 01:13:21.730 And the helper looks at her with just this look of indignant, just puts both of her 01:13:21.730 --> 01:13:23.570 hands at her side, like a petulant child. 01:13:23.570 --> 01:13:25.080 And like, all right. 01:13:25.900 --> 01:13:28.570 And the obstetrician looks at her and looks at me. 01:13:29.510 --> 01:13:31.010 I'm like, okay, where do I go? 01:13:31.010 --> 01:13:32.290 And she's like, you get in here. 01:13:32.310 --> 01:13:34.040 Like this, her helper is doing nothing. 01:13:34.130 --> 01:13:36.780 So push on the belly, see if we can get her out. 01:13:37.040 --> 01:13:41.830 So I got my forearm on your belly and I'm trying to squeeze out our daughter. 01:13:41.830 --> 01:13:42.800 Didn't know it was a daughter at the time. 01:13:42.810 --> 01:13:44.470 Daughter, like a tube of toothpaste. 01:13:44.810 --> 01:13:45.390 And, uh, 01:13:46.840 --> 01:13:49.790 Tiffany Bader: Cause at this point I'd been, I'd been pushing, like pushing 01:13:50.250 --> 01:13:55.610 for 10, 10, 12 hours, something like that, which is, yeah, which is apparent. 01:13:55.650 --> 01:13:56.900 I found it later is actually like. 01:13:57.550 --> 01:14:00.520 It kind of a stupid amount of time to literally be pushing. 01:14:00.730 --> 01:14:01.080 Right. 01:14:01.170 --> 01:14:03.880 And so I was, I was like, I've never been so tired in my life. 01:14:04.460 --> 01:14:07.370 Travis Bader: So there I am squeezing it out and they're doing, 01:14:07.860 --> 01:14:16.670 anyway, and eventually after a long time out comes our daughter. 01:14:17.445 --> 01:14:20.565 And they're panicking, child's out, they're running over with it. 01:14:20.845 --> 01:14:24.075 They now have another fellow in that they called in and, uh, later 01:14:24.075 --> 01:14:28.585 learned this guy's only called in for dealing with families, with, uh, 01:14:28.875 --> 01:14:31.945 birthing that doesn't go properly, trauma birth, whatever it might be. 01:14:32.815 --> 01:14:36.405 And I remember looking at you and like, did I do it? 01:14:36.415 --> 01:14:36.945 Did I do it? 01:14:36.945 --> 01:14:37.615 You're asking. 01:14:37.615 --> 01:14:38.595 I'm like, Oh, it's great. 01:14:38.595 --> 01:14:40.045 We had a beautiful baby daughter. 01:14:40.685 --> 01:14:43.625 And knowing in my heart that I was lying through my teeth. 01:14:44.350 --> 01:14:51.820 And because I, I didn't think she was alive after a long time, we 01:14:51.820 --> 01:14:56.220 heard her cry and I'm like, Oh my God, thank God she's alive. 01:14:56.610 --> 01:15:00.290 And then in my head I was like, Oh damn, she's alive. 01:15:00.300 --> 01:15:02.330 Like that was a long time without oxygen. 01:15:02.480 --> 01:15:03.680 Is she going to be okay? 01:15:04.870 --> 01:15:06.040 Everything turned out okay. 01:15:07.030 --> 01:15:11.600 But I'd say that would be the time that I was scared, most scared in my life. 01:15:12.660 --> 01:15:17.460 Tiffany Bader: And that, that story is why I would want you on a desert island 01:15:17.460 --> 01:15:23.100 with me because you tell this story and I had no idea, years later, like I 01:15:23.140 --> 01:15:26.340 remember when we went to go see the St. 01:15:26.340 --> 01:15:32.830 Midwife again a year and a half later and she's like, what are you doing here? 01:15:33.150 --> 01:15:34.540 She's like, she was flabbergasted. 01:15:34.540 --> 01:15:36.520 She's like, why are you pregnant? 01:15:37.075 --> 01:15:38.065 You want to have another baby? 01:15:38.065 --> 01:15:41.345 Like, didn't, didn't the last experience, like, terrify you enough 01:15:41.345 --> 01:15:42.405 to never want to do this again? 01:15:43.035 --> 01:15:44.715 But I still, at that point, I didn't know. 01:15:44.715 --> 01:15:46.135 You'd never told me. 01:15:46.195 --> 01:15:52.385 Only, it was years later when you told me the situation and, and how it, how it was. 01:15:53.295 --> 01:15:57.575 You were, yeah, you were just there and unflappable and, 01:15:58.315 --> 01:16:00.855 and I was, I need Ice chips. 01:16:01.445 --> 01:16:02.865 And, yeah, I like, yeah. 01:16:03.035 --> 01:16:03.475 So what's, what 01:16:03.475 --> 01:16:04.085 Travis Bader: scared you then? 01:16:06.105 --> 01:16:08.965 Tiffany Bader: So, uh, my, it wasn't, it wasn't that day, because I didn't know. 01:16:08.965 --> 01:16:09.695 I didn't realize. 01:16:09.775 --> 01:16:09.935 When 01:16:09.935 --> 01:16:10.485 Travis Bader: you're in it. 01:16:10.535 --> 01:16:10.825 Yeah. 01:16:11.105 --> 01:16:11.495 I had no idea. 01:16:11.495 --> 01:16:12.745 There's, there's no room to be afraid. 01:16:13.225 --> 01:16:15.375 Tiffany Bader: When you tell the story now, it scares me, and it makes 01:16:15.375 --> 01:16:20.669 me choke up a little bit, and sad, and, but everything turned out great. 01:16:20.980 --> 01:16:28.130 Amazingly well, she's a fantastic kid and, um, but scared, most scared I've 01:16:28.130 --> 01:16:32.570 ever been is probably May 16th, 2008. 01:16:33.310 --> 01:16:34.630 That was the most scared I've ever been. 01:16:34.750 --> 01:16:43.940 Cause, um, I, I don't know if you want to get into this now, but, um, yeah, I 01:16:43.940 --> 01:16:50.260 mean for anyone that doesn't know, um, that was a day that some incredibly. 01:16:51.660 --> 01:16:56.570 RCMP, Firearm Center, government officials decided to, uh, execute 01:16:56.570 --> 01:17:00.800 a raid on, on Silvercore and put Travis in jail for the weekend. 01:17:00.800 --> 01:17:02.920 And I had no idea what was going on 01:17:02.920 --> 01:17:03.220 Travis Bader: and. 01:17:03.930 --> 01:17:04.100 Yeah. 01:17:04.100 --> 01:17:06.690 I take off to work and they're like, what the hell, where is he? 01:17:06.930 --> 01:17:07.690 What's going on? 01:17:07.850 --> 01:17:10.770 And they had the municipally integrated ERT and orchestrated 01:17:10.770 --> 01:17:12.110 raids at several locations. 01:17:12.470 --> 01:17:14.870 And, and, uh, I think they had like. 01:17:15.480 --> 01:17:19.510 18 people just at this location where I drove in, they had the block cordoned off. 01:17:19.850 --> 01:17:23.480 They had, um, they're staged in the back, the ERT. 01:17:23.500 --> 01:17:28.480 I drove in and my vehicle had a trailer in tow and pulled in behind them. 01:17:28.480 --> 01:17:32.490 And they look around like, Oh, Hey Trav, uh, could you park your vehicle over here? 01:17:32.490 --> 01:17:33.630 And they're all masked up. 01:17:33.630 --> 01:17:33.980 Right. 01:17:33.990 --> 01:17:37.310 And I didn't know who they were, but one comes up, it's like, Oh, Trav, 01:17:37.310 --> 01:17:41.110 you might remember me from, and he like, I don't know who this person is. 01:17:41.110 --> 01:17:44.010 And the other person like, Oh, Trav, your father taught me back in the academy. 01:17:44.010 --> 01:17:46.370 And I don't know why would they got us here. 01:17:46.910 --> 01:17:50.530 But, you know, over on the right here, people don't see it if 01:17:50.530 --> 01:17:53.880 they're watching, but on the wall, there's actually the apology letter. 01:17:54.050 --> 01:17:58.240 That took eight years to get, but it's a rare apology letter from the RSMP. 01:17:58.250 --> 01:18:02.875 Some point, maybe We'll talk about the just high level of corruption and 01:18:02.875 --> 01:18:06.015 malfeasance and everything that it took in order to get there and the 01:18:06.025 --> 01:18:07.885 bullying tactics and everything else. 01:18:07.885 --> 01:18:11.335 But I don't know, that doesn't sound like a positive place for me, 01:18:11.425 --> 01:18:14.835 which is why I've never, why I've never really delved into that one. 01:18:15.015 --> 01:18:16.245 Very interesting story. 01:18:16.845 --> 01:18:20.295 Absolutely get a lot of, uh, hits and clicks and people would want to hear it. 01:18:21.175 --> 01:18:25.075 But until I can find a way to talk about that one positively, because there's a 01:18:25.075 --> 01:18:28.825 lot of negative with him, I just figured I'll just keep that on the back shelf. 01:18:28.995 --> 01:18:29.295 Yeah. 01:18:30.500 --> 01:18:32.100 But I can definitely see that being scary. 01:18:32.270 --> 01:18:34.280 So, hey, my face didn't melt off. 01:18:34.330 --> 01:18:34.870 Nope, mine 01:18:34.870 --> 01:18:35.320 Tiffany Bader: didn't either. 01:18:35.940 --> 01:18:36.280 Travis Bader: I got an 01:18:36.280 --> 01:18:36.630 Tiffany Bader: idea. 01:18:36.810 --> 01:18:37.220 No. 01:18:39.030 --> 01:18:39.410 I don't want to hear your idea. 01:18:40.660 --> 01:18:41.340 So this is what? 01:18:41.340 --> 01:18:42.943 Travis Bader: I don't want to hear your idea. 01:18:42.943 --> 01:18:43.629 2 million Scoville? 01:18:43.630 --> 01:18:46.630 I actually have something that's about 3 million Scoville. 01:18:47.110 --> 01:18:50.290 But it's going to be a signing off sort of thing, because I don't know how much 01:18:50.290 --> 01:18:51.900 we're going to be able to talk afterwards. 01:18:52.505 --> 01:18:54.445 Cause I have a feeling it ain't going to go too well. 01:18:54.725 --> 01:18:56.045 Do we want to try this? 01:18:57.365 --> 01:18:57.795 Tiffany Bader: No. 01:18:59.855 --> 01:19:01.045 Travis Bader: Do we have any more chicken wings 01:19:01.055 --> 01:19:01.455 Tiffany Bader: somewhere? 01:19:01.745 --> 01:19:03.065 Uh, in the, in the kitchen. 01:19:03.065 --> 01:19:03.375 Yeah. 01:19:04.645 --> 01:19:07.595 Travis Bader: We're going to do a real quick cut because I'm going to run in 01:19:07.605 --> 01:19:08.745 the kitchen and grab two more wings. 01:19:08.745 --> 01:19:09.055 Okay. 01:19:09.575 --> 01:19:10.025 Okay. 01:19:35.195 --> 01:19:35.635 Okay. 01:19:35.705 --> 01:19:36.185 I'm back. 01:19:36.195 --> 01:19:36.945 These sound cold. 01:19:37.345 --> 01:19:38.205 They are cold. 01:19:40.135 --> 01:19:48.365 Do you remember when teenager, late teens, and you accidentally 01:19:48.365 --> 01:19:49.335 pepper sprayed yourself? 01:19:50.500 --> 01:19:50.860 Do you remember 01:19:50.860 --> 01:19:51.110 Tiffany Bader: this? 01:19:51.130 --> 01:19:51.450 Yes. 01:19:51.450 --> 01:19:52.560 I do remember this, Travis. 01:19:53.570 --> 01:19:55.720 Travis Bader: You closed a desk drawer, one of my drawers on my 01:19:55.720 --> 01:19:58.780 desk, and I guess there was some spray inside there and it sprayed 01:19:58.790 --> 01:20:01.220 up and a little bit got in the air. 01:20:01.220 --> 01:20:04.160 Didn't even spray in the face, but you're hacking and coughing and sneezing. 01:20:04.160 --> 01:20:04.750 That sucked. 01:20:05.050 --> 01:20:05.870 Yeah, it did suck. 01:20:06.000 --> 01:20:08.490 And, um, I have a feeling that that's what's going to happen 01:20:08.490 --> 01:20:12.589 afterwards because apparently bear spray is 3 million Schoolville. 01:20:12.670 --> 01:20:17.460 And I got some bear spray in a plastic bag. 01:20:17.745 --> 01:20:21.855 And I thought, maybe just spray a little bit of the plastic bag, try and contain 01:20:21.865 --> 01:20:23.195 the aerosol that's going everywhere. 01:20:23.195 --> 01:20:23.425 I'm like, 01:20:23.425 --> 01:20:24.845 Tiffany Bader: super unimpressed with you right now. 01:20:26.065 --> 01:20:26.625 I might 01:20:26.655 --> 01:20:27.105 Travis Bader: There we go. 01:20:27.115 --> 01:20:28.385 It's expired bear spray. 01:20:28.425 --> 01:20:34.515 But that just means that the, the accelerant inside here will, um, uh, not 01:20:34.525 --> 01:20:39.220 the, whatever is going to, the propellant, the propellant can, uh The aerosol can 01:20:39.330 --> 01:20:42.960 die out on it, but the actual spice, the spray, it's all going to be the same. 01:20:43.120 --> 01:20:44.990 So as long as we can get something to dribble out, I have 01:20:44.990 --> 01:20:46.160 a feeling it's going to spray out. 01:20:47.380 --> 01:20:49.280 Do we have any words that we want to say? 01:20:49.460 --> 01:20:54.590 Tiffany Bader: I just, from like, maybe a more sane, uh, standpoint, 01:20:54.600 --> 01:20:57.680 do you want to spray that not in a really confined space with me? 01:20:58.360 --> 01:21:00.640 Travis Bader: Nope, nope, we're doing it in here because otherwise 01:21:00.660 --> 01:21:03.650 people will come back and they'll say it wasn't caught on camera. 01:21:03.650 --> 01:21:05.650 You didn't do it, blah, blah, blah. 01:21:06.020 --> 01:21:12.090 So, um, I think, uh, we'll just spray it inside the plastic bag, give it a good 01:21:12.090 --> 01:21:15.620 shake, let things dissipate a little bit. 01:21:17.140 --> 01:21:18.550 Any last words before we do this? 01:21:22.890 --> 01:21:23.820 Yes, no, maybe so? 01:21:23.860 --> 01:21:24.100 I 01:21:24.130 --> 01:21:25.170 Tiffany Bader: don't, I don't know. 01:21:25.200 --> 01:21:26.840 There's nothing I can do or say at this point. 01:21:27.620 --> 01:21:28.320 Well, there's plenty. 01:21:28.340 --> 01:21:29.620 For better or for worse, right? 01:21:30.600 --> 01:21:31.840 Isn't that, isn't that what I promised? 01:21:31.840 --> 01:21:33.660 Travis Bader: Give it a good shake, give it a good shake. 01:21:33.660 --> 01:21:35.330 Three million Scoville, they say. 01:21:35.330 --> 01:21:36.086 Oh my 01:21:36.086 --> 01:21:36.464 Tiffany Bader: god. 01:21:36.464 --> 01:21:38.560 This is just such a 01:21:38.560 --> 01:21:39.160 Travis Bader: terrible. 01:21:39.230 --> 01:21:40.310 What I do want to say is. 01:21:40.420 --> 01:21:40.630 Yeah. 01:21:41.290 --> 01:21:44.960 Thank you to everybody who watches the Silvercore podcast, who listens 01:21:44.960 --> 01:21:48.310 to the Silvercore podcast, to the club members, to everyone who's involved 01:21:48.310 --> 01:21:49.720 in the Silvercore Outdoors community. 01:21:50.150 --> 01:21:50.590 Thank you. 01:21:51.080 --> 01:21:52.460 I truly enjoy doing this. 01:21:52.460 --> 01:21:55.580 I truly enjoy interacting with each and every one of you, whether that's in 01:21:55.590 --> 01:21:58.030 person or online or through social media. 01:21:58.760 --> 01:22:02.920 I find it brings a lot of positivity in people's lives, my life included. 01:22:03.130 --> 01:22:08.560 So here's to 2023, a great ending of the year and into 2024. 01:22:08.800 --> 01:22:09.420 Tiffany Bader: Here's to doing stuff. 01:22:10.015 --> 01:22:12.985 Stupid, stupid things. 01:22:14.775 --> 01:22:15.875 Jesus Christ. 01:22:17.135 --> 01:22:18.995 That seemed like a pretty good shot. 01:22:19.165 --> 01:22:19.635 Okay. 01:22:19.995 --> 01:22:21.405 Oh, Travis, no. 01:22:21.875 --> 01:22:22.315 Oh, 01:22:23.605 --> 01:22:24.265 Travis Bader: Jesus Christ. 01:22:24.315 --> 01:22:25.455 I might have to air it out. 01:22:26.635 --> 01:22:27.305 Hold on. 01:22:27.765 --> 01:22:29.485 I know, we'll let the air us all. 01:22:29.755 --> 01:22:30.725 Okay, you feel it? 01:22:33.605 --> 01:22:36.135 When I open my hand up on this thing, it's gonna go everywhere. 01:22:39.275 --> 01:22:40.115 Here we go, guys. 01:22:40.745 --> 01:22:41.925 This is such a bad idea. 01:22:42.055 --> 01:22:43.975 Three, two, one, you ready? 01:22:44.175 --> 01:22:44.495 Yep. 01:22:48.515 --> 01:22:51.245 One for you, one for me. 01:22:51.555 --> 01:22:52.375 Cap it up! 01:22:52.885 --> 01:22:54.755 Best of friends may we always be. 01:22:55.745 --> 01:22:56.315 You ready? 01:22:59.225 --> 01:22:59.695 Here we go. 01:23:00.345 --> 01:23:00.435 How 01:23:03.845 --> 01:23:04.035 Tiffany Bader: can 01:23:04.325 --> 01:23:04.605 Travis Bader: you breathe? 01:23:04.985 --> 01:23:05.935 Come on, get it in. 01:23:10.845 --> 01:23:11.875 Okay, that's hot. 01:23:16.765 --> 01:23:17.535 Happy New Year. 01:23:18.615 --> 01:23:19.005 Oh god. 01:23:21.975 --> 01:23:23.225 See ya, there's everybody else. 01:23:23.225 --> 01:23:23.675 It's terrible.