Why do firefighters start hating the job they once loved? In this podcast episode, Dave (22 years, Army to Police to Senior Firefighter) and Swannie (35 years, Senior Firefighter & Union Secretary) break down, moral injury, strikes, burnout, and how to hold your values under pressure.If you're a first responder, parent, or anyone fighting to stay resilient β this one is for you. Real stories, no polish.
In this episode:
- Why we joined: helping people, calm in chaos, brotherhood
- The strike pain: stoppages and why it hurts our values
- "It's not what they do, it's what I do" β radical responsibility on shift
- Practical crew tools: dinners, gym finishers, pizza nights with families, leaving it at the door
- Moral injury explained vs PTSD + two stories Swannie & Dave still carry 20 years later.
- How to come back to your compass without burning bridges.
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