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Kurt von Ahnen: Hey everybody.

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Welcome back to another fantastic episode
of whose WordPress Agency is this.

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Anyway, my name is Kurt Van Onan and I'm
here with my wonderful co-host, Toby Kres.

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And, we have a ton of
stuff to go through today.

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I hope that you find it fun.

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Toby, welcome to the call.

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Toby Cryns: Thanks, Kurt.

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So, a friend of mine was conversing with,
I was conversing with him earlier today.

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and, He, the way he explained, I, I am,
I'm interpreting here, but he blew a big

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sale, like a big sale by my standard,
like the dollar amount was more than

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I've ever charged, put it that way.

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and how he blew it, it made me think
like our businesses are defined by sales.

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There's.

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Nothing else that defines
it more than sales.

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did you sell or did you not sell?

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And it, it occurred to me that I've
done what he did probably many times.

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And the gist of it is like usually
like, not always, but usually like

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the more bureaucratic the organization
that you're dealing with, the

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more meetings you're gonna have.

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Yeah.

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Just in the sales cycle, the more
they're gonna ask of you to, for

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free stuff before they actually
pay you or sign any agreement.

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Free time, free RFP responses, free ideas.

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And so he's gone through and
he's been, communicating with

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me for months now about this.

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'cause I, I had actually
sent him the lead months ago.

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'cause I didn't, I didn't wanna do it.

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I, I know that that's a thing.

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Like, I was like, I don't
wanna go to these meetings.

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So I gave him the lead.

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That's a lot of baggage.

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Would you like to do it?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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But it was a good lead
if you're into that.

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and so.

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I, I'm guessing this was like the sixth or
seventh meeting that he's had with them.

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And, the gist of it, this is
how he explained it to me.

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He is like, I think I blew it.

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and I'm interpreting he sounded like
he went in there tired and ornery.

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And pissy.

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Mm-hmm.

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Have you ever done that current?

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Kurt von Ahnen: Well, I have, you
know, it's, it's amazing because,

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being in business for decades.

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Lends a lot of expertise
should we say, right?

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That, that people new to,
to industry don't expect.

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I have a saying in my training and it
is focused on the relationship and the

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transactions will naturally follow.

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If you are so focused on transaction,
you'll blow the relationship and the

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relationship is what makes the sale.

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So I always say focus
on the relationship and.

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The transaction will naturally occur
and yeah, if you're ornery, if you're

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tired, if you're tired of the BS and
another free meeting and a, you know,

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what probably happens, especially in
these big situations is you end up

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spending a bunch of time with soldiers
on the ground and you never get to, to

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meet the general and get the approval.

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It just seems like it
goes on and on and on.

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I have shortcut this immensely
in my last 15 years of business.

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I ask people straight up, Hey, is the
decision maker in this room today?

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Are, are we moving forward or not?

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And I set my expectations accordingly.

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but that's part of the relationship.

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If you are hungover, if you're sick.

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If your kids kept you up all night, if
your spouse had you in the hospital,

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you know, for, I had a mountain bike
race last weekend, two weekends ago,

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and it was a husband and wife coaching
duo, and the woman of the couple had

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an, an appendicitis had to go to the
hospital in the middle of the night.

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Well, I didn't, we didn't need
either one of those coaches coming

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to work with the kids that day.

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You know what I mean?

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Mm-hmm.

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You haven't slept in mm-hmm.

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40 hours.

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cancel the appointment, reschedule,
put, make sure that you can show

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up in a good frame of mind, because
if you are not in the proper frame

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of mind, you're gonna blow it.

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Toby Cryns: Yeah.

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And I think like I.

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That's, so that's something
that I continually learned.

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It happened to me earlier this year, and
thankfully I had somebody set me straight

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before I attended the meeting because
I was like, ah, we're not, it's one of

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these things like, we're not quite ready.

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It wasn't even like
that was in a bad mood.

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It was just like, we're not quite ready.

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And my, SEO guy, it was an SEO pitch.

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He's like, Toby, let's cancel the
meeting and postpone it till we're ready.

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Like, and, and he was
totally right, you know?

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Yeah.

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And I think.

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What you said is spot on.

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You're probably better off
canceling and rescheduling

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Kurt von Ahnen: And there are
so many ways to do that where

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you keep pride as a thing.

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I.

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Right, and I always say, you should
put pride in your back pocket.

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Humility is much more attractive
than pride, but still there.

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You don't wanna look like a moron, right?

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So in your case, like you're preparing
for an SEO pitch, you're not quite ready.

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It is so much better to just call the
client and say, Hey, I know we had an

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appointment scheduled, but I really
want to value your time and I don't feel

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like we're properly prepared to execute
this meeting at a high level right now.

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Can we reschedule so we can be.

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You know, more cognizant of the time
you're investing with us and make sure we

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really bring the value and they're gonna
go, how are they gonna argue with that?

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Right.

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They're gonna go, okay, that
was transparent, helpful.

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They thought about me.

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Oh, perfect.

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And then you buy yourself
the time and then you come in

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and knock it out of the park.

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Toby Cryns: Yeah, I think the, the,
maybe the moral of that story is

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like, you might lose one out of
a hundred doing that, but like.

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You're probably only putting
yourself in a stronger position.

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Kurt von Ahnen: Yeah.

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Yeah.

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And I wanna be more, more forward.

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I think here, Toby, I can tell that
you're a person that is, insightful and

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self-reflecting and these types of things.

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I am too, to a certain point.

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And I think when we tell somebody.

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Hey, I just really wanted to bring
some value to you and I'm not sure

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we're at our A game right now.

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Can we reschedule so that when
we see you, we bring our A game?

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I just have a feeling that your a
game when you show up prepared is

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probably a plus, plus plus compared
to the competition in your area.

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Toby Cryns: And that's a great point.

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Yeah.

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Kurt von Ahnen: And, and if I'm just
being blunt, part of the strength of

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dealing with Ano Nomas is that when
Ano Nomas has a meeting to show you

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something, I'm showing you something.

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I'm not wasting your time
and talking about, well, what

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if this and what if that?

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I'm saying you, we did
your needs assessment.

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These were the results
of the needs assessment.

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Here's a statement of work we agreed
to, and here's our first version.

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In a lot of cases, our first
version, the customers go Holy crud.

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'cause they're used to
getting jerked around.

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Toby Cryns: Mm-hmm.

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Also, if I could push back a
little on this, all that is true.

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And yet I found myself on a sales
call just a week ago where I was

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like, what was the topic of this call?

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Like, why am I here?

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And it was a legit call, like that was
scheduled and I was just not prepared.

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and I feel like on shows like
these, like it, it's easy.

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Like what people say is
like oftentimes like.

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We're perfect.

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We never screw this up, but I
just wanna throw that out there.

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I was on a call.

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It went okay.

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could have gone way better
had I been at all prepared.

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it just, it was one of these things
that was like, oh, I'm supposed to

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be at a meeting in five minutes.

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Who's this person?

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Like, I just screwed up that way.

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so I don't know.

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I just wanted to share that if there's
any, like, I don't know, inexperience,

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sales, the WordPress agency owners like.

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Sometimes you're, you're, you have
to show up, you know, like just by,

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malfeasance on your, your end, you know?

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Kurt von Ahnen: Well, what you're
describing though is really the difference

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between being an entrepreneur, right?

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Being an an agency owner versus.

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You know, someone in a cubicle,
in a corporate setting, right?

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If, if I can, I don't have nightmares
about it or anything like that, but

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when I worked at Suzuki, that was a big
corporate office, you know, and there was,

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they had 14, I wanna say 14, 14 meeting
rooms in that place, you know, and you

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had to book a meeting room and then you
had to, you know, you had to, you had

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to be there at a certain time and get
out at a certain time and this, and you

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had to execute this and execute that.

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but what I learned about
working there was I.

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They judged you more about how
you executed the meeting process

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than the actual work that was
the result of the meeting.

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It was, it was so bizarre.

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Yeah.

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And then you flip the script and you go,
well, I'm an agency owner now, right?

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Mm-hmm.

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And so, yeah, I'm efficient with the
meeting, but where my margins come

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to life is when my processes, you
know, form a, form a process that

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makes, makes a deliverable happen
in a timeline that is much more

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condensed than what the client expects.

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Right.

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Yeah.

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And that's where the margins come to life.

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Toby Cryns: Well, you bring up an
interesting point, like if, if I

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was trying to land a job with Suzu,
Suzuki or some big organization,

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pretty much every big organization, I
think is kind of what you described.

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Like they care more
about appearances Yeah.

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Than about, than the
actual, the other stuff.

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Yeah.

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you should keep that in mind too.

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Right.

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Kurt von Ahnen: Yeah, yeah.

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Show up on time, be prepared,
present well in the meeting.

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And then after the meeting, you know,
I focus on knocking it out of the park.

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I've got some really great processes
that I use to run our bus project,

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manage what we do with our, with
our different players on the team.

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And, I, it's funny because people
say, what do you really do?

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And I say, and I'm like, well,
I'm really a project manager.

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I'm a much better project manager
than I am a website designer.

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You know, it just happens.

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I work in the web field, but I'm able
to orchestrate people from all over

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the globe on these different things
and have everything fall together

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like a Lego set so that the project is
complete when it's due and under budget.

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So that to me is what people
are really coming to me for.

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all that creative stuff and all that
weird talk that people are having

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now about vibe coding and all this
stuff, I think that's like superfluous

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to what we actually deliver.

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Toby Cryns: That's interesting.

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Like, was talking with another friend
this week about, he's dealing with a,

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a crappy project manager on a agency.

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He's working, he owns an agency.

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They're doing work for another agency and
he was like, this is the third project

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manager I've worked with at this company.

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The first two were great.

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This one's new and he sucks, and like.

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I used to think project manager
not long ago, like five years ago.

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I was like, Ugh, I would hate to
be considered a project manager.

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They make less money.

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They have no power.

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They get all the pressures, but I.

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It is, it is true like it is if
you're an agency owner, it's one way

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you can make your mark is like, if
you're a great project manager, you

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don't have to be great at coding.

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You don't have to be great at a lot
of other stuff, especially if you're

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going for these bigger contracts.

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'cause it's more about the process
than it is about the deliverable.

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Kurt von Ahnen: Like, yeah.

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Yeah.

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I can't tell you how many times,
especially in the enterprise marketplace

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of the bigger ticket jobs, and this is.

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We talked about this on a couple
episodes ago where we said sometimes

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the more money, the easier the job.

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some of these enterprise jobs, I'll
say, oh, well we're working on this

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design nuance, or We're, and, and
they just go, yeah, we don't care.

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Where are the courses at?

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You know, where, where's the function?

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So how do I change a member's grade?

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Like that's, that's what they care about.

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And they don't care about, you know, this
widget, the shade of blue on this button.

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They, you know, the, you
know, this has a drop shadow.

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Like, they don't care
about any of that stuff.

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It seems like they might down downstream,
but to launch the product, they're

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more like, we're on a timeline.

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We made a promise this would be
ready to go by such and such a date.

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How we coming?

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And it's, it's the small projects.

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You know, where people have no paying
customers yet, they're launching

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their first course, and they're like,
I really wanted a different shade

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of blue with a drop shadow, and I
want a higher radius on this button.

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And you're like, your
course isn't done yet.

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Right.

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You're selling a course, but you
don't have any course content.

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And like, yeah, but I really want the
website to have a certain look and feel.

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Toby Cryns: Right?

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Yeah, totally.

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Well, and and, and anybody who sells.

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Every day knows, like all,
none of that stuff matters.

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None of it matters.

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Like, like it's what you're saying,
like, do they trust me or not?

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Kurt von Ahnen: Like Yeah.

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so I know we're off the rails, but
on a percentage basis, what the

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clients you work with, how many
of them say, wow, I really need to

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customize the, the, the checkout page.

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Toby Cryns: Close to 0%.

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Oh, yours?

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Because the convers
conversations don't go there.

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How about you

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Kurt von Ahnen: like, it's
in the, in the courses space?

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I ca Well, 'cause I do
support for lifter LMS, right?

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So in the courses space, I,
I need to customize this.

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How do I customize the checkout page?

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How do I customize the login page?

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And I'm like, if you've
already sold the course,

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what, what is it about the checkout
page that you think is gonna change

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their mind about buying your course?

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Right, because the, the page was designed
to convert so other people that are

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smarter than you, that, that, that
have paying customers, develop this.

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And you are brand new to the space.

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You don't have any paying customers
yet, but you want to customize

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all of these, you know, dynamic.

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Pages that are, they're templates.

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They're, they're made a certain
way on purpose and, and it's,

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the responses are always unique.

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I'm always amazed.

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'cause I, I always say, what about, you
know, what about the login page makes you

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think someone's gonna ask for a refund?

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They already paid and, and ran

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people.

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Toby Cryns: You're, it's not
your, it's not your pricing.

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It's not your login page.

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That's the problem.

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It's the login page.

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Kurt von Ahnen: Don't sell.

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It's the login page.

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They, they bought the course and,
and the course has value, but this

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login page is just too much friction.

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It's too much friction.

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Toby Cryns: Yep.

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Yep.

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That's funny.

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Yeah.

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I, I always think like, just in general,
any question, any tech question, I'm

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always like, how is this making you money?

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If we do.

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Like, how does this make you
more money if we fix this?

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Like, and you can put,
insert any question in there.

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Kurt von Ahnen: Well, and I feel
like, and I gotta remember that we

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are making a show, Toby, you and I are
making a show that is for, agencies,

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people that own agencies, and a lot
of these agencies are making marketing

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products, brochure style websites.

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So maybe they're not all about conversion.

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Maybe they're not all about how many
people get to the checkout page.

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A lot of websites don't have those things.

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Mm-hmm.

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But then it, it still comes to light of,
you know, how much of your time as an

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agency owner is driven by nonsensical
nuance as opposed to core features

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that drive functionality and make your
site do what it's supposed to do well.

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Toby Cryns: Yeah.

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And, yeah, exactly.

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this kind of brings up another,
thing that I've been experiencing.

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I'm selling my, I have.

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I have an old house, a house that
we just moved out of that we're

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selling and we're having like,
emotional, we're in like an emotional

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low 'cause nobody wants to buy it.

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And we're like, why not?

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It's a great house.

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and it reminded me of, there's this idea,
I think there's a book called The Messy

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Middle, but the idea that like when you're
deep in a long project, the middle is.

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Mucky or messy.

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Like it's just, and I was thinking
like Frodo on Mount Doom, if you read

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Lord of the Rings, this isn't in the,
the movie, I don't think, but like

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he's sitting on Mount Doom with, with
Sam Wise and he's like, we're in the

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middle of a great story and yeah,
we might die, but isn't this cool?

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Isn't this cool?

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and I was thinking like, I think all
businesses on all big projects, they

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get, it gets really messy and mucky and.

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It, it's hard for us as like the delivery
people to see through it, but I was

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curious, Kurt, from your perspective.

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You know, I think in general, businesses
try to, help, like part of our job is

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to help our clients not see the muck
and to kind of like steer their eyes

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to the things that are important.

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But how do you communicate?

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The mucky muck with clients and how
do you help them see through the

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muck in the middle of a big project?

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Kurt von Ahnen: I think that's
an unfair question to ask me if

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we're thinking about parlaying this
information to other agency owners.

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know, because I authored the book on
leadership and stuff like that, so I

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come down to, I have some, people say
scripts are nasty, like salespeople

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that use scripts, like that's nasty.

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But what I call these is like.

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verbal muscle memory, right?

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So I have this verbal, verbal muscle
memory that I use with people.

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Let's say I'm in the middle of a
project and it just seems like you get

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to, like, you got the website, so you
got the WordPress tools in and you got

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the, the plugins in, and you've got
the basic formatting and configuration

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done, and you're starting to put in
the content, and then the, the client

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just starts getting like all fractured.

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Like they're just all over the place.

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And that's kinda that
mucky middle thing, right?

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a lot of times.

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And, and this is, this is the
reason that I stopped telling

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people I was a WordPress agency.

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I'm not a WordPress agency.

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I am a business consultancy.

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And so I say, well, let's get,
let's get down to brass tacks.

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What is it that you truly
deliver as a business?

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What are your core ideologies
that you deliver as a business?

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How do you deliver those, those
items, those goods or those services?

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Right?

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And then as we build the product
to message those items out.

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If they start getting all weird and
distracted in the middle of the project,

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I just say, Hey, hey, whoa, whoa, whoa.

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Let, let's gather up.

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Let's circle the wagons and let's focus
again on what your core deliverables are

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and how this website communicates that.

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And then I say, my goal is to get
you published as soon as possible.

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And we can always augment, modify, and
change as we go, but let's get you to a

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launch date as quickly as possible with
a minimal viable product so that we can

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start to communicate with your audience.

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And that seems to get them back on track.

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Like, 'cause then I go, so let's
get back to what are the minimal

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viable requirements that we
need for this project to launch?

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And, and that gets 'em refocused and
we just start to get back on point.

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And it's, it becomes a, like,
smart goal setting, right?

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is it strategic?

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Is it measurable?

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Is it achievable?

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Is it time related?

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And I just, bam, bam, bam, bam, bam.

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Right?

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Toby Cryns: yeah.

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And I imagine it's also like
self-talk, like Kurt, you know?

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'cause they're asking all these weird
questions maybe in the middle and

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you're like, Kurt, what's the goal here?

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You know, sometimes like, what
are we trying to achieve today?

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Kurt von Ahnen: Yeah.

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What, yeah.

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'cause it so many times I was just, I mean
this is so uncanny, but I was on a call

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today with a client and they're building a
membership learning website and they were.

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These membership tools are very confusing
because they install a membership

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tool and most people don't recognize
there's nothing in there to manage

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members in a membership tool like these.

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I shouldn't say membership
tools, the community sites.

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Mm-hmm.

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So fluent community, body
boss, all these things.

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They don't have tools that
manage the membership side of it.

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And so you have these tools
and they're like, so how does

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someone get to the newsfeed?

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How does someone, I don't want
those people to get to the newsfeed.

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They didn't buy the membership.

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And I'm like, that's 'cause we need a
membership tool to be able to manage who

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gets access to what levels of the site.

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And you have to break all that down
and the customers start getting like,

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poof, like fireworks have gone off and
the A DH D's kicking in and they're

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just picking stuff outta the sky.

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Yep.

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And that's when I go, whoa,
whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

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We gotta slow this down.

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Let's put in a membership tool who
gets access to the community site.

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Great.

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We'll run that by tags.

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We'll run that through the fluent CRM.

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We'll do an automation.

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We'll send an email and they
get access to that link.

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Perfect.

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We're done.

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And then they go, oh, how did you do that?

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I've been doing it for 22 years.

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You know, let's, let's just
get you to the next problem.

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This one's solved.

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Toby Cryns: So you've just been
describing some really smart

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decisions you've made, just like a
process for smart decision making.

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But what's the worst business
decision you've ever made?

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Kurt von Ahnen: I'm not gonna share her
name because I don't wanna get sued.

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we all do it.

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I think no matter the size of
your business, you're tempted to

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do it like you talk to a client
or you're referred to a client.

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So in this case, I was referred
to a client and I didn't wanna

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look foolish in front of the
person that made the referral.

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I wanted to honor that person.

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And so I gave them too much time on
a call and I gave them too much free

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information, and then they decided I
was a genius and wanted to hire me, and

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the needs assessment wasn't really fully
done, but I threw a number out there

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like, yeah, I can make it happen for this.

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The person that made the referral.

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Actually side stepped part of the project.

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And so I should have been going through
that person and they should have been

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the point of contact for the client.

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But what happened was the client ended
up being a direct point of contact

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with me and then tried to like, after
the fact say, well, I was under the

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impression it was gonna this, it was
gonna, that it was gonna, the other

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thing, and here's the truth of it, and
I'm just gonna be blunt and say it.

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We needed the money.

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Right.

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So I was like, ah, do I give this person
their money back and tell 'em to hit the

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skids or do I keep the project every time?

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You have that doubt,
this is coming from me.

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Give the money back, figure
it out some other way.

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Give the money back.

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this woman was incredibly unethical.

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I wanna put this in my disclaimers.

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I want to do this.

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I, I'm gonna take this material
from this person's website and

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embed it in my own website.

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It's like horribly unethical things.

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And I'm like, I can't do that for you.

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And then every time I would call
her unethical for something,

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she would get more angry at me.

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so I built the website.

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It was fully functional,
fully operational.

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I gave her access to the website.

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And then she disputed her fee with Stripe.

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And Stripe took all the money.

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So I did months of work.

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I took hours and hours and hours of
Zoom calls I never should have taken.

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And I worked with somebody that I
thought was a horrible, horrible person.

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And I did it all in good faith
with a smile thinking at least I'm

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getting paid and we need the money.

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Mm-hmm.

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And at the end, she stole the work, stole
the money, and Stripe never gave it back.

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Yeah.

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So that was my worst decision because
I knew I shouldn't have worked

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with the person, but I did anyway.

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Yeah.

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How about you?

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What's your worst decision?

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Toby Cryns: Yeah, I think, it's
similar actually in the sense like,

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it's like, you know, once you have
an established business and you're

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like doing okay and you think you
can make it another month without a

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whole problem occurring financially,

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Kurt von Ahnen: you're gonna
buy meat instead of just beans.

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Toby Cryns: Yeah.

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Yeah.

00:22:48.665 --> 00:22:52.805
but like, so I was working, the,
the gist of it is similar, but

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like I did it for the money.

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Like, and I, I shouldn't have, like I, I
knew in my heart, in my head that in I was

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at a, a point where I could have walked
away and I stayed on for another three

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months and took on a huge responsibility.

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You know, just basically continued with
a different responsibility on a, and.

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Like I re it, it didn't, you know, it was
just kinda like, yeah, the money was good.

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They ended up paying, but like,
at the same time, it was like

00:23:23.495 --> 00:23:23.885
a regret.

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And this is the, the
lesson of a money ball too.

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At the end when, Brad Pitt's, I don't
know if it, again, it might just be in

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the book, but like basically Brad Pitt's
sitting there, uh uh, and the gist is

00:23:34.885 --> 00:23:36.745
like, you shouldn't do it for the money.

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Shouldn't do it for the money.

00:23:38.095 --> 00:23:38.545
Yeah.

00:23:38.755 --> 00:23:39.355
Doesn't matter how.

00:23:39.355 --> 00:23:41.545
And he got offered millions
and millions, not Brad Pitt,

00:23:41.545 --> 00:23:42.805
but his character in real life.

00:23:42.885 --> 00:23:45.765
Billy Beam got offered
millions of dollars to skip.

00:23:45.885 --> 00:23:48.285
His thing was he skipped college
and went straight to the pros.

00:23:48.285 --> 00:23:50.595
But what he really wanted to
do was go to college and party

00:23:50.595 --> 00:23:52.155
and play baseball in college.

00:23:52.725 --> 00:23:56.945
so, yeah, if you can swing it now,
I'm not saying sometimes you need

00:23:56.945 --> 00:24:01.075
the money and you, you know, you
do the best you can, but, I think

00:24:01.075 --> 00:24:02.605
you gotta at least listen to your.

00:24:03.565 --> 00:24:04.825
Head and heart in those cases.

00:24:04.825 --> 00:24:08.395
And maybe that when you feel that
maybe it's like about setting better

00:24:08.395 --> 00:24:10.195
boundaries around the project.

00:24:10.225 --> 00:24:10.555
Yeah.

00:24:10.705 --> 00:24:11.605
When you feel that.

00:24:12.205 --> 00:24:14.875
Kurt von Ahnen: So I'm gonna hit
you with a personal question.

00:24:17.005 --> 00:24:21.775
Hindsight being 2020, if you look
back, did you need the money?

00:24:23.755 --> 00:24:26.075
Toby Cryns: No, not, oh, you mean,
for that project specifically?

00:24:26.075 --> 00:24:26.315
Exactly.

00:24:26.375 --> 00:24:27.560
Or No, I didn't.

00:24:27.720 --> 00:24:28.040
I didn't.

00:24:28.520 --> 00:24:30.470
Kurt von Ahnen: And that's
exactly where my head goes.

00:24:30.800 --> 00:24:36.830
So when, so in the moment, we panic
and, and we don't allow ourselves to

00:24:36.830 --> 00:24:42.410
make calm decisions, and that's when
we make bungled decisions and moves.

00:24:42.830 --> 00:24:46.340
So when I look back on this
project, this project, by the way,

00:24:46.340 --> 00:24:48.230
full disclosure, was only $3,000.

00:24:48.820 --> 00:24:53.170
the amount of Zoom calls alone was worth
$3,000, let alone the woman was doing.

00:24:53.260 --> 00:24:57.850
This woman was so greedy and so crazy
that she was, she was like a lunatic.

00:24:58.510 --> 00:25:04.090
The reason I knew that she was
gonna ask for a refund was the last

00:25:04.090 --> 00:25:07.600
Zoom call I had with her was in
one of those pay by the day motels.

00:25:08.440 --> 00:25:12.250
Like she turned on the zoom call
and there was like a tornado

00:25:12.250 --> 00:25:13.630
had went off in this hotel room.

00:25:13.990 --> 00:25:15.790
And I'm like, what happened to her office?

00:25:15.850 --> 00:25:16.660
Where's her house?

00:25:16.750 --> 00:25:18.100
Where's where is this woman?

00:25:18.640 --> 00:25:19.000
You know?

00:25:19.000 --> 00:25:21.040
And I was like, oh, she's broke.

00:25:21.040 --> 00:25:23.170
And now she's gonna
ask for her money back.

00:25:23.230 --> 00:25:23.650
Right?

00:25:23.920 --> 00:25:26.020
But it's like you see it and you know it.

00:25:26.410 --> 00:25:31.990
And I foolishly stuck with the project
and looking back, hindsight being

00:25:31.990 --> 00:25:35.110
2020, I didn't need that $3,000.

00:25:35.320 --> 00:25:37.060
I didn't need that $3,000 at all.

00:25:37.075 --> 00:25:40.465
Yeah, we just talked on our last
episode about how sometimes you fire

00:25:40.465 --> 00:25:44.035
customers and, and when you let something
go, something better comes along.

00:25:44.605 --> 00:25:44.725
Mm-hmm.

00:25:45.085 --> 00:25:48.115
And right after she got all of her
money back from Stripe, I landed like

00:25:48.115 --> 00:25:49.975
three great jobs right after that.

00:25:50.215 --> 00:25:50.275
Yeah.

00:25:50.515 --> 00:25:54.235
And I had the opportunity to
take great jobs before that

00:25:54.235 --> 00:25:55.315
if I wasn't working with her.

00:25:56.005 --> 00:25:56.365
Yeah.

00:25:56.940 --> 00:25:57.280
You know?

00:25:57.700 --> 00:25:58.120
Mm-hmm.

00:25:58.200 --> 00:26:00.535
We gotta patient and we
gotta make smart choices.

00:26:01.645 --> 00:26:04.965
Toby Cryns: And this, this leads me
to, A quote, somebody said maybe a

00:26:04.965 --> 00:26:09.225
week or so ago, it says, at what point
do you say even your husband couldn't

00:26:09.225 --> 00:26:12.915
take your BS and then set them loose,

00:26:15.015 --> 00:26:15.585
even your husband couldn't take your bs.

00:26:15.885 --> 00:26:17.295
Kurt von Ahnen: Would you
ever say that to somebody?

00:26:19.125 --> 00:26:19.665
Toby Cryns: I wouldn't.

00:26:19.665 --> 00:26:20.415
Would you, Kurt?

00:26:20.655 --> 00:26:21.015
Kurt von Ahnen: No.

00:26:21.315 --> 00:26:21.435
No.

00:26:21.435 --> 00:26:25.660
I, I might rephrase it some,
but but I, I wouldn't say that.

00:26:26.140 --> 00:26:28.185
yeah, when people act nuts, when they act.

00:26:29.125 --> 00:26:31.075
Disconnected and, and crazy.

00:26:31.345 --> 00:26:32.785
You gotta circle the wagons, man.

00:26:32.785 --> 00:26:37.585
And you gotta be direct and be a
leader and say, Hey, as, as someone

00:26:37.585 --> 00:26:41.485
that's managing this project, I feel
like we're off the rails a little bit.

00:26:41.485 --> 00:26:42.865
We gotta gather this back up.

00:26:43.375 --> 00:26:44.755
I've worked with projects before.

00:26:44.755 --> 00:26:48.175
I have seen, I worked with
a wonderful lesbian couple.

00:26:48.175 --> 00:26:49.255
They were hilarious.

00:26:49.345 --> 00:26:52.080
And, we, we didn't align on
certain beliefs and stuff,

00:26:52.080 --> 00:26:53.400
but, but they were hilarious.

00:26:53.400 --> 00:26:54.980
Like they were, they,
they were into other like.

00:26:55.805 --> 00:26:59.365
I'm a Christian, they were in other kinds
of religions and things and and then they

00:26:59.365 --> 00:27:01.405
ended up breaking up through the deal.

00:27:01.405 --> 00:27:05.125
But I saw it happening, like I saw
like, oh, they're not gonna make it.

00:27:05.485 --> 00:27:08.185
and it's weird when you're just
a web person and you're working

00:27:08.185 --> 00:27:11.665
on a project with a couple,
you can tell something's wrong.

00:27:11.785 --> 00:27:16.365
I was doing one on a beautiful
couple from, Texas and.

00:27:16.880 --> 00:27:20.060
they had someone in their family had
gotten injured and that postponed

00:27:20.060 --> 00:27:21.260
the project for a little bit.

00:27:21.350 --> 00:27:23.540
And then they're an older couple.

00:27:23.540 --> 00:27:25.880
One of them started getting a
little more sickly, and I was

00:27:25.880 --> 00:27:27.050
like, this ain't gonna work.

00:27:27.290 --> 00:27:27.980
This ain't gonna work.

00:27:28.040 --> 00:27:30.470
And we were so close to
launch and it never launched.

00:27:30.590 --> 00:27:30.920
Right.

00:27:31.400 --> 00:27:34.340
divorces, deaths, strokes, heart attacks.

00:27:34.700 --> 00:27:35.660
I've seen it all.

00:27:37.490 --> 00:27:37.850
Oh, yeah.

00:27:38.690 --> 00:27:41.120
The divorce ones are hard
because it's like mm-hmm.

00:27:42.185 --> 00:27:43.625
Who's in charge of the project then?

00:27:45.455 --> 00:27:45.785
Right.

00:27:46.175 --> 00:27:50.435
From a selfish perspective, who's, who am
I sending these invoices to Every month

00:27:52.085 --> 00:27:55.925
Toby Cryns: there's an agency
in town that's going a bigger,

00:27:55.925 --> 00:27:57.365
a bigger, agency in town.

00:27:57.545 --> 00:28:01.985
They're going through a divorce
thing with their two co-owners.

00:28:02.135 --> 00:28:04.655
I mean, the owners are
married, they're, you know.

00:28:04.655 --> 00:28:04.715
Yeah.

00:28:04.715 --> 00:28:09.605
And, and the, I only know 'cause my
friend was an employee there and like.

00:28:10.115 --> 00:28:15.905
He's like, it's weird man, because like
one spouse will come and tell him to do

00:28:15.905 --> 00:28:18.755
something, the other spouse will show up
a minute later and be like, don't do that.

00:28:18.755 --> 00:28:20.525
Do this, don't do that, do this.

00:28:21.425 --> 00:28:25.805
He's just like, I'm in the middle
of a freaking divorce thing now.

00:28:26.855 --> 00:28:28.265
Like, yep.

00:28:30.965 --> 00:28:34.035
Could we, Maybe, this might be the,
the all we have time for today.

00:28:34.035 --> 00:28:35.685
We left a cliffhanger last week.

00:28:36.055 --> 00:28:40.165
the question was, is managed WP dying,
but over the course, the course of the

00:28:40.165 --> 00:28:45.025
week, I kind of was thinking about it
more deeply and the question is not for

00:28:45.025 --> 00:28:47.515
me, it's not so much is managed WP dying.

00:28:47.545 --> 00:28:51.415
That's a question I have, but
like the core of the question is

00:28:51.415 --> 00:28:55.705
at what point as an agency owner
do you jump ship on a technology?

00:28:56.095 --> 00:29:00.775
That is no longer getting the job done
for you and you have, knowing you have.

00:29:00.835 --> 00:29:05.315
And so examples for me over the course
of time, 15 years ago, host Gator.

00:29:05.525 --> 00:29:07.625
I jumped host Gator to someone else.

00:29:07.625 --> 00:29:11.945
And, you know, divvy was a core
development tool I used to use.

00:29:11.945 --> 00:29:13.115
I no longer use it.

00:29:13.985 --> 00:29:16.595
we currently use Basecamp
for project management.

00:29:16.595 --> 00:29:20.675
We're switching to Clickup and All
of these are big processes, have big

00:29:20.675 --> 00:29:22.145
processes along, along with them.

00:29:22.145 --> 00:29:26.045
'cause we have employees and a hundred
websites that we're migrating in some

00:29:26.045 --> 00:29:30.365
cases and, you know, so when, how do
you think about infrastructure change

00:29:30.425 --> 00:29:32.015
like that, like tech infrastructure?

00:29:33.215 --> 00:29:36.155
Kurt von Ahnen: You mentioned
one that scares the, the, the

00:29:36.155 --> 00:29:37.805
life outta me and that is.

00:29:38.420 --> 00:29:43.940
If you as an agency wanna migrate
50 or a hundred or 200 or 400

00:29:43.940 --> 00:29:46.500
websites, from one host to another.

00:29:47.640 --> 00:29:53.970
And I'm gonna go back to, hey, if these
are brochure websites and you can do

00:29:53.970 --> 00:29:59.010
like, you know, WP Vivid, vivid, WP,
whatever, and just migrate simple

00:29:59.010 --> 00:30:00.810
sites over, like that's okay, great.

00:30:00.810 --> 00:30:01.260
Perfect.

00:30:01.290 --> 00:30:01.680
Whatever.

00:30:01.710 --> 00:30:02.310
Have a great day.

00:30:02.670 --> 00:30:03.300
Enjoy yourself.

00:30:03.660 --> 00:30:05.760
If you're doing projects that have.

00:30:06.180 --> 00:30:10.650
you know, shopping carts, courses,
you know, e-learning systems in them,

00:30:10.900 --> 00:30:16.810
community sites, dynamic content where
like, this person paid a subscription

00:30:16.810 --> 00:30:21.190
at midnight, but the website was
turned off at 1202 and then turned

00:30:21.190 --> 00:30:22.840
back on at six o'clock in the morning.

00:30:23.140 --> 00:30:23.620
And then.

00:30:24.355 --> 00:30:28.465
All of those transactions for those eight
hours don't get recorded in the database.

00:30:28.465 --> 00:30:28.675
Right?

00:30:28.675 --> 00:30:30.475
And then you get all these support emails.

00:30:30.505 --> 00:30:33.415
It just, managing it is crazy.

00:30:33.505 --> 00:30:35.395
'cause then you end up
having to say, Hey Mr.

00:30:35.395 --> 00:30:38.845
Customer, we're gonna be doing some
site maintenance, quote unquote, and

00:30:38.845 --> 00:30:40.315
you're gonna be down for 24 hours.

00:30:40.465 --> 00:30:43.135
And then you gotta pray that you
can get everything done in 24 hours.

00:30:43.735 --> 00:30:44.635
it is difficult.

00:30:44.755 --> 00:30:46.105
And I'm gonna go one step further.

00:30:46.855 --> 00:30:49.765
I have been working in a host lately.

00:30:50.965 --> 00:30:52.315
I can't explain it, Toby.

00:30:52.315 --> 00:30:54.205
Everything is just more difficult.

00:30:54.325 --> 00:30:58.525
Everything is more difficult, and
it's, it's a co-hosted, not co-hosted.

00:30:58.525 --> 00:31:03.115
It's a, it's a co-managed situation,
so we're basically subcontracting

00:31:03.115 --> 00:31:07.075
on this and it's like everything
needs an external crown job set up.

00:31:07.075 --> 00:31:09.595
Everything needs PHP workers increased.

00:31:09.595 --> 00:31:13.375
Everything needs, it's like what
is happening, like the sites

00:31:13.465 --> 00:31:18.055
don't seem to function well unless
we dot every I across every T.

00:31:18.055 --> 00:31:19.555
Whereas in other hosts, I go.

00:31:19.915 --> 00:31:24.055
Slap up the website, put in
the tools, add an SMTP, Bob's

00:31:24.055 --> 00:31:25.135
your uncle, we got a website.

00:31:25.705 --> 00:31:28.105
and it's, it's just not
the same with other tools.

00:31:28.435 --> 00:31:31.465
And you as an agency man, you gotta
know what you're getting into.

00:31:31.525 --> 00:31:35.365
You can't just say, you know, how
many sites for how many dollars a

00:31:35.365 --> 00:31:37.585
month and how do I access support?

00:31:37.585 --> 00:31:38.635
And then move everything over.

00:31:38.965 --> 00:31:40.465
You gotta know what you're
really stepping into.

00:31:41.530 --> 00:31:44.755
Toby Cryns: And, and I think there's
a, a, a pretty big difference.

00:31:44.755 --> 00:31:47.125
So like a lot of those
migrations probably.

00:31:47.800 --> 00:31:50.020
Need like an internal person?

00:31:50.020 --> 00:31:52.780
Yeah, like ideally it would
be like some employee at the

00:31:52.780 --> 00:31:54.700
company that knows the system.

00:31:55.540 --> 00:31:59.170
and a lot of times in agency land you
don't have that we're like external.

00:31:59.290 --> 00:32:01.690
We're like just like, yeah,
we're gonna migrate the site.

00:32:02.140 --> 00:32:06.070
You know, we don't know, we don't
know the business processes as deeply.

00:32:06.600 --> 00:32:09.750
I moved, migrated, so I used to
work at Lumi deodorant and I was

00:32:09.750 --> 00:32:14.910
their CTO and I managed a migration
of 300,000 WordPress users.

00:32:15.665 --> 00:32:17.075
to Shopify users.

00:32:17.075 --> 00:32:19.625
And these are paid
subscriptions and stuff?

00:32:19.655 --> 00:32:19.775
Yeah.

00:32:19.855 --> 00:32:20.905
we did it at noon.

00:32:20.995 --> 00:32:22.255
This is a funny story too.

00:32:22.675 --> 00:32:23.965
I'm, I it was my choice.

00:32:23.965 --> 00:32:26.875
I'm like, we're doing it at
noon on a Friday and here's why.

00:32:26.875 --> 00:32:28.945
And yeah, no noon on a Monday.

00:32:28.945 --> 00:32:29.815
I think it was a Tuesday.

00:32:29.875 --> 00:32:30.505
I'm like, we're doing it.

00:32:30.505 --> 00:32:32.365
And this was pre-planned
and, and it was intentional.

00:32:32.395 --> 00:32:36.355
'cause like how many times have
you experienced maybe like, we

00:32:36.355 --> 00:32:37.855
need you to do this at midnight.

00:32:38.575 --> 00:32:42.505
And you wake up at midnight, you
do it, but you're groggy, you miss

00:32:42.505 --> 00:32:45.355
something, and then you go to bed,
and then in the morning there's

00:32:45.355 --> 00:32:49.855
more problems because you miss those
eight hours or whatever, 1700 emails.

00:32:49.905 --> 00:32:50.355
yeah.

00:32:50.625 --> 00:32:56.085
And so I, I, I still get flack from it,
from the Lumi team because I'm like,

00:32:56.085 --> 00:32:58.125
no, we're doing this at noon on Tuesday.

00:32:58.155 --> 00:32:59.235
We're gonna have a good plan.

00:32:59.670 --> 00:33:02.070
I'll be fully ready to go.

00:33:02.070 --> 00:33:04.260
You'll be here to notice any issues.

00:33:04.260 --> 00:33:09.840
We have everyone on the phone, like at the
distribution center, like, but that, like

00:33:09.840 --> 00:33:14.130
for a lot of these, I imagine a lot of the
sites you would have to migrate if they

00:33:14.130 --> 00:33:15.780
have a lot of like thousands of users.

00:33:16.200 --> 00:33:19.590
You've, it's really tough to
do externally as an agency.

00:33:20.250 --> 00:33:20.700
Kurt von Ahnen: Yeah.

00:33:21.990 --> 00:33:22.380
In.

00:33:23.010 --> 00:33:23.790
Upgrading.

00:33:23.790 --> 00:33:27.540
So if you're on certain host packages
and you upgrade to a different

00:33:27.540 --> 00:33:31.860
type of server within their system,
that always amazes me, right?

00:33:31.860 --> 00:33:35.160
Because you can just hit them up on chat
and say, oh, I wanna move this website

00:33:35.160 --> 00:33:37.500
to this other, you know, upgrade server.

00:33:37.590 --> 00:33:40.590
And they just go, hold on, let me
look at that for you real quick.

00:33:40.860 --> 00:33:42.780
And then 10 minutes later,
like, okay, it's ready to go.

00:33:43.685 --> 00:33:44.105
Mm-hmm.

00:33:44.205 --> 00:33:45.390
And I'm not a host.

00:33:45.390 --> 00:33:47.550
Like I, I'm like, how did
that happen so quickly?

00:33:47.550 --> 00:33:50.400
I go into the website, everything
works, everything's 10 times faster,

00:33:50.400 --> 00:33:52.110
and you go, oh, that was great.

00:33:52.485 --> 00:33:56.235
But if you gotta take that same
project and you gotta take it from,

00:33:56.775 --> 00:34:00.969
you know, cloud ways to Kinter,
Kinter to WP Engine or whatever, it's.

00:34:01.350 --> 00:34:06.270
It's a nightmare moving thousands of
users and all their content and then

00:34:06.300 --> 00:34:09.030
doing that whole like screenshot exercise.

00:34:09.030 --> 00:34:11.880
Like, okay, does the
homepage look the same?

00:34:11.880 --> 00:34:13.650
Does the about page look the same?

00:34:13.650 --> 00:34:15.389
Does the contact page look the same?

00:34:15.449 --> 00:34:17.429
And then let's try and do a I.

00:34:17.734 --> 00:34:22.054
You know, a make believe student
enrollment with a 99% off coupon.

00:34:22.384 --> 00:34:23.344
And so we try that.

00:34:23.344 --> 00:34:25.024
Then we go, oh crap, that doesn't work.

00:34:25.024 --> 00:34:25.745
What's broken?

00:34:26.074 --> 00:34:30.394
And then you gotta go through, okay,
you know, SMTP external chron, you, you

00:34:30.394 --> 00:34:34.564
gotta make sure all the everything's
in place it, and then multiply that by

00:34:34.624 --> 00:34:36.754
50 websites in a weekend or something.

00:34:36.964 --> 00:34:37.475
It's crazy.

00:34:37.504 --> 00:34:37.834
Toby Cryns: Yeah.

00:34:38.225 --> 00:34:41.794
And it's weird that the in as I
thought about that, like the incentive

00:34:42.124 --> 00:34:46.054
structure, it, it's, it's really.

00:34:46.469 --> 00:34:49.439
The reason you need an internal
person for that migration is

00:34:49.439 --> 00:34:54.089
like they're incentivized to
think through all those problems.

00:34:54.120 --> 00:34:58.649
Whereas like an external agency like we
run, the incentives are just different.

00:34:58.919 --> 00:35:04.740
Like we're not, even if we got fired, it's
probably not the end of our world like it

00:35:04.740 --> 00:35:06.149
would be if you were an employee there.

00:35:06.629 --> 00:35:10.469
and is they also like every minute
we spend on that project is a minute

00:35:10.469 --> 00:35:11.939
we don't spend on another project.

00:35:11.969 --> 00:35:12.059
Yep.

00:35:12.749 --> 00:35:15.389
And other client's not getting
the attention, you know, the

00:35:15.389 --> 00:35:18.359
phone call that they need where
I'm, you know, it's tricky.

00:35:18.419 --> 00:35:21.929
It's really tricky, I think to
navigate as an agency owner.

00:35:22.679 --> 00:35:23.009
Yeah.

00:35:23.054 --> 00:35:25.204
Kurt von Ahnen: Yeah,
it's, I kind of dread it.

00:35:25.384 --> 00:35:28.684
It's, I remember when I went
from, I used to have a ton of

00:35:28.684 --> 00:35:30.394
stuff on Bluehost back in the day.

00:35:30.884 --> 00:35:32.954
and I think a lot of
agencies start out this way.

00:35:32.954 --> 00:35:36.434
So if you're in that position, don't
go, oh, Kurt's making me feel bad.

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I'm not trying to make you feel bad.

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You gotta start somewhere.

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I used to love Bluehost 'cause I could
register unlimited URLs and I could

00:35:43.354 --> 00:35:46.474
throw sites into my hosting account
and I could move things around.

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And they were great for
like, proof of concept sites.

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You know, like if I, I, I could throw a
lifter, LMS in there and, and I could,

00:35:53.194 --> 00:35:56.164
you know, put in content and build a
course and let people see a sample of

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what something was gonna look like.

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But sooner or later I had projects
that had more success, more users,

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and I had to say, okay, I need, I need
more bandwidth, I need less caching.

00:36:06.904 --> 00:36:09.424
I need, you know, 'cause these
dynamic sites, if they're heavily

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cashed, run into some problems.

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And so I ended up having to move
some things over to a different host.

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And that to me was like, oh, this is work.

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This is, this is difficult.

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And so now I try really hard to do
the research before the decision and

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then make sure that when I make that
decision, I'm locked in for a while.

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Toby Cryns: Yeah.

00:36:30.589 --> 00:36:30.679
Yeah.

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That's, the scars have bred
that planfulness in you.

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Kurt von Ahnen: Yeah.

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And then the other thing to
remember, and this is gonna, this

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is just agency to agency advice.

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If you choose a host that has a
bunch of extra bells and whistles,

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just remember the people that you're
developing these projects for.

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They don't need those bells and whistles.

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Like, I don't share everything that
my host will do with my clients.

00:36:56.949 --> 00:36:58.509
There's no way, like I'm not
gonna say, oh, you could have

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unlimited emails on your URL.

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Like, I'm right.

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I'm just not, I am not babysitting 25.

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Email accounts on, you know, well, I want
to have help at my URL services at my URL

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uhhuh people at my u rl support at my url.

00:37:11.779 --> 00:37:12.319
No, you don't.

00:37:12.439 --> 00:37:14.479
No, you, you want info at
your URL and that's it.

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That's all you get.

00:37:17.539 --> 00:37:18.260
That is all you get.

00:37:18.260 --> 00:37:19.734
That's all you get what email for you?

00:37:20.329 --> 00:37:20.449
Yeah.

00:37:20.449 --> 00:37:22.849
You could sign up for Google
Workspaces That'll run your email.

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but it's, I'm very strategic about the way
that I manage that because even though the

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host I chose will do all kinds of really
cool things, I am not giving my clients

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exposure to the really cool things that
I have to manage and, and maintain and,

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and keep the expectation level high with.

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'cause all they really
wanted was the website.

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Toby Cryns: Mm-hmm.

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Cool.

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Great way to end it.

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Here, I'll take this out.

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This has been an episode of
whose WordPress agency is this?

00:37:49.779 --> 00:37:53.049
Anyway, with Kurt Van Onin and myself, Mr.

00:37:53.139 --> 00:37:53.889
Toby Kres.

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we'll see you next week.