Most people don't actually want to change their life. They want to talk about it, plan it, and complain about not doing it. But they won't take action because change is uncomfortable.
In this week's episode, I'm getting real about why so many people stay stuck. We're covering:
- Why consuming endless content keeps you trapped in the same place
- The mental gymnastics we do to avoid discomfort
- How your identity is the hand that guides everything you do
- The three things that make up your identity (and how to change them)
- Why "I'm not motivated" is actually "I don't want to be uncomfortable"
- Questions to ask yourself if you're serious about changing
This isn't a gentle pep talk. This is the truth you need to hear if you're fed up of being in the same place six months from now.
You either find a reason to avoid it or you find a way to do it. Those are your two options.
Also in this episode: details about our free Elevation event on November 29th (1pm-4pm UK time). Three hours that could genuinely change your life. No replays. Either you carve out the time for yourself or you don't.
Want to attend Elevation?
Click here to grab a free ticketStop planning. Stop consuming. Start doing.
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