Why do so many of us struggle to live authentically, even when we know who we are deep down? Leona deVinne reveals that finding joy isn't about positive thinking or life hacks – it's about doing the brave work of owning who you really are.
Through the JOY framework and three powerful personas, this episode provides a research-backed roadmap from clarity to confidence to courage. You'll discover why we choose belonging over authenticity and learn practical ways to stop living as "adult software running on childhood algorithms."
In this episode, we explore:
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00:38) Why authenticity is the bravest work we'll ever do
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01:23) How childhood attachment needs shape adult behavior
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03:05) Why we choose belonging over being real
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05:33) Grace as the pathway to true self-clarity
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08:04) The five-minute writing practice for self-discovery
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10:23) How to practice self-compassion like a loving friend
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12:15) Why joy requires courage over comfort
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14:38) The 5% braver question that changes everything
The JOY Journey
The JOY Journey is an online space for women ready to reconnect, reset, and grow – at your own pace or alongside a supportive community.
What you get:
- 10 emails each month with simple, research-backed tools
- Guided meditations, journalling prompts, and practical techniques
- Ongoing support designed to help changes actually stick
- Access to a dedicated app with all content anytime
Community option:
- Live sessions twice a month (1 hour)
- Reflect, write, and connect with others on the same path
- Fridays at 11:30 MT
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What is Finding Joy?
Finding Joy is a podcast about what it means to truly live.
Because too many of us are building lives around who we think we should be instead of who we really are.
Hosted by speaker, leadership facilitator, coach, and author Leona deVinne, Finding Joy explores the conversations that help us reconnect with ourselves, find the courage to stop performing, and start living with authenticity, not apology.
Through honest conversations, powerful stories, and practical insights grounded in psychology, neuroscience, leadership, and lived experience, Leona explores what helps us live with greater clarity, confidence, courage, and meaning.
Some episodes feature ordinary people navigating extraordinary circumstances. Others unpack ideas around identity, resilience, burnout, confidence, boundaries, leadership, relationships and what it takes to create a life that actually feels like your own.
Because joy is not something we chase.
It is often what finds us when we finally own who we are.