Kindness
Kindness has that middle-child syndrome. Yes, it’s a fruit of the Spirit. But I think we have a funny relationship with the word. We know that we are to be kind. We know a few people who we would describe as kind.
But if we’re being honest, do we really STRIVE for kindness? I think we relegate it to “random acts of kindness” or consider it to be a name of a granola bar, or (if you’re from Waco) you know we have “Be Kind” coffee shops here!
But, how important is kindness, and it is a quality that makes us quiet, meek, and timid?
NO!
Remember, after David recounted all his many savage military triumphs in 2 Samuel 8, we see him sitting on his throne asking himself and everyone around him is there anyone left in the house of Jonathan that he can show KINDNESS to!!!!
Kindness was David’s goal! So, how can it be ours?
- Think Kindness. Is Jesus holding your thoughts captive? Are you meditating on God’s word? Do you strive to have self-control in your thought life? Sometimes, I get bugged by people who aren’t like me. When I think a hurtful thought about someone I don’t see eye to eye with, I stop and center on one redeeming quality about the person no matter how long it takes.
- Speak Kindness. Make yourself say kind words to and about people. Bite your tongue when you need to. The Bible says we are to be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger. When you feel yourself speaking overly critical about someone, stop!
- Do Kindness. Act on the Spirit’s prompting, especially when its inconvenient! Practice kindness and see the benefits. I promise you’ll want more of it in your life.
Make the KINDNESS challenge something you and your mentee can do together. Challenge each other and encourage each other! It will be a fun and bonding experience.
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