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Romans 8:16–18

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The Spirit Himself
bears witness with our spirit

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that we are children of God,
and if children, then heirs

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heirs of God and fellow heirs
with Christ, provided

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we suffer with him, in order
that we may also be glorified with him.

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For I consider
that the sufferings of this present time

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are not worth comparing with the glory
that is to be revealed

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to us.

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Well,

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welcome to the weekend here at Christ
Community Chapel.

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We're so glad
that we get to be part of your weekend.

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My name is Zach,

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I'm one of the pastors here,
and we're so glad you're here.

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And hey, if you're watching this on video
on Sunday,

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it's because I'm out at the tent.

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Thanks for being here this weekend.

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We are in week
three of our four-week sermon series

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we're calling More Than Religion.

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It's been pretty a pretty simple series.

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The focus has been on
how God is really not interested

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in religious formality
or religious ritual,

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but instead in us, in our hearts,
in relationship with us.

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That's who he is. That's what he wants.

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Two weeks ago, we talked about how God
the Father has designed us

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for relationship.

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He built us with that in mind.

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And then last week we looked at how Jesus
Christ, his son, has earned our access

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to that relationship in his life
and his death and his resurrection.

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He's gone before us to prepare a room
in the father's house.

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And this week, we're going to be talking
a little more practical

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in terms of what
that relationship actually looks like.

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What does it look like to have
a relationship with God and including

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asking the question, how can you be sure
if you have a relationship with God?

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So to do that, we're going to be looking
at Romans chapter eight, verse 16

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through 18.

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But full disclosure, this is some old
school Bible teaching we'll be all over

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so I recommend just watching the screens

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and writing the verses down,
and then you can look them up later.

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I have three points I'm going to use
to guide our time together.

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Very simple.

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And they go like this three words.

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Actually I want to talk about presence,

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prepositions, and promise.

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Okay, presence, prepositions, and promise.

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All right, let's start
first with presence.

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I don't know if you've ever thought
about this, but in life there are

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natural relationships and what I'll call
a supernatural relationships.

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I don't mean like with aliens or anything.

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That's not what I mean.

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What I mean is

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there are some relationships
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because you take the steps
that you're supposed to take,

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and then there are others
that you just can't explain that way.

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Like consider getting a job, like building
a career that's a natural relationship.

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Do you want to work at a place?

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You figure out what the requirements
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You get a degree to unlock the door.

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You get an interview,
you wear what you think they'll like.

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You say the things you think they'll like.

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Then you get the job

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and you do the things you know
they want you to do in order to move up.

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When you tell the story of your career,
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you've taken, decisions
you've made, doors you have unlocked.

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That's a natural relationship.

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Falling in love is very different.

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So if I were telling you
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and I said, yeah,
I just did a lot of research about her

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online, I figured out what she likes
for guys to wear

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and how she likes for guys
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and I kind of hung out in the spaces
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the things she talked about,

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kind of just observed her from a distance
and figured out what her hobbies were

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like. Zach, you're describing a felony.

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That's that's stalking, right?

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That's because they're not the same.

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Like like you want to be loved
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I want to be loved
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I mean, there are
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But I want my wife to say, you know,
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you know,
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I want there to be some something

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inexplicable,
something she didn't manufacture

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because getting a job and falling in love,

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they're not the same kind
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And I say that to ask this question.

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Well,
which one is a relationship with God?

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Is it natural?

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Meaning the way you get a relationship
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You you take the steps,
you do the things you're supposed to do.

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And over time, you unlock access to God.

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Or is it a little more like
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you can't manufacture to it?

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Well, I think the answer is the latter.

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It's a little more like falling in love.

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And one of the places the Bible says
that is our passage this weekend.

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Here's what Paul says in Romans
eight verses 16 through 18.

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He says, the spirit himself bears

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witness with our spirit
that we are children of God.

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And if children, then heirs, heirs of God
and fellow heirs with Christ, provided

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we suffer with him in order
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be glorified with him.

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The the point Paul is making is here's
how you know.

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He's saying you have a relationship
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It's through the presence
of the Holy Spirit in your life.

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Now the Bible tells us that
there's one God, but he is three persons

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father, son, and spirit, one
and yet three, three, and yet one.

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And if you're like, man,
that's hard to understand.

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That's not a sign.

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You're not getting it. It's a sign
you are getting it. Okay.

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That's because I don't know
if this makes sense the way I teach it.

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Like even when I teach kids,
there's nothing.

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If there is a God,
there would be nothing like him, right?

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He. He wouldn't
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There'd be nothing and no one like him.

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And so when the Bible says God is one
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we go, man, that's hard to understand.

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Yeah, but doesn't that make sense?

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God would be hard to understand.

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He wouldn't fit neatly in any of our boxes
or categories.

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Even.

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Sometimes people will be like, well,
can you give me an analogy or a metaphor?

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And the answer is no, not really.

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No, I can't,
because there's no one like God.

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There's nothing like God.

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He's one in yet three, three,
and yet one father, son and spirit.

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The father designed us for relationship.

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The son earned our relationship
the spirit, his presence in our lives

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is the evidence
that we actually have the relationship.

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To explain this, let me reference.

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We won't read it, but just reference

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another part of the Bible
in the book of Ezekiel.

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Ezekiel was a prophet.

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His job was to tell the people
what God wanted for them.

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In 37 God has.

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There's this vision God gives
Ezekiel of a valley of dry bones.

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And the reason
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is because this is not like
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These are like more like Indiana Jones
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kind of bones like
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There's no organic matter on them.

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That guy's kneebone is there.

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And his his arm bone is there.

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You get it?

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It's an old scene.

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And God says to his, Ezekiel,
can these bones live?

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And Ezekiel does what you should do.

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When God asks you a question like that,
he's like, I don't know, God.

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What do you think?

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And God says, watch this, basically.

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And he causes the bones to come alive.

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And then he tells Ezekiel, he says, hey,
one day I'm going to pour out my spirit

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and I'm going to make people who are dead
come alive.

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That's what Paul is talking about.

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To become a Christian is not to wake up
one day and be like, you know what?

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I need to get serious about my faith.

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I need to take some steps towards God.

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I need to modify my behavior.

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No, no, no. It's not like getting a job.

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To become a Christian is to experience
the presence of the Spirit of God.

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Your story would go like this
I was dry bones.

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I was dead, and then I came alive.

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To be a Christian is not a natural
relationship.

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It's a supernatural relationship.

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Now that begs the question, of course,
for you to say, well, wait a minute.

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Hold on.

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How how do I know if I have that?

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Because,
you know, every survey that comes out,

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they'll say 80% of Americans
or so will say that they're Christians.

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But I don't think that's what they mean.

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I don't think 80% of Americans are going,
I was dead and I came alive,

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like I am experiencing the presence
of the Holy Spirit of God.

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I think what they mean is
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and I stand when they tell me to and sit
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And I try to live generously
and keep the rules.

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And so how do I know if I have
this presence of the Spirit of God?

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Well, that's my second point.

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Not just the presence of the Holy Spirit,
but prepositions.

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I have four prepositions
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what the presence of the Holy Spirit
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and then you can work through
hey, have I experienced this now?

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I think these are all prepositions.

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If you're an English teacher
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I have to do this a bunch of times
this weekend, so come see me.

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But whatever they are,
I needed to start with P.

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Okay, so just replace it with a p word.

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So prepositions for prepositions
I want to talk about on, in,

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for and through on in for and through.

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All right. Let's start with on.

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The first job of the Holy Spirit
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externally in to to cause us to see that
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bones, to see our need for God.

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This is the way Jesus describes it in
John 16.

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It'll be on the screen. Here's
what it says.

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And when he he hears the Holy Spirit,
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Jesus says he will convict the world

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concerning sin and righteousness
and judgment concerning sin,

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because they do not believe in me
concerning righteousness,

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because I go to the father,
and you will see me no longer concerning

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judgment,
because the ruler of this world is judge.

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Jesus says
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is to awaken people to the reality
that they have sinned against God,

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that they're under God's judgment,
that they're in rebellion to God,

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and they're in need of a remedy to that.

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Listen here.

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Here's the way

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I would say it in like our experience,
sometimes people will say to me,

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Pastor Zach, when you were preaching,
it was like you were talking to me.

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That's the spirit working on you.

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I don't know what's going on in your life.

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I'm not in my office like that guy.

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Third row, little to the left.

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This is going to nail him, right?

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I, I don't I don't have that kind
of infrastructure, that kind of network.

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That's the spirit.

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Sometimes people will say,

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I don't know why, but when I come,
I just get super emotional.

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That's the work of the spirit.

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I'll give it to you this way.

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At one time

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I was meeting this, this really bright
young woman in downtown Cleveland.

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We were
she was curious about Christianity.

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I was pastoring in Cleveland.

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We were talking
and she was a doctor, very bright.

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And and one day she we were meeting was
like the fifth of fifth or sixth meeting.

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And she asked me a question
that I couldn't

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I didn't have a great answer to,
and it frustrated me.

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Her name was Karen, and I just said,
Karen, let me ask you a question.

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Why do you meet with me?

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And she's like, I don't know.

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And I said, you're you're smarter than me.

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You're more educated than me.

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And I thought at some point she'd jump in
and be like, no, no, you're pretty smart.

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But she was just like, yep, yep.

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And I said, why do you keep meeting me
in this coffee shop to talk about Jesus?

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And she looked at me
and she said, I don't know.

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I just can't let it go.

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That's the spirit.

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That's the spirit working on you.

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Now, here's the thing.

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You may have experienced this.

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Sometimes that happens here in a big way.

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Like I'll be preaching
or we'll be in a moment

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where you can just sense God in the room.

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You can sense him moving.

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But but,

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you know, here's what you and I know on
is not enough because it goes away,

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you know,

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we'll experience this incredible moment,

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and then the service ends
and somebody goes, what's for lunch?

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And it's like, it's gone.

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You know,
it's like we've turned the page, right?

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So it's not just on that's on.

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Here's the second one in.

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Now this is where the real change happens.

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Not on us having us go. Man.

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I feel like maybe I'm at odds with God.

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I feel like I need some solution
for God in

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is when who I am begins to change.

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Like the
things I want, the things I value,

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the way I feel about God, the way I feel
about Jesus, everything begins to change.

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This is how Paul describes
this in the Book of Titus.

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It'll be on the screen.

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He says this.

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He says he saved us.

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Listen, not because of works
done by us in righteousness,

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not a natural relationship,
but according to his own mercy,

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by the washing of regeneration
and renewal of the Holy Spirit,

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whom he poured out on us
richly through Jesus Christ our Savior.

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Here's what Paul saying.

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He's saying our relationship with God
is not like getting a job.

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He said, we didn't dry bones.

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Don't wake up one day and say,
you know what I want to do today?

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I'm going to come alive.

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And we don't do that with God.

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Instead, what happens is
the spirit begins to work in us.

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And you may have experienced this,
you start finding.

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I used to think all this stuff was silly,
and now people tell me all the time,

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I'll say, when did you become a Christian?

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And they'll go, maybe this is your story.

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They'll go, I don't know.

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I mean, I started coming,
I thought it was crazy,

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and then I was coming
and I didn't believe, but I was curious.

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And then I was coming and
I didn't believe, but I was interested.

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And then one day I woke
up and I was like, oh, no,

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I believe this stuff.

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That's the spirit working in you.

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One of my favorite stories
is another really bright

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young woman I was meeting with
in Cleveland, who her name was Alex.

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She had just become a Christian
and we were talking that day.

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We got coffee together
and and we were talking about

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what it means to follow Jesus.

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And she had just become a Christian.

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And I said, you know, I was just trying
to wrap it up and get home.

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And I said,
what are you doing this weekend?

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And she said, oh,
there's this big party on campus.

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And, and I'm going to go,

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there's a guy I'm interested
in, and I'm hoping we're going to hook up,

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which I really appreciated because
no one ever tells pastor stuff like that.

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Everybody I know,
all they do is read the Bible and pray

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and, you know, so I was just glad
someone was treating me like a human.

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But then I was like,

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oh man, I'm going to have to tell her
what Jesus says about that.

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And she is going to stop calling herself
a Christian after like 18 hours.

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And I just said, hey, Alex, do you mind if
I tell you what Jesus said about that?

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She said, no.

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And I took 30 minutes to walk her
through a biblical understanding

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of sexuality and, and covenant
and and all that.

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And at the end I said, what do you think?

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And she looked at me.
I'll never forget it.

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She looked at me, big smile on her face.

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She said, well, it looks like I'm going
to have to make new plans for the weekend.

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And I said, really?

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And she goes, listen, I can't explain it.
I love Jesus.

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Whatever he wants is what I think is best.

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How do you explain that?

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You don't, you don't.

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She she didn't decide in 36 hours
to become a new person.

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The spirit wasn't just on her,
but he was working in her heart and in her

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mind, changing what she wanted, changing
what she valued, changing who she was.

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Not at a natural way,
but a super natural way.

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Here's the third one.

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You're going to love this if you don't
know this, not just on and in, but for.

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This is one of my favorite verses
in all of the Bible.

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Here's what Paul says in Romans eight,
just a little bit later than our passage.

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He says this.

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Likewise,
the spirit helps in our weakness,

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for we do not know what to pray
for as we ought, but the Spirit himself

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intercedes for us with groanings
too deep for words.

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And he who searches hearts knows
what is the mind of the spirit,

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because the spirit intercedes for
the saints according to the will of God.

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Here's a Paul saying, The Holy Spirit does
a number of things for you.

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You don't even know he's doing,
one of which is he prays for you.

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Things you would pray
if you knew what was coming.

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Think about that.

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The Holy Spirit is praying for you.

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Things you would pray so you don't know
when the next big thing is coming, right?

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You don't know
when the diagnosis is coming.

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You don't know when the career
is going to take a turn,

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when the relationship
is going to dissolve.

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But he does, and he's praying for you.

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Things
you don't even know on and in and for.

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How do you make God
pray for you to himself?

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You don't.

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He does it.

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It's not natural. It's supernatural.

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Here's the fourth one.

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On and in and for and through acts one
eight, Jesus says this to his disciples.

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He says, but you will receive power
when the Holy Spirit has come upon you,

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and you will be my witnesses

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in Jerusalem, and all Judea and Samaria,
and to the ends of the earth.

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Jesus says, here's what's going to happen.

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I'm going to tell the whole world

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what I've done,
and I'm going to do it through you.

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You see, one of the evidences
of my own relationship with God

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is that you get something from what I say,
when when I'm up here

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helping you understand
the Bible says that coming from me.

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It's like I went to school.

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It's not because I have some natural gift.

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Anything meaningful that's accomplished
is because what the spirit

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is doing through me.
Here's all I'm trying to say.

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A relationship with God
is not coming to church

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and trying hard and doing the right thing.

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A relationship with God is dead, bones
coming alive

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because the Spirit of God is on us, in us,
for us and through us we.

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We live a life full of his presence.

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Is that what you mean?

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Because it's possible that you're sitting,
you going, man,

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you know, I, I do all the right things,
but but I don't have that.

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Like, that is not my experience.

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00:18:09,114 --> 00:18:12,234
And I would just ask you to consider
if maybe

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the first sign of the spirit
working on you

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is to help you see that,

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to awaken you to that, to say you're

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you have a natural relationship with me,
but that that isn't what I want.

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I want a supernatural one.

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But if you're here and you're a Christian,
you say,

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well, no, I have experienced the presence
of the Holy Spirit.

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I just wish I experienced it more.

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Do you ever feel that like.

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Like, yeah. Yeah, he's worked on me,
but I wish more.

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He's worked in me,
but I wish I was changing more.

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He's done things through me,
but I wish more.

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Listen, if that's how you feel,
I just want to end with encouragement.

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So my third point is promise.

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If you

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wish that the Holy Spirit was more present
in your life, that's good.

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I don't want to talk you out of that.

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00:19:01,870 --> 00:19:03,388
I want you to want that.

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00:19:03,388 --> 00:19:05,958
I want you to want him to use you.

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I want you to want him to change you.

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I want you to be as awake
and alive to the presence

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of the Holy Spirit in your life
as is humanly possible.

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I want that for you. But.

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00:19:17,787 --> 00:19:19,672
But here's the danger.

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You might focus on
what you don't have more than you do.

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Here's what I mean.

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Paul says, the Spirit of God testifies
to our spirit that we are children.

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In other words, here's what he says.

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You're looking at the wrong thing.

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00:19:35,556 --> 00:19:38,159
Sure you want more of the Holy Spirit,
so do I.

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00:19:38,159 --> 00:19:39,560
But he says, but if you have any,

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that means you're a child of God.

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00:19:44,032 --> 00:19:45,633
Paul writes it this way in Ephesians.

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He says it this I love this.

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That's what he says in him you also,
when you heard the word of truth, the

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gospel of your salvation,

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00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:56,278
and believed in him, were sealed
with the promised Holy Spirit,

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who is the guarantee of our inheritance

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until we acquire possession of it
to the praise of his glory.

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That word guarantee means down payment.

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00:20:05,438 --> 00:20:08,391
In other words, here's what Paul is saying
if the spirit has worked

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on you, in you, for you, through you. Yes.

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You want more? Yes,
you wish you were doing more.

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00:20:14,281 --> 00:20:16,466
But if he's done any. Here's
what Paul says.

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00:20:16,466 --> 00:20:19,470
That is the proof positive
you're having bound.

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In other words, let me just get
really real with you for a second.

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00:20:23,441 --> 00:20:25,626
Let's just take something very common.

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00:20:25,626 --> 00:20:27,111
Let's say you have a problem.

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00:20:27,111 --> 00:20:28,029
Another kids in the room.

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00:20:28,029 --> 00:20:29,197
So I'll say it this way.

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00:20:29,197 --> 00:20:32,667
Let's say you have a problem with looking
at websites you wish you didn't look at,

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and you hate it.

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I hate it, you're shamed.

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00:20:37,789 --> 00:20:38,990
You're guilty.

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00:20:38,990 --> 00:20:39,958
You hate it.

427
00:20:39,958 --> 00:20:41,877
You know, it grieves God.

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00:20:41,877 --> 00:20:43,228
You know it's not what he wants for you.

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00:20:43,228 --> 00:20:46,315
You know, it's
probably robbing you of the closeness

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00:20:46,315 --> 00:20:48,267
you're meant to have with him.
You hate it.

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00:20:48,267 --> 00:20:50,720
And I don't want you to not hate it.
That's not.

432
00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:53,039
I'm not trying to talk you out of that.
I want you to hate it.

433
00:20:53,039 --> 00:20:55,642
But I want you to realize something.

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00:20:55,642 --> 00:20:58,511
Years ago,
you were looking at the same websites

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and you didn't hate it.

436
00:21:01,882 --> 00:21:04,318
People all over the world
look at those websites.

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00:21:04,318 --> 00:21:07,321
They don't hate it.

438
00:21:07,521 --> 00:21:09,189
So you wish you hated it more.

439
00:21:09,189 --> 00:21:11,108
And I wish that for you, too.

440
00:21:11,108 --> 00:21:14,111
But you're forgetting your dry bones.

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00:21:15,146 --> 00:21:17,432
If you hate it at all,

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00:21:17,432 --> 00:21:20,435
it's because of the Spirit of God in you.

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00:21:20,785 --> 00:21:23,238
See, we all wish we were better.

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00:21:23,238 --> 00:21:24,706
We all wish we were more like Jesus.

445
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And I want you to wish that.

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00:21:25,957 --> 00:21:29,878
But have you ever stopped to say,
but if all I am are bones,

447
00:21:30,195 --> 00:21:30,913
let me put it this way.

448
00:21:30,913 --> 00:21:33,265
Can you imagine some of the bones
God brings to life?

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And as 37 and walks up to just,

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I guess, one of the bone guys
and he's like pretty nuts, man.

451
00:21:40,590 --> 00:21:44,077
And the guys like the guys like, yeah,
you know, I just wish I could jump higher.

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00:21:46,146 --> 00:21:47,681
You know, run faster.

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00:21:47,681 --> 00:21:51,435
A couple of tendons would go a long way,
you know.

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00:21:51,468 --> 00:21:53,637
Do you know what as he would say to him
is like, dude, I get it.

455
00:21:53,637 --> 00:21:57,041
But you were dead like five minutes ago.

456
00:21:59,510 --> 00:22:02,513
Brother, sister in Christ,

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00:22:02,596 --> 00:22:03,481
I know you want more.

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00:22:03,481 --> 00:22:05,349
I want more for you.

459
00:22:05,349 --> 00:22:07,001
I don't want you to not want more.

460
00:22:07,001 --> 00:22:08,870
I want right now you to be praying God,

461
00:22:08,870 --> 00:22:12,307
but I, I want you to work on me, in me,
for me, through me more.

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00:22:12,674 --> 00:22:14,593
I want to participate in your kingdom
more.

463
00:22:14,593 --> 00:22:17,112
I want I want to be holy like you more.

464
00:22:17,112 --> 00:22:20,199
I want to experience conviction over sin.

465
00:22:20,199 --> 00:22:22,751
I want to experience your blessing,
your gifts.

466
00:22:22,751 --> 00:22:26,956
I want more,
but I hope when you do that, you

467
00:22:26,989 --> 00:22:31,311
marvel at the grace of God
that you even want it at all.

468
00:22:32,278 --> 00:22:33,797
And you take a second to

469
00:22:33,797 --> 00:22:37,400
say to hear what Paul saying that
that in and of itself

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is the down payment of the home

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that is most definitely yours.

472
00:22:45,309 --> 00:22:47,511
It's not a natural relationship.

473
00:22:47,511 --> 00:22:51,198
You don't manufacture it,
but you can have it

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00:22:52,550 --> 00:22:55,119
if you just ask

475
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:58,039
that through the life, death
and resurrection of Jesus,

476
00:22:58,039 --> 00:23:02,277
you might gain
the presence of the Spirit of God.

477
00:23:02,310 --> 00:23:05,113
Let me pray for you. Father God,
thank you so much for everyone here.

478
00:23:05,113 --> 00:23:09,985
Thank you for those that are awakening
to the first time that they're religious,

479
00:23:10,552 --> 00:23:13,305
but they don't know anything
about the presence of the Holy Spirit

480
00:23:13,305 --> 00:23:14,190
that you might show them.

481
00:23:14,190 --> 00:23:18,161
You're not showing them that
to wound them, but rather to woo them,

482
00:23:20,079 --> 00:23:22,198
and they might turn towards you.

483
00:23:22,198 --> 00:23:25,986
And for those of us who wish we had more,

484
00:23:26,386 --> 00:23:30,157
who wish we were further along,
that we wouldn't stop wishing that

485
00:23:30,157 --> 00:23:33,394
and wanting that, and even participating
in the work of the spirit

486
00:23:33,394 --> 00:23:35,679
to get there,
but that we would take a second to

487
00:23:35,679 --> 00:23:38,666
say, God,
I can't even believe I'm alive at all.

488
00:23:40,201 --> 00:23:41,435
We would marvel at the grace

489
00:23:41,435 --> 00:23:45,156
we have and the evidence
that is of the future that's coming.

490
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,776
In Jesus name we pray. Amen.