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Are you finding yourself more and more dreading having to hang out or deal with certain people in your life? They might have a more negative perspective on life and no matter what kind of positive or upbeat things you have to say to them, they always find a way to bring a rain cloud to the conversation. These people really can drain the life force out of you. People with a negative mindset can sometimes appear that they are always the ones that are suffering and no matter what ‘bad things’ that are happening in your life, they somehow have it worse or try to one-up you on the drama. If you’re dealing with someone where their conversations are always about complaints, you know you’ve got a negative person on your hands. A negative person will try to bring you down to their level and they have a very ‘all or nothing’ attitude. If you’re happy, that means they’re the ones losing. A negative person has a very difficult time accepting that you don’t have to keep a score. They also tend to be super quick to judge everyone else in a negative light. There is no such thing as ‘benefit of the doubt’. If someone’s in a negative mindset, we should not take ownership of their bad rain cloud. We have to remember that we’re not responsible for their wellbeing. They have to want to change themselves. There’s no point bringing yourself down to their level or even burning yourself out when dealing with a negative person. Continue Your Growth Journey: Kaminiwood.com
Are you finding yourself more and more dreading having to hang out or deal with certain people in your life? They might have a more negative perspective on life and no matter what kind of positive or upbeat things you have to say to them, they always find a way to bring a rain cloud to the conversation. These people really can drain the life force out of you.
People with a negative mindset can sometimes appear that they are always the ones that are suffering and no matter what ‘bad things’ that are happening in your life, they somehow have it worse or try to one-up you on the drama. If you’re dealing with someone where their conversations are always about complaints, you know you’ve got a negative person on your hands.
A negative person will try to bring you down to their level and they have a very ‘all or nothing’ attitude. If you’re happy, that means they’re the ones losing. A negative person has a very difficult time accepting that you don’t have to keep a score. They also tend to be super quick to judge everyone else in a negative light. There is no such thing as ‘benefit of the doubt’.
If someone’s in a negative mindset, we should not take ownership of their bad rain cloud. We have to remember that we’re not responsible for their wellbeing. They have to want to change themselves. There’s no point bringing yourself down to their level or even burning yourself out when dealing with a negative person.
Continue Your Growth Journey:
Kamini Wood works with high achievers on letting go of stress, overwhelm and anxiety that comes with trying to do everything, and trying to do it all perfectly