Why Some Relationships Don’t Survive Growth: Lessons from the Spies

In this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores the devastating story of the Meraglim (spies) from Parshat Shlach and uncovers a powerful parenting and relationship insight: why some relationships falter when faced with new challenges. Were the spies righteous or wicked? Why would leaders of such stature sabotage the mission into the Promised Land? Through deep analysis and a relatable parable, Rabbi Shifman teaches how our ability to grow through discomfort—whether in parenting, marriage, or faith—defines the strength and future of our most important relationships.

Tune in to learn how to help your children and your marriage evolve through life’s inevitable transitions—and why avoiding challenge may feel safe, but stunts real growth.

What is Guiding Generations?

"Guiding Generations" with Rabbi Mordechai Shifman merges timeless Torah wisdom with contemporary parenting insights. Each episode draws from the weekly Torah portion, offering practical advice and spiritual guidance to help parents navigate the challenges of raising children with integrity, respect, and compassion. Join Rabbi Shifman as he connects ancient teachings to the realities of modern family life, empowering parents to cultivate a nurturing and value-driven home environment.