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What's going on ho family? How you doing this morning?

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Happy Father's Day weekend to you.

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Uh, if you've got your Bibles, would you go ahead

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and turn to Titus chapter one?

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We're gonna be continuing in our series

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that we've been calling Field Notes for the journey.

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Uh, and, uh, I, we've actually entitled this message is only

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because we see it in the text,

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but I think very appropriate for Father's Day weekend.

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Uh, it is going to be called liars, evil beasts,

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and lazy gluttons.

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That'd be Dads are like, you tricked me.

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He told me to come this weekend.

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The good news is it's not

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because it's talking about us here.

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Uh, it's referring actually to the people who lived

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on the island of Crete.

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Uh, but the reality is, uh, dads, we got a tough job.

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And I'm not saying it's tougher than moms, okay?

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Uh, my, my wife is gonna hear this sermon.

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Not saying that, I'm not even saying it's more difficult

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than people who don't have kids.

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it is difficult in today's world at times to know how

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to operate in the space that God has called us

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to love and to lead.

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But here's what I do know, and I'm gonna prove this

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by asking a question.

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Men, uh, specifically dads.

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But if someone showed up to your home to bring havoc

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to your family physically, uh, or emotionally,

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and you know that it's your job

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and that you would willingly step in between harm's way

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and your family to protect them,

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would you just stand to your feet?

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Yeah. Yeah. Celebrate that.

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The reason is, is

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because we know There is something

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that, look, they're already sitting down.

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They're like, I know we don't get celebrated a lot.

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We're gonna go and sit back down. Thanks, I'm done.

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Uh, we know there's something inside of us

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that tells us we have a role

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and a responsibility inside of our family, and so well done.

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Uh, but there are moments we know in life

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and in leadership that requires more than sentiment.

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It requires more than words. Just saying, I love you.

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It, it demands a backbone. It, it demands action.

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It demands clarity. Sometimes it, it, it demands a strategy.

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Uh, what I'm holding here is a United States

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Army Ranger Handbook, okay?

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And, uh, this is not the Bible at all,

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but it does have something in common with the Bible.

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This is a civilian copy, by the way.

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Uh, I, in no way, shape,

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or form wanna be associated with stolen valor.

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Uh, deeply respect our men and women who serve our country.

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And I'm grateful for that.

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But inside of the front cover are 19, uh,

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field tested truths for irregular warfare.

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Started out as 28, uh, it's gonna been, uh,

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modified down to 19.

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They were written back in 1759 by Major Robert Rogers.

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Uh, he was the leader of Robert's Rangers, uh,

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who were an elite special forces operations unit, uh,

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during the French and Indian War.

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Uh, those truths are still lifted up

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and held tightly to by the Rangers, uh, of our country.

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But his men, they were not sitting behind desks.

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Uh, they were often deep in the wilderness,

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outnumbered, outgunned.

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And so Rogers gave them, again, 28 whittled down to 19, uh,

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very specific standing orders.

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But they were not vague mission statements.

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Uh, these were survival truths.

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So things like, don't forget nothing.

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Alright, really important.

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Uh, he would say, keep your musket clean as a whistle,

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because he knew if you're out on the battlefield

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and you need to shoot your gun, it had better be clean

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because you want it to work.

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Uh, the whole thing wraps up his last one.

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And this one is a little bit graphic, okay?

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Um, it says, let the enemy come close

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and then let him have it, and finish him with your hatchet.

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I mean, happy Father's Day.

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Uh, but these weren't written

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for theory, you know what I mean?

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These were written for battle.

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And that's exactly what Paul is doing.

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Uh, in his letter to Titus that we've been walking through,

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he's writing a field guide, um, not for soldiers

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with muskets, but for spiritual leaders, the family of God

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who are facing real threats

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to the spiritual health of the family of God.

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So this is doctrine for the front lines.

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It's not meant to be admired, but it's meant to be followed.

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And, uh, just like Roger said,

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don't forget nothing we saw last week, Paul actually said,

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hold firm to the trustworthy word.

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Same goal. If you forget the mission

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or if you ignore the enemy, people get hurt,

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especially those under your care.

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And so it's appropriate for us on Father's Day

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to be studying a passage that actually shows us

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what it looks like to lead well in our field, which

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for us quite honestly, uh, it's our home.

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Uh, it's our church and it's our community.

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Um, understand Titus was not on vacation in Crete.

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He wasn't. He was on a mission.

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And dads, um, whether we like it

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or not, we are on the front lines.

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And so this message that we're walking through,

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this is more than just for elders.

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It's for biological and for spiritual fathers.

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It's for mothers and mentors.

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Uh, this is for our home

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and this is for the family of God, which is the church.

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And so last week, uh, we kinda wrapped up.

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So in, in case you missed it, for the last two weeks,

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we've walked through nine verses.

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When we wrapped up verse nine last week,

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Paul's talking about, uh, men of God.

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And he says he must hold firm to the trustworthy word

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as taught so that he might be able to give instruction

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and sound doctrine

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and to rebuke those who contradict it so

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that we can teach the word of God

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and to correct those who need correction.

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But as we look into verse 10, uh, it starts with this word

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for, uh, FOR,

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and it's, um, this is like a hinge

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that ties verse nine into, uh, verse 10.

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It's a conjugation saying, Hey, this is going

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to be true in light of what we just read.

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who are insubordinate, empty talkers

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and deceivers, especially those of the circumcision party.

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Now, I thought about calling this message welcome

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to the circumcision party,

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but I was pretty sure that we'd have pretty light

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attendance on Father's Day weekend.

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And so, uh, we decided not to do that.

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I'll explain that when we get to it in the text,

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but, uh, Paul does not sugarcoat it.

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Okay? He says, very plain

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and simply, there are people

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inside the church who are dangerous.

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Why are they dangerous? Well, he says they're insubordinate.

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They won't submit to the apostle's teaching.

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They won't submit to the leadership

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inside of the church family.

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They want influence without accountability.

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They wanna lead others, but they don't wanna be led.

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He calls them empty talkers.

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So a lot of spiritual sounding words, but no gospel truth.

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Like in today's world, a lot of people can use the name

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of Jesus and they can say a lot of things,

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but no gospel truth.

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Then he says, they're deceivers,

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they're twisting the truth for personal gain.

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They don't just believe wrong, but they teach wrong.

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And people are getting hurt as a, as a result.

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Who's doing this? Uh, probably a lot of people

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because he said they're in verse 10.

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There are many.

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Uh, but notice he says,

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especially those in the circumcision party.

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Um, we're gonna start using that language around hope a lot.

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What he's talking about is there were these

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Jewish believing Christians.

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So they grew up in the Jewish faith so tied to the law,

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but now they do believe that Jesus came

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and was resurrected from the dead,

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but they're most likely teaching like Jesus.

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Plus the law equals salvation.

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And, uh, that's not really the way the gospel works.

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Uh, if you don't know what I'm,

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when I say the gospel, we mean the good news.

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that all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.

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You and me. Like if we're honest, all

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of us have not lived up to what it is that God's, uh,

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created intended purpose for our life.

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It also says that for the forgiveness of sins, there has

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to be shedding of blood.

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That's why throughout the Old Testament,

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you see a sacrificial system.

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Um, people sin. There has to be bloodshed

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for our relationship with God to be restored.

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New Testament, Jesus shows up on the scene.

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He lives the life that none of us have actually lived.

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And then he goes to a cross to pay the penalty

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and dies for our sins.

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That's why he is referred to as the Lamb of God.

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But not only does he die, he goes into a tomb

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and he's risen from the dead.

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Three days later overcoming sin

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and death saying that whosoever would call on my name,

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would believe in me, would not perish,

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but would have everlasting life,

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would have a restored relationship with God.

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That is what, that is,

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the foundational belief of Christianity.

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And Paul's saying, listen, there are these people inside

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of your church family, and they're not

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anti-religious people.

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Those are the ones that we know.

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Okay, maybe we don't need to listen to what they says.

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He's saying they're insiders.

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They sound spiritual, but they're undermining the gospel

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and they're disrupting the church.

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Uh, the truth that Paul's guarding is this religion says,

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I earn acceptance through my sacrifice.

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The gospel says, Jesus' sacrifice secures my acceptance.

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It's a big deal. We can't miss it in Paul saying, Hey,

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Titus, this is real and it needs attention.

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So we get to verse 11, what do we do

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with these insubordinate, empty talkers and deceivers?

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He says, they must be silenced

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since they're upsetting whole families by teaching

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for shameful, shameful gain what they ought not to teach.

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Paul doesn't say, just ignore 'em. Just let it go.

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And I'm telling you, there's been times

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that I look back on my life and leadership inside the church

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and I kind of bought into the, ah,

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maybe we just don't say anything.

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And I'm telling you, I have seen it wreck

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harm on people's lives.

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He says, no, no, no. Silence them.

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And that word, silence it actually, it's the picture

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of a muzzle, like what you would put on a dangerous dog.

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I have an 85 pound German Shepherd phenomenal dog.

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When I take him to the vet, he can be intimidating.

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They prefer me put a muzzle on them.

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Why is he saying muzzle them?

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It's because their teaching isn't just wrong.

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It's wrecking lives. And he goes on

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to say it's upsetting families.

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Like the direct translation of that is like,

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it's flipping families completely upside down.

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They are dazed. Uh, it's confusing home spiritually.

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And Paul's saying this isn't just innocent.

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Like they are doing this for shameful gain, for power,

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for influence, or for money.

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And we just need to know, like as the people of God,

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there are people out there that will tell you,

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they will tell us just about anything

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that they think we want to hear

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if it will give them influence over our lives.

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And we just gotta be mindful of that.

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So our first field note this week is this bad doctrine

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doesn't just mislead.

444
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Uh, it wrecks homes and it ruins lives. We gotta be aware.

445
00:35:42.075 --> 00:35:45.045
It's not just wrong, it's not just someone else's opinion,

446
00:35:45.385 --> 00:35:46.925
but it's actually destructive

447
00:35:47.185 --> 00:35:48.605
to our lives and to our families.

448
00:35:48.605 --> 00:35:50.085
It would be like going to a doctor and,

449
00:35:50.085 --> 00:35:51.485
and one of my doctors is in the room right now.

450
00:35:51.785 --> 00:35:54.165
Uh, it would be, uh, like going to a doctor

451
00:35:54.225 --> 00:35:56.405
and they're prescribing a medication for you,

452
00:35:56.475 --> 00:35:57.525
knowing full well

453
00:35:57.525 --> 00:35:58.645
that it's actually not gonna

454
00:35:58.645 --> 00:36:00.005
treat anything or make you better.

455
00:36:00.305 --> 00:36:02.285
Um, we would say like, that's not just wrong.

456
00:36:02.315 --> 00:36:03.605
That, that, that's criminal.

457
00:36:03.825 --> 00:36:06.165
And Paul's saying, Titus, you've gotta shut this down.

458
00:36:07.305 --> 00:36:09.445
And we're gonna see when we get to Titus chapter two,

459
00:36:10.845 --> 00:36:12.045
everyone who's a follower of Jesus

460
00:36:12.185 --> 00:36:13.325
is actually called into this.

461
00:36:13.385 --> 00:36:15.885
Paul's gonna say, Hey, older men, you gotta protect

462
00:36:15.885 --> 00:36:18.125
and invest in younger men, um, older women.

463
00:36:18.125 --> 00:36:20.485
You've gotta protect and invest in younger women.

464
00:36:20.585 --> 00:36:22.125
But it starts with alertness.

465
00:36:22.145 --> 00:36:23.805
We have to be aware there's this

466
00:36:23.805 --> 00:36:25.325
false doctrine that's floating around.

467
00:36:25.325 --> 00:36:27.405
We gotta step in and we gotta step up.

468
00:36:28.945 --> 00:36:32.165
And then as far as our responsibilities as dads,

469
00:36:32.585 --> 00:36:33.685
I'm happy Father's Day,

470
00:36:34.425 --> 00:36:36.285
but our responsibility is not just

471
00:36:36.285 --> 00:36:37.645
to guard our home physically,

472
00:36:38.385 --> 00:36:39.965
but it's to guard our home spiritually.

473
00:36:41.025 --> 00:36:45.205
Uh, we've gotta be careful not to outsource the leadership

474
00:36:45.205 --> 00:36:48.005
of that area, really to our schools, um,

475
00:36:48.305 --> 00:36:50.845
not completely offload it to our spouse, to a podcast.

476
00:36:51.425 --> 00:36:53.285
And I'll just say this, I think we've got a great church.

477
00:36:53.285 --> 00:36:54.485
We've got a great student ministry,

478
00:36:54.745 --> 00:36:56.605
but we don't outsource it to the church either.

479
00:36:57.305 --> 00:36:59.485
Um, when I say church, I mean a, a program.

480
00:36:59.745 --> 00:37:02.965
The foundation for the place of discipleship in the lives

481
00:37:02.985 --> 00:37:05.045
of your young people is inside your home.

482
00:37:05.105 --> 00:37:08.125
Bad doctrine doesn't just mislead at wrecks

483
00:37:08.125 --> 00:37:09.565
homes and it ruins lives.

484
00:37:09.665 --> 00:37:13.685
We jump to verse 12. Paul goes on, he says, one

485
00:37:13.685 --> 00:37:15.605
of the creans, a prophet of their own.

486
00:37:15.665 --> 00:37:17.645
So one of their own people says this about them.

487
00:37:17.915 --> 00:37:22.245
Creighton are always liars, evil beasts and lazy gluttons.

488
00:37:22.635 --> 00:37:24.045
This testimony is true.

489
00:37:24.105 --> 00:37:25.765
So you see, it wasn't talking about us, his dad,

490
00:37:25.795 --> 00:37:27.445
he's talking about people on creep,

491
00:37:27.445 --> 00:37:30.245
but he's actually quoting, um, a Crete

492
00:37:30.245 --> 00:37:31.925
and poet by the name of Epi amenities

493
00:37:32.905 --> 00:37:34.845
who basically roast his own people.

494
00:37:35.105 --> 00:37:36.365
And he's saying, Titus,

495
00:37:36.365 --> 00:37:38.165
you gotta look at the culture around you.

496
00:37:38.875 --> 00:37:40.605
They are known for dishonesty.

497
00:37:40.605 --> 00:37:42.125
They're known for indulgence,

498
00:37:42.655 --> 00:37:45.205
which I think if we were smart right now, we would kind

499
00:37:45.205 --> 00:37:46.525
of look around our world

500
00:37:46.525 --> 00:37:50.565
and recognize we might be in a culture that is also known

501
00:37:50.665 --> 00:37:53.165
for being a bit dishonest and indulgent.

502
00:37:53.345 --> 00:37:56.405
But what he's saying is, this culture, this environment

503
00:37:56.405 --> 00:37:57.685
that you're in, it's a culture where

504
00:37:57.685 --> 00:37:59.285
false teaching will thrive.

505
00:37:59.745 --> 00:38:02.885
We gotta pay attention. And so what does Titus need to do?

506
00:38:03.265 --> 00:38:05.805
Uh, you get to verse 13, and he says,

507
00:38:05.955 --> 00:38:08.565
therefore rebuke them sharply

508
00:38:09.515 --> 00:38:11.685
that they may be sound in the faith.

509
00:38:12.225 --> 00:38:13.525
So he says, rebuke sharply.

510
00:38:13.635 --> 00:38:17.605
Okay, this is, um, this is not to shame, uh, this is

511
00:38:17.905 --> 00:38:18.845
to restore like

512
00:38:18.845 --> 00:38:20.165
Robert's orders that we talked about earlier.

513
00:38:20.165 --> 00:38:23.165
They're meant to, to protect, to show care for people.

514
00:38:23.195 --> 00:38:25.445
When he says, sound in the faith, you know, we,

515
00:38:25.505 --> 00:38:28.245
we wanna rebuke sharply so there may be sound in the faith.

516
00:38:28.685 --> 00:38:30.005
A translation of that is healthy.

517
00:38:30.345 --> 00:38:32.045
We rebuke sharply so

518
00:38:32.045 --> 00:38:34.445
that they will be healthy in their faith.

519
00:38:35.425 --> 00:38:37.365
Um, about six years ago, I had

520
00:38:38.005 --> 00:38:39.965
terrible tendonitis on my elbow, like so bad.

521
00:38:40.045 --> 00:38:41.605
I could barely hold up a coffee cup,

522
00:38:41.605 --> 00:38:43.805
much less do a pull up or a bicep curl.

523
00:38:44.345 --> 00:38:45.725
And my doctor said, yeah,

524
00:38:46.335 --> 00:38:47.885
truthfully, you got a couple options.

525
00:38:48.065 --> 00:38:49.885
You can deal with the pain, uh,

526
00:38:50.225 --> 00:38:52.285
or maybe you can wait until it gets bad enough.

527
00:38:52.285 --> 00:38:53.205
Something really breaks,

528
00:38:53.265 --> 00:38:54.445
and then you end up getting surgery.

529
00:38:55.045 --> 00:38:56.285
I said, well, that doesn't sound good.

530
00:38:56.345 --> 00:38:57.445
Uh, what are the other options?

531
00:38:57.785 --> 00:39:00.085
He said, well, there is this procedure that some people do.

532
00:39:00.245 --> 00:39:02.725
I don't do it, but it's called PRP, uh,

533
00:39:02.725 --> 00:39:03.805
platelet rich plasma.

534
00:39:03.945 --> 00:39:06.045
And so I went to the elbow doctor, uh,

535
00:39:06.045 --> 00:39:07.325
here in town who does this.

536
00:39:07.425 --> 00:39:09.045
And I said, Hey, tell me about this procedure.

537
00:39:09.225 --> 00:39:10.565
He said, yeah, it works great.

538
00:39:10.595 --> 00:39:13.125
What we do is we draw a lot of blood

539
00:39:14.025 --> 00:39:15.605
and then we put it in a centrifuge

540
00:39:15.745 --> 00:39:18.205
and we spin it around really, really fast.

541
00:39:18.265 --> 00:39:21.525
And then it separates the red blood cells from the platelets

542
00:39:21.525 --> 00:39:23.445
and the blood, the platelets like are the, is the part

543
00:39:23.445 --> 00:39:25.125
of your blood that has all the healing properties.

544
00:39:25.385 --> 00:39:28.085
And then we take out the platelets.

545
00:39:28.345 --> 00:39:31.525
And then under ultrasound, uh, we find your tendon,

546
00:39:31.525 --> 00:39:32.645
you can like see it up on the screen,

547
00:39:32.645 --> 00:39:33.765
and then we take a big needle

548
00:39:33.985 --> 00:39:36.725
and we inject it in your arm straight to the tendon,

549
00:39:36.725 --> 00:39:39.325
and we inject the platelets right where the injury is.

550
00:39:40.605 --> 00:39:42.165
I said, well, does it hurt?

551
00:39:44.185 --> 00:39:46.285
He said, oh yeah, it hurts terribly.

552
00:39:46.585 --> 00:39:47.845
Um, what we're actually trying

553
00:39:47.845 --> 00:39:50.045
to do is create the same environment

554
00:39:50.045 --> 00:39:51.765
that would be there if you like, had a broken bone.

555
00:39:52.405 --> 00:39:54.925
I was like, oh, sure, sign me up, let's do it.

556
00:39:55.145 --> 00:39:59.045
Um, and uh, here's the, the truth is he did not lie to me.

557
00:39:59.225 --> 00:40:01.805
Uh, it was very painful, like my hand is shaking.

558
00:40:02.145 --> 00:40:05.005
And for about two weeks it was very, very painful.

559
00:40:06.225 --> 00:40:08.965
But over time, um, it healed.

560
00:40:09.115 --> 00:40:12.485
Like I have not had an issue with my elbow in six years.

561
00:40:13.025 --> 00:40:14.725
And in the moment it's painful,

562
00:40:14.825 --> 00:40:15.965
but it promotes deep healing.

563
00:40:16.025 --> 00:40:18.765
That's what loving correction does, okay?

564
00:40:19.155 --> 00:40:21.765
It's not always convenient, it's not always comfortable,

565
00:40:21.945 --> 00:40:24.205
but it moves us towards sound doctrine.

566
00:40:24.205 --> 00:40:25.885
It moves us towards healthy doctrine

567
00:40:25.885 --> 00:40:26.965
towards a healthy faith.

568
00:40:28.015 --> 00:40:30.165
Verse 14, Paul clarifies like,

569
00:40:30.165 --> 00:40:31.685
what's really feeding the problem?

570
00:40:32.785 --> 00:40:35.805
He says, not devoting themselves to Jewish myths

571
00:40:36.665 --> 00:40:39.845
and the commands of people who turn away from the truth.

572
00:40:40.865 --> 00:40:44.045
So especially these false, uh, these false teachers,

573
00:40:44.045 --> 00:40:46.925
what they were doing is, uh, they were elevating

574
00:40:46.925 --> 00:40:48.925
and following manmade myths.

575
00:40:49.065 --> 00:40:51.485
Um, legalism, uh, we talked about

576
00:40:51.485 --> 00:40:54.845
that Jesus plus the law speculation, um, the elders

577
00:40:54.845 --> 00:40:57.405
of within the Jewish church, like they had specific, uh,

578
00:40:57.415 --> 00:40:59.085
traditions they were calling people into.

579
00:40:59.085 --> 00:41:01.925
And Paul says, don't let fake spirituality,

580
00:41:02.075 --> 00:41:03.165
okay, fake spirituality.

581
00:41:03.165 --> 00:41:05.805
Again, people who can use the name of Jesus they can,

582
00:41:05.805 --> 00:41:08.645
whether it's talking about grace upon grace, upon grace

583
00:41:08.875 --> 00:41:11.565
with no truth, uh, which we gotta be careful of,

584
00:41:11.705 --> 00:41:14.525
or Jesus plus the law, he saying, you gotta be aware of that

585
00:41:14.865 --> 00:41:16.525
or preferences of the culture.

586
00:41:17.065 --> 00:41:18.965
You've gotta be careful. We don't let preferences

587
00:41:18.965 --> 00:41:21.845
of the culture replace sound doctrine.

588
00:41:23.725 --> 00:41:27.045
I think we'd be very smart to recognize that there are, um,

589
00:41:27.945 --> 00:41:30.685
modern myths that we can fall prey

590
00:41:30.685 --> 00:41:32.005
to in our current society.

591
00:41:32.005 --> 00:41:33.445
And so I just wanna, very quickly,

592
00:41:33.555 --> 00:41:35.165
this is not a lecture on these items,

593
00:41:35.365 --> 00:41:37.805
I just wanna quickly just kind of raise our eyebrows

594
00:41:37.865 --> 00:41:39.565
to some things that we see around us right now.

595
00:41:39.565 --> 00:41:40.805
And so we're gonna walk through a few of them.

596
00:41:41.105 --> 00:41:44.685
Uh, one is the buffet Bible. Okay?

597
00:41:44.685 --> 00:41:46.525
The buffet Bible says, I can read through this

598
00:41:46.525 --> 00:41:47.965
and I can pick and choose whatever I want.

599
00:41:48.085 --> 00:41:49.525
I like that. I like that. I don't like that.

600
00:41:49.665 --> 00:41:51.685
I'm not gonna live by that. I'm not gonna stand on that.

601
00:41:52.105 --> 00:41:53.965
Um, that's not how it works.

602
00:41:54.625 --> 00:41:57.685
Um, we, we either believe this is the inherent, an iner,

603
00:41:57.685 --> 00:41:59.645
authoritative word of God, or we don't.

604
00:42:00.665 --> 00:42:02.765
And so we stand on what scripture says.

605
00:42:03.025 --> 00:42:04.805
Uh, you've got universalism, this idea

606
00:42:04.805 --> 00:42:06.405
of everybody goes to heaven no matter what.

607
00:42:06.585 --> 00:42:08.765
You can't say that you follow Jesus.

608
00:42:08.905 --> 00:42:10.165
And then believe this principle,

609
00:42:10.285 --> 00:42:13.285
I I just being a Jesus said, I'm the way, I'm the truth.

610
00:42:13.425 --> 00:42:16.725
I'm the life. No one gets to the Father except through me.

611
00:42:17.825 --> 00:42:20.085
And so you either believe in Jesus and follow Jesus,

612
00:42:20.145 --> 00:42:21.765
or you believe that he was a crazy person,

613
00:42:21.825 --> 00:42:23.205
but you can't really mix the two.

614
00:42:24.355 --> 00:42:25.765
There's the prosperity gospel.

615
00:42:26.705 --> 00:42:29.925
It says that faith in God equals success is

616
00:42:29.925 --> 00:42:30.965
defined by the world.

617
00:42:31.265 --> 00:42:33.725
I'm gonna tell you right now, that's a crock, okay?

618
00:42:33.985 --> 00:42:35.685
It, it, it doesn't work that way.

619
00:42:36.065 --> 00:42:37.765
Yes, we can make certain decisions

620
00:42:37.765 --> 00:42:40.325
and we follow in the ways that God has for us in our lives,

621
00:42:40.545 --> 00:42:43.325
and it puts us in a position to be blessed by God.

622
00:42:43.325 --> 00:42:46.245
But that blessing is probably better described

623
00:42:46.245 --> 00:42:48.685
as experiencing the love and the peace

624
00:42:48.785 --> 00:42:51.405
and the hope that is available to us in our lives

625
00:42:51.505 --> 00:42:52.565
by saying, you are God.

626
00:42:52.785 --> 00:42:56.605
And I'm not. But I also know that when you read scripture,

627
00:42:56.665 --> 00:42:59.285
if you stand on scripture as your foundation,

628
00:42:59.305 --> 00:43:01.005
it will tell you that God will allow you to go

629
00:43:01.005 --> 00:43:04.645
through some really difficult things to drive you to a place

630
00:43:04.665 --> 00:43:05.765
of dependence on him.

631
00:43:08.305 --> 00:43:11.845
Uh, this is a big one. Um, love equals affirmation.

632
00:43:12.985 --> 00:43:15.095
Um, that's simply not true.

633
00:43:15.915 --> 00:43:18.175
Um, yes, as as followers of Christ,

634
00:43:18.235 --> 00:43:19.495
we are called to love everyone.

635
00:43:20.395 --> 00:43:21.815
Uh, as followers of Christ.

636
00:43:22.155 --> 00:43:23.455
Uh, we are called to care

637
00:43:23.795 --> 00:43:25.175
for everyone as followers of Christ.

638
00:43:25.335 --> 00:43:27.575
I would even say we're called to accept everyone,

639
00:43:28.155 --> 00:43:29.255
but that word affirm

640
00:43:29.355 --> 00:43:31.495
and saying, no, no, no, I, I agree with you.

641
00:43:31.515 --> 00:43:33.175
Or I can say, okay, if it's true

642
00:43:33.395 --> 00:43:34.615
for you, then it's true for you.

643
00:43:34.675 --> 00:43:37.575
It just doesn't work that way to, to have a mindset

644
00:43:37.575 --> 00:43:39.495
that says, Hey, there's no correction allowed.

645
00:43:39.495 --> 00:43:41.615
There's, there's no repentance required.

646
00:43:41.915 --> 00:43:43.775
That's not what scripture calls us into.

647
00:43:44.115 --> 00:43:46.095
And to be honest, if we really believe that,

648
00:43:46.155 --> 00:43:47.655
we don't need a God anyway.

649
00:43:48.995 --> 00:43:51.535
So we gotta be careful. A couple others, I might

650
00:43:51.535 --> 00:43:53.535
as well just step on everybody's toes here.

651
00:43:53.595 --> 00:43:57.735
Um, um, Christian nationalism, um,

652
00:43:57.785 --> 00:44:00.335
there is no political party, Republican

653
00:44:00.515 --> 00:44:03.455
or Democrat that is going to usher in the kingdom

654
00:44:03.555 --> 00:44:04.655
of God there.

655
00:44:04.915 --> 00:44:06.695
And you can hold a sign that says, no king

656
00:44:06.715 --> 00:44:09.215
or not do whatever you want to do, but there is one king.

657
00:44:09.215 --> 00:44:11.455
There's only one king, and it's Jesus Christ.

658
00:44:12.195 --> 00:44:13.335
And so we gotta be, yeah.

659
00:44:17.475 --> 00:44:20.815
And cultural Christianity and say, well, I go to church.

660
00:44:20.915 --> 00:44:21.975
I'm in a small group. I serve

661
00:44:22.055 --> 00:44:23.175
a little bit, so I must be good.

662
00:44:23.315 --> 00:44:25.575
Yes, we gotta be careful. There's so much that's a part of

663
00:44:25.575 --> 00:44:26.775
how we do church in the West.

664
00:44:26.775 --> 00:44:29.215
And if I'm honest, even here at hope, that it's like,

665
00:44:29.365 --> 00:44:33.165
it's not necessarily prescribed in scripture, okay?

666
00:44:33.545 --> 00:44:36.365
And so that's why we've gotta be rooted in sound doctrine.

667
00:44:36.365 --> 00:44:37.965
Like this is what's gonna point us towards

668
00:44:37.985 --> 00:44:39.045
how we need to live our lives.

669
00:44:39.105 --> 00:44:41.685
And so, um, I was talking to Aaron Nelson this week.

670
00:44:41.715 --> 00:44:43.925
I'll hit one more. Uh, he said, maybe you ought

671
00:44:43.925 --> 00:44:45.285
to mention, uh, like self-help.

672
00:44:45.285 --> 00:44:47.045
There's a big self-help movement right now.

673
00:44:47.385 --> 00:44:48.405
And he mentioned one book.

674
00:44:48.445 --> 00:44:50.005
I haven't read it yet, so I didn't feel

675
00:44:50.005 --> 00:44:51.445
comfortable talking about it.

676
00:44:51.545 --> 00:44:54.845
Um, but I know for me a couple years ago, uh,

677
00:44:55.245 --> 00:44:58.485
I was on vacation and I took a couple of books by a guy

678
00:44:58.505 --> 00:44:59.925
by the name of David Goggins.

679
00:45:00.745 --> 00:45:03.765
Um, if you don't know, David goin, David Goggins,

680
00:45:03.805 --> 00:45:07.285
a former seal team member, um, very driven guy.

681
00:45:07.475 --> 00:45:09.565
It's like, Hey, you gotta man up. You gotta be tough.

682
00:45:09.665 --> 00:45:12.325
You could push through, um, says a lot of other words

683
00:45:12.325 --> 00:45:13.845
that I could never repeat up here

684
00:45:15.145 --> 00:45:17.165
and read a couple of other books by some other guys

685
00:45:17.165 --> 00:45:19.405
that were like the athletic trainer for Kobe Bryant

686
00:45:19.405 --> 00:45:20.405
and Michael Jordan.

687
00:45:20.785 --> 00:45:23.605
But like, I came out of that vacation time, like,

688
00:45:24.635 --> 00:45:25.845
yeah, I'm ready to go.

689
00:45:25.915 --> 00:45:28.205
Like I, and truthfully, in the months following,

690
00:45:28.205 --> 00:45:29.205
there were some people that said,

691
00:45:29.225 --> 00:45:31.005
two people specifically said, man,

692
00:45:31.005 --> 00:45:32.485
it seems like there's something different about you.

693
00:45:32.485 --> 00:45:34.285
Like you were really driven right now.

694
00:45:34.305 --> 00:45:35.805
And I was like, yeah, yeah.

695
00:45:36.665 --> 00:45:37.685
But they both looked at me

696
00:45:37.685 --> 00:45:38.965
and said, it kind

697
00:45:38.965 --> 00:45:40.645
of seems like you're hurting some people around you.

698
00:45:42.615 --> 00:45:45.595
And I thought, man, I may, maybe I need

699
00:45:45.875 --> 00:45:47.675
to be careful which books I'm reading

700
00:45:47.785 --> 00:45:49.555
outside of the right context.

701
00:45:50.535 --> 00:45:51.955
So we just gotta be careful, man,

702
00:45:51.955 --> 00:45:53.075
that stuff gets inside of us.

703
00:45:53.095 --> 00:45:55.155
It can shape us. And Paul's saying, there's some things

704
00:45:55.155 --> 00:45:56.555
that are floating around in your churches

705
00:45:56.655 --> 00:45:59.195
and in your communities, and it's wrecking families.

706
00:45:59.195 --> 00:46:00.595
You gotta be on guard. You gotta speak

707
00:46:00.595 --> 00:46:01.995
truth, you gotta bring clarity.

708
00:46:02.015 --> 00:46:04.835
So our second field note is this correction without

709
00:46:04.905 --> 00:46:06.275
love is cruel.

710
00:46:07.335 --> 00:46:10.595
It is. But love without correction is counterfeit.

711
00:46:11.435 --> 00:46:13.205
It's fake. A loving father,

712
00:46:13.355 --> 00:46:14.925
does it not correct his children?

713
00:46:14.985 --> 00:46:17.085
If I go to my doctor and he knows I've got an issue

714
00:46:17.085 --> 00:46:18.085
and he doesn't tell me the truth,

715
00:46:18.275 --> 00:46:21.405
it's not loving church family.

716
00:46:21.425 --> 00:46:23.045
We gotta be careful. We, we, there's folks

717
00:46:23.045 --> 00:46:24.325
around us in our lives

718
00:46:24.425 --> 00:46:25.485
or for ourselves that

719
00:46:25.485 --> 00:46:29.205
that will drift towards a trendy spirituality, um,

720
00:46:29.205 --> 00:46:31.565
or even towards a Christian sounding legalism.

721
00:46:31.715 --> 00:46:33.085
Like we wanna prove ourselves.

722
00:46:33.585 --> 00:46:35.725
And if we're not careful, we'll fall in that trap.

723
00:46:36.265 --> 00:46:38.525
But we speak the truth in love so that others around us

724
00:46:38.585 --> 00:46:41.405
and ourselves, our families can be found in,

725
00:46:41.425 --> 00:46:43.645
in sound healthy faith.

726
00:46:44.585 --> 00:46:46.405
Um, the truth is, our families

727
00:46:46.405 --> 00:46:48.005
and our children pay the price when we don't.

728
00:46:48.425 --> 00:46:51.245
And so, dad's, uh, I, I've got a note here for us, and,

729
00:46:51.265 --> 00:46:52.285
and I wrote it in my notes.

730
00:46:52.305 --> 00:46:54.125
It says, you don't have to be a theologian,

731
00:46:54.585 --> 00:46:57.525
but the reality is, we're all theologians.

732
00:46:57.725 --> 00:47:00.645
Theology is just the study of God or, or so.

733
00:47:00.865 --> 00:47:02.885
We are all theologians of what we believe

734
00:47:02.885 --> 00:47:03.965
to be true about God.

735
00:47:03.965 --> 00:47:05.085
So you are a theologian.

736
00:47:05.085 --> 00:47:06.365
I don't know if you're a good one or not,

737
00:47:07.265 --> 00:47:09.325
but, um, you are a theologian.

738
00:47:09.825 --> 00:47:12.445
And so we've gotta, again, I say it over

739
00:47:12.445 --> 00:47:14.085
and over, we've gotta be rooted in scripture.

740
00:47:14.175 --> 00:47:16.765
Sound doctrine is important, but we must be a truth teller.

741
00:47:16.765 --> 00:47:18.525
We've gotta know what's going on in the world around us.

742
00:47:18.655 --> 00:47:20.045
We've gotta know what's going on

743
00:47:20.045 --> 00:47:21.165
in the lives of our families.

744
00:47:21.265 --> 00:47:22.965
That's what love and protection looks like.

745
00:47:22.965 --> 00:47:25.565
Correction without love is cruel,

746
00:47:25.905 --> 00:47:28.765
but love without correction is counterfeit.

747
00:47:29.265 --> 00:47:31.205
Uh, okay, two more verses here.

748
00:47:31.205 --> 00:47:34.525
Verse 15, he says, to the pure, all things are pure,

749
00:47:34.625 --> 00:47:38.525
but to the defiled and unbelieving, nothing is pure,

750
00:47:39.145 --> 00:47:42.485
but both their minds and their consciences are defiled.

751
00:47:42.865 --> 00:47:47.285
Um, when Paul says pure, he's talking about, um, uh, moral

752
00:47:47.505 --> 00:47:48.525
and spiritual clarity.

753
00:47:49.185 --> 00:47:50.965
You understand when you look at things like when your

754
00:47:51.245 --> 00:47:53.165
doctrine is off, we lack clarity,

755
00:47:53.225 --> 00:47:55.405
and then everything around us becomes distorted.

756
00:47:56.065 --> 00:47:58.765
Uh, you remember that quote Tozier quote from week one.

757
00:47:58.905 --> 00:48:02.205
Uh, he said, what someone believes about God is the most

758
00:48:02.205 --> 00:48:04.285
important thing about them and their life.

759
00:48:05.275 --> 00:48:08.165
When our doctrine's off, we're following the wrong map.

760
00:48:08.695 --> 00:48:10.165
We're not gonna end up in the right place.

761
00:48:10.215 --> 00:48:13.045
We've gotta know that when you distort the truth, everything

762
00:48:13.045 --> 00:48:14.485
around you can be twisted.

763
00:48:14.665 --> 00:48:16.805
But when we hold tightly to the word,

764
00:48:17.335 --> 00:48:18.525
we'll see the world rightly.

765
00:48:18.695 --> 00:48:20.085
We've gotta recognize that we gotta

766
00:48:20.085 --> 00:48:21.245
keep it on in the front of our minds.

767
00:48:21.245 --> 00:48:22.485
And then we get to verse 16,

768
00:48:23.025 --> 00:48:25.725
and, um, he, he throws a knockout punch here.

769
00:48:26.505 --> 00:48:28.845
He says, they profess to know God,

770
00:48:30.615 --> 00:48:32.275
but they deny him by their works.

771
00:48:33.625 --> 00:48:36.195
They're detestable, disobedient,

772
00:48:37.405 --> 00:48:38.875
unfit for any good work.

773
00:48:40.815 --> 00:48:42.075
You could hear that and be like, you know,

774
00:48:42.755 --> 00:48:45.235
I feel like the red letters in my Bible when Jesus talks,

775
00:48:45.235 --> 00:48:47.115
it seems like he's a little nice and uh,

776
00:48:47.815 --> 00:48:50.635
or very nice, not so much with Paul.

777
00:48:51.775 --> 00:48:54.555
And, uh, I'm gonna speak to that, uh, at the end

778
00:48:54.575 --> 00:48:56.355
of this message if I remember.

779
00:48:56.415 --> 00:48:57.915
But he lands this truth.

780
00:48:57.915 --> 00:48:59.915
He says they know God, but their lives say otherwise.

781
00:49:00.215 --> 00:49:03.755
And he's not talking about just about this ancient group

782
00:49:03.775 --> 00:49:06.235
of people, uh, that were in creed anymore.

783
00:49:06.265 --> 00:49:09.395
He's talking to anyone then or now who claims to follow God,

784
00:49:09.735 --> 00:49:11.355
but their life doesn't match up.

785
00:49:12.375 --> 00:49:13.835
And, uh, the truth is,

786
00:49:15.695 --> 00:49:17.555
and you gotta, you've gotta watch for people.

787
00:49:17.555 --> 00:49:19.435
Like I want you to see this in your own life,

788
00:49:19.455 --> 00:49:21.755
but we've also, what he's talking about is being mindful

789
00:49:21.855 --> 00:49:22.915
of people in your community.

790
00:49:23.685 --> 00:49:27.035
There are those who will say Jesus is Lord okay.

791
00:49:27.815 --> 00:49:29.755
But at the end of the day, um,

792
00:49:30.615 --> 00:49:34.115
if Jesus doesn't get the final say in our marriage,

793
00:49:35.535 --> 00:49:36.595
in our finances,

794
00:49:37.495 --> 00:49:41.035
and, uh, in our purity, in our priorities,

795
00:49:41.255 --> 00:49:43.635
we gotta ask the question, is he really Lord of our lives?

796
00:49:44.495 --> 00:49:46.635
It is possible to show up and sing on Sunday

797
00:49:46.855 --> 00:49:48.635
and not follow Jesus on Monday.

798
00:49:49.455 --> 00:49:50.915
And we gotta be mindful of this

799
00:49:50.915 --> 00:49:52.315
because at the end of the day,

800
00:49:52.695 --> 00:49:54.755
our life will preach the real sermon.

801
00:49:55.625 --> 00:49:59.635
Your loudest sermon is the life that you live. Amen.

802
00:50:00.335 --> 00:50:01.395
And people are watching,

803
00:50:01.615 --> 00:50:03.355
our kids are watching people hear your

804
00:50:03.355 --> 00:50:04.635
actions louder than your words.

805
00:50:04.695 --> 00:50:07.475
We know if you have children, more is caught than taught.

806
00:50:07.615 --> 00:50:08.835
You can tell 'em anything in the world

807
00:50:08.835 --> 00:50:09.955
that you wanna tell 'em.

808
00:50:10.025 --> 00:50:12.795
They are watching the decisions that you make in your life.

809
00:50:12.975 --> 00:50:15.755
And so the world needs a church, uh,

810
00:50:15.755 --> 00:50:17.675
that practices what the Bible teaches.

811
00:50:18.135 --> 00:50:19.555
That's what the world needs to see.

812
00:50:19.555 --> 00:50:20.715
And if we claim to know God,

813
00:50:20.735 --> 00:50:22.875
but live no differently, we are unfit

814
00:50:23.055 --> 00:50:24.715
to share the hope that we have in Jesus.

815
00:50:24.815 --> 00:50:26.875
We say as a church, at hope, we're a family.

816
00:50:26.935 --> 00:50:28.605
We're the family of God who loves God,

817
00:50:28.635 --> 00:50:30.285
follows Jesus and shares hope.

818
00:50:30.305 --> 00:50:32.085
We can't love God if we don't know God.

819
00:50:32.085 --> 00:50:34.685
But as we begin to know him, we can love him

820
00:50:34.685 --> 00:50:36.205
that looks like following Jesus.

821
00:50:36.345 --> 00:50:39.485
And then, and only then are we really in a place to be able

822
00:50:39.485 --> 00:50:43.525
to point people to the hope that we have in Jesus Dads

823
00:50:44.385 --> 00:50:45.485
the greatest gift.

824
00:50:46.145 --> 00:50:49.525
Um, my notes here say, the greatest gift that you can give

825
00:50:49.545 --> 00:50:52.685
to your family, um, is a life that matches your message.

826
00:50:53.425 --> 00:50:56.085
Um, again, I would change that the greatest gift

827
00:50:56.085 --> 00:50:58.165
that you can give to your family is, is a life

828
00:50:58.235 --> 00:50:59.765
that matches this message

829
00:51:00.835 --> 00:51:02.725
that matches the gospel of Jesus Christ.

830
00:51:02.795 --> 00:51:05.965
It's not perfection, but it's a life of integrity.

831
00:51:06.465 --> 00:51:08.325
Um, let your kids see you pray.

832
00:51:09.265 --> 00:51:11.485
Uh, let your see your, let your kids see you.

833
00:51:11.485 --> 00:51:14.685
Study and value the word of God to, to the point to

834
00:51:14.685 --> 00:51:15.925
where you get to a place where you say, you know what?

835
00:51:16.125 --> 00:51:18.005
I, I I need to confess this sin

836
00:51:18.005 --> 00:51:19.205
against you, against my family.

837
00:51:19.295 --> 00:51:21.365
There is something strong about a man

838
00:51:21.385 --> 00:51:22.485
and a family, about a mother

839
00:51:22.525 --> 00:51:23.925
and a family that says, Hey, you know what?

840
00:51:24.445 --> 00:51:26.965
I slipped up. Um, let them see.

841
00:51:27.065 --> 00:51:28.565
Let your family see you worship.

842
00:51:28.765 --> 00:51:30.405
I love, I was over here worshiping on the side.

843
00:51:30.405 --> 00:51:32.365
And there's some men down here in this front row

844
00:51:32.515 --> 00:51:34.405
that were like just laying it all out

845
00:51:34.405 --> 00:51:35.565
on the line before their God.

846
00:51:35.625 --> 00:51:37.245
That's what our families need to see.

847
00:51:38.905 --> 00:51:40.805
Let them see you serve. Let them see you give,

848
00:51:40.825 --> 00:51:42.485
let them see you care for other people.

849
00:51:42.545 --> 00:51:45.645
Let them see you. Lay down your life for your wife

850
00:51:45.785 --> 00:51:48.925
and stand strong on the truth of God's word In this world,

851
00:51:48.945 --> 00:51:52.845
the loudest sermon is the life that you live.

852
00:51:53.945 --> 00:51:56.605
Uh, I read, how much time do I got? Alright, we doing okay?

853
00:51:56.655 --> 00:52:00.605
We're doing all right. Um, I know you could hear this, uh,

854
00:52:00.745 --> 00:52:03.285
as a guy, uh, or, or as a woman, to be honest

855
00:52:03.425 --> 00:52:07.255
and think I am, I am not equipped, uh,

856
00:52:07.435 --> 00:52:08.455
to be able to do that.

857
00:52:09.035 --> 00:52:13.195
Um, we have a responsibility as a church to equip you.

858
00:52:13.395 --> 00:52:18.195
I, um, in, in the fall of this coming year, uh,

859
00:52:18.925 --> 00:52:22.435
there is a, an organization called the Fourth Musketeer.

860
00:52:22.895 --> 00:52:26.155
And, uh, they take these, uh, they take like four days

861
00:52:26.155 --> 00:52:28.395
and they take a group of about 50 guys, um,

862
00:52:28.575 --> 00:52:31.315
out into the wilderness, out camping for like four days.

863
00:52:31.315 --> 00:52:32.915
It's called the Extreme Character Challenge.

864
00:52:33.335 --> 00:52:35.555
And, uh, and they just invest in you

865
00:52:35.555 --> 00:52:37.835
and call you into the deep truths of scripture of

866
00:52:37.835 --> 00:52:39.595
what your life should be about as a man.

867
00:52:39.595 --> 00:52:42.275
Like the whole thing is about awakening the hearts of men.

868
00:52:42.435 --> 00:52:44.755
I have this conviction that what the world needs right now,

869
00:52:44.935 --> 00:52:46.915
and this is not shorting anything about women,

870
00:52:46.975 --> 00:52:48.915
but like we need men to understand that Paul,

871
00:52:48.915 --> 00:52:50.595
that God has placed on their lives.

872
00:52:50.975 --> 00:52:53.355
And so I've had some conversations with their leadership,

873
00:52:53.655 --> 00:52:56.635
um, myself, uh, Sam Cannoli, uh,

874
00:52:56.815 --> 00:52:59.235
the worship pastor here at the Raleigh campus, uh,

875
00:52:59.265 --> 00:53:00.955
Matt Curtis, our Fuqua campus pastor,

876
00:53:00.975 --> 00:53:02.755
and then Jason Collier, one of our elders.

877
00:53:02.975 --> 00:53:04.955
Uh, this Thursday we're gonna jump on a plane

878
00:53:05.175 --> 00:53:07.395
and we're gonna head out to, uh, Colorado.

879
00:53:08.215 --> 00:53:09.395
I'm gonna go up in the Rocky Mountains.

880
00:53:09.395 --> 00:53:11.355
We're gonna be there for four days. If you heard, uh,

881
00:53:11.355 --> 00:53:13.635
the first sermon in this series, um,

882
00:53:13.745 --> 00:53:15.435
I've got some pretty crazy camping trips.

883
00:53:15.495 --> 00:53:16.715
And so I'm believing

884
00:53:16.715 --> 00:53:18.595
that this one's gonna be a little bit better than that one.

885
00:53:19.935 --> 00:53:22.875
But then the goal is for us to kinda catch a vision for this

886
00:53:22.875 --> 00:53:25.325
and then come back and then we're gonna be calling all the

887
00:53:25.325 --> 00:53:26.805
men in our church that want to go

888
00:53:26.805 --> 00:53:28.965
and be a part of this thing, uh, in the fall,

889
00:53:29.065 --> 00:53:30.445
in the mountains of North Carolina.

890
00:53:30.745 --> 00:53:34.605
And so, uh, if you are interested in that, uh,

891
00:53:34.825 --> 00:53:36.765
we wanna go ahead and start collecting some info.

892
00:53:36.825 --> 00:53:38.445
I'm telling you the spots are gonna fill up quickly.

893
00:53:38.705 --> 00:53:40.845
Uh, but you can text the word mountain

894
00:53:41.465 --> 00:53:46.445
to 7 2 9 8 9 mountain, M-O-U-N-T-A-I-N,

895
00:53:46.945 --> 00:53:48.325
uh, to 7 2 9 8 9.

896
00:53:48.325 --> 00:53:49.485
You'll get a link sent to your phone.

897
00:53:49.585 --> 00:53:51.805
You can, uh, you know, put the information in there

898
00:53:51.805 --> 00:53:53.365
and you're gonna be like, am I gonna get all the details?

899
00:53:53.425 --> 00:53:54.565
No, no, not right now.

900
00:53:54.565 --> 00:53:55.885
That's a bunch of guys leading this thing.

901
00:53:55.905 --> 00:53:59.525
But, um, we will follow up with you, uh, this week, okay?

902
00:53:59.665 --> 00:54:02.245
And then you're gonna hear more about what's coming up.

903
00:54:02.245 --> 00:54:03.845
But look, don't wait till the fall either.

904
00:54:03.875 --> 00:54:06.605
I've told you last week, go to your campus pastor, go

905
00:54:06.605 --> 00:54:08.525
to the men's events that are a part of your campus.

906
00:54:09.785 --> 00:54:12.565
Um, we need other folks in our lives, okay?

907
00:54:13.565 --> 00:54:14.965
I want to end where I began.

908
00:54:15.265 --> 00:54:18.325
Uh, if someone showed up at your house to wreck your family,

909
00:54:19.865 --> 00:54:21.005
you would do something about it.

910
00:54:21.705 --> 00:54:25.165
Uh, I know for me, part of the reason that I work out is

911
00:54:25.165 --> 00:54:26.645
to be strong, uh,

912
00:54:26.865 --> 00:54:30.525
and to be in a good position that if someone did try

913
00:54:30.525 --> 00:54:31.685
to take advantage of my wife

914
00:54:31.685 --> 00:54:34.125
and kids, um, I'd be in a better place to defend 'em.

915
00:54:34.125 --> 00:54:35.245
It just would. That doesn't mean

916
00:54:35.245 --> 00:54:37.325
that like it definitely would work out that way.

917
00:54:37.425 --> 00:54:38.925
It doesn't mean that I don't depend on

918
00:54:38.925 --> 00:54:40.005
God's help to protect our family.

919
00:54:40.305 --> 00:54:42.245
It does mean that I think if somebody had to choose

920
00:54:42.245 --> 00:54:43.685
between my family or another family,

921
00:54:44.015 --> 00:54:45.405
maybe you would realize it might be

922
00:54:45.405 --> 00:54:46.485
an easier target over here.

923
00:54:46.665 --> 00:54:50.005
And it would be. Um, I also have a 16-year-old daughter,

924
00:54:50.105 --> 00:54:52.285
and I need every young man in that school to know, you know

925
00:54:52.285 --> 00:54:54.645
what, her dad's a little different.

926
00:54:55.745 --> 00:54:58.085
So, so far it's, uh, it's working.

927
00:54:58.665 --> 00:55:00.325
But I know a lot of you are the same way.

928
00:55:00.465 --> 00:55:02.885
He would lay down your life in a heartbeat

929
00:55:02.885 --> 00:55:03.965
to protect your family.

930
00:55:04.305 --> 00:55:06.365
But here's what Paul's saying in Titus chapter one.

931
00:55:06.365 --> 00:55:08.205
And I want every dad and every man in this room

932
00:55:08.265 --> 00:55:10.285
to feel it down in your bones.

933
00:55:10.705 --> 00:55:14.685
The most dangerous threat to your family is not physical.

934
00:55:15.225 --> 00:55:16.445
It is spiritual.

935
00:55:18.825 --> 00:55:21.445
And as dads, as fathers,

936
00:55:21.445 --> 00:55:23.245
we've got a responsibility to step up.

937
00:55:23.305 --> 00:55:24.965
And we hear the voices

938
00:55:25.075 --> 00:55:26.845
that tell us like, no, it's no big deal.

939
00:55:27.305 --> 00:55:29.165
Uh, who are you to speak up?

940
00:55:29.285 --> 00:55:30.805
I mean, look, your own life as a wreck.

941
00:55:31.665 --> 00:55:34.685
Hey, culture's changing. Maybe we just need to adapt.

942
00:55:35.025 --> 00:55:37.245
But make no mistake, the enemy would love nothing better

943
00:55:37.245 --> 00:55:39.805
than, as Paul said, to get inside, to get a foothold

944
00:55:39.805 --> 00:55:42.645
and to flip your family upside down.

945
00:55:42.825 --> 00:55:46.325
And so men, the question is this, will you stand guard?

946
00:55:48.135 --> 00:55:49.145
Will you stand guard?

947
00:55:49.405 --> 00:55:51.345
Not with fist clenched like in anger,

948
00:55:51.345 --> 00:55:52.985
but with heart sitter grounded in truth?

949
00:55:53.225 --> 00:55:55.425
Will you lead with grace and courage?

950
00:55:55.425 --> 00:55:57.745
Will you let your family see a heart of faith?

951
00:56:00.185 --> 00:56:04.105
'cause the world is watching, your family's watching.

952
00:56:04.205 --> 00:56:07.025
God has placed you where he has, he has placed you

953
00:56:07.025 --> 00:56:08.345
where he has with the purpose.

954
00:56:09.605 --> 00:56:10.865
And I had this thought this week,

955
00:56:12.195 --> 00:56:14.025
could you imagine if thousands

956
00:56:14.125 --> 00:56:16.545
of men at hope said, you know what?

957
00:56:18.205 --> 00:56:21.825
We will stand guard. I I believe our

958
00:56:21.825 --> 00:56:22.985
communities would be transformed.

959
00:56:23.165 --> 00:56:24.765
I believe our schools would be transformed.

960
00:56:24.765 --> 00:56:27.485
And so on this Father's Day weekend, if you were a man,

961
00:56:27.825 --> 00:56:30.205
if you're a dad, a mentor, a leader,

962
00:56:30.465 --> 00:56:32.045
if you're a spiritual protector,

963
00:56:32.045 --> 00:56:33.605
you can be in high school and say, you know what?

964
00:56:33.985 --> 00:56:36.245
I'm going to be one who sets a, a, a culture

965
00:56:36.385 --> 00:56:39.245
of spiritual protection over those around me in my school.

966
00:56:39.745 --> 00:56:43.125
If that is you, I i across all of our campuses right now,

967
00:56:43.245 --> 00:56:44.925
I just would invite you just to stand to your feet.

968
00:56:44.965 --> 00:56:48.165
I would love to pray for you. And it's not

969
00:56:48.165 --> 00:56:49.525
because you have it all figured out.

970
00:56:50.475 --> 00:56:52.525
It's because you're stepping in the fight to say,

971
00:56:52.605 --> 00:56:54.165
I will stand between my family.

972
00:56:54.405 --> 00:56:56.805
I will stand between my community and the enemy.

973
00:56:57.045 --> 00:57:00.925
I will not be silent in the face of lies. I won't do it.

974
00:57:01.245 --> 00:57:02.965
I will love with grace, and I'll lead with truth.

975
00:57:02.965 --> 00:57:04.285
And so, if you're willing to join me,

976
00:57:04.665 --> 00:57:06.845
and I know there's hundreds already standing up in this

977
00:57:06.845 --> 00:57:09.245
room, I just wanna invite you to stand to your feet.

978
00:57:10.105 --> 00:57:13.125
And then, um, before I pray for us, um,

979
00:57:14.105 --> 00:57:15.245
And this is beautiful by the way.

980
00:57:15.325 --> 00:57:18.285
I mean, could you imagine if we really took this seriously?

981
00:57:22.075 --> 00:57:24.355
I know there's probably some men that are standing right now

982
00:57:24.355 --> 00:57:27.235
and maybe, um, some that, that, that aren't.

983
00:57:28.815 --> 00:57:30.115
But if you're standing right now

984
00:57:30.115 --> 00:57:31.995
and you've actually never made the decision

985
00:57:32.175 --> 00:57:33.875
to trust in Jesus as your Lord

986
00:57:33.875 --> 00:57:37.395
and Savior, um, that's the starting line.

987
00:57:38.495 --> 00:57:40.635
That's where we start. And the reality is we're celebrating

988
00:57:40.635 --> 00:57:42.555
Father's Day and we would protect our children.

989
00:57:42.575 --> 00:57:44.675
But you know what God did to protect all of his children?

990
00:57:45.095 --> 00:57:47.395
He allowed his one and only son to go to a cross

991
00:57:47.415 --> 00:57:48.835
to pay the penalty for your sins.

992
00:57:48.835 --> 00:57:50.995
Amen. And so I'm just gonna give you an opportunity

993
00:57:51.055 --> 00:57:55.915
as a man already standing if you're in that place

994
00:57:55.915 --> 00:57:57.555
and you've never made that decision,

995
00:57:57.615 --> 00:57:58.675
but you wanna make a decision.

996
00:57:58.705 --> 00:57:59.995
I've tried to do it on my own.

997
00:58:00.185 --> 00:58:01.715
I've tried to do it outta my own strength,

998
00:58:01.715 --> 00:58:03.715
and I know no longer do I wanna do that.

999
00:58:03.715 --> 00:58:06.395
I wanna turn to Jesus. Would you be so bold as to just, just

1000
00:58:06.395 --> 00:58:07.435
to raise your hand in here?

1001
00:58:09.985 --> 00:58:11.755
Yeah, I see you. Thank you. Yeah,

1002
00:58:13.195 --> 00:58:14.195
I see you right here.

1003
00:58:14.335 --> 00:58:15.335
Yep.

1004
00:58:19.265 --> 00:58:21.835
It's the best decision you'll ever make. Amen.

1005
00:58:22.455 --> 00:58:24.155
Um, I'm gonna pray now.

1006
00:58:24.155 --> 00:58:25.515
I'm just gonna have everybody, by your heads

1007
00:58:25.515 --> 00:58:26.595
with you, men still standing.

1008
00:58:26.615 --> 00:58:28.395
And for those who just raise their hand in this room,

1009
00:58:28.475 --> 00:58:30.355
I just want you to, there's no magic in a prayer.

1010
00:58:30.455 --> 00:58:31.835
You can put your own words to it.

1011
00:58:31.915 --> 00:58:33.115
I just want you to pray after me.

1012
00:58:34.335 --> 00:58:38.155
Father in heaven, I know that I'm a sinner.

1013
00:58:39.915 --> 00:58:43.915
I know I've gone my own way and tried to do it myself.

1014
00:58:45.555 --> 00:58:47.235
I thank you for sending your son Jesus

1015
00:58:50.565 --> 00:58:52.385
to live the life I could have never lived

1016
00:58:53.965 --> 00:58:56.385
and to pay the penalty for my sins on a cross.

1017
00:58:58.685 --> 00:59:01.345
And I recognize that he rose again three days later,

1018
00:59:01.345 --> 00:59:04.105
overcoming sin and death so

1019
00:59:04.105 --> 00:59:06.145
that I could have a restored relationship with you.

1020
00:59:08.145 --> 00:59:09.235
I Trust

1021
00:59:09.255 --> 00:59:11.875
and believe in Jesus as the Lord and Savior of my life.

1022
00:59:14.175 --> 00:59:16.235
And now I just wanna pray for the rest of those standing.

1023
00:59:16.235 --> 00:59:18.395
Father, I, I want to thank you for the men who have said,

1024
00:59:18.395 --> 00:59:19.515
yes, I will stand guard.

1025
00:59:20.095 --> 00:59:22.725
Um, we live in a day and age that that doctrine

1026
00:59:22.745 --> 00:59:24.565
and in truth is just getting twisted.

1027
00:59:25.025 --> 00:59:27.245
And Lord, you call us as your church family,

1028
00:59:27.345 --> 00:59:29.165
as your followers to dig deep down

1029
00:59:29.385 --> 00:59:31.485
and as truths of scripture, not so

1030
00:59:31.485 --> 00:59:34.325
that we can fight physically against other people, Lord,

1031
00:59:34.325 --> 00:59:36.645
but so that we can stand strong and to be able to correct

1032
00:59:36.945 --> 00:59:39.765
and to ultimately point people back to the gospel.

1033
00:59:41.265 --> 00:59:44.485
And so, Lord, I pray right now for every man

1034
00:59:44.485 --> 00:59:45.925
that's standing, and I know

1035
00:59:45.925 --> 00:59:48.885
because I live it myself, there's this fear of inadequacy.

1036
00:59:48.925 --> 00:59:50.085
I pray that you would strengthen them

1037
00:59:50.085 --> 00:59:51.205
through the power of your spirit.

1038
00:59:51.365 --> 00:59:52.565
I pray you would give them boldness.

1039
00:59:52.765 --> 00:59:55.125
I pray you would give them humility to be able to say, Hey,

1040
00:59:55.125 --> 00:59:56.405
I don't have it figured out all the time.

1041
00:59:56.405 --> 00:59:58.245
But as a family, we need to go on a journey.

1042
00:59:58.255 --> 01:00:00.725
We've been going in one direction. We need to go in another.

1043
01:00:03.195 --> 01:00:05.565
Lord, I pray for the, for the women,

1044
01:00:05.665 --> 01:00:09.925
for the wives in this group, Lord, that provide so much

1045
01:00:11.035 --> 01:00:13.885
consistency and steadiness and love.

1046
01:00:15.675 --> 01:00:17.365
Amen. For our family. Lord, I pray

1047
01:00:17.365 --> 01:00:19.605
that they would experience a blessing from you as well.

1048
01:00:19.825 --> 01:00:23.485
Yes, Lord. Would we be a church that is about your business,

1049
01:00:23.485 --> 01:00:27.085
about expanding your kingdom, about helping the world come

1050
01:00:27.305 --> 01:00:29.005
to know and experience the love of God

1051
01:00:29.005 --> 01:00:30.605
and the life that Jesus came to make available?

1052
01:00:30.665 --> 01:00:32.085
We love you Lord. And we pray these things

1053
01:00:32.305 --> 01:00:34.925
and the name of Jesus and everyone said, amen.

1054
01:00:36.155 --> 01:00:37.645
Okay, I wanna say one other thing.

1055
01:00:37.665 --> 01:00:40.565
You guys can have a seat, um, really quickly.

1056
01:00:41.065 --> 01:00:44.085
Um, uh, I mentioned that thing about Paul,

1057
01:00:44.085 --> 01:00:47.205
like I know he can be kind of aggressive if you hear this

1058
01:00:47.205 --> 01:00:48.485
and you're like, man, I don't know about that guy.

1059
01:00:48.805 --> 01:00:50.525
I want you to know what if, like

1060
01:00:50.525 --> 01:00:51.885
what we just talked about was true.

1061
01:00:51.995 --> 01:00:53.965
What if there really was some things going on

1062
01:00:53.965 --> 01:00:55.485
that could tear apart families?

1063
01:00:55.905 --> 01:00:58.485
You would want somebody to stand on guard

1064
01:00:58.505 --> 01:01:00.245
and to speak directly to those things.

1065
01:01:00.545 --> 01:01:03.045
And so my hope and my prayer is that you will see Paul for

1066
01:01:03.045 --> 01:01:05.605
who he is and see his words for what they are is meant

1067
01:01:05.785 --> 01:01:08.205
to protect the family of God.

1068
01:01:08.505 --> 01:01:10.125
And my hope, like when you guys,

1069
01:01:10.255 --> 01:01:11.485
there might be people in here right now

1070
01:01:11.485 --> 01:01:14.765
that like one day I might be on the other side of eternity.

1071
01:01:15.025 --> 01:01:16.325
And my hope and prayer is

1072
01:01:16.325 --> 01:01:18.325
that if you called Hope Community Church, um,

1073
01:01:18.505 --> 01:01:19.885
you might not say that Jason

1074
01:01:19.985 --> 01:01:21.165
and the teaching pastor team

1075
01:01:21.165 --> 01:01:22.365
there at Hope were the funniest.

1076
01:01:22.785 --> 01:01:24.245
Uh, you might not say that.

1077
01:01:24.285 --> 01:01:25.165
I don't even care if you say

1078
01:01:25.165 --> 01:01:26.285
he's he's not the best preacher.

1079
01:01:26.345 --> 01:01:28.085
I'm okay with that. But, but my hope

1080
01:01:28.085 --> 01:01:29.725
and my prayers, you say, but you know what he did do?

1081
01:01:29.795 --> 01:01:33.325
They, they unashamedly pointed at us to this truths

1082
01:01:33.325 --> 01:01:35.605
of scripture and it provided protection

1083
01:01:35.605 --> 01:01:37.125
and shepherding for my life.

1084
01:01:37.465 --> 01:01:39.365
So that's what we're about here at heart.

1085
01:01:43.205 --> 01:01:45.385
And uh, lastly, I'll just say this,

1086
01:01:45.385 --> 01:01:46.625
happy Father's Day, guys.

1087
01:01:46.885 --> 01:01:48.825
It, it, it ain't a tough, it ain't an easy job.

1088
01:01:49.605 --> 01:01:53.385
And, um, keep the faith, um, surround yourself with people

1089
01:01:53.385 --> 01:01:54.825
that can come alongside of you

1090
01:01:54.965 --> 01:01:57.025
and know that you've got a loving father that loves you

1091
01:01:57.025 --> 01:01:58.345
and is walking alongside with you.

1092
01:01:58.345 --> 01:01:59.865
Love you guys. Happy Father's Day.

1093
01:02:01.815 --> 01:02:03.665
Well, as we close out our time, uh,

1094
01:02:03.665 --> 01:02:07.345
first I wanna remind you, um, uh, to take the steps

1095
01:02:07.365 --> 01:02:10.545
of faith necessary as you have heard the word of the Lord.

1096
01:02:10.845 --> 01:02:13.185
And, uh, whatever response God is prompting your

1097
01:02:13.185 --> 01:02:14.505
heart, we want to help you with that.

1098
01:02:14.565 --> 01:02:16.545
So make sure that you stop at next steps.

1099
01:02:16.565 --> 01:02:18.185
And if you're watching online, uh,

1100
01:02:18.185 --> 01:02:19.605
let us know how we can serve you.

1101
01:02:19.605 --> 01:02:20.925
And that's exactly what we'll do.

1102
01:02:21.425 --> 01:02:23.125
But I also wanna take this opportunity

1103
01:02:23.145 --> 01:02:24.325
to close out our time together.

1104
01:02:24.345 --> 01:02:26.645
You've heard Jason talk a little bit about Father's Day,

1105
01:02:27.025 --> 01:02:28.085
and so I wanna take a moment

1106
01:02:28.105 --> 01:02:29.805
to celebrate all of the Fathers.

1107
01:02:30.105 --> 01:02:33.165
Um, there is so much that our fathers do for us,

1108
01:02:33.275 --> 01:02:35.725
whether it's discipling us and the family

1109
01:02:35.825 --> 01:02:39.005
or other men, whether it's fixing our bike

1110
01:02:39.345 --> 01:02:41.365
or telling us to push just a little bit more.

1111
01:02:41.985 --> 01:02:43.365
Uh, fathers just have a way

1112
01:02:43.585 --> 01:02:45.725
of hitting a special place in our hearts.

1113
01:02:46.305 --> 01:02:48.525
And so, um, we wanna take a moment

1114
01:02:48.585 --> 01:02:50.765
to celebrate every father in the room.

1115
01:02:50.825 --> 01:02:53.325
So would you join me in just a rousing round of applause

1116
01:02:53.785 --> 01:02:55.965
for every father here?

1117
01:02:57.345 --> 01:02:59.525
Not, Come on. Let him hear.

1118
01:03:06.145 --> 01:03:08.645
And fathers, I know that the journey can be difficult

1119
01:03:08.645 --> 01:03:10.645
and be quite the challenge to walk this out.

1120
01:03:11.105 --> 01:03:14.005
And so I want you to know that your whole church is

1121
01:03:14.005 --> 01:03:16.925
with you, that we love you, that we support you,

1122
01:03:17.115 --> 01:03:19.005
that we don't want you in any way

1123
01:03:19.025 --> 01:03:20.485
to grow weary and well-doing.

1124
01:03:20.865 --> 01:03:22.965
As a matter of fact, you got a whole host of brothers

1125
01:03:22.965 --> 01:03:25.085
who are cheering you on.

1126
01:03:25.865 --> 01:03:28.525
Uh, and our little bit of a way for us to say thank you

1127
01:03:28.525 --> 01:03:30.485
for all that you do, we created these little journals.

1128
01:03:30.485 --> 01:03:31.805
We are in a series called Field Notes.

1129
01:03:32.105 --> 01:03:35.005
And so we got some very, some field notes for you

1130
01:03:35.005 --> 01:03:36.085
to have of your very own.

1131
01:03:36.505 --> 01:03:38.325
And maybe you can mark just a little bit of

1132
01:03:38.325 --> 01:03:39.965
what God's been teaching you through this series.

1133
01:03:40.215 --> 01:03:42.805
Maybe one day you can share it with your children,

1134
01:03:43.095 --> 01:03:45.445
maybe your son who will potentially be a father.

1135
01:03:46.145 --> 01:03:48.245
You. We love you. This is an honor to worship

1136
01:03:48.245 --> 01:03:49.285
with you every single week

1137
01:03:49.285 --> 01:03:51.165
and we do hope to see you back here next week.

1138
01:03:51.705 --> 01:03:53.965
So as we head out, let's all do our best

1139
01:03:53.965 --> 01:03:55.365
to go out and be hope.

1140
01:03:55.785 --> 01:03:56.325
God bless you.