Dana brings a rare combination of deep analytical insight and artistic fluency to the conversation, shaped by decades of work as both a mediator and an award-winning performing artist. We explore how the way we approach conflict — in work, relationships, and even with ourselves — is a direct reflection of how we manage time, attention, and energy.
Six Discussion Points
- Why conflict isn’t a distraction from productivity — it’s a part of it.
- The four fundamental elements of conflict: emotion, needs, interests, and strategies.
- How assumptions derail conversations and curiosity keeps them alive.
- Replacing complaints and demands with thoughtful requests.
- The role of journaling in conflict clarity and attention calibration.
- Dana’s “20 Decisions” framework and how to work with — not against — your conflict habits.
Three Connection Points
This episode reminded me that conflict isn’t something we need to fear or avoid — it’s something we can navigate with purpose. Dana’s thoughtful framework is more than theory; it’s a guide you can return to anytime you feel stuck, misunderstood, or simply out of sync. If you want to turn tension into transformation, this conversation is a must-listen.
What is A Productive Conversation?
Hosted by productivity strategist Mike Vardy, A Productive Conversation offers insightful discussions on how to craft a life that aligns with your intentions. Each episode dives into the art of time devotion, productiveness, and refining your approach to daily living. Mike invites guests who are thinkers, doers, and creators to share their strategies for working smarter and living more intentionally. From practical tips to deep dives on mindset shifts, this podcast will help you reframe your relationship with time and find balance in a busy world.
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