The Purple Pawedcast

Today I speak with the one and only Ossiana Tepfenhart, who covered the adult film industry as a journalist and has written on topics from music to politics to sex.  Ossiana and I discuss Lolita fashion, control freaks, and why we should not be embarrassed to appreciate a good orgasm.

REFERENCES:
Find Ossiana on Substack:  https://ossiana.substack.com/
Find Ossiana on Medium:  https://medium.com/@ossiana.tepfenhart
Find The Refugee Newsletter on Substack:  https://therefugee.substack.com/
Gender Identity Today:  https://genderidentitytoday.com/

  • (00:00) - Show opening
  • (00:35) - Introducing Ossiana
  • (03:46) - Gender, beauty, and sexuality
  • (09:01) - Unreal social expectations
  • (11:27) - Ami defines gender and sexuality in 10 words or less
  • (14:45) - Sex and gender are more than physical
  • (18:26) - Beauty is not (always) symmetrical
  • (23:26) - Scary sells...really well
  • (29:28) - Sex is not a bad thing
  • (33:42) - Victorian era repression
  • (38:19) - Shame as a means of control
  • (40:50) - Slut-shaming and society
  • (45:00) - Forbidden fruit
  • (48:59) - Abuse at the hands of those not getting any
  • (51:43) - Show closing
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Creators and Guests

Host
Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D.
Scientist, storyteller, and professional overthinker of all things identity. Also, I happen to be a transgender woman.

What is The Purple Pawedcast?

Welcome to The Purple Pawedcast, where we unpack the complexities of gender, identity, and what it truly means to be human—without the academic jargon (okay, maybe just a little, but only the fun kind).

Curated by Amethysta Herrick. Ph.D., this pod is where science, philosophy, and lived experience collide to challenge assumptions and spark new perspectives. Whether you’re here to explore your own identity, stay informed on the latest research, or just enjoy a deep dive into the human experience, we deliver thoughtful, engaging, and refreshingly honest discussions. No fluff. No gatekeeping. Just real conversations about who we are and how we navigate the world. Dive in, stay curious, and let’s rethink identity together.