The Purple Pawedcast

In today's episode, I speak with Lisa Haukom: a dear friend, photographer, and developer of The Self-Portrait Method - a course designed to help us learn to see who we truly are.  Lisa and I talk about topics as diverse as self-objectification, why we must approve of ourselves first, and the claptrap of a French Bitch.

REFERENCES:
Goldenbrand Photography:  https://www.thegoldenbrand.co/
The Self-Portrait Method:  https://www.thegoldenbrand.co/self-portraitstudio
Austin Kleon:  https://austinkleon.com/
Gender Identity Today:  https://genderidentitytoday.com/

  • (00:00) - Show opening
  • (00:36) - Introducing Lisa
  • (03:05) - Why did I feel beautiful in a photo shoot?
  • (05:36) - The magic of being seen through other eyes
  • (09:15) - Affirming, not validating
  • (12:22) - The selfie camera is validation
  • (15:33) - Just be yourself is terrible advice
  • (20:21) - Self-objectification
  • (25:15) - Affirmation requires our own approval
  • (32:35) - Why do we try so hard when it isn't real?
  • (37:32) - The truth you didn't know existed
  • (40:35) - Why is authenticity compelling?
  • (46:48) - Therapeutic value of selfies
  • (54:57) - You really do gotta have faith
  • (57:54) - Doing the work for French Bitch with a Window
  • (59:59) - Show closing
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Creators and Guests

Host
Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D.
Scientist, storyteller, and professional overthinker of all things identity. Also, I happen to be a transgender woman.

What is The Purple Pawedcast?

Welcome to The Purple Pawedcast, where we unpack the complexities of gender, identity, and what it truly means to be human—without the academic jargon (okay, maybe just a little, but only the fun kind).

Curated by Amethysta Herrick. Ph.D., this pod is where science, philosophy, and lived experience collide to challenge assumptions and spark new perspectives. Whether you’re here to explore your own identity, stay informed on the latest research, or just enjoy a deep dive into the human experience, we deliver thoughtful, engaging, and refreshingly honest discussions. No fluff. No gatekeeping. Just real conversations about who we are and how we navigate the world. Dive in, stay curious, and let’s rethink identity together.