The Way of The Confident Husband - Chuck Chapman, M.A.

Nice Guys should embrace their shadow in order to confront their anxiety and reclaim their integrity. In this video, I delve into the psychology of moving beyond the 'nice guy' facade by acknowledging and integrating the shadow aspects of ourselves. By exploring Carl Jung's theory, I highlight the importance of embracing our darker parts to achieve true integrity and personal growth. I share my personal experiences with confronting suppressed emotions and the necessity of balancing positive and negative aspects for a harmonious self. The metaphor of 'the tale of the two wolves' illustrates the internal struggle and the importance of nurturing both sides for a complete and authentic self. Additionally, I discuss the role of masculinity in shaping our understanding of the shadow and how embracing our full selves can lead to a more balanced expression of masculinity.

What is The Way of The Confident Husband - Chuck Chapman, M.A.?

The Confident Husband Podcast is for the man who’s done settling.

If you’re tired of feeling disconnected in your marriage, confused by your wife’s needs, or unsure how to lead without controlling or caretaking—this podcast is for you.

I’m Chuck Chapman, a licensed professional counselor, a men’s relationship expert and creator of The Confident Husband Solution. After 20,000+ hours working with men, I’ve seen the patterns that keep us stuck—and I’ve built the roadmap to help you lead with strength, presence, and purpose.

Each week, we dive into what it really means to be a husband, how to rebuild trust, reignite intimacy, and take full ownership of your life and marriage—without losing yourself in the process.

Real tools, real stories, and real transformation.

Because your marriage won’t change until you do.
Let’s do the work—together.