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(upbeat music)

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Happy Halloween.

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I hope your Friday was amazing.

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How have I never made that connection?

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For those watching,

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that was my surprise face.

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I was a gargoyle in the background.

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(laughing) So self-conscious and

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embarrassed about myself.

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Like I could have died.

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I don't know, I thought

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the gargoyle was pretty good.

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(laughing)

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Me no go college.

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Your cousin from Boston.

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Boston.

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(laughing) You were not a psychopath.

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I got a pretty good

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sense that you weren't.

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And that's what we've

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been trying to get to,

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is to point people.

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There's a reason we're exes.

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Heck, yeah.

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She don't live in Texas.

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She don't live in Texas.

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You were so mad at me.

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That was like our first big fight.

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But you totally redeemed yourself.

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I totally redeemed myself.

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Six out of times.

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You know, like, you gotta

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take the good with the bad.

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I don't like that saying.

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I'd rather just take the good.

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Ooh.

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Gargoyled.

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Welcome to the Mr. and

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Mrs. English Podcast.

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I'm Megan.

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And I'm Sean.

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We're here to talk about

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the wild ride of raising kids

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and growing careers,

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keeping life together

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in the middle of all the chaos.

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So buckle up,

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because we're all in

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this crazy journey together.

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So there's we start with the size.

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We're gonna start with the size of this.

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We're still in the middle of the day.

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We're still in the middle of the day.

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We're still in the middle of the week.

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Ooh.

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It's been, I don't know what happened,

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like for the delay this week.

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Yeah.

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Well, welcome everybody.

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First off, happy Halloween.

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If you're watching this on Friday,

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happy Halloween if you

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watched it last night.

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Yeah, happy Halloween.

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Or if you're watching

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this on some random November

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or March day.

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I hope you just had a

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great day yesterday.

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I hope your Friday was amazing.

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Or Tuesday.

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Or Tuesday.

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Who knows when people watch.

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It's so true.

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I guess it's the

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beauty of a podcast, right?

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Yeah.

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It's not like back in

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the 80s where, you know.

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Or listen, I guess.

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Or listen.

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Yeah.

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You don't really watch a podcast, do you?

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No, but I did make,

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what most podcasts you do now,

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I was listening to

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Conan O'Brien's podcast.

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Yeah.

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Everybody knows Conan

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O'Brien, I don't even know.

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And he was like, I got off of TV,

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because you know, he had the whole thing.

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But he was on TBS

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forever, his own great show.

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He's like, I got off of TV

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and then kind of as a joke,

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he said he started this podcast,

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the Conan O'Brien podcast, not this one.

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And he said that, it

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just kind of took off.

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I mean, obviously he's

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got a huge following,

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he's hilarious.

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Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.

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But then they're like, oh hey,

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do you mind if maybe we put

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some cameras in there, right?

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he only started his,

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maybe 2020, I think.

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Oh, is this still a while ago?

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started putting cameras in there,

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because all the podcasts started saying,

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oh my gosh, we need to

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have YouTube content,

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video content, right?

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He's like, sure, that's fine.

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And then they're like,

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hey, do you mind if we,

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what was the other thing he said?

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Oh, no, what was it?

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He's like, hey, do you

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mind if we do this or that?

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So he just started getting more and more.

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And then I think he made the joke,

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he's like, hey, do you mind

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if we just put a live band

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in there with you?

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So it's like slowly but

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surely making its way back

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to network television,

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basically, but for a podcast.

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Yeah, and he's just sitting in a studio

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instead of a live audience, yeah.

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Hey, and can we have

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people come in and watch?

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Oh, that's what it was, it was,

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can you do five of these live a year

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because people want to see it?

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So he was getting back in

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front of actual people and whatnot.

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It's funny, his podcast, not

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that we have talked about that,

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but I think his executive

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assistant for a long time

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is, there's three hosts,

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it's him and two others

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and she's one of them on there.

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Really?

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Yeah.

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That's, because does Andy Richter do one?

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Not with him anymore.

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Okay, okay.

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He's on his series with him.

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his own podcast kind of thing.

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his own stuff going on.

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I don't know what you think.

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Yeah, anyways, it's just, it was funny.

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I brought that up because

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you're talking about podcasts.

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Yeah, and you do watch podcasts.

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Well, and I was talking

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about "Morning Serial,"

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one of these next weeks, one of the days,

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it's the 80 year anniversary

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of when they did "The Alien Invasion."

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Do you remember when they did that on,

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I can't think of the

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name of it now, I just did.

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Was it the one, something theater?

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1940 and they did a fake.

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It was like, "Wells," whoa.

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"Orson Welles."

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Orson Welles, yeah, Orson Welles,

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invader, world

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invaders, got alien invaders

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or something like that.

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But anyways, it was set up on the radio

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as they didn't tell people it was fake.

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So there was like mass hysteria.

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Oh my God.

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However that's defined in like the 1940s.

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But mass hysteria

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around the fact that people

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were listening to the radio thinking

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that the world was

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being invaded by aliens.

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You are kidding me.

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No, no.

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I'm excited to hear this.

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Not come up on morning serial

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as of the date of this recording.

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No, no, no, no.

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Okay, it's in the future.

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I don't know when it is.

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I record those now so far in the future

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that I don't know what day or month I'm

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in most of the time.

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Oh, that's pretty funny.

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Yeah, yeah, so anyways, I

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just thought that was funny

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because during that short

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bit of that little news event,

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I had mentioned the fact that,

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oh kids, radio is

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something that we used to have

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a long time ago, you just

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hear the sounds of people,

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but there's no video.

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Yeah.

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Oh, it's just like a podcast.

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(laughing) We've gone full circle.

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Full circle.

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How have I never made that connection?

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Like apparently I'm just really slow.

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No, I didn't.

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Have I never made that connection before?

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Well, I did it basically live, you know,

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when I'm shooting my own podcast.

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I was like, oh, it's like a podcast.

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You can see the light

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bulb go off as you're,

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if you're watching the

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YouTube video of your podcast,

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you can see the light bulb go off

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as you make that realization.

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Yeah, I'm like, oh, yeah, ding, ding.

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That's exactly right,

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that's exactly right.

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And for those watching,

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that was my surprise face.

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Yeah.

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I don't know if it was.

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Let me see it again.

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No, I can't do it, like

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have we lost them yet?

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Oh, you can't act that?

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Oh gosh, I'm not a good actress.

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Do you think you could be an actress?

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No. No?

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No. That's funny.

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Do you think you could

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be an actor though, right?

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I don't think I could be an actor.

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There was a time in my

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life where I did want

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to kind of be an

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actor, which was hilarious

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because I was shy, I was not well spoken.

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I, you know, so I did go, I

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did, my mom paid for like,

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I don't know what it was.

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There was like an

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open call at one of those

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like modeling places,

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you know, that I went to.

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And oh my God, I almost can't believe

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I'm putting this out

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there, but law, I mean, like,

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I was like in my teens

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probably lost, you know,

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this was after I lost my

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basketball scholarships.

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I don't even know if I was in college,

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even back in college at the time.

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But she paid for me to

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go to this like acting,

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you know, roll call type thing.

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So I stood in line with all these people

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that want to be actors

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and who knows who is there?

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Maybe all these professional actors now.

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Yeah. Very well.

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They all have Academy Awards

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or And or Emmys behind them.

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That's right, so I stuck it.

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This is one of those few times in life

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01:07:41,208 --> 01:07:42,083
and maybe you have some

284
01:07:42,083 --> 01:07:43,041
of these two words like,

285
01:07:43,583 --> 01:07:45,541
you did something and it's

286
01:07:45,541 --> 01:07:47,125
just out of character for you.

287
01:07:47,416 --> 01:07:49,250
And it's like, man, I cannot believe I

288
01:07:49,250 --> 01:07:50,916
pushed through that.

289
01:07:51,583 --> 01:07:53,416
Just very out of character, you know?

290
01:07:55,125 --> 01:07:56,291
But yeah, I did that.

291
01:07:56,291 --> 01:07:57,833
I read a commercial thing.

292
01:07:58,041 --> 01:07:58,666
It was my turn.

293
01:07:58,958 --> 01:08:00,125
Then I've told you this before.

294
01:08:00,125 --> 01:08:01,041
Like I remember going in

295
01:08:01,041 --> 01:08:01,833
with like the, you know,

296
01:08:01,833 --> 01:08:02,875
the head honchos and

297
01:08:02,875 --> 01:08:05,083
they had the picture of me

298
01:08:05,083 --> 01:08:06,708
in front of them and I'm standing there.

299
01:08:06,708 --> 01:08:07,500
They're talking about me

300
01:08:07,500 --> 01:08:08,666
like a piece of me, you know,

301
01:08:08,666 --> 01:08:10,000
and they're like, oh yeah,

302
01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:13,000
he's boy next door looking.

303
01:08:13,375 --> 01:08:16,125
You know, he's no Brad Pitt, you know?

304
01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:19,708
And you know, and I was so shy.

305
01:08:19,708 --> 01:08:20,583
I mean, I was super

306
01:08:20,583 --> 01:08:21,625
shy at the time still.

307
01:08:21,875 --> 01:08:23,500
I had not learned how to talk to people.

308
01:08:23,500 --> 01:08:25,375
I was zero self-confidence.

309
01:08:25,833 --> 01:08:27,291
So the fact that I went and did that,

310
01:08:28,041 --> 01:08:30,125
totally out of character.

311
01:08:32,083 --> 01:08:33,750
Yes, as I like to think I

312
01:08:33,750 --> 01:08:35,125
know you very, very well.

313
01:08:35,125 --> 01:08:36,583
And even to me, I'm like, gosh,

314
01:08:36,666 --> 01:08:37,625
I would have loved to see this

315
01:08:37,750 --> 01:08:39,958
because it is, seems out of character.

316
01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:41,625
And just to something,

317
01:08:41,625 --> 01:08:42,458
I want to hear about you

318
01:08:42,458 --> 01:08:43,625
and some of these, if you've

319
01:08:43,625 --> 01:08:44,541
ever done anything like that

320
01:08:44,541 --> 01:08:46,416
out of your character, I have a feeling

321
01:08:46,416 --> 01:08:47,750
I know the answer to that.

322
01:08:49,458 --> 01:08:52,375
(both laughing) But I will follow up

323
01:08:52,375 --> 01:08:53,375
that whole acting thing

324
01:08:53,416 --> 01:08:55,958
with my whole life that

325
01:08:55,958 --> 01:08:56,958
I've always thought like,

326
01:08:57,125 --> 01:08:58,208
I can kind of

327
01:08:58,208 --> 01:09:02,000
disassociate myself and pretend

328
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:02,458
because that's what

329
01:09:02,458 --> 01:09:04,875
acting is at its lowest levels.

330
01:09:04,916 --> 01:09:06,458
And I'm sure Tom Hanks

331
01:09:06,458 --> 01:09:07,541
would throw a brick at me

332
01:09:07,541 --> 01:09:08,541
for saying something like that.

333
01:09:09,541 --> 01:09:09,708
But they're

334
01:09:09,708 --> 01:09:11,458
pretending to be someone else.

335
01:09:11,666 --> 01:09:12,625
And there's methods

336
01:09:12,625 --> 01:09:13,625
to do that and whatnot.

337
01:09:13,625 --> 01:09:15,375
But I took an acting class

338
01:09:15,375 --> 01:09:16,916
in college, a theater class.

339
01:09:16,916 --> 01:09:18,458
I ended up, I think, getting an effinat.

340
01:09:18,458 --> 01:09:20,166
It was before I went back to school.

341
01:09:22,625 --> 01:09:24,833
Yeah, before I went back to

342
01:09:24,833 --> 01:09:26,125
school and took it seriously.

343
01:09:26,166 --> 01:09:26,583
Right, right.

344
01:09:26,583 --> 01:09:27,708
You just didn't take it seriously.

345
01:09:27,708 --> 01:09:28,666
You didn't get an effinat

346
01:09:28,666 --> 01:09:31,750
because you were bad at it.

347
01:09:31,791 --> 01:09:32,291
That's right.

348
01:09:32,333 --> 01:09:34,250
You just put zero effort in it.

349
01:09:34,500 --> 01:09:36,166
No, I walked out halfway through it.

350
01:09:36,500 --> 01:09:37,416
See there, then.

351
01:09:37,416 --> 01:09:38,125
I was so embarrassed.

352
01:09:38,500 --> 01:09:40,166
Yeah, and hence why you.

353
01:09:40,791 --> 01:09:42,291
I was, it was the very

354
01:09:42,291 --> 01:09:44,333
first part of it, of the class.

355
01:09:44,333 --> 01:09:45,166
And then I'll stop talking

356
01:09:45,166 --> 01:09:46,000
because I've been talking.

357
01:09:46,250 --> 01:09:47,791
I always talk to you, way too much now.

358
01:09:47,833 --> 01:09:48,208
No, you don't.

359
01:09:48,625 --> 01:09:50,583
But this is probably why

360
01:09:50,583 --> 01:09:51,500
your parents don't listen

361
01:09:51,791 --> 01:09:53,166
is because they're like,

362
01:09:53,166 --> 01:09:54,083
it's just Sean talking.

363
01:09:54,333 --> 01:09:54,958
I don't want to hear

364
01:09:54,958 --> 01:09:55,916
what Sean has to say.

365
01:09:56,500 --> 01:09:57,916
Anyways, I was in a

366
01:09:57,916 --> 01:09:59,000
group of like five people.

367
01:09:59,000 --> 01:10:00,833
We did some acting thing.

368
01:10:01,500 --> 01:10:03,958
I was a gargoyle in the background.

369
01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:05,583
Oh my gosh, seriously?

370
01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:07,416
I had no speaking part, no nothing.

371
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:09,125
I was a background

372
01:10:09,125 --> 01:10:11,791
actor and I was a gargoyle.

373
01:10:11,791 --> 01:10:13,333
So I squatted in the back

374
01:10:13,333 --> 01:10:15,291
and I was a live gargoyle.

375
01:10:15,833 --> 01:10:17,375
So I was like doing things

376
01:10:17,375 --> 01:10:18,125
that I thought a gargoyle

377
01:10:18,333 --> 01:10:18,791
would do.

378
01:10:19,625 --> 01:10:22,666
Totally like so self-conscious and

379
01:10:22,666 --> 01:10:23,791
embarrassed about myself.

380
01:10:24,041 --> 01:10:26,416
Like I could have died, right?

381
01:10:26,541 --> 01:10:28,666
I mean, I'm sure I lost

382
01:10:28,666 --> 01:10:30,291
10 pounds of just sweat.

383
01:10:30,833 --> 01:10:32,833
My heart somehow made it through.

384
01:10:33,291 --> 01:10:34,625
You have a heart attack.

385
01:10:35,500 --> 01:10:36,666
I hated it because

386
01:10:36,666 --> 01:10:38,041
that was uncomfortable.

387
01:10:39,041 --> 01:10:39,791
It's not like you're

388
01:10:39,791 --> 01:10:40,916
playing a cool character.

389
01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:44,291
You were put in a tough situation.

390
01:10:44,666 --> 01:10:45,500
I gotta be honest.

391
01:10:45,750 --> 01:10:47,375
This is like, if this was acting 101,

392
01:10:47,875 --> 01:10:50,500
you were put into like acting 702.

393
01:10:50,791 --> 01:10:51,583
It was theater 101.

394
01:10:51,958 --> 01:10:52,583
Theater 101.

395
01:10:53,125 --> 01:10:53,708
What do you think?

396
01:10:54,166 --> 01:10:56,958
I was like, they made you a gargoyle.

397
01:10:57,166 --> 01:10:58,833
What does a gargoyle do?

398
01:10:59,500 --> 01:11:01,041
I did, but I thought I gargoyle do.

399
01:11:01,083 --> 01:11:02,625
But get this, I'll finish the story with,

400
01:11:03,416 --> 01:11:05,916
I mean, I was humiliated by it.

401
01:11:06,291 --> 01:11:09,750
I was just, this was a different Sean.

402
01:11:10,208 --> 01:11:11,500
Anybody that knew Sean before

403
01:11:11,500 --> 01:11:13,250
maybe I was 23 or 24 years old,

404
01:11:14,208 --> 01:11:15,916
that Sean really doesn't exist anymore.

405
01:11:16,208 --> 01:11:17,083
It's just a new Sean.

406
01:11:17,625 --> 01:11:19,916
Hence why you call him that Sean.

407
01:11:20,458 --> 01:11:20,958
Yeah.

408
01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:21,458
Yeah, yeah.

409
01:11:21,458 --> 01:11:22,166
It's like completely

410
01:11:22,166 --> 01:11:23,416
disassociated from you.

411
01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:25,000
It is, kind of.

412
01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:25,666
I mean, some of those

413
01:11:25,666 --> 01:11:26,833
basics might be there or whatnot

414
01:11:26,833 --> 01:11:27,625
and that's a whole nother podcast.

415
01:11:27,916 --> 01:11:31,583
But our group of five went

416
01:11:31,583 --> 01:11:32,916
back up in front of the class

417
01:11:33,458 --> 01:11:36,125
to get feedback on our presentation.

418
01:11:37,500 --> 01:11:40,083
Our group of five was a group of four.

419
01:11:40,916 --> 01:11:42,166
You didn't go back up.

420
01:11:42,291 --> 01:11:43,208
Standing in front of the

421
01:11:43,208 --> 01:11:44,416
class hearing the presentation,

422
01:11:44,750 --> 01:11:47,291
I stood in back of the props

423
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:49,291
because I wanted to hear it

424
01:11:51,041 --> 01:11:51,958
and I left the class

425
01:11:51,958 --> 01:11:53,333
and I never came back.

426
01:11:54,083 --> 01:11:55,000
I was mortified.

427
01:11:55,208 --> 01:11:56,958
But the last thing I'll say about it was,

428
01:11:57,083 --> 01:11:58,500
one person, and thank you

429
01:11:58,500 --> 01:11:59,875
to whoever this person was,

430
01:12:00,458 --> 01:12:02,416
one person said, when they

431
01:12:02,416 --> 01:12:03,833
were giving positive feedback,

432
01:12:03,833 --> 01:12:06,041
he's like, I don't know,

433
01:12:06,041 --> 01:12:07,541
I thought the gargoyle was pretty good.

434
01:12:11,000 --> 01:12:11,041
(laughing)

435
01:12:13,166 --> 01:12:13,875
He was in character.

436
01:12:17,083 --> 01:12:19,500
So that was, I mean,

437
01:12:19,833 --> 01:12:21,000
that should have given me,

438
01:12:21,666 --> 01:12:22,791
who knows, I probably walked away

439
01:12:22,791 --> 01:12:24,583
from a lucrative acting career.

440
01:12:24,583 --> 01:12:26,458
I had it, I had it and I walked away.

441
01:12:27,041 --> 01:12:28,166
It was in my hands.

442
01:12:30,291 --> 01:12:30,666
Gargoyled!

443
01:12:30,916 --> 01:12:32,333
Oh my gosh, gargoyled.

444
01:12:33,666 --> 01:12:36,500
I thought the gargoyle was pretty good.

445
01:12:38,541 --> 01:12:39,583
Hey, you should have.

446
01:12:40,041 --> 01:12:41,166
Yeah, yeah.

447
01:12:41,166 --> 01:12:42,791
I mean, that's tough.

448
01:12:43,333 --> 01:12:45,666
I actually went in, I actually went in

449
01:12:45,666 --> 01:12:47,708
to talk to the theater teacher.

450
01:12:48,541 --> 01:12:49,208
Probably three weeks

451
01:12:49,208 --> 01:12:50,375
after I had just stopped going

452
01:12:50,375 --> 01:12:50,875
to the class.

453
01:12:50,875 --> 01:12:52,250
This is one of those things that

454
01:12:52,250 --> 01:12:53,166
nightmares are made of.

455
01:12:53,166 --> 01:12:54,791
You're like, it's like, I

456
01:12:54,791 --> 01:12:55,916
have a test and something.

457
01:12:56,083 --> 01:12:57,375
Oh, I haven't showed up for three weeks.

458
01:12:57,375 --> 01:12:57,666
Yeah.

459
01:12:58,541 --> 01:13:00,583
But I talked to him and said,

460
01:13:00,583 --> 01:13:01,833
hey look, I was just mortified.

461
01:13:01,833 --> 01:13:03,500
I was like, what can I do to whatever,

462
01:13:03,500 --> 01:13:04,708
not get an F in this class?

463
01:13:05,000 --> 01:13:05,750
Maybe it was towards the

464
01:13:05,750 --> 01:13:06,583
end of the semester even.

465
01:13:07,166 --> 01:13:08,375
He was kind enough to

466
01:13:08,375 --> 01:13:09,166
give me an incomplete.

467
01:13:09,625 --> 01:13:10,875
Okay, so thank you.

468
01:13:11,500 --> 01:13:11,916
So thank you to him.

469
01:13:12,875 --> 01:13:13,875
And then I never took it again.

470
01:13:14,708 --> 01:13:15,166
It's fair.

471
01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:16,416
It's fair.

472
01:13:16,875 --> 01:13:17,458
But you don't think, I

473
01:13:17,458 --> 01:13:18,416
mean, I think I could,

474
01:13:19,458 --> 01:13:21,041
our daughter and I, we act

475
01:13:21,041 --> 01:13:22,000
all the time in the house.

476
01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:22,250
All the time.

477
01:13:23,041 --> 01:13:23,458
And there's times

478
01:13:23,458 --> 01:13:23,958
where you guys are like,

479
01:13:23,958 --> 01:13:24,375
are you serious?

480
01:13:25,291 --> 01:13:26,791
So I think I could, I think I could,

481
01:13:28,041 --> 01:13:29,166
I think I can do it in our house.

482
01:13:29,750 --> 01:13:31,166
You can do it, you can.

483
01:13:32,083 --> 01:13:33,250
And I think it would

484
01:13:33,250 --> 01:13:34,500
be about that mindset.

485
01:13:34,791 --> 01:13:35,375
I don't know.

486
01:13:35,375 --> 01:13:35,875
I was watching

487
01:13:35,875 --> 01:13:37,416
something, Julia Roberts was on,

488
01:13:37,416 --> 01:13:39,500
I don't know, Jimmy Fallon or something.

489
01:13:39,708 --> 01:13:41,041
And she was talking

490
01:13:41,041 --> 01:13:42,750
about acting and she goes,

491
01:13:43,583 --> 01:13:45,791
acting is not hard.

492
01:13:45,791 --> 01:13:47,166
She goes, me no go college.

493
01:13:48,125 --> 01:13:50,000
Just dying laughing.

494
01:13:51,041 --> 01:13:51,958
She was trying to be

495
01:13:51,958 --> 01:13:52,958
like, compare herself.

496
01:13:52,958 --> 01:13:54,125
She's like, I'm not a brain surgeon.

497
01:13:54,500 --> 01:13:56,625
I'm not, you know, like all these things

498
01:13:56,625 --> 01:13:58,500
that are actually really hard.

499
01:14:00,583 --> 01:14:01,208
Cause she was kind of

500
01:14:01,208 --> 01:14:02,500
just being self deprecating

501
01:14:02,500 --> 01:14:03,958
and she, me no go college.

502
01:14:04,666 --> 01:14:05,833
Wasn't she just, didn't

503
01:14:05,833 --> 01:14:07,458
she just provide a quote

504
01:14:07,666 --> 01:14:08,333
on morning cereal?

505
01:14:08,958 --> 01:14:09,750
I should have used that one.

506
01:14:10,500 --> 01:14:11,333
Me no go college.

507
01:14:11,666 --> 01:14:12,916
It was so funny.

508
01:14:13,375 --> 01:14:13,791
Cause she was talking

509
01:14:13,791 --> 01:14:14,958
about air rock a bitch.

510
01:14:15,250 --> 01:14:16,166
Anyway, yeah.

511
01:14:17,291 --> 01:14:19,791
But it's just one of those things.

512
01:14:19,791 --> 01:14:20,916
You have to be, I'm

513
01:14:20,916 --> 01:14:22,125
guessing it's a mind frame thing.

514
01:14:22,500 --> 01:14:23,125
I don't know.

515
01:14:23,458 --> 01:14:24,000
I can do it.

516
01:14:24,708 --> 01:14:26,083
I take myself too seriously.

517
01:14:27,458 --> 01:14:28,333
Yeah, I think, yeah.

518
01:14:28,583 --> 01:14:31,166
I think everybody I've ever listened to

519
01:14:31,166 --> 01:14:32,583
that's an actor or actress,

520
01:14:34,666 --> 01:14:35,500
I think some of them,

521
01:14:35,875 --> 01:14:36,666
I think there are people

522
01:14:36,666 --> 01:14:37,583
that like the attention,

523
01:14:38,416 --> 01:14:38,875
but I don't think those

524
01:14:38,875 --> 01:14:39,708
are the really good actors.

525
01:14:39,958 --> 01:14:40,541
I think the really good

526
01:14:40,541 --> 01:14:41,750
actors are really people

527
01:14:41,750 --> 01:14:43,458
that take their jobs seriously.

528
01:14:43,458 --> 01:14:44,791
And they're like, I go to a place

529
01:14:44,791 --> 01:14:46,250
and I'm doing something else.

530
01:14:46,250 --> 01:14:46,500
Yes.

531
01:14:46,875 --> 01:14:48,000
And then when I'm done with

532
01:14:48,000 --> 01:14:49,708
that, I turn back into me.

533
01:14:50,041 --> 01:14:50,375
Yeah.

534
01:14:51,125 --> 01:14:53,666
I totally disassociated whatever

535
01:14:53,666 --> 01:14:55,291
to their actual personality.

536
01:14:56,125 --> 01:14:56,708
I think so.

537
01:14:57,000 --> 01:14:58,333
But I say that and

538
01:14:58,333 --> 01:14:59,000
then on the other side,

539
01:14:59,000 --> 01:15:00,583
I say like, but some of the best actors,

540
01:15:00,583 --> 01:15:01,000
some of their best

541
01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:02,750
roles are exactly them.

542
01:15:02,750 --> 01:15:03,791
It's like they're not even acting.

543
01:15:04,208 --> 01:15:05,291
You've seen some of these people.

544
01:15:05,791 --> 01:15:06,208
I know.

545
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:08,375
Any Ben Affleck role.

546
01:15:08,708 --> 01:15:08,875
Yeah.

547
01:15:09,666 --> 01:15:10,666
Where he's from Boston.

548
01:15:10,666 --> 01:15:11,708
Where he's exactly.

549
01:15:12,041 --> 01:15:13,625
Your cousin from Boston.

550
01:15:16,791 --> 01:15:17,750
Yeah, so unlike the Batman.

551
01:15:18,625 --> 01:15:19,500
Unlike the Batman.

552
01:15:20,083 --> 01:15:22,208
Which like probably received the most

553
01:15:22,208 --> 01:15:23,458
critiques from that.

554
01:15:23,458 --> 01:15:25,208
Yeah, yeah, you're right.

555
01:15:25,208 --> 01:15:26,166
Right, like so, right?

556
01:15:26,166 --> 01:15:26,958
But where he was

557
01:15:26,958 --> 01:15:28,291
playing Good Will Hunting.

558
01:15:28,625 --> 01:15:29,500
Holy crap, he's amazing.

559
01:15:29,541 --> 01:15:30,500
Oh, he was incredible in that.

560
01:15:31,416 --> 01:15:34,333
But to get back to that kind of point,

561
01:15:35,166 --> 01:15:36,250
have there been times in your life

562
01:15:36,250 --> 01:15:37,291
where you've had to get out,

563
01:15:37,541 --> 01:15:38,416
you've really pushed

564
01:15:38,416 --> 01:15:39,416
yourself outside of like

565
01:15:39,416 --> 01:15:41,250
a comfort zone and got through something.

566
01:15:41,250 --> 01:15:42,083
Just be like, I don't know

567
01:15:42,083 --> 01:15:43,250
how I did that, but I did.

568
01:15:44,291 --> 01:15:44,500
Oh yeah.

569
01:15:44,500 --> 01:15:45,833
I just had to bear down.

570
01:15:46,708 --> 01:15:46,958
Yeah.

571
01:15:48,791 --> 01:15:49,875
So I go back to, and

572
01:15:49,875 --> 01:15:51,833
you've said this to me,

573
01:15:53,083 --> 01:15:55,500
and it's been on the important things.

574
01:15:56,500 --> 01:15:57,375
But you had said, you're

575
01:15:57,375 --> 01:15:58,625
like, now that I know you,

576
01:15:58,625 --> 01:16:00,500
the fact that our first date even

577
01:16:00,500 --> 01:16:03,166
happened is like shocking.

578
01:16:04,125 --> 01:16:05,500
Because our first date.

579
01:16:05,583 --> 01:16:06,500
Yeah, that's so true.

580
01:16:06,583 --> 01:16:09,458
So if we double click into how we met,

581
01:16:09,458 --> 01:16:10,750
I don't know if we've talked about this,

582
01:16:10,750 --> 01:16:13,000
but we met on a beach in Cozumel,

583
01:16:13,625 --> 01:16:15,208
getting ready to go parasailing, right?

584
01:16:15,458 --> 01:16:16,166
Old on vacation.

585
01:16:16,791 --> 01:16:17,083
Single screws.

586
01:16:18,708 --> 01:16:18,875
Sure.

587
01:16:19,125 --> 01:16:19,750
I'm just kidding, it

588
01:16:19,750 --> 01:16:20,166
was not a single screw.

589
01:16:20,208 --> 01:16:20,916
It was not a single screw.

590
01:16:20,958 --> 01:16:22,125
You were both last second additions

591
01:16:22,125 --> 01:16:23,208
to someone else's cruise.

592
01:16:23,500 --> 01:16:23,791
Exactly.

593
01:16:24,375 --> 01:16:25,500
So we were kind of on

594
01:16:25,500 --> 01:16:26,458
someone else's vacation.

595
01:16:27,083 --> 01:16:27,291
Yeah.

596
01:16:28,041 --> 01:16:31,375
And anyway, you lived in Kansas City.

597
01:16:31,875 --> 01:16:32,916
I lived in Minneapolis.

598
01:16:33,666 --> 01:16:36,750
So we had talked for a day.

599
01:16:36,750 --> 01:16:37,833
And I mean, we talked for a

600
01:16:37,833 --> 01:16:38,916
month on the phone, right?

601
01:16:39,291 --> 01:16:43,291
After having spent a day and a half

602
01:16:43,291 --> 01:16:44,875
together on vacation.

603
01:16:46,583 --> 01:16:50,208
And so our first date, and I still say

604
01:16:50,208 --> 01:16:51,083
if our daughter ever does

605
01:16:51,083 --> 01:16:52,250
this, I will not be happy.

606
01:16:52,791 --> 01:16:55,250
But we met in Des Moines.

607
01:16:56,125 --> 01:16:57,583
We both drove to Des Moines separately.

608
01:16:57,791 --> 01:16:59,500
And then we drove into Chicago together

609
01:16:59,500 --> 01:17:00,791
to spend a weekend together.

610
01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:02,208
And that was our first date.

611
01:17:03,083 --> 01:17:05,333
And if you know me, that

612
01:17:05,333 --> 01:17:07,250
is about as far outside

613
01:17:07,250 --> 01:17:08,791
of the bounds as like

614
01:17:08,791 --> 01:17:11,250
Megan would ever go, right?

615
01:17:11,250 --> 01:17:15,041
I'm going to a random city with a guy

616
01:17:15,166 --> 01:17:19,416
that I've only physically seen once.

617
01:17:21,083 --> 01:17:22,833
Sure we talked on the phone, you know?

618
01:17:23,291 --> 01:17:24,416
Over, you saw me a couple

619
01:17:24,416 --> 01:17:25,291
times over a couple of days,

620
01:17:25,541 --> 01:17:27,000
but just during that one time period.

621
01:17:27,125 --> 01:17:28,208
Yes, one time period, yes.

622
01:17:29,625 --> 01:17:30,791
And it's like, you think

623
01:17:30,791 --> 01:17:32,375
about the dangers of that.

624
01:17:33,625 --> 01:17:34,541
You were not a psychopath.

625
01:17:34,750 --> 01:17:35,583
I got a pretty good

626
01:17:35,583 --> 01:17:36,500
sense that you weren't,

627
01:17:36,500 --> 01:17:37,500
but I was like, I also think

628
01:17:37,500 --> 01:17:39,708
it's worth the risk, you know?

629
01:17:40,041 --> 01:17:40,333
So--

630
01:17:40,375 --> 01:17:41,125
And you had friends tell

631
01:17:41,125 --> 01:17:42,000
you, like, are you crazy?

632
01:17:42,000 --> 01:17:42,708
They call me?

633
01:17:42,708 --> 01:17:43,083
Oh yeah.

634
01:17:43,833 --> 01:17:44,333
Heck yeah.

635
01:17:45,041 --> 01:17:46,291
What if he is a psychopath?

636
01:17:46,583 --> 01:17:48,375
Like, you are now stuck in

637
01:17:48,375 --> 01:17:50,291
a city with someone like--

638
01:17:51,083 --> 01:17:51,916
Did you have a cell phone then?

639
01:17:53,166 --> 01:17:53,583
Yeah.

640
01:17:53,625 --> 01:17:54,250
We had cell phones then?

641
01:17:54,291 --> 01:17:55,500
Yeah, we had cell phones, yeah.

642
01:17:55,958 --> 01:17:57,375
987, that was 2007.

643
01:17:57,750 --> 01:17:59,083
So that was, oh yeah, we had cell phones,

644
01:17:59,083 --> 01:18:00,125
but they were just not smart phones.

645
01:18:00,125 --> 01:18:01,166
Yeah, they were just, yeah.

646
01:18:01,541 --> 01:18:02,333
It was probably a flip phone.

647
01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:03,166
Yeah.

648
01:18:04,083 --> 01:18:06,583
Yeah, but yeah, so I mean,

649
01:18:06,583 --> 01:18:07,666
that was out of character.

650
01:18:08,125 --> 01:18:09,166
Clearly worth it.

651
01:18:09,458 --> 01:18:10,083
You're not a psycho.

652
01:18:10,750 --> 01:18:10,916
Yeah.

653
01:18:11,583 --> 01:18:12,458
20 years later.

654
01:18:12,958 --> 01:18:13,583
And that's what we've

655
01:18:13,583 --> 01:18:14,416
been trying to get to here,

656
01:18:14,458 --> 01:18:16,458
is to point people on like--

657
01:18:16,458 --> 01:18:17,875
She's not really a gargoyle.

658
01:18:17,916 --> 01:18:18,416
I'm just kidding.

659
01:18:19,666 --> 01:18:21,125
Despite what my ex-girlfriend might say.

660
01:18:23,083 --> 01:18:24,750
She's your ex-girlfriend for a reason.

661
01:18:25,375 --> 01:18:26,250
Can we just say--

662
01:18:27,041 --> 01:18:28,208
Oh, wait for morning cereal tomorrow.

663
01:18:28,791 --> 01:18:29,375
Oh, really?

664
01:18:29,416 --> 01:18:29,666
Yeah.

665
01:18:30,041 --> 01:18:31,041
You give her a shout out?

666
01:18:31,375 --> 01:18:31,500
30th.

667
01:18:32,541 --> 01:18:33,208
We just have to wait.

668
01:18:33,541 --> 01:18:35,333
Hey, cliffhanger, October 30th.

669
01:18:35,416 --> 01:18:35,875
Cliffhanger?

670
01:18:36,416 --> 01:18:36,833
Yeah.

671
01:18:37,083 --> 01:18:37,333
Wow.

672
01:18:37,625 --> 01:18:37,916
After birthday.

673
01:18:39,208 --> 01:18:40,041
I actually know it's not.

674
01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:42,375
(laughing) That's hilarious, it's not.

675
01:18:42,833 --> 01:18:44,333
I would not give her a shout out, no.

676
01:18:45,375 --> 01:18:47,375
I'm sure she's living her best life.

677
01:18:47,875 --> 01:18:48,375
Hope so.

678
01:18:48,416 --> 01:18:49,708
I am and I hope she is too.

679
01:18:49,750 --> 01:18:50,083
Exactly.

680
01:18:50,750 --> 01:18:51,958
Yeah, there's a reason we're exes.

681
01:18:52,458 --> 01:18:53,375
Heck, yeah.

682
01:18:53,416 --> 01:18:54,416
She don't live in Texas.

683
01:18:54,583 --> 01:18:55,708
She don't live in Texas.

684
01:18:57,250 --> 01:18:58,416
At least that we know of.

685
01:18:59,791 --> 01:19:00,000
Anyway.

686
01:19:01,500 --> 01:19:03,916
So that was out, yeah.

687
01:19:04,083 --> 01:19:06,166
But that wasn't like, that is true.

688
01:19:06,166 --> 01:19:06,958
That is out of it.

689
01:19:06,958 --> 01:19:07,541
I thought you were gonna

690
01:19:07,541 --> 01:19:09,083
go with the parasailing.

691
01:19:09,958 --> 01:19:12,666
Cause you're not, that's what I thought

692
01:19:12,666 --> 01:19:13,458
you were gonna go with.

693
01:19:14,375 --> 01:19:14,875
(laughing) No, I went on.

694
01:19:14,875 --> 01:19:15,083
The first.

695
01:19:15,500 --> 01:19:16,583
Yeah, no, no, no.

696
01:19:16,958 --> 01:19:18,208
Did you go parasailing again now?

697
01:19:18,250 --> 01:19:19,458
Oh yeah, I never once

698
01:19:19,458 --> 01:19:20,291
felt scared of that.

699
01:19:20,291 --> 01:19:20,750
Oh, okay.

700
01:19:21,208 --> 01:19:21,875
For whatever reason,

701
01:19:21,875 --> 01:19:23,458
that never once scared me.

702
01:19:23,500 --> 01:19:23,666
Really?

703
01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:24,166
Yeah.

704
01:19:24,666 --> 01:19:25,208
That's interesting.

705
01:19:25,833 --> 01:19:26,458
Do you wanna tell people

706
01:19:26,458 --> 01:19:27,458
about the time we went up

707
01:19:27,458 --> 01:19:28,208
to the top of the

708
01:19:28,208 --> 01:19:30,333
stratosphere to ride the roller coaster

709
01:19:30,333 --> 01:19:31,166
at the top of that?

710
01:19:31,250 --> 01:19:32,041
Yeah, I don't like that.

711
01:19:33,791 --> 01:19:35,500
You were so mad at me.

712
01:19:35,875 --> 01:19:37,333
That was like our first big fight.

713
01:19:37,333 --> 01:19:38,166
We weren't married.

714
01:19:38,416 --> 01:19:39,541
We were just literally the biggest.

715
01:19:39,833 --> 01:19:40,875
We were married then?

716
01:19:40,875 --> 01:19:41,708
I think we were married.

717
01:19:42,000 --> 01:19:42,291
Yeah.

718
01:19:42,750 --> 01:19:44,166
Anyway, I've redeemed it on

719
01:19:44,166 --> 01:19:45,000
like our five year wedding

720
01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:46,083
anniversary or whatever.

721
01:19:46,083 --> 01:19:47,375
We went back to it, right?

722
01:19:47,375 --> 01:19:47,666
Yeah.

723
01:19:47,666 --> 01:19:49,791
Yeah, so we went up to the stratosphere.

724
01:19:49,791 --> 01:19:50,750
Everybody knows the one,

725
01:19:50,750 --> 01:19:51,875
there used to be roller coasters

726
01:19:51,875 --> 01:19:52,958
that went around the stratosphere.

727
01:19:53,166 --> 01:19:54,500
And then in the middle, it's

728
01:19:54,500 --> 01:19:55,500
the one that shoots you up.

729
01:19:55,500 --> 01:19:56,375
I don't know the name of it.

730
01:19:56,416 --> 01:19:56,916
I don't either.

731
01:19:56,916 --> 01:19:57,583
But you know, you sit in

732
01:19:57,583 --> 01:19:58,875
something and it shoots you up

733
01:19:58,875 --> 01:19:59,916
and then you kind of fall back down.

734
01:19:59,916 --> 01:20:01,125
Or it takes you all the way up.

735
01:20:01,125 --> 01:20:01,916
And then drops you.

736
01:20:01,958 --> 01:20:02,666
At the top, it's like

737
01:20:02,666 --> 01:20:04,291
the very, very spear.

738
01:20:04,500 --> 01:20:05,208
You know, like six

739
01:20:05,208 --> 01:20:06,250
flags have these things.

740
01:20:06,625 --> 01:20:07,458
It takes way up.

741
01:20:07,708 --> 01:20:09,166
It's scary when you're on the

742
01:20:09,166 --> 01:20:10,583
ground and you're 400 feet up.

743
01:20:11,000 --> 01:20:12,833
When you're on top of a 1200 foot tower

744
01:20:12,833 --> 01:20:13,833
and another 400 feet

745
01:20:13,833 --> 01:20:15,166
up, and then it drops you.

746
01:20:15,166 --> 01:20:15,458
Yeah.

747
01:20:15,958 --> 01:20:17,125
It's scary, but it's a ton of fun.

748
01:20:17,416 --> 01:20:18,291
And it is one of those

749
01:20:18,291 --> 01:20:19,416
things where you have to kind of

750
01:20:19,625 --> 01:20:22,458
manage your fear and your trusting

751
01:20:22,666 --> 01:20:24,000
that everything's gonna work out okay.

752
01:20:24,958 --> 01:20:26,666
And so when you go there, you

753
01:20:26,666 --> 01:20:28,208
have to buy tickets to go up.

754
01:20:28,208 --> 01:20:29,166
You have to buy the tickets

755
01:20:29,166 --> 01:20:30,625
there and all that kind of stuff

756
01:20:30,625 --> 01:20:33,250
because you have to pay to get to the top

757
01:20:33,250 --> 01:20:33,916
of the stratosphere.

758
01:20:33,916 --> 01:20:35,000
So we bought all this stuff.

759
01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:35,500
We get up there.

760
01:20:35,833 --> 01:20:36,625
We're gonna go do it

761
01:20:36,708 --> 01:20:37,000
because I've already

762
01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:39,083
done it before with Brian.

763
01:20:39,541 --> 01:20:40,208
We did a whole bunch of

764
01:20:40,208 --> 01:20:41,083
the fun ones up there.

765
01:20:41,291 --> 01:20:45,125
So, and we get up there long story short,

766
01:20:45,125 --> 01:20:46,791
you would not do it.

767
01:20:46,791 --> 01:20:47,625
I totally chickened out.

768
01:20:48,166 --> 01:20:48,250
Yeah.

769
01:20:48,250 --> 01:20:49,583
And I tried my best and I

770
01:20:49,583 --> 01:20:52,250
can be pretty darn persuasive

771
01:20:52,250 --> 01:20:53,083
when I want to be.

772
01:20:53,375 --> 01:20:54,875
And I tried, and I tried

773
01:20:54,875 --> 01:20:56,750
pretty hard for a while

774
01:20:57,791 --> 01:20:58,750
to convince you

775
01:20:59,625 --> 01:21:00,416
That it was safe.

776
01:21:00,416 --> 01:21:00,875
That it was safe.

777
01:21:01,208 --> 01:21:01,875
And it was fun.

778
01:21:02,166 --> 01:21:02,666
It was fun.

779
01:21:03,166 --> 01:21:03,333
Yeah.

780
01:21:03,375 --> 01:21:04,458
And that you would be excited.

781
01:21:04,875 --> 01:21:05,708
You'd feel proud of

782
01:21:05,708 --> 01:21:06,375
yourself when you're done.

783
01:21:07,250 --> 01:21:08,458
And by the end of it, we were just mad.

784
01:21:08,666 --> 01:21:09,375
We probably rolled the,

785
01:21:09,375 --> 01:21:10,208
we rode the elevator

786
01:21:10,208 --> 01:21:10,958
back down in silence.

787
01:21:11,500 --> 01:21:11,833
We did.

788
01:21:12,416 --> 01:21:14,416
Yeah. You were not happy with me.

789
01:21:15,416 --> 01:21:16,750
But you totally redeemed yourself.

790
01:21:16,750 --> 01:21:17,958
I totally redeemed myself.

791
01:21:18,333 --> 01:21:19,250
I think that was our five

792
01:21:19,250 --> 01:21:20,250
year wedding anniversary.

793
01:21:21,041 --> 01:21:22,625
And we went to Vegas for a weekend.

794
01:21:23,291 --> 01:21:24,416
I wrote it.

795
01:21:24,416 --> 01:21:25,041
It was fun.

796
01:21:25,583 --> 01:21:26,625
I was wrong.

797
01:21:27,166 --> 01:21:27,916
I was wrong.

798
01:21:27,916 --> 01:21:29,166
And I ended up having a great time.

799
01:21:29,208 --> 01:21:30,833
That was the first time I literally ever

800
01:21:31,000 --> 01:21:32,000
maybe heard you say that.

801
01:21:32,625 --> 01:21:33,708
We all know that's not true.

802
01:21:36,166 --> 01:21:36,375
Third.

803
01:21:37,791 --> 01:21:38,750
I say it a lot.

804
01:21:38,750 --> 01:21:40,291
I just don't like to say it.

805
01:21:42,041 --> 01:21:42,916
We'll leave that one.

806
01:21:44,000 --> 01:21:45,041
That's our second fight.

807
01:21:45,666 --> 01:21:46,458
And it's ongoing.

808
01:21:48,583 --> 01:21:49,666
I am wrong a lot.

809
01:21:49,666 --> 01:21:50,541
And I will say it.

810
01:21:51,125 --> 01:21:52,250
Yeah. Not as much as me.

811
01:21:52,250 --> 01:21:53,041
I'm better than you.

812
01:21:53,291 --> 01:21:54,083
I'm wrong more.

813
01:21:55,625 --> 01:21:56,000
I'm just kidding.

814
01:21:56,000 --> 01:21:56,250
That was wrong.

815
01:21:56,250 --> 01:21:57,666
I'm wrong more.

816
01:21:58,833 --> 01:21:59,458
Just trying to win.

817
01:22:00,416 --> 01:22:03,333
You 100% admit that

818
01:22:03,333 --> 01:22:04,833
you're wrong easier than I do.

819
01:22:04,875 --> 01:22:06,458
But let's go back to

820
01:22:06,458 --> 01:22:07,375
the other thing though.

821
01:22:07,375 --> 01:22:09,500
Like when, and I'm

822
01:22:09,500 --> 01:22:11,041
trying to stay away from work

823
01:22:11,041 --> 01:22:12,125
a little bit on this,

824
01:22:12,333 --> 01:22:14,291
but work is one for sure.

825
01:22:14,708 --> 01:22:16,375
I know early on and even maybe now,

826
01:22:16,375 --> 01:22:17,083
and maybe now because you

827
01:22:17,083 --> 01:22:18,125
get up in front of a lot

828
01:22:18,125 --> 01:22:18,791
of people now.

829
01:22:18,958 --> 01:22:19,250
Mm-hmm.

830
01:22:19,750 --> 01:22:21,333
Like hundreds of people and talk

831
01:22:21,333 --> 01:22:23,000
and you have to come up with stuff off

832
01:22:23,000 --> 01:22:23,750
the top of your head.

833
01:22:23,750 --> 01:22:24,250
You're prepared.

834
01:22:24,250 --> 01:22:25,791
You also have prepared remarks.

835
01:22:26,708 --> 01:22:29,708
But there are times, I would

836
01:22:29,708 --> 01:22:30,708
assume if I were to do that,

837
01:22:30,708 --> 01:22:33,208
I mean, I could do it if I felt prepared.

838
01:22:33,583 --> 01:22:34,750
I have to be prepared.

839
01:22:36,208 --> 01:22:37,958
But it would be, it

840
01:22:37,958 --> 01:22:39,041
would be a look at yourself

841
01:22:39,041 --> 01:22:40,333
in the mirror moment beforehand,

842
01:22:40,333 --> 01:22:41,000
be like, Sean, you can do

843
01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:41,958
this, calm yourself down.

844
01:22:42,583 --> 01:22:44,000
Heart's thumping out of my chest.

845
01:22:44,708 --> 01:22:45,500
Get out there.

846
01:22:47,416 --> 01:22:48,250
Do it, I guess.

847
01:22:49,000 --> 01:22:50,375
I'd come back in after I

848
01:22:50,375 --> 01:22:51,875
blacked out for 45 minutes.

849
01:22:51,875 --> 01:22:52,625
Cause you don't do,

850
01:22:52,625 --> 01:22:53,208
it's not like you're giving

851
01:22:53,208 --> 01:22:54,208
like a two minute intro

852
01:22:54,208 --> 01:22:55,208
or a five minute intro.

853
01:22:55,208 --> 01:22:57,000
You're up there for an hour sometimes.

854
01:22:58,166 --> 01:22:59,375
Sometimes I'll be, yeah, yeah.

855
01:22:59,375 --> 01:23:00,125
Probably not an hour,

856
01:23:00,125 --> 01:23:01,708
but 45 minutes or yeah.

857
01:23:01,791 --> 01:23:02,875
But now you're good with that.

858
01:23:02,916 --> 01:23:05,000
Maybe you feel a little

859
01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:06,000
discomfort with that now,

860
01:23:06,000 --> 01:23:06,541
but when you first

861
01:23:06,541 --> 01:23:07,833
started it was that one like,

862
01:23:08,125 --> 01:23:10,208
all right, Megan, how

863
01:23:10,208 --> 01:23:11,291
did I get through that?

864
01:23:11,416 --> 01:23:11,791
Yeah.

865
01:23:11,791 --> 01:23:12,500
Scared to death.

866
01:23:12,875 --> 01:23:15,541
Like, yeah, I remember the first time

867
01:23:16,000 --> 01:23:18,208
and when it was a big audience

868
01:23:18,208 --> 01:23:19,000
and I was up there for

869
01:23:19,000 --> 01:23:20,166
a long period of time.

870
01:23:20,500 --> 01:23:21,750
I'm pretty sure you heard whatever

871
01:23:21,750 --> 01:23:22,875
presentation I was giving.

872
01:23:22,875 --> 01:23:26,416
You probably heard it 20, 30, 40.

873
01:23:26,625 --> 01:23:26,875
Yeah.

874
01:23:27,583 --> 01:23:28,500
Six, seven times.

875
01:23:29,541 --> 01:23:33,083
Because that was how I prepared, right?

876
01:23:33,541 --> 01:23:35,916
I gave it to you multiple times.

877
01:23:36,166 --> 01:23:37,000
Yeah, yeah.

878
01:23:37,000 --> 01:23:37,958
We used to do that quite a bit.

879
01:23:37,958 --> 01:23:38,333
Yeah.

880
01:23:38,333 --> 01:23:39,500
And we had to prepare remarks.

881
01:23:39,791 --> 01:23:40,125
Exactly.

882
01:23:42,333 --> 01:23:44,958
But I had, and I say this to this day,

883
01:23:44,958 --> 01:23:47,166
I had a really good first

884
01:23:47,166 --> 01:23:48,750
public speaking experience

885
01:23:48,750 --> 01:23:50,041
when I was in seventh grade.

886
01:23:50,875 --> 01:23:52,458
Yeah, it held over.

887
01:23:53,166 --> 01:23:55,500
And it, like, that gives you confidence.

888
01:23:55,750 --> 01:23:57,375
When you have a really, like a good

889
01:23:57,375 --> 01:23:58,333
experience with that

890
01:23:58,416 --> 01:23:58,958
and you get positive

891
01:23:58,958 --> 01:24:00,750
feedback on it and all of that,

892
01:24:00,750 --> 01:24:01,916
it's like, that does help.

893
01:24:01,916 --> 01:24:04,291
Now that was a class of 25 people

894
01:24:04,291 --> 01:24:06,416
that I presented in front of

895
01:24:06,666 --> 01:24:08,458
versus now much bigger audiences.

896
01:24:09,625 --> 01:24:11,875
But you still, you still do it.

897
01:24:12,250 --> 01:24:12,708
Is there anything else

898
01:24:12,708 --> 01:24:13,500
that's like that for you?

899
01:24:14,500 --> 01:24:14,958
Gosh.

900
01:24:15,708 --> 01:24:17,208
Well, part of, I mean, I was a dancer.

901
01:24:17,458 --> 01:24:19,750
So, like, there is to some degree,

902
01:24:20,375 --> 01:24:21,750
like, you have to get

903
01:24:21,750 --> 01:24:22,541
up in front of people

904
01:24:22,708 --> 01:24:23,708
and be used to that.

905
01:24:23,750 --> 01:24:24,583
Yeah, that's true.

906
01:24:25,041 --> 01:24:26,375
So, I mean, you perform.

907
01:24:27,125 --> 01:24:27,333
Yeah.

908
01:24:28,375 --> 01:24:30,208
I never liked singing in front of people,

909
01:24:30,208 --> 01:24:31,583
even though I had to

910
01:24:31,583 --> 01:24:32,500
sing in front of people.

911
01:24:32,500 --> 01:24:33,333
I never liked that.

912
01:24:34,500 --> 01:24:35,666
I would never do that, I don't think.

913
01:24:37,125 --> 01:24:38,375
I wish I could sing, but

914
01:24:38,375 --> 01:24:39,791
yeah, I can see how that would be.

915
01:24:39,833 --> 01:24:40,250
That one.

916
01:24:40,750 --> 01:24:42,833
That's just more, that is more judgy

917
01:24:42,833 --> 01:24:45,791
because that's more specific, right?

918
01:24:46,166 --> 01:24:46,375
Yeah.

919
01:24:46,500 --> 01:24:47,250
It's one thing to

920
01:24:47,250 --> 01:24:50,333
misspeak one or two words

921
01:24:50,666 --> 01:24:52,458
or, you know, have a long pause

922
01:24:52,458 --> 01:24:53,583
or something like that during a speech.

923
01:24:54,500 --> 01:24:55,666
But you hit a wrong note.

924
01:24:56,375 --> 01:24:57,000
I mean, there's only so

925
01:24:57,000 --> 01:24:58,041
many of them in the tune

926
01:24:58,500 --> 01:24:59,583
and that's gonna stick out.

927
01:24:59,583 --> 01:25:00,583
That's something people do

928
01:25:00,583 --> 01:25:01,791
kind of expect perfection on,

929
01:25:01,791 --> 01:25:02,000
right?

930
01:25:02,583 --> 01:25:02,791
100%.

931
01:25:03,375 --> 01:25:03,583
Yeah.

932
01:25:04,291 --> 01:25:05,083
Yeah, and that's why I

933
01:25:05,083 --> 01:25:06,500
was never the soloist

934
01:25:06,625 --> 01:25:08,041
in a lot of the things

935
01:25:08,041 --> 01:25:09,500
that, I mean, I was in,

936
01:25:09,666 --> 01:25:11,083
so I was in show choir and

937
01:25:11,083 --> 01:25:13,458
there were 22 of us, I think.

938
01:25:15,500 --> 01:25:17,333
11 girls, 11 guys, and

939
01:25:17,333 --> 01:25:19,666
I was not the soloist.

940
01:25:19,666 --> 01:25:21,375
No, I had a solo or two,

941
01:25:21,791 --> 01:25:23,291
but I was not the main

942
01:25:23,291 --> 01:25:24,208
person that they picked.

943
01:25:24,541 --> 01:25:24,791
Yeah.

944
01:25:25,458 --> 01:25:26,708
I never felt nervous

945
01:25:26,708 --> 01:25:29,833
singing with the other 20 people,

946
01:25:29,916 --> 01:25:30,166
ever.

947
01:25:30,625 --> 01:25:31,166
Like, that was enough

948
01:25:31,166 --> 01:25:32,416
people for me to just be like,

949
01:25:32,416 --> 01:25:33,875
this is fun and I'm good to go,

950
01:25:33,875 --> 01:25:34,750
but if I had to sing by

951
01:25:34,750 --> 01:25:36,500
myself, I'd be nervous, for sure.

952
01:25:38,500 --> 01:25:39,291
Sometimes I still get

953
01:25:39,291 --> 01:25:40,333
nervous singing around the house,

954
01:25:40,333 --> 01:25:41,250
even though I do it all the time.

955
01:25:41,500 --> 01:25:42,583
Like, if someone hears that.

956
01:25:43,916 --> 01:25:44,125
Yeah.

957
01:25:44,500 --> 01:25:45,833
If I'm like really belting it out.

958
01:25:45,958 --> 01:25:46,958
Really singing, yeah.

959
01:25:46,958 --> 01:25:47,166
Yeah.

960
01:25:47,500 --> 01:25:51,875
I was singing the American, what is it?

961
01:25:51,916 --> 01:25:52,458
The National Anthem.

962
01:25:52,458 --> 01:25:53,500
The National Anthem, the

963
01:25:53,500 --> 01:25:55,041
American, the National Anthem.

964
01:25:55,375 --> 01:25:56,208
You were singing that?

965
01:25:56,500 --> 01:25:59,000
Along with Whitney Houston's,

966
01:25:59,000 --> 01:26:00,083
I Believe That Children Are the Future.

967
01:26:00,083 --> 01:26:02,000
I don't know why those were in my mind.

968
01:26:02,541 --> 01:26:04,083
While you were in office,

969
01:26:05,333 --> 01:26:06,791
either yesterday or the day before,

970
01:26:07,250 --> 01:26:08,416
and I was like, oh man,

971
01:26:08,416 --> 01:26:09,958
I hope she doesn't come home unannounced.

972
01:26:12,208 --> 01:26:12,250
(laughing)

973
01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:15,791
Oh my gosh, that's funny.

974
01:26:16,458 --> 01:26:18,333
I love that you were belting it out.

975
01:26:18,375 --> 01:26:19,958
I didn't want that cat out of the bag.

976
01:26:21,416 --> 01:26:23,166
I mean, you could be the

977
01:26:23,166 --> 01:26:24,375
next National Anthem singer.

978
01:26:24,791 --> 01:26:26,875
Will not be, I'm not a good singer.

979
01:26:28,750 --> 01:26:31,416
So anyways, yeah, those

980
01:26:31,416 --> 01:26:33,250
are things that it's just,

981
01:26:33,500 --> 01:26:35,708
sometimes it's hard to

982
01:26:35,708 --> 01:26:36,666
push through on those things.

983
01:26:36,666 --> 01:26:37,416
There's times even just

984
01:26:37,416 --> 01:26:38,500
like socially I have to do it.

985
01:26:38,500 --> 01:26:40,041
Like I've just, I mean,

986
01:26:40,625 --> 01:26:42,333
honestly doing a podcast is like that.

987
01:26:42,625 --> 01:26:42,833
Yeah.

988
01:26:43,166 --> 01:26:43,708
Right, because I'm

989
01:26:43,708 --> 01:26:44,583
putting myself out there.

990
01:26:44,583 --> 01:26:45,416
There's all these things on,

991
01:26:45,916 --> 01:26:47,291
all these videos on YouTube.

992
01:26:48,250 --> 01:26:50,791
You're doing it via this podcast as well.

993
01:26:51,250 --> 01:26:53,666
You know, and that's something that's,

994
01:26:54,041 --> 01:26:56,958
this is, you know, for

995
01:26:56,958 --> 01:26:58,083
us is different, right?

996
01:26:58,291 --> 01:27:00,708
I mean, we've mentioned that we're not

997
01:27:00,708 --> 01:27:01,958
doing this to become,

998
01:27:02,833 --> 01:27:04,125
this is not gonna be a new

999
01:27:04,125 --> 01:27:05,250
stream of revenue for us.

1000
01:27:05,250 --> 01:27:06,666
We have never planned on it to be,

1001
01:27:07,000 --> 01:27:09,375
nor is that our will for it to be.

1002
01:27:09,666 --> 01:27:10,333
If it were to happen, I

1003
01:27:10,333 --> 01:27:11,916
should, sure, great, fantastic.

1004
01:27:12,708 --> 01:27:13,916
If New Zealand

1005
01:27:13,916 --> 01:27:15,291
decides that the English is,

1006
01:27:15,291 --> 01:27:17,000
Mr. and Mrs. English is the new hit show.

1007
01:27:17,000 --> 01:27:18,166
We're like the next big thing.

1008
01:27:18,166 --> 01:27:19,000
We're happy to go to New

1009
01:27:19,000 --> 01:27:20,750
Zealand and do some, you know,

1010
01:27:21,083 --> 01:27:21,916
in person.

1011
01:27:21,916 --> 01:27:22,166
Yeah.

1012
01:27:23,916 --> 01:27:26,041
That aside, that's not been our thing.

1013
01:27:26,625 --> 01:27:28,250
So it is a little weird to

1014
01:27:28,250 --> 01:27:29,750
like have yourself out there,

1015
01:27:30,041 --> 01:27:32,000
to be judged for something,

1016
01:27:32,500 --> 01:27:33,333
you know, by other people,

1017
01:27:33,333 --> 01:27:34,500
for something that you're like, well,

1018
01:27:34,875 --> 01:27:35,958
hey, it's not really my,

1019
01:27:36,458 --> 01:27:37,208
cause I think there are people,

1020
01:27:37,666 --> 01:27:38,708
here's where I'm kind of going with this.

1021
01:27:39,000 --> 01:27:43,416
I was introduced at a table not long ago

1022
01:27:44,291 --> 01:27:46,375
as the guy with the podcast, right?

1023
01:27:46,791 --> 01:27:47,041
Yeah.

1024
01:27:47,500 --> 01:27:49,583
And there's people that I know,

1025
01:27:49,583 --> 01:27:50,750
but I don't know them well enough.

1026
01:27:51,000 --> 01:27:51,333
Right.

1027
01:27:51,833 --> 01:27:52,416
Not well enough for

1028
01:27:52,416 --> 01:27:53,333
them to know like what I do

1029
01:27:53,333 --> 01:27:54,041
for a living.

1030
01:27:54,208 --> 01:27:54,708
Yeah, yeah.

1031
01:27:55,041 --> 01:27:55,083
Right?

1032
01:27:55,083 --> 01:27:55,916
And so I think they

1033
01:27:55,916 --> 01:27:57,291
immediately thought of me as like,

1034
01:27:57,500 --> 01:27:59,458
oh, he does a podcast,

1035
01:28:00,083 --> 01:28:01,208
you know, he's a podcaster.

1036
01:28:01,208 --> 01:28:02,333
I wonder if that's how he

1037
01:28:02,333 --> 01:28:04,083
makes his living, you know.

1038
01:28:04,666 --> 01:28:05,708
Yeah, like what are the questions in their mind?

1039
01:28:06,625 --> 01:28:10,083
So in a long roundabout way there,

1040
01:28:10,083 --> 01:28:10,750
I was just kind of

1041
01:28:10,750 --> 01:28:13,333
getting at like, you know,

1042
01:28:13,333 --> 01:28:13,666
we're putting

1043
01:28:13,666 --> 01:28:14,666
ourselves out there for this

1044
01:28:14,666 --> 01:28:16,208
and this is something, you know,

1045
01:28:16,208 --> 01:28:17,458
it is a little

1046
01:28:17,458 --> 01:28:18,583
uncomfortable for me to think

1047
01:28:18,583 --> 01:28:19,291
that there's people out

1048
01:28:19,291 --> 01:28:20,541
there that I don't know,

1049
01:28:21,125 --> 01:28:23,750
that are judging or, you know,

1050
01:28:23,750 --> 01:28:24,375
oh, cause that's

1051
01:28:24,375 --> 01:28:25,041
where I was going with it.

1052
01:28:25,041 --> 01:28:25,958
I was thinking a little bit like,

1053
01:28:26,583 --> 01:28:27,416
well, I wonder if these people like

1054
01:28:27,416 --> 01:28:28,750
listen in, you know,

1055
01:28:28,750 --> 01:28:29,250
and they're like, oh,

1056
01:28:29,250 --> 01:28:30,291
they're listening into it.

1057
01:28:30,291 --> 01:28:33,666
And it's like, oh, interesting, you know.

1058
01:28:34,791 --> 01:28:35,208
Cause I've never

1059
01:28:35,208 --> 01:28:36,250
claimed that we're, you know,

1060
01:28:36,291 --> 01:28:37,625
award-winning or anything like that.

1061
01:28:37,625 --> 01:28:38,000
You know what I mean?

1062
01:28:38,208 --> 01:28:38,833
Right, right.

1063
01:28:38,833 --> 01:28:40,250
We're very normal people.

1064
01:28:40,500 --> 01:28:41,458
Totally normal people.

1065
01:28:42,000 --> 01:28:43,916
Well, we think we're normal, but.

1066
01:28:43,958 --> 01:28:45,166
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right.

1067
01:28:45,875 --> 01:28:47,291
We're not the Kardashians.

1068
01:28:47,750 --> 01:28:48,583
Nor are we trying to be.

1069
01:28:48,583 --> 01:28:49,791
Nor are we trying to be.

1070
01:28:50,666 --> 01:28:51,916
That's why it's like, I

1071
01:28:51,916 --> 01:28:53,166
think the part of what we were

1072
01:28:53,166 --> 01:28:54,166
doing is like, hey,

1073
01:28:54,375 --> 01:28:55,750
we're at least relatable.

1074
01:28:56,458 --> 01:28:58,625
So people pull things out of it,

1075
01:28:58,958 --> 01:28:59,708
maybe pull out some

1076
01:28:59,708 --> 01:29:01,250
nostalgia or, you know,

1077
01:29:01,791 --> 01:29:03,041
like, wow, we do it way

1078
01:29:03,041 --> 01:29:04,041
better than those two.

1079
01:29:04,083 --> 01:29:06,041
Yahoo's on the podcast, you know?

1080
01:29:06,041 --> 01:29:06,791
Right, right.

1081
01:29:07,041 --> 01:29:07,291
We're putting

1082
01:29:07,291 --> 01:29:08,333
ourselves out there for this.

1083
01:29:08,333 --> 01:29:10,916
And it is uncomfortable at times.

1084
01:29:10,916 --> 01:29:11,666
Cause I know some people

1085
01:29:11,666 --> 01:29:13,541
know us as having a podcast.

1086
01:29:14,208 --> 01:29:15,000
Yeah, yeah.

1087
01:29:15,291 --> 01:29:16,041
There's not many people do.

1088
01:29:16,500 --> 01:29:18,041
Well, and it's, it's interesting.

1089
01:29:18,291 --> 01:29:22,250
So it's like anyone that knows me,

1090
01:29:22,250 --> 01:29:23,708
if they know that we do

1091
01:29:23,708 --> 01:29:25,291
this, like can go out there,

1092
01:29:25,291 --> 01:29:27,208
like a colleague could go hear this.

1093
01:29:27,208 --> 01:29:29,416
And it's like, you know,

1094
01:29:29,416 --> 01:29:31,250
it's kind of a peek behind

1095
01:29:31,250 --> 01:29:32,458
the curtains of a, of a

1096
01:29:32,458 --> 01:29:33,916
potentially a colleague's life

1097
01:29:33,916 --> 01:29:35,166
or, you know, not that.

1098
01:29:35,166 --> 01:29:36,958
And again, that's yet

1099
01:29:36,958 --> 01:29:39,583
another reason why we do filter

1100
01:29:39,791 --> 01:29:41,666
what we say and all of that.

1101
01:29:41,666 --> 01:29:41,875
Yeah.

1102
01:29:43,208 --> 01:29:44,125
But, but it is, it does

1103
01:29:44,125 --> 01:29:45,541
push us out of our comfort zone

1104
01:29:45,541 --> 01:29:46,291
a little bit.

1105
01:29:46,333 --> 01:29:46,541
Yeah.

1106
01:29:49,250 --> 01:29:50,583
Although I still love the time with you.

1107
01:29:50,916 --> 01:29:51,083
So.

1108
01:29:51,208 --> 01:29:52,125
Yeah, the time's great.

1109
01:29:52,666 --> 01:29:54,583
And you know, the other thing that we do,

1110
01:29:55,125 --> 01:29:55,708
I've mentioned it

1111
01:29:55,708 --> 01:29:56,791
many times before in here

1112
01:29:56,791 --> 01:29:59,000
is that we're very sure to not

1113
01:29:59,000 --> 01:30:02,083
really get into any specific,

1114
01:30:04,041 --> 01:30:04,750
you know, topics where

1115
01:30:04,750 --> 01:30:05,500
we're taking a stand.

1116
01:30:06,166 --> 01:30:06,250
Right.

1117
01:30:06,541 --> 01:30:07,333
And it's not because we

1118
01:30:07,333 --> 01:30:09,083
don't have a lot of, you know.

1119
01:30:09,166 --> 01:30:10,083
That's, that's right.

1120
01:30:10,833 --> 01:30:12,291
We definitely have our own opinions

1121
01:30:12,958 --> 01:30:13,500
and the way we think

1122
01:30:13,500 --> 01:30:14,291
things should be done

1123
01:30:14,291 --> 01:30:15,541
and yada, yada, yada.

1124
01:30:16,375 --> 01:30:18,916
But just not, not the platform for,

1125
01:30:18,916 --> 01:30:20,083
at least on this podcast, right?

1126
01:30:20,083 --> 01:30:20,791
Not on this one.

1127
01:30:20,833 --> 01:30:21,208
Yeah.

1128
01:30:21,291 --> 01:30:22,416
If we start another one,

1129
01:30:22,625 --> 01:30:24,625
the I'm Pieved podcast,

1130
01:30:25,500 --> 01:30:27,375
you'd get the unfiltered version.

1131
01:30:27,833 --> 01:30:28,708
Yeah, yeah.

1132
01:30:29,833 --> 01:30:30,666
Nobody wants to hear it.

1133
01:30:30,791 --> 01:30:31,458
And that's the thing we

1134
01:30:31,458 --> 01:30:32,000
just don't want to put,

1135
01:30:33,000 --> 01:30:34,583
it'd be very easy to start a podcast

1136
01:30:34,583 --> 01:30:35,333
where you're just like,

1137
01:30:35,333 --> 01:30:36,375
hey, let's talk about

1138
01:30:36,375 --> 01:30:37,166
what I'm Pieved about.

1139
01:30:37,166 --> 01:30:38,000
You know what makes me mad?

1140
01:30:38,375 --> 01:30:38,916
And you could do it kind

1141
01:30:38,916 --> 01:30:40,083
of funny and satirically,

1142
01:30:40,083 --> 01:30:41,500
but I still think it

1143
01:30:41,500 --> 01:30:43,833
comes across too negative.

1144
01:30:43,875 --> 01:30:44,375
I agree.

1145
01:30:45,250 --> 01:30:45,958
Focusing on all this

1146
01:30:45,958 --> 01:30:48,000
negative stuff when, you know,

1147
01:30:48,333 --> 01:30:49,583
trying to make it through the slides,

1148
01:30:49,583 --> 01:30:50,250
there's enough

1149
01:30:50,250 --> 01:30:51,500
negative stuff to begin with.

1150
01:30:51,500 --> 01:30:52,125
There is.

1151
01:30:52,125 --> 01:30:53,083
Without trying to, you

1152
01:30:53,083 --> 01:30:54,500
know, even hamper on even more.

1153
01:30:54,500 --> 01:30:55,125
So it's trying to find,

1154
01:30:55,625 --> 01:30:56,500
you know, things that are,

1155
01:30:57,125 --> 01:30:58,416
that are good in line, things that,

1156
01:30:59,125 --> 01:30:59,416
Yeah.

1157
01:30:59,541 --> 01:31:00,416
Make you feel good inside.

1158
01:31:00,708 --> 01:31:00,916
Yeah.

1159
01:31:01,833 --> 01:31:02,666
And hopefully that make

1160
01:31:02,666 --> 01:31:04,000
everyone feel good, right?

1161
01:31:04,000 --> 01:31:06,916
They're, we do try to talk about funny

1162
01:31:06,916 --> 01:31:09,458
stories or nostalgia

1163
01:31:09,791 --> 01:31:11,708
or how maybe you, you see

1164
01:31:11,708 --> 01:31:12,833
things differently as a,

1165
01:31:12,833 --> 01:31:14,291
as a man than I do as a woman.

1166
01:31:14,333 --> 01:31:15,250
You know, like things like that that

1167
01:31:15,250 --> 01:31:16,041
people can relate to

1168
01:31:16,041 --> 01:31:17,916
without just being negative.

1169
01:31:17,916 --> 01:31:20,000
I mean, we do vent a little bit on here

1170
01:31:20,000 --> 01:31:20,791
every now and again.

1171
01:31:21,291 --> 01:31:21,500
Yeah.

1172
01:31:22,208 --> 01:31:23,208
In a funny way, but not much.

1173
01:31:23,416 --> 01:31:25,083
We were careful not to do it too much.

1174
01:31:25,666 --> 01:31:25,875
Yeah.

1175
01:31:25,916 --> 01:31:26,833
So, yeah.

1176
01:31:27,250 --> 01:31:28,041
Although if anyone, yes,

1177
01:31:28,041 --> 01:31:29,333
sits next to us on an airplane,

1178
01:31:29,583 --> 01:31:30,208
is like, oh, you're the

1179
01:31:30,208 --> 01:31:31,083
ones from the podcast.

1180
01:31:31,083 --> 01:31:31,875
Just know that, yeah,

1181
01:31:31,875 --> 01:31:33,083
you've already heard the podcast.

1182
01:31:33,083 --> 01:31:34,750
If I don't really want to strike up a

1183
01:31:34,750 --> 01:31:35,958
conversation with you,

1184
01:31:35,958 --> 01:31:36,708
I'm going to be listening

1185
01:31:36,708 --> 01:31:39,958
to my music and ignoring you.

1186
01:31:39,958 --> 01:31:41,500
I'm really good at that on an airplane.

1187
01:31:42,041 --> 01:31:42,333
(laughing)

1188
01:31:43,083 --> 01:31:43,833
And please just stay on

1189
01:31:43,833 --> 01:31:44,625
your side of the seat.

1190
01:31:44,666 --> 01:31:45,500
And please stay on your,

1191
01:31:46,166 --> 01:31:47,250
(sighing)

1192
01:31:47,583 --> 01:31:49,625
See, now we can get into the, into the,

1193
01:31:49,625 --> 01:31:51,250
I am peeved, like the whole

1194
01:31:51,250 --> 01:31:54,125
man spreading and like elbows.

1195
01:31:54,500 --> 01:31:54,708
Like,

1196
01:31:55,625 --> 01:31:56,375
(gasping) Yeah.

1197
01:31:56,583 --> 01:31:56,833
Yeah.

1198
01:31:57,125 --> 01:31:58,000
I always get happy when

1199
01:31:58,000 --> 01:31:59,833
like a female sits next to me.

1200
01:31:59,833 --> 01:32:01,166
Cause I was like, she

1201
01:32:01,166 --> 01:32:02,833
will stay in her lane.

1202
01:32:03,291 --> 01:32:06,208
They're more likely to stay in their seat

1203
01:32:06,708 --> 01:32:07,708
within their seat limits.

1204
01:32:08,791 --> 01:32:10,166
Actually, I've never had one who didn't.

1205
01:32:10,291 --> 01:32:10,583
Oh really?

1206
01:32:11,416 --> 01:32:13,666
I've had a couple of elbow women before.

1207
01:32:13,666 --> 01:32:14,208
Oh, okay.

1208
01:32:14,250 --> 01:32:15,750
Well, we're sharing this armrest.

1209
01:32:16,791 --> 01:32:18,916
I did have one where I was the person

1210
01:32:18,916 --> 01:32:20,291
who was moving into her seat,

1211
01:32:20,291 --> 01:32:20,958
but that's only

1212
01:32:20,958 --> 01:32:22,541
because the person next to me

1213
01:32:22,541 --> 01:32:23,916
was taking up over half

1214
01:32:23,916 --> 01:32:25,583
of my seat and I only,

1215
01:32:26,166 --> 01:32:29,041
so, I mean, the lean was like required.

1216
01:32:31,500 --> 01:32:32,375
And I think she knew that.

1217
01:32:32,791 --> 01:32:33,041
Nice.

1218
01:32:33,750 --> 01:32:34,333
Well, that's good.

1219
01:32:34,333 --> 01:32:35,250
At least she gave you

1220
01:32:35,250 --> 01:32:35,916
a little grace there.

1221
01:32:36,416 --> 01:32:37,458
I'm sure she did.

1222
01:32:38,708 --> 01:32:39,250
I'm sure she was

1223
01:32:39,250 --> 01:32:40,291
excited to get off that flight

1224
01:32:40,791 --> 01:32:41,875
as I was as well.

1225
01:32:43,041 --> 01:32:44,375
Well, we've been long in

1226
01:32:44,375 --> 01:32:45,416
these last couple of weeks.

1227
01:32:45,416 --> 01:32:46,250
We can probably wrap

1228
01:32:46,250 --> 01:32:47,041
this one up a little bit,

1229
01:32:47,041 --> 01:32:48,125
not to mention we've got a

1230
01:32:48,125 --> 01:32:49,416
lot going on today still.

1231
01:32:49,416 --> 01:32:50,583
So we kind of got to wrap it,

1232
01:32:50,583 --> 01:32:51,958
but what else you want to talk about?

1233
01:32:51,958 --> 01:32:53,541
Anything in particular as we're wrapping?

1234
01:32:54,625 --> 01:32:56,000
I don't think so.

1235
01:32:56,000 --> 01:32:58,625
I mean, are we, is next one

1236
01:32:58,625 --> 01:33:00,416
going to be a location shoot?

1237
01:33:00,833 --> 01:33:02,416
Oh, we could be in Colorado.

1238
01:33:04,000 --> 01:33:04,625
Could be.

1239
01:33:04,625 --> 01:33:05,333
Could be in Colorado.

1240
01:33:05,583 --> 01:33:07,125
We have the Rockies behind us.

1241
01:33:07,375 --> 01:33:08,041
Oh, that'd be cool.

1242
01:33:09,208 --> 01:33:10,083
I hadn't thought about it yet.

1243
01:33:10,125 --> 01:33:11,166
It might be freezing.

1244
01:33:11,708 --> 01:33:12,291
Future Shawn and Megan

1245
01:33:12,291 --> 01:33:13,458
have to think about that.

1246
01:33:13,625 --> 01:33:15,375
Future Shawn and Megan are very busy.

1247
01:33:15,583 --> 01:33:16,083
As always.

1248
01:33:16,458 --> 01:33:17,500
Like why are Future

1249
01:33:17,500 --> 01:33:19,125
Shawn and Megan busier

1250
01:33:19,166 --> 01:33:20,708
than like current Shawn and Megan?

1251
01:33:21,250 --> 01:33:22,708
Well, because I'm like

1252
01:33:22,708 --> 01:33:24,250
scheduled to shoot so many movies

1253
01:33:25,041 --> 01:33:25,833
is one reason why.

1254
01:33:26,375 --> 01:33:27,541
I mean, it is Halloween time.

1255
01:33:28,125 --> 01:33:29,583
You and your gargoyles are in--

1256
01:33:29,583 --> 01:33:30,625
It's just my time of the year.

1257
01:33:30,666 --> 01:33:31,500
Hi, Jimmy Hand.

1258
01:33:31,750 --> 01:33:32,125
That's right.

1259
01:33:35,041 --> 01:33:37,958
I wish so badly there

1260
01:33:37,958 --> 01:33:40,083
was a video of this.

1261
01:33:41,208 --> 01:33:42,250
Yeah, I'm embarrassed of it

1262
01:33:42,250 --> 01:33:43,458
now just thinking about it.

1263
01:33:43,875 --> 01:33:44,208
Why?

1264
01:33:45,125 --> 01:33:45,541
I don't know.

1265
01:33:45,666 --> 01:33:46,750
You shouldn't be.

1266
01:33:46,750 --> 01:33:47,416
Yeah, well.

1267
01:33:47,458 --> 01:33:49,000
You're like, and it's an experience.

1268
01:33:49,291 --> 01:33:50,500
Thank God there's not video of it.

1269
01:33:50,500 --> 01:33:53,500
It's like our dance at our wedding.

1270
01:33:53,791 --> 01:33:54,083
Yeah.

1271
01:33:54,083 --> 01:33:55,458
Right, I am happy that

1272
01:33:55,458 --> 01:33:56,875
there's not a video of that.

1273
01:33:57,125 --> 01:33:58,333
So I can't, we're watching back.

1274
01:33:58,333 --> 01:33:59,250
Oh, that was way,

1275
01:33:59,250 --> 01:33:59,958
we've talked about that.

1276
01:33:59,958 --> 01:34:01,541
It was way worse than I thought it was.

1277
01:34:01,541 --> 01:34:02,708
I felt like it was.

1278
01:34:03,291 --> 01:34:04,500
Yeah, because in your mind, it was like,

1279
01:34:04,500 --> 01:34:05,791
oh no, I think we did pretty darn good.

1280
01:34:06,666 --> 01:34:08,500
I don't know how we did.

1281
01:34:08,500 --> 01:34:09,208
I have no idea.

1282
01:34:09,291 --> 01:34:10,000
I never even heard any

1283
01:34:10,000 --> 01:34:11,041
feedback from it, honestly.

1284
01:34:11,833 --> 01:34:12,625
Oh, I think I did.

1285
01:34:12,625 --> 01:34:14,041
I think I got a lot of good feedback.

1286
01:34:14,083 --> 01:34:15,250
Oh good, good, good, good, good.

1287
01:34:15,500 --> 01:34:16,875
You did, I didn't.

1288
01:34:16,875 --> 01:34:17,708
Nobody was like, Shawn, I

1289
01:34:17,708 --> 01:34:18,583
didn't know you could dance.

1290
01:34:18,916 --> 01:34:19,750
Not one person.

1291
01:34:21,208 --> 01:34:23,166
But it was all around,

1292
01:34:23,166 --> 01:34:24,500
you guys did so well.

1293
01:34:24,500 --> 01:34:25,875
It was more around like,

1294
01:34:26,125 --> 01:34:27,875
I didn't know you guys were gonna dance.

1295
01:34:28,666 --> 01:34:30,875
That is not what they said.

1296
01:34:34,625 --> 01:34:35,708
I think it was all good feedback.

1297
01:34:36,375 --> 01:34:36,875
Yeah, good.

1298
01:34:36,875 --> 01:34:37,666
It was really good.

1299
01:34:37,916 --> 01:34:38,333
That's good.

1300
01:34:39,250 --> 01:34:40,625
It can't be confirmed,

1301
01:34:40,833 --> 01:34:41,541
because there's no video.

1302
01:34:41,583 --> 01:34:42,166
There's no video.

1303
01:34:42,625 --> 01:34:44,666
So in our mind, I mean,

1304
01:34:44,958 --> 01:34:45,958
we're the next couple on

1305
01:34:45,958 --> 01:34:46,583
Dancing With The Stars.

1306
01:34:46,750 --> 01:34:47,708
Talk about getting out

1307
01:34:47,708 --> 01:34:48,541
of your comfort zone.

1308
01:34:48,875 --> 01:34:50,041
I was just gonna say, that was exactly,

1309
01:34:50,041 --> 01:34:50,833
that was another moment.

1310
01:34:50,833 --> 01:34:51,791
Like, I just have to do this.

1311
01:34:51,791 --> 01:34:53,708
All these people, I was still very,

1312
01:34:55,041 --> 01:34:57,208
still building self-confidence back then.

1313
01:34:57,208 --> 01:34:57,416
Yeah.

1314
01:34:58,500 --> 01:34:59,958
That was out of the comfort zone.

1315
01:35:00,458 --> 01:35:01,333
That was a good, I should

1316
01:35:01,333 --> 01:35:02,166
have brought that one up.

1317
01:35:02,208 --> 01:35:02,666
Yeah.

1318
01:35:02,750 --> 01:35:03,875
Dancing in front of all those people.

1319
01:35:04,791 --> 01:35:06,000
Everybody's eyes were on us.

1320
01:35:06,625 --> 01:35:06,958
Mm-hmm.

1321
01:35:07,958 --> 01:35:09,791
What were we thinking?

1322
01:35:10,500 --> 01:35:11,125
I don't know.

1323
01:35:11,625 --> 01:35:13,541
I mean, I was just thinking about--

1324
01:35:13,541 --> 01:35:14,541
Would we do that now even?

1325
01:35:15,250 --> 01:35:15,833
Yeah.

1326
01:35:15,875 --> 01:35:16,125
We would.

1327
01:35:17,041 --> 01:35:17,625
Yeah.

1328
01:35:17,625 --> 01:35:17,833
Maybe.

1329
01:35:18,000 --> 01:35:18,750
That's what you do.

1330
01:35:19,000 --> 01:35:20,875
Yeah, that's right, that's right.

1331
01:35:20,958 --> 01:35:22,250
That's just what you do.

1332
01:35:22,250 --> 01:35:24,375
So when we renew, we'll have to redo it.

1333
01:35:24,875 --> 01:35:25,416
Oh yeah.

1334
01:35:25,750 --> 01:35:26,041
No.

1335
01:35:26,791 --> 01:35:27,125
No?

1336
01:35:27,166 --> 01:35:27,958
That was a one-time thing.

1337
01:35:28,208 --> 01:35:28,833
You don't wanna dance

1338
01:35:28,833 --> 01:35:29,458
in front of the kids.

1339
01:35:29,875 --> 01:35:30,875
Oh my gosh, yeah.

1340
01:35:31,375 --> 01:35:31,708
No.

1341
01:35:32,083 --> 01:35:32,958
(laughing)

1342
01:35:33,541 --> 01:35:35,791
You imagine the embarrassment on them?

1343
01:35:36,916 --> 01:35:37,541
Oh my gosh, they get

1344
01:35:37,541 --> 01:35:38,500
embarrassed if we're like,

1345
01:35:38,500 --> 01:35:39,416
hi, how was your day?

1346
01:35:39,416 --> 01:35:40,333
And then they're like, boom.

1347
01:35:41,958 --> 01:35:42,791
Yeah, we've definitely

1348
01:35:42,791 --> 01:35:43,500
reached that age though

1349
01:35:43,500 --> 01:35:44,583
where we go out of our

1350
01:35:44,583 --> 01:35:45,875
way to embarrass them.

1351
01:35:46,958 --> 01:35:47,208
Yes.

1352
01:35:47,208 --> 01:35:48,083
I do, for sure.

1353
01:35:49,000 --> 01:35:49,833
Well, it's not like

1354
01:35:49,833 --> 01:35:51,000
you have to go that far.

1355
01:35:51,750 --> 01:35:53,125
All you have to do is act normal

1356
01:35:53,125 --> 01:35:54,500
and they're like, I'm so embarrassed.

1357
01:35:54,791 --> 01:35:55,833
You're talking about me specifically

1358
01:35:56,083 --> 01:35:56,875
or just parents in general?

1359
01:35:56,875 --> 01:35:57,708
Oh no, parents in general.

1360
01:35:57,750 --> 01:35:58,333
Okay, thanks.

1361
01:35:58,375 --> 01:35:59,708
Pretty much anything that you do.

1362
01:35:59,750 --> 01:36:00,750
I just wanted to clear that up.

1363
01:36:00,750 --> 01:36:01,208
Yeah, yeah.

1364
01:36:02,291 --> 01:36:02,958
As a parent.

1365
01:36:03,583 --> 01:36:04,583
Not you, Sean.

1366
01:36:05,000 --> 01:36:06,041
Yeah, no, no, no, no.

1367
01:36:07,291 --> 01:36:09,166
Yeah, it would be like me saying,

1368
01:36:09,541 --> 01:36:11,208
Megan, just you being you

1369
01:36:11,208 --> 01:36:12,708
is enough to embarrass them.

1370
01:36:13,291 --> 01:36:13,875
Oh yeah, that's not

1371
01:36:13,875 --> 01:36:14,625
what I was saying at all.

1372
01:36:15,000 --> 01:36:16,083
I was just saying, all you

1373
01:36:16,083 --> 01:36:17,041
need to do is go up to them

1374
01:36:17,041 --> 01:36:19,166
and be like, hi, and they'll

1375
01:36:19,166 --> 01:36:20,458
be like, I'm so embarrassed.

1376
01:36:21,458 --> 01:36:22,708
You're like, I said hi.

1377
01:36:24,000 --> 01:36:24,500
Two letters.

1378
01:36:25,375 --> 01:36:26,291
I didn't have a funny

1379
01:36:26,291 --> 01:36:27,333
expression on my face.

1380
01:36:27,958 --> 01:36:29,541
Or at 6.45 in the morning, you say hi

1381
01:36:29,625 --> 01:36:31,666
and they're like, you

1382
01:36:31,666 --> 01:36:32,958
know, mad as can be.

1383
01:36:34,250 --> 01:36:35,750
I'm used to that, yeah.

1384
01:36:36,416 --> 01:36:37,500
That's why I don't really

1385
01:36:37,500 --> 01:36:39,416
even approach a conversation

1386
01:36:39,625 --> 01:36:40,083
in the morning.

1387
01:36:41,416 --> 01:36:42,166
I wanted to pull out a

1388
01:36:42,166 --> 01:36:43,250
night, told you so this morning,

1389
01:36:43,291 --> 01:36:44,500
so bad, but I was

1390
01:36:44,500 --> 01:36:47,000
like, not the right time.

1391
01:36:48,000 --> 01:36:49,166
The restraint, I don't know

1392
01:36:49,166 --> 01:36:50,000
if you could see it on my face.

1393
01:36:50,000 --> 01:36:51,375
Oh I did, I don't know

1394
01:36:51,375 --> 01:36:52,250
if you could tell my face

1395
01:36:52,250 --> 01:36:53,541
when I'm like just holding myself,

1396
01:36:53,875 --> 01:36:56,250
like so many lessons to be taught here.

1397
01:36:56,791 --> 01:36:57,333
Just, you're like--

1398
01:36:57,500 --> 01:36:58,541
Just don't.

1399
01:36:58,833 --> 01:36:59,666
I'm not gonna say it,

1400
01:36:59,666 --> 01:37:00,583
I'm not gonna say it.

1401
01:37:00,625 --> 01:37:02,208
It's six in the morning, don't say it.

1402
01:37:02,250 --> 01:37:04,250
Just so everybody, nope, can't say it.

1403
01:37:05,500 --> 01:37:06,166
It should be the next

1404
01:37:06,166 --> 01:37:07,208
like state farm or whatever,

1405
01:37:07,500 --> 01:37:08,583
those commercials of like,

1406
01:37:09,000 --> 01:37:10,375
can stop you from becoming your parents.

1407
01:37:11,666 --> 01:37:11,875
Yeah.

1408
01:37:12,541 --> 01:37:13,833
No, they know.

1409
01:37:14,625 --> 01:37:15,750
You don't need to tell them again.

1410
01:37:16,708 --> 01:37:16,875
Yeah.

1411
01:37:18,916 --> 01:37:20,500
Oh goodness, all right, well,

1412
01:37:20,500 --> 01:37:22,583
we have Halloween coming up this week.

1413
01:37:23,000 --> 01:37:25,500
We're gonna be spending it in Colorado.

1414
01:37:26,458 --> 01:37:30,250
Yes. TC is watching our daughter here

1415
01:37:30,625 --> 01:37:32,458
because we're splitting up, sadly.

1416
01:37:33,166 --> 01:37:34,500
Sadly, I'm really sad

1417
01:37:34,500 --> 01:37:36,291
about it, to be honest.

1418
01:37:37,541 --> 01:37:39,291
Like, I just feel guilty

1419
01:37:40,166 --> 01:37:41,291
because I feel like I can't

1420
01:37:41,291 --> 01:37:43,500
win because everyone's split.

1421
01:37:44,000 --> 01:37:45,250
But the boys will get there,

1422
01:37:45,750 --> 01:37:46,916
our oldest will get his

1423
01:37:46,916 --> 01:37:48,291
third trick or treating

1424
01:37:48,583 --> 01:37:49,708
Colorado experience and our

1425
01:37:49,708 --> 01:37:50,583
youngest will get a second

1426
01:37:51,500 --> 01:37:52,500
since we've lived there before.

1427
01:37:52,916 --> 01:37:54,000
Yep, yep.

1428
01:37:54,916 --> 01:37:55,583
Going back home.

1429
01:37:57,041 --> 01:37:57,250
Cream.

1430
01:37:57,958 --> 01:37:58,416
They'll get to--

1431
01:37:58,708 --> 01:37:59,875
Like, cream, crisp Colorado air.

1432
01:38:00,583 --> 01:38:01,541
Yeah, it'll be cold.

1433
01:38:02,541 --> 01:38:04,375
Well, we're gonna need to get into it.

1434
01:38:04,500 --> 01:38:05,833
Yeah, this weekend's

1435
01:38:05,833 --> 01:38:06,583
supposed to shape up.

1436
01:38:06,583 --> 01:38:08,958
It's like a island of nice weather, so

1437
01:38:08,958 --> 01:38:09,666
let's hope it holds.

1438
01:38:09,958 --> 01:38:11,375
Oh, I hope it holds,

1439
01:38:11,375 --> 01:38:15,083
because unlike you and I

1440
01:38:15,125 --> 01:38:17,125
who know what it's like to

1441
01:38:17,125 --> 01:38:18,458
trick or treat in the cold,

1442
01:38:18,458 --> 01:38:19,500
like our children do not.

1443
01:38:20,083 --> 01:38:24,208
So it'll be an exercise and patience.

1444
01:38:25,708 --> 01:38:26,958
As is every day with kids.

1445
01:38:28,666 --> 01:38:30,666
All right, let's think of our word

1446
01:38:31,291 --> 01:38:33,208
from this last week to sum it up.

1447
01:38:35,500 --> 01:38:36,000
All right, you ready?

1448
01:38:36,791 --> 01:38:39,041
All right, one, two, three.

1449
01:38:39,250 --> 01:38:39,916
Sweet and sour. Believe.

1450
01:38:41,708 --> 01:38:42,875
Those are totally different.

1451
01:38:43,541 --> 01:38:44,833
Sweet and sour, what is it?

1452
01:38:44,833 --> 01:38:46,750
Sweet and sour, I think this week held

1453
01:38:46,750 --> 01:38:47,666
some really good news.

1454
01:38:47,708 --> 01:38:49,333
I know exactly what you're meaning by it.

1455
01:38:49,583 --> 01:38:50,500
Really, really good

1456
01:38:50,500 --> 01:38:52,083
news and really cool things

1457
01:38:52,250 --> 01:38:55,208
that are happening and starting to move,

1458
01:38:55,625 --> 01:38:57,875
and I love it, it's great progress.

1459
01:38:58,166 --> 01:39:00,458
And then we had some peppered in there,

1460
01:39:00,750 --> 01:39:02,666
some not so great news

1461
01:39:02,666 --> 01:39:03,500
and things that it's like,

1462
01:39:03,500 --> 01:39:04,166
okay, well, we gotta

1463
01:39:04,166 --> 01:39:05,416
fix that and handle that.

1464
01:39:06,125 --> 01:39:09,000
So kind of a bit of a rollercoaster.

1465
01:39:09,541 --> 01:39:10,625
Yeah, yeah.

1466
01:39:11,708 --> 01:39:13,416
Totally fair, totally fair with that.

1467
01:39:13,833 --> 01:39:15,125
My relief was partially

1468
01:39:15,125 --> 01:39:17,125
because the sour part,

1469
01:39:17,125 --> 01:39:17,791
I wasn't sure if we were

1470
01:39:17,791 --> 01:39:19,041
gonna even tip our hat to that,

1471
01:39:20,625 --> 01:39:22,750
but the relief side was the same side

1472
01:39:22,750 --> 01:39:23,833
that you were talking

1473
01:39:23,833 --> 01:39:25,083
about that was good.

1474
01:39:25,083 --> 01:39:26,791
So we just had some good things happen,

1475
01:39:26,791 --> 01:39:27,500
some doors open that

1476
01:39:27,500 --> 01:39:28,500
we've been waiting for,

1477
01:39:29,125 --> 01:39:30,375
working very hard on,

1478
01:39:30,375 --> 01:39:31,500
so that was very good.

1479
01:39:32,125 --> 01:39:33,000
And then, you know,

1480
01:39:33,000 --> 01:39:34,333
some new, like you said,

1481
01:39:34,333 --> 01:39:39,041
some new paths to walk and we'll walk it.

1482
01:39:39,333 --> 01:39:39,541
Yeah.

1483
01:39:40,208 --> 01:39:42,166
And we'll be stronger

1484
01:39:42,166 --> 01:39:43,541
because of it more than likely.

1485
01:39:44,333 --> 01:39:45,416
Isn't the home always, guys?

1486
01:39:47,833 --> 01:39:49,416
So you gotta take the good with the bad.

1487
01:39:50,583 --> 01:39:51,333
I don't like that saying.

1488
01:39:52,250 --> 01:39:53,375
I'd rather just take the good.

1489
01:39:54,000 --> 01:39:55,041
I think we all would.

1490
01:39:55,375 --> 01:39:57,583
Yeah, it's kinda like trail mix, right?

1491
01:39:58,333 --> 01:39:59,291
I'm not gonna eat the raisins.

1492
01:40:00,083 --> 01:40:00,875
After a while, those

1493
01:40:00,875 --> 01:40:02,625
nuts just aren't doing it.

1494
01:40:02,875 --> 01:40:04,000
Only eating the M&Ms.

1495
01:40:04,000 --> 01:40:05,083
Just eating the raisins.

1496
01:40:05,500 --> 01:40:06,541
Some people don't even want the raisins.

1497
01:40:06,583 --> 01:40:07,416
I don't want the raisins.

1498
01:40:07,416 --> 01:40:08,750
I'll take the nuts and the

1499
01:40:08,750 --> 01:40:11,333
M&Ms, like raisins and things.

1500
01:40:11,583 --> 01:40:13,625
Well, if it's like a box of, or...

1501
01:40:14,041 --> 01:40:14,500
Oh, man.

1502
01:40:15,583 --> 01:40:17,875
It's like a jar of trail mix.

1503
01:40:19,166 --> 01:40:20,625
So your horse come, doesn't know British.

1504
01:40:21,000 --> 01:40:21,500
It is, yeah.

1505
01:40:21,708 --> 01:40:22,583
I was trying to change it up.

1506
01:40:23,458 --> 01:40:25,208
Hey, you know what?

1507
01:40:25,208 --> 01:40:26,083
This is what I went away with.

1508
01:40:26,166 --> 01:40:26,500
Should be cool.

1509
01:40:26,500 --> 01:40:26,875
You know what?

1510
01:40:26,875 --> 01:40:28,041
For tips.

1511
01:40:28,375 --> 01:40:29,291
I'm gonna go with the gargoyle.

1512
01:40:29,583 --> 01:40:29,875
Hold on.

1513
01:40:30,625 --> 01:40:31,291
(laughing)

1514
01:40:31,541 --> 01:40:32,333
Hold on, let me get in character.

1515
01:40:32,541 --> 01:40:33,500
The gargoyle do it.

1516
01:40:34,291 --> 01:40:34,541
Hold on.

1517
01:40:35,000 --> 01:40:35,833
If we're gonna end this,

1518
01:40:35,833 --> 01:40:37,083
I'm gonna get in character.

1519
01:40:37,583 --> 01:40:38,000
Okay.

1520
01:40:38,208 --> 01:40:39,375
You know, we post that.

1521
01:40:42,375 --> 01:40:42,833
All right, honey.

1522
01:40:42,833 --> 01:40:44,333
All right.

1523
01:40:44,416 --> 01:40:45,166
Happy Halloween, everybody.

1524
01:40:45,500 --> 01:40:46,500
I hope you have a great weekend

1525
01:40:46,750 --> 01:40:48,000
and we'll see you next time.

1526
01:40:48,708 --> 01:40:49,000
Ciao ciao.

1527
01:40:49,458 --> 01:40:50,375
All right, we'll see ya.