Two Dads in Tech

Episode 46: Troy Munson – https://www.linkedin.com/in/troymunson and Daniel Berk – https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielberk open up about midlife shifts, burnout, and finding meaning beyond work. From Troy’s recent Dimmo pivot to raw conversations about mental health, selfishness vs. self-care, and why life behind a screen can feel empty, this episode hits deep. The dads get vulnerable about identity, parenting, and the quiet weight many people carry but never voice. What starts as a business update turns into an unfiltered look at purpose, loss, and what really matters when the noise stops.


Show Notes:
(0:00) Launch day: Troy breaks down Dimmo’s pivot and new focus
(0:45) The grind of startup life without big marketing budgets
(1:30) What’s actually working in outbound today
(3:30) Social algorithms, LinkedIn reach, and why virality can feel fake
(5:00) Beehive’s story and how email is being reinvented
(6:30) The power of organic impressions and building real audiences
(7:00) Do audiences matter outside of tech? (Reddit, Quora, X)
(8:00) The attention economy—are we leaving it or just renaming it?
(9:30) Why “eyeballs = revenue” still rules every platform
(11:00) Reddit as the last honest corner of the internet
(12:00) Coffee, burnout, and managing ADHD during the grind
(13:00) Troy’s routine change that killed his afternoon crash
(14:00) Running, training, and the mental game of staying disciplined
(16:00) Moab 240, ultras, and the insanity of endurance athletes
(19:00) Why some pain is chosen—and some isn’t worth it
(20:00) The case for being “selfishly healthy” as a parent and partner
(21:00) Putting mental health first so you can show up for others
(22:00) The fine line between balance and burnout
(24:00) Marriage, faith, and where selfishness crosses into neglect
(26:00) Early mornings, exhaustion, and the cost of self-discipline
(27:00) TikTok tears: the story that broke Troy
(28:00) Midlife reflections: am I living the right way?
(29:00) Escaping screens, chasing sunsets, and booking spontaneous trips
(31:00) Grief, loss, and remembering people are hurting silently
(33:00) Teaching empathy to your kids through small actions
(34:00) Why gratitude hits harder after you cry
(35:00) A new podcast idea: talking to random people about what they’re going through
(36:00) Suicide awareness and how often “the signs” don’t show
(38:00) Why men need more spaces to talk about what’s real
(39:00) Reconsidering what Two Dads in Tech could become
(40:00) Closing reflections: impact, purpose, and what comes next


 Links:
• Daniel Berk's LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielberk
• Troy Munson's LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/troymunson
• Two Dads in Tech Newsletter – https://twodadsintech.com
• Shop Two Dads in Tech – https://shop.twodadsintech.com
• Listen on Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/30GQP8FPJoKpLGpYBahlFP
• Listen on Apple – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-dads-in-tech/id1785662964
• Check out Dimmo – https://www.dimmo.ai

What is Two Dads in Tech?

Two dads, Troy Munson and Daniel Berk, dive into the world of software with the wit of seasoned tech veterans and the subtle chaos of raising kids. From the industry's hottest trends to the awkward questions no one asks at standups, they tackle it all with dry humor and a dash of relatability. If you’ve ever wondered what tech dads really think about software, this is the podcast you didn’t know you needed.