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ladies and gentlemen

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Guys and Dolls and everyone in between

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gather round

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something real nice to sip on and comfy

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to slip on

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cause it's time for smut Club

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here's your hosts Chelsea and Anna

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hey everyone welcome to Smart club I'm

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Hannah and I'm Chelsea and this is the

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show where we drink alcohol

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and review trashy not always trashy we

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review romance novels of varying degrees

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of trash

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varying degrees of trash indeed yes

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absolutely right the way to put it yes I

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am and today Hannah is gonna choose the

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book I don't I feel you've told me what

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book you're reviewing like five times

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yeah the only thing I know about it is

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that it's an audiobook

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it is audio only called pause okay by

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Kylie Scott

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it is technically the second in the

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Larson Brothers series but they're all

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independent like about different

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um couples so you don't have to read

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them in order or anything like I read a

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Kylie Scott book but I like the name

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sounds familiar yeah but I can't

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remember why okay start telling me about

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your book and then I'm going to

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interrupt you in a moment when I realize

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what book I read note it and I'm just

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proactively telling you you're going to

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be interrupted

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I appreciate you setting expectations

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early I

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I tried to cut you off dude perfect

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and I didn't have anything to say

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well damn that was not my best moment so

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Vance and I have been watching

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we've been watching

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the challenge

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when I was pregnant I watched a lot and

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now it's like a show that soothes my

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baby when he hears the sounds but I was

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cracking up because one of the girls I

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think she was from Sweden she had one of

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the most like defined laughs I've like

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not defined distinct laughs I've ever

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it was like like it's very

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and so all week we'll just be sitting on

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the couch in silence and I'll suddenly

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just go like

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like an old giant too

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and last night eventually to me he's

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so it seems like we're really committing

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to this and I was like he's a lucky man

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you know I'm like well we were

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committing to this bit okay no wait I

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read the first book in the Larson that's

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why it sounds familiar I read repeat

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only from audible it wasn't I didn't

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listen to it though I read it

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you had to have listened I don't think

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it it doesn't matter no there

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it was no I read it okay

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you're saying that in a very placating

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way but I'll know now I'm like am I an

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idiot well so when I just opened it the

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version that pulled up said only from

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Audio Only from audible but like you

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know on Goodreads where you can see all

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of the editions because I definitely

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that is why I feel very confident that I

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read it right

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um well now I'm like wait a minute

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maybe you just listen to the only I mean

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frankly from audible version I read the

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first book in the series it was like the

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memory one yeah right she lost all her

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memory in the first one yeah so the

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second one follows Ed from the first

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book his younger brother oh yeah I know

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that because I just finished it on my

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so I know it was dead

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um but um no I don't remember who Ed is

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that's what I mean it's like the tattoo

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artist okay Ed was the name of the guy

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character from the first one got it yes

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um so in this one it follows his younger

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brother Leif

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what names

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and life

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oh it was audible only you wouldn't know

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l-e-i-f-l-o yeah

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that's life

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according to Andy arnt who was the

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narrator for what I just listened to

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I oh why is this hitting me so weird

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like not like my whole life has been a

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lie but like when you've been reading

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like something for like

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I don't know you read about Vikings and

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right and that's their name right yeah

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and I was like leaf leaf Erickson that's

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life Erickson

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like have we all been mispronouncing did

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the world just tilt on its axis a little

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bit like it didn't like fall over yes

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but it just like I'm not going to be so

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dramatic as to say my whole world has

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changed but I am a little like whoa I

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didn't I didn't know I am just

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pronouncing it the way that the narrator

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did I also probably would have

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pronounced it leaf

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if I had read it

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poof that one really got me like I don't

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why is this impacting me so much I don't

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know but I feel like I need to give you

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a moment to collect yourself yeah I

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wasn't prepared I'm sorry well that was

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I looked at Vance a couple weeks ago he

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walked in the room he's like are you

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okay and I was like I've been mixing up

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the words levity and brevity

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for how long way too long like this is

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not a short-term situation here there

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was no levity to the situation or breath

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yeah and pants was like oh you have and

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I love that you're you just I said it

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with enough confidence for years that

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you didn't question this oh no yeah

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I apologize to our listeners because

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I've probably done it on the book

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when I like think back and I'm like damn

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none of this is relevant tell me about

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our boy

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life there it is not you nailed it it

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well so we start with our female main

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character her name is Anna

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okay and she is like coming back to

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she's really really confused and her

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parents are there like standing over her

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and she's clearly in a hospital her

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parents keep telling her she's a medical

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miracle she's like what are you talking

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about where's my husband like I don't

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this this isn't right

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um and her parents tell her she's been

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in a coma for seven months she was in a

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car accident and

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um they didn't think she was gonna live

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like um whole thing right

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so her parents she keeps asking for her

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husband Ryan she's like where's Ryan

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where is he what's going on nope and her

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parents won't answer her they they keep

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getting really cagey and so she's like

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there was nobody else in the car with me

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like I don't remember the accident but I

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remember he stayed at home we were

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getting ready for a party I went to run

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to the store he wasn't in the car with

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me so like he's not he's not dead right

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like he wasn't in the accident so what

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the hell happened

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um and the only thing they'll say is

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just he's on his way he's on his way so

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she's obviously freaking out

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so then that's the prologue then we got

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the prologue that's the prologue what is

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Juicy prologue I know we're coming in

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hot yeah so then it jumps to three

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months later in the first chapter so we

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get no answers about what the hell

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happened

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um and she is just showing up at some

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guy leif's house

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um what she's just showing up at his

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why is this book impacting me like is it

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every time I say life it's not it's not

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every time you say late it's not like

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that's where we started and then you're

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like yeah so we don't really know what

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happens anyway she's on her way to

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Life's house and I'm like no I I which I

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recognize where we'll get more details

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yeah but I'm

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my heart was just prepared for the

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answer to arrive more immediately no

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okay I'm gonna take you on the journey

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as I walked it and it's present day yes

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at this point yeah so she's just at his

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house standing there

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and she's like maybe this was a bad idea

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like oh my god

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um and her internal dialogue we find out

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that life was also a part of the

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accident he was riding his motorcycle

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saw the whole thing and wound up going

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off the road as well

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um and he would visit her in the

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hospital and read to her like every

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chance that he got

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as soon as he was well enough he would

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go read to her

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um but for some reason he stopped

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showing up and nobody seemed to know why

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um But like after a couple of months he

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stopped coming around so she's about to

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clarify in question sure he watched the

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accident happen and then got so

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distracted he had his own accident

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that's what happened it seems like and

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like slowly this detail is revealed but

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it doesn't really matter it's not like a

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big twist or anything but what it seems

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like from all the information from the

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story is that

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she was driving another car like drove

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like hit her she swerved Leif saw the

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whole thing and with all the breaks and

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everything it seemed like it was raining

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and he was on his motorcycle and he like

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skidded off the road it doesn't sound

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like he was hit or anything seemed like

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he was trying to avoid

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and got like caught up and everything

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um so uh he shows up on his motorcycle

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as she's like getting ready to leave

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because she's like this was a mistake

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this was a terrible idea what the hell

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am I doing here

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so he is shocked to see her he's like

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you know my God like you're awake

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my face it's just it's telling me

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stories

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so Anna doesn't know life no she just

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heard that there was a guy who was

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coming and reading to her and then

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stopped showing up and she's like imma

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show up at his house with no

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introduction or like correct like no

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relationship to introduce myself yeah

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yeah okay just making sure she's just

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going for it

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um and he like kind of gets

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flustered understandably because this

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woman that

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was in a coma that he saw in this

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terrible accident is like just standing

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on his front porch

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um and he like kind of gets his far off

284
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look and he says he still has nightmares

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about not being able to get her out of

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the car and like not being able to get

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to her

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um and she's like

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I'm so sorry I'm just gonna go I didn't

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mean to like bring anything up I just

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wanted to say thank you like that's it

292
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I'm so sorry

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um but he insists that she stay invites

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her in his condo is completely empty

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except for a king-sized mattress on the

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floor in the living room he has no

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furniture whatsoever please tell me he

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just moved

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um not recently enough it was like a few

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months from what he said

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do you remember old meme where it would

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be like you can tell it's like a single

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guy's house because he'll just take the

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one light bulb from room to room

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which I always felt like a joke but also

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is not a joke yeah at all no it wasn't

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for life

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um so

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um

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she notices that he is like super

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attractive and everything and then she's

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like come on in I get your [ __ ] together

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you're still technically a married woman

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and we don't know what that means but

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they order food they chat it's really

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sweet

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um she's like thanking him for reading

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to her and everything and

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um he says that you know he just wanted

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to make sure that she was okay and you

321
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know he didn't really have anything to

322
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do because he couldn't work because he's

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a tattoo artist and he had a lot of

324
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damage to his left arm and so he

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couldn't work anyway he was like what

326
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was that what else was I gonna do

327
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besides come read to a pretty girl it's

328
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no problem

329
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um so it's all very sweet but then

330
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there's knock at the door and they think

331
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it's the food they ordered but it's her

332
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husband what

333
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um demanding that she get in his car and

334
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leave with him

335
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and she is big mad she is big mad

336
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because apparently he tracked her phone

337
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but she's like well it used to be super

338
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convenient when we were married to know

339
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like yeah how far away are you like are

340
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you still at the store those kinds of

341
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their location right but she's like

342
00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:17,700
we're not together anymore so this is a

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massive invasion of privacy and she

344
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tells him off and she's like

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screaming at him in front of Leif and Ed

346
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leif's brother who lives next door comes

347
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out and is watching the whole thing and

348
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her Ryan is like get in the car like I

349
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told him to stay away from you blah blah

350
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blah blah blah and she's like you don't

351
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get to do this like you don't get to

352
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have an opinion about who I spend time

353
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with you literally cheated on me with my

354
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best friend while I was in a coma oh

355
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and everybody's like oh

356
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oh no

357
00:14:50,100 --> 00:14:56,579
yeah well that's not not good ideal it's

358
00:14:54,959 --> 00:14:58,079
not a good look for Ryan

359
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did I tell you

360
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I think I've I've told the story before

361
00:15:01,019 --> 00:15:04,620
about the time that Vance and I were on

362
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a cruise and they were doing like the

363
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late night like Newlywed Game

364
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and

365
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God

366
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um so

367
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they did like the couple who'd been

368
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married the longest

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the couple who'd been married most

370
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recently and then like the third spot

371
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you had to like earn your way into and

372
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it was a whole funny competition and

373
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whatever

374
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um but one of the questions was like

375
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like I forget exactly how it was worded

376
00:15:33,420 --> 00:15:40,079
but it was something to the effect of

377
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which one of your spouse's friends like

378
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something like that that's a terrible

379
00:15:42,779 --> 00:15:46,500
question right and can only lead to

380
00:15:44,699 --> 00:15:47,399
problems well and so like the couple had

381
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been married the longest they've been

382
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married for like

383
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45

384
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50 years right they were so sweet and

385
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his he's like it would be her friend

386
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Edith right I'm making up and in here

387
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Janice yes and he's like we've really

388
00:16:04,139 --> 00:16:08,639
talked about it like

389
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um they've been best friends forever she

390
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would want me to be happy and we've

391
00:16:10,620 --> 00:16:14,399
always like had this like it was just

392
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this very sweet like should something

393
00:16:14,399 --> 00:16:18,060
ever happen to my wife

394
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she knows her friend would take very

395
00:16:18,060 --> 00:16:22,800
good care of me and just this like one

396
00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:25,620
of those conversations that comes with

397
00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:27,120
age and maturity of marriage right the

398
00:16:25,620 --> 00:16:29,399
couple had been married the shortest

399
00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:31,139
amount of time had been married like 48

400
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hours because they got married and then

401
00:16:31,139 --> 00:16:37,860
the cruise was their honeymoon

402
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and whatever friend name she said

403
00:16:37,860 --> 00:16:41,759
or like she thought he was going to

404
00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:44,040
choose was not the name he chose where

405
00:16:41,759 --> 00:16:47,759
she was like oh yeah it'd be like Katie

406
00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:50,160
and his on his board he'd written like

407
00:16:47,759 --> 00:16:52,620
Susie or whatever and she just turns

408
00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:55,440
around it's like are you kidding me like

409
00:16:52,620 --> 00:16:59,699
on stage in front of like hundreds of

410
00:16:55,440 --> 00:17:02,699
people oh lips flicks or flips

411
00:16:59,699 --> 00:17:04,919
books with her middle finger oh flips

412
00:17:02,699 --> 00:17:06,720
flips I was like I think you can do I

413
00:17:04,919 --> 00:17:08,520
think that's Entertainment flick or flip

414
00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:10,199
yeah for a middle finger for people who

415
00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:13,459
are not watching and only listening that

416
00:17:10,199 --> 00:17:16,079
would be really confusing

417
00:17:13,459 --> 00:17:18,120
she did something with her middle finger

418
00:17:16,079 --> 00:17:20,040
noted

419
00:17:18,120 --> 00:17:22,439
um like on stage this single finger

420
00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:24,000
salute the single finger salute

421
00:17:22,439 --> 00:17:26,160
in front of hundreds of people she's

422
00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:27,360
like I can't believe you choose her and

423
00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:29,160
like Vance and I were sitting there and

424
00:17:27,360 --> 00:17:31,260
we were like ooh

425
00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:35,100
so this is not the first time this girl

426
00:17:31,260 --> 00:17:37,020
has been like yeah been brought up and

427
00:17:35,100 --> 00:17:39,240
caught some tension yep in their

428
00:17:37,020 --> 00:17:42,600
relationship and that is the sort of

429
00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:45,059
relationship that I'm imagining

430
00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:49,200
um she had with Ryan whatever her name

431
00:17:45,059 --> 00:17:51,179
is Emma Anna Anna well see but it it

432
00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:52,679
doesn't seem that way though because

433
00:17:51,179 --> 00:17:55,260
this

434
00:17:52,679 --> 00:17:58,080
best friend of hers was truly her best

435
00:17:55,260 --> 00:17:59,640
friend since College they had lived

436
00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:02,460
together they'd known each other for

437
00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:05,160
years she worked for her as an event

438
00:18:02,460 --> 00:18:08,100
planner at her business

439
00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:09,299
and Anna worked for her okay yeah and so

440
00:18:08,100 --> 00:18:13,620
like

441
00:18:09,299 --> 00:18:16,380
so is it giving more of

442
00:18:13,620 --> 00:18:18,240
Ryan and the bestie were like bonding in

443
00:18:16,380 --> 00:18:20,880
their grief and then it just kind of

444
00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:23,760
happened so that's his whole excuse

445
00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:26,340
right is like you have no idea how hard

446
00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:29,820
it was for me and she's like yeah

447
00:18:26,340 --> 00:18:33,000
I'm sure that me being in a coma and

448
00:18:29,820 --> 00:18:37,980
almost dying was a real challenge for

449
00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:40,260
you like he has no empathy or he's just

450
00:18:37,980 --> 00:18:41,940
all about like making excuses for

451
00:18:40,260 --> 00:18:44,580
himself he's

452
00:18:41,940 --> 00:18:48,360
he's very focused on his experience of

453
00:18:44,580 --> 00:18:51,360
it very much so so here's um seven

454
00:18:48,360 --> 00:18:54,720
months is not long enough no it's not

455
00:18:51,360 --> 00:18:57,780
like if if it's a Terry shivo situation

456
00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:59,340
that is a whole other conversation right

457
00:18:57,780 --> 00:19:02,400
but I'm like

458
00:18:59,340 --> 00:19:05,760
seven months but I also think too like

459
00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:07,679
for for me and this might be weird but

460
00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:10,140
for me if that something like that

461
00:19:07,679 --> 00:19:14,160
happened I'd be like that's like I get

462
00:19:10,140 --> 00:19:17,520
it like go to a sex worker or whatever

463
00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:19,799
get on Bumble and hook up yeah you're

464
00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:21,120
like my best friend yeah like do what

465
00:19:19,799 --> 00:19:25,200
you need to do to get your needs met

466
00:19:21,120 --> 00:19:28,020
right but like don't destroy my

467
00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:31,500
relationships

468
00:19:28,020 --> 00:19:34,140
because I might be coming back right

469
00:19:31,500 --> 00:19:36,240
wait to do the real connections and

470
00:19:34,140 --> 00:19:38,640
until I don't wake up for my coma right

471
00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:40,620
way to actually pull the plug yeah like

472
00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:42,419
if you just needed to get your dick wet

473
00:19:40,620 --> 00:19:44,340
right while I'm in a coma do what you

474
00:19:42,419 --> 00:19:45,890
need to do get that I'm not here no

475
00:19:44,340 --> 00:19:49,799
judgment All God's Children

476
00:19:45,890 --> 00:19:52,620
[Laughter]

477
00:19:49,799 --> 00:19:54,240
emotional connections right

478
00:19:52,620 --> 00:19:55,260
Vance and I've had so many conversations

479
00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:57,480
where he's like if something ever

480
00:19:55,260 --> 00:19:58,740
happened to you he's like Ford and I

481
00:19:57,480 --> 00:20:00,600
would go off the grid and no one would

482
00:19:58,740 --> 00:20:02,160
ever hear from us again

483
00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:04,500
oh

484
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:07,020
I don't like that oh no Vance would not

485
00:20:04,500 --> 00:20:09,480
do well if something ever happened to me

486
00:20:07,020 --> 00:20:12,860
well I also right real weird about

487
00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:16,440
conversations about death oh really

488
00:20:12,860 --> 00:20:18,480
bless him it's like a very endearing

489
00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:20,340
thing but I didn't know that he like

490
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:21,780
didn't do well with conversations about

491
00:20:20,340 --> 00:20:24,059
death and so it was like when we were

492
00:20:21,780 --> 00:20:27,000
dating we were driving from um like

493
00:20:24,059 --> 00:20:28,919
between Nashville and Atlanta

494
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:30,120
and I don't even know how the topic came

495
00:20:28,919 --> 00:20:31,520
up but I was like yeah I mean like I

496
00:20:30,120 --> 00:20:33,780
don't know I never really like

497
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:35,580
conceptualize myself making it past my

498
00:20:33,780 --> 00:20:37,080
40s I just kind of figured I'd go out on

499
00:20:35,580 --> 00:20:39,480
a free jellyfish accident or something

500
00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:40,919
right yeah I think that's normal though

501
00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:43,440
to like not be able to picture yourself

502
00:20:40,919 --> 00:20:46,520
older well but apparently then I fell

503
00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:46,520
asleep and

504
00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:52,200
him with that I did I was talking about

505
00:20:50,460 --> 00:20:54,480
a freak jellyfish accident we are not

506
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:57,780
talking about cold hard facts here right

507
00:20:54,480 --> 00:21:02,039
and like I wake up an hour later

508
00:20:57,780 --> 00:21:04,500
and he is in a [ __ ] mood and I'm like

509
00:21:02,039 --> 00:21:05,820
you okay over there and he's like you

510
00:21:04,500 --> 00:21:06,720
talked about dying and then just went to

511
00:21:05,820 --> 00:21:08,220
sleep

512
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,960
and he's like I've literally just been

513
00:21:08,220 --> 00:21:12,539
sitting here ruminating on you

514
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:14,460
I was like oh my God I was like I'm so

515
00:21:12,539 --> 00:21:17,280
sorry I did not know

516
00:21:14,460 --> 00:21:20,580
I can be so more mindful but like bless

517
00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:23,400
him he does not do well with

518
00:21:20,580 --> 00:21:24,780
conversations about death it's fair yes

519
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:28,980
yeah

520
00:21:24,780 --> 00:21:31,799
um no as horrible as it sounds I think I

521
00:21:28,980 --> 00:21:34,620
I would not be okay if I lost fans right

522
00:21:31,799 --> 00:21:37,500
I think ultimately I would fare better

523
00:21:34,620 --> 00:21:40,500
in the long run then that makes sense

524
00:21:37,500 --> 00:21:42,419
yeah than if something happened to me I

525
00:21:40,500 --> 00:21:43,740
don't know if you and Matt feel the same

526
00:21:42,419 --> 00:21:46,919
way

527
00:21:43,740 --> 00:21:48,600
I I thought about it and I feel like I

528
00:21:46,919 --> 00:21:51,080
would like

529
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:55,980
I would probably

530
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:58,799
be I would go gray Gardens like feral

531
00:21:55,980 --> 00:22:01,740
for maybe a year

532
00:21:58,799 --> 00:22:03,480
and then I would come back around but

533
00:22:01,740 --> 00:22:05,520
like I don't have a kid to take care of

534
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:07,799
so like I could go gray Gardens and it

535
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:09,840
would be fine but like I would probably

536
00:22:07,799 --> 00:22:11,940
go feral for like a year and then I

537
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:14,880
would be okay but I would like not be

538
00:22:11,940 --> 00:22:16,500
okay well I mean you know what I mean

539
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:18,480
you know I do know what you mean and

540
00:22:16,500 --> 00:22:21,120
like throwing a kid in the works

541
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:23,520
definitely like yeah changes that

542
00:22:21,120 --> 00:22:25,740
trajectory

543
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:28,080
um no when I was pregnant I had a

544
00:22:25,740 --> 00:22:30,480
horrible like I already like have

545
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:32,640
anxiety right and I wouldn't even like

546
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:34,320
postpartum anxiety it's just my normal

547
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:36,059
level of anxiety but like when I was

548
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:39,480
pregnant I was having like the most

549
00:22:36,059 --> 00:22:42,539
wildly like intrusive thought oh no oh I

550
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:44,400
think like we were driving back from a

551
00:22:42,539 --> 00:22:46,919
wedding and there was like a car next to

552
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:48,600
us that had like a little U-Haul trailer

553
00:22:46,919 --> 00:22:50,700
and like in my head when I was pregnant

554
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:53,220
everything was like

555
00:22:50,700 --> 00:22:55,080
Final Destination right where this is it

556
00:22:53,220 --> 00:22:57,419
yeah I was like okay I was like so

557
00:22:55,080 --> 00:23:00,360
what's gonna happen is that that trailer

558
00:22:57,419 --> 00:23:01,740
is gonna like become unattached from the

559
00:23:00,360 --> 00:23:03,120
card statue it's gonna swing over into

560
00:23:01,740 --> 00:23:04,200
our lane we're gonna end up in that

561
00:23:03,120 --> 00:23:05,580
ditch over there Vance isn't gonna

562
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,900
survive I have a baby what are we gonna

563
00:23:05,580 --> 00:23:08,580
do I don't want to pay our mortgage what

564
00:23:06,900 --> 00:23:10,020
if it's just us this house is way too

565
00:23:08,580 --> 00:23:11,220
big for just me and a baby I don't know

566
00:23:10,020 --> 00:23:13,260
we'll move back to Nashville but if we

567
00:23:11,220 --> 00:23:16,880
move back to Nashville how am I going to

568
00:23:13,260 --> 00:23:16,880
get weed I don't have a dealer

569
00:23:22,799 --> 00:23:28,340
would cope and like

570
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:30,780
like I was am I gonna see

571
00:23:28,340 --> 00:23:32,280
I can't sleep over at me he's like what

572
00:23:30,780 --> 00:23:35,100
you thinking about and I was like you

573
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:36,840
really want to know he's like yeah I I

574
00:23:35,100 --> 00:23:38,700
think I do hyper ventilating in the

575
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:40,140
passengers here and then I like told him

576
00:23:38,700 --> 00:23:41,760
I was like this is where my head's at

577
00:23:40,140 --> 00:23:45,059
and he's like

578
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:46,799
listens to my whole story

579
00:23:45,059 --> 00:23:49,140
best part to me and God I love my

580
00:23:46,799 --> 00:23:51,380
husband he's just like

581
00:23:49,140 --> 00:23:54,179
you would call this person

582
00:23:51,380 --> 00:23:57,480
they'd be able to get you weed and

583
00:23:54,179 --> 00:24:01,500
Nashville and I was like oh

584
00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:03,960
okay we're good thank you problem solved

585
00:24:01,500 --> 00:24:06,780
I like that he's like

586
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:09,360
didn't try to like

587
00:24:06,780 --> 00:24:12,320
there there was no like cognitive

588
00:24:09,360 --> 00:24:14,820
challenging there was no right let's

589
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:16,440
de-catastrophize this he's like let's

590
00:24:14,820 --> 00:24:18,840
just solve the problem you know people

591
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:20,940
with weed in Nashville let me remind you

592
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:22,380
of their names because in my head I was

593
00:24:20,940 --> 00:24:23,100
like that's the only way I'd be able to

594
00:24:22,380 --> 00:24:27,059
cope

595
00:24:23,100 --> 00:24:30,120
I'll never be okay again yeah yeah

596
00:24:27,059 --> 00:24:31,740
um pregnancy was weird man yeah

597
00:24:30,120 --> 00:24:33,480
Vance also looked at me on that trip and

598
00:24:31,740 --> 00:24:36,960
he's like

599
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:38,460
I really am sorry

600
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,900
that he's not he's like I'm not sorry

601
00:24:38,460 --> 00:24:42,780
you're pregnant he's like but you are

602
00:24:39,900 --> 00:24:44,700
just such an anxious person and he's and

603
00:24:42,780 --> 00:24:46,380
not that like substances are the ideal

604
00:24:44,700 --> 00:24:47,640
coping skill right right but there is

605
00:24:46,380 --> 00:24:49,020
something nice when you like had a long

606
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:51,179
day when you're feeling a little like

607
00:24:49,020 --> 00:24:52,500
edgy wound and edgy and you're like I

608
00:24:51,179 --> 00:24:54,120
just want to have like a glass of wine

609
00:24:52,500 --> 00:24:57,480
and relax and you're like I can't do

610
00:24:54,120 --> 00:24:58,799
that Advance is like I'm really sorry

611
00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:02,659
that

612
00:24:58,799 --> 00:25:05,400
you have lost coping skills in pregnancy

613
00:25:02,659 --> 00:25:06,960
are coping resources have changed and

614
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,640
adjusted yeah I'm like you know it's

615
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:12,120
probably a really good therapeutic

616
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:14,400
exercise to use coping skills hormones

617
00:25:12,120 --> 00:25:18,980
are raging that's the perfect time to do

618
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:22,620
it yeah well you know we can do some

619
00:25:18,980 --> 00:25:24,960
decatastrophizing versus drinking we can

620
00:25:22,620 --> 00:25:29,039
and that's probably a helpful skill to

621
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:30,539
practice growth okay so there Anna got

622
00:25:29,039 --> 00:25:32,460
an audience where she's telling Ryan

623
00:25:30,539 --> 00:25:35,640
he's not allowed to get pissed about

624
00:25:32,460 --> 00:25:37,260
life because

625
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:39,240
he [ __ ] her best friend well she was

626
00:25:37,260 --> 00:25:42,299
in a coma yeah well I mean she wasn't

627
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:43,919
even referring to really life at all she

628
00:25:42,299 --> 00:25:46,140
was just saying like you have no right

629
00:25:43,919 --> 00:25:47,700
to be here you have no right to be

630
00:25:46,140 --> 00:25:50,220
concerned about where I'm at or who I'm

631
00:25:47,700 --> 00:25:52,380
with you can [ __ ] off so they're

632
00:25:50,220 --> 00:25:55,440
separated at this point but neither has

633
00:25:52,380 --> 00:26:00,659
filed for divorce okay so she is super

634
00:25:55,440 --> 00:26:02,520
embarrassed and she leaves but not with

635
00:26:00,659 --> 00:26:05,580
her husband he gets in the car and

636
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:06,480
drives away and then she leaves

637
00:26:05,580 --> 00:26:09,779
um

638
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:12,480
so then a couple of weeks later

639
00:26:09,779 --> 00:26:14,700
so this is this book is over like a

640
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:16,860
pretty long period of time it's like a

641
00:26:14,700 --> 00:26:19,860
year and a half that it's going so it

642
00:26:16,860 --> 00:26:21,120
jumps time pretty regularly so a couple

643
00:26:19,860 --> 00:26:22,440
weeks later she's coming home from

644
00:26:21,120 --> 00:26:24,179
Physical Therapy which is really

645
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:26,159
basically like all she does she goes to

646
00:26:24,179 --> 00:26:28,980
physical therapy all the time because

647
00:26:26,159 --> 00:26:31,200
obviously she was really really injured

648
00:26:28,980 --> 00:26:33,360
um and there's a surprise party for her

649
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:36,419
birthday at her house and she is not

650
00:26:33,360 --> 00:26:39,240
pleased but her mom like that's the kind

651
00:26:36,419 --> 00:26:41,580
of person her mom is and very into

652
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:44,880
appearances and stuff like that yeah and

653
00:26:41,580 --> 00:26:47,159
so she was like mom's happy it's fine

654
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:49,919
that I show out for my first birthday

655
00:26:47,159 --> 00:26:52,380
post coma right okay it's fine that I

656
00:26:49,919 --> 00:26:54,480
look disgusting I don't give a [ __ ] it's

657
00:26:52,380 --> 00:26:57,240
fine so all like a bunch of old friends

658
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:59,279
are there that know about the whole

659
00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:02,100
thing with her and Ryan because they all

660
00:26:59,279 --> 00:27:04,860
work together and so she was like great

661
00:27:02,100 --> 00:27:06,779
I love this so much so she just like

662
00:27:04,860 --> 00:27:07,860
hides with her other best friend kind of

663
00:27:06,779 --> 00:27:11,159
in the corner

664
00:27:07,860 --> 00:27:13,679
but then her husband shows up uninvited

665
00:27:11,159 --> 00:27:16,919
with flowers Ryan just doesn't seem to

666
00:27:13,679 --> 00:27:19,080
be getting any sort of hint here that

667
00:27:16,919 --> 00:27:20,760
she's not into it so he brings her

668
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:25,080
flowers and he's like we really need to

669
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:28,400
talk and tells her that her best friend

670
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:31,440
that he slept with is pregnant

671
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:34,140
and she's like

672
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:37,080
we were supposed to try for a baby this

673
00:27:34,140 --> 00:27:39,720
year and he's like we still can the [ __ ]

674
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:43,620
right that's literally what I was like

675
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:45,600
what the [ __ ] like no Ryan no feel the

676
00:27:43,620 --> 00:27:48,240
room right

677
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:51,900
like not the vibe babe like we're not

678
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:55,380
there we're not even in that zip code so

679
00:27:51,900 --> 00:27:57,720
is he still with the best friend so

680
00:27:55,380 --> 00:28:01,100
that's her question right yeah Anna's

681
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:04,559
like so how far along is she

682
00:28:01,100 --> 00:28:06,840
and he's like what and she's like four

683
00:28:04,559 --> 00:28:09,480
months right because you said it was one

684
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:11,279
time in a moment of weakness right so

685
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,779
she would be four months along

686
00:28:11,279 --> 00:28:16,020
correct

687
00:28:12,779 --> 00:28:19,620
no incorrect they'd been sleeping

688
00:28:16,020 --> 00:28:21,059
together for quite some time and the

689
00:28:19,620 --> 00:28:23,039
check is only like eight weeks pregnant

690
00:28:21,059 --> 00:28:25,080
or something like that

691
00:28:23,039 --> 00:28:27,659
well but even though Anna's back from

692
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:29,880
the coma she's not sleeping with him and

693
00:28:27,659 --> 00:28:33,140
he needs to get his needs met obviously

694
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:36,299
Anna we we're being unrealistic

695
00:28:33,140 --> 00:28:40,440
obviously this is really

696
00:28:36,299 --> 00:28:44,419
a hero tale of Ryan right and everything

697
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:44,419
that he went through so much pain

698
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:51,179
so

699
00:28:46,740 --> 00:28:53,400
she is livid and just puts all the

700
00:28:51,179 --> 00:28:55,140
flowers down the garbage disposal in her

701
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:57,000
mother's kitchen one at a time in front

702
00:28:55,140 --> 00:28:58,440
of the whole party she's like I don't

703
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,539
even care anymore

704
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:03,059
[ __ ] everybody

705
00:29:00,539 --> 00:29:04,320
also

706
00:29:03,059 --> 00:29:06,059
obviously they need to have a

707
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,900
conversation about that right right but

708
00:29:06,059 --> 00:29:09,659
like

709
00:29:06,900 --> 00:29:13,380
at her birthday party her birthday party

710
00:29:09,659 --> 00:29:18,480
at her mother's house I got you the gift

711
00:29:13,380 --> 00:29:21,240
of not your child right like right so he

712
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:23,159
clearly again cannot read the room how

713
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:27,659
old are they by the way do we know she's

714
00:29:23,159 --> 00:29:28,620
26 and he's like 28 or 29 I think okay

715
00:29:27,659 --> 00:29:30,299
um

716
00:29:28,620 --> 00:29:35,100
so

717
00:29:30,299 --> 00:29:36,840
um she again just shows up at leif's

718
00:29:35,100 --> 00:29:38,760
tattoo shop

719
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:41,520
she just walks in

720
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:45,840
um and meets his brother

721
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:47,820
at more yep good good job thank you um

722
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:49,799
more officially yeah

723
00:29:47,820 --> 00:29:51,659
um and some other people she's super

724
00:29:49,799 --> 00:29:53,880
nervous

725
00:29:51,659 --> 00:29:55,799
um but she's like you know he said we

726
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:57,840
could be friends and I I think I could

727
00:29:55,799 --> 00:30:00,000
use a friend like you know everything is

728
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:02,039
a [ __ ] show right now

729
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,899
um and there's one really cute moment

730
00:30:02,039 --> 00:30:05,640
where life is clearly kind of like

731
00:30:03,899 --> 00:30:07,980
flirting with her to make her

732
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:09,539
uncomfortable and she's like blushing

733
00:30:07,980 --> 00:30:12,779
and

734
00:30:09,539 --> 00:30:15,419
um she's like so are you do you just

735
00:30:12,779 --> 00:30:16,740
enjoy embarrassing me on purpose and

736
00:30:15,419 --> 00:30:18,360
then he started blushing he's like

737
00:30:16,740 --> 00:30:21,179
that's not what I was doing and the guy

738
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:24,120
he was tattooing was like just apologize

739
00:30:21,179 --> 00:30:27,899
man back up bro like

740
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:30,059
he's like get it together man just say

741
00:30:27,899 --> 00:30:32,940
you're sorry

742
00:30:30,059 --> 00:30:35,220
so cute little cute little moments like

743
00:30:32,940 --> 00:30:37,200
that happen like throughout the book but

744
00:30:35,220 --> 00:30:39,240
so they go out to eat and then get day

745
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:41,399
Drunk Together

746
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:45,059
and then go you watch day drinking with

747
00:30:41,399 --> 00:30:47,460
Seth Meyers no it's a great series okay

748
00:30:45,059 --> 00:30:48,419
10 out of 10 would recommend what is it

749
00:30:47,460 --> 00:30:50,940
on

750
00:30:48,419 --> 00:30:52,980
probably YouTube is where I've just

751
00:30:50,940 --> 00:30:54,600
I don't know if it's part of his late

752
00:30:52,980 --> 00:30:56,700
night show or if it's just like a

753
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:58,140
separate segment I think it's normally

754
00:30:56,700 --> 00:31:00,659
part of his show but I've just watched

755
00:30:58,140 --> 00:31:02,880
them individually on YouTube

756
00:31:00,659 --> 00:31:04,799
um like he has one with lizzo he has one

757
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:07,080
with Rihanna oh I did see the one with

758
00:31:04,799 --> 00:31:08,940
lizzo

759
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:10,860
I don't know if I'm impressed or

760
00:31:08,940 --> 00:31:13,380
terrified by how much Seth Meyers can

761
00:31:10,860 --> 00:31:15,779
drink yeah I had that thought when he

762
00:31:13,380 --> 00:31:19,080
was drinking with lizzo yes and that's

763
00:31:15,779 --> 00:31:21,000
like all of them yeah oh I'm like holy

764
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:23,700
[ __ ] right how often are we doing

765
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:25,380
this buddy it's not good for you no I'm

766
00:31:23,700 --> 00:31:26,940
like

767
00:31:25,380 --> 00:31:28,620
I

768
00:31:26,940 --> 00:31:30,600
I don't drink nearly as much as I used

769
00:31:28,620 --> 00:31:33,059
to but in a like in a former season I

770
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:34,799
was like I have a pretty good tolerance

771
00:31:33,059 --> 00:31:37,799
right

772
00:31:34,799 --> 00:31:40,799
watching him I was like my tolerance was

773
00:31:37,799 --> 00:31:42,720
nothing it will always be nothing I was

774
00:31:40,799 --> 00:31:45,000
like I am both impressed and terrified

775
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:47,039
for this level of alcohol that you are

776
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:49,980
consuming

777
00:31:47,039 --> 00:31:53,100
yeah yeah yeah well that's this they

778
00:31:49,980 --> 00:31:55,620
drink like a a friggin

779
00:31:53,100 --> 00:31:59,220
half gallon of of

780
00:31:55,620 --> 00:32:02,039
Bloody Mary a piece and then just go bar

781
00:31:59,220 --> 00:32:04,500
hopping all day and she had brought a

782
00:32:02,039 --> 00:32:06,360
bottle of Scotch for him to the tattoo

783
00:32:04,500 --> 00:32:09,240
shop so then they're finishing off this

784
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:12,179
bottle of Scotch together so they are

785
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:14,760
three hammered yeah

786
00:32:12,179 --> 00:32:16,679
so they go back to his condo later and

787
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:18,539
he bought a couch

788
00:32:16,679 --> 00:32:20,880
um because when he she went there the

789
00:32:18,539 --> 00:32:22,799
first time she she's still recovering

790
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:25,320
and so she can't stand for long periods

791
00:32:22,799 --> 00:32:27,600
of time so he had to like set her up on

792
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:29,460
the on the counter oh on the counter

793
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:31,320
because she couldn't she can't really

794
00:32:29,460 --> 00:32:34,080
get down like that like here's the whole

795
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:35,880
thing so um he was like I bought a couch

796
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:39,240
for you kind of hoping that you'd come

797
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:40,919
back like you know it was very sweet and

798
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,539
also like bro

799
00:32:40,919 --> 00:32:45,659
maybe you should buy a couch for

800
00:32:42,539 --> 00:32:45,659
yourself yeah

801
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:51,480
um so

802
00:32:47,940 --> 00:32:54,179
they talk about like relationships and

803
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:56,220
what they miss about them and he reveals

804
00:32:54,179 --> 00:32:58,679
that he doesn't do relationships because

805
00:32:56,220 --> 00:33:01,080
his last girlfriend

806
00:32:58,679 --> 00:33:04,380
um serious girlfriend tried to kill his

807
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:07,500
sister-in-law twice and he that's from

808
00:33:04,380 --> 00:33:11,279
the first book it was from repeat

809
00:33:07,500 --> 00:33:13,140
um and so she he feels really guilty

810
00:33:11,279 --> 00:33:15,120
that he didn't like see it coming that

811
00:33:13,140 --> 00:33:17,419
he didn't know and so now he just

812
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:20,460
doesn't trust anybody ever I mean

813
00:33:17,419 --> 00:33:22,440
understandable if you found out the

814
00:33:20,460 --> 00:33:25,860
person you're dating

815
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:27,720
attempted murder multiple times on

816
00:33:25,860 --> 00:33:29,159
somebody that you care about like to try

817
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:31,620
to get to your brother because that was

818
00:33:29,159 --> 00:33:33,899
the whole thing yeah like

819
00:33:31,620 --> 00:33:37,440
I'd probably be a little

820
00:33:33,899 --> 00:33:39,960
cautious yes good word cautious yeah

821
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,700
apprehensive even

822
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:45,059
um so

823
00:33:41,700 --> 00:33:48,419
um they go back and forth about like I

824
00:33:45,059 --> 00:33:50,279
miss holding hands I miss

825
00:33:48,419 --> 00:33:52,620
um you know having someone to go over my

826
00:33:50,279 --> 00:33:55,260
day with like they go back and forth and

827
00:33:52,620 --> 00:33:57,419
then she's like in her drunk state of

828
00:33:55,260 --> 00:33:59,399
mind it's like

829
00:33:57,419 --> 00:34:01,740
um we can solve each other's problem

830
00:33:59,399 --> 00:34:04,019
this is brilliant this is the best idea

831
00:34:01,740 --> 00:34:06,120
I've ever had we could just be like sex

832
00:34:04,019 --> 00:34:08,820
friends this would be cool

833
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:11,220
so she moves in to kiss him

834
00:34:08,820 --> 00:34:13,859
and he does not reciprocate and she

835
00:34:11,220 --> 00:34:15,359
starts to cry and this is the only quote

836
00:34:13,859 --> 00:34:17,700
I have for the whole book because it was

837
00:34:15,359 --> 00:34:22,040
like my favorite she just is sobbing and

838
00:34:17,700 --> 00:34:22,040
goes my mouth made bad choices

839
00:34:24,119 --> 00:34:31,879
which is such a drunk girl thing to say

840
00:34:27,899 --> 00:34:31,879
my mouth made bad choices

841
00:34:34,580 --> 00:34:39,060
you're not wrong right that feels like

842
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:40,980
something that in the moment you're like

843
00:34:39,060 --> 00:34:45,119
this is the only way I can describe this

844
00:34:40,980 --> 00:34:46,619
situation exactly so no go ahead because

845
00:34:45,119 --> 00:34:48,240
in my head was like oh so this book is

846
00:34:46,619 --> 00:34:50,580
about to just turn into like a Friends

847
00:34:48,240 --> 00:34:54,000
with Benefits book that started with a

848
00:34:50,580 --> 00:34:56,879
girl in a coma but then he was like no

849
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:58,440
your mouth did make bad choices yeah

850
00:34:56,879 --> 00:35:00,599
awkward

851
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:02,520
but he Comforts her and he's very sweet

852
00:35:00,599 --> 00:35:05,099
and she's like this is the most

853
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:06,720
embarrassing thing ever and he's like no

854
00:35:05,099 --> 00:35:08,880
we're just getting all of our formative

855
00:35:06,720 --> 00:35:10,980
friend moments out of the play early we

856
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:12,599
went through the accident together I've

857
00:35:10,980 --> 00:35:15,300
already gotten in a fight with your ex

858
00:35:12,599 --> 00:35:17,280
and now this you've already come on to

859
00:35:15,300 --> 00:35:18,660
me we can just go ahead and move past it

860
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:20,040
and if you want to try it again in a

861
00:35:18,660 --> 00:35:22,560
couple months we'll see where we're at

862
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:23,940
and she's like he didn't mean that he's

863
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:27,240
really just trying to make me feel

864
00:35:23,940 --> 00:35:29,339
better this is terrible

865
00:35:27,240 --> 00:35:31,260
so

866
00:35:29,339 --> 00:35:33,839
I do agree with her sentiment there

867
00:35:31,260 --> 00:35:36,119
right because if like I move in to kiss

868
00:35:33,839 --> 00:35:37,440
a guy that I'm friends with

869
00:35:36,119 --> 00:35:38,640
there well one there'd be a lot of

870
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,140
problems because I've been married for a

871
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:42,780
long time but like in another season

872
00:35:40,140 --> 00:35:44,520
separate problem right but like if you

873
00:35:42,780 --> 00:35:46,260
make a move and you move in to kiss

874
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,640
someone and they thwart that kiss and

875
00:35:46,260 --> 00:35:50,579
like but you know like maybe try to get

876
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:55,440
in a few months you're like no I will

877
00:35:50,579 --> 00:35:58,740
not be trying again ever no ever ever

878
00:35:55,440 --> 00:36:00,359
so again a couple of weeks go by

879
00:35:58,740 --> 00:36:01,800
um Anna's decided to go apartment

880
00:36:00,359 --> 00:36:03,960
hunting she's been living with her

881
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:05,520
parents but she has now filed for

882
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:07,740
divorce after she found out about the

883
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:10,200
pregnancy so she's got some money coming

884
00:36:07,740 --> 00:36:13,859
in from that settlement so she knows she

885
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:16,380
can afford it so her mom it turns out is

886
00:36:13,859 --> 00:36:18,300
like besties with life ever since he's

887
00:36:16,380 --> 00:36:20,839
been coming to the hospital to read to

888
00:36:18,300 --> 00:36:24,480
her so they talk all the time apparently

889
00:36:20,839 --> 00:36:25,920
and so her mom called life to come over

890
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:29,040
and go apartment

891
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:31,560
hunting with her oh damn because she

892
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:33,359
knew that Anna wouldn't want her mom to

893
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:37,560
go with her so her mom was like somebody

894
00:36:33,359 --> 00:36:39,720
needs to go so life can go

895
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:42,119
um my mom really likes to overstep and

896
00:36:39,720 --> 00:36:44,940
in a big way yeah damn

897
00:36:42,119 --> 00:36:45,720
um Mom just gets in there so

898
00:36:44,940 --> 00:36:48,900
um

899
00:36:45,720 --> 00:36:51,300
he takes her they start driving around a

900
00:36:48,900 --> 00:36:53,220
little bit and then he's like you know

901
00:36:51,300 --> 00:36:56,880
what you should move in with me and

902
00:36:53,220 --> 00:37:00,540
she's like I'm sorry what what and he's

903
00:36:56,880 --> 00:37:03,240
like yeah you know that way like

904
00:37:00,540 --> 00:37:04,859
like you'll have somebody there if

905
00:37:03,240 --> 00:37:07,079
something happens because physically her

906
00:37:04,859 --> 00:37:08,280
Mobility still isn't great and she's got

907
00:37:07,079 --> 00:37:09,000
all these doctor's appointments and

908
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,500
stuff

909
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:13,020
and he's like if something happens

910
00:37:10,500 --> 00:37:16,320
somebody that you know will be there

911
00:37:13,020 --> 00:37:17,460
like I I can help you blah blah blah and

912
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:19,440
she's like I really don't want your

913
00:37:17,460 --> 00:37:21,960
charity and he's like listen it's not

914
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:23,280
actually charity I lost a lot of income

915
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,920
from the accident because I couldn't

916
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:27,540
work and you'd actually be helping me a

917
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:30,359
lot if you moved in and helped with the

918
00:37:27,540 --> 00:37:33,500
rent and she was like okay I guess and

919
00:37:30,359 --> 00:37:33,500
agrees to move in with him

920
00:37:33,540 --> 00:37:39,839
okay yep yeah we're just

921
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:42,240
suspending belief here it's fine right

922
00:37:39,839 --> 00:37:43,800
so it obviously you would do that you

923
00:37:42,240 --> 00:37:46,320
would move in with

924
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:49,380
a person that the last time you saw them

925
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:51,720
was like no thank you

926
00:37:49,380 --> 00:37:54,420
to your attempts to become sex friends

927
00:37:51,720 --> 00:37:57,119
and then what what are we expecting to

928
00:37:54,420 --> 00:37:59,339
happen from that really I went apartment

929
00:37:57,119 --> 00:38:02,040
hunting with

930
00:37:59,339 --> 00:38:04,680
two friends these like separate states

931
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:06,599
one was in Florida one was in Texas

932
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:08,400
um who were single dudes who like just

933
00:38:06,599 --> 00:38:11,040
like needed someone to go with them

934
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:13,500
there it gets weird going apartment

935
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:15,359
hunting with someone that like because

936
00:38:13,500 --> 00:38:18,480
like people assumed we were together

937
00:38:15,359 --> 00:38:20,220
people were assuming like one guy

938
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:22,140
um they're like oh so you're looking for

939
00:38:20,220 --> 00:38:24,240
the two of you and he's like no just for

940
00:38:22,140 --> 00:38:26,820
me but maybe if I'm lucky she'll I'm

941
00:38:24,240 --> 00:38:29,339
like oh no this is it

942
00:38:26,820 --> 00:38:32,040
that's not what I thought was happening

943
00:38:29,339 --> 00:38:35,160
here was he serious or just trying to

944
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:37,680
mess with the person or you

945
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:41,040
no I think he liked me

946
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:43,140
awkward no I knew he liked me and I was

947
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:44,940
not in in the emotional place for that

948
00:38:43,140 --> 00:38:45,720
which I kept telling him but then kept

949
00:38:44,940 --> 00:38:48,420
hanging out with him because

950
00:38:45,720 --> 00:38:51,660
companionship feels nice you know yeah

951
00:38:48,420 --> 00:38:54,000
and then he kept being like so

952
00:38:51,660 --> 00:38:58,380
is this moving that way and I was like

953
00:38:54,000 --> 00:39:00,300
uh I thought I was clear no that's not

954
00:38:58,380 --> 00:39:02,339
I'm what I'm looking for still hasn't

955
00:39:00,300 --> 00:39:05,220
changed right well I get drunk and make

956
00:39:02,339 --> 00:39:09,839
out with you sure obviously

957
00:39:05,220 --> 00:39:11,700
but past that no no we're we're good

958
00:39:09,839 --> 00:39:14,460
also we're noting that specific instance

959
00:39:11,700 --> 00:39:18,900
when we met I

960
00:39:14,460 --> 00:39:24,000
had just turned 20.

961
00:39:18,900 --> 00:39:28,380
he thought I was 25 I thought he was 25

962
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:31,320
but I was 20 and he was like 30. and I

963
00:39:28,380 --> 00:39:33,480
was in grad school yeah it was just a

964
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:35,579
clumsy season of life you know yeah I do

965
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:37,380
yeah

966
00:39:35,579 --> 00:39:39,119
I do

967
00:39:37,380 --> 00:39:43,320
you're like I'm not gonna air those

968
00:39:39,119 --> 00:39:45,180
details but I do I mean who hasn't had

969
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:47,339
one of those clumsy seasons of life

970
00:39:45,180 --> 00:39:50,220
right you know it's like a rite of

971
00:39:47,339 --> 00:39:52,400
passage it really is

972
00:39:50,220 --> 00:39:54,660
and Anna's definitely in hers right now

973
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:56,220
which like God bless her because like

974
00:39:54,660 --> 00:39:58,140
she was not expecting to be in that

975
00:39:56,220 --> 00:39:59,940
season of life no and that's kind of

976
00:39:58,140 --> 00:40:02,099
like her whole thing is she's having to

977
00:39:59,940 --> 00:40:04,740
rewrite her whole identity because she's

978
00:40:02,099 --> 00:40:07,200
realizing she got with Ryan when she was

979
00:40:04,740 --> 00:40:09,540
a freshman in college and is the only

980
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:12,420
guy she'd ever slept with like this was

981
00:40:09,540 --> 00:40:15,240
her person and her whole life was built

982
00:40:12,420 --> 00:40:17,520
around him and the best friend that she

983
00:40:15,240 --> 00:40:19,380
worked for she lost everything and so

984
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:20,820
she's like well [ __ ]

985
00:40:19,380 --> 00:40:23,339
so

986
00:40:20,820 --> 00:40:26,040
um she moves in a couple weeks later

987
00:40:23,339 --> 00:40:28,740
and then that night

988
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:32,520
she hears him he has a nightmare about

989
00:40:28,740 --> 00:40:34,440
the accident and so she goes out to see

990
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:36,300
what's going on like why is he awake

991
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,560
because he's like doing push-ups in the

992
00:40:36,300 --> 00:40:39,839
living room she's like what the hell are

993
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:41,280
you doing and he's like well I had a I

994
00:40:39,839 --> 00:40:43,740
had a nightmare about the accident like

995
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,460
it's just a one bedroom no it's two

996
00:40:43,740 --> 00:40:46,859
bedroom

997
00:40:44,460 --> 00:40:49,500
okay yeah it's two bedrooms this is

998
00:40:46,859 --> 00:40:50,760
mattress in the living room I was like

999
00:40:49,500 --> 00:40:52,079
is she sleeping in the bedroom and he's

1000
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,839
sleeping on his king size mattress in

1001
00:40:52,079 --> 00:40:57,060
the living room no no okay yeah that's

1002
00:40:54,839 --> 00:40:59,700
an important distinction

1003
00:40:57,060 --> 00:41:01,380
um so then she's like you know what we

1004
00:40:59,700 --> 00:41:03,900
should do we should make brownies so

1005
00:41:01,380 --> 00:41:06,180
they cook together it's very cute

1006
00:41:03,900 --> 00:41:08,400
um and then the next day

1007
00:41:06,180 --> 00:41:13,020
um she goes to take the brownies to the

1008
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:14,760
tattoo shop and the the person that Leif

1009
00:41:13,020 --> 00:41:18,480
was dating before was the receptionist

1010
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:21,300
at the tattoo shop and they have yet to

1011
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:22,740
find one that's gonna work out like they

1012
00:41:21,300 --> 00:41:24,180
keep going through people and they're

1013
00:41:22,740 --> 00:41:27,300
terrible I guess

1014
00:41:24,180 --> 00:41:28,560
she agrees to work there got it a few

1015
00:41:27,300 --> 00:41:30,960
hours a week

1016
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:33,839
so now she's the receptionist

1017
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:35,460
um and then now they are doing this

1018
00:41:33,839 --> 00:41:37,980
thing because neither of them sleep well

1019
00:41:35,460 --> 00:41:39,780
where they watch Twilight in the middle

1020
00:41:37,980 --> 00:41:43,560
of the night because those are the books

1021
00:41:39,780 --> 00:41:45,839
he read to her when she was in a coma

1022
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:48,839
he's like I didn't pick them on purpose

1023
00:41:45,839 --> 00:41:50,820
like my sister-in-law told me you might

1024
00:41:48,839 --> 00:41:52,200
like them and so that's what I did and

1025
00:41:50,820 --> 00:41:53,520
he's like all embarrassed about it it's

1026
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:56,280
very cute

1027
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:58,320
um this sounds very endearing it's very

1028
00:41:56,280 --> 00:42:00,480
sweet so they bake together and then

1029
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:03,359
they watch Twilight together in the

1030
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:06,240
middle of the night when he can't sleep

1031
00:42:03,359 --> 00:42:07,980
um so she continues to objectify him and

1032
00:42:06,240 --> 00:42:10,800
have lots of thoughts about how hot he

1033
00:42:07,980 --> 00:42:14,339
is and she's like stop it he is your

1034
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:16,140
friend he doesn't want more than that he

1035
00:42:14,339 --> 00:42:18,359
is your friend this entire book from her

1036
00:42:16,140 --> 00:42:20,040
perspective yes okay

1037
00:42:18,359 --> 00:42:23,040
so then

1038
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:25,859
um her divorce gets finalized a while

1039
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:28,140
later and she decides to get dressed up

1040
00:42:25,859 --> 00:42:30,660
and do her makeup and get drunk and

1041
00:42:28,140 --> 00:42:33,720
celebrate at home because why not so she

1042
00:42:30,660 --> 00:42:35,820
does her makeup does her makeup she does

1043
00:42:33,720 --> 00:42:38,040
her hair she's looking hot she's in this

1044
00:42:35,820 --> 00:42:40,380
gorgeous dress just drinking champagne

1045
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:42,839
in the living room I respect it

1046
00:42:40,380 --> 00:42:45,240
um so Leif gets home they drink together

1047
00:42:42,839 --> 00:42:47,820
there's some cute moments of bonding

1048
00:42:45,240 --> 00:42:50,160
together again getting drunk and silly

1049
00:42:47,820 --> 00:42:51,839
together and then they pass out together

1050
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:54,599
in her bed

1051
00:42:51,839 --> 00:42:56,040
um fully clothed both of them and um he

1052
00:42:54,599 --> 00:42:58,020
sleeps through the night which is a big

1053
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:59,339
deal because he has been unable to sleep

1054
00:42:58,020 --> 00:43:01,800
through the night

1055
00:42:59,339 --> 00:43:03,839
at all since the accident but definitely

1056
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:07,200
not with anybody else in the bed since

1057
00:43:03,839 --> 00:43:10,980
the whole thing with his ex okay so it's

1058
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:14,280
a big deal and then she comes out of the

1059
00:43:10,980 --> 00:43:16,800
bedroom later to see him holding a woman

1060
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:19,800
in the living room like giving a woman a

1061
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:22,140
hug and she's like um

1062
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:24,599
man because she was like kind of like

1063
00:43:22,140 --> 00:43:25,920
wow like he really is a great friend and

1064
00:43:24,599 --> 00:43:27,960
even though he doesn't feel that way

1065
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:30,060
about me like this is still really

1066
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:31,680
awesome I really care about him and then

1067
00:43:30,060 --> 00:43:33,300
she comes out to see that and is kind of

1068
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:36,680
like oh yikes

1069
00:43:33,300 --> 00:43:39,720
so the chick is really beautiful and

1070
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:42,000
Leif introduces her as an old friend and

1071
00:43:39,720 --> 00:43:45,180
then introduces Anna as his roommate and

1072
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:48,000
she's like right lest we forget I am his

1073
00:43:45,180 --> 00:43:50,040
roommate I'm gonna go she's like I'm

1074
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:52,980
just gonna let you guys you know catch

1075
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,940
up or whatever bye so she spends the

1076
00:43:52,980 --> 00:43:55,500
whole day

1077
00:43:53,940 --> 00:43:56,760
out

1078
00:43:55,500 --> 00:43:58,980
um and some other stuff happens while

1079
00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:03,839
she's out that doesn't really matter

1080
00:43:58,980 --> 00:44:06,900
um but uh she is nervous that Leif has

1081
00:44:03,839 --> 00:44:08,520
this girl in the apartment and so she

1082
00:44:06,900 --> 00:44:12,000
doesn't really want to go back so she

1083
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:14,700
waits until like midnight and goes back

1084
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:16,140
um and he's waiting up for her he's like

1085
00:44:14,700 --> 00:44:17,640
I couldn't sleep because I didn't know

1086
00:44:16,140 --> 00:44:18,960
where you were and I didn't know what

1087
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:22,500
you were doing

1088
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:24,660
um did he text her apparently not her

1089
00:44:22,500 --> 00:44:28,260
apparently not sure

1090
00:44:24,660 --> 00:44:29,520
um or it's not mentioned maybe he did

1091
00:44:28,260 --> 00:44:31,140
so

1092
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,760
um he's like I thought we were past this

1093
00:44:31,140 --> 00:44:34,859
like I thought we were past you running

1094
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:36,359
away when something got uncomfortable

1095
00:44:34,859 --> 00:44:37,500
because that's what she was doing right

1096
00:44:36,359 --> 00:44:40,560
so like

1097
00:44:37,500 --> 00:44:42,960
Ryan showed up at his apartment she

1098
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:46,740
didn't text him or respond to him for

1099
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:49,319
two weeks and like things like that and

1100
00:44:46,740 --> 00:44:51,180
so he explains that he told his friend

1101
00:44:49,319 --> 00:44:52,680
that they couldn't start anything up

1102
00:44:51,180 --> 00:44:55,260
again because they did used to hook up

1103
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:56,819
she's moving back to town but he said I

1104
00:44:55,260 --> 00:44:59,640
told her nothing can happen because

1105
00:44:56,819 --> 00:45:01,319
something's happening between you and me

1106
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:02,640
um and so this is like him like really

1107
00:45:01,319 --> 00:45:04,260
like acknowledging that there is

1108
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:09,660
something happening there yeah and she's

1109
00:45:04,260 --> 00:45:12,420
like what she's like wait a minute but

1110
00:45:09,660 --> 00:45:14,099
are you sure

1111
00:45:12,420 --> 00:45:16,500
um and he's like it's time for you to

1112
00:45:14,099 --> 00:45:18,000
make that move again right like it's

1113
00:45:16,500 --> 00:45:20,280
been a few months like it's time for you

1114
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:22,380
to make that move again and so then they

1115
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:24,420
bang and it's amazing

1116
00:45:22,380 --> 00:45:26,220
um they had their solidifying [ __ ] they

1117
00:45:24,420 --> 00:45:27,660
well yeah I guess you could say they did

1118
00:45:26,220 --> 00:45:29,520
have a solidifying [ __ ] because she's

1119
00:45:27,660 --> 00:45:33,780
like oh my God is this what sex is

1120
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:36,540
supposed to be like oh baby girl yeah

1121
00:45:33,780 --> 00:45:38,480
um and he is obviously very sweet and

1122
00:45:36,540 --> 00:45:42,300
very attentive with her

1123
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:44,579
and they bang through the whole night

1124
00:45:42,300 --> 00:45:47,700
um and then the next day she's like so

1125
00:45:44,579 --> 00:45:49,740
what is happening right now and he's

1126
00:45:47,700 --> 00:45:51,599
like why are we trying to put a label on

1127
00:45:49,740 --> 00:45:55,020
it like why can't we just be having fun

1128
00:45:51,599 --> 00:45:57,660
and she's like no no I need a label like

1129
00:45:55,020 --> 00:46:00,960
what's happening right now

1130
00:45:57,660 --> 00:46:04,440
and he's like I guess we're roommates

1131
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:06,180
with benefits like you know like we're

1132
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:08,880
friends

1133
00:46:06,180 --> 00:46:10,980
um and she's like that's cool she just

1134
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:13,079
she literally just wanted to answer like

1135
00:46:10,980 --> 00:46:14,640
she wasn't fishing for like let's be

1136
00:46:13,079 --> 00:46:17,880
together because she's not there either

1137
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:20,700
like she doesn't want that yet so she's

1138
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:22,800
like okay so I don't know I can set my

1139
00:46:20,700 --> 00:46:25,680
expectations accordingly yeah I know the

1140
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:28,859
labels were cool so then at work he's

1141
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:30,660
doing a sternum tattoo on a woman and

1142
00:46:28,859 --> 00:46:33,240
Anna gets kind of freaked out that he's

1143
00:46:30,660 --> 00:46:35,640
like touching another woman's boobs

1144
00:46:33,240 --> 00:46:38,040
um even though I have a sternum tattoo

1145
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:40,940
and I'm here to tell you that's like the

1146
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:44,780
least sexy experience one can have

1147
00:46:40,940 --> 00:46:50,040
genuinely I don't have my sternum I have

1148
00:46:44,780 --> 00:46:51,720
my ribs and I I mean obviously not

1149
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:54,720
identical spots but same kind of you're

1150
00:46:51,720 --> 00:46:57,359
like you know like yeah yeah it's around

1151
00:46:54,720 --> 00:46:58,140
your chest and like nothing sexy about

1152
00:46:57,359 --> 00:47:03,960
it

1153
00:46:58,140 --> 00:47:06,359
although I will say so my tattoo shop

1154
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:10,319
that I always go to

1155
00:47:06,359 --> 00:47:12,480
um is owned by a close friend and he's

1156
00:47:10,319 --> 00:47:14,520
my best friend's brother-in-law so like

1157
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:17,339
family events and stuff we've known each

1158
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:19,560
other for years and years and years and

1159
00:47:17,339 --> 00:47:22,980
um one of his apprentices did my sternum

1160
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:24,599
tattoo and she was showing it to him and

1161
00:47:22,980 --> 00:47:26,280
for some reason they decided to share

1162
00:47:24,599 --> 00:47:28,500
this story with me and I've never been

1163
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:31,560
able to forget it she was showing him

1164
00:47:28,500 --> 00:47:34,380
the work right and my nipples were taped

1165
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:36,540
because that's what you do yeah um but I

1166
00:47:34,380 --> 00:47:38,220
I mean I was tits out you know that's

1167
00:47:36,540 --> 00:47:40,980
how you have to be

1168
00:47:38,220 --> 00:47:44,880
and so it was just a picture of my chest

1169
00:47:40,980 --> 00:47:47,640
right showing the the tattoo and he was

1170
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:50,099
like he was telling me I had a bonfire

1171
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:52,619
like two weeks later like we're all

1172
00:47:50,099 --> 00:47:54,359
standing around and he's like yeah so

1173
00:47:52,619 --> 00:47:55,859
Anna was showing me like all the work

1174
00:47:54,359 --> 00:47:57,240
and everything and I was like damn those

1175
00:47:55,859 --> 00:48:00,420
lines are really clean like that's

1176
00:47:57,240 --> 00:48:01,400
looking really good and damn whose tits

1177
00:48:00,420 --> 00:48:04,740
are those

1178
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:07,880
and she he goes and then Anna told me it

1179
00:48:04,740 --> 00:48:10,560
was you and I was like no oh God no

1180
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:11,579
that's like my little sister what have I

1181
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:14,060
done

1182
00:48:11,579 --> 00:48:17,460
hahaha

1183
00:48:14,060 --> 00:48:20,099
I was like why would you tell me that

1184
00:48:17,460 --> 00:48:22,380
why would you tell me that come on Ed

1185
00:48:20,099 --> 00:48:24,900
[ __ ] listen

1186
00:48:22,380 --> 00:48:27,480
it's always nice to be told you have

1187
00:48:24,900 --> 00:48:28,560
nice tits I guess well not always nice

1188
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:30,480
actually

1189
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:32,819
but like yeah there is a context in

1190
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:35,400
which it's not cool so I had a co-worker

1191
00:48:32,819 --> 00:48:39,619
that she had this pair of jeans

1192
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:43,680
they were like a gray wash Jean

1193
00:48:39,619 --> 00:48:44,880
they hugged her ass so beautifully and

1194
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:47,280
every single time she wore them I was

1195
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:51,060
like I just need you to know your ass

1196
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:53,460
looks incredible In Those Jeans and

1197
00:48:51,060 --> 00:48:55,020
she's like thank you so much and then we

1198
00:48:53,460 --> 00:48:57,599
but we we had a really big conversation

1199
00:48:55,020 --> 00:48:59,160
about the fact that like there are some

1200
00:48:57,599 --> 00:49:02,099
people that when they compliment like

1201
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:04,020
when a woman tells you that like your

1202
00:49:02,099 --> 00:49:06,060
butt looks nice in jeans we love that

1203
00:49:04,020 --> 00:49:07,980
yeah it like feels you're like oh this

1204
00:49:06,060 --> 00:49:11,460
is a real compliment this isn't like a

1205
00:49:07,980 --> 00:49:13,380
sleazy compliment right and so well

1206
00:49:11,460 --> 00:49:15,720
obviously not not quite the same

1207
00:49:13,380 --> 00:49:17,400
situation without it but I do feel like

1208
00:49:15,720 --> 00:49:18,660
there's a difference between him being

1209
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:22,200
like

1210
00:49:18,660 --> 00:49:24,240
hey Hannah you got nice tits versus like

1211
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:26,220
yeah I saw this tattoo and I was like

1212
00:49:24,240 --> 00:49:27,780
great boobs and then I found out who

1213
00:49:26,220 --> 00:49:29,819
they were and I was like oh God no like

1214
00:49:27,780 --> 00:49:31,920
you're like right right the compliment

1215
00:49:29,819 --> 00:49:34,319
feels more genuine

1216
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:35,780
that's such a good point I didn't think

1217
00:49:34,319 --> 00:49:40,079
of it that way

1218
00:49:35,780 --> 00:49:42,359
you're like oh he had no context to like

1219
00:49:40,079 --> 00:49:44,280
know there was no like he was hitting

1220
00:49:42,359 --> 00:49:47,520
there was nothing he just like

1221
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:49,860
objectively he's like great boobs and

1222
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:52,560
then he like gave Matt a handshake

1223
00:49:49,860 --> 00:49:54,660
[Laughter]

1224
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:56,640
and all of this obviously it happened in

1225
00:49:54,660 --> 00:49:58,920
front of my husband and his new

1226
00:49:56,640 --> 00:50:01,040
girlfriend all at the same time I was

1227
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,040
like

1228
00:50:01,079 --> 00:50:06,480
okay just to be clear the tattoo artist

1229
00:50:03,839 --> 00:50:08,460
new girlfriend yeah cause he's not my

1230
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:11,280
husband about my husband and his new

1231
00:50:08,460 --> 00:50:14,040
girlfriend and I was like oh we're just

1232
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:15,359
being really I didn't I didn't know if

1233
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:17,839
you guys were ethically non-monogamous

1234
00:50:15,359 --> 00:50:20,099
which is totally fine but in my head

1235
00:50:17,839 --> 00:50:22,500
before I build out this whole narrative

1236
00:50:20,099 --> 00:50:24,599
about Anna being in an ethically

1237
00:50:22,500 --> 00:50:30,680
non-monogamous marriage not monogamous

1238
00:50:24,599 --> 00:50:34,020
no we are ethically monogamous for sure

1239
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:35,520
you're like yeah and just in front of my

1240
00:50:34,020 --> 00:50:36,780
husband and his new girlfriend and I was

1241
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:41,599
like I'm pretty sure she means the

1242
00:50:36,780 --> 00:50:41,599
tattoo artist girlfriend yeah yeah no no

1243
00:50:43,140 --> 00:50:47,940
we're in clay important distinction yes

1244
00:50:46,140 --> 00:50:50,480
thank you for clarifying for our

1245
00:50:47,940 --> 00:50:50,480
listeners

1246
00:50:50,599 --> 00:50:57,599
yeah yeah that is um

1247
00:50:54,900 --> 00:51:00,359
shook his hand he did

1248
00:50:57,599 --> 00:51:02,760
not quite the same but and I think I've

1249
00:51:00,359 --> 00:51:04,380
told you the story before we were at um

1250
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:07,160
a pool party last summer when I was like

1251
00:51:04,380 --> 00:51:10,800
five months pregnant like I wasn't like

1252
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:13,980
huge but I definitely looked pregnant

1253
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:16,200
yeah and especially I'm like I'm wearing

1254
00:51:13,980 --> 00:51:18,000
a swimsuit like it there's nothing I'm

1255
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:20,700
like rubbing my stomach drinking my

1256
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:23,099
non-alcoholic beer you know what I mean

1257
00:51:20,700 --> 00:51:26,640
and this guy was hitting on me

1258
00:51:23,099 --> 00:51:28,200
and like Vance was also at this party

1259
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,760
and it was a dude who just kind of

1260
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,960
seemed like he's like oh here's a new

1261
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:32,760
girl that I haven't met in this group

1262
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:35,640
before I'ma shoot my shot and I'm like

1263
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:37,200
you don't know me I don't know you but I

1264
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:39,240
I keep talking about the fact that I'm

1265
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:42,240
pregnant

1266
00:51:39,240 --> 00:51:44,220
you just seem lonely at this point right

1267
00:51:42,240 --> 00:51:46,440
when we got in the car to leave I looked

1268
00:51:44,220 --> 00:51:48,780
at pants and I was like I got hit on and

1269
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:51,119
he's like hell yeah you did you gave me

1270
00:51:48,780 --> 00:51:54,119
a high five

1271
00:51:51,119 --> 00:51:55,140
that's the energy I love that yes so we

1272
00:51:54,119 --> 00:51:57,059
were having a big conversation about

1273
00:51:55,140 --> 00:52:01,380
this recently

1274
00:51:57,059 --> 00:52:05,760
um with Vance's best friend and his wife

1275
00:52:01,380 --> 00:52:07,380
and man Kiana is the girl you want in

1276
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:11,160
your corner she will cut a [ __ ] for you

1277
00:52:07,380 --> 00:52:13,380
it is like the absolute best right

1278
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:15,960
um but we were cracking up because

1279
00:52:13,380 --> 00:52:17,819
her both Kiana and Jordan very

1280
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:20,460
attractive people they go to the gym

1281
00:52:17,819 --> 00:52:23,640
they both get hit on like but they're

1282
00:52:20,460 --> 00:52:26,640
always at the gym together right and so

1283
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:28,500
yeah Kiana's like yeah I saw that girl I

1284
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:30,300
I will [ __ ] her up if she talks to my

1285
00:52:28,500 --> 00:52:32,160
husband again and Vance and I are just

1286
00:52:30,300 --> 00:52:34,140
out here like I got hit on and we're

1287
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:36,839
like hell yeah I'm like high-fiving each

1288
00:52:34,140 --> 00:52:38,819
other I'm so proud of you oh and Kiana's

1289
00:52:36,839 --> 00:52:41,819
like I will cut another hoe If she talks

1290
00:52:38,819 --> 00:52:43,740
to my husband and I'm like

1291
00:52:41,819 --> 00:52:46,140
yeah I was like you should want to talk

1292
00:52:43,740 --> 00:52:48,480
to my husband my husband's great I'm

1293
00:52:46,140 --> 00:52:50,660
right I'm like you can't have him but

1294
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:53,819
it's always

1295
00:52:50,660 --> 00:52:57,240
you know that you're wanted

1296
00:52:53,819 --> 00:53:00,180
yes yeah but Vance also never realized

1297
00:52:57,240 --> 00:53:02,160
realizes that women are hitting on him I

1298
00:53:00,180 --> 00:53:05,819
never realize when men are hitting on me

1299
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:08,339
really never yeah you know

1300
00:53:05,819 --> 00:53:11,220
that's fair like I can't remember if I

1301
00:53:08,339 --> 00:53:14,220
have shared this before but like I

1302
00:53:11,220 --> 00:53:16,500
distinctly remember we were at work and

1303
00:53:14,220 --> 00:53:18,780
this was before Matt and I had started

1304
00:53:16,500 --> 00:53:20,640
dating or really even talking yet

1305
00:53:18,780 --> 00:53:23,220
and for people who are newer to the

1306
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:26,339
podcast Hannah and her husband Matt do

1307
00:53:23,220 --> 00:53:28,680
work together we met at work so that is

1308
00:53:26,339 --> 00:53:30,900
important when it comes to if they were

1309
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:33,300
together or not at work yes for the

1310
00:53:30,900 --> 00:53:35,220
context and so

1311
00:53:33,300 --> 00:53:39,059
um I was sitting there where a bunch of

1312
00:53:35,220 --> 00:53:41,099
us together and he touched my back and I

1313
00:53:39,059 --> 00:53:44,700
distinctly remember getting into the car

1314
00:53:41,099 --> 00:53:46,980
with one of my other co-workers and I

1315
00:53:44,700 --> 00:53:50,160
was like that Mac guy just touched my

1316
00:53:46,980 --> 00:53:54,420
back that was weird right and she's like

1317
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:57,119
Hannah he's into you and I was like what

1318
00:53:54,420 --> 00:53:58,920
like that can't be true like that

1319
00:53:57,119 --> 00:54:00,660
doesn't make any sense and she's like

1320
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:03,480
Hannah

1321
00:54:00,660 --> 00:54:05,339
babe come on

1322
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:07,920
just just sit with this for a second

1323
00:54:05,339 --> 00:54:09,420
really process it through yeah

1324
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:11,400
and then like two weeks later he asked

1325
00:54:09,420 --> 00:54:13,319
me out and I was like oh

1326
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:15,660
cool

1327
00:54:13,319 --> 00:54:17,220
you're like oh I see yeah apparently

1328
00:54:15,660 --> 00:54:19,200
everybody knew

1329
00:54:17,220 --> 00:54:22,260
I had no idea oh no that's like when

1330
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:25,079
Vance got his contact order recently

1331
00:54:22,260 --> 00:54:26,520
the he goes for his eye appointment he

1332
00:54:25,079 --> 00:54:27,839
comes home and like in the little

1333
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:29,880
envelope or they put like his receipt

1334
00:54:27,839 --> 00:54:32,400
his prescription all like all of that

1335
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:34,559
stuff like the samples there's like a a

1336
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:37,559
handwritten phone number

1337
00:54:34,559 --> 00:54:39,300
I don't I forget the name but I was like

1338
00:54:37,559 --> 00:54:40,859
who's Maria and he's like oh yeah it's

1339
00:54:39,300 --> 00:54:43,559
the girl who works at like Target

1340
00:54:40,859 --> 00:54:44,880
Optical and she was so helpful and I was

1341
00:54:43,559 --> 00:54:48,740
like

1342
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:51,540
oh why did she give you her phone number

1343
00:54:48,740 --> 00:54:52,680
he was like yeah well just in case there

1344
00:54:51,540 --> 00:54:54,720
was anything that went wrong with the

1345
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:56,339
order what have you I was like baby the

1346
00:54:54,720 --> 00:54:58,619
Target Optical numbers on the front of

1347
00:54:56,339 --> 00:55:00,900
the package and on the receipt she's not

1348
00:54:58,619 --> 00:55:02,940
I was like I was like this is not the

1349
00:55:00,900 --> 00:55:07,140
Target phone number and he's like it's

1350
00:55:02,940 --> 00:55:09,240
not he was dumbfounded had no idea he

1351
00:55:07,140 --> 00:55:13,619
was being hit on Vance and I may be very

1352
00:55:09,240 --> 00:55:15,660
similar people because I'm like no that

1353
00:55:13,619 --> 00:55:17,339
can't be right like

1354
00:55:15,660 --> 00:55:19,740
I think

1355
00:55:17,339 --> 00:55:23,339
for me there's been a shift within

1356
00:55:19,740 --> 00:55:25,920
marriage and you recognize that like

1357
00:55:23,339 --> 00:55:28,760
I take my marriage very seriously yeah

1358
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,760
um and not everyone

1359
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:33,599
you know engages with marriage in the

1360
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,680
same capacity that my husband and I do

1361
00:55:33,599 --> 00:55:36,359
right

1362
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:40,319
um

1363
00:55:36,359 --> 00:55:41,640
but I'm just like I think

1364
00:55:40,319 --> 00:55:45,000
I

1365
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:47,280
not expected to get hit on more but I

1366
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:49,319
was better at picking up the cues and

1367
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:50,460
signs when I was single because now I'm

1368
00:55:49,319 --> 00:55:52,260
like well I'm a married woman why would

1369
00:55:50,460 --> 00:55:54,240
anyone be hitting on me

1370
00:55:52,260 --> 00:55:55,500
um even though like it is still people

1371
00:55:54,240 --> 00:55:57,059
are trash

1372
00:55:55,500 --> 00:56:00,059
or they're looking for ethically

1373
00:55:57,059 --> 00:56:01,800
non-monogram non-monogamous everywhere

1374
00:56:00,059 --> 00:56:04,079
right or they're like you know maybe

1375
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:06,240
their marriage is in a fragile spot I'm

1376
00:56:04,079 --> 00:56:08,400
just like allow me to help yeah maybe

1377
00:56:06,240 --> 00:56:11,700
her partner is in a coma and has been

1378
00:56:08,400 --> 00:56:13,680
for seven months you get it exactly so I

1379
00:56:11,700 --> 00:56:15,480
think now if someone were hitting on me

1380
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:17,400
I probably much like my husband would

1381
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:19,079
not be as quick to like

1382
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:22,380
no that actually happened I accidentally

1383
00:56:19,079 --> 00:56:24,900
gave my phone number to the UPS guy

1384
00:56:22,380 --> 00:56:26,819
how do you accidentally give your phone

1385
00:56:24,900 --> 00:56:28,319
number to someone this was pre-pandemic

1386
00:56:26,819 --> 00:56:31,619
I was in the office

1387
00:56:28,319 --> 00:56:34,400
um for work and I was the only therapist

1388
00:56:31,619 --> 00:56:38,280
who was in the office at that hour

1389
00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:40,140
and whatever the UPS guy's route was he

1390
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:41,400
kept coming and dropping packages off

1391
00:56:40,140 --> 00:56:43,859
when I was like the only clinician there

1392
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:45,839
I was in session and he needed

1393
00:56:43,859 --> 00:56:47,400
signatures so he knocked on my door in

1394
00:56:45,839 --> 00:56:48,960
interrupted session

1395
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:49,859
and he's like I'm so sorry but like I

1396
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:51,180
need to say I was like yeah I don't know

1397
00:56:49,859 --> 00:56:52,559
it's fine and so I just like sign it and

1398
00:56:51,180 --> 00:56:54,119
move on

1399
00:56:52,559 --> 00:56:57,240
um and he was like thank you so much

1400
00:56:54,119 --> 00:56:58,980
then the next day it happened again and

1401
00:56:57,240 --> 00:57:00,180
when I was like yeah yeah no it's time

1402
00:56:58,980 --> 00:57:01,500
but I'm like trying to like whip through

1403
00:57:00,180 --> 00:57:05,819
it because I'm like I need to like I'm

1404
00:57:01,500 --> 00:57:08,400
in session I need to get back and

1405
00:57:05,819 --> 00:57:09,780
he's like thanks so much

1406
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:11,220
um I really appreciate he's like I know

1407
00:57:09,780 --> 00:57:13,740
I'm like interrupting your work and he

1408
00:57:11,220 --> 00:57:15,359
like gives me a side hug once again I'm

1409
00:57:13,740 --> 00:57:16,980
like so focused on getting back in

1410
00:57:15,359 --> 00:57:19,020
session right I'm not and he's like hey

1411
00:57:16,980 --> 00:57:20,400
he's like would it be easier if you just

1412
00:57:19,020 --> 00:57:22,260
gave me your numbers and that way I can

1413
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:23,520
text you and so that way you have a

1414
00:57:22,260 --> 00:57:25,200
heads up when I'm gonna be coming that

1415
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:27,780
way if you're yeah sounds great here's

1416
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:30,180
my number man and I just like move on

1417
00:57:27,780 --> 00:57:31,920
and then I like sit back down in session

1418
00:57:30,180 --> 00:57:34,680
and I like take a beat and then I look

1419
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:36,420
at my client and I'm like

1420
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:39,920
did I just get the UPS guy my phone

1421
00:57:36,420 --> 00:57:39,920
number and they're like you did Chelsea

1422
00:57:41,579 --> 00:57:44,640
so I get home and I was like I look at

1423
00:57:43,500 --> 00:57:47,339
Vance I'm like

1424
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:49,319
so I gave the UPS guy my phone number I

1425
00:57:47,339 --> 00:57:53,460
didn't realize what I was doing and he's

1426
00:57:49,319 --> 00:57:55,920
like what are you talking about like I'm

1427
00:57:53,460 --> 00:57:58,140
so sorry and I told her I told him the

1428
00:57:55,920 --> 00:58:00,119
whole situation he's like honestly I

1429
00:57:58,140 --> 00:58:02,220
respect that man's game real recognize

1430
00:58:00,119 --> 00:58:05,280
real you know

1431
00:58:02,220 --> 00:58:08,940
good for him yes yeah we have a hot UPS

1432
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:11,220
guy in the area where I live

1433
00:58:08,940 --> 00:58:14,460
um and work and so the girls at work

1434
00:58:11,220 --> 00:58:17,280
will send out a text a group text and be

1435
00:58:14,460 --> 00:58:20,460
like hot UPS guy he's here he's here get

1436
00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:22,020
to get to a window get to a what are any

1437
00:58:20,460 --> 00:58:24,180
of them trying to actually engage with

1438
00:58:22,020 --> 00:58:28,140
him or no they're all married except for

1439
00:58:24,180 --> 00:58:30,240
one and he his root is also her house so

1440
00:58:28,140 --> 00:58:32,220
the day she found out about that it was

1441
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:34,859
like an absolute meltdown in the group

1442
00:58:32,220 --> 00:58:37,440
chat it was a meltdown in the group chat

1443
00:58:34,859 --> 00:58:40,740
like oh my God can you get a picture and

1444
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:43,260
she's like no that is just a different

1445
00:58:40,740 --> 00:58:45,240
level I just got divorced I can't be the

1446
00:58:43,260 --> 00:58:49,040
sad divorced lady with three cats taking

1447
00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:49,040
pictures of the hot UPS guy

1448
00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:56,460
that is great Insight because she's not

1449
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:57,599
wrong no you don't want to be that's not

1450
00:58:56,460 --> 00:58:59,099
the energy you want to give that's not

1451
00:58:57,599 --> 00:59:02,400
the label that we're looking for well

1452
00:58:59,099 --> 00:59:04,260
that's like before I got Craig

1453
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:05,940
um neutered

1454
00:59:04,260 --> 00:59:08,400
laughs

1455
00:59:05,940 --> 00:59:12,180
Craig I didn't crack the cat Craig the

1456
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:14,520
cat yes Craig is my cat I had never had

1457
00:59:12,180 --> 00:59:17,220
a male pet before right so I did not

1458
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:21,180
realize that he was just trying to [ __ ]

1459
00:59:17,220 --> 00:59:24,059
so hard like crying at like 3 A.M at

1460
00:59:21,180 --> 00:59:26,460
full volume looking for some strange yep

1461
00:59:24,059 --> 00:59:29,880
did not jawn on me

1462
00:59:26,460 --> 00:59:31,619
I was going through a breakup that week

1463
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:33,720
and this is relevant because I opened

1464
00:59:31,619 --> 00:59:36,299
the front door the day after I've had my

1465
00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:38,640
breakup and there's three cats I've

1466
00:59:36,299 --> 00:59:39,720
never seen just sitting on my front step

1467
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:42,599
and I was like

1468
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:44,460
am I really projecting this energy this

1469
00:59:42,599 --> 00:59:46,260
much that even the neighborhood cats

1470
00:59:44,460 --> 00:59:48,540
know I'm single and I'm just gonna be

1471
00:59:46,260 --> 00:59:50,640
the crazy cat lady I'm just collecting

1472
00:59:48,540 --> 00:59:52,140
them now yeah and then I realized that

1473
00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:54,900
my cat was just trying to get his dick

1474
00:59:52,140 --> 00:59:57,119
wet and yeah

1475
00:59:54,900 --> 00:59:58,920
not everything was about you in that

1476
00:59:57,119 --> 01:00:01,020
moment no but it felt that way which is

1477
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:03,380
understandable it was it was that entire

1478
01:00:01,020 --> 01:00:05,640
moment was about Craig

1479
01:00:03,380 --> 01:00:08,280
Craig does have main character energy

1480
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:10,940
for sure he really does it's also super

1481
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:13,619
sweet because Ford has started to like

1482
01:00:10,940 --> 01:00:16,020
recognize Craig

1483
01:00:13,619 --> 01:00:17,700
and it was the first time I've ever seen

1484
01:00:16,020 --> 01:00:20,400
Aben but I was sitting on the couch with

1485
01:00:17,700 --> 01:00:22,319
Ford in my lap and Craig hops up on the

1486
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:25,740
armrest of the couch and Ford looks over

1487
01:00:22,319 --> 01:00:27,780
and sees him and just starts giggling

1488
01:00:25,740 --> 01:00:29,579
it was the absolute sweetest thing oh my

1489
01:00:27,780 --> 01:00:32,099
God that sounds adorable yeah like last

1490
01:00:29,579 --> 01:00:33,900
week our dog Brandon licked Ford's face

1491
01:00:32,099 --> 01:00:35,760
and I was like it's happening

1492
01:00:33,900 --> 01:00:39,119
all of my sons

1493
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:40,579
my dreams are coming true so I was like

1494
01:00:39,119 --> 01:00:44,160
this is the moment I've been waiting for

1495
01:00:40,579 --> 01:00:46,460
okay so all this to say Anna was feeling

1496
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:50,220
a little jealous because Leif was doing

1497
01:00:46,460 --> 01:00:52,980
a sternum tattoo on a hot chick on a hot

1498
01:00:50,220 --> 01:00:55,500
chick yeah so he comes out when they're

1499
01:00:52,980 --> 01:00:57,900
taking a break and like starts basically

1500
01:00:55,500 --> 01:00:59,460
making out with her in the reception

1501
01:00:57,900 --> 01:01:02,220
area and she's like

1502
01:00:59,460 --> 01:01:04,799
um do roommates with benefits do this

1503
01:01:02,220 --> 01:01:07,380
like I'm a little confused that is a

1504
01:01:04,799 --> 01:01:09,359
valid question and she's like so I guess

1505
01:01:07,380 --> 01:01:11,160
we're not keeping it low-key at work and

1506
01:01:09,359 --> 01:01:13,440
he's like did you want to and she's like

1507
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:16,200
I guess not we really should talk later

1508
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:18,359
because I don't know what's happening

1509
01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:19,920
so I understand her confusion though

1510
01:01:18,359 --> 01:01:22,500
yeah when he's like yeah we're roommates

1511
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:25,799
with benefits but that's not

1512
01:01:22,500 --> 01:01:28,319
a roommates with Benefits Behavior right

1513
01:01:25,799 --> 01:01:31,260
but she also sees the girl come out

1514
01:01:28,319 --> 01:01:35,220
clearly in a lot of pain and she's like

1515
01:01:31,260 --> 01:01:37,680
oh that's not sexy got it so she feels

1516
01:01:35,220 --> 01:01:41,940
better about that whole situation

1517
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:43,859
um so but then they because they hadn't

1518
01:01:41,940 --> 01:01:45,480
talked about being exclusive or anything

1519
01:01:43,859 --> 01:01:47,819
right we're just roommates with benefits

1520
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:50,819
so they talk about that later they agree

1521
01:01:47,819 --> 01:01:52,859
they're exclusive blah blah blah

1522
01:01:50,819 --> 01:01:54,119
so then

1523
01:01:52,859 --> 01:01:57,540
um

1524
01:01:54,119 --> 01:01:59,640
he wakes up with a nightmare that night

1525
01:01:57,540 --> 01:02:01,260
um and he is like in a full panic

1526
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:03,480
because he's like

1527
01:02:01,260 --> 01:02:05,520
I was pinned by my bike in my dream and

1528
01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:07,319
I couldn't get to you and like the the

1529
01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:09,420
car was on fire and I couldn't get to

1530
01:02:07,319 --> 01:02:10,559
you and he's like really freaking out so

1531
01:02:09,420 --> 01:02:12,119
she's like maybe you should go to

1532
01:02:10,559 --> 01:02:15,059
therapy and he's like I don't need

1533
01:02:12,119 --> 01:02:17,940
therapy and she's like but it seems like

1534
01:02:15,059 --> 01:02:19,859
maybe you do I go to therapy and it's

1535
01:02:17,940 --> 01:02:21,540
great and he's like I'm not into it

1536
01:02:19,859 --> 01:02:22,920
she's like okay maybe we should go to

1537
01:02:21,540 --> 01:02:24,660
couples counseling because we have

1538
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:25,980
issues and he's like is this some

1539
01:02:24,660 --> 01:02:27,540
[ __ ] thing where you try to get me

1540
01:02:25,980 --> 01:02:29,040
to go to couples counseling and then it

1541
01:02:27,540 --> 01:02:33,960
turns out to be all about my nightmares

1542
01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:35,940
and she's like yes but also wouldn't it

1543
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:37,740
be so helpful if we did the couples

1544
01:02:35,940 --> 01:02:39,359
counseling thing early and could have

1545
01:02:37,740 --> 01:02:41,160
like the healthiest relationship ever

1546
01:02:39,359 --> 01:02:43,140
and he's like

1547
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:44,160
I'll think about it and she's like

1548
01:02:43,140 --> 01:02:48,420
you're right this isn't a real

1549
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:49,079
relationship just kidding sorry sorry

1550
01:02:48,420 --> 01:02:51,119
um

1551
01:02:49,079 --> 01:02:52,559
yeah so because I was literally

1552
01:02:51,119 --> 01:02:55,440
addressing about that that difference of

1553
01:02:52,559 --> 01:03:00,119
like exclusive roommates with Benefits

1554
01:02:55,440 --> 01:03:01,859
versus like a committed relationship

1555
01:03:00,119 --> 01:03:04,380
that line between exclusive and

1556
01:03:01,859 --> 01:03:07,200
committed is

1557
01:03:04,380 --> 01:03:09,119
weird it is weird because for all

1558
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:10,680
intents and purposes

1559
01:03:09,119 --> 01:03:12,119
it's kind of the same thing you're just

1560
01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:13,940
like the behavior is the same the

1561
01:03:12,119 --> 01:03:15,900
behavior is the same you're just

1562
01:03:13,940 --> 01:03:18,660
pretending that you're allowing yourself

1563
01:03:15,900 --> 01:03:20,400
more emotional distance right that but

1564
01:03:18,660 --> 01:03:21,960
I'm like no here's the thing

1565
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:23,579
it's still going to hurt if it ends

1566
01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:26,040
right like there's

1567
01:03:23,579 --> 01:03:27,720
if if it is from a self-preservation

1568
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:29,819
standpoint that you are saying you are

1569
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:31,619
exclusive but not committed

1570
01:03:29,819 --> 01:03:33,720
it doesn't change that it's gonna hurt

1571
01:03:31,619 --> 01:03:35,579
and that's definitely what it is for her

1572
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:37,619
and she's like pretty clear about that

1573
01:03:35,579 --> 01:03:40,859
that like she never wants to get married

1574
01:03:37,619 --> 01:03:42,480
again like she's not into that stuff she

1575
01:03:40,859 --> 01:03:44,819
just

1576
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:46,920
you know she didn't have sex for like a

1577
01:03:44,819 --> 01:03:50,520
year she was in a coma and then coming

1578
01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:53,220
like doing a bunch of rehab for it and

1579
01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:56,579
you know she likes him she trusts him

1580
01:03:53,220 --> 01:03:59,299
and he's hot so you know that's like her

1581
01:03:56,579 --> 01:04:00,960
attitude towards the whole thing um

1582
01:03:59,299 --> 01:04:04,740
so

1583
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:06,780
um then they bang again this is much

1584
01:04:04,740 --> 01:04:09,119
more of like a true solidifying [ __ ]

1585
01:04:06,780 --> 01:04:10,980
situation like it's it was a little bit

1586
01:04:09,119 --> 01:04:12,540
before but now it's like for real for

1587
01:04:10,980 --> 01:04:13,500
real because he's so vulnerable in that

1588
01:04:12,540 --> 01:04:16,680
moment

1589
01:04:13,500 --> 01:04:18,480
so then a little while later her ex

1590
01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:22,799
shows up again

1591
01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:25,740
so oh I forgot at one point the um

1592
01:04:22,799 --> 01:04:29,400
the former best friend also shows up at

1593
01:04:25,740 --> 01:04:32,280
the tattoo shop and it looks awful and

1594
01:04:29,400 --> 01:04:34,440
is clearly struggling and she's like you

1595
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:38,700
can't work at another place you never

1596
01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:41,760
resigned from the hotel and she's like

1597
01:04:38,700 --> 01:04:44,099
um I I quit I I was in a coma for seven

1598
01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:47,280
months and you replaced me

1599
01:04:44,099 --> 01:04:49,440
wasn't aware that I needed to put in a

1600
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:50,880
notice for you and she's like but you

1601
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:53,720
could come back like you could come back

1602
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:56,280
to work and she's like no no I couldn't

1603
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:57,540
you're a dumb skank I never want to see

1604
01:04:56,280 --> 01:04:59,700
you again she doesn't actually say that

1605
01:04:57,540 --> 01:05:00,359
but like that's the energy yeah

1606
01:04:59,700 --> 01:05:02,640
um

1607
01:05:00,359 --> 01:05:05,040
and so like these people just keep

1608
01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:09,540
showing up so then after all this stuff

1609
01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:12,540
the X shows up again and he's like I

1610
01:05:09,540 --> 01:05:15,000
made a mistake like Celia was a mistake

1611
01:05:12,540 --> 01:05:17,880
I'm so sorry like I never should have

1612
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:20,040
divorced you like or agreed to the

1613
01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:22,020
divorce I never should have done it

1614
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:24,000
um I'm so miserable without you and

1615
01:05:22,020 --> 01:05:28,440
she's like once again everything is

1616
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:31,559
about you like I'm fine go away and life

1617
01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:33,720
shows up and she's like I've got it like

1618
01:05:31,559 --> 01:05:36,119
leave it I've got it and she's like

1619
01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:39,359
telling her ex off and life of course

1620
01:05:36,119 --> 01:05:40,799
does not leave it and they get into a

1621
01:05:39,359 --> 01:05:46,859
fist fight

1622
01:05:40,799 --> 01:05:49,140
and she is mad she is mad because as

1623
01:05:46,859 --> 01:05:50,760
they're fist fighting her ex like pushes

1624
01:05:49,140 --> 01:05:53,579
her down and like it's like a whole

1625
01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:55,440
thing so he's like I'm sorry I should

1626
01:05:53,579 --> 01:05:58,200
have listened to you you told me you had

1627
01:05:55,440 --> 01:06:00,359
it and he's like banged up but he's like

1628
01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:03,059
let me check you like because you you

1629
01:06:00,359 --> 01:06:04,680
fell and so then of course he uses that

1630
01:06:03,059 --> 01:06:06,180
to check her ass and then they bang

1631
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:07,380
again

1632
01:06:06,180 --> 01:06:10,200
um

1633
01:06:07,380 --> 01:06:12,839
he's like I am in fact a renowned

1634
01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:14,700
derriere doctor please allow me like

1635
01:06:12,839 --> 01:06:16,940
he's such a cornball it feels like we're

1636
01:06:14,700 --> 01:06:19,619
losing a little bit of the plot like

1637
01:06:16,940 --> 01:06:22,079
you're like oh we're just we're just

1638
01:06:19,619 --> 01:06:23,400
looking for the sex here well that's

1639
01:06:22,079 --> 01:06:26,039
what that's what it is at this point

1640
01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:27,900
there's like a splash of plot and then

1641
01:06:26,039 --> 01:06:29,880
they bang a splash of plot and then they

1642
01:06:27,900 --> 01:06:31,680
die so like that is the energy it's

1643
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:33,720
giving yeah

1644
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:35,339
um but there's also he's such a cornball

1645
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:37,380
like it's really adorable like he

1646
01:06:35,339 --> 01:06:39,539
refuses to refer to her ex by his name

1647
01:06:37,380 --> 01:06:41,880
he just calls him a [ __ ] Splash over and

1648
01:06:39,539 --> 01:06:45,480
over again which I found cunning split

1649
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:46,440
[ __ ] splash which I found very amusing

1650
01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:51,180
um

1651
01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:53,700
so then he very clearly after they have

1652
01:06:51,180 --> 01:06:56,220
sex after the fight he's like about to

1653
01:06:53,700 --> 01:06:58,920
say he's like looking deeply into her

1654
01:06:56,220 --> 01:07:01,500
eyes and he's like Anna I I want to tell

1655
01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:03,839
you and she's like dinner what should we

1656
01:07:01,500 --> 01:07:07,319
have for dinner and he's like

1657
01:07:03,839 --> 01:07:08,880
hmm dinner and she's like you're right

1658
01:07:07,319 --> 01:07:10,559
your face is really banged up let me get

1659
01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:12,539
you some ice and it's just really really

1660
01:07:10,559 --> 01:07:14,339
awkward because he very clearly was

1661
01:07:12,539 --> 01:07:16,440
about to declare some feelings and she

1662
01:07:14,339 --> 01:07:19,619
was not into it

1663
01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:21,780
so he's like okay I'm just gonna I just

1664
01:07:19,619 --> 01:07:24,359
need some I just need some time by

1665
01:07:21,780 --> 01:07:26,339
myself today's been a big day I was

1666
01:07:24,359 --> 01:07:29,039
gonna go to bed and so they don't talk

1667
01:07:26,339 --> 01:07:31,380
again all night and all the next day

1668
01:07:29,039 --> 01:07:32,880
really and she's kind of starting to

1669
01:07:31,380 --> 01:07:34,380
freak out and she's like I need to go

1670
01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:35,579
talk to him like I really need to go

1671
01:07:34,380 --> 01:07:37,380
talk to him

1672
01:07:35,579 --> 01:07:38,280
so as she's getting ready to leave the

1673
01:07:37,380 --> 01:07:40,680
house

1674
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:43,500
a guy shows up at the door this like old

1675
01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:46,380
guy who's very clearly high and he's

1676
01:07:43,500 --> 01:07:50,400
like do you know me and she's like

1677
01:07:46,380 --> 01:07:53,579
no and he's like pay attention look at

1678
01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:55,319
me do you know me and she's like no

1679
01:07:53,579 --> 01:07:57,000
I don't

1680
01:07:55,319 --> 01:08:00,480
and then after a couple minutes she's

1681
01:07:57,000 --> 01:08:02,220
like oh I do recognize him he's been he

1682
01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:04,319
was like at the cafe where my mom and I

1683
01:08:02,220 --> 01:08:06,000
had lunch he was I think he might have

1684
01:08:04,319 --> 01:08:08,160
been the same guy that was parked across

1685
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:10,559
the street from the house yesterday like

1686
01:08:08,160 --> 01:08:12,480
I do recognize him but I don't know from

1687
01:08:10,559 --> 01:08:14,940
where and then he like pulls his shirt

1688
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:18,120
up and shows her a gun and he's like

1689
01:08:14,940 --> 01:08:19,400
just remember that you don't know me and

1690
01:08:18,120 --> 01:08:23,819
she's like

1691
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:26,219
what what right like hard left how did

1692
01:08:23,819 --> 01:08:28,440
we get here and she's like I remember

1693
01:08:26,219 --> 01:08:30,179
feeling that way about repeat right

1694
01:08:28,440 --> 01:08:33,359
we're just like it just like suddenly

1695
01:08:30,179 --> 01:08:35,880
happened at the end yes and you're like

1696
01:08:33,359 --> 01:08:38,279
oh we went from six to midnight so fast

1697
01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:40,259
right like everybody's [ __ ] getting

1698
01:08:38,279 --> 01:08:43,020
stabbed and shot and [ __ ] how did we get

1699
01:08:40,259 --> 01:08:45,779
here yes so she's like convinced she's

1700
01:08:43,020 --> 01:08:47,819
about to die she's like obviously he's

1701
01:08:45,779 --> 01:08:49,920
gonna kill me and I never got to tell

1702
01:08:47,819 --> 01:08:51,420
Leif that I love him and like what's

1703
01:08:49,920 --> 01:08:53,040
gonna happen to my mom like she's doing

1704
01:08:51,420 --> 01:08:54,839
all those like final moments thoughts

1705
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:57,179
but then the guy like gets in the car

1706
01:08:54,839 --> 01:09:00,179
and turns around so she like runs to the

1707
01:08:57,179 --> 01:09:01,620
window to get a look at the car and sees

1708
01:09:00,179 --> 01:09:03,199
that the front end is a little smashed

1709
01:09:01,620 --> 01:09:05,520
up

1710
01:09:03,199 --> 01:09:06,779
it's the guy who hit her she like puts

1711
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:08,640
it all together

1712
01:09:06,779 --> 01:09:10,799
and she's about to run out to look at

1713
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:12,600
the license plate and then she's like no

1714
01:09:10,799 --> 01:09:15,779
dummy there are cameras out there

1715
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:19,080
remember don't go outside the guy has a

1716
01:09:15,779 --> 01:09:21,660
gun she's like smart I'm having a good

1717
01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:23,520
moment where I'm listening to myself and

1718
01:09:21,660 --> 01:09:25,980
not getting shot

1719
01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:28,199
um there was a tick tock a long time ago

1720
01:09:25,980 --> 01:09:29,339
that made me die laughing where this

1721
01:09:28,199 --> 01:09:30,420
girl was talking about she's like yeah

1722
01:09:29,339 --> 01:09:31,920
she's like you know what I really

1723
01:09:30,420 --> 01:09:34,440
learned from

1724
01:09:31,920 --> 01:09:37,440
black tick tock she's like is that

1725
01:09:34,440 --> 01:09:40,080
Caucasian curiosity will get you killed

1726
01:09:37,440 --> 01:09:43,620
and she's like what is it with the false

1727
01:09:40,080 --> 01:09:45,420
bravado of us white people out here who

1728
01:09:43,620 --> 01:09:47,040
like you hear a sound in the woods and

1729
01:09:45,420 --> 01:09:50,040
you're like I should go investigate and

1730
01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:51,839
I mean [ __ ] you should absolutely not

1731
01:09:50,040 --> 01:09:54,420
investigate mind your own business like

1732
01:09:51,839 --> 01:09:57,420
your Caucasian curiosity will get you

1733
01:09:54,420 --> 01:10:00,060
killed it will and that's what I'm where

1734
01:09:57,420 --> 01:10:02,760
she's like oh maybe my Caucasian

1735
01:10:00,060 --> 01:10:06,060
curiosity should not be my True North in

1736
01:10:02,760 --> 01:10:09,480
this moment correct yeah

1737
01:10:06,060 --> 01:10:11,640
what it does do for her she doesn't she

1738
01:10:09,480 --> 01:10:14,280
doesn't run out she calls the cops the

1739
01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:16,800
cops show up they're investigating and

1740
01:10:14,280 --> 01:10:17,880
life shows up like busts in the door and

1741
01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:19,860
he's like

1742
01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:22,199
baby why didn't you call me why didn't

1743
01:10:19,860 --> 01:10:24,480
you like what and she's like I texted

1744
01:10:22,199 --> 01:10:27,840
you and he said you mean the text where

1745
01:10:24,480 --> 01:10:32,040
you said we should talk soonish that

1746
01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:33,659
text she's like yeah yeah and he's like

1747
01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:35,340
the only reason I know is because your

1748
01:10:33,659 --> 01:10:38,159
mother called me and told me to get home

1749
01:10:35,340 --> 01:10:41,520
ASAP so here I [ __ ] am what the hell

1750
01:10:38,159 --> 01:10:42,960
is going on and so she's like I just

1751
01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:44,640
wanted to tell you like I'm so sorry

1752
01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:45,900
about last night I shouldn't have I

1753
01:10:44,640 --> 01:10:49,260
shouldn't have done that that was really

1754
01:10:45,900 --> 01:10:50,760
weird and I love you and he's like

1755
01:10:49,260 --> 01:10:53,159
what

1756
01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:55,020
and he she's like what I can admit when

1757
01:10:53,159 --> 01:10:57,179
I'm wrong and he's like no no the second

1758
01:10:55,020 --> 01:11:01,380
thing what the [ __ ] and she's like oh

1759
01:10:57,179 --> 01:11:03,420
yeah I love you and he's like okay I

1760
01:11:01,380 --> 01:11:06,420
love you too

1761
01:11:03,420 --> 01:11:08,820
so is that the end of the book just

1762
01:11:06,420 --> 01:11:10,320
about so then she's like I'll feel

1763
01:11:08,820 --> 01:11:11,760
better when they arrest the guy because

1764
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:14,580
they knew who he is so they go out and

1765
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:15,960
grab him they arrest him

1766
01:11:14,580 --> 01:11:18,179
um and then

1767
01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:21,120
um they both declare their love very

1768
01:11:18,179 --> 01:11:23,760
sweet and then in the epilogue this is

1769
01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:26,219
so she woke up on balance Valentine's

1770
01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:29,400
Day so this is Valentine's Day a year

1771
01:11:26,219 --> 01:11:31,440
later and

1772
01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:33,600
um she has like decorated the whole

1773
01:11:31,440 --> 01:11:35,699
apartment with like rose petals it's

1774
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:37,380
very romantic she's again done her hair

1775
01:11:35,699 --> 01:11:40,679
and makeup and put on a fancy dress

1776
01:11:37,380 --> 01:11:44,159
waiting for life to get home and when he

1777
01:11:40,679 --> 01:11:45,900
does he's like what did I forget it did

1778
01:11:44,159 --> 01:11:49,199
I forget something like

1779
01:11:45,900 --> 01:11:51,480
what an anniversary or something or like

1780
01:11:49,199 --> 01:11:53,640
what is happening right now and she's

1781
01:11:51,480 --> 01:11:55,620
like I just wanted to

1782
01:11:53,640 --> 01:11:58,920
I just want it to look nice and he's

1783
01:11:55,620 --> 01:12:01,320
like okay like what is happening right

1784
01:11:58,920 --> 01:12:04,260
now this feels like a trick and it is

1785
01:12:01,320 --> 01:12:05,640
because she like gets him champagne and

1786
01:12:04,260 --> 01:12:09,780
stuff like that and then she's like

1787
01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:12,000
pregnant no no she's like hey so

1788
01:12:09,780 --> 01:12:14,520
um I called your mom today

1789
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:16,920
um because I love you so much and um

1790
01:12:14,520 --> 01:12:18,840
asked for your for your hand and for her

1791
01:12:16,920 --> 01:12:20,640
permission and blessing

1792
01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:24,440
um to propose so do you want to get

1793
01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:24,440
married and he's like what

1794
01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:31,020
what right he's like baby you you told

1795
01:12:29,940 --> 01:12:33,239
me you don't ever want to get married

1796
01:12:31,020 --> 01:12:35,580
again and she's like I know but I

1797
01:12:33,239 --> 01:12:37,199
changed my mind and he's like

1798
01:12:35,580 --> 01:12:38,760
are you sure you're not doing this like

1799
01:12:37,199 --> 01:12:40,679
just to make me happy and then she

1800
01:12:38,760 --> 01:12:42,480
starts freaking out like oh no he didn't

1801
01:12:40,679 --> 01:12:44,760
really want to get married

1802
01:12:42,480 --> 01:12:46,560
um and she's like he's like why do you

1803
01:12:44,760 --> 01:12:47,940
why is your face doing that like why are

1804
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:49,500
you so anxious right now and she's like

1805
01:12:47,940 --> 01:12:51,179
cool because you haven't said yes and

1806
01:12:49,500 --> 01:12:52,980
he's like well obviously the answer is

1807
01:12:51,179 --> 01:12:54,780
yes I just want to make sure that like

1808
01:12:52,980 --> 01:12:56,699
this is really what you want because I'm

1809
01:12:54,780 --> 01:12:59,280
just happy being with you however I can

1810
01:12:56,699 --> 01:13:00,719
and she's like this is what I want and

1811
01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:03,560
then they agreed to get married and

1812
01:13:00,719 --> 01:13:03,560
that's it that's the end

1813
01:13:04,620 --> 01:13:07,980
so question about the dude who hit her

1814
01:13:06,900 --> 01:13:11,580
yeah

1815
01:13:07,980 --> 01:13:13,080
who was stalking her apparently but like

1816
01:13:11,580 --> 01:13:14,400
there was no other mention of him

1817
01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:16,679
throughout the book where it's like not

1818
01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:18,900
like she's like not that threat of like

1819
01:13:16,679 --> 01:13:20,159
oh that guy looks Vaguely Familiar I

1820
01:13:18,900 --> 01:13:23,400
thought I saw him when I was out with my

1821
01:13:20,159 --> 01:13:25,620
mom at lunch like there's no so she's at

1822
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:27,120
lunch with her mom and she's like oh

1823
01:13:25,620 --> 01:13:28,800
that guy looks like he's checking out my

1824
01:13:27,120 --> 01:13:31,199
mom good for her like there was that

1825
01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:32,820
moment and then there was like

1826
01:13:31,199 --> 01:13:34,800
um that car parked across the street

1827
01:13:32,820 --> 01:13:37,920
from the apartment's weird huh but like

1828
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:40,560
it was not a full thing of like okay

1829
01:13:37,920 --> 01:13:43,440
like I see that guy that guy's giving me

1830
01:13:40,560 --> 01:13:48,239
weird energy or like none of that it's

1831
01:13:43,440 --> 01:13:49,800
like really not a trail to follow no not

1832
01:13:48,239 --> 01:13:53,159
especially

1833
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:55,800
it sounds cute it was cute it was cute

1834
01:13:53,159 --> 01:13:58,199
life's really cute like his energy is

1835
01:13:55,800 --> 01:13:59,640
adorable their interactions are very

1836
01:13:58,199 --> 01:14:02,699
sweet

1837
01:13:59,640 --> 01:14:05,580
um yeah it's cute read

1838
01:14:02,699 --> 01:14:07,920
and the story is something else

1839
01:14:05,580 --> 01:14:10,800
because like what that story went on

1840
01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:13,320
some Journeys yeah

1841
01:14:10,800 --> 01:14:15,239
yeah it both Feels Like A lot happened

1842
01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:17,580
and not a lot happened that's how I felt

1843
01:14:15,239 --> 01:14:19,199
when I was outlining it so like we

1844
01:14:17,580 --> 01:14:20,760
talked about before we started recording

1845
01:14:19,199 --> 01:14:23,640
today I was like I don't know how this

1846
01:14:20,760 --> 01:14:25,800
review is gonna be because like

1847
01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:27,179
I remember enjoying the book but then

1848
01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:31,580
when I went to outline it I was like

1849
01:14:27,179 --> 01:14:36,420
there's not like a lot here

1850
01:14:31,580 --> 01:14:38,640
but what are we using as our rating

1851
01:14:36,420 --> 01:14:41,360
hmm

1852
01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:41,360
I don't know

1853
01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:47,300
Comas doesn't feel like it would be

1854
01:14:44,460 --> 01:14:47,300
appropriate

1855
01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:53,100
Twilight books

1856
01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:55,020
those are some long books they are some

1857
01:14:53,100 --> 01:14:56,820
long books

1858
01:14:55,020 --> 01:14:58,739
yeah

1859
01:14:56,820 --> 01:15:02,400
those are

1860
01:14:58,739 --> 01:15:04,699
not sure so are we is Edward Cullen

1861
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:08,480
Edward Cullen how many Edward Collins

1862
01:15:04,699 --> 01:15:11,940
how many Bella swans

1863
01:15:08,480 --> 01:15:14,699
let's do Edwards why not because Ed Oh

1864
01:15:11,940 --> 01:15:15,920
Yeah from the first book yeah brother Ed

1865
01:15:14,699 --> 01:15:18,719
from repeat

1866
01:15:15,920 --> 01:15:20,640
that's two Edwards okay so Edward

1867
01:15:18,719 --> 01:15:24,140
Collins

1868
01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:24,140
um I would give it like

1869
01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:29,460
I'm gonna say seven out of ten because

1870
01:15:27,540 --> 01:15:31,560
it was an enjoyable read but there are

1871
01:15:29,460 --> 01:15:32,640
definitely some plot holes in it that

1872
01:15:31,560 --> 01:15:33,239
are like

1873
01:15:32,640 --> 01:15:36,360
um

1874
01:15:33,239 --> 01:15:39,420
what but with the number of plot holes

1875
01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:41,760
seven is generous higher than I expected

1876
01:15:39,420 --> 01:15:45,060
I assumed you're gonna go like 5.5 or 6

1877
01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:46,980
out of 10 if we were going with a 10. I

1878
01:15:45,060 --> 01:15:49,620
was thinking six and a half and round it

1879
01:15:46,980 --> 01:15:51,840
up because I it yeah it was enjoyable

1880
01:15:49,620 --> 01:15:54,860
but there were some moments where you're

1881
01:15:51,840 --> 01:15:54,860
like uh

1882
01:15:55,500 --> 01:15:59,159
uh like

1883
01:15:57,179 --> 01:16:01,020
I think we can say six and a half we'll

1884
01:15:59,159 --> 01:16:04,320
say six and a half of a glittery vampire

1885
01:16:01,020 --> 01:16:06,960
it's fine top half bottom half top half

1886
01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:09,380
left half left half

1887
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fair enough I'm gonna do straight

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straight vertical Center yeah you get it

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I do yeah so six and a half sparkly

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Edward Collins Edward Cullen's in the

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summertime

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standing in the Sun and standing on some

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um let us know how many summertime

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Edward Collins

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you would rate this book if you've read

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it or how many you would rate it

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from just listening to Hannah's review

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of it yeah

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um but thanks for going on this journey

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with us and don't forget to like And

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subscribe and leave those five star

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reviews because those increase our

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viewability in search algorithms you

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know and we've had questions about uh if

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01:16:53,520 --> 01:16:57,840
you can make recommendations absolutely

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hit us up on any social media with any

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01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:00,239
recommendations for what you want us to

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review

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yes and I will pass all of those to

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Hannah if it's a train wreck I'll pass

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it to Hannah if you're like it's

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actually my favorite book I'll read it

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okay listen

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I got one of our last recommendations

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yeah you did it was bad I read it and I

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was like I need to not take one for the

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team next time it's time to share the

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wealth with Hannah you're right it's my

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turn so I wasn't just trying to be

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shitty and be like give the bad books to

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Hannah but I just like needed a break

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that's totally understandable I got it

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yeah so if there's anything in

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particular you want me to review please

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feel free recommend share with us

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oh I know you're not

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everyone else no I'm not like I will

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still I'll read other things that's fine

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I just really felt like that needed to

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be clarified

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okay thanks for joining us we'll see you

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next time let's bye y'all

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we hope it was good for you cause it

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sure was great for us

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if you're digging what we're doing it

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would mean a lot if you'd take a minute

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to rate and review the show wherever

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you're listening right now

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maybe tell that sexy someone to Linda

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senior

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we love you we appreciate you

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we'll see you next week

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stay spotty

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