What I Love About Sex

In this episode of What I Love About Sex, I'm breaking down exactly how one of my private clients went from disconnected and frustrated to having deeply connected, fulfilling sex three times a week, with the same woman he was barely connecting with once a month. We didn’t change his wife—we shifted his strategy, communication, and leadership.

Here's how.
✅ Clarify the real goal. Most men aim for more sex, but miss the quality. We defined what "great sex" actually looked like for him—physically, emotionally, and energetically.
✅ Use masculine leadership to foster emotional safety. My client learned how to ask the right questions, speak from calm confidence, and approach his wife without pressure. This unlocked connection and trust that led to more frequency naturally.
✅ Reframe sex as a shared experience, not a transaction. The more he prioritized her pleasure and made her feel valued, the more often she wanted to connect with enthusiasm.

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What is What I Love About Sex?

Stephanie Ganowski is a clinical sexologist and sex coach for men. In her podcast, “What I Love About Sex”, her mission is to take the pressure out of sex and put the pleasure in!
She does this by helping men overcome their d*ck-related issues and improve their sex communication skills, so they can feel in control of their bodies and connecting deeply with their partners.

Coaching clients 1:1 for 6+ years, with a background in psychology, relationship communication training and clinical sexology makes Stephanie the person you can trust to help you. She especially wants men to have a ‘go-to’ place for help here, so they feel they’re directly spoken to and supported.
Stephanie is a firm believer that sex is like any other part of life in that we need to work to understand and improve it through practice, vulnerability and patience. And if we can do that while having fun and not taking ourselves so seriously, we can create the sex life we’ve always dreamed of.

Stephanie’s style of coaching (and podcasting) is lighthearted, fun and action oriented. Her aim is to have her listeners leave her show feeling confident in what step to take next!