507: How To Handle Big Emotions in Kids

Today Karen and Emily tackle listener questions about kids with big emotions; the pouters, the perfectionists, the rule followers, and the fiercely competitive. Whether your child melts down when they lose, struggles to say they’re having fun, or takes rules a little too seriously, this episode will help you parent the way they’re wired instead of fighting against it.

Episode Recap:

• Join Wire Talk+, our VIP club for listeners (3:45)
• Is it okay to let my sensitive child pout in his room? (4:27)
• My “blue child” never says she’s having fun and it’s discouraging to me (9:55)
• How do I handle an overly strict rule follower? (13:30)
• My 9 yr old cannot bear losing - should I give him consequences for meltdowns? (17:28)
• You’re not going to change the way your kid is wired, but you can understand it (20:00) 

Scripture: Proverbs 22:6 (NIV) “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.”

Discussion Questions: 

1. Does my child need space or correction in emotional moments?
2. Am I reacting to their personality, or am I training their character?
3. Do I expect my child to respond emotionally the way I would?
4. Where do I need to be more consistent with consequences?
5. How can I model emotional regulation in my own responses?

Resources:

• Listen to the rest of our conversation on WT+: boaw.mom/insider
• Send us your questions through the BOAW Moms app [Apple] [Google Play]
• Check out our BRAND NEW Bible study: How To Teach Your Kids the Bible
• Check out Raising Emotionally Strong Boys by David Thomas 

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Creators and Guests

EK

Host

Emily Korosec

Co-host of the Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs podcast.

Host

Karen Stubbs

Host of Wire Talk and Founder of Birds on a Wire Moms - a ministry to encourage and equip moms.

Producer

Katie Leipprandt

Producer of the Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs podcast.

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Wire Talk was created to encourage and equip moms throughout the challenging and life-changing journey of motherhood. Each week on Wire Talk Karen Stubbs offers godly, practical advice on the topics every mother has questions about: mom guilt, our children’s faith, potty-training, divorce, our teenagers dating, and more!