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Lindsay: Welcome.

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Welcome to today's Lifting Lindsay
podcast episode where we are gonna

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be talking about how decision fatigue
is actually killing your fat loss.

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Yes.

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You heard that decision fatigue may
be the one thing that can really throw

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off and hurt your fat loss goals.

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Um, so.

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Oftentimes when I talk about fat loss,
I really do like talking about there's,

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there's two things we need to get on
point really, during any phase in,

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like whether it's fat loss, phase,
maintenance builds, whatever it may be.

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In your fitness and health journey,
we oftentimes fixate on what's

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needed for the physical right.

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A calorie deficit is needed for
fat loss., Energy balance, meaning

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the calories coming in, the, the
amount of activity going out.

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If that's balanced, you're going
to maintain your body weight.

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If more calories are coming
in than energy going out.

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You are going to put on weight.

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So oftentimes we focus a lot on, okay
then what do my calories need to be?

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What do my macros need to be?

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What are my foods gonna look like?

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What's my cardio gonna look like?

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What's my training gonna look like?

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We focus a lot on the physical,
which is wonderful, wonderful.

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Absolutely great.

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But majority of people.

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Well, let me put it this way.

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The easiest part of coaching
is writing the plan.

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That's the easiest part.

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The easiest part of for a
client is getting the plan.

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That's actually not the most complex part
of it, and people treat it like it is.

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Well, like they fixate on these
little tiny things within the plan.

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What, what, when do I
need to get my protein in?

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And studies show it actually
doesn't matter as long as

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you get it during the day.

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That's all.

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No, no, no.

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It needs to be more complex than that.

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No, it actually doesn't.

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What, what is my nutrition need
to look like around my workouts?

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Uh, pre intra and post.

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What, what does that need?

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It actually, once again,
studies have shown.

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For general population, population
that is not stepping on stage

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for a bodybuilding competition.

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It doesn't matter.

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Choose the pre-workout, the post-workout
meal, whatever that you enjoy and

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you can be the most consistent with.

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People wanna get these things
really, they really wanna complicate.

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People really wanna
complicate these things.

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Because we fixate so much on,
well, if I'm not seeing results,

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it's because of the plan.

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I would actually say majority of the
time, majority of the time, it is nothing

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to do with the actual plan itself.

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It has to do with the
adherence to the plan.

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The adherence to the plan comes.

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Back to the mental factor,
the psychological factor.

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Even when women come to me and are
like, well, I've been dieting for years.

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The likelihood of you dieting for
years is actually next to zero.

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You would be anorexic.

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You would be near death now you
trying to diet for years, but not

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mastering the mental psychological
approach or game that's going to

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keep you in a calorie deficit.

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That is the net more accurate statement.

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So today we're going to be talking
about how decision fatigue.

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Can actually harm our fat loss
goals because it influences

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our ability to stay on track.

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What is decision fatigue?

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Well, most people don't
realize this, but on average,

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every hour we have to make about
10,000 conscious decisions.

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On average, that stacks up to around
35,000 conscious decisions a day.

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So the other day on Instagram,
I shared in stories what, um.

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The creator of, uh, apple,
what Steve Jobs did about this.

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I had a few people reach out
and say, can you do a fun fact

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Friday on decision fatigue?

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So here I am.

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That's why I'm doing this.

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So Steve Jobs.

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I don't know if you've ever seen
him in like speak any recordings

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of him speaking, but he always
has on the same exact outfit.

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I can see him right now in it, this
black shirt that and this same, pants.

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He always had the exact same outfit
and he just bought tons of the exact

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same shirt and every single day when
he woke up, he put the same outfit on

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because he said, I have thousands of
decisions to make every single day.

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And decisions take time.

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They take energy.

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And what I wear, I do not want to
take time or energy of thought.

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I just wanna put it on.

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Well, I have to laugh because my
husband took this very literally, you

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guys, he literally, he found these
shirts that he loved and he literally

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went out and bought like a dozen
of the, the same color white shirt.

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Didn't even wanna think
about different colors.

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Couldn't even think about variation.

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He had the, the same
exact idea of Steve Jobs.

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He loved it.

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So he went out and bought a dozen
of the same white shirt, and

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he wore that every single day.

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And I laugh about it, but he loved it.

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I have taken this concept of decision
fatigue and I've applied it to other

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things in my life, including fitness.

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So that's what I wanna
introduce to you guys today.

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How is it hurting your goals
and what can you do about it?

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Um, in fact, I actually did, when
I was researching on this, I, I

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did find some quotes from a doctor
that I really, really liked, where

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she talked about how all day long.

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So this is the general
concept of decision fatigue.

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It's the more decisions that
you have to make in the day.

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As the day goes on and on, it
becomes harder and harder or more

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exhausting to keep up the same
high quality decision making.

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Like that's, that's the general idea.

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And um, and actually in our day
and age, we have to make more

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decisions than ever before.

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But not only that, we have on another
layer on top of that, we have the mass

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amounts of constant information coming in.

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We constantly are picking up our phones
and jumping on, you know, social media.

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We can pull up any
information at any time.

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We just have this constant like
hookup right into like this, this

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mass amount of just information being
downloaded all the time and, and

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that's wonderful, but it's also not

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so, I mean, think about it right now.

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If you go to a store and you have to
wait in line even for two minutes,

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how fast do you pull out your
phone and pull up social media?

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So it's almost like our, our brain
doesn't have a ton of time where

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we're having, what my husband calls
is none thoughts, just none thoughts.

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You're not trying to solve life problems.

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You're not, you're just
enjoying the quiet and the calm.

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Of none thoughts, of just like nothing.

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Right?

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It's actually why I love weeding so
much, and I love working in my yard.

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I don't listen to audio books.

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I choose consciously make the choice,
do not listen to anything, and I'm not

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even thinking a whole lot about any.

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Once in a while I'll, I'll have
something that's weighing on my mind

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and I'll, I'll think through it.

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Last Saturday I spent probably
six hours in my yard just enjoying

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being there and beautifying it.

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And we don't have a ton
of time like that anymore.

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Those who have discovered, um, meditation.

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Understand this because meditation
is actually allowing thoughts to

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come in and kind of guiding 'em out.

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It's, it's learning to live in this
non-thought stage where we're sitting

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there just, and, and thoughts are
gonna come in, but we show them out.

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I think it's one of the greatest tools
that people can utilize, especially

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in our day and age where we are
inundated constantly with information,

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is we need to find that time and
space, but majority of us don't.

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We don't actively look for that, and
you have to actively look for it Now.

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You do.

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You have to be.

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You have to intentionally seek it out
because so many of us are on autopilot

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where if we sit down for one second,
we pull out our phone, watch it.

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Keep a close eye on how often
you are taking in information.

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I'm gonna share.

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This is kind of a sidetrack with you guys,
but I've actually been thinking about

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how horrible I am at time management and
energy management and mental management.

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Like I've been thinking about how horrible
I am at this, and the thought came to

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me, um, that, you know, I always say I,
I just don't have enough time where I

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spend so much time doing this or that.

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But the truth is, when was the last
time I wrote and kept track of.

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Everything I'm doing
every minute of the day.

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You know, oftentimes people come
to me and they say, well, I'm

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eating this and this and this.

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How do you know?

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Are you tracking it?

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Well, no.

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But then you don't know.

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Then you actually don't know why,
because we as human beings are horrible.

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We are horrible at keeping track of
these things, and the thought came to

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me, I, I say that so often about food.

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But we're actually really, really
horrible at time management too.

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Like we make these things,
oh, I can't, I can't go to the

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gym because I don't have time.

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But yet you get sucked into the black
hole of TikTok and reels for two hours

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or for an hour, but you don't have time.

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Like really?

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We are horrible at it and, and I will
be the first to tell you I am horrible

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at guessing how much I do with my time.

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I listen to my kids, tell me what they
do all day long and I'm like, you did

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that for two minutes, not two hours.

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You weren't cleaning your, my favorite
was I told my daughter, Hazel, I'm

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setting the timer for 15 minutes.

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Go into your room and clean
until the timer goes off.

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She went in and she came out and she goes.

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The timer had to have gone off.

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I've been in there for a half an hour
and I, you guys, I've out died laughing.

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I looked at, I looked at the clock.

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Six minutes had passed.

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Six minutes, okay.

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I'm just like, do you know what I can
think I'm so much better than my daughter,

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than my 9-year-old, but I'm actually not.

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I'm horrible at guesstimating
these things too.

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We just really are.

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So I just kind of want to make
you a little aware of where are

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we spending our mental energy.

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So I actually think that decision
fatigue in our modern day is real.

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Now we do have some people who say it's
not, and they're very adamant about it.

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Um, I believe that with
the additional layer.

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Of information constantly coming in.

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That, to be honest, we choose 'cause
we're the ones who pull out our phones.

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Looking at social media, have to be,
I, I have that problem, I have this,

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I have to constantly be doing or
thinking or I, I'm constantly searching

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out for, you know, information too.

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Uh, when I get tired, I just wanna.

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Pull out my phone and go through
reels and laugh at cat videos.

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I'm so guilty of this too.

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But decision fatigue in
my opinion is very real.

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And it's interesting this doctor was
talking about how there are actual

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symptoms that she is seen that
those who,  , experience decision

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fatigue will actually have more
experience feeling physically tired.

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And even experiencing more brain fog.

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Now, like I said, I do
believe it's these two layers.

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I believe nowadays we are making more
decisions than ever, but on top of

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that, exasperating the issue is the
fact that we're constantly taking

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in information and we're not letting
ourselves have this peace and this, this

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mental, none thoughts, this mental rest.

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Right?

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So as we go on throughout the
day and we're adding more and

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more and more decisions, like,
well, am I gonna go to the gym?

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When am I gonna go to the gym?

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What am I going to eat?

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It's another day tracking.

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I'm gonna track, I'm gonna monitor,
but what am I going to eat?

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Right?

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It we, we layer on more and
more and more decisions.

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So let's learn from.

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Steve Jobs, we don't have to
wear the same outfit every day.

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Right?

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Pick and choose which decisions do you
want to help alleviate more, and which

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maybe it's, maybe you're not gonna be
like my husband Alex, and go out and

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buy this exact shirt, but how can we,
how can we take that same principle

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and actually not allow it to affect.

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Goals because I do believe that
decision fatigue does begin to wear,

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especially at the nutrition side when
we are working towards fitness goals.

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So I'm gonna share two
things that we can do.

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One is we can get enough sleep because
there is a direct correlation with

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our ability to make um, decisions.

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And the amount of sleep
that we are getting.

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So they used to say, well, seven to
eight hours of sleep is what you need.

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I really appreciated recently
when a new study was done saying,

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Hey, that was done on all men.

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Let's do one for women.

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Let's see what's optimal for women.

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And they actually found it was higher.

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On average, it was an hour
or two more is needed.

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So it's now no longer seven and eight
for women, we're looking closer.

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It could be to, you know, eight to 10.

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Depending on the quality of sleep,
they even, they even said, and if

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you're on your period, you might
wanna throw on one more hour.

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I'm like, well, wouldn't that be great?

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Sleeping?

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Sleeping 11 hours a night?

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That would be wonderful.

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Maybe not practical, but
as much as you wanna say.

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Well, I just can't get more than six
hours and sleep six hours is fine for me.

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Well, not only do we have studies showing
that four in six hours actually perform

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relatively similar, and they are all lower
than the performance, and I'm talking

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about mental and physical of a woman
who is getting anywhere between eight

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to 10 hours and immediately somebody's
gonna say, well, I can't do that.

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I can't do that.

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And you know, if you are breastfeeding
throughout the night, I get it.

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I 100% get that.

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But for the rest of y'all I am,
I'm not so sure that we cannot do

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something to actively help us get
to better or get to bed sooner.

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Maybe instead of sitting in bed
and looking at reels for an hour

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or watching a movie or thinking,
no, I need that to put me to sleep.

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Well, it actually prevents you
from sleeping deeply and we can

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get an additional hour even if
you can just add, we really can.

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When we step back and we look
at our schedule and we see,

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oh, the reason why my kids.

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Aren't getting to bed until nine or
10 is because I haven't started their

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sleep schedule until around 8 39.

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Or the reason why we start taking
ownership and we start looking and

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realizing, do you know I can, there
are ways I can even tell my family

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this is a priority for me right now.

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I really need this sleep.

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We, as a family, need
to change some things.

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Uh, oftentimes I feel like people try
to go at these, these new changes just

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alone, and they don't include their
family in the process or even their

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husband or, um, significant other,
just saying like, this is what I need.

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This is what I need from
you to help me, please.

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We're we, no, we'll just do it on our own.

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And then we get upset when nobody wants to
support us, but we never really asked them

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and we never really included them, and
then we just end up building resentment

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and being frustrated and blaming them.

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I do think mass ownership of our
lives, we, we, we all have an

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opportunity to grow in that area.

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Sleep.

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Uh, not only affects decision making,
but we have literally have studies

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showing that those who increase
their sleep were able to one more

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easily sit in a calorie deficit.

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We also have studies showing that
when they sat in a calorie deficit.

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Compared to others who were getting
lower sleep at the same calorie

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deficit, they saw more fat loss.

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Those that, that even when the,
the calorie deficit was equated,

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those that got more sleep, their body
actually was able to lose more body fat.

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Do not forget how.

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Huge.

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Sleep is the other thing.

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So we have sleep.

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The other thing is reducing the
amount of decisions around food.

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You don't want to just try to wing it.

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You don't wake up in the morning, oh,
what am I gonna have for breakfast today?

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Even though you're putting it in your
tracker, no, we want to reduce that.

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We have to streamline your days.

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We have to make things more habitual.

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I am literally convinced through
coaching hundreds of women that those

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who streamline their foods and actually.

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Eat relatively the same thing for
breakfast, lunch and snack a day.

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More easily sit and stay in a calorie
deficit or even more easily maintain body

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con composition post dieting, phase two.

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So how do we do this?

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Let's talk about a few this, a few.

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I've, I've, I've shared this a few times.

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For breakfast, lunch, and snack.

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I usually have one to three options
that I just are my go-to foods.

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So if you looked at what I ate last week,
in fact, sometimes people are like, you

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need to show every day what you're eating.

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And I'm like, I will bore you
to death because every day

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I'm eating the same thing.

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It's only dinner that changes.

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Like that's, that's really it.

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So I, I started posting
and for a week I did it.

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And a week it was like, people
are like, you eat the same thing.

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How do you eat the same thing?

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I'll tell you how I eat the same thing.

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I actually like what I eat.

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That's the difference when, when
you don't like your quote unquote

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diet food for breakfast, you're
not gonna have it on rotation.

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You're not gonna keep it.

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And I've shared this story so many times
before when I would onboard clients

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and I'd say, tell me what you eat.

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And they would always
say, well, in a diet.

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I eat and then they tell me some food.

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That honestly kind of sounded gross to
me, and I'm like, oh, do you enjoy that?

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Well, it works for a diet, so you're
not going to eat that at maintenance?

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Well, no.

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Okay, then right there, red
flags, that's a problem.

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You have not learned.

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The lifestyle you're not gonna maintain.

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Have you ever maintained
Well, I can lose weight.

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Easy.

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Yes, you're right because
you, you have grit.

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You can grit yourself through those
gross breakfasts and lunch and snacks,

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but you have yet to learn the lifestyle.

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So if we can streamline this, it
will actually reduce decision fatigue

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and you will be able to make better
decisions, especially at night.

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You're usually tired at night,
and that's usually when people

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start making poor decisions.

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So if we can streamline this, we
can save some of that energy for

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night, making better decisions.

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But also if you are genuinely eating
enough for breakfast, lunch, and

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snack, and you're not just ravenous
and starving yourself throughout

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the day, just let me just drink a.

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Protein shake, eat a protein bar,
nibble and eat like a bird all day.

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And then at nighttime, wonder why I
sit and binge on all of the cookies.

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It's because you haven't streamlined,
you haven't made this lifestyle.

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So this is what I often tell people.

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'cause a, a lot of times it's,
it's the question, well, how

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do you eat the same thing?

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Because I genuinely love my foods and in
my membership site I share my recipes.

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And I was so excited, uh, to get
a review at just last, uh, well, I

00:25:41.102 --> 00:25:47.307
guess it was two weeks ago when I
shared, um, this month's maze, uh, new

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recipes for breakfast, lunch, snack.

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And I, I, I'll also share a few
dinners So one woman said that this

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has changed her family's food culture.

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I was super excited about that.

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Another woman said, um, this
was under one of my recipes.

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She said, again, another gem.

00:26:03.677 --> 00:26:06.077
This month these recipes
are helping me so much.

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Someone who, from somebody who
doesn't even know how to cook.

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Lindsay, you're amazing and a gift.

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And it's just, it really is just
finding these yummy recipes.

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So one, they can be on repeat
because they're actually good.

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They're high protein, around
25 to 30 grams of protein.

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They're nutrient dense.

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They're genuinely yummy.

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And so you want to put them on repeat
and then oftentimes people will say,

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well, don't you get bored eating
the same exact thing every day?

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Yeah, I do.

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So this is why I usually have a rotation.

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I usually have two to three options.

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And this, this leads to the the third
that people are always like, well,

00:26:45.922 --> 00:26:49.642
what if I wake up in the morning and
I don't want what I wrote down the

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day before that I'm going to eat?

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Well, that's why I have
two to three options.

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Of these yummy breakfasts.

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So for example, this month,
um, this has been my rotation.

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One, I have my protein packed
pancakes that I absolutely love.

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Absolutely they have real syrup on
it because when you know how to cook,

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um, and make recipes that are high
protein, but lower calorie, then you

00:27:18.442 --> 00:27:24.412
can include things like real syrup
instead of some gross tasting nasty.

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It doesn't even taste like syrup, but
you're in a diet so you feel like you

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have to, and sometimes those sugar free
options can even give you gas issues,

00:27:33.607 --> 00:27:36.967
but you just feel like, well, I have
to eat, I have to deal with these GI

00:27:36.967 --> 00:27:39.937
issues now because I need to lose weight.

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No, you don't.

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You need to learn how to cook.

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You need to learn these recipes.

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Um, and then I have.

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Just coat 'em with strawberries that
I absolutely love and I eat it up.

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I make the same exact pancakes for
my, my kids and they love them.

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They have no clue how full of protein
they are, and I can cut up strawberries

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and add real syrup to 'em, and
they're literally eating the same

00:28:07.367 --> 00:28:09.047
thing that I'm eating for breakfast.

00:28:09.052 --> 00:28:09.497
I love it.

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So that has been on rotation for me.

00:28:13.067 --> 00:28:15.707
My oatmeal has been on rotation for me.

00:28:16.387 --> 00:28:20.137
And then, um, I also figured
out how to make, I really loved

00:28:20.137 --> 00:28:22.537
McDonald's the sausage McGriddle.

00:28:23.287 --> 00:28:29.167
Well, I figured out how to make one
with like 30 some grams of protein that

00:28:29.257 --> 00:28:35.287
taste absolutely amazing, that are low
calorie, like under, um, 400 calories.

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And they fill me up and I
usually put a side of fruit

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with it that I absolutely love.

00:28:41.137 --> 00:28:42.337
So that's been my rotation.

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So every day I wake up and I can choose
from those that I really, really love.

00:28:48.397 --> 00:28:52.747
And then my snack has been,
it looks like a dessert.

00:28:53.197 --> 00:28:55.447
This is, this is one that I love so much.

00:28:55.987 --> 00:28:58.927
I've literally been eating
it for two weeks in a row.

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And likewise, those on my, uh,
community who have found this one,

00:29:04.602 --> 00:29:06.067
they're like, this is amazing.

00:29:06.397 --> 00:29:12.097
It tastes like I'm eating a cheesecake
for my snack, and it's high protein.

00:29:12.427 --> 00:29:14.017
I just absolutely love it.

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Um.

00:29:15.172 --> 00:29:15.952
Lunches.

00:29:15.952 --> 00:29:19.282
I either have leftover dinner
from the night before, so I

00:29:19.282 --> 00:29:20.752
have some variation there.

00:29:21.202 --> 00:29:27.472
Or on this month's rotation, there
is this amazing, amazing chicken

00:29:27.802 --> 00:29:30.172
salad sandwich that's high protein.

00:29:30.687 --> 00:29:30.807
I.

00:29:30.807 --> 00:29:34.797
I tell you guys, it's the fresh
dill, the fresh dill, and the fresh

00:29:34.797 --> 00:29:40.887
squeezed lemon on it that make
this recipe absolutely amazing.

00:29:40.887 --> 00:29:44.997
I even had a, a woman say that her,
um, it's better than her mom's.

00:29:45.387 --> 00:29:46.767
This is the, the chicken.

00:29:47.157 --> 00:29:50.667
Salad sandwich that has like
the grapes in it, the celery.

00:29:50.967 --> 00:29:53.397
And she said, this is
better than my mom's.

00:29:53.397 --> 00:29:54.807
And my mom's has been my favorite.

00:29:54.807 --> 00:29:57.177
And it's full of tons of
fat where this one's not.

00:29:57.327 --> 00:30:02.667
But anyways, so the whole thing is
putting it on rotation, but you have

00:30:02.667 --> 00:30:07.227
to genuinely love your meals, but
it will actually reduce the amount

00:30:07.227 --> 00:30:09.117
of decisions that you have to make.

00:30:09.237 --> 00:30:13.317
And then let's talk really quickly
around, uh, activity in the gym.

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You have to make the decision.

00:30:18.322 --> 00:30:22.912
You Sunday night look at your schedule
and say, these are the three days I

00:30:22.912 --> 00:30:26.332
go to the gym, or these are the four
days that I go to the gym and the

00:30:26.332 --> 00:30:28.972
decision is made the night before.

00:30:28.972 --> 00:30:31.372
You don't have to ec
decide and don't try to.

00:30:31.732 --> 00:30:35.842
Some people are like, well, uh,
do I really wanna go to the gym?

00:30:35.842 --> 00:30:37.372
No, the decision has been made.

00:30:37.582 --> 00:30:42.622
Now you are increasing decision fatigue
because you're trying to remake decisions.

00:30:43.357 --> 00:30:51.757
That's another layer to this is that when
you decide, and you are all in, you are

00:30:51.757 --> 00:30:58.687
a hundred percent in, did you know it's
actually way easier than being 70% in, or

00:30:58.687 --> 00:31:06.817
60% in, because 60 or 70% in, you have to
remake the decision over and over again.

00:31:07.417 --> 00:31:09.217
I don't know if I wanna go to the gym.

00:31:09.247 --> 00:31:09.547
No.

00:31:09.592 --> 00:31:11.257
The, the decision has been made.

00:31:13.162 --> 00:31:21.442
The moment you decided that, and, and this
is another thing, your decisions should

00:31:21.442 --> 00:31:32.692
actually line up and be about the person
that you are or the person you want to be.

00:31:34.942 --> 00:31:39.832
The if you are like, I
am going, I am somebody.

00:31:40.657 --> 00:31:44.947
Who goes to the gym, don't have
it about the person you were.

00:31:45.487 --> 00:31:48.517
It's now about the person you are.

00:31:49.207 --> 00:31:51.517
You are changing your identity.

00:31:51.907 --> 00:31:55.687
You are now somebody who goes to
the gym three times a week or four

00:31:55.687 --> 00:31:56.977
times a week, or five times a week.

00:31:57.367 --> 00:31:59.647
That's just who you are.

00:31:59.917 --> 00:32:02.347
That is your identity.

00:32:03.517 --> 00:32:08.887
When it's your identity, the
decision is already made for you.

00:32:10.177 --> 00:32:13.867
So that's how you know if you
are a hundred percent in it's

00:32:13.867 --> 00:32:16.117
about identity and who you are.

00:32:16.417 --> 00:32:21.487
If you're 60% in, it's
based off of who you were.

00:32:22.057 --> 00:32:25.117
Well, I don't know if I, I, I
don't know if I have time for it.

00:32:25.117 --> 00:32:26.107
No, you, you do.

00:32:26.377 --> 00:32:27.637
This is who you are.

00:32:29.107 --> 00:32:32.677
But if, if it's all about who you were,
then you have to make the decision

00:32:33.007 --> 00:32:36.547
over and over and over again and that.

00:32:37.507 --> 00:32:39.037
Is exhausting.

00:32:40.777 --> 00:32:44.017
Okay, so hopefully this has helped.

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I'm just gonna recap really fast.

00:32:47.047 --> 00:32:49.357
We make 2000 decisions every single hour.

00:32:49.597 --> 00:32:50.677
Let's reduce those.

00:32:51.277 --> 00:32:57.752
We we can help in our decision making
by getting enough sleep and also by

00:32:58.192 --> 00:33:04.027
streamlining our day, making less
decisions is what we're going for.

00:33:04.747 --> 00:33:11.737
So if you just have on rotation,
your usual breakfast, lunch, snack,

00:33:11.917 --> 00:33:17.257
those are all less decisions that
you have to make every single day.

00:33:17.407 --> 00:33:23.527
When you streamline those decisions, when
they are habitual, it's just what you do.

00:33:23.977 --> 00:33:26.047
It's just who you are.

00:33:26.902 --> 00:33:32.662
You will not find the process of
this creating this new health and

00:33:32.662 --> 00:33:35.062
fitness lifestyle, exhausting.

00:33:36.532 --> 00:33:40.612
It will actually help you stay on track.

00:33:40.612 --> 00:33:48.652
You won't be needing constant motivation
because everything is streamlined.

00:33:48.902 --> 00:33:50.252
Okay, so this is what you're gonna do.

00:33:50.822 --> 00:33:53.162
You're gonna have a planning day
where you show up for yourself.

00:33:53.312 --> 00:33:56.402
I usually do this on Monday because
that's my grocery shopping day.

00:33:57.272 --> 00:34:01.952
And what I'm gonna do is I, I write
at the top, 'cause I, I'm such a paper

00:34:01.952 --> 00:34:03.602
person, I have to write everything out.

00:34:04.442 --> 00:34:09.662
I usually write at the top, my, my
breakfast for the week, my lunch for

00:34:09.662 --> 00:34:12.062
the week, and my snack for the week.

00:34:12.677 --> 00:34:16.997
That I'm just going to eat and,
and then I write down on the

00:34:16.997 --> 00:34:18.887
side groceries that I need.

00:34:18.917 --> 00:34:24.437
Actually, I usually just put it in,
uh, I have the Walmart app where it

00:34:24.437 --> 00:34:27.527
does all the grocery shopping for me,
and then it just shows up at my door

00:34:27.527 --> 00:34:29.627
later that day to make my life easier.

00:34:30.437 --> 00:34:31.547
So that's what I do.

00:34:31.787 --> 00:34:37.037
And then Monday, you know,
through Sunday, I write down what

00:34:37.037 --> 00:34:38.807
we're going to have for dinner.

00:34:39.782 --> 00:34:47.762
And I pull up some of my favorite, uh,
recipes, um, or I, I search up new ones

00:34:47.762 --> 00:34:51.962
from people who already have the macros
figured out, which is really, really

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nice, like macro friendly foods, or
Lilly Eats and tells things like that.

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Um, and then I write down about four
recipes that I'm gonna make that week.

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And then I have, um, I.

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Usually on Friday,
that's pizza day for us.

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And then the other two are just
leftover days or they're fast meal days.

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So that's what I do to just put things on
rotation, make things super, super simple.