Wife Approved with Shane & Caroline

This week we’re talking double standards between men and women—and apparently trying to start a fight in our own marriage while we’re at it.
Who should make the first move? Should the man always pay for the date? Is it weird to have a best friend of the opposite sex when you’re married? Why can women turn down sex without anyone thinking twice, but when a husband does it once his wife immediately wonders what’s wrong?

Then we get into who’s supposed to provide, stay-at-home dads vs. stay-at-home moms, girls trips and guys trips, spending $2,000 on golf clubs vs. a purse, dads getting praised for basic parenting, and the never-ending argument over cooking, laundry, yard work, and the dreaded honey-do list. That part gets a little personal. 😂

We definitely don’t agree on all of these, and we’re not trying to tell anybody how their relationship should work. We’re just saying what works—or occasionally does not work—for us.

Also, somehow we made it to Episode 51 and officially passed one year of the Wife Approved Podcast. We’re still here. Somehow.
Let us know which double standards you think are actually real, which ones are BS, and which ones we completely missed.

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CHAPTERS
0:00 — Welcome to the Wife Approved Podcast!
1:07 — The Massage Double Standard
6:46 — Dating Rules: First Moves & Who Pays
13:46 — Looks, Money & Dating Standards
20:16 — Age Gaps & Body Counts
25:53 — Sex & Marriage Double Standards
29:11 — Opposite-Sex Friends, Flirting & Trust
40:10 — Girls Trips, Guys Trips & Taking a Break
44:02 — Who’s Supposed to Provide?
48:24 — Spending Money: Golf Clubs vs. Purses
50:33 — Parenting, Chores & the Honey-Do List
1:04:04 — Assertive Women vs. Confident Men
1:07:07 — Why Men Struggle to Open Up
1:09:53 — One Year of Wife Approved

What is Wife Approved with Shane & Caroline?

Marriage. Family. Tech that sometimes works.
Welcome to Wife Approved — a podcast from Shane & Caroline Whatley that gives you a real look inside their smart home and family life. One’s a tech-obsessed YouTuber. The other just wants the lights to turn on without yelling at Siri. From parenting chaos and marriage laughs to automations that cause more fights than fixes, this show is all about finding the humor (and help) in everyday life with tech. Real talk. Real marriage. Mostly functional Wi-Fi.