Circling The Drain

In this episode, country artist and hit songwriter Deborah Allen joins the Three J’s for a warm, funny, and deeply personal conversation.
Deborah shares:

  • The story and long tail of her signature hit “Baby I Lied”
  • Early days at Opryland, touring Russia with Tennessee Ernie Ford, and how Shel Silverstein nudged her into songwriting
  • Growing up in Memphis around the sounds of Elvis, Jerry Lee Lewis, Willie Mitchell, Al Green, and the Hodges brothers
  • How she wound up sleeping on Elvis’ tour bus and later cutting pioneering overdub duets with Jim Reeves as “The Mystery Girl”
  • Getting a brand-new song from Prince after a brief meeting at Sunset Sound
  • A major health scare, surgery at Vanderbilt with Dr. James Netterville, and why she says “the devil’s not stealing my smile”
  • Celebrating her mom’s 100th birthday, her mom’s younger boyfriend Ed, and the belief that every person you meet is a gift


Highlights & Timestamps

  • 0:40 – Introduction to Deborah & “Baby I Lied” on country, pop, and AC radio
  • 7:35 – Opryland, Tennessee Ernie Ford, Russia tour & meeting Shel Silverstein
  • 12:19 – Memphis influences: Elvis, Jerry Lee Lewis, Willie Mitchell, Al Green
  • 18:39 – Elvis’ bus at her parents’ shop & “I slept in Elvis’ bed”
  • 23:10 – Overdubbing duets with Jim Reeves & the “Mystery Girl” campaign
  • 29:30 – Pushing for her own songs at MCA & “Don’t Worry ’Bout Me Baby”
  • 34:56 – Writing hits for others: Patty Loveless and “Hurt Me Bad (In a Real Good Way)”
  • 35:06 – Prince writes her a song as Joey Coco after a Sunset Sound encounter
  • 41:33 – Her mom at 100, Ed’s nightly visits, and Opry birthday roses
  • 50:12 – Metastatic carcinoma scare, holistic support, and successful surgery
  • 1:01:22 – How old friendships (doctors, musicians, neighbors) ended up saving her


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What is Circling The Drain ?

Circling The Drain is a show about the current state of the music and radio businesses as well as culture in general!

Hosted by John E. Bozeman and Jay Harper along with Jim McCarthy as Co-Host/Executive Producer.

John has had a storied career in music and talk radio, most notably as the Executive Producer for the late and legendary Phil Valentine.

Jay also has has a long career in radio as Announcer, Play-by-Play, Voice and On-Camera Actor. He was also an Artist Rep for MCA records.

Jim McCarthy ALSO has had a tremendous career in radio since 1996 and has since brought his consulting/producing skillset to the podcast world.

Circling the Drain is produced by ItsYourShow.co

Unknown: My wife this morning,
when I was coming in, she said,

You know, I love Deborah Allen,
really? Yeah, she, she, you

know. And I think that's, that's
the that's, and I hope this,

this doesn't, I hope I don't
turn you off here, but to me,

you remind me of like Dolly
Parton. You've got a great

personality. Thank you. You are
you? And as she put it, she

said, she is so pretty. And I
said, Well, honey, she's pretty,

but not as pretty as you are.
And she said, Oh yes, she is.

She's pretty.

And you said, My wife loves you,
as I was thinking to myself,

well, then I already love her.

Welcome to a podcast about music
and entertainment before it all

goes down, circling the drain.
This is circling the drain. We

are off to the races.

Hey, welcome back to circling
the drain. You know me, John E

Bozeman, known as Johnny B and
of course, you got the three

J's. One of them is Jay Harper.

That would be me. Hello, Johnny
B and I'm gonna toss it to the

third J. That would be the
producer extraordinaire. Jim

McCarthy, thank you very much.

Sometimes known as Chris,
sometimes. And we have a special

guest in here, special guest
deluding the ugly in this room,

ladies and gentlemen. And she,
you know, her from from RCA

Records, she had a great big hit
called baby. I lied. Yeah, we're

gonna be talking about that.
Yes, we are, because we have a

great story on that. But she's
done so much more. You know, it

would take me the entire podcast
to tell you everything she's

done. We'll let her tell us. But
Deborah Allen, welcome to

circling the drain.

I am so excited to be here
circling the drain with y'all.

Well, we're excited as well. In
fact, I was excited because what

brought this all on was that you
met up with Jay Harper at the

Josie awards.

I did. Gosh, fate stepped in
again.

Yeah, I suppose so. You know,
I've told the story, I believe,

perhaps on the podcast, but I
know certainly online. You know,

an old radio dog met Deborah
back in 1983 when she was making

the radio tours, as artists were
prone to do back then. Don't

know if they're doing that
anymore, but going out and

meeting radio and promoting
their music. And Deborah and her

RCA record rep at the time, a
guy named Jack Weston had came

to the station where I was
working. I was music director at

a Billboard R and R reporter,
and anyway, she was so sweet, so

kind, took us to lunch. And I've
always, you know, I've met a lot

of artists over the years,
working at MCA and all that, but

Deborah has always been one that
has stuck in my mind about being

so kind and so talented. And
yes, it's a real treat to see

you again, and but it but it
kills me, you look just like you

did 42 years ago. How do you

do that? Oh, man, I'll tell you
what. I wish I had $100 I'd give

it to you. Thank you so much.
Well, it was such a pleasure to

run into you again. It's such a
sweet surprise. I loved it. And

you know, I guess you were
pretty lucky that we took, well,

maybe not lucky we I guess we
were all pretty lucky. Weston

took us to lunch that day. Most
of the time we brought pizza.

Well, you know us radio guys, we
wouldn't have minded that

either. No, we take the pizza.
Yeah, yeah. But no, you know you

were out promoting your what?
Well, your album, but also the

hit from 1983 got to number four
on the Billboard chart and

crossed over to pop. That's
correct, baby. I lied, which

still gets played. I mean, I'm,
you know, on WSM FM, I'm on

Westwood one, and I'm on some
other stations, and we still

play baby I lied. I mean, it's
just that had to be a career

changing release for you.

It truly was. It's still my
signature song, and I'm so

fortunate that my signature song
is actually a song that I like.

You know, a lot of artists, I
know they'll go, I gotta sing

that again, but I'm always, I
love to sing that song. But

yeah, at RCA, Joe Galante said,
you know, Promotion Department

and radio is calling this the
record that won't go away. And I

said, Well, that's okay with me.

Well, it made my because I was
working in Birmingham at the

time, yeah, and I was familiar
with Deborah because she had

done the Jim Reeves. I know I
was going to whisper about that

story. And you also had another
album that I love, the album

cover, Trouble in paradise.

In paradise. Trouble in
paradise. Let's see. Trouble in

paradise came, I think just
after the Jim Reeves duet, yes,

yeah. I think they were so close
it was hard to tell which one

came first. It was my first
album, though,

especially with my memory. You
know,

it's a little frosty. But
anyway, I was working in

Birmingham, and we had this
chain of radio stations, and

they never really let us jump on
records, yeah, and so I had to

call the home office and. And
Baby, I lied. Came through. I

flipped out, because I thought,
Man, this thing's gonna be huge.

Wow. And thank you. I really, I
got in an argument because they

were saying, No, you can't jump
on it. I said, I want to play it

right now. I said, I don't want
to wait. Because I said, this

record, I told them. I said, the
record is going to be huge. I

said, I guarantee you this thing
is going to cross over too. And

they thought I was crazy. I
mean, they one thing they had 10

years sometimes that happens in
radio. But I was so pleased when

the record started. Oh, I mean
it, and you made me a hero. So I

have to really thank you. Well,
I'd

say you made you were the one,
one of the ones that made me a

hero, too, by playing it. You
know, there was one, one

holdout. I think it was
somewhere. I think it was either

Memphis or Texas, and I had to
call them up. And the guy's

name, I think it was Steve, and
the record label had me call him

up, and he says, You're not
playing it. They need to play

it. So I called up. They were
all happy to hear from me. And I

said, Why? Why are you not
playing baby? Out Loud,

everybody else in the country's
playing it. He goes, Well, you

know, Deborah, it's just not
country. I said, you know? He

said, You know that part where
you go, baby, baby, baby. I

said, there's nothing more
country than babies. Yeah.

Especially, man is my favorite
part of the song

they started playing tail end.
Oh, yeah. And you know what,

really but, you know, I have one
beef with RCA, or whoever, at

the very end of the record,
where it's fading out, you hit a

high note, they faded it, yeah,
because when I would play it on

the air, I would just pop it up.

You know what? When I sing that
note, and when I sang it, I

remember, in that studio go, I'm
gonna reel in my Ronnie Millsap.

That's what inspired me. Well,

it was very I was only I was
angry with the record label over

that. I was like, I about want
to call him up and say, put it

out and put out a different
version where you can hear that

faded long. Yeah, wow. That's
great. Thank you. Wow. Yeah,

those are some good times. I
enjoyed it so much. And right

around that same time, I was
going to the pop radio stations

too, and all over the country,
and it was so much fun because

the Eurythmics were just coming
out, and they'd go in, they'd

play the Eurythmics, and I'd go,
I love that song. That song is

so cool. And then they'd play my
records, and, you know, started

taking off too. Yeah, it was on
the pop on the hot 100 pop

charts got way up the charts
there, and the AC chart and the

country charts. So I think
that's one reason why they

called it the record that
wouldn't go away.

Yeah, just wouldn't. Just
wouldn't, still doesn't really,

well, you know the when you came
to Nashville, I mean, did you

come here as a looking for just
to be a songwriter. Because, you

know, I definitely want to talk
about that. I mean, your

songwriting credits are pretty,
pretty impressive. But did you

want to be both an artist and a
songwriter? I mean, what was

your goal coming here?

No, actually, not. I really came
here to to be a singer. That's

what I wanted to be. And, you
know, I used to when I was a

kid, I'd walk through the
neighborhood singing. I'd always

pick the saddest song to walk to
my girlfriend's house, you know,

just going, Oh, like that. And
but I moved to Nashville, I

really wanted to be a singer,
but I I had worked at Opryland,

and had just gotten back from a
State Department tour with

Opryland, with Tennessee, Ernie
Ford, we went to Russia. Oh,

wow, yeah, yeah. We went to five
places within Russia. It was,

let's see Leningrad, Tbilisi,
Baku, yudovan and Moscow. And we

did a TV show while we were
there on Opryland type thing.

And I loved Opryland so much.
And actually, that's when I

first got to be on the opry
stage. Was when we were doing

that show with Tennessee Ernie
Ford. I loved him so much. He

was so wonderful. And but I just
felt like I didn't want to stay

at Opryland, because, you know,
I don't think, I don't know if

it was the best wisdom to pass
along to any new artist starting

out, but as something in me
said, If you keep getting used

to this regular paycheck, you're
not ever going to get out there

and take the kind of risk that
you need to take to become more

so that's when I kind of broke
out and started doing that. And

then I wound up singing at the
happy hour at the spins manager

man the Spence Manor on Music
Row and and I was also hanging

out at whale and Jennings
office, where my best friend

was. Her name was Marie Barrett,

and you had shelf Silverstein
there. Did you?

Yes, I did. That's what I was
about to say. There were all

kinds of characters that came
through there, John Hartford,

who wound up Mary, Marie, but
then shell came through, and I

said, Hey, would you come hear
me sing at the Spence manner? I

do the happy hour there. And he
goes, Yeah, I'll come. He kind

of talks like that. He looks
like a pirate. And so. He does.

He showed up, you know, and I
sang, and I sat down beside him,

and he said, you ever thought
about writing No. First he said,

You got really good voice. And I
was like, oh boy, I'm getting

ready to get discovered, you
know. But then he said, Have you

ever thought about writing
songs? And I said, Well, no, you

know, I've written poems, few
poems in high school, but never

thought about writing songs. He
goes, I think I don't think

about writing songs, you know, a
song you could write your own

direction. And he goes, a song,
something you can keep forever.

And then he said, you know, it
the sun doesn't shine on the

same dog's back every day. And
that kind of stuck with me,

because I knew he meant you
can't have a number one hit

every day. So I said, Well, I
tell you what, I'll go try and

bring you back a couple of
things. And if it, if you think

I've got potential, I'll do it.
So I wound up writing a couple

of acapella songs, and I went
back to him and I sang them and

to him, and he goes, I think he
got away with words, you do? He

said, Yeah. And so I thought,
Okay. So then I was heading up

to Hot Springs, Arkansas,
because my parents, they were

automobile upholsterers, but
they had retired, and they had

bought some lots, and they were
building a couple of houses up

there. So I walked in, one of
them that they had almost

completed. My mother was in the
kitchen. I walked in and she was

standing there, kind of washing
the dishes. She goes, Well, Deb

sugar, what are you up to these
days? And I said, Oh, I'm a

songwriter. This is that simple
shell. Silverstein said, I ought

to think about it, and that I
had a way with words. So I went,

Okay, if Shel Silverstein thinks
it, then I guess I'm a

songwriter.

Yeah, that would be a,
certainly, a

somebody that you would
certainly trust to tell you the

truth, right?

Yeah. And so, I guess the short
answer to your question was, I

thought I was going to be like a
strolling singer, you know, like

a Reba McIntyre or someone like
that. And I still do stroll and

sing a lot, but I had, I had no
idea that I was going to, you

know, ask so much of myself,
which I'm glad I did, because I

didn't even know I had it in me,
you know, learn to play guitar,

brush up on my piano, start
writing songs, and, you know,

it's just been a good life, you
know, it's been an adventurous

life, And the adventure
continues.

Well, you came from Memphis.
What? What kind of me who

inspired you when you were
coming up in Memphis? Who are

your some of your heroes?

Well, of course, we all love
Elvis. That's right, baby.

And every time, every time I
think about it, my lip kind of

curls, the Big E baby. Oh, Jim
had pretty good Elvis over there

this morning too, didn't he?
Yeah, I loved Elvis. But, you

know, I like Jerry Lee Lewis. I
liked, I liked all kinds of

people. I liked country music
too. My, my daddy used to like

to watch the country things, you
know, but then on the way to

school in high school, that we
were always playing rock and

roll and pop the, you know, hot
100 and then I would listen to W

dia, the R B station. I remember
one time in the car with my

girlfriend some song, some great
song, came on the radio. I go,

man, I love that. What is that?
And they go, it's the number one

song, Debra. Look, if you if you
didn't listen to W dia all day

long, you might know what's a
hit. I mean, I've just always

gravitated to a lot of different
styles, but just like great

music and so Oh, Willie
Mitchell. Willie Mitchell, you

know, Al Green, yeah, I loved
all of that. Willie Mitchell was

actually, he worked at this
place called Farber brothers,

which was a automobile
upholstery. They made seat

covers, but they were prefab. My
parents did custom work, and so

sometimes, occasionally they'd
get a customer who wanted a

prefab thing, you know, so my
daddy would call Willie Mitchell

down there at Farber brothers,
and you'd deliver them, and he'd

always say, I'm telling you, Mr.
Thurman, I'm gonna make it

someday. And so he, you know,
and he did. He produced all that

early I can Tina Turner stuff.
He produced Al Green, and then,

but back then he used to have
this club you played at with his

band. Willie played trumpet. And
so he, he said, You, you're you

and Rosetta, need to come over
and come out someday and and

dance at our club? He goes, is
you sure it's okay for me to

come out there? And he goes,
absolutely, come out so they,

they'd go out there. You know,
it's a different time then.

Yeah, but Willie, definitely,
he's he rose to the to the

height of his dreams. You know,
he's no longer with us, but he,

he sure was wonderful, you know,
wonderful. A friend of mine that

I wound up writing a lot of
songs with was his name was

teeny Hodges, Maben Teenie
Hodges. And I got it in my mind

one time I had already moved up
here and had some hits and

everything. And I got it in my
mind I was going, you know,

what? I need to get in touch
with that teeny Hodges. He's

from Memphis. I mean, I need to
connect with him. And so I

called him up, and he said,
Hello. And I said, teeny Hey,

this is Deborah Allen. I'm
calling you from Nashville. He

goes, yep. And I said, Listen,
you know, I'm thinking, you're

from Memphis, I'm from Memphis.
We should meet each other. He

goes, Yeah. And he goes, we have
some mutual friends. And I said,

like, who? He said, Beverly
Sousa list. She's an opera

singer. And I said, Oh yeah, I
remember her. She's wonderful.

And I said, Well, would you like
to come to Nashville and write

some songs with me? And he goes,
Oh yeah, I just got back from

Australia. I said, Okay. I said,
but you probably need to rest

for a couple of weeks first,
right? He goes, Oh no, no, no, I

can be there in two days.
Listen, I said, Who was it that

played Oregon on all those great
Al Green hits? And he said, Oh,

that's my brother Charles, and
he's raring to come up here. So,

I mean, that that started, I
don't know why. Y'all, I guess I

just always get something in my
mind, and the next thing you

know, I'm doing it. Way to get
it done. Yeah, he became one of

my dearest friends before he
ever got up. There I go, teeny

Hodges, we I didn't have my
phone to check it out and see

what he looked like. You know, I
think teeny Hodges. Well, he's

either real teeny tiny, or he
weighs 300 pounds. I didn't know

what to a man named teeny

may not get much action, but
anyway,

oh, we're circle in the drain.
But anyway, so he rang the

doorbell. I lived up on this
hill at that time, and he rings

the doorbell. And I saw him. He
was just teeny tiny, and his

eyes kind of go like that. I
didn't know what he thought

about me till he told me later
on he he had nice things to

think and but we just hit it
off. And I mean, he when

sometimes, when he and Charles
were up there, remember the

movie that Tom Cruise was in
when he had the bobby socks on

and he'd go sliding,

yeah, risky business. Yeah,
risky business. When they

would be in there, they would
wake up earlier and they'd be in

there, like, Charles would turn
his cigarette backward and set

it kind of up on the upper
manual, and he'd be in there

playing that organ, you know,
because he was so cool and

teeny. I don't know what teeny
was doing. He was floating

around somewhere, but I would
hear that music, and I would

come sliding Tom Cruise. It was
really fun. But no, I love

Memphis. A lot of things
inspired me. George Klein

inspired me in Memphis, you
know, because I got to soon as I

turned 16, I got my driver's
license, and I got in my green

barracuda. My daddy was in the
car business, so he was able to

do that, and I went straight
over to whbq and auditioned to

be a WHB cutie, which I did get
hired as, and that was pretty

cool, and that's how I got to be
great friends with George. But

George Klein, years before I was
even old enough to do anything,

he had already told Elvis about
my parents and about their

wonderful talent. My mother's
very creative, and my daddy had

that automobile upholstery shop.
And so he told he, this is

George talking. He said, I'm
telling you, e you need to take

that bus over Leon Thurman's
automobile upholstery shop. They

do some great work. So they did.
Oh, wow, they did. And but I'm

talking too much.

No, no loving. That's why we
wanted to have you here.

Okay, well, so they took it over
there. But along with that bus

came the Memphis mafia. And so
my daddy, not being a real big

guy, he was kind of a, not a big
tall guy, but he went out, he

said, No, look it y'all gonna
have to quit coming around here,

because I can't get any work
done. Y'all causing too big of a

commotion So, but they kept
coming around, so he took the

bus out and brought it to our
house. So when I was probably

about three years old, me and my
sister Judy decided we were

going to camp out in Elvis's
book. So we did so in my show.

Now I have eventually, through
the years, I wound up writing a

song called Amazing Graceland,
which is actually one of my

favorite songs to sing for
everybody. But I'll usually tell

a little bit of that story, and
I'll go, Yeah, I slept in

Elvis's bed, but I

was only three years old. He
wasn't there, but

still, it still counts. That's
right, that's still one you can

put on the resume. So when you
came to Nashville out I for some

reason I cannot picture you
because you're so sweet, but I

can't picture you at hillbilly
central with Waylon and Tom

Paul. Well, I had, I had

a guardian angel, and that was
Marie. There was a guy named

there, Billy Ray, not Billy Ray
Cyrus, it's another Billy Ray.

And. And he was really good look
until you had big hands. Billy

Ray Reynolds, Billy Ray,
Reynolds, I love Billy Ray. In

fact, we wrote a song, and I
have no idea where it is, we

found we finally wrote a song.
We wrote a song called hit

another Homer. Homer. I like it.
Knock it out of the park. But

anyway, I wish I could find it.
It was real cute, but Billy Ray

was always a great friend to me.
But she said, Marie. Said,

because, see, I moved in next
door with Marie. She had a

house, and I had to, I called my
parents, my mother, and I said,

Mother, you're not gonna believe
it, but I'm living next door to,

well, in Jenny's office, and the
lady that I'm living with is so

sweet, so nice, but you're not
gonna believe this. She goes,

what? And I said, her whole
house is wallpapered in the

Sunday funny paper. But she she
later told me one time she said,

I told Billy Ray, he better not
even think about you. He better

not touch you. And I'll go,
Well, I don't know. I think I

was thinking, I can probably
take care of myself, but she was

like, watching over me. But,
yeah, Marie was there. She never

traveled. She was really kind
of, if you heard her talk, you

would think she was really back
woodsy, because she just their

family had a real thick country
accent. Yeah, and, and she

wouldn't, I'd say, you ever
gonna do some traveling or

something? She goes, I don't
want to travel. I'm not going

anywhere. I hate traveling. And
then John Hartford and her

hooked up and got married, and
then you couldn't get her off of

that bus. She traveled. She
became a world traveler. There

you go. And you know, Kyle
Lenning had a studio upstairs,

and then Waylon would be back in
his office. And the brothers,

I'm trying to think Tom Paul and
the glacier brothers, they were

in there all the time. They had
offices in there. And then

upstairs in a little closet,
there was a guy. He was a radio

guy, Captain midnight, Captain
midnight. And I remember going,

he's got a Bunsen burner. He
lives in here.

Yeah, he just kind of hung out
with,

I mean, so I came, I came up
with some great people in the

show. Would blow in town, and
then, you know, I would be

sitting in there with him. I
don't know, they just, I think I

was just their little I don't
know, they just watched over me,

you know? Yeah. But I remember
sitting around there one time,

and they were all sitting there,
just talking up a storm, and I

saw all their feet, and I was
like, feet under the table, feet

under the table. I started
writing a book about that. I

would write about anything.
That's what was really weird

when I had so much fun in the
beginning, just because when he

said, You got away with words. I
did have fun with words, you

know. But my words, you know,
and when I would write stuff,

especially if I wrote something
a cappella, I think I cannot

wait till my musicianship
catches up with my voice,

because this is fun, but I don't
think I'm gonna be singing any

of this on stage. So it took a
while for me to groom it all and

blend it all together, where I
felt like I had something that I

could really run with, you know,
and stand on stage and sing.

Now I'm real curious about, as
Johnny has already mentioned,

the Jim Reeves duets that you
did. And of course, Jim Reeves

had passed many years prior to
those, those recordings coming

out. How did those come about?
And whose idea was that to to

pair you up with a deceased
legend?

I know, I know Don cook one time
says, Yeah, you ought to do an

album Deb called Deborah Allen
and the dead boys sound

like a good punk band.

Well, you know, I used to hang
out, even though I was a writer

with Jerry Crutchfield at MCA.
Oh, wow, yeah. I hung out a lot

at tree publishing down there
with Don Gant and all of those

guys, you know. And there was a
song plugger that used to be

there, named Dan Wilson, and he
was having a number one party

out at his house. And of course,
he invited all the writers. And

you know, there were a lot of
other people there too. And you

know, I don't know if they still
do that around town now, but we

used to have what they call
guitar pools, yes, yeah. So

you'd be sitting in a room, and
if they pass you the guitar, you

had to sing something. So I
didn't have that many songs at

that time, but it's funny, I
had, basically, I had two and I

would sing, I would I had, I
would sing, goodbye, love. I

can't remember which one I do
first. And then Don Gail would

say, No, I think he had first
had me do dirty old man. I had a

song called dirty old man. I'm
in love with a dirty old man.

And because you say sing dirty
old man, dude, not sing dirty

old man. He go, now do your
other one. So anyway, so I

qualified for the guitar pool,
and so I sang a couple of songs

at night, and I didn't think a
thing about it. And I guess les

Ladd was there. He was the
engineer out at Woodland studio,

and he called me up and he said,
Debra, hey, this is Liz LED. And

he said, you know, Bud Logan,
heard you sing last night, and

he loved your voice. And he was
wondering, would you be

interested in doing some duets
with Jim Reeves? And I said, You

mean like Jim Reeves put your
sweet lips a little closer to

the phone? And he said, Yeah.
And I said, but I would love to,

but isn't he no longer with us?
He said, Right, he's deceased.

He goes, but we're gonna, let's
do this brand new technology.

It's never been used before.
It's called an overdubbing

technology, and we're going to
take your voice and we're going

to put pull his off and put you
on there with it. So we were

actually the first ones to do
that, even before Natalie Cole

and her dad, yeah. And so I was
honored, you know, to get to do

that. And then Joe Galante,
being the marketing genius that

he was, he said, I tell you what
we're going to do. We're not

going to put your name on there.
We're just going to call you The

Mystery Girl. Since nobody knows
who you are, they'll never guess

it. No one can win the contest.

Because I do remember when that
came out, we, all of us at the

radio station, were going, who
this girl's got a great voice. I

recall that too.

She, yeah, don't let me cross
over. Loves cheating line, and

let's see, oh how I miss you
tonight. That was my favorite.

Thank you when. And one of my
personal favorite, I loved that

one because it did so well and
it was fun to sing too. But one

that I had an actual moment in
the studio on was I was in

Woodland studio. The lights were
black in the studio. There was

just this little light over my
lyrics, and I could see Mary

Reeves and bliss and and Bud
Logan in there, like in the

studio, but that's all. They
were far away. Was just me and

that light the lyrics and I
started singing with Jim. That's

what happens when two worlds
collide. And I just got chills

over and, oh, my god, two worlds
are colliding. He's up there and

I'm down here. Oh, thank you.
Oh, my gosh, I'll never forget

this moment. And yeah, and I
think that he and Roger, let's

see Bill Anderson and and Roger
Miller wrote that song together.

I'm pretty sure they were the
writers.

And can you imagine that night
with Roger Miller and and and

Bill Anderson writing together?

Oh yeah, that that had to be a
team. I've written songs with

Bill. We had a lot of fun
writing we and then, of course,

I knew Roger Miller out in in
when I lived out in California,

in LA in fact, he had a big
party out at his house, and me

and my friends wound up over
there at Rogers. And they, they

and they, they got me to stand
in the middle of their gazebo

and sing my one of my acapella
songs, which was my mother and

daddy song, and it was, I
remember that being a sweet

moment. Then we went in there,
and one of the other guys, who

happened to be Jim Stafford,
they started trading, quipped

back and forth and songs and
stuff. And in my mind, I was

thinking, I think Rogers for
some reason, because Roger was

on fire that night. He was on
fire, but I was just a kid, so I

didn't open my mouth. I was
thinking. I was just thinking to

myself,

yeah, I got to work with Roger.
You know, when he did big river

the Broadway show, you know,
MCA. MCA had the soundtrack for

that, okay? And we actually took
radio to the Eugene O'Neill

Theater in New York to see the
play, and and I got to kind of

hang with Roger Miller a little
bit. He was, he was an

interesting cat. Oh, he was a
character, yeah. He was, he was

funny, yeah. And I always loved
him when I was little, so it was

really cool to to kind of be
around him and lost him so young

we did. I absolutely loved him.
He was a total gentleman, and I

loved his wife. Of course, I
love his son. Everything about

Roger Miller, I loved and
admired, you know? I, I was

always around some really
quirky, brilliant thinkers, you

know, and that was entertaining
me so much, you know, all the

time in my mind, and inspiring
me and setting the bar high.

Now, you know, when you got your
songwriting deal publishing

companies, what have you, I
mean, were you one of the only

women on the on the songwriting
team, if you will. I mean, what

was it like then?

A lot of guys, Dave, Dave
Loggins, he was, he was like a

big brother to me. There he was,
Oh, he got me into trouble.

He taught me how to be
independent at

the publishing. Company. But no,
there were a lot of guys, but,

and I was, I would, you know, I
think girls were starting to

float in, but I was maybe the
only girl. Tanya Tucker would

come by sometime, because Jerry
produced her.

But, I mean, please come to
Boston, one of the greatest

songs, Oh, and there's only one
Dave Loggins, and no one can

phrase like Dave. Nobody could
sing that song like he. Nobody

could. I was around at that time
when he wrote that song, but by

then he had gotten to be an
executive too for a little while

at at the company. And I said, I
got all these songs and I don't

know what to do with them. And
he said, You know what you need

to do, Deb. He goes, what I just
do, do what I'm telling you? I

said, Okay. He goes, call up,
book a studio, book some

musicians, and book you a
session. And I said, Okay. And

he said, Let him talk to you
afterwards about it. And I went,

Okay, that's what I'm gonna do.
So I did it. And then I got

called in. Jerry says, I needed
to talk to you about this. You

know, you know how Jerry talks.
He kind of talks like Robert F

Kennedy a bit, but not quite as
he didn't. Wasn't quite as bad.

And my mother has that same
thing, so I'm very familiar with

it, because my friends used to
call it and say we called your

house and your mother was
crying. I go, Oh, no, that's

just how she talks. So I booked
the session, and I turned it in,

and Jerry was kind of upset with
me, and he said, What gave you

the idea that you could do that?
And I said, Well, I said, first

of all, guess what? One of
them's already been cut, and

it's on its way to becoming a
number one song. That was, Don't

worry about me, baby. Yes, I
said, so I think I made a pretty

good executive decision, and he
goes, Well, you're not going to

do that again, are you? And I
said, I can't promise that,

because, you know, he goes, he
goes. And I just floored him,

and I floored myself. I couldn't
believe I was doing it. I don't

know what got into me, but I
said, Well, after all, you're

the vice president of MCA
Records, I'm the president of

Posey publishing stuff like
that. I've surprised myself all

my life. But you know what? I
don't know. I just said that,

and he loved me for it, but I
did do it one more time, and I

don't think I did it anymore
after that, because it did kind

of upset him.

But so what was his problem with
that? Yeah, well, because you

have

to ask permission, but I had
been asking permission, and I

wasn't getting to Oh, yeah, and
he said to me, and I love Jerry

was one of the greatest mentors
and business partners I ever

had, but he said, You're
supposed to bring the songs in

Deborah and let them get
approved. And that's when I

think I said, Yeah, but you're
the vice president. I'm the

president. And people like Don
cook and shell Silverstein, they

approved them, and I'm the
president, so I approve and so,

you know,

in fact, you wanted to put that
song out yourself. Did you know

which one that one Jamie
fricking,

well, I did cut that song, yeah.
And I did really like it a lot,

and I probably would have put it
out, but she did. But you might

be also thinking about the one
that I put out recently hurt me

bad in a real good way. Yeah,
yeah, because that is the one

that Patty put out. Yeah. Patty
put that out because Tony Brown

called me. I was no longer on
RCA, and I was kind of in

between deals, and I was
gathering me some new songs, and

Tony calls and says, Hey, Deb,
what's going on? I said, Oh,

just working on some stuff. He
said, I heard a song that of

yours, and I love it. He was,
you ought to be recording this.

I said, Well, I would, and I'm
probably will, but I'm not. I

don't have my deal together yet.
I'm just gathering my songs. And

so he said, Well, what would you
think if, if I told if Patty

loveless wanted to cut it, I
said, Are you kidding me, I

would absolutely love that. And
he said, well, great, because

she loves it and she wants you
to sing on it with her. So, you

know, once I sang on the song
with Patty and she took it to

number one, I thought, I'm not
touching that. It can't get any

better than this. But after so
many years, and I had this new

deal partnership with star Vista
records, and they have some of

my songs that they're, you know,
working with on the internet,

well, on especially YouTube. And
they said, Have you got anything

you had never released before? I
was like, Well, I never did put

out hurt me bad in a real good
way. They said, let's put that

out there. So I did, very cool,
yeah, but it's been so long ago.

In fact, I got a really nice
quote from Tony Brown and from

Patty Lovelace on it too. And
some other people,

and you also, a lot of people
don't know this. Maybe you. You

also did a song that prince
wrote under a under a different

name, Joey, yeah,

yeah, yeah, tell us about that.

Um, well, I was recording out in
California. I was at Sunset

Sound. And Sunset Sound is a
very super cool place. It's a

really state of the art
recording studio, and it's, it's

a compound built around a
basketball court, and it's so

much fun. And, you know, people
be out there playing basketball

all throughout the day, and But
one night, when I was in my

little studio, I had to go the
bathroom. So I had to go over to

the office. And I went across
the basketball court, went into

the office, and I came out. I
was zipping my I had that music

over my mind, you know. And I
was coming out thinking about

the music. I was zipping my
jeans up walking along, and I

saw this ball go rolling by, and
I kind of skipped over to it and

picked it up and turned around,
and oh, excuse me. I thought you

were going to be with my group.
It was Prince. Oh my gosh, oh my

gosh. I'd never dreamed I'd meet
Prince, and I didn't. I knew he

was in this other studio, yeah,
but I didn't want to go over

there and hang out. I didn't
want to go around on him, you

know, so but so I went on back
to my studio. And so I heard,

once again, that there was going
to be an executive turnover at

my label. And so the big dogs,
the new big dogs, showed up, and

when they did. It was a studio
about this size in the control

room, and there was a little bit
more room out there, but not a

whole lot. And so I don't know,
I just got kind of like, kind of

sweating all over there, sitting
there, listening to my stuff. So

I'll be right back. I'm gonna go
get some coffee. So I leave and

I go get some coffee, and then I
come back out with my coffee

cup, and by that night, I was
all decked out. I had on a

yellow suede jacket splattered
with black and silver paint. My

hair was like up over here. And
so I walk out, and there's

Prince in a matching beautiful
silk shirt with silk bell

bottoms and platform shoes,
boots to match. And he's sitting

there shooting some hoops. So I
kind of lean up against the wall

with my cup, and I say, Oh,
that's a good one. Oh, shoot.

And then I like, that was a good
one. Then he kind of dribbles

the wall back there, ball back
to me, and I look over at him,

and I say, I like your outfit.
And he goes, likewise. That's

all he said to me. But even in
that moment, I did recognize the

beauty of Prince. His face was
prettier than any woman. His

eyelashes were longer than Vince
gills. He was just an adorable

person. And even with this
platform shoes, I and this

doesn't happen very often, but I
was still taller than him. He's

pretty short fella. Yeah, he
was, but he was adorable. So I

go back in, and they go, Well,
we think we can run with this,

but we need to do a two, a
couple more cuts, you know. And

so we'll be working on that.
We'll get back with you and all

that echo. Okay, so I go home to
Nashville, and I go into my

kitchen, and I'm sitting there
in my kitchen, and I just like,

Oh God, please help me. What
should I do now, you know,

because I got switched to the
pop roster, really, without even

knowing. It sort of a deal that
happened. I wasn't even there. I

sort of got traded like a
baseball card. So I thought,

Okay, I'm gonna go for it, you
know. But all of a sudden, when

I was saying that to God, I got
this spark in my head. It was

like, well, you met the genius
of our time. Just write him a

letter. So I wrote him a letter
said, dear prince, my name is

Deborah Allen. We met briefly on
the basketball court at Sunset

Sound. We've had an executive
turnover at RCA, and I was

thinking it would be merely
wonderful if you and I might

work together in some capacity.
I've enclosed a cassette which

shows you how long ago it was, a
cassette of what I'm working on

my current work. If, when you
have time, please take a listen.

I hope to hear from you soon.
Sincerely. Deborah Allen, so I

overnighted it out to the studio
and coke Johnson was his. Was

his engineer, so I just mailed
it to cope Johnson. And I mean,

lo and behold, like two or three
days later, after I had

overnighted it, I get this call
from Coke, and he goes, the

phone rings. I go, Hello, and he
says, Hey, dude, Coke Johnson

here. I said, Hey, coke, how's
it going? He goes, good. He

goes, Well, I'm I got a song
here. I want to mail it to you.

Prince wrote it for you, and I
just wanted. Know where to mail

it to. And I went, I don't know
why I didn't go. I said, Well,

that's cool. I said, Oh, come
on. Now, cope, tell me the

truth. I said, Is it really a
brand new song, or is it

something he already had, kind
of laying around? He goes, No,

it's brand new. I was in the
studio when he wrote it for you

know, it really, he said, yeah,
like I was going to turn it down

if it wasn't brand new. No, I
was thrilled. I was so thrilled.

Well, it showed up, and I just
was so excited. I made me a

great big bathtub full of water.
I had this boom box and I had

his cassette, and I put it right
up here behind my head, like

this. And he kind of doodles,
like I do. He doodles a lot, you

know, he's kind of so I think
we've got that in common. So

anyway, so I was in there. I was
laying in there just listening

to it and everything, and then
I'd hit play, and it go to the

end. Then I'd hit reverse, and
just sitting there listening to

it over and over and over, and
all of a sudden, one time I hit

recording, I went, No, much of a
big a little bitty one, but now,

oh and he wrote all the lyrics.
The reason I know he wrote it at

Sunset Sound, because on the
back of the tracking sheet at

Sunset Sound, that's where he
wrote the whole song out of four

pages. So I have it

framed really, oh, it's gonna
say, yeah, that's something you

definitely want to hang on.
Yeah, I do.

I have it there, so, yeah, I
mean, that's what I mean, I've

been so blessed to get to do
some unusual things, you know,

like

you had a big show recently at
the Franklin theater I did. And,

you know, you mentioned your mom
a little bit ago, she sounds

like an amazing woman. She just
celebrated her 100th birthday.

She certainly did. She's my best
friend. I absolutely adore my

mother. In fact, you know, I
told you about her voice,

because of that going on with
her voice when she was carrying

me, she always prayed. She said,
You know, I think because that

was going on with my voice,
Mother, I always pray for my

babies to be healthy, but with
you, I would always add on the

end, like, Oh, and please let
this baby have a strong voice.

And, you know, so, I mean, we
just have that deep connection.

But yeah, so I'm her youngest
daughter, and we just have a

great connection. And so, you
know, I remember her 90th

birthday, and then, then here
she is at 100 years old, you

know. And there were some health
challenges along the way, and I

was like, just, I just wanted
her to make it, you know, that's

what I wanted. But she's still
beautiful. She has a boyfriend

named Ed. He's 12 years younger
than her, wow. And he drives

over from nolensville Almost
every night of the week. He has

a big red truck, and he just
drives over and comes over

around six o'clock, they eat
dinner, watch their favorite TV

shows, and then around 11,
excuse me. Around 1130 he'll go,

Well, I guess I'll get my own
ugly ass back. So he's so sweet.

I love I love it. He's a great
guy. He's turned he's turned out

to be the perfect companion
mother has been for him too. Ed

is a kind of an inventive man.
He can do just about anything.

He can flip houses. He can work
on cars. He's done a lot of

things in his life. And he's
just real plain spoken, you

know, and as as you can gather
by that last comment, but I said

I was at my mother's house one
day, and I said, What's this

mother? And she goes, Oh, that's
my birthday card from Ed. And I

said, Do you mind if I read it?
She's no, go ahead, so I'll pick

it up. Oh, mother.

I said, you bring the Poetry Out
of Ed.

But that can't be my I put that
on.

Don't. Well, that's all right.
You're popular. People want to

talk to you.

It's Raymond's girlfriend again.
I told her not to call anymore.

Well, speaking of potential
spam,

but you have a fellow That's
mighty Yeah, he's mighty fond.

I do y'all to interview him. He
but you better have to do it

after midnight, though. Oh yeah,
because he was, he was Mel

Tillis first tour manager. Then
he went to work with Oak Ridge

Boys. Then he worked with Hank
JR and everybody you can think

of. So he's got some stories.
Raymond Hicks.

I've always heard that's where
the music of statue came from.

Somebody yelled fire on Hank
Junior's butt. I've always

heard,

yeah, there's he's got so many
stories, I practically got them

all numbered, except for the
ones I don't know about.

Well, you could probably get
some money out of some people.

Yeah, you could probably, yeah,
I won't write the book, if

you'll just,

Raymond always says, I'm waiting
to write the book. Some people

got it. I'll not everybody's
that. What is it you say? Yeah,

wait for some people to die
first. And there was

speaking of my wife this
morning, when I was coming in,

she said, You know, I love
Deborah Allen, really? Yeah,

she, she, you know. And I think
that's, that's and I hope this,

this doesn't, I hope I don't
turn you off here, but to me,

you remind me of like Dolly
Parton. You've got a great

personality. Thank you. You are
you. And as she put it, she

said, she is so pretty. And I
said, Well, honey, she's pretty,

but not as pretty as you are.
And she said, Oh yes, she is.

She's pretty.

Listen and you said, My wife
loves you, as I was thinking to

myself, well, then I already
love her.

Well, she does. She said, she is
so nice. She goes even on

Facebook. She said, I'll say
something. And she replies to

me, nobody ever does that too.

Yeah, I try to do that. Well,
that is and by the way, about

Dolly, no, listen to me that
that's a huge compliment. I

mean, she's from East Tennessee
and I'm from Memphis, but I

guess being in Nashville, yeah,
it's our accents are similar,

but there's only one Dolly
Parton and and the i i admire

her, and I admire her
generosity. For you know, with

the children's books, yes, then
I don't I saw it on I saw it on

Facebook, and I hope it's true.
You can't believe everything

that's on Facebook. No, I
believe it's true that some,

someone said that she gave $2
million to the Charlie cart

foundation.

I can believe it. I can believe
that. I can believe. But yeah,

you, both of you, you just have
this quality about you that, you

know, men find you beautiful,
but the women don't feel don't

feel threatened. Yeah?

That makes me happy. Yeah? Well,
I love everybody. Women are men,

you know, or whatever, whatever
they whoever it is, I just, you

know, it takes a lot to make me
not love somebody, and I'm gonna

love them, even if I might not
like them for a second or two.

Well, see, we get that from you.
We you just, you just exude

such. I mean, I've always felt
that way anytime I've seen you

sing or anytime, you know,
anytime I hear you the

you know, there's a sincerity
and a genuine warmth to you. And

it really, you know, really
does, does come across. What?

What are you doing now that that
folks can, can find your music,

find where you may be appearing.
What can folks do?

Well, my most recent album I
still really do love. It's

called The Art of dreaming, is
believing, and it was on audio

records. And actually, something
cool about that is, there's a

high school down in Alabama, in
Florence, Alabama, that they

they chose that song as their,
like their, what's the word

inspiration song for the year,
you know, so and now they're

having me back down to come down
and sing it again. And I'm also

going to be writing a song and
performing something for the

Olympics that the people there
are involved with that that's I

enjoy doing things like that.
I've got a lot of shows coming

up, and plus, like I mentioned,
Star Vista, I'm super excited

about that because, you know, I
am very involved on my Facebook,

and I'm not going to stop doing
that, and I need to get more

involved on my Instagram and my
Tiktok and my there's so much,

so much, So that's one thing
that I'm looking forward to with

them is they've got, you know,
social media person who can help

me organize some things. But I'm
still, I had a social media

person one time when I was on
another record label, and in

fact, it was with Audubon. They
were super sweet, and he was

super sweet, but it's, it was
like twice the work, because I'd

have to take my picture, send
them to him, and he would do

something with them, and then I
would look at it, and I'd have

to call him up and say, I really
like that. It looks really good.

But that is not exactly
something I would say, you know?

I mean, you know what? I mean,
yes, it's hard to get someone

that gets you enough. So, I
mean, I'm gonna always be

involved in what I'm doing, I
just can't imagine not being

that

way, right? Yeah, but you guys,

y'all make everybody have so
much fun and be so welcome. I

saw something y'all did with
Wade Hayes.

Yes, that's right, yeah, we had
Wade on here a while back, and

he's a good buddy. What a good
dude. I love that guy.

Love him. He's wonderful. And he
was telling his story about his

health issue.

Oh, we're lucky to have him. And
thank God. He went for another

another, another opinion.

And he was so young to have
that, you know, yeah, but one

time I had an issue, and Raymond
was so scared. And I was too,

and he put it on internet. And I
said, don't put it on the

internet. What if I don't die?
But

I did. I had, I had this thing.
Here it was. I was singing at I

did 25 Christmas shows at
fontanelle and my friend, she

was helping me change clothes.
And I go, I've got a little

bitty, tiny knot right here
under my jaw. Feel of it. She

goes, have you had, have you had
a virus lately? And I went, No.

I said, but when I had a real
big note, it doesn't hurt, it

just kind of drags me down, you
know? And I said, I'm gonna go

see about it after the first of
the year. So go to see about it,

and they take a biopsy. And I
was just like, having so much

fun. I go, that didn't even hurt
because they put lidocaine on

it, yeah. And then after, I was
like, Well, what'd you find? He

goes, Well, I'm not a doctor. I
can't tell you, but I'll tell

you one thing I do know. And I
said, what that? He said, I

don't like the way that felt.
And I went, Oh, okay, so it's a

story. It's a story. It turned
out that I had this thing. It

was, well, no, the doctor calls
up and he said, You've got

metastatic carcinoma. And I
said, What's that? He called me.

He didn't even meet with me in
person. He calls me and and I

said, What's that? And he goes,
it means you've got a cancerous

tumor right there, and it's
coming from somewhere. It's all

gathered there, and it's coming
from somewhere else. And I went,

oh no. And when you said that, I
started kind of getting dizzy. I

said, Hold on. I want to call my
husband. I call Raymond. I said,

Raymond, get on here. I want to
connect you. So we connected.

And I said, now tell tell
Raymond what you just told me.

And he told him. So we hung up,
and then Raymond calls me back,

because I tell you what we're
gonna do. I said, What's that?

He said, we're gonna call right
pen. Now, the only reason I'm

even taking time to tell you
this is so fun about the way God

works in our lives, because we
used to just go have so much fun

at country in the Rockies, and
there was a band there called

Soul incision with a bunch of
doctors. And so we would all get

up there. Yeah, we would, we
would entertain. We would

entertain all the different very
wealthy people all throughout

the day, go skiing with them.
You know, do all this, have all

these auctions and everything,
but the real fun was at night

with dull incision. So we'd get
up and have fun. Yeah, Heidi,

Heidi and I got up, you know,
one night, she had her

harmonica, and we were just
getting wild and having fun,

just all kinds of fun stuff and
but he wound up being the vice

chancellor. He was a doctor, a
surgeon. He wound up being the

vice chancellor at at
Vanderbilt. So Raymond calls him

up and says, right. And he told
him what the doctor had said. He

goes, there's only one doctor I
would ever he said, the head of

our otolaryngology department.
That's Dr James netterville.

That's who she needs to see.
That's who I would send my

people come from all over the
world to see him. So he said,

Okay, now, in the meantime, I
went over to see my friend

Millie Taylor, who she I met at
a garage sale at my house,

because I live on a road where
you can just throw a sign out

anytime, and people start coming
over, and I've met some great

friends that way. So I met up
with Millie mother, and I did.

And then few years went by and
we didn't see her. And then we

connected again, one time. And
so I knew where she was. She was

at New Beginnings, and so but
after I heard that news, I was

so freaked out about it, because
I looked up what the procedure

would be. The procedure on this
would be they would operate on

you. They would go in and they
would take it out, yeah, and

that's what that doctor said. I
said, so you just could put a

little tiny incision in and pop
that little thing out, right?

And he goes, Oh no, it'll
probably be five or six inch

scar. It'll be kind of wavy, but
we can tattoo it. It'll be okay.

And I went, Oh God, so I'd find
myself walking down the street

seeing couples in love, and I
go, I hope I'm going to be here

this time next year. Oh, my God,
it was. It's just weird how your

mind starts seeing the fragility
of life when you know something

could happen like that. And then
the other thing I was very

interested in this surgery, that
the real surgery, what they do

is they go in and they take it
out, and then, if they can, and

then they take it out, and then
your neck will sink in. And then

they have to take fat from your
stomach area and build your neck

back up, but 90% of the time,
then your face is going to droop

forever. And I was walking along
going, the devil's trying to

steal my smile. The devil's
trying to steal my smile. God.

And so, so I was so scared, but
I went to see so I went to see

Millie, and I was soon as I
walked in the door, she said,

Deborah, what's wrong? I said,
Millie. They say, you know. And

went into all the details. She
said a prayer for me right away.

And then she said, I'm going to
help you. So she does all kinds

of holistic things. And she did
do that. She took care of me.

She was all kinds of things that
she did to help me. And so I

went to see Dr netterville, and
I told him what was going on.

And he said, Now, Deborah, I
said, I really just, I've got

shows I have to do Dr
netterville, and I need to do

this. He says, Well, it's slow
growing right now. He said, so

I'll say yes, but I hope you're
not going to do like that. Other

man came in here the other
night, and in my mind there was

this man in a chair. He looked
like elephant man. His head was

all swollen. His tongue was
hanging out. And I remember when

I walked into that place, I
thought, this is where I would

come back when I was with
country in the Rockies, I was an

entertainer to cheer everybody
up. Now I'm one of the people

that needs help. And you know,
what else it brings to I'm

hurry, and I know I'm taking too
long. But look, one thing that

it made me realize. It made me
realize that, you know, a lot of

times when someone's sick and
you go, Oh, I'm going to pray

for you. You know, well, that
takes on a whole brand new

meaning. You hope they really
do. And I know that I did have

some great prayers. But anyway,
I said, Dr, he goes, I hope

you're not going to go out to
Arizona and spend $150,000

because that man that just left
here. I could have helped him

six months ago. Now I don't
think I can. I said, Dr

naderville, I couldn't do that
if I wanted to. I said, all I

want to do is go do these shows
and keep doing this stuff with

Millie that I'm doing. You know?
I said, and I didn't tell him

everything we were doing because
I was afraid it would make him

not like it. But I just said,
I'm just drinking a lot of green

juice and doing, you know this
and that, and it wasn't anything

much more than that, but I don't
care to go into all the details

right now, but, but anyway, so
we did a lot of things to get me

well. And he said, Well, I don't
know. I've never heard of any

green juice dissolving that. But
he goes, you can try it for a

little while. Then one night,
out of the blue, he called me

up. It was about eight o'clock
at night, and he goes, Deborah,

what are we doing? I said, Well,
you're going to Africa to teach

doctors how to do surgery, and
I'm still drinking green juice.

And he goes, now, Deborah, he
goes, You need to be in my

operating room on Friday, my
personal operating room. He

goes, and because I do not want
to go out of the country without

taking care of you. And he goes,
and if, if we wait much longer,

it's just going to make my job
more difficult, which I knew

what he meant. He meant that it
might make my face, you know,

right, droop. So I was sitting
there on the steps, just kind of

going back and forth like this.
And I was again, thinking, the

devil's trying to steal my
smile. The Devil's all of a

sudden, Dr netterville said,
Deborah, I pray for wisdom every

day. And I went, I pray for
wisdom every day. That's it. I

said, I've been waiting for a
sign. I've been saying, God,

don't whisper that still small
voice. I want to hear that. Just

scream at me. I said, when you
said that, I heard it. I said,

Okay, Dr naderville, I'll do it.
I said, But now listen, you

know, we've seen that thing. And
I said, that tumor is just on

the back end of my submandibular
gland. And I'm a singer. I need

to keep that submandibular
gland. Can't you just take off

the bad part? He goes, Oh, look
at that. And I thought he was

just being nice. So I go to the
well, the next when I Friday

rolls around, and I get myself
ready, and the next thing, you

know, I'm in the kitchen with
Raymond, and I start having a

meltdown, and I start crying and
going, I don't want to go. I

don't want to go. And then about
that time, my sister came in

like a baby rooster, going, what
is going on in here? And and she

goes, she's having a meltdown.
And she said, Debra Lynn, you

better go get in that car. You
know, good and well, you will

not have a good outcome if you
if you're going like that. And I

was like, I know, so we're
driving down the road heading to

Vanderbilt, and I say, I'm not
scared of this operation.

Raymond, he's like, you could
have fooled me. No, no, I trust

Dr netterville. I said, it's
just the after effect. I just

hope and pray my face doesn't
droop and so, you know what? We

did, that operation. He took a
picture of it. I've got pictures

of it. No one wants to see him.

Anyway, I did look like a
science project, for sure. And

anyway, that was too long for
that story, but it all came out.

Great. He came. In, and he said
I was still very loopy, because

I told him to put me way out.
And when he came in, he said,

Deborah, got great news. No
cancer, no chemo, no radiation.

I went, That's good. He goes,
No, that's wonderful. Debra, oh,

and guess what? And I said,
What? He said, I did what you

suggested. And I'm like, What
did I suggest? Because I only

took out the part that was bad,
and I've never done that before,

so, but you know the thing?
Okay? I guess I got too

comfortable here, and I ran
well, no, that's fine. Here's

the thing about it. Here's what
I was just gonna say. It's just

like a patchwork quilt. How do
you never know when you meet

someone new? You never know when
you meet someone new, how

they're going to figure into
your life later on. Like, who

would have known that one of the
musicians in soul incision would

be the Vice Chancellor of a
chancellor of Vanderbilt, and

who would have known that a lady
I met at my garage sale would

have her own little holistic
company and helping people, and

that she would help me so much,
and then it just those were the

people I needed in my life, and
they were there before I even

knew that I needed. Very true
that's just a story that I guess

that's one reason I do love
people, because you never know

what people are going through,
and you never well. Every person

you meet is a gift, really?
Yeah, they are.

They really are. Well, and two,
let me just tell you this, the

devil is not going to steal your
smile because you have too much

God around you, and it comes
through and too much smile.

That's right. Thank you very
much. Well, I really appreciate

you joining us. On, on circling
the drain. You definitely

brought up the place and and let
us know too, when you're going

to be playing. I will nearby
because, well, we'll make it a

night out for the three J's.
Well, I'll come out and see you.

Oh yeah. And let me tell you, at
that 100th year birthday party,

my mother wound up getting, she
wound up getting a letter for a

proclamation from a state
senator, all right, Senator pote

and the Speaker of the House,
and a letter from Governor Lee,

and thanks to Martha Blackburn,
mother, got a beautiful letter

from President Trump, I can tell
you. So I mean, it was really

wonderful. And at the Opry,
Larry Gatlin gave her, gave her

three dozen roses, and Raymond
rolled her out in the circle,

and he got everyone to sing
happy birthday. It was just so

special. You know, I was, you
know, I had even more things

planned for mother, but I think
I did. I think you did good. I

think I did pretty good.

I think rated PG for pretty
good. Yeah, there you go.

PG, now, what's really good is
PDG, oh yeah. Pretty dang good.

Well, this was pretty dang good.
We appreciate you being here

very much, very much, and we we
wish you a continued success in

everything you do. And thank you
for bringing Raymond today. Oh

yeah, he's been my Facebook
friend forever. I finally get to

meet him.

You know what? Y'all I'm
serious, if y'all got it after

hours, would call, break call.

Well, that's the only fans one
will do with Raymond, but

anyway, be sure and join us next
time on circling the drain. You.