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Auntie Talk is a bold, funny, unfiltered conversation space where two best friends from different cultures, tackle literally everything from the trenches of real life to the headlines of the moment. It’s where the wisdom of 46 years meets the humor of “we’re still figuring things out.” This is for those who love real talk, culture, relationships, dating and some belly laughs while sipping wine, iced coffee, or a strong cocktail!
Hey, what's up, everybody?
You know what day it is?
It's time for Auntie Talk.
I'm Cher.
And I'm Jennifer.
And we are your favorite Aunties.
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And no filter.
Let's get into it.
Today.
Today.
T of the week.
Tea of the week.
Now, if y'all, if anybody has been under the rock, under a rock, first of all, and have not seen Secret Lives of Mormal wives, please catch yourself up And Taylor in this Dakota drama.
And hey, this is going to be un popular opinion, clearly, 'cause in the church group chat.
Oh, my gosh.
I was baffled.
I was so confused.
We did not agree.
We did not agree.
Taylor, is toxic.
Very.
Women, we can be toxic.
And they need to hold women need to hold themselves accountable more.
Oh, my God. .
She drives me insane.
She is clearly, she clearly has some type of mental.
You know, now she's trying to say, too, that she's diagnosed bipolar.
Well, why didn't she tell him then?
And everybody else on the show?
But now she thinks she's doing that as just an excuse.
It is an excuse, just like she tried to say, when it happened, when .
So when the incident happened, when she beat Dakota's ass.
Yes, Peter did.
When the incident happened.. Severe.
She went on record saying that she was the aggressor.
She did a podcast after she got arrested.
She was charged after she played guilty, she did a podcast, an interview, and said she was the aggressor .
Now, here we are 2026 when the video's released.
Right.
She's not the aggressor.
He All sudden.
All of a sudden it says, hey, I speak from experience.
Yes.
We can be the aggressor.
Yes.
We can be the ones that cause the domestic violence.
We can be the ones that actually physically harm others in relationships.
And I need ladies to start taking accountability.
What I don't like like is the double standard.
No.
The double standard that everybody says, oh, what did he do to trigger her?
Okay, so when a man beats a woman's ass and everybody's in an uproar, nobody's asking that woman do to trigger that man to make him be.
So why is that the double standard in this situation?
I have Taylor is clearly toxic.
When Taylor did that, had a man come over while Dakota was there and got mad at Dakota for not being mad that the man came over, that's toxic, Absolutely.
Getting mad at Dakota for going out of town, sleeping with another woman, while she flew a man in, flew, let him stay in the house where her kids stay for the weekend.
Yes.
And her friends support their enablers.
Yes.
I cannot.
Hey, I love some of the other cast, but y'all enable Taylor'sond.avior.
Absolutely.
It disgusts me, it irritates me, and y'all.
But I think they do that too, because they are afraid that mom talk will be no longer if they don't enable and keep her at bay.
Of if that makes sense.
Or happy.
I agree.
I agree, but that's not fair.
It's not fair to Dakota.
It's not fair.
And I'm not saying Dakota's perfect.
He's not.
It's not.
At all, 100%.
He really loved her, and wanted to be with her.
She did.
On the very beginning.
The way she talks to her mama, the way she snapped, she's disrespectful, and the way she thinks she can bully everybody on the show and whoop everybody's ass on the show.
It annoys the hell out of me because all it take is is one good time and she just come across the right one and somebody to hurtle little feelings because I I'm over her.
Yeah.
And the fact they put her as the bachelorette.
Well, even did those reels that that came out, those little snippets of the video, even how she was talking to those guys in there.
She showed her crazy.
She did.
She showed her crazy. Absolutely did.
100%.
You know what I don't like the other double standard that nobody wants to talk about ?
Well, there's some people I have talked about, actually talk about, but I want to pee back on that.
Is the fact that had that been a black woman?
Oh, gosh.
That was beating up on a man like that, that was showing that kind of behavior when the police showed up up, how she was talking back to the police, how she kept reaching in her back pocket, ramming her phone.
Oh, Making sudden movements, taking off and walking, acting a damn fool when she wanted to.
Had that been a black male or woman acting like that, they probably would have been shot.
Probably would have been unalived.
And that's not fair.
Why is that double standard okay?
That's where I get irritated with the culture right now.
I feel like it's just, it's just a double standard all around.
Everyone needs to revert back to one of my all time favorite movies, A Time to Kill , wheneverever he is, I say that all the time in that courtroom when he described and then he said, now imagine she is white.
Right.
And you could do that same thing.
Imagine it's a man.
Imagine she's black.
You could do that in every scenario and everyone needs to do that in every scenario.
Play out the whole thing and then change your mind and say, now , imagine that's your daughter.
Imagine they're white.
Imagine they're black.
Imagine they're Spanish.
Whatever the case may be, and then I'm telling.
It would have been a different outcome.
100%.
We would be talking about her and not.
Every always a to be a different out..
I you acknowledge that?
You know that every time it's a different out.
Every time.
Man, woman, black, white, brown.
It doesn't matter.
It's a total double stink.
And it's very frustrating.
So in this instance, that irritates the hell out of me that she is able to just get away with this behavior and everybody make excuses for her.
Because like I said, had they been a black woman, we would be eating alive all over the internet.
We would be called aggressive.
We will be called everything.
We would not be getting these opportunities to continue to be all over.
Right.
We would be canceled.
There would be no way there would be a show.
There would be no way. We barely make it to The Bacheloret.
So we've only had the one, I don't even watch The Bacheloret first time.
I don't.
I think it's stake and stupid. , I think there's only been like one black bachelorette.
Really?
Correct me if I'm wrong, guys.
I could be wrong.
I think only one.
Do you know how many seasons it had to go on before she could actually be the bachelorette?
But we can put her on there, who's been divorced, two baby daddies, three kids .
And toxic.
Toxic andale.
Toxic is.
So, question.
Do you have a toxic treat?
Ohoh, Lord.
No, I do not. Have a toxic.
Yeah, you do.
Yeah, you do.
You do have a toxic trait.
And unfortunately, you are so in den.
You act like Taylor.
What?
Are you able to tech?
Like, Jen, I do know my toxic.
I's toxic trait.
I can be kind of stubborn.
Oh, uh, kind of, just a little bit.
Oh, my God.
Her toxic tray is ridiculous.
That's the Aries, the RAM in me, I guess.
That's the one part of my horoscope that I get a little bit of is the stubbornness.
Okay, just that one pour.cell..
That's a whole nother topic for another day, though, because I feel like that because I feel like we are cusp things that there's so many things that don't that don't apply to you, you as well.
You have a lot of, you have, now that we have found out about the Aquarius side of you, you have Aquarius qualities, for sure.
Yeah, I have, but I don't deny my Pisces qualities.
I ain't Pisces through and through.
For sure.
You don't want to hold on to all those Aries qu qualities, but you are you are an Aries through and through.
Yeah, the only part that you live in in Pisces were.
Okay, so what we're talking about, cusp.
Okay.
She is a Ares, but she's on the cusp of Pisces Ares.
I am a Pisces.
I'm on the cusp of Aquarius and Pisces because my birthday is right when it rolls over from Aquarius to Pisces.
So you're saying that, but the only part that you have of you that I feel like is Pisces is the delusionion.
Delululan.
Delulan and you romanticize everything.
Yeah.
So that's it.
I don't live in because I don't.
You're not to you 100%.
Your systems are certain things, but not really.
You're not. Sensitive.
You're not like, um, you're not very creative.
You're more organized, streamlined, A-type personality.
That's more in .
But anyways, so we'll get into there, but your toxic trait is definitely your over, like extremely stubborn.
Like it's extreme.
You've gotten better, but like she would debate anybody down to the ground.
Jen would debate if the wall was not black , if it was a slight bit of gray.
She gonna debate you up and down.
Yeah, so you got that.
My trigger called me today.
I bet.
He called me today.
Did he trigger you today?
Actually, when I missed his call and then I did not call him, when I called him back, then he did not answer.
So I think that it was a good time not to have that trigger today.
Shout out.
Shout out to that trigger triggers you and he damn that triggered me.
I blocked him.
Okay. On my phone.
He is not.
Hey.
But I he's the one who also made me acknowledge my trigger a few years ago and change almost.
I mean, I'm getting there a little bit better, but way better than what I used to be.
Yeah, you're better, but he ack he just not acknowledged. He reaffirmed what I had already said.
Oh, for sure, for sure.
For sure.
Like, for sure.
Dude, you are on a 10 all of a sudden.
Like, we don't have to debate everything.
Everything does not have to be a discussion.
Can we just say, this is what this is?
Now I think I've switched it over to just becoming more inquisitive about other people's thoughts.
Yeah.
I think I'm trying to deliberately.
Yeah.
It's the way you deliver questions now.
It's not so debatable.
Yeah.
It's more just intrigue.
More just go.
Tell me a little bit more about this.
Yeah.
Yeah.
You.
And then I just keep a lot of thoughts in the back. Continuing to debate and ask and ask and ask.
And I'm asking another question on top of that question.
Yeah, yeah.
That's you.
So, yeah. You've gotten better.
Yeah.
So kudos to that.
How far?
You gotten better.
Yeah.
What's most toxic trick?
Oh, baby.
If you know, you know, you know.
I'm a Pisces store.
My toxy trait is I will block you.
I block you mid- argument. Missing.
Which is so blockling to me.
I see, there's a difference.
That's why people think that we are so very similar.
I don't know if people think that.
Maybe they think we're different as well.
But like , I want to know what that message is going to say.
And you do not care.
No.
The fact that it'll turn green in the middle of the message that that makes me want to turn my face on.
I will block in a minute, and I have been told I have been asked. Not .
Yes.
But I will block in a minute.
And then you had me block my trigger.
I had cut. Just block.
Okay.
If they trigger you block.
And then they trigger my emotions, they make me cry.
Yeah.
If I feel like they're not giving me the attention I need, I'm going to block.
And if I feel like you want to keep arguing with me, block. Block, if I feel like you do not deserve to have me in your presence, Block, if I feel like.
I need to have more of that in my life.
But you, it is very toxic...
That's what makes it toxic.
It is.
Because I block and then unblock.
Yeah, you don't block and then move on with your life.
Sometimes, some people.
Some.
Give me credit.
I do some people.
Yeah, that's true.
But for others, if I really care and I really, really like, really care about you and love you, I just block you because you made me mad.
And then like two or three days later, or maybe later on, 12 hours later.
Yeah.
Maybe eight hours later.
Maybe actually.
She'll block people that she's in group chats with.
So she.
In including me.
I mean, I'm in those group chats.
So in my mind, I'm unbeknownst to me, not even knowing sometimes that she's blocked these people.
And I'm like, Cher, why haven't you responded?
Like, what's happening right now?
And I'm looking and I'm like, okay, because she's a responder.
She, she responds.
And when she doesn't, I know something.
You will block group chat.
And it is so awkward for me because , and you will block in business group chat.
I do.
I'm like, oh my gosh.
I don't care for personal.
I don't care, businessxic.
Block.
Toxic.
That's my toxic trait.oxic.
Hey, accountability is everything.
I know that's my toxic trait.
I know I need to get better. .
I have said this year I have only blocked one person this year.
Only one?
Two.
Two.
Two.
Two.
Your trigger got blocked because he was supposed to do something for us and he didn't.
And he ghosted us.
I blocked him.
I ghost to block them..
So I don't give a damn.
He gonna know now.
Blocked.
Can I call my phone.
Blocked.
Because what you don't do what you tell me you're gonna do , and you don't follow through, block.
Block.
Because I if I don't ask for help and I don't ask nobody for nothing. Nothing.
So if I ask you and you don't do it, block.
So, and then I block that other person only because when I'm not getting attention or getting my way, I block because I feel like.
You do become a brat.
Sometimes too.
Whatever.
Just a little bit.
Just a little bit.
But when they call, I felt, because I, I don't think I've ever blocked anybody in my life.
So like, when I did decide to block, I don't know how you deal with, because when that person said at the end of that call, please don't block me anymore.
I felt horrible.
And I don't know how you have heard that.
And I know you've heard it because how do you not like, do you not feel bad?
So I felt horrible.
And I said, I won't.
I said, okay, I won't.
So this is my thing.
If I have expressed to you what hurts my feelings , if I have told you that and you continue to do what you know is hurting my feelings, then why do I need to oblige your feelings?
That's just my thought.
I feel like I I have told you that what you keep doing to me hurts me and you keep doing it.
And I know I'm overly sensitive, so I'm not, I get it.
I agree with that.
But if I'm telling you that , agree.
Devil's advocate.
You love the devil's advocate.
I do.
Okay.
Are we creating, and I'm going to see if you're going to answer this honestly, Are we creating narratives that are not true?
And so then we get so in in full transparency.
We've both done that for each other.
Right.
We've taken each other because we man, we're going to ride for each other.
And then we talk each other off the ledge, right?
We're very good about that.
We may go on a 10 to get us there like, Jen, I got your back.
Sure.
I got your back.
And then we'll digress .
And then we'll say, okay, but let's think this through.
Right?
Right.
But do you not think there have been times prior to blocking that you have not created those narratives that were false and not, there just were not anywhere near the truth?
I will say I have a wild imagination.
Yes.
To say the least.
I do write a narrative.
I will write a story.
And I help I will run with that story and you don't help because you will hop on that story and add to it.
And next thing, you know, we' in chapter 10 of that story of that book.
And we hanging off a ledge and it's a cliffhanger because we done wrote some hell of a stories.
But sometimes I'm right.
That is true.
I will agree with you.
Sometimes I Then there are times, though, like , like certain stories, like what happened with our time tire, like those different things where you went to attend what happened with our tires here recently.
And you created all these stories.
And I'm like, Sh I feel like we were just in the same in the wrong place.
So like, this takes us into, I mean, we will segue into something else .
Okay, let me tell you what happened.
Then we're going to get back to Toxic real quick.
But let me see this.
Pivot.
Pivotot, pivot, Pivot, New world.
Pivot.
Okay, so I recently bought a new car, right?
Because anybody, hey, I lease my cars.
I don't care what anybody says.
I like a new car every two to three years .
I have budgeted for the fact that I'm going to always have a car note because I don't like my warrant.
Anyways, long story short, I got a new car.
The week before I got a new car, Jen had a flat tire.
Yeah.
And she was drop you were dropping, right?
And then she had to drive back home, flat tire, had to get it changed, blah, blah, blah.
I bought this car last Friday .
Okay?
Monday, I had a flat tire.
Who does it?
Monday had a flat tire.
It was awful.
I woke up.
Let me tell you, I woke up and my tire light was on.
And I was Maybe that's just a little sensor.
Same thing.
Maybe something going wrong, right?
And then I start driving.
I get halfway to my destination, hit a pothole, boom, blowout, call roadside assistance.
They come change my tire.
I got to get a new tire, right?
Quite the day.
I only have a car two and a half days..
Yeah.
Two and a half days, right?
Okay.
Fast forward.
I was like, I'm gonna let that slide.
I know Gia just had a flat and then this happened to me, but I'm let slide.
Two days later.
Now I've only had the car five days.
Another flat tire.
Oh, I'm livid.
And so I made, I was like,J, do you think that maybe there's somebody following both of us and they sl our tires while we were sleeping?
Oh, gosh, she just came up with these elaborate stories.
It makes sense to me.
Because I'm like, it's the likelihood.
I do agree with either.
I don't know what the. Likelihood is.
But for the both of us having a flat tire within a week of each other.
But we are realtors.
We go to new construction, we go to different spots, and we are in a lot of the same places a lot of the times.
Right.
So I do feel like that my scenario was a lot more logical than the L over here of somebody following us, somebody like wanting to hurt us, somebody slashing tires, somebody like doing all this kind of stuff, what is God doing?
Like, all the things.
I went left.
She went all the way.
I told my mother and she was like, what?
She was like, no, y'all were just in the same place.
I thought that I thought somebody had been slashing our tires in our flees.
Anyways.
That's what we deal with.
That's part of.
Yeah, that's my problem.
I told you that wild imagination that I have, I would write a story.
And I thought somebody had been following us and had slashed our tires in our sleep.
Anyway, and we about opposite sides of the earth.
We do.
We do.
So that is our toxic trait.
You're right.
That's another one.
I'll write a story and narrative.
I have been told, I've been asked, where do I come up with this stuff?
Yeah.
I don't know.
Like, my mind just , where do I come up with this stuff?
I don't I mean, it can literally be, it's weird.
And I don't like to say, hey, I don't like to say I trust issues because I don't think I have trust issues.
I really don't.
I think I've grown I've grown that.
I don't think it's trust issues.
I just.
I think it's awareness, maybe.
I' cute.
I like that. .
I think some of our, it's not trust, but I think some of your past traumas, past experiences have molded your thoughts, right?
Right.
So I think that that's part of it.
And I think that's with any human, right?
So I think that sometimes because there's some things that have been through some stuff.
Well, I've been, man.
So, but so, but I don't have to take it so far, though.
I will work on that.
I think I'm April 1st will start my new year.
I'll work on that.
Why April 1st?
Well, because we're already done with January, February, March.
Okay, so.
Okay, so I want to continue working on on my stubbornness and I also want to work on my overthinking.
Okay.
Because I take it to, I take it five steps and I know that frustrates you, but I'm I'm thinking five, five steps of head, like, well, what if this happens?
What if that happens?
What if this happens?
What if that happens?
And I know that drives you insane that I do that on this Right here.
Whereas I'm thinking like, okay, but what if, but what if?
Yeah.
But what if?
Yeah.
But what if?
Or how can I do that?
That's toxic.
Those are the two, for sure.
100%...
You got two?
I got ..
Jesus.
We got to be equal.
I got got toxic to it.
There's two.
Okay.
Two and two.
Two and two.
So those are the two things.
Yeah.
And I know it can be done because I've gotten a lot better on my debating things or whatever.
So anybody that knows us out there in the world, hey, feel free to text us what you think, well, what you have recognized to be our other.
No.
No.
Thank you.
Oh, no, I want to be aware.
I want to know, what am I missing?'cause I know I ain't perfect.
But I'm missing some.
Now, what I will say is I'm very good at being accountable.
Yeah.
I take accountability.
We just went to brunch with some friends and she's walking in her feet and she don't she says she still ain't ready to take accountability.
She did say that. Shout out.
Sh Shout out.
No, she's not ready.
I's not ready.
She said she's not ready to take accountability, but I'm good at that.
I take accountability.
That's why I have my dear friend here , my friend.
That's it.
There's a story there.
Sorry, I'm a dumbass.
Please forgive me.
That's why I keep my friend with me because I recognize that I can be a dumbass.
So, you know, this is my accountability for it.
It is, for sure.
There's a story behind this.
There is.
But I bought this for that person who then said I didn't need to buy this because it wasn't necessary.
So, but I feel like it is.
Yes.
So I'm going to keep it with the accountability.
That's my accountability partner, because this one here, uh-uh, she helped me write stores.
So that's my accountability partner.
I just talked to took down to living on the tire thing.
That was my moment of clarification where I was like, we write some effing stories.
We We'll go down to the rabbit hole.
I mean, literally go down the rabbit hole.
I cannot, I can't help you.
I'm better, though.
I'm getting better.
I'm working on it.
The blocking thing, I am really going to try really hard.
I'm not going to do that.
The writing stories , you're going to have to really ring me in on that because I got that bad.
I'll write a story..
But yeah, those are toxic traits for today.
Anybody know any other?
Feel free to text us or email us?
You can I'm open.
I'll take them soon.
Because it is what it is.
Anyways, other tea of the week that we want, we got to touch on.
Drewski.
Drewski.
Okay, that was freaking hilarious.
Drewski did the white face dressed up as the white conservatives.
And it was hilarious, but it caused a little stir.
It did a little stir in the media and in the world.
Because people take comedy and parody too seriously, first of all.
It was freaking hilarious.
And he is hilarious, but it had like over 40 million views and like Jesus hours or whatever.
And the person who he was imitating, got offended and wanted to sue and all this sort of stuff.
Oh, she wanted a sue?
Yeah.
Like, I don't know if it was a ceaseasing to say something, but like defamational character, but it wasn't't that because he was literally imitating conservative white Americans.
Just like he did a month ago about the trasters.
Yes.
It's the same thing.
That was my issue. With the whole thing was like that?
Yeah, I was like, to me, this is not a big deal because he literally just did it.
Not that he even had to do that one first.
No.
Because to me, it's comedy and so it doesn't really matter or whatever he was not offensive.
He didn't use derogatory length.
He didn't do any of those things .
To me, it is comedy.
And you just mocked, for lack of a better word, Literally.
The black church.
The black church.
Right?
100%.
The mega churches.
The mega.
Absolutely.
Okay.
Yeah.
Funny.
It was hilarious. Hilarious.
And that got a ton of views as well.
And they got offended clue.
Yeah.
They absolutely did.
What's the saying?
My grandm say?
I heard that dog was holler..
That's it.
That is the thing.
So if if it don't apply, let it fly.
But y'all let hey, you holler, and you don't let it fly, because you know it is triggering because it's the truth.
Yes, absolutely.
And in every joke , it's some truth.
I say that all the time.
That was hilarious to me.
It was so funny.
Now, I thought it was on the other argument, though, on the other side is white people saying, well, if it's okay for black people to do white face or dress up like white people and mock white people, why can't white people dress up like black people do black face?
Let me hear your thoughts on that.
That was the argument.
And I don't, I'm going to be honest with you.
I probably ain't going to have a good opinion about that because that comes from a place of hurt.
Yeah.
That comes from history in the, you know, in the past.
So there were, that was meant to mock, make fun, to hurt.
And we were we were an oppressed , you know, keep the population.
So it, I mean, yeah, okay, y'all want to do that, but y'all take it too far even now.
Because even when y'all do do the blackface, like the ones that do it on TikTok or whatever, y'all think y'all can use the N word or do things like with nooses, like the choking and like hanging, lynching them.
And they take it so far.
They take it too far.
And so I think that's the issue.
What he was doing was parody and joke, but what we feel like white people should not do is is because it was done in the past and it came from a place of hurt and hate.
So I feel like he came from a place of just jokes and money.
I mean, he makes money off of it.
He't, it's funny.
So much money.
Makes jokes and it wasn't, I mean, he honestly can do the same thing because there's not just white conservatives.
There's black conservatives that act like idiots.
I was that he can then turn around and mock them too.
It's not , I don't know.
I could be wrong, but that's just my viewpoint on that.
I think because of what it was in the past and what it was meant to be in the past, meant to hurt, I think that white people still shouldn't do it.
So if it was a white man who mocked the black church, the way that Drrewski did, is that a problem?
I would be, I die laughing.
It's because we So does it depend on then, with that being said?
Is it is it just about the, just the content or like, like how it's how it's done?
And does it dependend on.
So you made a comment about the, the, so when you say blackface, whiteeface, I don't understand.
When you're saying blackface. Just do blackface.
Like they would just paint.
Yeah, and it was called, oh, I was going to say Metstroid.
Oh, gosh.
It was That's another topic.
I thought, right.
No, it was, um, I have it in my phone.
It was like, um, it's we learned it when we were getting our master's.
It was, um, oh, hold on, y'all.
Let me play crazy.
Hold on.
Hey, hey, hey, uh, Minststrual.
That's what it is, but it's called it's spelled M- I-N S- T R E L. Okay.
And it originated in the early 1800s.
It was menstrual shows involved white performers and blackface who portrayed, exaggerated, and offensive stereotypes of black people, reinforcing racial prejudices and promoting a false narrative of black infeority.
Oh, so this is like a real thing.
Like this is this is like a.
Yeah, no, this was a real thing.
This was a real thing back um, in the 1800s.
And so I'm going to show you those.
I'm going to show you on YouTube or, you know, just in general, they have those where they like kind of like Aunt your mama dressed up in the dressed up and paint their faces black and what's called black things.
So to me , this is not even the same thing. At all. At all.
Okay.
So the fact I thought I was that was even posed.
Yeah, that's not, it was the same thing.
It was from, of course, white people..
And I'm not saying that they, I don't know if they were white liberals or conservatives.
I have no idea.
Because one of the guys said said that it was a problem, but the guy who remember the one who was hosting it said that it was not was not a problem.
Right.
He was like, it's comedy.
It's comedy.
It's parody.
But But the other guy was like, well, why can't white people do it?
Right?
Yeah.
And so when it goes on to say that blackface perpetuated harmful tropes, such as the lazy or mischievous black person which contributed to systemic racism and and discrimination throughout history.
And so it just, and it goes on to explain the reasons why blackface is widely regarded as racist and offensive.
And so it goes back to what I was saying, what they did back then was to hurt.
That's very different.
It was with malice.
Yeah.
And what Drewsky was doing was comedy.
Yeah.
It was parody.
He makes fun of everyone.
If you watch him do his No Talent Records or whatever he calls it, you know how I'll be sending you new clits on Instagram and those people come out to audition for his record label.
I mean, he makes fun of everybody.
He does.
He makes fun of gay people.
He makes fun of transgender.
He makes fun of white people, Mexican people.
Black people.
No one is off li.
Nobody's off limits.
No.
So I feel like, you got to know you, first of all, the person who's doing it to know that his intent is not of malice, it's, it's comedy.
Just like you said, he made fun of the black pastors and the megaurches.
So it's comedy to me, and I thought it was freaking hilarious.
So, I mean, it is what it is.
I didn't see a problem with it.
I actually did not see a problem with it either.
I literally was laughing so hard.
In one of a .
So you were talking about black conservatives, which is Candace Owens.
Yeah.
Right.
So she's a black conservative.
So I know that we're not like a huge, huge fan of hers, which is fine.
But one thing she did say was that she was totally okay with that.
She was like, of course she said, oh, was that?
Oh, well, okay, with who?
She was okay with Drrewski.
Oh, for sure.
Yeah.
And she was like, come make fun of me.
She was like, she said, uh, she said, put me on the map.
That's what I'm saying.
She was like, she said.
And so I did, although there's a lot of viewpoints I don't really agree with her on.
Right.
Um, that was one of them that I was like, okay, Cand.
All right.
That's true.
Like with that.
I put her on a lot of stuff, but, hey, she she's starting toon about to a degree.
She's still a little off the ri, you know, sometimes.
She's still conservative, which is fine.
You can have your conservative views on this topic.
Everybody, I mean, I feel like majority, I do. Majority agrees that it was hilarious.
And I think, Drewski makes fun of everybody.
And I think isilarious and I don't feel like, yeah, it's not with malice kind of like you.
The preachers got mad.
Yes, it is.
Absolutely.
I say what I want to say.
I don't care.
Like, you know?
No one is off limit.
Nobody's off limits.
Y'all call me an equal opportunist racist.
I do.
I wanted to say that, but I hated to say that..
Fiction, I got to say, I feel what I got to feel.
Nobody's off limits.
I love people, but I, hey, I'm gonna call you on your shit.
When you're doing shit, I'm gonna call you on that.
It is what it is..
Oh, well, you know.
Hey.
I think it's funny.
I thought it was funny.
I think everybody needs to kind of just relax and chill out.
It wasn't that serious.
I mean, you know, whatever.
It was not.
Yeah.
So that's a T for the week.
A T for the week.
It's time for Auntie talk.
Everybody wants to know.
Everybody wants to know the history of me and Jen and we'll make this real quick.
We ain't got to drag it out, right?
So, you know, we met when we were nine years old, playing soccer.
We did.
We didn't go to school together to middle school.
So, yeah, we playing soccer.
Sevent.
Yeah, seventh grade.
Seventh grade.
Middle school.
We met playing soccer .
I was the sweetest person in all this team.
What?
The lies.
Talk about toxicity.
That's a whole nother toxic trait that she is 100% grown out of Praise Jesus.
Yes.
Who she was back then as this little athlete.
And when I say little, I mean, she was a midget.
Yeah.
Still am.
Still.
I don't think I grew since then.
No.
I think I've been the same height since I was not.
No.
Not at all.
She was rather tough.
Yeah.
And I was not I'm at that point because I still, to this day, any of y'all who know me, know, I'd love just the fellowship.
That is so.
I have I have not changed my tune at all.
I'll go places that I don't even want to be just for the fellowship.
Golf.
Golf is one of them.
I don't want to be there ever.
I don't want to be there.
No, I'm sorry.
But I go for the fellowship.
Shout out to our golfing buddy, the girls.
Y'all know this we, I mean, have a good time.
But yeah, no, I was there for the fellowship.
She so that, you know what?
I never thought about that way, but you absolutely, that's what you did.
You picked butter, I mean, you played with butterflies, you pick flowers.
I did on the soccer field and it would irritate me to no end because I am highly competitive.
And she would just simply kick like a girl and and squeak and scream every time gle ballcash you kick.
I was like, quit damn screaming. Shut up.
Oh, I got on my nerves.
Oh, and then I just used to make fun of her and pick at her 'cause I was like, "Stop freaking kicking like a girl."
Because I was a tomboy.
She I was a tomboy.
Back then, it was okay to be a tomboy .
It was.
It was.
It was very. Time. Time.
But I was a tomboy and she used to kick like a girl all the time and it irritated me to my soul.
And so I used to just pick at her and be like, can you not scream every time you kick the ball?
And then.
I kept screaming.
She kept screaming.
It didn't matter.
She can't screaming.
But then, how the roles reversed, or not really our roles, but on the other teams, is because other kids started picking on her other girls.
And I ain't liked it.
I was like, she so nice.
Don't be picking at her.
So I became her protective.
And I became her friend .
And we've been best friends ever.
Rocking ever since.
And we were nine years old.
Oh, we don't have no pictures there.
I was going to show y'all pictures.
You're on the mall.
But yeah, anyways, yeah, that's how we became friends.
And then we would start going to school, middle school and high school.
And then everybody thinks that we have never not had any issues.
We did.
We do.
We did.
We went two years in high school without speaking to one another.
And we did not talk until graduation day.
I think so.
I think graduation day.
Or no.
Oh, no, no, no.
I think it was We just took pictures of graduation.
It was after graduation that we stopped talking .
Because we didn't start talking until like we were 20, 211.
We started back talking around that time because that's when we end up going to the club.
And I'm trying to remember the guys that we were dating at that time.
That helps me remember.
You knew you were dating.
That's why we weren't talking.
No, right after that.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
One of the reasons.
Yeah.
No.
So the story behind why we not talk we didn't talk for those two years was because Jen had a boyfriend that I could absolutely not stand.
And I was so in love.
She was so in love and he was so trash and not good for her.
And I couldn't stand it.
I hope he watches this.
I .
That's my toxic tray.
See, mine' probably blocked, but she she can. Hopes he watches this.
Yeah, I got to give him my fan for that.
I don't know what I'm say.
It's got a little warm in here.
Unblocked. On for a minute.
Hey, any side note, our producer hates that.
I got to her heard this fan .
He says it messes with the audio, but I'm hot now.
Anyway, so I'll turn on fan over.
But yeah, I could not stand him.
No.
And he was so talk about toxic.
He would cheat on her all the time.
He was the biggest, what do you call that?
The gaslighter?
Because remember, he would do all those sweet things for me.
Like he would be, we took the the the Walmart pictures where we were next to each other.
Like, I still had those pictures.
I was like in my striped shirt and like, he was in, we were in the matching shirts or whatever.
At the Walmart .
Then he would show up with all this stuff.
Remember all this stuff?
He used to be able to buy on the side of the road?
Oh, my God.
He do.
Oh, you use the baskets, the roses and stuff.
All that stuff that you bought the did.
He did.
He used to get.
Yes, he would cheat, and then he would pull up, and then he would have a trunk full of stuff off the side of the road.
And like, he would just, it was just so toxic.
It was terrible.
It was awful.
It was just a terrible situation.
She got on my damn nerves.
And so Jennifer decided she wanted to stay with him.
And then every time he cheated, she called me crying.
Well, I digressed.
Hold on, hold on.
She didn't call me because we have phones then.
She will beat me 911 and I would call her. And she would be crying and, you know, whatever, whatever.
And keep in mind, this goes back to what I was telling you, because it would really irritate me.
I was like, every time he cheeks on you, it's with a black girl.
And I used to do a wife, okay.
So let's dissect this.
Now I wasn't using that word at that age..
I didn't know, yeah, you know, I knew it dissect me, but I, you know, this is my older age saying, listen, let's figure this out..
Like, what's going on?
And I was like, no, you know, you don't need to be with anybody who keeps she on.
So long story short, she kept on going back to him.
And then the last time she called me crying, beat me, I called her She called me crying.
And he was cheating on her with a girl that worked a Kmart.
We worked a celebration.
She so much shame.
Like, it's like, I'm just saying.
She worked at Kmart, you know?
I thought it was Mervyn.
No, it was goddamn me Kmart in Garland.
I remember'cause we pulled up over there, we were in shaky.
I hate her memory.
I got a memory, like a goddamn elephant.
We were in shaky.
I thought we were.
No, your car ain't got no backseat.
Her car didn' not have a backseat.
She drove a.
Cavalier.
No, a Camaro.
Was I in the Camaro then?
Yeah, you had a car.
Oh, yeah, yeah.
I don't know.
Either way, you didn't have no back seat.
I did.
I had the back seat because I had Shaky.
I had a 1988 Hyundai Excel.
Shout out.
Rest in peace.
Wait, rest in peace.
Yeah, every time we pull up to the light, y'all watch.
This would be me, because you know, I kept a car full of friends, right?
Because I was probably only one with like an actual car at that time.
Pull up to the light, shaky, you put you had to put shake it, baby.
Shake it.
Everybody in the car.
We weren't.
Because he needed a trend.
It needed soul out of that woman's.
I don't know how we made it.
We' just all sitting at the light shaky.
So, hey, everybody named the car.
Shaky and Shaky got us everywhere all over DMW in Shaky.
So yeah.
And we were really for the streets..
We were for the streets, though.
In the streets, Hoffman Terle everywhere.
Everywhere.
Every everywhere.
So we pulled up came ago.
We pulled up to Kmart.
I was like, you finna go in there and you finna find that girl?
And you find out what the hell is going on.
We go in there, get that girl, bring her out to the car.
Did she tell her she pregnant?
Uh-huh.
No, she, she was pregnant.
She was pregnant.
Yep.
She just made her .
Yeah.
Yeah.
So, yeah, she had just unalied to her situation. Awful, just saying, you know, hey, we were kids there.
Anyway, she was she was pregnant and she wasn't.
And so I was like, "Jennifer, if you go back to him after this , you that's he nasty.
I was going off because I was prepared to really whoop her, even though I was only 41.
And that girl had to be by five years.
Oh, she was T A L L. Or T what you.
Jennifer.
I was like, I've been doing this Amazon?
Oh, she was She was.
I over that..
I was ready.
I was ready to let her have it.
And so, but then then we felt bad for her.C she said she had just had that situation.
Yeah.
And she was going through it and, you know, she was hurt.
And then you felt even worse when we got there and the whole story played out and he left her back in the back of that car, just crying over there.
She trying to console her the best that she because she ain't a consoler back then.
No.
And, you know, it was just just awful.
It wasn't her fault.
No, it wasn't her fault at all.
You had to grow up and realize it don't be the woman's fault.
It's not.
You had to learn that.
The loyalty needed to come from him from her.
So I could not be mad at her at all.
And I just really felt really bad for her because she literally just hand through that, that thing or whatever.
So I definitely felt bad for her.
Well, long story short, you went back to the greedy grove with that nigga.
And I was like, are you freaking serious?
I gave him one more.
And I was like, if you're going to be with him, then me and you are not going to talk.
She did.
And I meant that.
She When I'friended me, I upfriended you.
Like we do. Like y'all do nowadays on social media.
I'm upfriended her in real life.
We just I'm. Unfriend that her.
That's my block.
That's a toxic.
There you go.
She did.
I was done.
So for two years.
I can't believe it was two years.
We didn't think it was that long.
Yeah, it was two years.
You stayed with her for two years.
We did not talk.
Then we got back together.
I only even know how that happened at that time.
I think I was living in shout out to Winstone Place.
Well, and shout out to the guy who helped me get past that.
Shut up .
Uh, no.
Yes.
Before that, it was another one.
That was not him, though.
He did not help.
He was gay.
I was sorry!
He was Hey, Jen.
He was gay.
Even back then, have you seen him now?
We've never seen or heard from him.
But I guarantee if we find him on social media , that boy's gay.
So he was not the one who helped.
That next one was like..
So she said to cheat back, I guess, and she cheat back.
I did.
But that boy was gay.
Yeah, I did.
Okay.
Okay.
Well, yeah, for sure.
He was cheering.
He was a cheerleader.
At the time, then, that wasn't normal.
You want to know what's so crazy is that was was such a bad time in my life.
I blocked so much of that out.
I remember more stuff that she does about my own life.
Because I blocked, I blocked him out.
I blocked, I blocked a lot of that stuff out.
So because, and I, that is shout out to Debbie Barber for that trait because she does the exact same thing..
She blocks any type of some trauma type things that go on.
She blocks that out.
Well.
And you, you bring it back.
I'm sorry for me.
And it's like, I remember everything.
But no, that second one, it's always is what I want to do.
I want to say this.
Like, thank you to the guys that really help you realize what you've been missing.
Hello?
I was like, oh.
Is this what I's supposed to feel like?
All the things.
Like, like, everything.
Is this what.
I don't even want to say everything else.
And then you were like, no.
His hygiene was broken.
Don't tired.
I knew he not going to say that.
Oh, you was like, "Oh, okay.'cause I didn't know any better.
I was like, I was a virgin.
I like that.
Yeah.
I did not know.
I had to have a good hygiene.
And by that point, I was 22 and I was like, " God, I should know better than this.
Like, this is like, I've been living under a rock.
Yeah, you.
You would have lived under a grove side..
If I didn't want to give him up, but then he was kind of easy to give up a little bit after that because he was definitely like the rebound person.
Right.
Yeah.
But, so cool.
Like, really so cool.
Yeah.
Well , you know, hey, we got past that.
We do.
And we rekindled, we reconnected.
Let' tell you, we reconnected.
We're going out.
And it was me, her and another one of our homegirls.
Shout out to her.
We were going out. And it's first time taking Jennifer out to know.
I know what' say.
And this girl showed up in some work clothes.
She had some slacks on.. And a turtle neck. And a chainbill and some dress shoes.
I told you I didn't know anything about anything.
Here you go.
She had never been to a club before.
No, you went when we were 16,c we got in trouble.
That one time?
That was the only time, and then I was never able to go back.
No, you're right.
And so and then you had missed years of hanging out with me, you showed up in that and I was like, oh, no.
And you had your glasses on.
I did.
I had to sleep.
I had to be able to see. .
I couldn't see.
Oh, we had to go anyway, 'cause, you know, we had to follow through.
Can we followed through.
You fixed it up, though, a little bit.
I can't remember, like, what you did.
Oh, it had a chain belt and we added the chain belt to just.
Maybe that was it. Chain that little link belt.
Y'all remember we wore it back in that day.
I did something different with my hair, maybe, or whatever.
No, you had that curly perm.
You had had that perm.
Oh, I had a perm!
Oh,member when Amia gave me, version?
What's those?
The pinwheel.
What they call?
Pink curl?
That was a different size.
Very different.
That's what when they used a gail on your hair.
Anyway, so I was a lame.
It's okay.
Yeah.
It's okay.
You had never really been out as a grown person.
No.
And I don't know if we were 22 then.
Yes, we were, no, no.
We were 19.
We were 1920.
We were not 22 because it were in Houston.
I mean, 21.
No, 20, 1920.
Because we left for Houston in 21.
So we lived in Houston, went to college out there.
I went to TSU, shout out TSU.
She went to your age, but we still lived together.
Yeah, we got some stories about that too.
But listen, no.
Oh, either way, we were in our early 20s.
Eitherwhere I was the lame..
And, you know, we had a great time.
And then from that moment on, I knew I was going to be dressing her the rest of my life.
What was your.
Even to this very second, just a few minutes ago, she's said, can you change and take something?
I'm like, okay.
I was like, don't put that on.
And he's like, come on.
I love I love it.
So, yeah, we werekled and we've been rocking ever since.
And we've been inseparable ever since.
We have.
We have a couple of fallouts, but our fallouts last, maybe the longest 24 hours.
Some of them only 30 seconds.
So, contrary to popular belief, we do not always get along.
No, we don't.
We don't get along.
And just because I'm the passive personality and she is the more, y'all have no idea how aggressive my personality can get at times.
So I am, I don't, I'm I'm okay with saying whatever it is to her, contrary to what everyone.
It actually kind of makes me mad because everybody thinks you're the nice, sweet, innocent one.
Yeah.
And thinks I'm the mean one all the time.
And it's like, no, dog.
At least they just think you're the more vocal mean.
Yeah, just vocal.
I can't people think you're mean.
Some of them think I'm mean, but really , she be mean on the phone and telling me, I'm not doing it.
I'm not.
She mean.
I'll be like, dog, come on, let's go ahead.
She's mean.
I'm working on that in 2026 as well.
Meaner than me.
Half the time, she' want to go nowhere.
This'all, if I listen to her every time, we would never go nowhere, we wouldn't be in no dinners no lunch. 'cause Jen' would be like, I don't feel like doing that.
I'm tried no a lie better about that.
I don't't do any pushback anymore with that. Much better.
Plus, I want to find a husband.
Yeah, okay, that's true.
Yeah.
Yeah, we do want to.
But that is very true, though.
If I could be at home , she'd be home.
I'll be at home. Too.
I'll be home soon.
I don't care.
All the time.
But yeah.
So, I mean, it is what it is.
But we don't.
Yeah.
That's all history.
That day, though, that we had that disagreement and it was like, I can't even.
See, we have disagreements and I can't even remember what they are.
But we were talking about something I can't remember .
And then all of a sudden we just bust out laughing because I was about laughing We were talking about the person who said that we don't ever disagree.
And he was like, no, I don't believe that.
And we just busted in the middle of the disagreement.
And we were in the same car for some reason.
We were in the same car because I't remember. Goddamn flat tires.
Oh, that's the same car..
That was that day, too?
No.
No.
I had my old car.
We went my other car was the week before.
I can't remember why we were in the same car.
You had a flat tire.
No, no, you didn't.
No.
I don't know.
I can't remember.
Eway.
I car.
You know, we had to go set up their closing.
Oh, that's right.
And so, yeah, we left.
Okay, so that's why we were in the same car and I was driving and we were saying something.
I don't even know.
I can't.
We did not agree.
We were like, and we And I'm like, we get snappy.
Yeah.
No.
She was snapping.
I was like, that's not what's happening right now.
And I was like, it is actually what's happening.
I don't know.
But we just.
And then we just buzzed out loud.
I just not laughing.
Because we were like, we got on with the with the rest of the day. 30 seconds.
Literally.
Literally.
So, yeah.
So we know how to maintain relationship .
We're good at it.
We know how to work.
And we don't go to social media..
Like we don't ever, like, that's probably the reason why people think that, though, because we are, we are really 80s babies in that respect is that we just don't go to social media for that stuff.
This is to ourselves.
Like, I mean, this generation is freaking annoying.
I is our business.
We're really, though, we're doing the podcast and we do do a lot of stuff on social media.
Our lives are private.
Yeah.
I mean, like, nobody really knows what we have going on.
We don't, I mean, we don't brag.
We don't have, we, we don't entertain all that.
We got time for it, but it is what it is.
So, I don't know.
We worked it out, though.
We do.
We work it all that.
I'm not worried anyway now.
I mean, I got to keep her at this point.
I mean, ain't over.
Best thing ever happened to us.
I'm going to say the same.
You are.
You are my better half.
There we go.
Until we get another half.
There we go.
There will be a square.
We'll be four quarters.
Speaking of that, we're going to get married on the same day.
We want our husbandsors. Really click and like each other.
We hope that they are like.
Brothers.
Brothers.
Oh, wait a minute.
No, they ain't got to be brothers.
Brothers or friends.
Or friends or relatives of some sort of work.
But friends.
Either way, we hope that they really, really like each other.
And they don't mind that we're always together and they don't mind that they can be together with us.
And we can all be together and have a good time and travel and be together.
Yes.
Yeah.
And live in separate homes, but be together.
Sure.
Yeah, that would be great.
I think that would be okay.
I do.
I don't think that's much.
That would be a great life for us.
God moves mountains.
I feel like he can easily shift that.
So the question though, is there everybody wants to know how we sustain this friendship.
And that was a question that was asked to us by one of my really good friends.
Shout out to him.
But we don't, we're not jealous of one another .
And we believe in loyalty.
Like, loyalty is really number one for me and Jen.
Like, we've had friends coming to our lives and, you know, try to infiltrate what we have going on.
Most of that your fault, though.
Well, you know, hey, I'd just be minding my business.
It's like they all come in because they think that it's so funny because people think that they really know this girl and y'all really do not know this girl.
But they see like all of the glits and the glamour type of like things and then this funny, amazing personality out there.
And she's all of those things .
But she's a big baby and she's so transparent, vulnerable, like has a heart, like people just think that they, you know, know her.
And it's like, no, you don't, don't really know me.
And then they come in and they want to be friends.
And I don't mind the friends, but like the ones that try to infiltrate and try to come in between us, they didn't make it.
They didn't make it..
They didn't not here because we gracefully disconnect.
That's right.
Because loyalty is what we, you know, me and Jen are loyal.
Like, and that's how we are in anything, honestly.
So, yeah, that's how we sustain.
We're not jealous of each other.
I've always had other people, no Shay, no T at all, that, you know, maybe I' or I know of for a fact that tried to talk to some of my boyfriends at the time.
And they were talking like my really good friends.
And so that hurt me.
And I just realized then that I got to stick with , stick with me, who I know ain't never did me like this.
So I just feel like, you know, that's how we sustain.
We're not of each other.
We uplift one another.
We want the best for each other.
And Unconditionally want the best for each other.
Like, it's like, you know, we want both of each other to be because when she's up, I'm up.
Right.
I'm up.
She's up.
Exactly.
You know, so it's definitely that.
Whereas not a lot of friendships are really like, that.
Like, it just doesn't.
No.
It doesn't roll like that.
So, you know, it is what it is.
But that's how we sustain.
I mean, we communicate.
We've had blowups.
When I blow up, when she blows up, we cry.
Oh, man.
We cry together, and we cry about it, and then we talk it out, and then we take a break, and then we come back to it .
And we just always know that nobody's going to be able to come between the two of us.
Not no man.
We'll never let another man come between you.
I's not going, Lord.
I hate to say never, because you always say never.
But what we have vowed to not let another man come in between us and not let other friends or relationships come in between us.
So if you choose to be Jen's friend, then just know you choosing to be my friend.
If you choose to be my friend's no, you choosing to be Jen's friend.
And that's just what that is.
And if you can't, don't invite me if you ain't invited her.
Oh, my God.
Oh, yes, I did that last night.
And I'm going to tell you something, too.
That person never even responded to me about coming to your birthday party.
But as, did I, did you have something for your birthday ?
And if so, he didn't get no invite.
To mine?
Yeah, like, because your birthday just passed.
Yeah.
And was like, uh, did G have something for her birthday?
Because I didn't get no invite.
I said, she didn't.
But.
But I all the way invited you when other people got mad at me, for not remembering to invite invite them..
But she'srew me a surprise birthday party.
Yay.
Yeah.
Anybody who knows we know when my birthday coming around, baby.
It's a whole, it's a holiday.
It is.
It's And it was great.
Yeah.
So I got mad at him whenever I realized that the other day after we talked about that.
So, yeah, he, people, period, in general, do not invite me nowhere or her anywhere, unless it is a date, of course, right?
Yeah.
But just, if it's going to kick it somewhere, do something , when you say, Cher, are you coming out tonight, just know you just said, Cher, are you and G and coming out tonight?
Are we getting out?
Are we going, if I'm going to be in the streets, she going to be in the streets with me.
What I look like going to the streets by myself?
It's my dog.
Uh.
This is who I feel safer.
We're going to the streets together.
If I'm going to she going, we going together.
And if she say she can't make it, I'm going to put them feet together and get to doing this and pull that car up and grab that remote , baby, and, uh, put them glasses on and mind my business.
Okay?
How about that?
Y'all don't have to worry about it inviting it.
You can't have one without the other and that love and marriage.
You can't have one without the.
You have to watch that show.
I loved it.
So it is what it is.
But yeah.
Speaking of that, so I will say really quick to rewind.
My mom told me a story a long time ago when her and my dad got married that they told each other that divorce is just not an option.
Like they're going to work through anything and everything that they're going to go through, no matter what it is.
Of course, unless he beats her out, you know, stuff like that.
Right.
That is how our friendship is.
I feel like that we , um, without even being said, that is our kind of like you said a second ago, our v.
So in relationships and stuff like that, that person is really, because it's, it's, we, I mean, it's, it's hard.
Now, it's not really hard anymore..
And not hard is not the.
It's.
Yeah.
But you have to know that not being friends is just not an option and which makes you care enough about that other person to make sure that you are mindful aware, caring all the things that go into that.
So that kind of, that helps our relationship as well, because we don't allow it to be a choice.
We're not fly by night friends.
We're not fly by night.
I'm not, I'm going to be, if this girl is ever out of my life, I would be deaf my whole, y'all would never see me.
Right.
So it would.
It would.
Ditto.
Yeah.
It would be one of those things.
So that's, that's how I look at. Our friendship.
And what I will say, too, is that, and then we promise we're going to wrap that up.
Is that a lot of people don't live by girl code.
Yeah.
And I'm not saying this girl code across the board to everybody else because if I don't know you, I don't know you, so I don't owe you nothing.
Right.
I don't owe you no loyalty.
You don't owe me nothing.
Right.
None of that.
But with here and within our friendships, because we do have friends that are like, we've been known for many years.
We've been friends for over 20 years.
So in our friendships, and especially right here, girl code, there's loyalty .
If I I'm not, we're not one of those friends.
If I step out and I'm looking to the team.
Oh, gosh, you're going to be looking to the team.
We're not stepping out.
Like, I'm not, we're not those friends.
And we do believe in girl code.
If that was your, at one point in time, if that was your dude, then that was your dude.
Hey, it's a wrap.
I'm good, I'm done.
We don't really have the same taste in men anyway.
No, we don't.
But if that were to ever happen , I'm good.
If you're good, I'm good.
If you you even remotely said, hey, I was attracted to Jen at one point.
Oh, you need to go over there.
And vice versa, like, you cannot be here with us and ever mention that you were attracted to her, attracted to me, or I really want to talk to her first.
No, it's just girl code.
We just trying to keep it keep it choose..
You one and you roll me.
And that's the one you chose.
You better make your decision why.
Because you're the wrong with it.
You're gonna roll with that.
And we believe in that in everything.
It's just girl called friendships, relationships.
We just stay with all of that.
So it is what it is.
So much so where she's left me at home while she with one of her exes.
For sure.
For me to watch his ass.
Watch you.
You know you all shout out to Twwan. .
And I mean like overnight days.
And I'm like, oh, my gosh.
Like, this is crazy.
But yeah, I agree with you 100%.
Like code And you want friends like that around you that also want you to like, I appreciate the fact, because, you know, there's been issues with my own, you know, things, things going on or whatever is where she always wants me to feel, you always want me to feel pretty.
Yes.
And in my, and comfortable in my skin.
In your skin without it being, I know it gets annoying sometimes .
Yes.
But, you know, we, you just, you want those type of people in your life.
Right.
You know what I mean?
And I, so, I mean, I, I tell my niece this all the time.
Like, you know, when you get, you choose your friends wisely.
Everybody not your friend.
Once they cross you, it is what it is.
Y'all do not let no man come between y'all.
Right.
Do not let no other friends come in and try to infliltrate it break y'all up because I like her and her best friend.
Yeah.
And don't let nobody come around.
That's the thing.
We see these new age friendships, and these people coming up.
Y'all be treated.
We would not survive.
What the hell y'all got going on in this new age generation ?
But it's some of y'all even old school people, like, y'all tripping.
I don't know, but we just don't operate in that space.
And I think that's what's been able to help us sustain this friendship.
I mean, we are not, I I mean, we just loyalty and we trust I trust her with my life.
Like she knows my Social Security number.
She know everything there is, my account numbers, and vice versa.
I. And that's why we can get a business with each other and we ain't have the right shit down and be like, oh, you get this.
No, we already, it was understood, don't have to be explained because wewe each other so much.
When we got money, when she got money, I got money, when I got money, she got money, that's what they did.
So y'all need to learn how to operate in those spaces.
Not everybody can be friends and go into business together.
It doesn't work for everybody, but it works for us. And we rocking and rolling and we love it.
So that's.
That answers that question.
You know, hey, it is what it is real quick before we go.
Because we do got to wrap.
Let's wrap it up.
But hold on, hold on.
Let me give you a few rapid fire questions.
I got a couple rapping fire questions, G. Oh, I wanted you to go first.
Okay, well, you gonna go first.
Okay.
This time, and I'm gonna do a few of them.
And washcloth or no washcloth?
Washcloth.
Okay.
Shower every day or every few days?
Every day.
Twice a day.
Sometimes three.
There we go.
Hot Links or Tai food?
Hot Links.
That's a nig open thing.
Duh.
Straight teeth or straight legs on a man?
Ooh.
Oh, you got to answer that.
Um, uh, Does he have to have straight teeth or straight legs?
Straight teeth.
I think, I don't know!
I don't like this.
I don't like.
Oh, I like good legs, too.
That's stress.
I know.
I don't know.
Okay, I'm going to do one more number never say the rest for next .
Beard or fresh face?
Oh, beard.
Okay.
All day.
Okay.ard agree.
I'll answer it real quick because I know everybody's going to one of my answers.
Wash cloth for sure sure.
Shower every day, multiple times a day, morning and night.
I got a shower to wake up because I don't drink coffee.
No.
And I got a shower at night before I get in my bed sheets.
Don't get in my bed dirty.
Don't the kids. .
Not trying to hear that.
No, we made times a day.
It is what it is.
Hot links to Thai food.
Thai food.
Baby, play crazy, because, you know, I am not finna eat a hot link.
Thai food all day.
I got to know the engine in this one.
Keep going, please.
Straight teeth or straight legs.
I want to know.
I'll just be single.
'Cause you got.
You's not standing.
You's.
You cannot stand..
You got your teeth gotta be right and your legs.
I was like,How are you gonna answer that?
They can be bowleg or straight, but they cannot knock.
Let me tell you, I can't do kn knees.
Oh, oh, let me answer this.
Let me this..
I'm going to go for straight legs because we can fix the teeth.
Ah, there you go.
How five.
Good.
High five.
Good.
There we go.
Okay.
I agree.
There we go.
I agree.
There we go with that two.
We.
And you already know, beard, fresh face.
I like them 100%.
Oh, I love when it rub against you.
Oh, yeah.
I love a salt and pepper with it.
This, come with some salt in that beer, please .
Salt me down.
Okay.
All right, I hope y'all enjoyed it.
You know.
We'll holler y'all later.
It's time for Aie..
Our information for this week is Being a Auntie Is't an age.
It's an energy.
Clock that.
Oh, middle?
No, I don't know.
Okay.
These kids confused.
Let's do both.
We're gonna do do.
We're gonna start a new trend.
You're gonna do both.
Let's go viral.
So, Auntie, affirmation again, is being a Aie isn't an age.
It's the energy.
Oh, I love that one.
Great.
Anyways, Good Josh.
Holler us later.
We'll see you next week.
Mah.