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Dr. Mindy Pelz: Okay, Resetters,
I've got another solo episode
for you. And this one is a tool
that I've created to help you
customize your fasting
lifestyle. And really to help
you understand your relationship
to food, understand the healing
that's going on while you fast.
This is a really fun tool that I
created last year. And it's now
available to you. And I'm really
excited to walk you through it.
So here we go. Are you ready?
What the tool is, is it's called
the fast cycle girl journal. A
little side note, when a book
does really well, on Amazon, all
of a sudden, some workbooks will
show up. And last year, so many
workbooks that were not endorsed
by me, many of them were created
by AI showed up all over Amazon.
And unfortunately, some of you
actually bought those workbooks
and were disappointed in them.
And so I love this idea of
taking the information that I
laid out in fastonic, a girl and
now having an experience with
it. And so I love the workbook
idea, but I wanted to make sure
that we had one that was based
off the principles I teach. So
we decided to go in to building
you a journal. And for those of
you that are Journalers, you're
probably like, oh, yeah, I've
learned in writing a journal,
that we have some people that
are like journal obsessed. And I
think that's amazing, I would
not necessarily fall in that
category. But I have heard from
so many people that have shared
with me that journals and
writing down their experience
while they're fasting is really
helpful. Now the other unique
thing before I go into the
journal and how to use it, and
why you're going to find some
real healing within these pages,
is that a good friend of mine,
her name is Alex Elle. She
teaches people how to use
journaling for their therapeutic
healing. And when fastonic Girl
first came out, she reached out
to me and she's like, You really
need to do a journal because my
experience as I've been fasting
has been that I'm really
changing my relationship to
food. Without my body having to
deal with the digestion of
fasting, I'm actually now able
to have more insight in how I
use food. And that's where a
journal would be great. So when
I decided to collaborate on this
journal, I went to Alex and I'm
like, you already know what it's
like to build a fasting
lifestyle helped me make this
journal, the best fasting
journal we possibly can. And so
she did. So this is a
collaboration project with her.
If you don't follow Alex L, I
highly recommend you follow her
on Instagram. If you haven't
read her books, my favorite one
is the one she most recently put
out a few years back, which is
called how we heal and you will
see that she is a fan of using
journaling for the healing
process. So with that in mind,
what I want to do is I want to
break the journal down. And
there's a couple different ways
that you can use this podcast.
One is you could just listen, I
promise I will be teaching the
different principles of fasting
lifestyle throughout this
podcast. Some of you are really
working to overturn your food
addictions. And if that's you
please listen through because I
had you in mind when I wrote
this journal. Some of you are
discovering that you are
starting to get some real
spiritual and mental insight
when you are in a fasted state.
And you need some more we call
them prompts and ways to dive
deeper into the incredible
clarity that fasting brings you.
And so some of you are going to
actually use this journal in the
fasted state to really have a
deeper understanding of this
intimate relationship you are
creating with your body as you
are building a fasting
lifestyle. And you may have some
aha laws that you are going to
discover throughout the
different sections of this
journal. And then some of you if
you're like me, and you have a
bit of an add brain, you need
something to do during your
fasting windows. And so I have a
whole activity section at the
back of the book that I'll go
through that I'm super proud of.
And by the way, this journal is
available now on on Amazon or in
bookstores so you can order it
if you have it and you want to
follow along or you order it and
then you want to come back to
this podcast and follow along
with it. That's great as well.
For those of you that are
watching this on YouTube this
you can see what the cover looks
like. It's a beautiful coral
color with the fastonic girl
logo on the front. Welcome to
the resetter podcast. This
podcast is all about empowering
you to believe in yourself
again. If you have a passion for
learning if you're Looking to be
in control of your health and
take your power back. This is
the podcast for you.
So I started with the first part
is called the foundation. And
just so we're you all are sort
of clear on my mindset when I go
to write, you know, I, I really
have you in mind, I'm really
writing to you all. And so many
of you have been so gracious at
like putting in where your
struggles are. And one of the
things that I've noticed amongst
women in general is that a lot
of us really struggled to
believe in our bodies, and
especially to believe in the
healing power of our bodies.
Yet, we begin to fast and all of
a sudden, we have this new
relationship of the power of our
body within. And then sometimes
we're in the middle of a fast
and we start doubting, we're
like, my brain is foggy, my
heart is racing, I'm hungry,
does my body really know what to
do. And so because there is this
inconsistency in us really
feeling the power of our own
body, the first part of this
book, I have a letter from me,
to you all. So please read it, I
wrote it with my heart wide
open, if you and I were sitting
in a room together, this is what
I would want you to know. And
then I have a part of the part
one called you are your best
healer, which is absolutely
something that I strongly feel
that we need to start looking
at. We have a doctor within we
are our own best doctors, we
have spent way too many years,
giving the power away to doctors
who have gaslit us who has have
given us prescriptions instead
of lifestyle tools. We have
walked into too many doctors
offices and felt unheard,
unrecognized. And so if that's
you, I have to tell you, you are
your best doctor. So I really
wanted you to get to know that
doctor within which is why I
have a whole page for you a
whole couple pages on your your
best tailor. Then I also wanted
to put in some of the fasting
questions answers to a lot of
the fasting questions like what
breaks a fast? And what do I do
if I feel X, Y and Z and a
fasting window? So I have some
of my fasting FAQs in there? And
then what is it? How do you read
the healing responses that your
body is giving you because
symptoms in a fasted state are
are just messages from the body?
But how do you interpret them?
So the first part of this whole
journal is exactly that. It's
let's let's line you up with
believing in your body. Let's
understand this healer within
let's understand the symptoms
it's giving it and those of you
who have been like I've been
asking these questions, and I'm
still not getting answers, I put
a whole FAQ section in here. So
that's how that part one starts.
Now I also if you're like me, I
like a Cliff's Notes version of
something so fast, like a girl
had a lot of explanation of the
six different length fast. But I
wanted to just boil down the six
different length fast. So if you
ever had like, a moment where
you're like, I don't know,
should I fast? 17 hours, should
I fast? 20 hours? How would I
make that decision? What I did
in the first section is I have
like, here's why you would do a
36 hour fast. Here's why you
would do 48 hours, here's why
you would want to lean into a
three day water fast. What is a
gut reset fast? Like how would
you use that? So I boiled it
down into very into bullet
points and into simple short
paragraphs so you can choose the
fasting lifestyle that works for
you. Okay, so that's all part
one. That's just part one. Part
two. Part two is where Alex's
genius came in. And she and I
worked diligently on what are
some questions we can ask
ourselves in our fasted state to
get to know our body better. Now
I want to talk about the way our
body talks to us. I have over
the last several podcasts. I've
been really trying to explain
this concept that your body
holds information. So if you
listened to the podcast I did
with Dr. Sarah Godfried, or the
podcast interview I did with my
breath worker, Cape horseman,
you will hear that I'm a big fan
of this idea that the Body Keeps
the Score. And if you don't know
that book, I highly recommend
you get it. It was the one of
the first books that really
pierced the culture that
explained that our traumas are
within and that the body holds
on to traumas. So when we try to
fix any traumatic situation, we
try to fix it from the mind, but
really we should be fixing it
from the body. And what you'll
hear Kate and I discuss what you
know Sarah and I discuss is that
fasting is one way to hear what
your body is speaking to you. So
when you're in the fasted state,
what I did is I broke these
questions In these prompts into
several categories, I broke them
into, like what mentally needs
to improve in your life? Like,
how do you become more grounded?
What in your life? Do you need
more clarity on? What in your
what in your health? Do you need
to be focused on? So these
prompts have let's see how many
questions we have 50 questions
per prompt. And each morning, I
have a tracking system. So
that's in part two is a tracking
system, where you will take a
question from one of these
sections, and you will journal
on it. So you will write down
the question, maybe the question
is, what does my body need from
my lifestyle right now? And
you'll write it down. And then
you just write like a journal,
you just answer it and let your
body speak to you. So the
questions have been broken down
into what do you mentally need?
What do you emotionally need?
What do you spiritually need?
And what do you physically need?
So I've put it into categories.
So you get to choose my goal, or
my hope with this journal is
that you will wake up and in the
morning, and you will be like in
a fasted state, and you will go
to your 60 day tracker, and you
will pull one of these questions
out, and you will journal on it.
And you get to choose Do you
want to go down a spiritual
journaling path today? Do you
want to go down emotional, do
you want to go down what you
physically need, but in that
fasted state, there is wisdom.
And why what motivated me to do
this journal more than anything,
was, I don't want you to lose
the fact that your body is
speaking
to you. And you if you just
quiet your mind, and you sit in
a location where you're
journaling, and you're asking
these questions, your body will
tell you what you need. Now, a
lot of you are data hounds, and
I love this. And a lot of you
are really trying to understand
what lathe fast works for you.
Some of you are trying to
understand what how to break
your fast. So in the the 60 day
tracker section, not only do I
have the the prompts, and you
can journal on the answers to
those. But opposite that page, I
have a fasting tracking sheet,
this actually was born out of
something I've used with my own
personal clients. So when I go
to customize a client's fasting
lifestyle, I track a lot I track
glucose, I track how many blood
sugar spikes they have, in a
day, I look at how quickly the
blood sugar comes down, I track
their HRV and their sleep, their
total sleep and their deep sleep
and their REM sleep I track
symptoms like bloatedness, and
breast tenderness and
constipation, like I have a
whole tracker system so that we
can start to see patterns. And I
think this is the beautiful
thing about the longer you stick
with a fasting lifestyle, the
more these patterns will be
revealed to you. And so I wanted
to create prompts for you to see
the pattern. So let me just give
you something an example of what
you'll see, in this fast
tracking. In this 60 Day
tracker, you're going to see the
reflection questions that you'll
be journaling on. And then
you're going to see little boxes
and the little boxes have things
like what kind of fast are you
doing today? And is it longer
than the day before. So you can
use that prompt to either to
remind yourself of what you're
doing today or what you did
yesterday, but it starts to help
you see because you'll go back
or if you do this over 60 days,
you'll start to see your
favorite length fast, you'll be
like whoa, I did a lot of 17
hour fasts or oh my gosh, I
haven't done a 24 hour fast and
a long time because you'll be
using this tracking system for
60 days. So it's enough to see
that pattern. Then underneath
that I have a way of but I have
a little box that for those of
you that track ketones, I want
you to look at your ketone
levels when you wake up. And the
reason that that's important is
because that tells you how your
fasting lifestyle work for you
the day before. So if you're
trying to stay in a ketogenic
state, it's great to look at
your ketones when you first wake
up. I also have a section those
of you that have CGM or you're
using a Keto Mojo, where you're
going to record your blood sugar
values. So you're going to look
at what your blood sugar is like
when you wake up your blood
sugar midday and your blood
sugar before you go to sleep.
And the reason that I like to
look at ketones and blood sugar
is it's it's an A bill it's a
way remember blood sugar tells
you how you're doing within your
your eating window. And ketones
tell you how you're doing within
your fasting window. So they're
like data driven points that
tell That's how the sugar burner
system is doing and how the fat
burner system is doing. And when
you track them over several
days, you'll start to see the
changes. Okay, then I put in
there, how do you track your
moods when you're fast. And the
reason that this is important is
that when you first fast, some
people will notice that their
moods may not be great. But over
time, you may start to see your
moods improve. So why I want
that wanted that there. And I
give you options that you can
put, you're angry, you're sad,
you're neutral, you're happy or
you're overjoyed is that I want
you to start to look at the
length of your fast and your
moods, because every one of us
is going to have a different
fasting length. And so I want
you to be able to see again,
what's the right fasting length
for you. So we're looking at
your ketones and your blood
sugar, and we're looking at your
mids. Then I also for those of
you that are cycling, I have a
tracker in there where you can
track your what day of your
cycle are you are on. I also
those of you that are very
active, I have a section on talk
about the activity that you did.
And how was that? Was it better?
This is where I really want you
to focus in on it. Was it better
to eat before you worked out?
Did what did you when you got
done working out? What Foods Did
you break it with these all
matter when you're looking at
patterns around your fasting
lifestyle. And then we look at
sleep? How many hours sleep you
have those of you that might
have a tracking system you can
put in there like did you get a
lot of deep sleep did you not?
So you can start to see where
too much faster you may be
affecting your sleep, were
certainly fast can improve your
sleep. That's what I'm hoping
those prompts will will show
you. And then I have two more
sections within the tracking
system where you can look at
your energy levels. And you can
look at what you broke your fast
with. So again, remember the
purpose of a journal is to have
self reflection. So I tried to
think of the things that if you
and I were sitting down, and we
were customizing a fasting
lifestyle, what questions what I
asked you to be able to help you
customize the best fasting
lifestyle for you. And that's
what I put on this tracker
system. Now, I do want to point
out that if you're lost at all
with your fasting lifestyle, I
am doing a solo episode like
this one, I have available that
I did a whole hour to my reset
Academy people where I talked
about all everything you need to
know about customizing a
personal fasting lifestyle. So
that episode mixed with this
episode mixed with with the
journal is really going to help
you take this to the next level.
And one of my value systems is
that I'm not here just to give
you information to entertain
you, or to make myself feel
better. I am here to give you
information to change your life.
And I am so proud to say that
between the journal and this
episode and the other episode, I
feel like you have some really,
really solid tools to be able to
customize this for yourself. And
their time efficient. I have
some amazing tools on my YouTube
channel. But there's 1500 videos
over there. So I've synthesized
this fasting lifestyle path into
these two resetter podcasts and
the journal to make it easier
for you. Okay, now, after you've
done and I'm hoping you'll do
the 60 day tracker, like commit
to it for 60 days. So you can
see the patterns you can get to
know the questions will help you
see this a little deeper. And
then my favorite part of the
whole journal is the back end.
So I have created activity
pages. And the activity pages
are multiple. There's multiple
things for starters, there's
some coloring pages, I got into
adult coloring pages about a
year ago. And I went into the
neuroscience of it. I was like
why when I color a page, like
when I was a kid, do I feel
calm? And sure enough, coloring
is one of those and just, you
know, either free flow, but
you'll see that I've got
motivational affirmations on
these coloring pages. But it's
one of those ways that we move
out of our amygdala and into our
prefrontal cortex. It calms the
thinking mind. Now the amygdala
is the part of the brain that's
always trying to keep us safe.
And when you are in longer fast,
especially that amygdala may be
screaming at you. It may be like
why are you doing this? The
amygdala really is it can squawk
at you. And so if that's you,
and you find in a fasted state,
you don't like the mindset that
you develop, try coloring. It's
really common and it puts you in
that predicament frontal cortex
and the prefrontal cortex is the
part of the brain that that
shows you hope and possibility
it and it soothes you. So I'm
hoping you'll use this the
coloring pages, there's one,
let's see 12344 different
coloring pages in here with
affirmations, and my designer
designed them. And so I hope you
enjoy it. And that helps you
there. Okay, but I didn't stop
there, then I go into some real
key parts of these activities,
pages one is a page I call I
matter. And you'll see that I
really am hoping especially
those of you when you go into
these longer fasts, that you
really get clear on why you
matter. Because if you don't put
yourself as a priority, if you
don't have a sense of your
worthiness, when you go into
these fasted states, you might
start second guessing yourself.
So I want you to hear your inner
voice, I want you to commit to
your worthiness. And so the eye
matter page is about putting
down short little statements
that will help you understand
why you matter. And you might
put on there like I matter
because I'm a kind human, I
think that's that's one of the
greatest reasons to matter. And
I bring kindness to every
conversation that I have, you
might put I matter because I am
in charge of three little humans
that I need to make sure I stay
healthy for I matter, because my
thoughts are important to the
world. There's a lot of
different reasons you you
matter. But I really want you to
emphasize that. Then I on on the
next page, I have something
called my circle of support.
This one's really important in
this I learned from a patient of
mine who was going through a
cancer diagnosis and was really
trying to assess who in her life
she wanted to keep close, and
who was a negative influence
that was affecting her healing
that she wanted to keep far
away. So I gave it different
levels, level one through level
four. And in the circle support,
you can color it too. But I also
want you to put in there in
level one who's in your front
row who's cheering you
on, who's you know, I did a
whole podcast interview with my
friend Dr. Gara, Karen Gordon
about the middle chair, people
that cheer you want and want to
see that you're well, that would
all go in the level one. People
that are like they bring you
joy, but you don't. Sometimes
you don't completely feel like
they have your back, they would
be level two. And then level
three and level four would be
people that you intentionally
need to to be around less, that
they derail you from your health
habits. And they they can they
can make you feel bad about
yourself. So I explained how to
use each one of these and I even
put level one is front row
cheerleaders. Level two is the
inspirers. The men, the mentors,
level three is friends with
boundaries. And level four are
the naysayers. And it's just a
reminder, when you and you might
do that one in pencil because
those people move around and
they change but it's a good
opportunity to look at that.
Okay, then the next thing I put
is a whole beautiful page on
what you're grateful for. And
it's in a it's in a picture of a
sunflower. And I love it because
sunflowers are my favorite. And
so you get to write down all the
things you're grateful for. I
personally spend 20 minutes
every morning listening to music
and going through a just an
analysis of everything I'm
grateful for in my life. I think
this is a great prompt to do in
the morning, after you've done
your tracking sheet. Go to I am
grateful. You might put a couple
of things every morning in
there, and then it can change
over time. Okay, then the next
page is health goal page, which
is how do you pick? How do you
set health goals and create a
strategy around achieving those
health goals. So I put in here,
everything from the top health
goals, you have people who are
going to support you and in
achieving those health goals,
daily actions, you're going to
take rewards, you're going to
give yourself information you
need to help you hit those
health goals. How you're going
to feel when you when you hit
the health goal. And in
supportive environments you're
going to put yourself in. So if
you're trying to lose weight, or
you have a big health goal, put
it right in the center of this
activity page. And then over
time, fill in the other pieces
because the other pieces are
important. If you don't if you
go in there and you're like,
Well, I don't know the daily
actions. Okay, well, that's you
need to work on what your daily
actions on. Or if you're like,
reward myself after I hit a
goal. If that's not a strategy,
do you need to reward yourself
when you hit a goal? Or people
who support me I hadn't really,
you know, we tend to be like, I
want to lose 20 pounds. Okay,
well, who's gonna support you
and helping you achieve that
goal, we all need human
connection. So I mapped out all
the little things you might not
think about when it comes to
achieving a health goal. And
again, you can color these that
are beautiful. And then I didn't
stop there. Again, the activity
pages are my favorite. I put a
whole thing on kind things I
hope you say to yourself, when
you look in the mirror, I put a
whole activity page on what
makes you beautiful. And this is
why this pack page I really
wanted you to get people out of
thinking that beauty has to be a
number that you See on the
scale, or it has to be a certain
pant size that you are, there
are so many different ways we
are beautiful. And I really
wanted to highlight that. And
then the last part of the
activity page I put in there is
like what do I What do I love
about my body? We're so
conditioned to think what we
hate about our body, I want you
to start thinking about what you
love about your body. And so
there are prompts there and
coloring pages that you can lean
into. And then we have some
charts like what how do you
break a fast? How do you break a
longer fast? How do you break a
shorter fast, and then I have a
bunch of bonus gifts for you. So
hopefully you can see, I'm
really proud of this journal.
It's like if I could, you know,
sit next to you and help you
take the principles I taught and
fast like a girl and customize
it to you. This is what I have
done. This is the closest thing
I can get to sitting right next
to you. And I'm really proud of
it. I'm really excited for you
to get it. And I think I'm the
most excited about what you're
going to discover about you in
this process. I have seen people
with eating disorders use a
fasting lifestyle to overturn
eating disorder disorders. I've
seen people who are now using
five fasting lifestyles, for
performance states really
understand how to, to use a
fasting lifestyle to enhance
mental and physical performance.
I've seen people go into the
spiritual side of fasting and
really discover some huge
insights authors use this a lot
for creativity, I write a lot in
a fasted state. So there's, this
is a juicy one. There's a lot
within these pages that will
expand how you feel about
yourself, and make sure that
you're on the right track of
your fasting lifestyle. So I
hope it helps. As always, if the
journal resonates with you,
reviews matter, I would love a
review, both here on the
resetter podcast but also
wherever you bought your book
from so that others can see how
helpful it was for you if it was
and so we can really predict
together collectively start to
overturn the Chronic Disease
situation we're in fasting
lifestyles are free. And we need
a tool that everybody can lean
into, to point them in the right
direction at this critical time
in human history, where chronic
diseases are becoming the norm.
And we've got over 50% At least
here in America of people with
one Chronic Disease 40% with two
or more, that's horrific, and a
fasting lifestyle is our way out
of that and this journal is
going to deepen your your
understanding of view your
relationship to food, and how
you can save yourself. So as
always, I hope that helps. Thank
you so much for joining me in
today's episode. I love bringing
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