This is episode four. And today I'm talking with Tina Mathams. Tina is an accountant and money coach with ADHD. And she helps people overcome their unhelpful spending habits and manage their money. Today, we talk about all things finances with ADHD, including budgeting and educating your kids on finances as early as you can. Stay tuned for some great financial strategies.
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Tina Mathams: Whilst everyone can
impulsively spend, I'm not saying it's
just an ADHD issue, but I find a lot
of advice kind of skips over that.
It's like, well stop doing
that, and then do this.
Well, we need more help in, you know,
the first bit before we can start doing
the external stuff, like the budgeting
and following through with that.
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Anderson, host of the ADHD Nerds podcast.
The show where we talk
about living with ADHD.
And have some fun along the way.
This is episode four.
And today I'm talking with Tina Mathams.
Tina is an accountant and
money coach with ADHD.
And she helps people overcome
their unhelpful spending
habits and manage their money.
Today, we talk about all things
finances with ADHD, including
budgeting and educating your kids
on finances as early as you can.
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All right, Tina, it is great
to have you here today.
Tina Mathams: Thank you so
much for inviting me on.
Jesse: Absolutely.
I'm really excited to kind of dig into
what you know about finances and money.
Obviously, that's a really big
topic for people with ADHD.
But first I'd love to hear
your origin story with ADHD.
If you're officially diagnosed,
what that process has been like,
when you first realized, hey, maybe
there's something else going on.
Yeah.
What did that look like for you?
Tina Mathams: Yeah, sure.
So I got diagnosed after my son did.
He got diagnosed with ADHD and autism.
Uh, and that's really common for
parents to be diagnosed after a child.
So that's my story as well.
I had a lot of issues around
anxiety and I got, um, diagnosed
with high functioning anxiety.
So I was kind of getting treated by a
psychologist for that, and it did help.
But the things that I thought
would go away when it was
being treated, um, didn't.
So in my body I just felt like
there was something else that
just wasn't the end of it.
And you know, when I started looking
into ADHD to help my son, I came
across a whole lot of information that
just made a whole lot of sense to me.
Uh, so I sought out, um, a psychologist
that had experience with ADHD.
Uh, and I got, um, yeah, got
assessed and got diagnosed.
Uh, and then down the track, I also got
diagnosed by a psychiatrist as well.
because I had, I wanted to
sort of explore, um, medication
and things like that.
So I had to do it all again.
So just in case I have any doubts that I
have ADHD I've been diagnosed twice, so.
Jesse: Right.
Right.
And what, after that diagnosis happened,
like what, how did that change your life?
Where did things go, kind of, from there?
Tina Mathams: Yeah, it was, it was
interesting because, you know, being an
accountant, it just made me think, well,
are there any accountants with ADHD?
Like, is that going to affect my career?
Do I need to now go do something else?
So it was a, it was a process of,
um, you know, really digging deep and
figuring out what that meant for not
only me personally, but also my career.
And you know, if I could
still do what I wanted to do.
And um, yeah, so it was a big process of
just finding out a lot of information.
Jesse: Right.
So did you, did you feel
stuck in your career?
Like, I guess what I'm trying to say
is like, did it feel like, you're like,
oh no, I have to do something now.
Or did you feel like you could adapt?
Was, did you feel like there was
a strength to it or what did it
change in your kind of perspective
of your career as an accountant?
Like where, where did you go from there?
Tina Mathams: Yeah, so I
definitely did feel stuck.
and I had felt stuck for a while.
I, um, you know, I felt for a really
long time, like I just didn't fit the
career, which was a big pain point for
me because I really enjoyed what I did.
So I was like, well, why am I not suited
to being here, being in, you know, I
worked in a lot of accounting firms and
I thought, why am I not suited to be
here if I actually do enjoy what I do?
So, you know, yeah, once I got diagnosed
and I found out, you know, um, how
people with ADHD operate at work and,
you know, things like that, then I was
like, okay, this makes a lot of sense.
You know, um, being stuck
in an office is not for me.
So.
It was a bad choice of career for
the type of environment that it was.
Um, but my brain just loved it.
So I kind of came to a crossroads,
of well, I need to do something
I need to get out of the office
environment, um, and perhaps, you
know, take my skills somewhere else.
So, um, yeah, then that was the
process of figuring out what that was.
Jesse: Right.
Right.
So how, how did you do that?
Like what, where did that move you
towards when you kind of decided maybe
this, maybe this environment wasn't the
best for the way your brain worked like.
Tina Mathams: Mm.
Jesse: How did you kind of progress
from there and get to what you
know, what you're doing now,
which we'll talk about shortly.
Tina Mathams: Yeah, so I,
I just took some time off.
Um, luckily I, uh, got to the point
where I was in a position to be able to
just leave my last role and, um, take
some time to figure out everything.
If I was going to do something
completely different or, you know,
what that was going to look like.
And at that point I was getting contacted
by a lot of, um, adults with ADHD,
wanting some help, you know, around their
ADHD in general, or around their money.
So that kind of made me go well, okay.
Maybe there's something here.
Maybe I can help other
adults with ADHD in some way.
So I went and did a life coaching
certification and I sort of explored that.
Um, I had some life coaching, with other
adults with ADHD and that was good.
Um, but then I just, I kept
getting asked to help other
businesses with their accounting.
And I kept getting contacted by
business owners with ADHD going,
you need to help me with this.
And then that sparked that idea.
I was like, okay, this I'm
starting to create a path now.
My brain is starting to realize where
I can, where I can take this, um,
which has led me to where I am now.
Jesse: Right, yeah.
I find entrepreneurs seem to be
more, more likely to have ADHD.
I don't, I know I've seen stats
that say like 10 times more likely.
I don't know if that's based
on studies or anything.
But it's, clearly that a lot of
people with ADHD are drawn to the
entrepreneurial life and like starting
new businesses because they have all
these great ideas they want to pursue.
And maybe they find that, like
you said, the office environment
isn't the best fit for them.
So they find some other
way to make it work.
And then they get down the road.
And, I've run into this myself where
like, suddenly, the financial issue
becomes a real problem, where they
might seek out someone uh, like you.
So what sort of service do you
provide when someone's coming to
you and saying like help, I have
this business, it's, it's a mess.
I can't track my finances.
Like what, what kind of work do
you do with them to kind of help
figure that sort of stuff out?
Tina Mathams: Yeah.
So, basically, so I have sort of two
avenues that I can help those people with.
And I do help, uh, just individuals
as well, not just ADHD entrepreneurs.
So I do a lot around money coaching.
So, you know, that often involves
helping people overcome, uh, impulsive
spending and unhelpful spending
patterns and just generally trying to
get them to manage their money better
in a way that works for their brain.
You know, there's a lot of money
information out there that is for, you
know, it's not meant for our brain.
We have to sort of figure out how
to manage our money, that, uh,
where that makes sense for us.
So I help people do that.
And whether that's, you know,
personal finances or their business
finances, it can work for both.
Um, because a lot of, you know,
principals and things, crossover, uh,
and then there's, accounting as well.
So, yeah.
So I do a lot, in the accounting
space, helping business owners with
ADHD, again, just try to help them
manage their business finances.
So whether that's teaching them about
profit and loss and cashflow and things
like that, I do a lot of trainings
for, uh, business owners that have
um, you know, memberships and things
like that for ADHD entrepreneurs.
And, but also helping them, you know,
set up systems in their business
and all that kind of fun stuff.
When uh, you know, people just go, what
am I doing with my business finances.
It doesn't make any sense.
And that's when I come in and
help them help it make sense.
Jesse: Right, right.
I know you kinda mentioned earlier, like
a lot of financial advice is kind of
meant for a neuro-typical brain and it
doesn't really always make sense for us.
Um, I know that's like similar in
just kind of the productivity world.
Like a lot of people are all
about like getting things done,
you know, the GTD philosophy.
And I finally, for me, figured it
out like that just doesn't work for
me, that doesn't work for my brain.
Kind of had to find that, hey, a lot of
this advice, even if people are pushing
it as the answer, that doesn't necessarily
mean that it's the answer for me.
And I might need to find my own way
of sort of approaching those problems.
Um, are there any like particular,
in the financial world, like any
particular advice that you think is
common that doesn't really work a
lot of the time with an ADHD brain?
Tina Mathams: Yeah.
So I find a lot of financial advice
out there is, you know, use this
particular app, use this spreadsheet,
you know, get your finances all in order.
And for our brain, that can be
really, really overwhelming.
You know, often, as I said before,
an ADHD brain is often stuck in
overspending and impulsive spending.
So then when we try to do all
this external stuff, like create
a budget and things like that, we
can't follow through with it because
we can create an amazing budget.
That's no problem.
But it's the follow through is
how am I going to stick to this?
How am I going to, you know,
overcome those spending habits that
are keeping me stuck and keeping
me spending way too much money?
And I find that there's a lot of
information that skips over that
because, you know, whilst everyone
can impulsively spend, I'm not saying
it's just an ADHD issue, but I find a
lot of advice kind of skips over that.
It's like, well stop doing
that, and then do this.
It's like, well, we need more help in,
you know, the first bit before we can
start doing the external stuff, like the
budgeting and following through with that.
Jesse: Right,right.
Yeah.
That's definitely been my experience
where I feel like, uh, it's fun in
the right, like in the right mood.
It can be really fun
to create a new budget.
I'm like, yeah, I'm using this
new app and it feels all great.
And I'm lining all the things up.
Like I've used YNAB
before, You Need A Budget.
And it's got all the pretty buttons and
all the things that can lay it all out
and then like, adding, you know, updating
my transactions every day and then like a
week goes by and I forget a day and then I
forget two days and then I want something
and I don't want to check the budget to
see if I can get, I just want to get it.
And then everything sort
of quickly falls apart.
I feel like I'm sort of in a cycle,
it's just sort of this continuous cycle.
So like, what are, what are some
practical tips that you would give
for breaking out of that cycle?
Like how, how can I practically make
a budget or some other solution, like
work for me for getting out of that,
like thinking I'm going to solve the
problem with this new system or this
new app or whatever it is, and then not,
you know, not getting that answer and
getting back stuck in those same cycles.
Tina Mathams: Yeah.
So, the first step would be to, you
know, recognize that that's what
happens and that's completely okay.
It's valid.
Um, and you can get help with it.
Uh, I find a lot of people that I speak to
kind of don't want to recognize that they
don't want to talk about that yucky stuff.
They just want to go straight to
the fun stuff, like help me create
this budget and do all that.
But you really need to come back and
look at what you're struggling that is
making you not want to check your bank
account and not want to follow through
with your budget and things like that.
And yeah, it's often those habits
that we're stuck in with, um, with
the spending and, you know, feeling.
we don't know how to manage our money.
Often we pull things that we either
haven't learned in childhood, like
how to manage money or things that
we've learned through our parents.
We pull that into adulthood and it's,
you know, it's all that internal things
that we need to bring to the surface
to be able then to move forward.
But you know, apart from that, there's
other things like, um, gamifying your
finances, um, can really be helpful
for a lot of people, you know, creating
little challenges for yourself, um,
no spend challenges or, um, you know,
setting a timer to be able to, um,
look at your budget or look at your
spending or something like that.
And visual, visual aids as well, are
really, really good because often we
forget, we forget what we've spent.
We forget how much money we have.
We forget that we've even made a budget.
Sometimes I know I've been, I've made
a budget, I'm like, well, that's right
I remember two weeks later that, um,
I was going to do all this stuff.
So, um, putting things like visual
reminders where you're going to see
them, um, to remember, to remind
you to, uh, you know, go into your
bank account, have a local look at
your budget or something like that.
Jesse: Right.
When you, so like for visual reminders
and visual tools, are you talking
about like whiteboards, uh, like
what, what sort of things do you have
in mind when you talk about that.
Tina Mathams: Um, I'm a
massive post-it person.
I love my post-its they're everywhere.
Um, so that works for me and I know it
works for some other people as well.
But yeah, having white boards where you
can write things down, stick it on your
fridge or wherever you frequent next
to your workspace or whatever it is.
Um, and then you can just sort
of write down, you know, say
you've bought something and you
can just quickly jot it down.
I bought this, don't forget to,
you know, account for that when I'm
looking at my finances or something,
or, you know, putting bills on
there that are coming up soon.
I've got post-its near my laptop of
like business expenses, yearly business
expenses that I forget are coming up.
I actually write when they're
due so I can constantly see it.
So it's, it's always there, even
though I get reminders in my email
about it, but how easy is it just
to swipe through, and just forget.
So having something that you
can see day-to-day is really
helpful for a lot of people.
Jesse: Yeah.
I know.
I know one thing that is a
struggle for me personally.
I'm married.
My wife is neuro-typical and we sort
of butt heads a lot, trying to figure
out finances, like we just sort of
come at it from different angles.
Uh, I'm curious, do you sort of run
into that when you're helping people.
and like how managing finances
with a couple and like ADHD couples
versus like, you know, kind of that
mixed, how all that works together.
Tina Mathams: Yeah.
Um, and that can be, that can be really
hard, especially, you know, I think
there's pros and cons to both, whether
you do have a um, neurodivergent partner.
We have a neuro-typical partner that, you
know, you both gonna run into problems.
Um, and I think just trying to,
communicate with your partner,
you know, if you've got some goals
in mind, or if you really want to
start working on your finances.
It's, it's like anything in a
relationship you really need to be open
and have that line of communication.
And you know, it may come down
to just sitting down together
and coming to a compromise.
I know in my relationship, I
definitely think about money
differently to my husband.
And that's just because we, um, we
tend to manage it in a different way.
We both have the same goals, but we
are, it makes sense to our different
brains to manage it differently.
So it's just about coming to a compromise
on what that's going to look like.
And, yeah, that may, that may take
some time to sort of work through that.
But I think just being completely open
and having that honest conversation
about, you know, what your finances
look like and working together and
having that accountability as well.
Um, often people in relationships,
it really works because you've got
that accountability with each other
to sort of keep each other on track.
Jesse: Right, right.
Awesome.
And you mentioned, having
a child with a diagnosis.
Are you trying to, I don't know the age,
but are you trying to kind of instill
financial management ideas, early.
And do you have any tips for that?
Tina Mathams: Yeah, I absolutely am.
I've got, um, I do have two
kids and they both have ADHD.
Uh, it's probably gonna look
a bit interesting trying to
teach them about, about money.
But absolutely, if you've got kids,
it's one of those things to really
start talking about it early.
You can, it's not, it's never too
early to start talking about, uh,
finance to children, obviously in a
way that they're going to understand.
So mine are seven and eight and it's just
a little things like, you know, if they
want to, if they constantly ask for things
like all kids do and you know, I try to
tell them like, well, we can't really do
that because we've got this coming up.
Or we've got to pay for
something else, you know?
Um, we've just had school holidays here.
So it was a conversation around, you
know, we can't go and do something that
costs money every day, because we're
going to run out of money at some point.
You know, there's a certain amount
that we have and, you know, we
need to fit things into that.
Um, my children often, cause we
pay a lot of stuff by card, um,
and they're just like, oh, just
without the, without the credit card.
It's okay.
And I'm like, well, That's not an, you
know, it's not an unlimited amount.
So it's just about talking to
them, in ways that's going to
make sense to how old they are.
And then you can kind of build
on that as they get older.
And I always like to direct people to,
financial advisors who put information
out about that kind of stuff.
There's books out there that you
can read, by financial advisors that
really, um, let help you to understand
how to talk to kids about money.
If somebody really has
no idea how to do that.
Jesse: Yeah, I know, I know a book
that I've been reading recently.
It's not specifically for kids,
but has really kind of helped my
wife and I rethink our finances
is called Worry Free Money.
Uh, and it's really, it kind of takes
the idea of sticking to a budget
and it blows it up a little bit.
Like it still is about having a budget,
but it's kind of about separating your
overall budget into big categories.
Like hey, maybe like having a separate
bank account all for your fixed bills.
And there's some other ideas in
there, that really sort of takes away.
Cause I know, my own struggle
is often I'll like, we'll
do our budget and it's like.
Yeah, yeah, technically we have a budget,
but I don't really look at it a lot.
And then what ends up happening
instead is I just like check
the check the bank balance.
And I'm like, oh, the checking
account has this much money in it.
So I probably am fine.
But in the back of my mind, I'm
always kind of worrying, like, is
there going to be a whole bunch of
bills that come due that I didn't
realize were coming in right now?
So I always kind of having in the back
of my mind, anytime I spend money,
even if it's money that I, that I
have available, I feel like there's
just that sense of always kind of
feeling bad about spending money.
And it never feels like okay to do.
And then, and that just kind
of creates that negative
relationship, which is no good.
Tina Mathams: Yeah.
Yeah, that is really hard having that
sort of negative feeling around money.
You know, one good thing that people could
try is having a certain amount allocated.
So exactly what you said about having
the different bank accounts, you
know, you have a bank account for
your fixed expenses, have a allocation
of money that you can just, spend.
It doesn't, it can just be a small
amount that, you know, even if there's
an, even if there's a bill coming in
that you weren't expecting, you've
still got a small amount that you can
use for those, those impulsive, those
impulsive habits that we do have.
And I think that's really important
to not push too hard against that.
Yes, we need to work through that.
So it's not happening all the time,
but us having that little bit of money,
put it in a separate account and you
know, you know that when you spend
that money, it's completely fine.
So those feelings,
hopefully, uh, don't come up.
Jesse: Yeah.
Cause I, I find that without having
that, I, I, because there's kind of
that negative association, what ends
up happening, is it just kind of
say, well, heck, heck with it all.
And then I get myself into trouble,
cause I just like blow a bunch of
money that I don't really have.
And then we're like trying
to fix the situation.
Yeah.
So I like that, that idea of having
kind of like, well, this is, this is
my safe money to kind of waste a little
bit on whatever, whatever I want.
It's not wasting, just like my
own sort of, uh, fun reserve or
whatever you want to call it.
Tina Mathams: Yeah, exactly.
Yeah.
And then hopefully, you know, once
you've done that, that satisfies, um,
that dopamine and that, that need to
impulsively spend, and then once you've
done that, then, you know, you can you've,
you've got those other accounts that you
can, you know, you don't have to touch
because you've had that satisfaction
of being able to just blow that money.
Jesse: Right, cause sometimes
that's what you want to do.
You just want to, like, I want to
be a little frivolous and I just
wanna kind of spend, you know, it's
the, uh, retail therapy or whatever
they call it, get you into trouble.
But sometimes that is kind of
just, just hits you just right.
Um,
Tina Mathams: Absolutely.
Jesse: Yeah.
So we mentioned, the right app isn't
necessarily the solution, but I
wonder if there is any like specific
apps or, uh, more specific types of
budgeting techniques, there's like
the zero-based, or anything, anything
in particular that you recommend a
lot to different clients and stuff.
Tina Mathams: Yeah, and this
is, this is hard because, it's
it's different for everybody.
You know, what works for one person
isn't going to work for another.
So generally, um, I give people the
option of whether they want to use an app.
They want to use a spreadsheet, or
they just want to use pen and paper.
Pen and paper great for people with ADHD.
And I find that again, as we
were talking about the uh,
you know, neurotypical advice.
A lot of, advice out there is, oh,
I don't use pen and paper because
you know, it's not the best way.
But for our brain, often it is because
having to write it down rather than
just open an app or a spreadsheet
helps us process that information.
So if you pull out a pen and paper
and you go into a bank account, start
writing down exactly what you've been
spending, it's going to help your
brain process that a little bit, a
little bit better and be like, okay,
this is what's actually going on.
But you mentioned, um, You Need A Budget
app before that's actually really,
really popular with people with ADHD.
So people can look into.
Um, there's also an app
called mint and pocketbook.
I think Pocketbook might
be Australian only.
I'm not sure I have used that one before.
and then, yeah, obviously you've got,
um, templates for spreadsheets and
Google sheets and things like that.
Um, and yeah.
I, I am a fan of zero-based
budgeting because it's, um, the
idea is that every dollar that comes
into your bank account has a job.
, but often I work with a lot of people
who, um, wouldn't even be able to do
that because A, they're not budgeting
to begin with and they're not having
enough money to the next payday.
So it's about, you know, um, not
necessarily at first looking at
whether you're going to do zero-based
budgeting or another thing.
It's purely again, bringing it back
to basics and actually having a look
at what's being spent and what's
coming into your bank account and
starting there, and then all those
different things like zero-based
budgeting can come down the track.
Jesse: I'd love to transition to
doing, shiny objects, right now.
Shiny objects is just a chance
to share something that is, you
know, grabbing your fancy lately.
Something you've been
enjoying and having fun with.
I'll go ahead and go first.
Uh, so my.
my job is I'm a front end developer.
And so I'm typing on the keyboard a lot.
And so I've sort of invested in having
a really nice keyboard, but it's called
the Ergodox EZ and it's a split keyboard.
And most people that look at it, they
think it looks like it's, I don't
know, out of something science fiction
because it's two different pieces and
it's got it's, it's just, it doesn't
look like any sort of normal keyboard.
It has like a different thumb pad
with like six keys just for that.
I'll, I'll post a picture for in the show
notes for this, but that is something
that helps me to engage with the work I do
with software development and just like,
I love setting up all the little shortcuts
and all those things with that keyboard.
So that's, my shiny object for today.
Tina Mathams: Okay, my turn, I, um, a long
standing, it's not shiny object, but a
long standing interest of mine is fraud.
Not committing fraud, but learning
about it, Um learning about, you
know, stories about it and why
people do it and things like that.
And my current story is about the
story of Elizabeth Holmes and Theranos.
Have you heard about one?
Jesse: Yeah.
Tina Mathams: Yeah.
So I've just become
completely obsessed with it.
My husband got me onto watching
the documentary because he watched
it one night and he's like, you've
got to watch this and I watched
Jesse: Is that the one, there's
there's a documentary and there's
like a sort of fictionalized version?
Is that correct?
Tina Mathams: Uh, yeah, kind of, yeah.
So it's, it's the, it's the documentary.
And then they made a docuseries, um,
about it, which is based on a podcast.
So I've been making my way through all
of these it's, you know, I'm learning,
I'm hearing the exact same stuff.
But it's in medium, and then
I'm on YouTube and I'm looking
up YouTube videos about it.
And it's just, it's my current obsession.
I'm just loving hearing the story what
the outcome of that is going to be.
Jesse: Yeah.
That's so wild.
That's the, where this billion dollar
business was built on nothing basically.
Right.
They were just sort of like faking
the technology the whole way.
Tina Mathams: Yeah, yeah.
Pretty much.
Yeah, so it's an incredible story
and just, the investors, the kind of
investors that were putting money into
it and, you know, um, yeah, just all
the people that were working there and
just basically not doing a whole lot.
So it's an incredible story.
If anybody's interested
in that kind of thing.
Jesse: Awesome well I'll definitely have
the links to those in the show notes.
So if you want to uh, check out
some fraud, not committing it,
seeing what other people do with it.
We'll have some links to check that out.
Um, yeah.
And awesome.
Thank you so much for taking the
time to be here and sharing some
of this, uh, financial advice
for the, for the ADHD brain.
Uh, where can people, if they want
to find out more or follow you
in the work that you're doing,
where can people go to do that?
Tina Mathams: So the best place
to go first is my Instagram.
Uh, because that will have
links to everything else.
So my Instagram is @theadhdaccountant.
Uh, and from there, you'll find links
to YouTube and Facebook and how to
work with me and all that stuff.
And then there's obviously
information on my Instagram.
Um, and if anyone's on Facebook, I
also have a group called ADHD Money
and Finance, um, and you can pop
in there and have a bit of a chat.
Jesse: Awesome.
And I'll have links to all
of those in the show notes.
Thank you so much, Tina.
This was awesome.
Tina Mathams: Great.
Thank you.
It was fun.
Thanks for having me.
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