Now or Never: Long-Term Care Strategy with Kosta Yepifantsev

Join Kosta and his guest: Jill Vitale-Aussem, President and CEO of Christian Living Communities, a Colorado-based not-for-profit serving more than 1,000 older adults and their families.

Jill is a licensed nursing home administrator, LeadingAge Leadership Academy Fellow, Reframing Aging facilitator, and author of Disrupting the Status Quo of Senior Living: A Mindshift.

Today we’re talking about Person-Directed Care and Elder Empowerment.
Find out more about Jill Vitale-Aussem and Christian Living Communities: 
https://www.jillvitaleaussem.com/
https://www.christianlivingcommunities.org/

Jill's Book, Disrupting the Status Quo of Senior Living: A Mindshift:
https://www.amazon.com/Disrupting-Status-Quo-Senior-Living/dp/1938870824

Find out more about Kosta Yepifantsev:
http://kostayepifantsev.com/

What is Now or Never: Long-Term Care Strategy with Kosta Yepifantsev?

Now or Never: Long-Term Care Strategy is a podcast for all those seeking answers and solutions in the long-term care space. Too often we don’t fully understand the necessity of care until it’s too late. This podcast is designed to create solutions, start conversations and bring awareness to the industry that will inevitably impact all Americans.

Jill Vitale-Aussem: so often
look at family members or paid

team members as caregivers. And
what that really implies is that

I'm, I'm here to take care of
you. And I don't you don't have

anything to give back to me.

Right. And that's very
disempowering for people. It's

very paternalistic. And so that
concept of care partners, we are

all in this together family
members, paid team members,

volunteers, people that work in
the community. We're all in this

together and and the elder

Caroline Moore: Welcome to Now
or Never Long-Term Care Strategy

themselves.

with Kosta Yepifantsev a podcast
for all those seeking answers

and solutions in the long term
care space. This podcast is

designed to create resources,
start conversations and bring

awareness to the industry that
will inevitably impact all

Americans. Here's your host
Kosta Yepifantsev.

Kosta Yepifantsev: Hey, y'all,
this is Kosta. And today I'm

here with my guest, Jill
Vitale-Aussem, President and CEO

of Christian living communities,
a Colorado based not for profit

serving more than 1000 older
adults and families through its

nine owned and managed
communities, including homecare

spanning the entire state of
Colorado jealous a licensed

nursing home administrator,
leading age Leadership Academy

fellow reframing aging
facilitator and author of

disrupting the status quo of
senior living a mind shift.

Today we're talking about person
directed care and elder

empowerment. So Jill, before we
get into the episode, I want to

talk about your book disrupting
the status quo of senior living.

For anyone that isn't familiar,
this book is based around the

crisis we're facing in 2023. And
the looming reality that we must

evolve Senior Living, what can
readers expect from this work?

Jill Vitale-Aussem: Well, the
book was actually published in

2019. You know, and it was, it's
interesting at the time, you

know, I was concerned like, Is
this too much to be saying that

senior living needs to change?

And what happened, as we all
know, is through the COVID

pandemic, it's really trying to
light that on the fact that yes,

yes, things do need to change.

So it really I think, is, is
perfect. For this time, a lot

more people are talking about
disrupting the status quo, the

status quo, so people can expect
is it you know, it's really a

book about the evolution I think
of, of senior living models. And

what I've heard from people that
they really like is it's a lot

of stories about, I will just
say the dumb things that I did

before I knew better when I was
in nursing home administrator,

and then Executive Director,
right. And so it's, it's really

about, you know, really changing
our own mindsets and, and what

we can accomplish when we start
thinking about aging

differently. And when we start
thinking about aging services in

a different way. So I think
people have found it very

readable, and a lot of good
examples. And then at the end of

every chapter, there are
discussion questions. So there

are communities and
organizations that are using it

for book clubs. So it's really,
it's really, really been fun to

see it sparked more change in
our field.

Kosta Yepifantsev: And when you
talk about the evolution of

care, alright, so you're
obviously a hands on person.

When I read that article that
you had an ARP, it said that you

actually became like a patient
for 24 hours to try and see what

it was like to be on the other
side of things. When you talk

about the evolution. Why is that
important to you?

Jill Vitale-Aussem: Yeah, you
know that when I first became a

nursing home administrator, as
my nephew always says, back in

the 1900s, right, like it was
back in the time covered wagons.

But when I first became a
nursing home administrator, I

had no idea what it was like to
experience life as a resident in

a nursing home. And so I had the
team admit me as a resident, and

it was an awesome community. It
was like one of the best

communities but I really was
very distressed by what my

experience was. Not because
people weren't doing their jobs,

but because they were doing
their jobs according to the

practices and the policies and
the procedures that were in

place. So waking. I mean, waking
me up every two hours to check

my vitals being woken up in the
middle of the night to have my

skin checked, being woken up at
like 530 in the morning for

breakfast. That was at seven.

And just I was so depressed when
I left after 24 hours. And like,

you know, just really wonky
because I was sleep overwhelmed.

Yeah. And I just went I remember
going home and just crying like

this is what elders live with.

And so that really sparked
things for me. I'm kind of a

weirdo. I've done that, like
four other times throughout my

career. Got it stayed overnight.

And it's it every time. It's a
huge eye opener, I really

recommend it to anybody who
works in this field to

experience what life is like.

And it really just showed me
that the institutional practices

are what causes so much distress
for people. It's not team

members not doing their jobs or
going rogue, it's people doing

exactly what we tell them to do
and ask them to do. Yeah, it's,

it's powerful.

Kosta Yepifantsev: We're gonna
get into the, the issues as to

why the system's built this way.

But first, let's talk a little
bit about the solutions that

you've identified. One solution
to the care crisis we face is

something you've helped to
pioneer and turn into a viable

care option. Will you explain
what person directed care is?

And how does it differ from
traditional care models and

senior living communities?

Jill Vitale-Aussem: Yeah, you
know, so person, the whole

concept of person centered care,
and now the evolution to person

directed care. It's been around
for, you know, at least 20 some

years, right? Dr. Bill Thomas of
the Eden alternative was the

pioneer, one of the pioneers in
this work. And what the

institutional framework does is
it sees people as a task, it

sees people as numbers, it sees
people as diagnosis. And it sees

the people that work in our
field as task doers, right. And

what happens is, people end up
as the Eden alternative says,

Being lonely and helpless and
bored. And that is, you know,

what, when you go into a
traditional nursing home, or

assisted living, and it also
happens in places with

residential living, and seeing
people slumped over, you know,

the most of the time, it's not
their physical issues that are

causing that, it's because it's
like, the death of the human

spirit is really what it's
about. And so what what person

directed care is really all
about is, is creating a human

habitat, as the Eden alternative
says, creating a place where I'm

a whole person, where I have I
have autonomy in my life, right?

I have, as a human alternative,
it's the domains of well being.

So I have my own identity, I
have, I have saved a feeling of

safety, I have meaningful growth
still in my life, I have purpose

in my life, connectedness with
other people, and you know, joy,

yes, you can have joy, living in
long term care. And, you know,

what, what Christian living
communities, my organization, we

take it a step further. And what
to what we call our citizenship

approach, which is really all
about if I live in a community

with other people, then I have
not just what I need for me, but

right, how do I make sure Costa
is having a great day, and it's

people working together to make
their community stronger and

better. And that is incredibly
powerful.

Kosta Yepifantsev: And purpose,
you know, if you don't have a

sense of purpose, or if you're
not learning something new, at

least, you know, every few
weeks, or, you know, a month or

so, like, you don't really have
like you said that will, right,

because life does get bored.

Pretty quickly. If you don't
have those elements around.

Jill Vitale-Aussem: It's very
true. And if there's one thing

that the pandemic taught us,
it's what it's like to not have

freedom, autonomy, meaningful
purpose in our lives, not to

have connectedness, like we had
this shared experience of what

it's like to be
institutionalized. And we hated

it. Oh, yeah. Did we not?

Kosta Yepifantsev: I mean, we
like we almost went to civil

war.

Jill Vitale-Aussem: ever there
was a lesson to be learned it is

it is, it is through that. And I
think we need to talk about it

more and pick it apart more and
figure out what we learned.

Kosta Yepifantsev: I mean,
you've been doing this for a

while, how did we get to this
point? Because, like, if you go

back to like 70s and 80s, and
you had the Nursing Home Reform

Act, and you had this increased
level of compliance. Was this

always the way the system was
designed? Did we create the

system to operate this way? How
did we get to this point?

Jill Vitale-Aussem: You know, so
so much I think what I always to

hear and ever write about is
that you know, nursing home

nursing home design came from
like hospitals, right? And so

this model of efficiency and and
you know, the regulations like

the obrah 87 for nursing homes
that was really intended to to

create quality of life. What I
think I think there's a couple

of problems, I think that we all
have very ageist beliefs in our

own heads right about what it
means to be old about what it

means to be old and living with
frailty and living with

dementia. And we have very
limiting beliefs, right? And we

think are in paternalistic
beliefs. And our job is to keep

you safe. And, you know, if
you're safe, then job well done.

And that's not that's not true.

And so I think a lot of what
happens is our own inaccurate

beliefs about what this is
really all about. And then the

other thing is that, that
regulations are going to create

quality of life. If that was the
case, then we would, I mean, we

get more regulations all the
time, and it doesn't make

anything better. So it because I
think what happens is a lot of

times it ends up being check the
box, I check this box, and I did

this and that means I'm meeting.

Yeah. So I it's a it's a bear
this whole complex situation,

Kosta Yepifantsev: you know, and
we're going to, I'll ask, I'll

ask that same question in a
different way later in the

episode, but I think we can
leave it in terms of when you

talk about the evolution of the
industry in the care process. I

think that compliance leads to
the opposite of that, the

punitive measures, and also the
fact that all of our all of the

people that pay for long term
care in one capacity or another

are from the federal government,
or insurance companies, they're

very risk averse, and they're
vague, and they don't believe or

understand the conversation that
we're having right now. Or they

may just not really, it might
may not matter to them to the

capacity that it does to us. But
we're gonna get into that a

little bit later. Right now, I
want to talk more about person

directed care, how can we ensure
that the needs and details of

specific care for each
individual are respected and met

in a person directed care model?

Jill Vitale-Aussem: You know,
the first thing that really has

to happen, and the Eden
alternative teaches this is, is

to drive change, you have to
have three types of

transformation happen, right,
and the very first is personal

transformation. And so if we, as
people that work in this field,

don't change the way that we
think about aging, if we don't

challenge what all of the the
institutional things we've been

taught and the ageist things
we've been taught, since we were

toddlers, nothing's going to
change, right. And, and so it,

it's really about about getting
everybody in your organization,

and this is whether it's
residential, living, assisted

living, nursing homes, whatever
it is, to go through this

process of personal
transformation, leaders have to

start first. And then when
people go through that personal

transformation, if you don't
start changing your, your, your

organizational side of things,
right, if I'm, and I've seen

this happen way too many times
where people get training, and

they're like, oh, my gosh, this
is the way things should be. Yet

we still have human resources,
policies that are ridiculous.

And we still have very limiting
processes. Like, if you don't

get everybody up by six in the
morning, you're not doing your

job, and things like that, then
nothing will change. And so what

what I have found is that it is
that it's that personal

transformation, it's people
understanding that it can be

different. It's changing your
organization, and your

operational practices to support
that. And, you know, eventually

the ideal situation is you
change the physical environment

also, right and make it more not
home, like home. And what

happens is, in those, when you
do that work, you're going to be

held accountable by everybody.

Right? If I'm like, and I've had
this happen, I start doing

something that's institutional,
then I've got all these

empowered people, resident team
members, family members who are

like, ah, what what's going on
here, you're this is

institutional. And so it creates
this environment where

everybody's holding each other
accountable. And it's tough, but

it's good, but institutional
practices creep back in. They're

very sneaky. And so you have to
have that shared accountability

to keep moving things forward.

Kosta Yepifantsev: Well, and
also we're talking about

families and caregivers, what
role do they play? And how do

they change the way that they
provide care in a person

directed model? And also, you
know, as you're going through

this transition, what do you
think they should prepare for?

Jill Vitale-Aussem: Well, you
know, what I think this is

really all about is creating
community, right in the

community like that's why we
call it a citizenship approach.

You have meaningful purpose. You
have autonomy, but you have

interdependence with other
people. And community is messy

and the This work is messy like
it isn't you? I'll tell you

what, I think changing a nursing
home or assisted living is like

one of the hardest things you
can do. Right? So for people

that think we're going on this
journey, and all of a sudden,

it's going to be fixed tomorrow.

That's not the case it is it is
step by step and moving things

forward. So I think people have
to be prepared for messiness.

Right, and and oops, that that's
not quite where we wanted to go,

and how do we continue to
evolve. The other thing is the

concept of Care Partnership. And
that's really important, right?

Because we so often look at
family members or paid team

members as caregivers. And what
that really implies is that I,

I'm here to take care of you.

And I don't, you don't have
anything to give back to me.

Right. And that's very
disempowering for people. It's

very paternalistic. And so that
concept of care partners, we are

all in this together, family
members, paid team members,

volunteers, people that, you
know, work in the community,

we're all in this together, and
and the elder themselves is part

of that that person receiving
care. Yeah. Right. So, you know,

in and for failing reason, you
know, this is tough, too,

because, you know, I know this,
as you know, as with having a

parent, one who passed away a
year ago, with kids, adult

children can be paternalistic,
too. Right. And so, if, if a

resident an elder is making
decisions that you don't agree

with, and they're like, I know
that I have diabetes, but I'm

going to have my, you know,
coconut cake. Every night that

I'm with dinner. That's my
choice. And, like, you know, we,

it's that whole dignity of risk.

So there's, there's change,
everybody on the care partner

team has to have personal growth
and start thinking about things

differently.

Kosta Yepifantsev: And it's,
it's so sad. And honestly, it's

quite alarming when you
encounter family members who

want to take away the things
that bring people happiness,

like, for example, okay, I
really like chocolate chip

cookies. And even though I
exercise every single day, I

like to run, but I also like to
eat chocolate chip cookies every

single day. All right. Tate's
specifically, so shout out to

dates. If somebody said you
can't eat chocolate chip

cookies, or if they like you
were talking about in the

pandemic, if they force some
level of institutionalization,

like that leads to depression.

Yep. Yeah. And it is. You know,
what I, when I see this

happening a lot of times is when
people receive a demo a dementia

diagnosis. Yeah. And as it
progresses, oh, my gosh, we go

down this rabbit hole in it is
impossible for people to give

any ground to say, Come on,
like, there's still this is

still a person, you know, we can
still provide care, as if you

know, as an indie to an
individual, right? Yeah.

Jill Vitale-Aussem: Yeah. Yeah,
I think you're absolutely right.

And I think 99% of the time, it
comes from love, I want to

protect this person. But it's
again, I think it's education.

And understanding that by taking
away autonomy, you are impacting

the person's physical health. It
taking away purpose. So yeah,

it's tough, but it again, it's,
it's talking it through and

having people think about things
differently, but it's tough

because we all love, love our
loved ones, right? And

Kosta Yepifantsev: could you
share some success stories or

examples of how the person
directed care model has improved

the quality of life for those
receiving elder care?

Jill Vitale-Aussem: Sure, I'm
gonna give you I'm gonna give

you three different examples.

Okay. Okay, levels of, of
living. So, you know, a really

basic example, is in like
skilled nursing, and I hope this

isn't still happening. But you
know, the whole idea of waking

people up in the staff having a
GET UP list, right? That's

Kosta Yepifantsev: crazy. List.

Jill Vitale-Aussem: Think about
how that sets a person up for

their day. Right? Yeah, I'm not
going to my days is going to be

shot. If somebody comes in and
wakes me up when I don't want to

be up. It also destroys our team
members. Because then I had a

nurse tell me this, like, it
crushed my soul to be like, I

have to go wake people up to do
my job and get them out of bed

and not at least let them start
their day. They work the way

they want. So just even that
basic change, of promoting sleep

and waking up when you want to
wake up. And and that has a huge

impact. That's really basic. I
unfortunately, I think it's it

probably is still happening some
places where people

Kosta Yepifantsev: like it is
unfortunate, I'm sorry to inform

you that it is still happening
often.

Jill Vitale-Aussem: Yeah, that's
that.

Kosta Yepifantsev: That's
because, and what's what's

unfortunate about it, and I hate
to interrupt, but what's

unfortunate is the checks that
you're talking about, and the

medication administration that
you're talking about are

prescribed by physicians. Yeah,
on a schedule. And I'm thinking

and I always think to myself,
why would a physician think it's

a good idea to wake somebody up
at two o'clock in the morning to

give a specific medication or to
check a specific, vital? And I

mean, that's how but that's how
pervasive this is. It spans

across the entire healthcare
system.

Jill Vitale-Aussem: So we have
to educate physicians to

prescribe medications upon
wakening right rather than a

certain time. So it is it's an
they're part of the care partner

team, to me that a patient an
assisted living example. We have

one of our communities that we
manage, is has a beautiful pond,

right. And it's it's in the
mountains at the mountains. And

there is a resident there who
loves fishing. And he and he's

in a wheelchair, and the pond
isn't like there's like a dock

you can go out on it's like
really and marshy around the

side of it. And this fishing
rod, this man, so much joy, and

in an institutional community,
the team would have been like

he's not safe, that can't work.

And instead, the team and the
maintenance director, it's not

really his job, right quality of
life for residents, officially,

but it is his job because he's
in a community that has done

this work. They they figured out
how to get him one of those

wheelchairs with the tracks on
it. Oh, nice. Yeah. Right. And

so he drives down there and sits
in the weeds and marsh and

fishes. And that would not
happen. And that's one example

of for one individual. But if he
didn't have that, like he would

give up like that brings him
such joy. And so that's a

example for one person. But it's
that change of seeing somebody

has a whole human being and not
being so afraid of risk figuring

out how do we minimize risk, to
have somebody have a life worth

living. The other example I'll
give is in residential living,

and we have several life plan
communities, which have all the

different levels of living. And
this is really so our community,

Clermont Park here in the Denver
area, I started here as the

executive director there. And
this is really about that

citizenship model, where the
residents in that community own

that community. Yeah, they have
created an inclusive culture. So

too many times in, in
communities where there's

different levels of care, if you
live in the nursing home, you

have demands out, right, you're
cut off, and you're ostracized,

and they have created community
norms there. And that's where

the power comes in, right?

policies about bullying. I'm not
so big on that. It's those

residents, they are true
citizens, and they create

healthy norms of inclusion for
everybody there. And healthy

norms of like, what this is what
we want to do, and we're gonna

make it happen. And the team
there is just really there to

support the life that the
community wants, and people

looking out for each other. And
you just walk in that place. And

you're like, something's
different here. Right. And it's

we had leading H in Denver, last
year, the leading ag annual

meeting, and they chose it as
one of their tour sites. And

people that came to that tour
that visit to that community

leaders from around the country
left, like so I saw so many

people with plant with like,
crying, because they're like,

this is the way it should be
because the resident taught them

about things, you know what I
mean? So it's,

Kosta Yepifantsev: and if if I
could put a bow on it. So if you

think about our entire lives,
when we're in school, we're a

part of a team, when we're at
when we're in at work. We're a

part of a team. When we're in a
family raising kids, we're a

part of a team, the only time
that we get isolated to this

individual, you know, angst is
when we're elderly and and

suffer some type of disability
and may have to be in an

institution or a facility. And
what you've been able to create

is that team environment that is
the Yeah, exactly. It's common.

I mean, it's literally how we
grew up. It's, you know, and

it's rather shocking, but I do
We'll also want to touch on the

individual that you had that
goes fishing and you guys

identified that wheelchair that
has a track on it. I'm a big

proponent of technology. And
I've just we've just recently

been working towards a pilot
with UnitedHealthcare to provide

technology few hours a day in
some of our homes and remove

some of the human element in the
care process. Now, we don't have

a weight care in a lot of the
homes. So it's a it's a good

application in our model. What
I've have found to be astounding

is when we accept technology as
a solution, we actually find

more solutions because we're
open to the idea of technology.

But we get so much pushback from
the people, the the people that

pay for long term care, not
necessarily out of pocket, but

insurance companies managed care
organizations, Medicaid, the

primary payers, because they're
risk averse. So in your opinion,

how can technology be leveraged
to support person directed care?

And elder empowerment?

Jill Vitale-Aussem: Ah, well,
you know, when you think about

risk, there's a lot more risk
relying on human beings than

technology.

Kosta Yepifantsev: Yes, agreed.

Jill Vitale-Aussem: My gosh, you
know, my, my, my hope. And the

way we look at technology here
is where technology is never

going to completely take the
place of human beings in this

field, I don't believe but
technology that can free people

up to be able to do what humans
do best, which is be with each

other and have those
interactions. I think that's got

to be the goal. And then the
other thing I've been thinking a

lot about is, and tell me what
to think about this. You know,

how do we how do we use
technology to support autonomy,

and freedom for people living
with dementia while keeping

people safe? Right. So, you
know, like, I love to walk and

be outside. And if I have
dementia someday, and I'm in in

someplace where I can't do that,
or if I want to be in an

inclusive place of care, right,
where I'd have to be locked up

someplace. And there's Tech, I
mean, you think about your ring,

if you have a ring doorbell,
right? Like, that's pretty cheap

technology. And that can tell
you that, you know, Jill is at

the front door, and she just
picked up a package. So how can

we use that technology? And I
think that's what you're getting

at? Maybe I am

Kosta Yepifantsev: I am. And so
I'm going to, I'm going to

package it all together. So when
you talk about specifically

people with a dementia
disability, there are you're

never gonna be able to remove
the human element from the care

from the care process. And
that's okay, because there are

specific activities like going
on walks that may require in a

human being to accompany or
support somebody that has

dementia. It's but if you can
prevent the burnout, that that

caregiver experiences and even
if it's a family member, the

burnout that they experienced as
a caregiver, if you can provide

some way of incorporating a few
hours a day of respite, I mean,

states are literally tripping
over themselves with respite

pilot programs, Florida,
Tennessee, Colorado, like

everybody's trying to figure out
how are we going to provide

respite to caregivers that are
that are providing trillions of

dollars a year and care for
free, by the way, and whatever.

But the only solution that they
look at is how are we going to

create a workforce to provide
these respite services, but it's

we're past that, I mean, we're
not living in the age of iRobot,

obviously, but we have the
technological applications, to

be able to give a few hours of
respite to caregivers so that

they can be there when it
matters for those. Yes, yeah.

Right. That makes sense. And,
and you know, and I'll take it,

I'll take it in a different
direction. As you can tell, I'm

pretty passionate about
technology. I'll take it in a

different direction, like
somebody that, for example, is

at risk of falling or has like
an unsteady gait. You know, if

you've just even put like some,
like the, you know, those string

lights that people use in the
kitchen to have the lighting

under their cabinets, if you put
those on the floor, and a sensor

that's on their bed so that as
soon as they get out of bed,

those lights come on and light
their way to the bathroom in the

middle of the night. Like that's
a that's a simple DIY

application that may cost under,
you know, $200 that people can

afford and In what you're doing
with regards to person directed

care and the evolution of care
and creating citizenship, like,

technology is the direct
complement to that. It is. So,

you know, well, long, long story
short, you don't

Jill Vitale-Aussem: have to if
if a sensor on your bed can say

that somebody is in deep sleep,
yeah, you don't need to go in

and check on him right and turn
on the light, make sure they're

okay. And yeah, yeah, it really
can. I think you're absolutely

right. And

Kosta Yepifantsev: early, if you
consider like early onset

Alzheimer's, before the disease
has progressed to, to a

significant point, like if
you're, if your mom or your dad

has early onset Alzheimer's, and
there are things that happen,

but they don't happen often. But
you're still like, worried to

death every single day that
something bad is gonna happen.

If you had a sensor, say, for
example, on a bed, and then you,

you know, they went to the
restroom, and then that sensor

didn't show up that they're back
in bed. But if you had a sensor

on the living room chair,
because it's four o'clock in the

morning, and they're watching
TV, yep. Like that is how we

have to start thinking about
giving people back their dignity

and their autonomy.

Jill Vitale-Aussem: So I like
that. That makes a lot of sense.

Kosta Yepifantsev: All right, so
we're about to wrap up. And your

opinion, what's the most
necessary and impactful mindset

shift we can make as Americans
to ensure that our elder

population is properly cared
for, and we build a future of

care that is empowering for all
people?

Jill Vitale-Aussem: Well, I, so
it's thinking about aging

differently. And we have got,
because when we think about

aging, as it's about decline,
and you become helpless, and it

really impacts the services that
we provide. It it impacts, you

know, I mean, we don't value
older people in this country, we

do not value those that care for
them. It was evident during the

pandemic, when aiming services
was at the end of the line, and

then just got nothing but blame
as compared to the hospital

system. So if we don't start
shifting the way we think about

this field, who's going to want
to work in the field, right now,

people, as much technology as we
have, we still need people. And

then the other thing that that
is a big concern for me, is this

myth, that is everywhere, that
everybody can successfully age

in place in their own home. We
know that is not true. We know

that the majority of people live
in homes that aren't designed

for changing mobility needs, we
know people get isolated, which

leads to incredible health
challenges and problems. And

we've got to start getting
people thinking about it. So I

have a book to recommend to your
audience. And that is Ryan,

Frederick's book, it's called
Right place, right time. And

it's really all about every all
of us, like at every age,

looking at does the place, the
place I live matters. Does the

place that I live, give me
social connection? Does it give

me opportunities for meaningful
purpose for physical well being?

And really looking at that,
because we're I'm very concerned

that we are setting up a huge
percentage of older people. And

those of us, you know, as we as
we get older, for failure, and

worse health outcomes, because
they're going to be not living

in the right place.

Kosta Yepifantsev: There is
something that I was thinking

about leading up to this episode
that I was like, If she starts

talking about this, I have to
ask her this question. And so

you did.

Jill Vitale-Aussem: So yeah, I'm
just concerning. It really is.

Kosta Yepifantsev: So think
about it like this. You've got,

you know, the baby boomer
generation between 1946 and

1964. We talk about this often
on the show. So you have an 80%

chance of needing long term care
at some point after the age of

75. The first baby boomer that
was in 2021, turns 75. As the

need continues to progress,
right, not everybody can age in

place. But I read a statistic
last week, we are short 6.5

million homes in the United
States. How are we going to

solve not only the aging
problem, but also the housing

problem? And do you think that
this problem is this like

building the transcontinental
railroad? Is that how

insurmountable this problem is
and how much effort and

attention it needs?

Jill Vitale-Aussem: Um, you
know, I think we need to start

looking at a growing number of
older people not as a problem

Kosta Yepifantsev: But as a
resource, absolutely right?

Jill Vitale-Aussem: And when we
start to shift that it doesn't,

there. There's so many
opportunities as we get older

that we can be part of the
solution. And the more we're

engaged, the more we live
amongst other people, the less

likely is that we're going to
need more higher levels of care,

right? Because those things are
definitely predictors of your

health. So I think that that
needs to be a shift, for sure,

Kosta Yepifantsev: like a multi
like a multi generational

adoption. So like, more multi
generational families,

essentially,

Jill Vitale-Aussem: I don't, I
don't know about that. I mean,

potentially, but I don't know if
we're ever gonna go back to

that. But I mean, I mean, just
because we're older doesn't mean

like, like it are. So think
about, we've got a staffing

crisis. We've got older people
living and I'm thinking

residential, living and assisted
living, people who need

meaningful purpose people who
can't afford senior living. And

so we're gonna we're doing a
pilot at one of our communities,

with dining, like, if you live
in this community, you want to

make some extra bucks. We have
these positions open, and why

don't we do more of that. And if
we stop disabling older people,

maybe we don't need as many
staff

Kosta Yepifantsev: absolutely
keep costs lower. So we always

like to end the show with a call
to action. What advice do you

have for families, caregivers,
and senior living communities

who wants to adopt person
directed care?

Jill Vitale-Aussem: Take the
first step. Okay, go to a

certified eating associate
training, go to eat not.org Sign

up for a class there's online
training, find books to read, go

to the pazza pioneer network and
greenhouse there another culture

change transformation
organization. There's a

conference in July in
Pittsburgh, take the first step.

I think it's really important to
you don't have to have

everything all figured out but
start with that personal

transformation education on your
own and then keep it going. But

take first step

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