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In this episode of *Ask Ashley*, host Ashley Russo sits down with Jenilee Angeles-Pasco, the Director of Operations at Runpod, Inc., to explore the intricate balance between work and family life. Jenilee shares her inspiring journey from Hollywood to HR, where she has been a pioneering force in shaping organizational culture and employee well-being. With a background that spans various industries, including biotech and entertainment, she emphasizes the importance of being the first HR hire in establishing foundational practices that support diverse employees.

Jenilee opens up about her upbringing as an immigrant and how it has influenced her perspective on work and motherhood. She discusses the challenges of being a working mom, the realness of juggling responsibilities, and the importance of flexibility in the workplace. Throughout the conversation, Jenilee highlights the need for empathy in leadership and the proactive measures her company takes to create a supportive environment for all employees. Tune in for her insights on fostering emotional safety and prioritizing well-being in today’s fast-paced work culture, as she candidly shares both the challenges and rewards of her journey.

  • (00:00) - - Introduction to Ask Ashley Podcast
  • (01:15) - - Meet Jenilee Angeles-Pasco
  • (02:30) - - Jenilee's Career Journey Overview
  • (03:45) - - Early HR Experience in Hollywood
  • (05:15) - - Impact of the Me Too Movement
  • (07:00) - - Upbringing and Its Influence
  • (09:30) - - Balancing Work and Motherhood
  • (11:45) - - Realities of Self-Care as a Mom
  • (13:00) - - Diversity and Inclusion in the Workplace
  • (15:15) - - Navigating a Fast-Paced Startup Environment
  • (17:30) - - Addressing Employee Burnout Proactively
  • (19:45) - - Importance of Employee Support Systems
  • (22:00) - - Scaling Challenges at Runpod
  • (24:00) - - Personal Growth Through Self-Doubt
  • (25:45) - - Essential Soft Skills in HR
  • (28:00) - - Final Advice for Jenilee's Younger Self
  • (29:30) - - Closing Remarks and Takeaways

What is Ask Ashley?

In Ask Ashley, Founder, Thoughtleader and award-winning media personality Ashley Russo sits down with leaders who bring purpose and humanity to business.

Each episode explores how people navigate uncertainty, lead with empathy, and create meaningful change in their organizations and lives. Listeners gain practical insights on resilience, leadership, and financially confident decision-making amid disruption.

This podcast is brought to you by Ask Ashley. If you’re interested in building a confident, purpose-driven wealth plan, reach out to Ashley at ashley.russo@nm.com.

welcome to ask Ashley the podcast

where we shine a light on the unsung heroes

of the workplace I'm your host

Ashley Russo financial AI board member

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one conversation at a time

well I'd love to start with you

just giving an introduction of yourself

obviously your personal accomplishments

give us an overview of you

yes so hi

I'm Jenilee Angeles Pasco

and I am currently

the director of operations at Runpod

and um yes

so on top of that I'm a mom of two children

I have a six year old and a two year old

and so my life is just a lot

love my career

love being a mom and just trying to balance everything

just a few things on your plate right um

I'd love to start with your career journey

so your early days um

all the way up to your current position and leadership

give us an overview of that

yeah so I started in HR about 10 years ago when I well

actually more than 10 years ago

so I started off in post production in Hollywood

and it was

really interesting in that we've never had an HR person

a lot of it was going through our operations manager

but I went to my boss one day and I was like

hey you know

I think as we're growing

we do need an HR person here to make sure that we're

you know recruiting the right people

the right talent uh

things you know

there's compliance issues and there's like

making sure that our employees are supported

and um

so yeah that's where my HR journey started

I went there um

was there for about 5 years

then got furloughed during um Covid

started working for a biotech company

which I was also the first HR hire um

which was a different animal than I was

than it was at the post production company

this was more buttoned up

more formal so I did work a lot with um scientists

which is also another um

a very different um

animal from working with entertainment in Hollywood

and um

I was their first HR manager

after that I worked at another company

it was an advertising company in LA

also as their first HR hire

so you can kind of see where my trajectory is

being the first HR person at all these companies

and I worked for a crypto gaming company

which was I was also the first HR hire

and now I'm still the first HR hire at Runpod

so that's kind of been my journey

of building HR foundations at these organizations

so I'm curious going back

um you were obviously around

I believe the time

you would line up for the Me Too movement in Hollywood

uh huh

curious how that impacted your world

your decisions um

if that influenced how you lead now

I'm curious about that yes

so you know

I'm a staunch women supporter

basically

one of the reasons I did ask my manager at that time

to be um

to move into HR was because I felt like the women

we only had three women out of um

I think it was almost like 25 employees

um I wanted to make sure that women had a safe space

and also to be able to retain and attract

you know different people than um the

the ha uh

employees we've had at that time

so it was basically

making sure that I was supporting the women

and also educating our employees on like

you know safety policies

and the Me Too movement was huge in Hollywood

at that time

so I felt like I wanted to make sure that I supported

not just the women

but also making sure that we did educate

like the entire workplace on like

what constitutes as harassment or just like

hiring policies and

and um

you know not having any bias in the workplace

um but it was

it was a very interesting time

and making sure that our employees were

were they knew what was going on and

and how we can make it a better workplace

for whoever we wanted to retain and attract

since what I'm curious in terms of your upbringing

so most people have the awareness and care to you know

you know guide other people through their journeys

and make sure they feel supported

and in any which way

usually comes from our own awareness in our own lives

so I'm curious how did your upbringing influence

just your viewpoint in the world

yeah so I mean

I'm an immigrant uh

with my parents we came to America back in like the 90

I mean the late 80s and so my parents

you know my dad was an architect in the Philippines

and my mom was an accountant

but when we got to America

obviously they weren't that anymore

and so they had to kind of start from scratch

um and they worked hard

they worked two jobs each

they basically

figured out a way to take care of me and my brother

they'll put us in good schools made sure that we

you know had the right education um

and you know I just saw them working

so hard to make sure that we had a great life here

and to make sure that we weren't um

you know without so they they um

the way that they did things was

they made sure that they still

you know showed up to our school events

school activities my mom never missed it uh

we still had the homemade meals

we never had nannies they figured out a way to like

fit their schedule with our school schedule

made sure to help us with our homework

and really support us and

and so

I feel that my upbringing really shaped who I am today

as a mom and

you know seeing my mom work and

and still do so well as a mother

who was supporting her children

and we never really had gaps in that

um it

I think it really shaped my life now

and how I see my career and being a mom

and so I'm start I'm also trying to juggle it all

and making sure that I have that career

have my own you know

life in outside of my children

but also being a very present and

and supportive mom to them

I'm curious on the being a working mom and

you know obviously in a leadership position

how do you in reality balance it all

are there self care routines

you make sure you have in place

I mean how do you have such a full plate

I honestly

I'm like the worst I

I as HR

you know I'm always telling employees like hey

take the time off and relax and make sure that

you know you're spending time with your family and

you know finding benefits

and all of that stuff to make sure that we're

we're supporting our employees

but I think for me I'm like

the worst person to actually follow my own rules

or my own recommendations and suggestions

because I honestly

don't know that there's enough hours in the day

um but I think seeing my mom do it all

it just kind of

challenges me to be able to do the same thing

for me and for myself and my children

self care is out the window

I mean like I'm sure

you know as a mom too

it's like

the little bit of time you get to have for yourself

is just like

also thinking about doctor's appointments

dental appointments like school activities

like what's coming up on the calendar

what meals I need to make

um how can I maximize those meals for the week and

you know helping with homework and

and just

even being able to read them their bedtime stories and

and doing their bedtime routines with them

and then after I put them to bed

it's like OK

now I still have to work and I think it's

it's great that Runpod does provide that flexibility

of remote work

because I'll take all my meetings in the mornings

and then I'll you know

do my drop offs and my pickups for my kids in school

but then after they go to bed at 8:00

I do work again and

but it's also being able to

work at a company that helps you have that balance

I think that's so important and I think employers

regardless if you're going in office

or you're working remotely

provide you that sort of flexibility

I think it goes a long way um

especially for working parents

I really appreciate

and I think our listeners will as well

that you didn't just tell us

you took 3 hours to meditate

and you made a fresh pressed juice smoothie

and then you had you know

three hours to do your hair

um I appreciate the realness of what you just said

and I think many others will too

but the reality is

to have it all means that you're not necessarily

you don't necessarily have it all

meaning you don't have all that extra time

but if it's important

you right the family life and the work life

and you make it work so I appreciate that very honest

real response

I think we all need to hear that more often

thank you um

I wanna go into uh

into companies you had mentioned that

so you know

how do you balance the need in this moment in time

where obviously

it's a very polarized you know

social environment how do you balance

the diversity and inclusion aspect of it

the feeling of belonging how are you addressing that

so at my company we're very um

so the way that we attract and retain our talents

everybody's from different walks of life

I think we provide a very safe space

especially um

with knowing and

understanding that not everybody is the same person

not everybody thinks the way you think right

and I think Ron Paul does such a great job of just like

welcoming and keeping that support for every employee

um I feel like as HR

you know you people are always like oh

it's HR they hire and fire you and

you know they're not

they're not your friend and I hear that everywhere

but for me it's not

I'm not trying to be your friend and I'm not trying to

you know um

but I'm also I'm flattered that you think I have that

that much power at this company

but I'm here to support you

in your entire employee experience

I am not only here to see you when you get hired

and I'm not only here to see you when you're

exiting out of the company

I wanna make sure that you're supported

that you feel welcome that you have all the resources

and that's why it's called human resources right

not because I'm the principal of the school

or I'm the fun police I'm here to make sure that your

your experience is good good

and you feel advocated for

make sense and it's

we should acknowledge it's a fast paced setting

right in a startup

it is and yes

challenges that obviously come into play

so how do you navigate that

when you're existing

in a lightning speed type of environment

yeah it's different hats for everybody

you know and I think that's

that's the challenging

but also amazing part of being a

part of being in a startup is that like

I think everybody knows and has the same mindset of

like we're all working towards the same goals

and towards the same um

we have the same kind of ambition

and the same kind of drive

and when you all when you all have that

you're more willing to be supportive

and you're more willing to help each other out

so for me in HR I do wear different hats

but I don't want anybody

to feel like they can never come to me or

or feel like I'm so

far removed from what's going on in the company

that it's like they don't feel welcome by me

I am always making sure that they are supported

and advocated for and we do that by

you know like even just benefits that we offer

or like the stipends that we offer

those things are all for the employees

making sure that they they use it

so it's for their health and wellness

for their training and development

like our

our time off you know

which is we have summer Fridays

we have the winter break

those things are to make sure that our employees

don't burn out so we do try to make sure

I keep thinking saying make sure a lot

but like

we do try to ensure that employees feel that they are

being supported the whole time

sounds like you're really working to cultivate

emotional and psychological safety

and you're almost trying to get ahead of a potential

issue right

of burnout that's a

that's a great one fast paced environment

you're almost anticipating a problem that might happen

and you're prepared by having these benefits in place

would you say that's true

which is an interesting approach

it's a progressive rate approach right

getting ahead of the problem

and then what happens if that fails

so if an employee comes to you

and is just mentally burnt out

or having a challenge how do you address that

so this is the reason why we do have

the things that we do have in place

is because Runpod

is very intentional in not being reactive

we're trying to be more proactive

especially with the benefits and perks

we do put out there um

any policies

really that come from HR have to go through leadership

and making sure that we're not just on a soapbox

or a platform of like

hey this is what we wanna do because we're trying to

um be like the best startup

you know but we're trying to do this because we all

we can see why a lot of startups fail

or why a lot of people leave companies

is because these are not in place

and so when we when I say that

we're being more proactive than reactive

we don't want our employees to

get to the point where they come to me

and they're like oh

I'm so burnt out we did initially have that and that

you know employees are like

you know

I feel like I'm not taking enough time off or you know

I feel like the company

is not supporting us in this way

and that's the reason we have those

health and wellness stipends

those training and development stipends

our summer Fridays our winter holiday break

is because employees tend to feel more supported

when the entire company takes a time off

so yes we do have flexible benefits

or we have flexible time off

but when a person leaves for their PTO

they're gonna come back to more work right

and sometimes it's like

I'd rather not take the time off

because I don't want to come back to more work

so when the company does intentional things

like a winter holiday break

where the entire company takes time off

then they feel like oh

everybody's taking off the guilt is not there

and I think these are very intentional

policies that we do have to

to help employees lessen that burden of guilt

so question on that obviously

as you guys have scaled right

which is an impressive thing to do right

with with the large employee size you have

and that that sort of situation

so has has there been anything that's been very

surprising to you with scaling

or has it been so intentional

that there hasn't been a ton of surprises

and it's really been quite sustainable

um it's been both so

you know there's growing pains at any startup

I think you know

you scale too fast or you scale too slow and you know

money is money it's gonna go it's

you have to make sure that

you're doing a good job of retaining

your talent and attracting even more talent

that's going to be a valuable part of how you

how fast you're scaling

and I think we've not had that problem actually

at Runpod every hire is very intentional

we wanna make sure that you're not only a culture fit

but you're a culture addition

and I think that's a lot of companies are always like

oh what if they're a culture fit

or what if they're not a culture fit

but it shouldn't be a fit

it should be an addition cause everybody is different

right you're not gonna try to fit into a mold

you're trying to be a valuable addition to a company

so Runpod's been very intentional with that um

and so I think

we do a good job of

hiring the right people for the right roles

so that that makes sense I'm curious personally

have you experienced any moment of self doubt

or challenge that

you know

you turned around and turn into personal growth

is has there anything that that's you know

affected you on that level

yeah I mean

I think HR you have like a

an invisible load

of everybody else's issues and problems

and I try

obviously not to let that get to me personally

but it does you know

it affects me every time I do a termination or or

or I have to talk to an employee about an issue

I that's when being human is the most important

is having that empathy having that

being able to relate

and making sure that they have a safe space

I think a lot of people think that with HR it's like

um oh

I'm gonna get in trouble I'm not gonna go to them

because I feel like if I say something

I'm gonna I'm gonna get in trouble with my manager

and they're gonna tell on me

uh for me I

I do make sure that I'm intentionally

giving them a safe space I'm always telling them like

do you want me to document this

or is this something that you feel comfortable

with me documenting obviously if it's a more serious um

uh issue

of course I'm documenting it

because that's just the policy for it

but I'm also basically their therapist

their confident their um

advisor you know

it can be anything from benefits to like

family problems to like hey

you know what

like how come we don't have this policy in place

and I do take everyone's suggestions um

and I do bring it up to leadership

because I wanna let them know

that I'm actually actioning on it

and not just writing things down and telling them like

yeah you'll hear from me

you know in a couple of weeks

you know I

I always let them know that

I'm gonna let leadership know

so we can actually improve on things uh

and I and I always tell people this at work um

if you don't let me know what's going on

then I can't do anything to improve it yeah

that's fair I'm curious

has it ever backfired not everybody's going to be happy

right like

I think I Learned that the hard way in HR

where it's just like

I try not to let it get to me where it's like

people aren't gonna always be happy

no matter what company I worked at

there's always going to be somebody who's like

not happy with whatever policies put out there

or it's not enough or it's too much or

you know it's like that

the Goldilocks porridge

like it's never the right temperature

what you do as HR is how you support them I

I think that's how I I respond with that

it's like like

let's say for example um

at Runpod

our benefits were very not as robust as they are now

so we started off with paying

I think

it was 100% towards employees for their premiums

but nothing for the dependents

and so when I came in I was like

hey you know I

I get that we have like this kind of team right now

but as we grow

we're going to be attracting people from

with different ages different like groups

and how are we going to support that scale

and so now

we've come to the point where we're paying 90%

for premiums and we've added dependents

and we're doing that for both employees and dependents

and 90% for a small startup is pretty good

because not everybody offers that

and so

we are very intentional with supporting employees

and their families and

and now that's showing

and people are very happy about it

you know they weren't happy about it before

because dependents weren't part of it

but now that dependents are part of it

and we're paying so much towards premiums or towards uh

employees and dependents they're very happy and

um it's things like that

that it's like it doesn't have to be robust right away

but if you're

if they're seeing you work towards something

and they're seeing improvements

I think it's honestly a win for HR

like anything and HR doesn't get a lot of wins

if that makes sense um

you know you're not going out there going like

oh Jenna Lee did a great job of like

terminating this many people

like let's applaud her

you're not gonna get that kind of of recognition or

or oh my gosh like generally put a policy out there

you HR doesn't get that kind of applause

the way an engineer would or a product manager would or

you know because you don't see the visible work

you only see it like I guess

you see the work when people are actually happy

and you're not getting as many complaints

and that's where you kind of see HR winning

that makes sense

so my question on that is as as a leader in the space

what would you

consider to be the most important soft skills

to have um

in my space in HR I think it's empathy

empathy goes such a long way

you don't have to be people's best friends

but I think they need to feel that

you can get to their level

and make sure that you're telling them that

you're their safe space

you're you're there to support them

you might not have all the answers and I

I think that's that's kind of the problem is

they expect you to have the answers

and you might not have all of it

but even being able to air out any sort of of issue or

or concern already goes a long way for employees

you know

you don't know the mental load that they're carrying

whether something's happening at home

or in their personal life or their health

so sometimes they give like 50% to work

instead of the hundred percent they normally give

and you kind of have to understand that

and I always let managers know

you know like to check in

and I think it's so important for managers to check in

because if

if employees don't feel like their managers care

then they're not gonna go

and it's gonna become an HR issue

and it ends up going to me

I think managers should be able to

be the first point of contact

before it escalates to HR

I've Learned many things today um

many many

many things but I'm gonna give you my highlight um

one is first of all again

I'll repeat this the fact that you are so real

of what it actually takes to have a full life again

there's I didn't hear that you're fresh

squeezing your juice every morning

I hear that you're showing up

you're dedicated um

and it might take more right

but you have the things you

you want to have in your life

which is really I also heard

which I think is a fascinating way of looking at it

the wins for you and your role um

come from other people's happiness and success

so you truly are a team player

you're willing to get your shine

from other people's shine

which is an incredible human way to approach the world

imagine if we all did right

imagine if we all approached the world

this be a much happier kinder place

so I think take away

I wanna give you my final question here and it's

it's the question I always ask um

at the end of our podcast

my question is

if you can give your younger self one piece of advice

now being where you are today

what would you tell her

I think I'd tell her everything is gonna be OK

I think you know

when you're younger

you get in your head and you're like

you have especially coming from a Filipino background

um you know

there's certain things like oh

you have to have to graduate college

you have to get married by this age

you have to have kids by this age

and just having that timeline

that pressure of like you have to do certain

certain things by a certain time

and you know

I never did any of that

the way that it was supposed to go

and it still worked out and in that

I have a career I'm a mom

and you know

it's as simple as it gets

it's not complicated for me

and that like

I don't need to have it all

I think I have everything I have right now

is just what I've always wanted

so I would tell my younger self that

everything is gonna be alright

I love that thank you for spending time with us today

of course and I

everyone will hear

love hearing your incredible lessons in your journey

thank you again thank you so much

thanks Ashley