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Laid off or lost in the noise? You’re not alone.

Episode 182: Nicole Dunbar—Cornell-trained strategist and viral LinkedIn voice—joins Disruption Now to dissect the “white collar recession.” From AI displacement to hiring freezes, she breaks down how even top-tier pros are invisible in today’s job market. Learn:

6 proven job search strategies (only 1 involves job boards)

-Why resumes alone fail—and what recruiters actually trust
-The mindset shift every mid-career pro must make now
-How to “network” without small talk or selling out
-The emotional trap that sabotages high performers
-The hiring game changed. Here’s how to stay in it.

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the white collar recession. Things are

changing faster than we've ever seen

before. That I was making impact in

organizations but not always seeing the

full benefit. You get some protection

because of that. But I wanted something

a little different. That's a pretty

that's about as a staple as a job you

can have. What are the problems that you

are uniquely designed to solve? You may

be really great at designing labels for

eight tracks. No one's buying that right

now. individuals that have really never

had to struggle to find a job um that

are struggling. We might be able to have

two that are overseeing the AI and

double-checking the AI work. How do we

figure out how to pay for this? All

chickens come home to roost. Getting

them back to the office, it's really a

guys that can figure out more ways to

lay people off. Now that the cheese has

moved, the landscape has changed. What's

a resume, right? Like you had to

basically back the recruiters out of

your inbox if you were any good.

Everyone's both a tech company and a

media company. They are not in business

to help you feed your family. Hard stop.

Everybody needs to have an

entrepreneurial mindset. The illiterate

of the 21st century will not be those

who cannot read or write, but those who

cannot learn, unlearn,

and relearn. 85% of the jobs in 2030

don't actually exist right now because

you were at that job, right? And I'm not

and they still laid you off. What you

going to do? like you got to actually be

able to have a dynamic uh conversation.

You are positioning yourself to work

harder.

[Music]

Welcome to Disruption Now. I'm your host

and moderator, Rob Richardson. You know,

on the show, we love to bring on

innovators, entrepreneurs, and those who

are disrupting the status quo in their

own way. And Nicole is doing that for

the for the rec for the white collar

recession we're having right now to help

you through your job search through your

career because things are changing

faster than we've ever seen before. But

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So we need more fellow disruptors. We

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conference that focuses on humanizing uh

innovation and embedding empathy into

innovation. But without any further ado,

Nicole, great to have you on the show.

How you doing today?

I am doing well. Thanks so much. Glad to

be here. It's a long time coming this

conversation, Rob. It has it has been a

long time coming, but you know, I I

enjoyed our prep conversation and uh I'm

really um inspired by what you do and uh

want to talk to you more about it. So,

you haven't been doing this your entire

career and uh so I'm curious

like what made you realize that that you

wanted to be in uh in the mission of

helping people through their job and

through their careers? Like how did you

come to this epiphany? Yeah. Yeah,

that's a great question. Uh my

background really is in a few different

sectors. Corporate America and the

nonprofit sector as well as um uh

entrepreneurship and consulting. On the

corporate and nonprofit side of my

background, I've done quite a bit in

operations and administrative management

as well as human resources. I have

always loved the process of hiring my

teams, helping the people that are on my

teams grow and develop within the roles

at my company and also just thinking

through what are the steps to make my

hiring process more efficient. Right? So

that's kind of where it started as a

manager growing teams in at the time

what was a fast growing ear a new state

a newer industry which was um for-profit

or online university

I was hiring handover fist every quarter

for at the time I was working with

Kaplan University and we were at the

point the number two player in the

market and growing that team of of

support team and how do I go about

having these level one and level two

tech support people come through my my

my team, get them upskilled quickly so

they can address the issues. So that was

how I cut my teeth on all all things

related to hiring and the hiring market

um as a hiring manager. Uh from that

point though, I also then moved into

doing some things in um related to HR

and recruiting for other organizations.

Uh everything related to how do you help

managers make better decisions. Fast

forward to a few years later, I'm

working in management again myself at

Northwestern University at the law

school there and I am hiring a smaller

team, but I'm doing some hiring and and

there as well. And in the midst of

things that were happening in that

economy, which we are of a similar age

range, so 2008,

2007,

2008, we all know what was happening in

the economy at that point. Um, and I had

a series of things that happened that

made me decide that it was time for me

to step out and try something on my own.

Let me try this entrepreneurship thing.

I have entrepreneurs on both sides of my

family. I started to realize that I was

making impact in organizations but not

always seeing the full benefit of the

impact that I was making because that's

what happens when you um are employed

and that's okay. You get some protection

because of that. But I wanted something

a little different. Hm. Theoretically,

yes. But yes, the theoretically

theoretically, right, fast forward to

today. Um, however, I wanted to try

something different and I stepped away

from a full-time job in management at

the at the law school there at

Northwestern um to start uh my very

first business, which was basically

consulting to small business owners on

legal services. Wow. I did that in 2008

um is my last day there. And of course

if we know what happened 2008 2009

it became quite clear that we were it

was business it was not business as

usual if you will and through that

process who I had to become in order to

quite frankly close sales Rob I had to

take every aspect of my professional

background everything I learned from

marketing my first job out of college I

worked in in in luxury package goods

marketing um and how to help people

understand those elements ments I

everything I learned as a go there a

little bit Nicole I'd like to get to

your aspects but you obviously have a

lot of career experience and you made

that big transition between uh you know

having a job at Northwestern is a that's

a pretty that's about as stable as a job

you can have uh it used to be government

very different nowadays too but I

digress uh that was a very stable job

what advice would you give looking back

your younger self knowing everything you

know now

in terms of like making that transition

because a lot of people are going to

either awaken to that transition right

now or going to be forced to that

transition right now. So what advice

would you give your younger self when

you're first starting off from uh

leaving the 95 to the entrepreneurial

journey? Nothing is wasted, right? What

do you do best? What do you love to do

most? Um what is it that when you do it

people marvel right it's not it's common

it's common place to you when but when

you do it people are just shocked and

awe in shock and in awe that you can see

a solution to something what are the

problems that you are uniquely designed

to solve and secondly even so that's

your own self assessment but the second

part of that is what does the market

need right now

you might be really great at designing

labels for eight tracks. No one's buying

that right now.

Not that I know. I'm just saying. Not

that there may be like five people that

are collecting them for their, you know,

personal museum, right? And I'm so happy

that you have those customers. However,

looking at what the marketplace needs

plus what you are uniquely designed to

do and bringing those two together can

be a very powerful place. Right. No, the

intersection.

Go ahead. Yeah, I was going to say

there's some additional nuances to that,

right? You know, what does the

competitive set look like? How hard is

it to bring that to profit? Um, how easy

is it for that to scale based on what

your actual goals are? But those are the

two first pieces. Yeah. But that that's

that's, you know, being able to identify

what you're uniquely positioned at and

and what the market actually needs.

Yeah. and and these fundamentals don't

change right now even in the midst of

this this uh this white collar recession

that we're going through right now. So I

think that's really really great advice.

Let's talk about this shift though. What

do you think has what is going on right

now? What is the shift that you see is

happening and because we've seen cycles

before, right? I think there's a

difference between things being cyclical

and that like 2008 there was a there was

a you know just a downturn, a recession,

a mass recession and those things

happen. Uh but we talked about this and

I think you you agree there's been a

fundamental shift. What do you think the

fundamental shift is when it comes to

the job market right now specifically

with the white collar market? Yeah, I

think the biggest shift is that there

are individuals that have really never

had to struggle to find a job um that

are struggling and I can speak about

this from an industry's perspective.

Clearly, this this audience and and your

platform, you speak a lot more to folks

that are in the tech industry or that

are tech curious or that are looking to

implement that more into their life

every day and in the business and

political sectors. However, I think it's

important to realize that it's gone

beyond that. And yes, we can start at

this year, but we actually could

probably start two and a half years

earlier when open AI came to the

forefront in many ways to bring Gen AI

to the masses. That's when we started to

really see the disruption about two and

a half two two and a half years ago. Um

that January of what 2023 when it

started to show up everywhere and we

were hearing all of that talk. um

companies from 2023 and I'm speaking now

specifically to the tech industry. Of

course it is trickling down to other

industries. Companies from 2023 started

to say wait a second we are paying our

you know top um architects and these

other people that have these highly

skilled high high level skills $300,000

$200,000 base or 250 plus you know 20%

bonus you know total comp plus stock for

one person. And we have hundreds or

possibly thousands of these people

across the planet. But there's this AI

thing that costs a lot of money to

implement. Yes. But it's proponing. It's

saying that we may very well be able to

cut instead of having 10 programmers or

developers doing this work. We might be

able to have two that are overseeing the

AI and double-checking the AI work. So a

lot of companies went into this and

said, how do we figure out number one,

how not to be left behind, right? And

number two, how do we figure out how to

pay for this? How do we figure out how

to pay for it? Right? And so those are

the couple of things that happen that

are probably the easiest for everyone to

see on the surface. But we could also

quite frankly go even further back than

that. Remember this little thing called

COVID, right? 2020, 2021, and the global

impact of that. There was a cost in

America for us to put some of the

policies in place for the world to shut

down. And some of that cost we have been

paying for for the past several years

through inflation, right? The cost of

goods and services have gone higher have

gotten higher. And again, not to talk go

too far into politics and and political

policies, but it's kind of hard not to

touch on it a little bit. Absolutely.

Yeah. Well, you're not you're not you're

not you're not debarred from doing that.

So, go for it. Multiply. Well,

well, I want to make sure that we

there's so much noise right now in the

marketplace and we'll get to the what

what people need to be doing today. I I

have some very specific thoughts about

that, but I do think in order to even

have a context of what to do today, we

need to understand what has happened.

Agreed.

part of

the world shutting down um and goods and

services not moving the way that they

once did across our planet um caused not

only a backlog um it cost it cost a lot

of money for the the the world to shut

down the way that we had to because we

didn't have a cure for this thing called

yeah people were dying and we like to

remake facts about things but like

million I think over a million people

died in the US alone there's a lot of

people that died in the US alone.

Exactly. Right. So we are we had to do

certain things and also because again I

I referenced 2008 2009 at the beginning

beginning of this conversation but there

are politicians in 20 in 2020 that were

in office or were very much working

adults during 2008 and 2009. And if you

understand what happened in 2009 and the

fact that the world went into a global

recession because American polit we

allowed big banks to fail which impacted

monetary um monetary structures across

the planet.

No one wanted to be in politics and have

it on their back that they allowed again

an an economy to crash. So we wrote

checks like anything. We were sending

stimulus checks. We were, hey, if you've

got a mortgage, you don't have to pay

the mortgage for a year. We will hold it

because we know that we're not working.

We will do all of these things. We've

got PPP loans. We've got all this money

that we threw in to make sure that this

the economy didn't go to the bottom,

i.e. 2009, right? And that worked in the

short term, but all chickens come home

to roost. Yeah. Someone's got to pay for

that. And some of that's being paid for

in inflation. So, that also started it.

That also started where things cost

more. If eggs for you and I cost $8 a

dozen and a company needs to for us, how

much more where everything from paper

goods to microchips to anything that a

company needs to buy is it costing?

Yeah. No, I agree. I mean, I agree. I

mean, it's it's definitely it's

something that we can't we got here

through a collection of things, right?

And you look at 2020. 2020 was a

different market when it came to the on

the employee side, right? You were I

think it's one of the strongest markets

we've seen and people got a false sense

of I think power and security about what

it looks like and I feel like we're

seeing the mirror reflection or exact

opposite I would say of 2020 we're

seeing in 2025 in that this is now a

completely employer market. employers

are moving to get people I think back to

the office under the guise of getting

them back to the office. It's really a

guise I think to figure out more ways to

lay people off. Uh but that's the but

but I think this is the world that we're

in and we can complain about it all we

want but the this is the world we're in.

So you are we are navigating this as

working professionals

like how what advice do you give to

working professionals now because things

are different now that the cheese has

moved the landscape has changed how do

you advise current working professionals

that like you said aren't necessarily

used to the struggle and are and are

adapting to a new reality. Yeah. It's

interesting because a lot of the work I

personally personally one-on-one have

probably worked with at this point in my

career over 1500 people that are in

career transition this year. Probably a

hundred alone this year, right? Um so

it's not I I have a lot of conversations

with folks in a lot of industries.

Probably about 60% of the people that I

work with 50 to 60% of them are coming

from the tech space, right? Um certainly

I've worked across all industries, but

that's probably a bigger component of

that. So, I'm going to first talk to

that person because I think that is the

audience that is probably the most has

been the most surprised or disrupted by

what's been happening the last couple of

years, right? Um,

number one, it's not business as usual

in a job search. Quite frankly, the in

in the past, my average tech

professional didn't even really have to

do a job search. What's a resume, right?

Like, you had to basically back the

recruiters out of your inbox if you were

any good at what you did and if you had

a particular trajectory in your career.

um that was the way that you did that.

You got a very strong six-figure income

doing work that you were good at that

people were constantly recruiting you to

pay you more money to do. Right? So that

if you grew up in the tech space and you

grew up, let's say you are somewhere

between 30 and 50 and you've spent the

last, you know, 20 10 to 20 plus years

of your professional career in tech up

until two and a half years ago, you

probably don't know a whole lot about

what it is to actually have a true

full-time proactive job search. You

don't know that life. You don't know

that world. No. Right. So that's the

first thing. Um, now we are, you and I

are talking in 2025. This is a

conversation that I've been having with

folks since 2022, 2023. Um, and it's

even more relevant today because it's

trickling down to other industries and

sectors, right? Um, so number one,

understand that you actually have to

execute a true job search and not just

any old job search, but a job search

strategy, right? Which means you're

doing certain things based on a goal

that you have in mind about where you

want to go, not today, but where you see

the marketplace going in the future.

So that's the first thing. I think the

second thing to keep in mind is that we

didn't just have this inflationary

environment and companies are laying off

let's just say tech professionals um

because of needing to find f funds and

change priorities right um so that they

can implement and bring on more of these

AI and genai tools so they can be

competitive it wasn't just that it is

now you also tech professional need to

understand how to use some of these AI

tools and what what are the pros and

cons of using these every single day in

your in your particular function. I feel

like and that's a conversation that we

could talk about beyond just um the tech

industry. Every single industry, I don't

care whether you are a um teacher, I

don't care whether you are an

accountant, whether you are a podcaster,

um whether you are a content creator,

whether you are a marketer, um every

single industry is now having to think

about whether they want to or not.

How is Gen AI and the tools that are

coming out disrupting the way that I do

business? Yes. Yes. I mean, it's it's

it's Yes. Yes. And yes. So, beyond being

a podcaster, we also build and build

applications uh AI and Jet applications.

But mo the most important and the and

the thing and the place we start with is

you know what is your vision for your

company and and what changes are you

seeking to make and helping them and

what are your pain points and how do you

currently go about them now um and and

so like I think that's so important what

you said and I think getting back to

this working professional right you have

to think about the fundamentals to be

successful you kind of hit some of them

right um like I look at it and I'd like

to get your comments on this basically

about three things you needs to

understand. It's a different way. Uh we

have the job seekers and there's a way

that I want you to talk about that a

little bit about what you need to be

successful because I think I want to

dive more into that. But the working

professional,

the founder, whoever you are, right?

Whatever whatever you're doing, whoever

who who's ever listening to the sound of

my voice, you are going to have to

approach things differently. Like it

used to be, as you know, and we had this

conversation when we prepped for the uh

podcast, a

a person that was a coder, if you were a

good coder, you can just go sit in a

corner, not talk to anybody, go code. As

long as you coded well, no one cared,

right? Um there might be a few people

like that, but you have to be so damn

good. You have to probably be in the top

1% like to be to for that to be

something you can get away with. Now,

that's no longer the case. you have to

now have a more global picture of things

of understanding the business

fundamentals. Um, even if you're not

technical, as you said, everyone's both

a tech company and a media company.

Everybody has to know some level of

technology. Period. Hard stop, right?

And you have to know how to interact

with AI in some ways. That doesn't mean

you have to be an expert in all things,

but you better be comfortable with AI

amplifying what you do. and then look

for uh opportunities uh that others

don't see and find and connect patterns.

I say so we have to be in some ways we

have more opportunities but in in a way

in in another way you have to also kind

of know a little more and learn a little

more than you had to before even though

that there's more tools at your ca at

your at your disposal. I'm curious to

see what do you think as a working

professional if you had to give the top

three things you you need to do to be

successful as a professional what would

those things be?

Number one you must understand business

perspective. So this is where the white

collar professional the white collar

recession piece comes in. As I mentioned

a few moments ago we have people that

never really had to struggle because

they did the things right. They got the

bachelor's degree, maybe even a master's

degree in their area of expertise. They

worked through the Fortune 500s or

Fortune 100 companies. They grew their

skill set over time and they continue to

do so. And even those people because of

no fault in many instances of their own

um they may find themselves out of work

in an environment that has shifted,

right? Um, for some of those

individuals,

and I'm I'll speak to the tech industry

professional, but also beyond that,

whether we're talking about someone

that's in accounting or someone that's

in education or some other piece, they

really didn't have to know what how the

business made money or really have a

full understanding of how the business

that they were working for, the company

that they were working for, um, made

money, what was the competitive set

around them, um, what were the things

that were shifting the decision- making

in the company. That was something that

no one really wants to talk about this,

but you kind of didn't need to

understand that unless you were in a

sales or a you were more a senior level

role as you were going up into the the

the senior level or senior director,

vice president level roles, then an

understanding even more so of the

business perspective was necessary. That

is not the case anymore. I do believe

that a lot of reasons, a lot of the

reason that companies ended up cutting

people from their staff that may even

have been in functions that were making

money, they just needed maybe that was a

lower priority for the business. So

understanding how the company that

you're considering working for that you

currently work for, how do they make

money, right? What is the competitive

set around that company doing? Because

if you do not believe that many of the

layoffs that were happening in fame

companies were happening because the

competitor across the street right

whether I'm Amazon and I'm looking at

Meta laying off and I'm over because

they're getting ready to get money

together to go ahead and invest in these

data centers or I am you know IBM and

Dell's over here doing layoffs

right like it they respond to each other

and how they are responding and that

trickles down to you accountant you

marketing um director ctor you you know

programmer. Yeah. I mean that's that's

yeah that that's go ahead Nicole. Yeah.

So I I think I was just going to say

that's that's one of the biggest things

like recognizing that understanding

business

is actually in my opinion something that

is becoming much more of a fundamental

need for the everyday worker. Right? We

are in whether you want whether you like

it or not. We are in a society that is

based on capitalism. Business are

businesses are in business to make a

profit. They are not in business to help

you feed your family. They are not in

business to um

primarily in business to produ um

release goods and services to the

marketplace. They are a business is a

business in order to make a profit.

Right. Yeah. Hard stop. Hard stop.

That's hard stop. Hard stop. And so if

the landscape in which a company makes

profits changes, the company is fast,

especially if they're publicly traded

because hello, they've got to answer to

to shareholders, right, about how

they're doing things, right? So this is

why Target's a little bit in trouble

right now and a few other companies like

that that you've made decisions that are

now impacting the bottom line and we own

part of you. So now you need to come

talk to us about what you just did and

who who thought about this. Right.

Exactly. So companies are being called

on the carpet and have to be and have

that's the nature of being publicly

traded, right? You know, Nicole, it

makes me think about if you were because

you know, most people are not

entrepreneurs. Uh, of course, and it's a

and it's it is a different life and I

don't say everybody should be an

entrepreneur,

but I firmly believe everybody needs to

have an entrepreneurial mindset where

you are to your point. Right. So, this

is you have to always be learning. uh

you have to understand the business

because if you do that you'll be much

better positioned right and you can't

just see your role as I just do my job

my job is limited to this and you can't

think one-dimensional anymore in a in a

fourdimensional world like things are

moving so quick things are you need to

in order to make yourself um stand out

you have to do the things you're saying

right uh but we I think there's there is

a struggle right getting back to both

job seekers it is very difficult

specifically for people that have

thought a certain way for a long time to

be able to change the method of their

thinking. Yeah. This is this feels

difficult to me. Maybe I'm wrong. No. Um

it's not. How do you advise uh you know

your clients who have been fixated on

this is how the world works. If I do

this, I work hard at my job. I

understand my role. I should be okay.

Right? And that's obviously not the

case. um if I have this I've had all

these um career uh opportunities, I've

uh built my career, I have experience, I

should be able to easily find a job. We

know that's not the truth. Number one,

how do you guide them towards that

mindset? And then the second question is

what's the most impactful thing they can

do to begin to make the transition from

where they were to where they need to

be? Yeah, this is a great question. Um

there is a quote that honestly I've been

quoting for years and I don't think it's

ever been more true than today. Um

there's a futurist by the name of Alvin

Tooffler and he stated that the

illiterate of the 21st century will not

be those who cannot read or write but

those who cannot learn,

unlearn

and relearn. Right. Oh, that's a that's

a mic drop moment. That is good. Yeah.

Yeah. like it is it's authentically

um impossible

in the long term. I'm not talking about

in the next two to five years. I'm

talking about in the next you know 8 to

20 years to maintain even your sanity

let alone your marketability if you are

unwilling to embrace a growth mindset.

Right? I would also say it's a pivot

from becoming I'm not saying that

there's not a place to become a subject

matter expert in a particular area

because I think that is the case right I

really do I really do think there is

that however in addition to being a

subject matter expert in an area you

must also start to generate a certain or

develop a certain mindset that is

curious and that is open to learning you

want to think about this tech the tools

and the skill sets that are needed in

the marketplace today. That's another

major trend that's happening and it's

been happening for a while but we're

seeing much more of a pivot towards it

even now this side of you know open AI

and Gen AI really taking to the

forefront which is a skills-based

economy right that means you literally

might see something in a job posting and

you got 60% of the requirements required

skills and there may be two or three

things on there that you don't really

know a whole lot about but you're

noticing that every time you look for a

job with this title they're asking now

for these particular two or three

technologies. What does that mean?

Instead of thinking, "Oh gosh, let me

throw up my hands. I don't know how to

do that." You go find yourself a

LinkedIn learning course, you go find a

UDI course, you go spend a weekend on,

you know, YouTube and do some YouTube

university and educate yourself enough

about that thing so that you can have an

intelligent conversation. I think my

average tech professional understands

that to a certain extent because

certifications have been a thing for

quite some time and they unlock higher

levels of salary and responsibility

based on certain certifications you have

right um however the average working

professional um that used to be that

mindset of growth mindset that a that

mindset of upskilling myself on a

regular basis that has been has been

something that's been not new um it's

been around and the people that I love

to work with we talk about that and have

talked about that for a decade but now

it's becoming table stakes. Absolutely.

Absolutely. Like everybody from you know

all those I don't agree with the

approach of what's happening at the with

the everything at the at u at 1600

Pennsylvania

and how they're going about it is I

think is inhumane. Yeah. But there's no

question even at federal, state, and

local levels we're gonna have to

reimagine services. We're going to have

to reimagine how we um how we serve the

public. uh uh those who those who work

in the public sector too also are going

to have to learn more and learn faster

and some do but that's going to be the

requirement for everyone right everybody

right and this is because this is the

world as it is right and so you know

there's a study um by Dell I think and

several others that that that that shows

that by 2030 85% of the jobs in 2030

don't actually exist right now right so

hold on to that that's pretty pretty

wild.

Even if that's an exaggeration and it's

not 80 to 85%. A large portion of jobs

are changing right now. And so you got

two options. Pretend like it doesn't

exist or figure out how to pivot and

change with the times. And there's so

many tools to do it right now. You just

said a LinkedIn learning. Google offers

a free course. I think Microsoft offers

a free course for AI. I think even MIT

and Stanford offer all types of free

courses for it. It is not outside of

your capability. You just have to get

your mindset right and you have to learn

by doing. Like I how I how I'm learning

AI, how I've learned AI, how I've

learned everything technical is that I

sit down, listen, and then I go do it.

It's really that's really it. Like it's

not rocket science. It's you got to just

sit down and go do it. And you have the

ability to do it. You just have to

decide to do it. And and we need more

people to do it. to build right now. Uh

so really appreciate the work you're

doing. So what I'm curious uh what do

you think is the biggest kind of

misconception right now with job seekers

that's happening right now? Yeah. Yeah.

I think um gosh that there's there's

several.

Let me try to narrow it down to a few.

Um, someone that's brand new in the job

search that maybe hasn't had to do an

external job search in the past might

think that the best and only way to find

a job is to um get their resume done and

start applying using LinkedIn and the

job boards um Indeed and LinkedIn. And

it is it is a great strategy. In fact, I

it's a foundational job search strategy

to anyone that's in in job search um

because here's what job boards do. They

allow you to see what the marketplace is

calling your type of role today. Y it

allows you to understand the vocabulary

that the marketplace is using to

describe your skill set today, right?

Which if you've been in you haven't been

in the open market in 10 years or five

years, you may not realize that what

used to be called um you know web

designer is now UX design is now some

other new designer, right? Um so you may

not recognize that shift. Um however um

so that's a good thing. However,

everybody's doing that. So, if you are

going into a job search thinking that

the way I'm going to find a job is only

and solely by going through the job

boards, then that's a wrong way to go

about doing it. I think the strategies

for how I recommend my clients find

jobs, they haven't changed. There are

six core job search strategies that

anybody that's listening can and could

possibly be using for their job search.

And dependent upon your personality,

dependent upon um the market and the

industry that you're targeting,

two or three of them, most people should

be doing at least two, maybe three job

search strategies. Do we have time for

me to just mention those six briefly

now? We do. Yeah, we have time. Yeah, we

have No. Okay, cool. Let me just mention

them briefly because I find that too

many people get focused on one thing and

not enough of the others. So, in no

particular order, the first one I've

just mentioned is thirdparty job boards.

That's your Indeed. That's your

LinkedIn. That is your uh you know Zip

Recruiter, Glass Door, you know, Dice,

what whatever your job boards that

you're using that you're finding jobs.

Even Google, which most people don't

seem to realize, if you type the job

title, you type the city and the word

job that you're looking for, Google

itself uses the power of the Google

search engine to act as an an

aggregator, pulling jobs from all over

the internet and presenting them to you.

So, that's another one that people seem

to forget about, but all of those are

the same thing. Third-party job boards,

right? Um, and that's great until

they're not, right? So, that's number

one. There are strategies and techniques

I teach to make that more efficient um

for somebody when a job is posted

matters right now. Um, where you f found

the job matters right now. Using it to

source the job, but not necessarily

using it to apply for the job, that

matters right now, right? You find it on

the job board, you go to the web

website. Anyways, lots of things on that

one, but that's only one. Most people

use that only. The second one that we're

talking more about now and I'm grateful

for is networking, right? Networking is

a job search strategy, particularly for

my tech tech professionals right now.

Um, networking is a job search strategy

and a care and a career boosting

long-term strategy that people

underestimate underestimate really

underestimate. And if I want you to dive

on that, don't forget your point. No, I

do want to say this and especially

talking to the younger generation. Um,

you really have to learn at your earlier

career, you need to actually, this is

going to sound counterintuitive, but

early in your career, you need to value

relationships and building them and

learning over money. That sounds weird.

Yeah. And they're like, "No, I need to

get paid as much as possible right now."

I get that. And I'm not saying you don't

need money and you need you need to have

you need to make money. However, for you

to get that money, you have to develop

some level of relationships where people

actually learn to trust you, rely on

you, understand the value that you bring

and that you actually want to bring

value, not just take. And then you got

to develop some skill sets, right? Like

it's it's that takes learning. And so

like, you know, I I' I've seen this

challenge happen a lot. And you know, I

I love a lot of the energy. I love the

perspective of a lot of the younger

generation trying to bring balance to

the workforce and I agree with that. But

if you are in and you're talking to an

entrepreneur on your first job and your

first line or your repeated line is work

life balance when you are just starting.

I'm I always ask I ask people like what

are you balancing? I'm just asking

I feel like because they a lot of times

they don't have kids or anything else.

I'm like like I'm just I'm just trying

to understand but that's all I Okay, I

digress. But go ahead, Nicole. You you

were on your

I I Oh my Oh my So I I have a a a client

that I was working with earlier this

year. We had a conversation and he's in

that, you know, 30s age range. Um and we

we we had a lot of conversation around

um the idea of having a professional

network and that generation for all

kinds of reasons like I follow trends.

If you haven't learned this from me, I

kind of watch what's happened

historically and see what's repeating,

what's new and how we can leverage the

past to see what's happening in the

future. Sure. And I look at it from

outside of sectors. So we have this

whole kind of pay me what you owe me

kind of energy that has come out uh for

the the the younger generation, right?

Not a bad mindset in theory because they

saw their parents and sacrifice time

with them, right? You were not at my at

my at my football game or at my

basketball game or at my cheer cheer

meet because you were at that job,

right? And I'm not and they still laid

you off, right?

they're coming from that energy and then

they're seeing, okay, they just saw

front and center, I went and did all the

things and I still couldn't find a job

or whatever the case may be in those

early years. So, they they have that

kind of mindset and then of course

popular culture with songs like better

have my money, right? you know, like

that we we laugh it and we and we joke

at it, but like the the ramifications

are you go into the workplace and you

start expecting that same sort of energy

like I'm going to, you know, toeto toe

you on this and if you don't have it,

I'm out. And that's cool, but what

you're what you're not doing is

collecting that collateral over the

years. So when the time comes that you

do actually need a reference, you do

need sponsorship. You do need someone to

mentor you or someone to call just to

ask a question. You don't have that

because transactional relationships are

transactional in both ways, right? So if

that's if we're going to be

transactional, we're going to be

holistically transactional. So please do

not be mad when I don't not respond to

your LinkedIn inbox because all you

wanted was to clock that to to to punch

that that clock and to leave. Yep. I

don't know you. You didn't build a

relationship with me. Yeah. No, it's

it's it's it is the truth. And that and

that also goes to relationship of not

only people you work with um people you

don't work with and the people you work

with there's also levels of relationship

like if I have to like being an

entrepreneur you know and having and

having staff you know you've seen people

that are like okay let me do I see this

as it it's it's 5:00 cut off done I'm

done with this not even if they have

nothing else to do right like and and

there's like all right I'm done I bring

in this amount and no more and That's

all right. The problem with that is that

if that's the mindset, an ecosystem

means that if you just take from it, it

doesn't build especially as an

entrepreneur and a small business. So

that goes to understanding like as a job

seeker now and as a working person, it

is very important that you understand

that you try to seek to bring value.

Doesn't mean you you you don't you

ignore people if they're trying to

exploit you, but I think there's also

some overreaction

and misunderstanding about what it

takes. like there is some level of

building relationships and paying dues

that you have to go through that we all

have to go through that we've all gone

through and there's also nothing wrong

with that. There's I think this this

this overfocus on balance has bringing

us out of balance into what it actually

takes to become successful in what it

always has taken. Yeah. Yeah. Which is a

lot of hard work and a lot of sacrifice.

You know, you can have it all just not

at the same time. Nope. Nope. Not at the

same time. And I wish I wish that was

understood more. Um, but we could we

could talk about that a lot. I want to

make sure I share the other four

strategies. Um, so you got two. The

first two were what again? Let's just

recap those. Third party job boards

number one. Um, networking. Networking

is number two. Number two. And the third

party job boards aren't as effective,

but they help tell you the landscape and

the language of currently what's

happening. Okay. What are the other four

strategies?

Um, the the the third one is um

recruiters. Working with recruiters,

right? third party recruiters at a

staffing firm, a temp agency, an

executive search firm, ped hunter, all

the same thing, just different versions

of that externally. You're not their

customer. The company that's paying

them, which is the company you want to

ultimately work for, is their customer.

You are a resource to them, right? Each

one of these strategies, there's pros

and cons to um but that's another one.

In the past, I think our tech, my tech

professionals have relied more on on um

an inreach, right? So recruiters were

reaching into them and the first thing

that most tech professionals did was go

out and try to reach out to recruiters

and they're not getting calls back

because everybody's reaching out to

those recruiters now, right? So if you

didn't have a relationship with them in

the past and the recruiters are trying

to pay their bills too because guess how

recruiters get paid by placing people

like you. And if they're not placing

people like you because their customers

are laying off 20% of their developers,

they're not getting the same checks they

used to get. So they're trying to buy

the eggs too that you're trying to buy.

It's all everything is connected which

is why we cannot look at this thing from

just a a siloed approach to it. We have

to really look at it holistically.

Anyways, so recruiters um the fourth

strategy is something called target

company list um where you identify a set

of criteria that make sense to you for

the type of company you want to work

for. Right? The criteria could be all

sorts of things. Direct competitors your

com your family uses their products,

goods and services. It could be um

they're a small company. They

um regularly show up on the 100 best

companies to work for in your city.

Whatever the criteria is, you set the

criteria first, number one. Then number

two, you look for the companies that

match that criteria.

This is a little bit different than most

people the way most people say, "Oh,

build a target company list." I teach my

clients this because quite frankly, if I

just say, "Give me a list of your top 20

companies." Everybody gives me the same

15 companies. Everybody. It's the

companies that are front and center,

good or bad, right? I can't tell you how

many people that I've spoken with that

have a particular culture that they want

to work with in an organization and then

they give me a list of a certain group

of fang companies and I'm like, not

around there, partner. Like, not around

there. Like, you're not going to get

that. Not that it boo. You don't want

that. You don't don't want what you

don't want. So, think about what you

actually want and then look for

companies that are doing that. There are

plenty of companies that are making more

than enough money to pay you very well

that you've never heard of. You know

why? Because they just do their

business. Yep. They're not in the

headlines every five minute. They're not

on LinkedIn news every 3 seconds being

talked about. Yeah. You can tell me more

about Nvidia, but who are the companies

that supply them? Who are the companies

that they're working with that have the

money because Nvidia is one of their

major contracts? Absolutely. Absolutely.

Yeah. The suppliers behind the scene is

a huge huge industry in that. Forgotten.

Forgotten all the time. So I can talk a

lot about that. I teach target company

list strategy in four steps, but those

are the first two that are the most

critical. Set your criteria and then

find the companies. So we've talked

about four of them so far. Um the fifth

strategy that I like to to consider is

actually contracting. Contracting is a

subset of recruiter strategy. When I say

contracting, what I mean is I am very

clear on my skill set. And I am going to

now offer this particular skill set as a

gun for hire, if you will, to a company

that has a short-term or midterm need. A

short-term need could be three to six

months. Midterm could be six to a year.

Some companies even will do longer term

contracts. If you play your cards right,

and if you are clear on your your

subject matter expertise, this is why

going back to what we said earlier, can

add value. You can step into a company

with limited ramp up and actually create

value for that company for this

short-term engagement. There's two

things that come from that. Number one,

they get to kick the tires on you and

you get to kick the tires on them to see

if they're crazy and they get to see if

you're crazy. If you are good at what

you do and there's a need, they will

keep you on for other things. The other

thing that benefits for that is that you

also keep your skills sharp. You make

sure if you've been in a longer job

search, finding a contract can actually

help you to land an opportunity that you

may not went out. Went out. Move the

questions down too. Yeah, I don't know

why it's doing that. Go ahead. So, make

sure to mark that part. Go ahead. Yeah.

So if you are able to find a contract

that makes sense for your background,

you're you're getting your skills your

your skill set is is is being cultivated

in that environment and possibly even

testing new skills that you are picking

up because you are learning, unlearning,

and relearning while you're in

transition. It also can extend your

financial runway, right? Um lots of

things, but they're negatives to

contracts. Again, pros and cons to all

of them. Um the sixth strategy that I

like to talk about this is either going

to work or it's not going to work for

people. It's called boomerang, right?

This is works best when you have had a

career where you've worked with

different types of companies over the

years and you can look back at the

companies you've worked with in the past

and you can find a company that can I

boomerang back to a company that I

worked with in the past at a higher

level or at a slightly different skill

set that I have because I've grown over

the years. Clearly that only works if

you did good work there, right? If you

if the company and the industry that

they're in is viable, right? Because

some industries are no longer viable,

i.e. the eight track label creation

company, right? That that's not a thing

anymore. Yeah. Right. Um and do I um do

they have a policy of hiring people

back? Right. um slight little adjustment

to something and I think it's important

for for I think your your audience to

listen to especially if they're

contemplating a proactive job search or

they are out of work right now. Um one

of the things that our current economic

environment is doing as it relates to

how hiring managers, recruiters and

leaders are thinking about talent is

they are more likely to invest their

their they want to lower the risk. It is

expensive for a company to make a bad

hire or a mishhire. And when you talk

about a world where we've got AI tools

that are making it harder for a

recruiter, right, because I've sat in

the recruiter seat, I've sat in the HR

professional seat, and I have sat in the

hiring manager seat, right? So, I'm

doing everything I can to discern

whether the time I'm going to invest in

you for the next two to three months to

get you to 70% of what I need you to be

doing, am I going to see the return on

that in six months? And we've got AI

tools that make it harder for the person

sitting in this seat today to discern

whether you actually thought that or you

were just reading something that chat

GPT gave you. Exactly. No, preach.

Preach. Listen. Listen. So, here's

what's happening, right? The recruiter,

the hiring manager, that leadership

team, they're leaning more into

relationship recruiting than perhaps in

the past, right? because they want and

and even some of your candidates, I see

this more in my tech industry

professionals, they will talk about the

fact that they are going through maybe

more and greater rounds um of the

testing process here in like seven,

eight, nine interview. I'm like what?

Listen, I talked with a candidate this

week um and they are in um sales

enablement and she was saying, "Yeah,

each one of these I'm doing these like

five or six rounds." And I'm just like,

wow. Right. But she's mo mostly for SAS

companies, right? And they want to make

sure like you're not just allowing some

AI tool to produce this presentation.

Like you actually have put some thought

into it and we want to test it in

multiple ways. That's also why you're

seeing the increase in the application

process of the annoying applications

where you're getting open fields where

you have to answer test question

textbased questions in some of the that

because they want to stop you from using

tools like lazy apply which is an AI

tool that allows you to quote unquote

apply in your sleep. Yeah. Side note, if

anybody is listening and can I I long

for the day where one of these tools

that are promising candidates that they

can make the application process more

effective and apply on their behalf. I I

I long for the day to see that give a

true return on investment in terms of

actually getting jobs. I'm not seeing it

yet. I hope for it. I hope for the

technology to get better, but these

tools are not yet doing it. And the

people that are most likely to lean into

those tools, they are being very active,

but it is not productive.

M right. So, you're doing a lot. You've

applied to 400 jobs this week while you

were out playing, you know, tennis.

Okay, great. I'm so glad that you

applied to those 400 jobs.

Awesome. Awesome. However, what's your

ROI on that? Yeah, I mean, there's this

goes to the limitation of relying on AI,

right? And algorithms. Algorithms think

differently than we do. They process

differently than we do. And there are

some things that they won't that that it

won't pick up that we as humans will

pick up. And you have to you have to put

the the nuances where the real

opportunity for AI actually is not in

the just mass reproduce. Right. So if

you don't have any thoughtfulness like

you said those you you were very

intentional and and very uh thoughtful

about the steps one can do and if you

don't if you don't have a process for

it, you're you're you're going to lose

nowadays. Now AI can amplify that stuff

but it can't replace what you have to do

because guess what let's say you even

does work Nicole you get the interview

then then they start interviewing you

and then it's like once they ask you

these questions you come back with a

blank face you know you got to go to

chat GPT in the middle of the interview

like what you going to do like you got

to actually be able to have a dynamic uh

conversation and there are tools that

are doing that as well as we speak today

there are tools that are being sold as a

tool that you can have up next to your

virtual interview and when they ask the

question you can either type it in or it

automatically is listening and then

it'll give you a prompt right so are

particularly companies that are yes yes

it is used it is being used today so

when I say coming back to what I said a

few moments ago the person that is

sitting in the recruiter the hiring

manager that seat they are becoming more

likely to rely on referrals from their

current employees they are more likely

to try to grow somebody inside the

organization and you know go out here in

the wild and get somebody off the street

that they don't know. So if you do not

have a networking strategy in your job

search pocketbook right now or your your

back pocket, you are positioning

yourself to work harder. In fact, I'm

going to tell you something. If right

now when I'm working with somebody that

has over 15 years of professional

experience, that is one of the number

one things that we're just we're

cracking down on that. Okay, what does

your networking strategy look like? And

you've got to customize it based on the

person's personality, right? Um,

however, it can be done and it

unfortunately or fortunately must be

done if you want to shorten the amount

of time it takes to land your next job.

Yeah. So, you know, I want to get to

some uh wrap-up final questions, but one

final followup with that though. There

everybody's not a natural

extrovert like you and I are, right? I

least it feels like you're an extrovert.

Maybe I meet you in person, maybe you're

more introverted, but you feel like very

extroverted. What do you get? What about

those advice to people that aren't

naturally

uh you know uh that aren't naturally out

there engaging with people and they

might have to do some more thoughtful

work or it's harder for them

specifically to network or engage with

people. How do you advise those people

that may have a block or a struggle for

that because I'm sure there's a lot of

people like that too. Yeah. Yeah.

Absolutely. I'm actually an ambbervert

so I'm right in between. Uh and I've

been known to be an introvert whisperer.

So um in first finement we have

meaningful conversations about real

things right so um I will tell you that

most of the time when I'm working with

somebody that is struggling with

networking it's because I have a very

specific definition of networking and it

is um whether this is true or not

business cards at this networking event

a lot of like shallow conversations that

you're having with a whole lot of people

talking about nothing or sch smoozing

right there's a very specific mind image

that those individuals tend to have

about what networking actually means.

Um, if you're a more quiet person,

you're thinking just what you said.

You're very gregarious. You're engaging

everyone in five minutes. And if I can't

do that, then I can't network. Yeah. Not

true. Not true. Networking, the way that

I like to teach it has multiple layers.

Yes, you have the network. The person

that can go into a conference or into a

networking event and connect with, you

know, 20 people and have light

conversations over canipes and like

melon balls wrapped in pushcuto. Like

that's great. I'm glad you can do that,

right? However, networking can also be I

have as an introvert maybe have gone

deeper with fewer people and I have let

my work and my work ethic and my

consistency and my ability to think

internally before externally processing

things show itself and I have built

relationships but they're just real

relationships. Yeah. I don't have a

hundred shallow relationships. I've got

10 real ones. And so what I'm going to

do in my networking is I'm going to

reach out to the 10 real ones. I'm going

to have done some pre-work that Nicole

gave me to do beforehand to prepare a

networking strategy. Networking is not

let me just blast my resume out to 50 of

my closest friends and families. Hey,

I'veorked. Hey, I'm looking for a job.

Here's my resume. Let me know if you

find something. Okay, that's great. But

one of those 10 people can help you.

However, if you are truly executing a

networking strategy, you are actually

sitting down. You're asking for a

meeting that may be, you know, 20 to 30

minutes. Um, and it may be virtual or in

person. And you have some sort of a

structure around what you're hoping to

to get from that meeting. And it's

structured in a way that you're not

asking them to find you a job or to even

know of a job, but you're asking for

guidance. You're asking for specific

details. and you might be asking for

recommendations or referrals to who else

you should talk to, right? So there

there's a there's a there's a there's a

way to do it and it's usually the person

that has a block. They're thinking about

networking a particular way and it's a

very linear way that only works for a

smaller percentage of the population.

Yeah, I think that's that's well said.

And even for those who may be naturally

gregarious and and and and in outreach,

the I think the other side of that is

that if you're not doing it in a way

that's thoughtful and you're not and

you're just talking versus actually y

listening uh versus asking questions

like that that show that you have some

level of interest and that you're that

you actually see that person. Uh it's

not as effective either, I don't think.

So I think even even the people that can

reach out to a lot of different people

uh you need to also hone that skill uh

as well and the like like that's

something that I've learned to get

better at, right? Uh to learn how to ask

the right questions, to learn how to be

a better listener, uh to uh you know be

intentional when I when I when I reach

out to people. Not that I wasn't, but

you know when you've also ran for office

and you've met like I don't even know

how many people like it's it becomes

very hard to do it too. But I've noticed

you make a big difference when you

remember something about somebody,

right? Uh and and then and initially

like I try to ask questions like a

question I I'll ask people like, you

know, like what are you working on that

you're passionate about? Something that

they don't expect at the first time you

meet them versus what do you do? Like

okay, that's such a such a like that's

such a question everybody asks. So one

of one of my strategies is to come up

with a few things that other people

wouldn't ask. And a lot of people think

that people are afraid to be intimate

when you first meet them. But a lot of

people are interested in telling you

about themselves if you ask because most

people don't care about anything other

than themselves. When you ask them,

people are genuinely surprised, right? I

feel like they're like, "Oh, wow." Like,

no one's ever asked me that. I don't

think that's that novel of a question.

When I ask that to people, you know,

they they really get surprised. So, I

got some novel questions for you to to

kind of wrap up towards the end here.

So, uh, okay. If the last five years of

your life was a chapter in a book, what

would that have been about?

The It would be about pivoting. It would

be about

responding and it would be about trend

trend spotting, right? Um

and it would also be about passion. I

started doing video content and actually

launched the first season of a podcast

when I

um realized that what I had to say

was more important than me learning how

to get the light right um or how to

figure out the microphone or how to um

whether I was going to mess it up.

Right. the message was greater than my

insecurities about whether I could

figure it out. And what nobody realizes

is that you don't get to this level of

the production that you have or the what

you have going on unless you're willing

to do a trash job the first two or five

episodes. Yeah. Right. You don't get to

that level unless or 10. Honestly, I was

gonna say 10, but I didn't. Like really

like if you're not willing to do 10,

right? If you're not willing to do 10

bad videos, right? 10 bad, you know,

YouTube shorts, you're not willing to

put out content that only your mom

watches,

then you know what? Quite frankly, maybe

the message and the passion isn't big

enough. Right. Exactly. Um, and this

also, I think, comes back to like that

that having to lean into a growth

mindset. I have to have something to say

to people in this in this in this

environment.

So that's the last five years. That's

what the book would be about. The last

five months, honestly, Rob, the book

would be about one thing, emotional

management.

That's it. That's the that would be the

the highlight of the book because how do

you define emotional management? Great.

Being able to set boundaries about what

you're going to internally consume or

what you're going to consume mentally,

right? Guarding my eye gates and my ear

gates against things that I am not yet

in an emotional emotionally regulated

place to be able to um receive in a way

that's going to be serve be of good of

service to me or to others. And that's

hard. It is hard right now in the age of

social media and and the craziness all

day every day 10 times a day. Exactly.

Realistically, right? like I've really

had to just literally just in the past

five months just recognize

you may be familiar with um someone

named Mel Robbins. She is an author,

podcaster. We all know her. She has her

book this year is called Let Them. Um

and I'm going to tell you, I feel like

it was the book that 2025 we didn't know

that we needed, but it's the message we

needed. At some point, we we're here

now, right? We're here now. Like as a

nation, we said, "Okay, January 6, 2021.

Maybe that wasn't a big deal. Let's go

ahead and do it again. And now we're

here reaping the benefits of this.

Right. So, here we are in these streets

and

I have to just let them Yeah. I have to

I have to let them let it be what it's

going to be so that we can say, "Okay,

so we've done this. Now, are we finished

with this exercise? Can we move on to

something that makes sense?" or if there

are things that are making sense because

I do think somewhere in the there there

was a there is a

there's a mindset behind what the

decisions that are being made by our

current administration and I I I get it

on one level like how do we reduce we

cannot keep kicking the can of debt down

the road it is not it's not sustainable

and we cannot keep spending money

willy-nilly worrying about someone else

the next generation figuring it out,

right? I get the mindset and also how do

we do this without taxing the wealthiest

people because why do they have to pay

the bill for everybody else? I so I

understand the mindset, right, of why it

is. And I feel like that's where I think

sometimes we forget. Yeah. Um, however,

it's not the mindset, it is the process

and the way it's being done and the lack

of change management and sensitivity to

the fact that you're dealing with

humans, not robots. And the fact that

there is a way that things get done and

it doesn't get done in five seconds. No.

And if you do try to do it in five

seconds, here are where here's where we

are today. Yes. You can cause more

damage. Uh I will say this to a broader

point of um protecting your emotional

energy and your emotional space. Um you

know, news has always been triggering

right before even social media, right?

But news is to the brain what sugar is

to the body, right? It feels good in

quick hits, but it's toxic long term.

So, we have to remember that as we

absorb news and I think the people that

that are doing this understand what

they're doing in terms of uh sparking

emotion. It's a it's always been an

effective uh strategy for uh rallying

the masses. People are easily triggered

when they're in their feelings and when

things are are framed and nothing's as

simple as they make it out to be. But

how we consume media now even more than

we have in the past. 24 hours uh 24-hour

news when that first started was

actually triggering. Now we have

instantaneous news, breaking news,

breaking news, breaking news, breaking

news every like nobody can absorb this

stuff, right? Yeah. So you have to

preserving that emotional space and by

the way that goes for even even people

that enjoy what is happening. Yeah. It

looks like they are going mad too. So

I'm saying there's no there's no good

pol there's nothing good about

overabsorbing information and I don't

believe if I have to tell like advice

what you need to do to absorb

information anything you get on a quick

hit on the internet that sparks you stop

because when you have fear or anger it

is not a true depiction of how you

actually feel or what's going on and the

and and the goal with that is to trigger

you to not think and so Like it's

natural for us to do this. This is this

is human nature. Yeah. But we're going

to have to work harder than ever in the

age of algorithms, uh, social media when

we have entities that are, uh, you know,

unfortunately the other side of this

entities that care about nothing else

other than to maximize engagement. And

that's right. Maximizing engagement

means currently uh, maximizing outrage,

maximizing making people feel bad

because that actually keeps you more in

tune. So you gota you got to let them as

you said and you got to let yourself be

and let that stuff go. We can't we can't

do nothing about all that all of it. You

got to just take care of what you can in

your community. All right, more

questions before we wrap up here. What

is an important truth you have that very

few people may agree with you on

that this too shall pass. Right. Um

I

it could be the type of individual that

I am working with today. Um at this

point in my career, the vast majority of

my clients are at the director, senior

director, vice president level. They are

either in career transition, i.e. they

were laid off with no choice of their

own or they are in a leadership role

trying to figure out and develop their

leadership skills because they are

leading through things that none of us

have seen before. Right? Those are

that's who I serve. Let's talk about the

person in career transition. Many times

that person has a financial runway of

you know six months, a year, two years.

They may never have to worry about

finances. A lot of the emotional manage

the emotional stress of job search is

things that they are not in their

reality. Um so helping someone recognize

that this too shall pass that you will

work again. But it will not happen if

going back to the earlier point, you are

just being tossed to and fro based on

whatever headline or you know LinkedIn

story you just listened to or whatever

the case may be. Um this will pass. We

will work again. We will get through

this as a nation. Absolutely. If we meet

a year from now, what are we going to be

celebrating?

A year from now, what we will be

celebrating? Um I have two things. Uh I

have been working very slowly on a book

um that deals with all things related to

the things that stop people from having

success in their professional lives.

Right? It's the foundation of everything

that I do. Um there are eight or 10

places there 10 places that people tend

to most often be um stopped in in

professional success. So we'll be

celebrating that book uh coming being

being complete and coming to market. And

the second thing we'll be celebrating, I

am in the midst right now of doing a

massive pivot in the way that I do work.

I I love being able to work with

individuals. Uh and I am at the place in

my life professionally and also

personally um where I want to have a

bigger impact and I want to work more

directly with companies and directly

working with the leadership in

companies. And so pivoting my business

towards more of a a B2B model

specifically um in a way that I have not

done it before. Uh so that will look a

little bit different and I'll be

celebrating seeing some wins. I've

already had a couple of wins this year

but more intentionally f focusing in on

that. Yeah. Nicole Dumbar with

Congruency International. It's been a

pleasure having you on. Um don't make

yourself a stranger. Please join the

community. I hope you actually uh come

to Midwest Con. you would make a I would

make you a convenor of some of the some

of those companies you can meet if you

want to come.

Love to have you. Uh but definitely this

was a great episode. Lots of great

nuggets here. Appreciate you coming on

and keep disrupting. Thank you.

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