Catching up with Ipeleng Selepa | Saturday Brunch with Miracle OP

Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to another year of uncensored and unfiltered opinion with your host with the most. We start the year catching up with an old friend ipeleng salepa in the city of SA

What is Saturday Brunch Unfiltered With Miracle OP?

Saturday Brunch Unfiltered with Miracle OP is where chaos meets conversation! Miracle dives headfirst into the latest entertainment buzz, pop culture drama, and whatever’s trending—raw, unfiltered, and completely unscripted. No sugarcoating, no holding back—just hot takes, reckless opinions, and the kind of wild discussions that keep you coming back for more. If it’s happening, Miracle’s breaking it down his way—real, raw, and unfiltered.

ladies and gentlemen boys and girls I don't know about you but I'm very excited why I'll tell you why because the podcast is back and we're in my favorite place in the world right now for right now I may change who knows I don't know how I'm feeling right now I'm feeling very very sa ladies and gentlemen boys and girls welcome back to another episode of Saturday brunch with your host with the most and you know I'm always and still gonna brag about having a best French toast yes that's right shout out to all our Spotify listeners if you're listening on the car in the radio stations how you doing Happy New Year happy 2025 how you doing ladies and gentlemen boys and girls we are shooting the podcast in South Africa I mean we're literally in South like I'm literally in the heart of joelberg you know I'm going through my election campaign right now running for president of South Africa if you follow me on socials you know this and uh I decided to bring a very important guest to help me with my campaign and push my propaganda forward to the South African people she is a proud tuana woman oh my God ladies and gentlemen Chi chii oh my word all the way from oh my God didn't tag Rose extra Ed didn't tag my sister what's going on my darling hi my rose how are you doing I'm doing amazing I'm doing good you're shining are you so happy I mean it's December it was your birthday yesterday as well yeah what you get for me that's my cake you were supposed to get me the cake no no let's should I should I expose you on camera what happened should should I oh you want me to be quiet so guys this is what happened Aang the day before it was Olivia's birthday we're celebrating Olivia's birthday and shout out to Olivia was actually a good time I Y lost her phone which was [ __ ] up but anyhow guys I I said I'm going to try and stop swearing on the podcast yeah and I always say those to you like I always like and like when I see your podcast I'm like mirica you're always swearing sh so you watching my podcast you're fan well always been and always will be so ah come my heart but don't distract the story anyhow we were there Yaya lost her phone andang told me that she was going to have a launch the next day which was her birthday we actually started a birthday fa and she told me there was going to be a lunch the next day I call it bling is head done nails done and she's in her house I said what's going on I'm still going to lunch she said oh no that we're all tired they we just going to do something indoors I was okay shop I was like okay say send me the details let me pull up said okay before I knew it said texting me saying oh the code to where she is is not working or we we I can't send it I was just like wait what is this a way of you telling me not to come like I don't mind you saying I'm not invited it's all good but like bro you making up code not working I was like wow that felt a little bit like racist okay and what is the point you're trying to make that was racist racism okay cool okay guys to clear the air yesterday was my birthday and in the AM we were at Olivia's birthday and we all went home the next day the next morning so I think we got home at like 6 6:00 a.m. and I had to obviously shoot content for my birthday I decided to just wait until the malls open so I can buy balloons well those pictures you shot ear yeah I shot on the same day and then on the same day yeah on the same day like I probably shot them like now and then I posted them after 10 minutes W cuz I couldn't get balloons before you know so cuz I was traveling I at the Northwest but yeah and then weed yeah we wanted to do something lunch but honestly I just was like we too tired also it was just me and C so we don't really have much just two of you that were going to lunch we thought more people would come and that's why I had to eventually just feel like so you're the one that shut it out I didn't shut it out it was just like things were not just coming together and we were tired and it was just a thing of no so the lunch did not happen not because I didn't want you there didn't happen cuz a lot of things were happening in the background so it's not being raced and it wasn't about you she wanted me that now but how did you how did you like Olivia's birthday I was surprised you came I won't even lie really was all your elements I barely bro I barely see you in clubs I don't think that's read your scene yeah well I seeing I guess but I wanted to just come out because it was Olivia it was Olivia right yeah it was you know where I'm going to you came out it was Olivia yeah so why you come out for my birthday because I wasn't here would you have come yes no you wouldn't I came to for your birthday last year wasn't I wasn't I at your birthday last year yeah and and and and since then I've not heard the last of it if you know what you know what I'm talking about okay cool mirle I'm not the last of it but how did you feel though what being there I enjoyed it I honestly enjoyed it um it was something different obviously compared to what I'm used to I'm like more on the calm side I'd rather play my music at home and just have a great time and then I was now in like the whole like the whole world decided to be outside as well and I'm like with not the whole world not the whole world exaggerate and say the whole world just a certain group of people I don't know what you're trying to do I'm not doing anything I'm just a certain group of people yes I was and we all had a great time you had conversations it was not about me I know but you had conversations I was surprised when you guys were talking with you and who nadie I was surprised when you why why you surprised because I I thought the whole thing was messed up every time I come back to ESS I feel like I think I have a I I I was really talking to myself in the shower yesterday when I was praying for this podcast and I was like maybe I'm the problem because I always just I hate change yes even now that me and my brother we go a new place in B like I'm so I was telling a the other time I was like I don't want to leave ugc because like I don't like change I just like things the way they are and like what I'm used to what I met is what I'm used to so I guess anytime I came to South Africa and things were just I guess the relationship I knew were not there again it's like ah change I don't like it yeah and I feel like I get in trouble because I hate change I feel like I've told myself now I just need to ACC clz I feel like that's the world you know acclimatized to the environment okay what's your take on that on what change change is good change should happen though when you grow you should you know change of surroundings change of probably jobs or whatever yeah change is good how about changeing friendships it's not a problem either and the thing is that as people we grow to love each other and also grow um apart and that's okay and I've learned that throughout my years of my my 20s and my adulthood that it's okay it's like with family you know sometimes you are in a position where you speak to certain members of your family sometimes you're like you did something that I knowed me at that Gathering but I'm not mad at you you know but I'm just going to be like H I'll come back to you just not but do you see why I have a problem with that because I feel family number one like if you're be a family member you guys grow aart I feel like that doesn't sit well with me cuz I feel like family should be the closest thing you have yeah always always yeah she always be number one cuz your family is never going to no matter what you do your family is never going to turn their back on you I believe and they should it then friends friends are the family you have chosen cuz as we get older I'm sure you agree to this your friendship circles get smaller so your choosing if I'm choosing you to be in my life that means I really appreciate you as a person and you make me happy you know so I feel like when those ties are caught is it because I am fine with it or is it because the situation has not been resolved are you asking me that yeah what are you trying to do I'm not I'm just asking no I'm not going to talk about it I'm not saying talk about it I'm speaking specifically on friendship but what what do you want me to say I'm I'm I'm looking for an answer from you I don't have an answer cuz I feel like it's because situation has not been resolved conversation has not been had which conversations like a conversation with the person that you may have burn TI with like Miracle is that why you brought me here no we're speak we're speaking in general it didn't even ask how I was doing like you nice to see how have you been how are you doing how you I know you've been good I know you've been good like I I told I told you on the podcast I'm not I'm not here to interview you I'm not here to talk about all all that you want from me successful right now cuz cuz I feel like the things that you want from me you already know them and that's why I'm like what are you no but things I don't know but you can always ask me about them that's what I'm doing why you doing it now because you've you've because no no no no hold don't try don't try make it don't no no I don't want you to try to make it seem like I'm I'm making content out of it that is not true well that's what I think you no no no what I'm that's what you're trying to do that's not what I'm doing because I ask you about this off camera and you don't give me stra I always give you answer let me tell you how I feel about the situation and maybe this will put an end to this I feel like you are trying to push something and honestly there's nothing to actually push there's no narrative to actually push about the whole situation every single person no no no every single person that has been involved in that situation has went on to literally move on and be about themselves and be about the their lives they all doing great yeah alling and that's why I feel like you bringing it up now is you trying to make content out of I hate chains but then you hate change for what why do you hate change so much because it's not about you it's it technically it's it's a bit about me CU I'm being self it's not should I iol it should I tell you why I'm being selfish should I tell you why I'm being selfish because you you would admit to this I don't I hate having a big brother person and going back to big brother but oh well but what are you doing towards towards the ending towards the ending of big brother I was only hanging out with you you and uh you tabang and tatti yes only three of you really if for being honest I was even really hanging out with Co especially when we're not Partners anymore if we're being honest I I want that again oh I know I know it's selfish I know it's selfish that's what I'm saying it's completely selfish and I agree with you you guys on different paths you're individually doing well that's why I'm not asking that everyone knows you're doing well you you get deals all the time your Instagram is popping your Tik Tok is popping you you inspire a certain type of audience which is great same as all of you but when I'm when I come to places like this I'm not from essay so when I come to essay I want what I left it's selfish but I want it okay cool so you are right when you say it's selfish something that's no longer there yeah and I think the most even like for the purpose of this podcast and I'm going to say it cuz you didn't say it are you mentioning names I don't think we should do that cuz you know how these things get out of hand and all that and I think that I've personally moved on from no the thing I'm telling you they know I've told them as well but why you told them I'm not asking you I'm basically just saying I I I I want it back same thing I told like I remember tell me I I have nothing me and you are fine you talking amazing don't tell that to me tell that to people that you miss and people that you want to re whatever reconcile or yeah even Recon that's why I'm saying that even when you bring about certain situations it's not about you let it go ask me questions or things that are really genuinely things that will benefit me because whatever happened in the past happened every single party that has been involved has went to went on to have beautiful amazing lives and even when we get into certain spaces you get in there to respect other people you know it has happened we've had differences whatever the case might have been but we get in there and we have like okay cool guys cuz even when you were asking me about Olivia's birthday you knew what you were doing you know you knew I'm going back there no I'm going back there I'm going back to oh I'm going back there yeah there still a story to be said there Miracle it's still a story to be said ask me what I had W what what I wish for my okay do you know what let's let's talk let's talk about what we were talking about here before the podcast started actually would you we're talking about social media just a little background we're talking about social media and I said if Instagram and Tik Tok most social media that a lot of people be jobless borderline homeless and I now went on to and you asked me do you think my career is on Instagram and Tik Tok and I said yes but you've created a very very big platform that you've monetized you're making money from and it's very very successful congratulations to you on that thank you but would you want your brand I guess to be more than social media and you said yeah definitely you want it off social media yeah cuz I feel like social media is like it's it's great right but I don't want to be in it for the rest of my life I think the older I grow the more I'm just like h i I went to school for something I studied for something and I still want to pursue that was pursue other ventures of my life I think me saying that it's a thing of I know I cannot be the content creator space for the rest of my life you know because I don't want to be okay okay not that that you can't like yeah you know because I don't want to be I think that you know social media is a great platform for young people to and not just young people by the way guys everybody can make a leing out but for me yeah but for me I like the consistency of like for example having a 9 to5 you know on a monly basis you get a salary I know what I I like that so that's why I wouldn't mind well you see and and and and I was like I don't see that in you really I feel like since Big Brother you you have a spark in your eye that is like adventure adventure adventure I feel like 9 to 5 would be too basic for you I mean it would be too basic it probably would be but at the same time like I'm saying I'm growing and the more the older you grow it's you need to make a living dude you know you need to get to a point where whatever you are making is benefiting you in a certain way cuz I know I'm trying to be like this I feel like I feel like you're scared I'm what I feel like you're scared scared of what scared of Life yes as I should be no as I should be no that's you can never you can never attain Greatness by being scared really yeah why would you just want like a normal 9 to5 get a normal salary and I've been there before I've done it before yeah but why do you want to go back to the old epang feel like since big brother like you've been picking up your old habits again like some of your old oh yes I have a lot of those yeah have been like becoming very antisocial not going out a lot um yeah like what's going on man but it's not a bad thing though is it a bad thing I think it is really yeah because you before the house was like boring not even boring like when I got to know you like your I remember when we were saying down were that we actually had like a dop conversation we were trying to P the house with the eggs yeah I remember and it never happened cuz you were scared know I was not scared yeah because the whole house was already on my neck and I was ly trying to like and I told you no one would to would suspect me though no no would suspect you they'll suspect me for sure they suspect me for sure this [ __ ] again but not like man I was I saw the Sparky I was like oh my God this girl was a vibe so you now trying to like really I don't know maybe I'm just giving up way too quick I don't know how's how's the how's if you don't mind me asking how's the anxiety oh I'm good you're good with yeah I'm good the only thing I struggle with is social anxiety guys like when I get to like spaces where there's a lot of people I freak out I'm like oh God that's why I wanted to go don't look at me like I got to like Olivia's birthday I got say ah guys I know I'm a tall girl in heels but mind your business like you know what I'm saying you think eyes are always on you not I don't think eyes are always on me it's just something in my in my head that you feel that feel like you know what I'm saying and I don't know how to handle that but I know that comes with being in the IND and going always told you that's a blessing cuz you're B you're no you're attractive you're tall good bu why shouldn't eyes be on you but I because I don't want to be that girl I I like to be lowkey you know that but this is what it's a it's a blessing on that's a literal defition of blessing I just want to be lowkey I just want to get into a room that's why you don't want to I oh my God I cracked it she doesn't want to control social media continue social media because she knows she's going to keep putting effort into it and the more effort you put the more bigger you get and more people will know you so you're scared of your own success I'm not scared of my own Su I feel like you you don't get it though you're scared of your own success not I'm not I can do it you don't want to be noticed you want to enter a room and everyone just ignore you you are scared of your own success you're scared of your own you're scared of yourself Miracle wouldn't you ever like now you're Dr Phil I'm not Dr Phil but now you're becoming a motivational speaker no I told you in the house as well you once you accepted your strength you're one of the biggest threats in the house even in the arena okay cool the arena that you started off bro you were me I was going head-to-head with you you almost took my $1,000 by the way Big Brother you still owe me $1,000 I want my money but anyhow yeah wait what yeah they still owe me money they haven't given me but everyone knows this they haven't paid everyone though even a lot of Nigerians they haven't G nothing Marvin Marvin Marvin Before Christmas wrote them a very strong email so how was your day Miracle oh don't do that please oh my goodness H but let's go back to yeah I was like fam I was like no I don't want you to go back to your old self I'm not going to go back to my old self like entirely entirely picking up old certain parts of my old life no you don't you can't tell me you miss being alone and always Mir are you saying that I was always alone I I have friends and family that loves me okay yeah your family of course your family is always going to love you but if I'm your friend get get a set point where I'm not going to want to hang out in your house anymore no offense but I just don't want to hang out in your living room like let's go outside let's let's let's do something man yeah okay guys next year 2025 we outside okay that even the way you said it that was not convincing everybody 2025 we are outside no no I you're not conv I tried oh yeah let's go back let's let's move on to the other conversation we're having in the car yeah you you feel that I am cheap I didn't say that no you you insinuated it didn't not please don't put words in my mouth cuz you know how that's going to end up so what are you trying to insinuate okay what was the conversation again cuz we had a lot of spending money on on your okay please just talk about how we got to that conversation so how did you even get to that conversation okay we're talking about a certain person and she called the boyfriend to buy something for another person and I was like yeah I would not even like if yeah I was say if my girlfriend lost her phone would I buy her another one I said no I wouldn't the best I can do is I'll pay for half you pay for the other half yeah because if you're if you I didn't buy you the first phone you lost your phone by yourself okay I didn't lose it for you yeah so if I'm going to help you or help the situation I feel like going half Seas is the best way so so do you feel that if like a guy if a guy's girl loses her phone you feel like the guy should buy her a new phone it's a direct question do you feel like the guy should buy should buy his girlfriend a new phone do you feel it's his responsibility to buy her a new phone it's not entirely his responsibility but he can not entirely he has some responsibility no no no it's not like if I lost my my phone right now I'd have to buy it myself I'll go half no I'll go half on you oh really I'll go half but why not buy it if you actually lost it in my I'll go but why not buy it if you actually have the money because I I never planned to budget for a phone but I'm saying that you have it it's chilling there yeah but that money is not for a phone you understand what I'm trying to say no okay like I I I I plan myself budgeting wise okay cuz I feel like what the how the conversation started the conversation started um we were also talking about the fact that why does it look like girls wanted to be dependent on guys especially boyfriends exactly to buy them certain things or to to Lavish a certain lifestyle right and I said that as a guy I think that you shouldn't really date girls that you know are going to require certain things from you and you are unable to give them right what do you mean like break that down like don't go for a girl that you know that you won't be able to afford afford like if if I'm manipul right for example you find me I have a job I'm able to do certain things myself like I I'm already in a position to take care of myself I don't necessarily need you to be buying me bread milk in order for me to survive but if you did buy me Nutella to put on my brain I would appreciate it and I think that's a great thing okay you see what you said if I choose to buy you Nutella you appreciate it yeah but that's that's why I said in the car which is I know girls and women are an expense I already know yes very but don't make me feel like you an expense let me break that down why does this conversation hurt like you got so much passion it's not because I I I I don't like some women's I don't like some women's mentality some women's mentality is a mentality of I've been living my life this so so so way and when a man comes is as if I just take back a a leg on my life and use let him use three legs so he's supporting himself he now use a third leg and support my one leg is I I don't feel like it's meant to be that way I mean I feel I feel like youum to have your legs but if you're still a bit that's when I come in okay cool not I'm putting you whole straight because bro then if I now leave you you're you're done yes so I feel like women shouldn't necessarily hold those like those what's the word expectations yeah on men because especially in today's world I I definitely I get you and I agree with you but also I still go back to the point that I was trying to make don't go for something that you are unable to maintain yourself and I'm going to say this even to guys that they feel like um oh my gosh I I want this girl but I can't really afford it why you you know why you're disturbing my life pretty much like that's how I would personally see it you are going for something that you clearly will not be able to maintain I think for me it's a thing of like I said I'm able to do certain things myself I'm able to take care of myself but what happens in the month where I do not have skin care are you telling me that as a man or as a boyfriend you will actually fail to come in and help me out with that I let's hold that point let's switch it the other way let's no no no cuz men do skin care as well okay I've seen Juicy J skare it's a lot yeah so if there's a time that men my own skin care is down will you come in oh definitely why you go you you guys definitely I'm not talking about skin care okay let's switch the car there's a month where my car I can't pay I can't buy a tire or my engine stop working you'll use my car no I don't want to use your car because if if something you if if your phone I'll say you can use my second phone yes you can use my Samsung you can use it but you want iPhone 14 it's iPhone 14 you want but you you broke your phone you lost your food I'm bringing your sub to you said no so I don't want your car I want my own engine so would you assist me in fixing my engine you see that's what I'm talking about if you guys can't hand don't enter the kitchen but what all I'm saying is that I am giving you my car so I'm also coming up with a solution to actually make your life easy I I'm not paying for an engine I don't even know how much engines cost but I'm saying to you you know what you can use my car until you sort out your car how's that how long can you can I use that car for until you set out your car pay for your engine so you're making a sacrifice so if there's a bab that's always wanted to go to Greece Greece Greece Greece her boyfriend cannot afford Greece but he's taking her to England oh that that's a different conversation why is that a different conversation because he's taking us somewhere so it's a thing of she GRE why are they not going to Greece he can't afford it yeah but he's taking us somewhere that's she should wants grece that's what I'm saying maybe you can't relate but I'm telling you not all not all but most women are very very I don't want to use the word selfish cuz maybe selfish is too aggressive but very very self-interested in themselves self-interested in you know what I have a problem with right and like not in a bad way or anything it seems like the F the very first two weeks you meet a guy where you are like cing on a girl you are very rich men are very rich during that two weeks period that two weeks when you were trying to get a girl yeah oh oh and and I blame men for doing that you exactly now you have introduced me to a certain now you've introduced me to a certain lifestyle right and then when I come back to you and I don't buy groceries cuz you've been buying them now doing a bit too much I agree with you go for something that you are able to afford as well I I agree with you completely and I blame men for doing that because they setting a bad president for me because me no I keep you humble then I spoil you with surprises later on you see what men do is that they give you the surprises first then they keep you home no no no no no no I keep you humble then surprise you can I please ask you this what are you as Miracle p and I'm not talking about you as a man you know cuz I know most men would probably say answer differently from you what are you as Miracle trying to do for a girl make her an honest woman why you laughing why you laughing make her an honest woman okay what are you willing to get her I'm giving I'm giving her a provider oh I'm I'm giving her a protector I'm giving her a support system I'm giving her a lover I'm giving her a caring man I'm giving her a man that is fixing his own emotions fixes his own Financial capabilities and fixes in his own self I'm giving her a man yes wa what is she giving me she's giving you her all but that was was not the question what are what would you buy your girl oh would I buy her yeah oh a lot I'm going to SPO my wife I'm going girlfriend oh but you need to walk that route in order before you get to live but but at the same time you see you see this is the problem with life and I'm not saying you because I know you know how to take care of a man but there are a lot of women ex okay stop it there's a lot of women there a lot of women today love women today that want a man to do husbandly things but they don't want to do wiely things okay cuz they feel like it's too much if I'm going to be paying for everything buying you everything taking care of everything then you should not feel any type of way if I tell you to always cook for me because if I tell you to wash my clothes if I tell you to take care of my house if I tell you to go and get me this because this is the thing with women I feel like you guys just want the good things wait and can I know what what comes with it so are you also saying because that you are the man and you are the provider so everything that you tell me to do I should do you should because that's not how you said it you said that if you are spending on me financially emotionally or whatever the case might be you expect 1 2 3 4 five and you're Reliance on me and you're Reliance on me so you are saying that if you are doing those things that person must also be doing the so I want to understand is that a power thing it's not a power thing it's just what what else are you doing if I'm taking care of your financials if I'm taking care of your daily life if I'm taking care of you as a person what are you doing you just need to be chilling at home drinking soft drinks I mean you can do that but you're going to take care of the house you're going to cook because you have time on your hands I feel like you don't know what you want no of course I know what I I want a woman that is I don't even want I want my wife to not work but I also want her to own her own business I want her to be a boss in herself because then she's not she's independent on me but she's still respects me as a provider in the house okay cool because I'm going to have my thing so I'm a boss my wife is a boss kind like JayZ Beyond a relationship facts facts one one too much in the movies no it's not movies it's it's it's ambition I have a I have a goal it's ambition like me I want to be richer if not as rich as Donald Trump it's ambition people may say it's delusional that's fine I mean delulu is the only culu exactly that's what I'm saying so I want a situation whereby my wife respects me but she's a b boss in her own entity and I respect her but I'm a boss in my own entity as well okay cool but I feel like in in in a Sit what what a lot of women want today is they want a boss and they just want to be taken care of a boss but they also want to be seen as a boss and a man is never going to see you like that I don't know come on what you mean no no no I I don't know what I mean by that is I don't know because I don't relate yeah yeah tell us your situation what situation what what you said no what you said what you're going to do for your man you are very passionate about saying it don't get shy now if I get married if I not if you get married not even if you get married your boyfriend yeah you you said that you going to be submissive yeah why not no and I appreciate that especially about the South African culture I feel like a lot of women hold that to like serving their their men submitting respecting I I think also it's just the thing of I don't think it's even a thing it's a cultural thing or anything I think it's a it's a love thing if you truly love someone the first thing you give someone is respect you know I mean I know what I want from my husband let's say if I for example security for me to feel safe even if you're not around me you would probably also expect for me to always have love for you regardless of whether the day is blue green you get what I'm trying to say so for me it like being submissive is not like well it is kind of giving myself and like my whole being to you because I respect you as you know a man cuz for me a man is you know is a leader and if he says let's go there I'm just going to be like I'm right behind you exactly so yeah you think love Fades I don't think love Fades I feel like you always if you truly care about someone and you love someone you'll always be with someone like if you really do care you always be with them you will always love them you always have love for them you will always have love for them and I also don't believe in this thing where you've dated someone for like a good 10 years you break up and in the next month you in a relationship there's no way I feel like love is always there like yeah it doesn't fade man I feel like also sometimes people choose when to stop loving it's not a thing of it fades you know it's just like a you think you can choose when you stop loving I don't think I mean you can choose who control that oh wow you think can control that yeah you can really I think maybe I speak for the girls you you choose who you love as well you think you can find love more than one person yes our hearts are very big we have big hearts so you really think you can fall in love with more than one person yeah but I won't pursue both of them but I think it's possible women have a lot of love to give oh and man and Men yeah no men is just sex okay to be I'm being straight up no I I disagree I I disagree I mean I obviously don't know but I disagree I feel like you're speaking about yourself at this point no men in general men have one soulmate men have one soulmate they always have that woman that they're always going to call at night feel comfortable saying anything be vulnerable to but they'll [ __ ] everything else and they might not even be sleeping with that their soulmate yet but they'll be having sex outside cuz I feel like men are just sexual creatures but it now takes discipline to tame that a man that lacks discipline just [ __ ] about but a man that actually gained discipline who stay with one woman well unfortunately I've never went to The Men's Conference so I have no idea whatever you're saying now who do you think cheats more men or women honestly that's is guys I'm sorry to betray you guys but you know who obviously man I thought you say wom you say wom I know I got you there but why why because they known for that I don't know known for what am I going to say what am I going to say I don't know if you know it's just me generalizing it because that's what I hear on the streets that men cheat I don't know I've never experienced all the men in the world you know what I'm saying for me to say that men are Liars men are cheaters it's a thing of whatever we hear on the social streets or out there we just run with it but I don't know and that's why when you say that some men just want certain things for moment I disagree because I think there's people there's men that out there that genuinely want to really be loved men like who just want you to literally hold their hands who are very emotional creatures you get what I'm saying but they're not going to be like that with every woman they're not going to be like that with every woman but all I'm saying is that you know this you know this a man is not going to especially when it's his someone he's comfortable with he's not going to act the same I don't know that's the thing remember and the thing is that if man is with me I get to experience him when he's with me okay in the house did I act the same with you and and when I was with other people I don't know Miracle like I'm saying no no no no like I'm saying when you are with me I get to experience you in that moment I'm experiencing you it could be the real you it could be the the person that you are trying to sell to me the minute you leave my door my comfort or whatever I have no idea what you're going to do or how you go or how other people even perceive you you know so I can only speak about myself to say that okay I know this man is this kind of guy so if he goes out of the door and does whatever whatever whatever I'll still also probably even turn a blind eye and be like I'm not seeing that I'm not seeing that because when you are with me you're not a sha you're not a liar you get what I'm saying and it also goes back to this thing of apparently men okay I know no say it no it's okay n say it don't do that I forgot it no man you can't you don't do that on this podcast I promise you I forgot you did not for I forgot what is wrong with you I promise you I forgot my my train of thought just went but I'll remember it I I promise you if you did not forget in your line you lose you're going to lose your fa okay cool say amen amen oh I forgot I for God Miracle okay sh sh sh I say less now but I I I definitely see where you're coming from basically that you cannot because you don't do that yeah it's like true yeah it's like true experiencing people you know if someone come came to me and said who Miracle is a cry baby Miracle is a I wouldn't believe it cuz I've never seen that I now cry man I'm emotional I cry oh no that's a lie I've cried in front of you before that faces that I've cried in front of you before I've been emotional I've been vulnerable I accept my vulnerabilities this strength okay cool oh my goodness do not even do that please but but but how are you doing generous s what's going on you're big you're huge no don't do that Instagram you're popping thank you I can't remember the last post that was below 20 something gave likes massive no Miracle don't do that that's but it's facts though really I literally went through your page yesterday kind of like a nightly routine that much stop it please thank you please no I've been great thank you um it's been a very busy year very grateful um I think also just getting the hang of things um just understanding how certain things work especially in the social space and just like okay cool I don't really have to be that loud I can still be myself and really draw a certain amount of people that genuinely like me and see me as this person so when you say I'm big I'm just like stop it I don't think I am or maybe because I never want to look at myself that way I want to look at myself just like my followers you know I want my like I want me and my follower to sit like this and we are the same people yeah that's just how I want to look at it do you think you ever say you're big I'm not that kind of person I don't have a person so if you had like if you had like 20 million followers you you wouldn't think you're big you know what um I wouldn't think I'm big cuz remember getting there I did not get there by myself there's people that got me there you know and that's why I'm like I still want people to look at me and say oh my gosh this is the A Lang that we followed when she was at 20 followers and nothing about her has changed but all we seeing is growth within what she's doing the woman that she's becoming so even if I had 20 million it's a thing of realizing that I did not get by myself you know okay man we guess we'll have to see that one until it happens cuz I I always feel like you can't really say how you be yeah when you have an experienc situation but it's a thing of we went on one of the biggest Productions in you know but there's there's still a a a step yeah no all I'm saying is that we went on the biggest production and I still came out to go back to my yeah but that's not that's not a good thing in your case that's not a good thing I guess it's not a good thing and I get it when you say that it's not a good thing but I all I'm trying to say is that I still remain humble I still remain you know obviously I'm not going to be the same person but certain qualities about me are still going to remain the same like but you know your sorry you know it wor oh yeah I do cuz being humble is also a borderline of people taking advantage taking a piss but like the thing is that I allow it sometimes like I feel like sometimes as human beings be vulnerable you know certain things sometimes you know that a person is coming into your life to play you but it's a thing of realizing that God brings that person in your life for a reason I don't know if I Mak sense like if they reason for everything yeah there's a reason for everything you know what I'm saying so when people um step over you take advantage of your kindness you should let yourself get played well even if you try by all means whatever it was still going to happen anyway like for me how I live my life is that God is the creator of life and God already knows who I am in the next 10 years so even if I try to imagine a different picture he already has a different picture you know compared to what I have and unfortunately mine is not going to go according but it's going to go you know yeah now he has it's going to go according to him rather you know what I'm saying so even like with certain people and certain relationships or whatever the case might be they come into your life you know to serve a purpose if you're going to come into my life as a guy and I'm going to enjoy I'm going to have the best two weeks guys I never make it to three months like I'm kidding I'm kidding but all I'm saying is that even if you are going to come into my life for just the few days or whatever the case might be you were actually meant to come and it was already written in the in the books of Heaven that on December 26th I was going to meet our you know behind the scenes there you know oh my go but it's it's just one of those you just so just let life flow you just let life flow cuz I don't know where I was going to be yesterday like when I went to bed I knew we're doing a podcast but I didn't know which who I was going to meet you get what I'm saying God already knew who I was going to meet yeah yeah so why don't you just let your life flow when it comes to your career are you trying to it's flowing like it's flowing you want to enter 95 what if that's where God wants me to be I get if I don't like go into 9 to5 I will I feel like at this stage in your life yeah if God want you to do a 9 to5 you would have let you go to Big Brother really honestly because it was never your to even be in that true but for the fact that God even let you go on and you made it and now you're still kind of in the space of entertainment yeah I don't think 95 we'll see man we'll see but like when I speak about 925 I'm not like saying I'm going to leave content I'm going to leave like guys leave me alone stop following me no it's me opening myself to other avenues of my life of my career for me to do better when I say 9 5 Guys 925 is not cute I know that you know it's not just about taking a video for Tik Tok corporate B posting there's a lot of work that comes like that comes you know with 925 but you want it for the comfortability you want it for for me personally I wanted for the comfortability to know that okay if I worked on a campaign on social media and I'm getting a young 10K I know my 9 to5 job on the 25 I'm going to get a certain amount of money that is said you get what I'm saying so for me I wanted for the consistency and for my growth in life because I I have a lot of things that I'm trying to achieve but I know that with where I am oh I need I need a lot of money like oh you know and I know that you have to work for it like you have to work for it because where else am I going to get it I I actually met someone the other day they're like oh but you have the beauty you have this you have this you can get a guy that is going to give you you know all the things you want I'm like no I'm I'm just not that type of girl you know big on you yeah big on you for that yeah so I'm just like I'm scared guys I feel like that's just lazy is using your beauty and your body no but it is lazy it is lazy but like it's lazy but because you can do it it's but if you want to use it I'm not I'm not I'm not saying don't you but it's lazy miracle it is no I I don't think so I think that every single person has like they has the right to make their own life decisions I'm not I'm not going to say no to someone that comes to me and I'm falling in love you don't have to be too nice if if if my life decision is to just chill on my couch smoke every day eat food when um whatever food I like and just do nothing it's my life decision yeah I'm not going to judge you but it's lazy it is okay course it's lazy but I still feel like people choose their own lives and what they want to be and Different Strokes for different folks that's so weird they they don't say it like that they do but about to change it up different folks for different wow wow go there go there what do you have coming up 2025 what's going on I have no idea at this point um your resolutions not yet is yeah I I'm still going through a battle you know with certain things in my mind whether I want them or not I don't want to say too much I was telling someone in the morning I was like there's this one in my vision board that which one which one I want to let go but I cannot let go which one is it h what is it you know how when we do Vision BS I I believe in Vision BS right I believe in writing certain things down cuz you putting them out there to the universe so one of the things that were on my vision board for 2024 was to stay single and that's what happened so guys um I'm still like I don't know if I want to put it on my vision board for 2025 yeah I know and you know how they work vision what is like you're communicating with God you're telling God like Jo you know I'm giving my all to you I'm giving you know so yeah El I love it what's see what's another one another one just starting a business that I'm really scared about and it's one of the hardest decisions to make cuz I'm weighing all the options looking at I can't say no no Miracle one you like things when tell me what are you planning well what I'm planning uh being better shape number one need to get good no I need to be in better shape but like better shape like Lena by February by February like Feb uh what else uh C better content improve my Instagram content improve my Instagram content be more consistent with content outside of podcasting lifestyle content acting content uh win an acting award start in a major production possibly be nominated or a act award uh and more collaborations in every aspect I really want to do some collaborations in sports well that's so cool well watch us come back to this podcast and same time next year remember you said this yeah yeah but I I think that you know when the new year starts I think it gives each and everyone like each fres start yeah a fresh start it's a 2024 didn't go according to plan but you've got another shot you know you you can start clean I know everyone like in general is going to be like hey guys I'm hitting the gym I'm eating healthy you know which is not a bad thing fall through with that like go through with that brother you know keep keep it going I think I look at the new year as a new beginning you know and it's like birthdays man you are given a second chance to life and embrace it and take it on like it's your last yeah wow oh great way to end how South Africa th far hey good man good right you know it's good you going to Cape Town tomorrow heck no Cape Town is expensive you can't go to Cape Town alone mirica you just have to go for like are you going just and you moving you ruined it you're forces to go but you don't want to go all right say South African is forcing n to go somewhere wait wait I want to ask you this are you not missing dirty December and Legos no what am I missing is overrated bro okay cool you guys should check my last podcast when I talked about des de it's overrated but it's a waste of money it basically I go to G town but a little bit more expensive okay cool yeah man there's no need it's C Christmas is it's for Recovery yeah that's I've actually learned because that's anytime I actually have holiday Christmas should be for Recovery not for or more madness me I want to experience dirty dirty December Nigeria I wish you the best of luck please any anybody that is watching and would like to you know we just your we just about you brand what if what if I was tring to travel better to take me to Nigeria you're still using your looks noing mys show them the content don't show them your face agency don't show them your face show them the content no guys my name is a but anyhow guys this has been an amazing amazing podcast I've had my Chiki CHP on I know you guys have been asking for it and here you have it was an amazing episode I had an amazing time how about you I know well I'm kidding it actually was very I was hoping you woke off I I I was saying that before I was hoping you woke off so it be like nice dramatic wow yeah just walk off so that we can be like yeah she woke up oh okay woke off what are you trying to do now that will be for Content now that will be for Content but anyhow guys it's been an amazing amazing episode follow epang on all social media platforms what's your social media platform again EP on all social media platforms on all social media platform Twitter X sorry I almost said you can Google me no you you're humble I'm so humble but just Google me just Google come no guys to be fair no no no it Instagram Facebook Twitter TI Tok on Google no I'm not on Google yes you are I don't know H but guys make sure you follow on social media platforms her 2025 is going to be crazy it's going to be locked with a lot of amazing content but on her YouTube you didn't show your YouTube is it the same on your YouTube can you see how I'm avoiding that question why what's going on with your YouTube I I I'm coming back next year be stronger I'm coming back stronger hey say l man on YouTube on X on Tik Tok and on Instagram and make sure you follow the house Chronicles on all social media platforms and myself as 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