Morning Cereal

Start your day with inspirational quotes, followed by a fun journey through nostalgic facts from this day in history. Then, we dive into Mel Robbins, The Let Them Theory. The Let Them Theory shows how letting go of control creates freedom, better connections, and peace of mind.
In This Episode:
  • Daily inspirational quote to spark your motivation
  • Fun historical facts from this day in history
  • A dive into Chapter 11, The Let Them Theory
Whether you're a leader, communicator, or just someone looking to improve your relationships, this episode is packed with actionable insights.
Tune in now and let’s grow together!
Resources:
Robbins, M. (2024). The Let Them Theory: A life-changing tool millions of people can’t stop talking about. Hay House.
 
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What is Morning Cereal?

Good morning, and welcome to Morning Cereal!
Pull up a stool, grab your favorite cereal, and let’s kick-start your day with a spoonful of inspiration, nostalgia and personal growth. Join your host, Shaen Inglis, as he highlights the music, movies, and moments that made the 80s, 90s, and 2000s unforgettable—kind of like digging for toy at the bottom of the cereal box. Each episode, Shaen also reviews a chapter or so from top wellness books, offering practical insights to help you set a positive tone for your day. Start your mornings right—no cartoons required!

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Good morning and

welcome to Morning Cereal.

Okay, good morning and welcome to Monday.

It's a fresh start, it's a clean slate,

and it's a new week.

And if you've already lost your keys this

morning, hey, at least you're consistent.

Well, let's get rolling this morning with

a quote from Sammy Davis Jr.

who said, "You always have two choices,

your commitment versus your fear."

Now, this is a short, sharp, and it's

really perfect for a Monday, right?

Choose your fear or choose to be

committed to moving your

life forward in a positive way.

All right, well, here are four moments

that matter for December 8th.

On this date, back in 1987, the

superpowers of the United

States and the Soviet Union,

they agreed to reduce their

respective nuclear arsenals.

All right, number two, today

is National Blue Collar Day,

celebrating those workers and tradesmen

who use their hands to earn a living.

Thank you for that.

All right, number three, the number one

song on this date back in 1979

was "Escape," the "Pina

Colada" song by Rupert Holmes.

Now, I know you know this song.

If you like "Pina Coladas" and "Getting

Caught in the Rain," right?

It's such a great song.

Now, I'm glad they ended up together at

the end of the song,

but how they got there, I still think

that's a little bit shady.

All right, lastly, number

four, happy birthday to you.

If today is your birthday, you share it

with rapper and icon Nicki Minaj.

She's 43 today.

Actress and the OG Desperate Housewife,

Terri Hatcher, she's 61 today.

Actress Kim Bessender, she's 72 today.

And the late singer Sinead O'Connor, she

was born on this date back in 1966.

The late Sam Kinison, actor and comedian,

he was born on this date in 1953.

And finally, our quote today was from the

late Sammy Davis Jr.,

an entertainer that was

born on this date back in 1925.

Okay, time for Mel Robbins, the "Let Them

Theory" book review.

Today's chapter, it wraps up Robbins'

three-pillar framework of friendship

with the most personal

pillar of them all, energy.

And she opens up with this truth.

It's quote, "The energy you bring

determines the energy

that stays," end quote.

Now, energy is the vibe, it's the tone,

it's the emotional currency

that's exchanged between two people.

In friendships, energy

determines comfort and safety

and how much someone wants or doesn't

want to engage, okay?

Now, Robbins breaks it

down beautifully here.

Some people energize you, others drain

you, and some match you so well,

it feels like you're

just coming home, okay?

But energy isn't fixed, it fluctuates.

It fluctuates with stress, with life

chaos, with self-worth,

and your own emotional health, okay?

Robbins writes, quote, "When your energy

is anxious, defensive, or insecure,

it changes the entire dynamic.

But when it's grounded and

it's competent and it's kind,

that's when the

relationship expands," end quote.

Now, Mel urges readers to

take radical responsibility

for the energy that you bring, right?

Instead of waiting for

others to change the tone,

Mel encourages initiating

the energy you want mirrored.

Patience, calm,

openness, humor, accountability.

One of Mel's strongest lines in this

section is this, quote,

"Energy is the most honest part of you,

and people feel it before

they understand it," end quote.

This chapter is powerful because it

reminds us that friendship thrives

not just on love or history, but on the

emotional climate that we create.

If a friendship feels

tense or if it feels distant,

start with your own energy before

assuming anything about theirs.

All right, here's your Monday takeaway.

Protect and elevate your energy.

It sets the tone for

every friendship you're in.

All right, Monday is off and running.

Let's go ahead and bring

that good energy today.

Hey, thank you so much for spending your

morning with us this morning

on morning cereal.

That was a lot of mornings.

But we will see you

back here tomorrow morning.

And until then, have a fantastic day.

We welcome you to our website,

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and we welcome special guests too.

So join us.

It will be a good time, I promise.

Thanks again for listening.

Have a fantastic day,

and we'll see you tomorrow.

Good morning, it's a fresh

start, it's a clean slate,

and it's a new week.

Sammy Davis Jr. who said, quote,

"You always have two choices,

your commitment versus

your fear," end quote.

Choose your fear or

choose to be committed

to moving your life

forward in a positive way.

Today is National Blue Collar Day.

The number one song on

this date back in 1979

was "Escape," the Pina

Colada song by Rupert Holmes.

If you like Pina Coladas and

getting caught in the rain,

still think that's a little bit shady.

Bill Robbins, the Let them Theory,

"The energy you bring

determines the energy that stays,"

end quote.

Here's your Monday takeaway.

Protect and elevate your energy.

It sets the tone for

every friendship you're in.

Bring that good energy today.

Have a fantastic day.