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Saturday Brunch Unfiltered with Miracle OP is where chaos meets conversation! Miracle dives headfirst into the latest entertainment buzz, pop culture drama, and whatever’s trending—raw, unfiltered, and completely unscripted. No sugarcoating, no holding back—just hot takes, reckless opinions, and the kind of wild discussions that keep you coming back for more. If it’s happening, Miracle’s breaking it down his way—real, raw, and unfiltered.
the reason why girls are not dating broke guys when these people have this money they don't do what they promise you're going to do it's not recently that Twoface has been flaunting his new fiance it just shows how it's not profitable to suffer with men a lot of women in today's age cannot suffer the way our mom suffered nobody should go you guys want a perfect scenario yes you guys want a visa but who doesn't want a visa there are women that wake up every day in their marriages because they prepare the kids for school they make sure their husband has lunch to go to work take care of their home and they're happy do you know what you just mentioned you're just talking about women they're just giving service why did God give Adam Eve to support him is that support him for the rest of his life support him is long-term it was given to him to also multiply because she was brought out from his what a woman's dream is to support a man what comes first your husband or your industry industry comes first you are sick ladies and gentlemen boys and girls welcome to the new format of the show it's still the same funue funua but you know we probably going to change the couches get a nice cute table on the ground you know change the aesthetics a little bit because when that happens in a man's house you know he's got a woman and we have a woman's touch on the show from now until the end of time but before I get to my co-host ladies and boys and girls it is your boy the host with the most who's always going to brag about having the best French toast miracle OP welcome back so another episode of Saturday brunch with your host Miracle OP make sure you like make sure you subscribe shout out to the House Chronicles for giving me this amazing platform to talk my [ __ ] and always push my P yes ladies and gentlemen we have a new format like I said a new female touch you've heard her her voice in the background a lot of times the voice may be familiar i'm talking about the one the only not the only they're a lot and per What the hell was that yeah i'm trying to be so Jenz say per are you Jenzie yeah I am no you're not mhm please don't how do you think I am please let's not start let's start so Jenz let's not start with that anyway it's not How do you feel though people can see your face now do you think they're judging you i feel shy like oh the voice doesn't just match the face you know like all those radio moments i have a horrible voice no no i'm just saying you know like all those radio stars that like like you hear the voice every time you're like you you create an image of them in your head and when you now see them like Anyways I feel excited i feel a little bit shy cuz I'm a very shy person you know um Okay you think your look matches your voice well I don't know what do you think i mean I feel like you're trying to be I feel like you're trying to be overly gentle i feel like you're trying to be overly your voice you're very have a more aggressive voice more power sorry more powerful voice miracle um this is how I talk no I'm I'm just this soft i mean following the conversations today your real voice must you can't hold it up forever i I I don't think you have a conversation with me like this is impossible but anyhow bro we're having a conversation off camera just to start with things and I was telling uh Fiona who does the uh Kdrama series on the house y'all should go check that out i was telling her one way that she can be famous in the Korean community and I don't know why people don't think of this i'm just full of great ideas she's the first Nigerian person to go to North Korea so and I asked what is what's so special about North Korea i'm saying you should go you enjoy it why why my wife honestly I'm not I'm not crazy about the Korean culture and stuff i I I know but I feel like somebody like you will enjoy North Korea because they are full of number one tradition number two the resp the respect for like people not just in in the Asian culture there there's a lot of big respect but in North Korea the respect level is massive and I feel like you going there you will not only embrace a lot of culture but they're also vast it's just like it's the is the newest form of Dubai north Korea is the newest form of Dubai a lot of people are just going in now because the economy is doing good it's like it's a new oil right now oh yeah i think I I feel like you should go there well I think I'll go to Dubai rather than go to North Korea no no i I'm telling you Dubai is is oversaturated i think you should go to North Korea miracle if you're going to process it for me why not i I I will pay half of your ticket to North Korea for real for real miracle i I'm dead ass i will pay for half of your tickets to North Korea i'm telling you you We can make you a THC like you go there like is there any bad thing happening in North Korea because the way Miracle I don't trust I have I have trust issues when they come to me you always have you have trust issues in general i don't I don't have no you don't like men trust my I don't like men yeah you don't like men please don't mind me i love men no but but you you don't like when men reject you but nobody likes rejection this has nothing to do with me nobody likes rejection when I told you like when I told you you're not my type I know you're bluffing cuz definitely you you you Why do you think I'm bluffing are you looking at I know I took off my glasses seriously no no you're not you are bluffing my every man's dream and every man's type honestly I'm not even shy to say it it is what it is honestly I'm not trying to toot my own or brag i know let me Okay let me let me keep it straight for Yeah never mind it's okay everybody has preference so it's it's good but why why everyone has preference are you okay with that yeah I'm okay with it i'm fine with it yeah I'm fine so why do you have every man you can say I'm breathing oh my gosh yeah do you know I think your problem is you don't you let me tell you if you can recognize um what's the word you know when you see gold some people will see people some people see gold and not know this is gold they are not looking for gold honestly that is that is why you So if you're currently gold why do you want to be B if I'm currently what gold why do you want to be B miracle i've said it times without number why does gold need to be anything more miracle i've said it let me let me score you i'll say it again again and again okay um you should do your research why people do surgery because they want to look a certain way that does not mean that they have low self-esteem or they don't like who they are i didn't say that no I'm just trying to tell you cuz I think you you're still going to get there you said you were gold let me tell you let me I'm just trying to tell you if I'm going to pay for surgeries because I want to craft my body a certain way so if Okay so if you craft that body a certain are you still gold yeah I'm still gold doesn't change the fact that I'm gold but you changed my body changed yeah so are you still gold yeah I'm still gold miracle miracle i'm still It's still me it's I'm still the same person the difference is I just took a border step to look the way I want to look honestly Miracle I don't even know i don't I don't know why you have a problem with it honestly I will encourage because I don't want you to go under the knife miracle you're the one paying for my surgery why do you think you should waste money on that miracle is my money is my hard earned money what is the problem why can't you just use that hard earned effort in the gym miracle even though I go on that I still I still go to the gym why don't you just stay at the gym miracle i'm talking about preference i think you don't even know what what preference is people like what they like miracle miracle I don't know please you need to get used to it honestly difference is I might do surgery and whatever but get used to the fact that people are going under the knife because they have the money to do it and they want to do it i know it's fine i I just wanted to have that that conversation on camera cuz we had it off camera i wanted people to put the face to that is a very wicked person you want them to come sorry to say this about the [ __ ] that comes out of the mouth miracle want them to come for me but I just tell you let me tell you anybody that will come under the comment section and say trash trust me is admiring those girls is saying that has the whole hour glass shape the problem is that Nigerian men are hypocrites most of them are hypocrites i'm telling you there's nobody that doesn't like bomb bomb or don't like you know the whole cough thing but they'll just come and act i'm more of a breast guy my fans know I'm more of a breast guy and that's you miracle that does not mean you don't appreciate girls that have good curve i'm more of a breast guy but don't you appreciate be sincere of course oh of course of course that is that is it that does not mean that but you can get that you don't like the whole thing and all those things you can get that without going under the knife but that is what I want miracle okay it's fine okay cool okay fine but moving on uh you have this this uh assertion that I'm rough i don't know where you get this from see Miracle is trying to make this podcast about him no it's not about you and your assertions against just said I'm not his type why do you care about what I think about you you said I'm rough you're tripping you're tripping actually you are tripping you are tripping i'm tripping because you said I'm rough and I'm defending myself you still want to have the conversation that means you care about what I think about you but it's okay because not really it's really okay and I'm going to break it down no because you said I'm rough hold on yes why why do you say I'm rough because Miracle comes on the podcast all the time and use the word [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] he's using it now yeah you use it all the freaking time miracle and Miracle is not a gentle guy off camera i just asked Miracle to I'm a smooth soul you're not smooth miracle do you know what it is to be smooth i'm a smooth suffer you're not candle lights wine that is what you tell yourself i can tell you that miracle miracle i don't even think when was the last time you go on you went on a date with somebody when was when was the last time you sent somebody a handwritten note when was the last time I do all of that because I'm cheap miracle i rather send you a handwritten by your bag i think it's more romantic but it's cheap okay yeah so I'm very you did that being romantic is actually a cheap cheap let me tell you a real romance let me let me break it down for you there are girls that they can afford they can afford this bag yeah but anybody can give you that how many people write you a poem i could not how many people will make you a song okay so okay i'm putting it out in the real romance i'm putting I'm putting it out in the love I want i'm putting out in the comment section if a guy has ever written you a handwritten note or send you a song or send you a perm prom please correct me poem yes please comment below in the comment section you see they're not going to be up to five nigerian men don't do it yeah because Nigerian men just feel like women just want them to buy you stuff that's not romantic how many Okay how many Nigerian men buy their women flowers let's start there i have gotten flowers before yeah but it's not like it's not it's not it's not a culture of ours it's not exactly that's what I'm saying it's not so yeah so the real romantic way of our culture is the cheap way singing calling her my tomato jaws you know miracle taking her ear miracle let me tell you let me tell you something i think when you're dating somebody you need to know what their definition of romance is and that's where a lot of men get what their love language is i can tell you what Ma is it's not like you do i don't I don't want to give anyways men will date girls you know you know that this girl love languages you have to buy me a designer bag you have to take me to fivestar restaurant designer bag hold on i'm talking about people love languages it's different miracle love language can be you buying stuff why does the stuff have to be a designer bag please people are putting tag to what they want they don't want to go and buy alabazara you're so materialistic no no i'm telling you what people Oh my gosh but we live in a material world we live in a material world what happened to the women that just wanted to be courted by getting some do you know why let me tell you why that happened i had What happened to Hold on i had a conversation are those women not around anymore i had a conversation with my friend and I think the reason why old school the reason why girls are not dating broke guys or the reason why they're not suffering with guys is that when these people have this money they don't do what they promise they're going to do and you see them always going out to pick pick another woman we know because it's going on in our society today it's not recently that two facing his new his new fiance he doesn't even care about how the wife feel hold on and you know he said face was abused hold on hold on hold on is it a child that he was abused and maltreated hold on whoa hold on so because he's a man you freaking sexist hold on too Faced gave Annie if you watch Young excuse me famous and rich he did he gave Annie another 10 years they did not complete that 10 years he gave her a ring and you was always ling emphas on the fact that she has always been there when nobody was there and all of a sudden you're seeing Natasha she's in the government house or whatever now you're leaving your wife and what really pay me in all this thing was he came on social media he did a voice a video and was was saying h this that that that that you've been married for years this guy this girl have been this lady has been with you all thick and tired i don't know what they call it and all of a sudden he want to go for another person and now he's telling the public that he's no more together with Annie right he's flaunting the Natasha up and down everywhere right left and center they spotted in one god god one election recently then you know and now the guy is using the name Eia now it just shows how it's not profitable to suffer with men and that's why women will go for the bag cuz I know when these guys these guys are breaking up with you you can look and say "Okay okay he's breaking up with me." But at least I got He's bag i got a Benz from him i got this from Okay okay okay you You see You see what I don't understand and and this is why I say the feminist women movement cannot eat their cake and have it and also women cannot eat their cake and have it and I say it because of this uh If the roles were reversed I understand what you were saying yeah of suffering with a man going through struggles and he ends up leaving you if that is the case for any situation I can understand the feeling i can understand the pain but that is not this situation this situation two faced came out and said to the Nigerian public that you just emphasize on by saying he went on social media for you to belittle that and say he just went on social media no he went to social media to cry out to the public of his abusive toxic unhappy relationship with that woman and what you people turn around to do is ignore the fact that this man came out crying and you just said it saying "Oh is he not is he a child?" And that is why men hold in their emotions because when we bring it out you called us childish you call us weak you call us people can that cannot handle situations so we hold it in we become depressed and we end up killing ourselves go check out the suicide race who of who kills themselves more men or women it's men if you did not know no no no and I'm not even done for you to ignore the fact that you did not even acknowledge the fact that he was in a toxic unhappy relationship if that was a woman you guys will be cheering her on you guys will be singing her names to the to the to the to to the sounds the way you guys are singing Natasha's name and apparently Natasha is not even the best person to be the face of that movement so it's crazy how you guys just ignore the fact that Twoface was in a toxic relationship just ignore that just ignore that miracle you're trying to make me look very insensitive no no but you were no no no you didn't care about the man's feelings what I'm trying to say is most of the time like honestly like what do you want me to say clap for Two Face yes no I won't clap for Two Face you clap for a woman no no no i won't clap for two for a woman if she left a bad relationship a toxic relationship that she was unhappy in hold on hold on if what I'm saying that two face is not a child meaning that if he was being mistreated or being abused in the relationship he would have walked out from it right and he would have told us that the reason why he's leaving Annie is because he's being treated bad or he's being abused he did everybody could see she did not say that he was she made she ridicled him on their on the same show you made reference to no yes what you could see there was a pain woman she was just Yes that's what you could see because you see that's what I'm trying to say everybody only sees the woman they don't see the man that is not true and the man came out to cry miracle okay let me call another person that was in two faces um um situation in the same industry she was savage where she was savage publicly divorced and said why she divorced her husband everybody backed her everybody surrounded her nobody asked about the man nobody had wanted to hear the man's side of the story everybody just believed the woman because why she left a toxic bad relationship miracle miracle see but when the man does it miracle you guys can't eat your cake and have it come on now what I'm saying is come on now what I'm saying is that what I'm trying to say is a man is happy my point is that uh I was having a conversation with my sty saying that in this life everybody should choose themsel and I won't encourage any woman suffering with any man saying because they believing in better tomorrow suffer with a man suffer with a man but don't put any expectation because this is a human being you know and again I would say most of the times where women suffer with men or even we even have case study of men training women in university and when they come out they're like they don't want to marry this man anymore I don't know if you understand so I would say that if you want to suffer with a man don't suffer because he will treat you better or he'll be with only you do it because maybe sufferness is part of your your you just want to suffer and you feel like suffering but yes but don't suffer because So you don't believe that suffering is a part of marriage you don't believe in marriage you should suffer no I don't believe you suffer in marriage do you believe that every part of marriage is perfect no that's not what I believe hold on do you know what suffering please can someone browse what suffering is should I tell you what suffering is what you browse suffering i said miracle i don't want to suffer in marriage so you don't believe hard times build character no there's hard times let me tell you the hard time so hard times is not suffering no let me tell you let me tell you the hard time i'm I'm married to a man suffering is hold on a miracle i'm married to a man that you know he was of course I will not marry a man that is not doing well to start with he can afford you can afford the three basic need of life what is that clothing shelter and feeding you can do all that it's fine you're married and as time goes on there's there's you know maybe business is not doing well you used to do or something happen life happens I want to leave the man because of what is going on but I will not marize and marry a man that I can't even I don't even know where he's heading in the next 5 years okay how long will you be with that man when things go bad I'll be with him as as long as yes I will be honestly miracle if it takes six years I'm going to be with a man no joke I feel like it's easier said than done no no joke I'm telling you Do you know why so so okay let's say you're with that man and you been with him for 6 years and in those six years nothing has changed but another man comes in to play you don't have kids with this other man i'm married wait now okay but you don't have kids with this man hold on another man comes into play ready to give you a better life would you would you hop on that opportunity no that's why this generation is encouraging women doing things for themselves just as the way men are doing things well you just encourage everybody to think for themselves no what I'm saying is that if a man has money a woman should have money too so when it's down for the man the woman can really support no but know you just said right now think for yourself so if you're saying think for yourself that means you're thinking for that in all situation no what I'm saying is get me wrong don't get me wrong what I'm saying is that you shouldn't enter any relationship because you're thinking the man will do so for you in the long term long term you should enter relationship because you genuinely want to be with this person i'm telling you cuz you always get disappointed i'm honestly telling you sounds like you're contradictory yourself no I'm not that's what I said that's what I said i said everybody should look out for the meaning that you shouldn't marry a man because you think oh this man has prospect and in the long run if I suffer with him it's not guarantee that's why I'm saying if I marry a man that of course we are doing okay and along the line you know things are not going well I won't leave him because things are not going well because I already know that this man has prospect cuz I'm But then you're not thinking for yourself you're thinking for yourself no no I'm not i'm not miracle but you just say people should think for themselves miracle you are you are not understanding what I'm saying and what I'm saying is that don't enter relationship thinking that you want to be with somebody because the end is going to get better or this guy is going to do this for me no I understand that but before you said all this you told everybody should think for themselves meaning you should do things that is in your interest too so but but you staying with a man that is broke for six years is not necessarily in your interest hold on this man is my husband and before he got broke he has been doing a lot of things for me and the kids so what make you think what make you hold on even if I want to think for myself of course what I'm thinking for myself is that okay I know that this man will pick up again and if he picks up I'm going to I'm still going to enjoy but now then you are now preaching against the fact of you saying women should not be with men that saying it will get better you will get better no what I'm saying you're contradicting yourself i'm contradicting myself i'm not saying that's not that's not what I'm saying i'm saying don't marry a man that you see you see that he's not doing well and you think that in the long run if I suffer with him he's going to that's not what I'm saying i'm saying that you should marry a man or be with a man that is doing certainly good for himself to start with if along the line that let me tell you my mom and my dad we've been married for 30 30 years and I think when I got when I turned 20 my sister was 25 died right that was a very hard time in my home i'm telling you it was really really tough that is when life issues happen in home at that point my mom say she's not married to him again or she wants to we went through it together so what I'm telling you is that issues you saying that things happen in marriage yes but I will not open my eyes and marry somebody that is not doing well for himself at all in the name that he will pick up i will never do that i'm only going to to suffer with a man that I think that okay when we started off he was doing good and life just happens and I cannot dump him anywhere i know I'm I'm I'm I'm I mean I'm honestly I'm telling you miracle let let me I'm because a lot of times women go into relationship or marriage because they feel like okay it's not that bad okay but you're not saying if I'm going to my mom always tell us about marrying a promising young woman tell her that okay okay so you're saying women should not go into that mentality when they are picking marriage but that mentality is Okay during marriage yeah it is okay during marriage but not before marriage not before marriage why why because I mean how certain are you that this person will ever pick up it's better see Miracle hold on now hold on it's better you enter the Miracle you're listening to me i know you're picking on both sides of your life i'm not picking on no I'm not miracle if it's not okay in the beginning of marriage why is it okay in the middle of marriage because you're already married to this person if he's not okay he's not okay no no no he was okay before okay it's like you saying he's okay stealing before the marriage but he's not okay stealing during the marriage no you're not you're not getting the point you're not getting the miracle listen to understand what I'm saying is that women shouldn't marry men that are not doing well because on potential yeah because most time when women marry men that not doing well they have lot of expectation i understand that so women should not marry men on potential but if a man has is already successful and things go bad for him women should stay with him on the basis of potential they should stay because they've seen it manifest before so they should stay with him yes they can yes they can stay with him because So why why couldn't you just stay with him and let him manifest if you're going to see the manifestation go down they wait for another manifestation no that's why I'm saying miracle what's the guarantee in What's the guarantee that the guarantee that when we when we marry things are going to go back so what's the guarantee that things will get better no no what I'm saying is that what's the guarantee wait wait what's the guarantee that if I know what's the guarantee things will get better i can still on a if I'm going to put on a percentage 50 over 50 so it's 50 over 50 that things will get better as well if I'm broke miracle no I cannot I don't think a woman with a man yes because it's always an entitlement let me tell you if a woman marry a man that you're just making my my point evident that a lot of women in today's age Yes cannot suffer the way our mom suffered they can't go through that hardship they can't nobody should go through you guys want a perfect scenario yes i see you guys want ebiza but who doesn't want ebiza but it's not reality let me tell you let me tell you something there are women that married to men that they are enjoying every single freaking day how about that why do you think so no no there women that because they're content and they're in reality not the women that are jetting everywhere every single day and living on an island in Spain wearing white cloth drinking mimosas that [ __ ] is not real there women that wake up every day in their marriages because they have their children and they wake them up they prepare the kids for school they make lunch boxes they make sure their husband is fed they make sure their husband has lunch to go to work they welcome their husband when they come back they take care of the husband take care of their home and they're happy that's their happiness that's not the happiness you're talking about what do you know what you just You see I think do you know what he just mentioned now you're just talking about women they're just giving service do you know you say wake up in the morning wake their kid up dress the kid up make lunch for their husband their husband come back from work they welcome their husband make dinner for their husband where does the woman comes in you don't believe that's a woman's happiness that is majority of women's happiness let me just tell you that today and that is why a lot of women are not happy because they don't have that miracle they don't i'm telling you you think that's happiness oh my god you think that's happiness it is more than happiness it is paradise it is paradise waking up to to healthy children who love you waking up to a man that loves you and you love him and you cherish him and he cherishes you and you you're taking care of his castle you are the queen of the castle you like what you did that girl you you see what's wrong with today you see what's wrong with your so-called Gen Z's that's what's wrong with you but you don't know true happiness no I'm happy about You don't know true happiness i'm not going to lie i'm happy about this generation i don't I don't think my mom's generation is where I wanted I want to be i'm happy about this generation because then women were not putting their first it was about the man and the kids and the home and whatever do you think as a woman not putting herself first no miracle let Miracle Hold on do you know that Miracle let me tell you hold on i used to have a friend that used to talk about how she married when she was 25 and she's like "Oh she wish she didn't marry when she was 25." And this is someone that the husband is doing well the husband is an engineer she's doing is doing well she has healthy so healthy looking children life is good but she doesn't have personal fulfillment because she wake up every morning she's helping this man achieve his dream what happens to her dream it's like marriage just tied her that down because before she make any step he's like "Mommy I want to do this mommy I want to do that." And the man is free to do whatever he want to do he's chasing his dream how he want to be let me tell let me tell my definition of happiness my definition of happy happiness is that I'm doing what God called me to do here on earth i'm preparing I'm I'm I'm wait I'm fulfilling God prophecy on my life i'm doing that i have a loving husband i have lovely kids that are happy to have me as their mom i'm chasing my dream my husband is chasing his dream and my children are on the path of chasing that dream that is happiness to me i don't want to wake up in the morning wake my children to go to work cook for my husband do all these things and I'm chasing myself that is no happiness to me miracle if that's the definition of happy happiness I don't want that happiness it's crazy you really think like that because because a lot of women's dreams are to see that their man is at the top of whatever field he can be to assess that a lot of women's dreams is to see that they raise up their children in the way that God will be pleased and also their their their husbands will be proud of a lot of women's dreams is to wake up to those type of scenarios to take care of the castle and it's crazy how you see that as as a as a negative thing it's crazy how you see that it's crazy miracle what what happens to the woman it's crazy and please please cut that clip for me no no no no what happened what happened to the woman's dream cuz people make it look like God created a man put like a sad music in the background god created a man and he created a woman the potential he kept in a man he kept in a woman too so if a man can be at the top what did God say about women to men if you're bringing God don't pick and choose what did God say about women don't pick and choose what did God say please remind me why did Why did God give Adam Eve to support him say that again to support him say that one more time to support him so what a support is that to Is that support him for the rest of his life or was that to just support him for a short time let me tell hold on on you brought up God okay was that did God give Eve Adam to support him for a short time or support him for the rest of his stay in the Garden of Eden support him is long term it wasn't short term okay it was given to him to also multiply thank you very much because she was brought out from his what ribs thank you very much okay so you talking about a woman's dream is to support her man miracle is losing miracle hold on hold on hold on i'm not saying miracle let me tell you let me give you an example right a woman's dream in marriage let me put it in marriage is to support her man to raise her kids in the bright light of the Lord and also to the privilege and proudness of her husband miracle miracle hold on i'm saying but it's crazy how we see that as a liability and we see that as a negative now hold on saying you're not getting it but what I'm saying is that if a woman I'm not saying a woman shouldn't support a man's dream let me give you an example if I marry a man and I'm excelling in the industry I am in i don't want to shut down my dream because I want to marry a man i don't want to marry a man and I'm not I'm not doing well in my industry anymore i want to marry a man have our kids encourage the man what comes first your industry or your man sorry what comes first your industry or your man i come I matter to Why are you Why are you moving the goalpost answer the question what comes first your industry or your husband miracle i come first i myself come first what are you talking about what are you talking about you're selfish you're selfish i'm not selfish you're selfish and that backs up your point where you said people should think for themselves so damn what you were talking about with partnership it's all about you you're selfish but you want the man to sacrifice you want the man to provide you want a man to protect so the man is not selfish i don't understand hold on so you think Miracle I'm beginning I'm I'm beginning to get irritated at this point so you think Wait hold on hold on you think that a woman to choose a man over herself is that what you're saying please just say it say it are you saying Are you going to answer my question are you going to answer my Are you going to answer my question question what comes first your husband or your industry industry comes first you are sick in the head okay i'm asking I'm asking you a question hold on hold on i'm asking you a question you just broke the internet right now you're whing go whining miracle i'm asking you a question we don't know miracle i'm asking you a question you're saying a man should come first before a woman god bless all those good men out there good husbands good fathers out there cuz you guys are important miracle are you saying you're underappreciated why you running away i'm asking are you saying a man to come first before a woman should put a man first before herself is that what you're saying is yourself your industry miracle yes myself is my industry no it's not miracle myself is my industry no it's not myself is my industry that is myident that's my identity that is who I am is myself how is that who you sound you sound wild right now no that is what I represent you sound wild right now that is who I am you sound It's a shame how can you How can you How can you define me it's a shame please men should not put that shame on women women are defined by their by their husbands that is not true women are defined by their husband we are breaking narrative okay that is not true let me sh I give you an example mr obama what is she defined by the greatness of Barack Obama because she wasn't we don't know her it's not a bad Why do women always think that's a bad thing if you have a good man you're reflected on the light of that good man i'm not saying I don't want to be defined by my husband i want to be defined by What are you talking about i want to have my identity my husband will have his own identity i want to walk in a room and they recognize me just the way they recognizing my husband not because I'm married to so so person because of who I am and what I represent that is the kind of woman do you think the greatest the kind of woman every woman to strive for do you think the greatest men in the world when a a woman do not have a making in that do you I feel like you are even you're dim you're diminishing the the significance of great women and great and great wives i couldn't do that no I couldn't do that that's what you're doing no because you're because you're you're saying the sacrifice for them not going for individual glory is against them supporting and guiding a great man to excellence let me give you a case that's what you're doing let me give you a case you're diminishing their sacrifice you're diminishing their sacrifice you're diminishing their sacrifice i'm fighting for it i'm fighting for it i should be the face of the feminist movement i should be the face miracle hold on miracle let me fight for you women out there let me give you an example everybody knows Messi Johnson she's an actress everybody knows her husband her husband is a politician right but if Messi Messi Johnson and her husband to enter the room together they are both identified identified based on their different Okay what about Bill Gates and his wife i don't know his ex-wife i don't know what the ex-wife was doing i don't really Okay so you don't know i don't know what she was doing for him not to know i don't know but she she was a great woman as well we I don't know she created a great a great a great man's success maybe that's that let me tell you what I'm saying miracle don't twist the narrative this is what I'm saying what do you mean twist the narrative get it right not twisting anything you said everything no you said that your only thing for you miracle i want you miracle i'm not I'm not saying what I'm an adult okay i'm an adult anything I'm saying here I'm standing by my word i'm not scared of anybody that is why I want if they don't want it it's fine but this is what I'm saying i'm saying that no woman should sacrifice what God have called her to be or who she is god called a woman to make a man hold on hold on you are his missing piece you're his missing rib what I'm saying is that there is family you know you are a mother when a man findeth a good when a vine finded a wife he find it a good thing no this is what I'm saying that's what the Bible says what I'm saying that a woman gets married a single man is building a dream she gets married marriage shouldn't cover everything you building for yourself i'm telling you if you're married to a man okay yes you're married to a man you have kids you're raising your kids you shouldn't stop what you're doing you shouldn't stop that means you don't trust that man you're married to the wrong man no yes yes if you're not If you're not ready to If you're not ready to stop what you're doing to help me build my empire for us then you're not ready for marriage no that is what it is because marriage is about trust in the man you have to trust in the Yes you have to trust you have to trust in my vision marriage i'm the head of the house i'm the head of the house you have to let me leave you have to let me lead you have to let me lead sounds so insecure i'm not sounding insecure you have to let me lead you you sound as you sound like an insecure man it's only an insecure man that will make that no you are preaching selfishness that's what you're preaching i'm not building an empire for myself i'm building it for us in for my kids for my kids kids agree with you see ladies out there let me tell you a selfish selfish thought me ladies women out there who are who are single women who are fighting for their men's dreams who are making sure their children are raised up the right way and in the in the presence of God and also to bring proud names not just to your name but also to their husbands i applaud you you're doing the right thing and I sing your name on this mo on on this past motherly Sunday i sing your name okay we um ladies out there okay what I'm saying I'm not Don't give them a message i'm giving a message you're preaching them a message of selfishness you're giving a message of selfishness you're giving them a message of selfishness what I'm telling you people is don't listen to this message marriage is a beauty i don't approve this message you should get married i should get married i don't approve this message don't you ever marry a man that will tell you to drop what he's doing to build his own empire i never approve of his empire support him to build his empire let him also support you to build your own empire you can't build two empires at the same time let me tell you you can't build two empires at the same time any man that you can't build is an insecure man no you can't build two empires at the same time an insecure man it's impossible it's only an insecure man that will save an empire an empire needs focus it needs time so a woman that is doing well for sacrifice a woman that is doing well for herself should leave everything to build that's your empire fire will burn that empire fire may fire burn that empire fire will burn that empire so I will marry now a man will tell me I should leave what I've been doing for years to build may fire Holy Ghost fire destroy that empire may I not be part of that useless empire eh how would you be when you're selfish so I should leave what I'm doing to build a man empire god forbid battle i will build man he will build his own too and it's okay to do that wow do you understand so they want they want a situation by a man when the man go be talking and be crying I did this for you may that not be our portion this in this in this generation do you understand and I'm sure it's not a man giving you money i'm It's not a man drop money i'm taking back selfishness it's not a man give you money what is taking back selfishness and you're telling you're telling the young children of money in your hand it's what you have that is for you your husband money is not your money because at the end of the day if a man want to wheel his property he wills it to his children he doesn't wheel it to the woman it's what you have that is for you honestly you're so wrong i'm not wrong a woman children are the pride of a woman i'm not saying children are the jewels how what have you heard a man wheel property for a woman before he wields it to his children he wields it to his children he's his What are you talking why is he willing to his wife you're enjoying it you're enjoying what you it builds your house or do everything it's in your freaking name even want to buy whatever I'm giving whatever I'm giving to my children you were part of the build we're not g to you see how selfish he is the man is giving it to his children not our children his children i know it's selfish i know it's selfish and she's the problem i know it's part of the problem i know it's part of the problem and I appalled by her her selfishness and I do not approve her message i do not approve her message what I'm saying I do not approve her message amen as a man is carrying his hustle you a man is working too if a man can be a multi-millionaire you too can be a multi it's not bad to have two billion millionaires in the home or two billionaires in the home it's not bad so if I'm a billionaire don't you think you're a billionaire too no it's your money is it my account will you transfer that money to put in my account will it be in my account what are you talking about what are you talking about that means if I want to buy one bag I say babe there's this designer bag I'm seeing please buy it's not a good investment how will I car so amount of dollars and buy you just a bag but if my is my money will I ask you for that money for bag i will buy it myself do you understand women too they should chase the bag too just as men are chasing the bag i know yes i'm not see don't listen to Miracle miracle is representing all the selfish insecure men out there and they the problem of women they are the problem of women i'm I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm shouting out and defending women stay at home moms stay at home stay at home doesn't even make sense they're helping helping their men their husbands their confidence their providers the love of their lives build empires not just for the man but for the whole family for their generation that that is the women who I'm healing heal them very well before before Hillary Clinton before Hillary Clinton decided to run for president she helped her husband become president didn't she run for president after her husband was president after her husband was president after her husband was president i'm saying what I'm saying don't get me wrong mr obama today and people are telling her to run for president after she helped her husband become president what I'm saying what are you talking about and I'm still going to say it too now things are easy eh if your husband has plenty money that's you marry a rich man and you to be a rich woman you can pay a nanny you can pay a cook how dare you pay a cleaner you can pay people to do the necessary house chores in your house go the women are the one now women are even bitting you think you think when women do all that they shouldn't still take care of the home i'm not saying you should not take care of the me as I am like this miracle i used to say it even when you this I will tell you that even me as a single girl this will get you i will have a chef cooking for me i know please yes so when I enter that marriage too a chef will cook for us i'm tired because who will cook the food better than a chef i'm tired of your bias see please don't of your bias let me tell you i tell you we have lot of pain women in this society we have a lot of pain women because they step in and you step in because you're selfish because you're selfish ladies and gentlemen boys and girls we're ending the podcast on my voice running away we're ending the podcast with my voice just because she joined the show doesn't mean she's going to take over the show yeah that way yeah stop being selfish stop being selfish ladies and gentlemen make sure you like make sure you subscribe because I'm done with any selfishness make sure you follow her and leave a comment down below as to why who is right leave a comment down below guys also on the social media handle leave a comment down below who is right who who who side are you supporting empire building empire are you a selfish person tell us in the comment section ladies and gentlemen it's been Saturday brunch with Miracle OP and our new co-host Eno we've been here giving you guys amazing content and amazing conversations tell us who's right in the comment section make sure you like make sure you subscribe follow us on all social media handles x Instagram Tik Tok 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