(Anthony) When conversations about love and sex arise sometimes you only hit the surface
(Elle) with us we're gonna dive deeper
(Anthony) I'm Anthony Brinson
(Elle) I'm Elle fromm
(Both hosts) and this is the going deeper podcast
(Anthony and Elle) we've been golfing when I came in yeah we got cameras new setup it been a minute ing first of all honestly our pretty faces How are we doing? It looking good over there actually looking like a blonde if you know you just came back and you're already bringing that up Anthony at that he is asked me Have you ever been a blonde and it hurt because I was so serious? Because it was what how what's done it was that was it a highlight thing? I'm not I hadn't had my highlights redone in a while I was like each called on my roots. Yeah. Anthony How long has it been since your locks re twisted? No, that's rude. You don't say? Well, it depends on the tone because if you just asked him be like yeah, you know? Or like it'd be different he was like you need to reach with that's it. Oh yeah, you didn't say like you need your highlights. But that was a wake up call and literally the weekend after that I got my highlighter. Crazy. I mean sometimes people say brilliant work sometimes. So you admit you were bullying me know on camera in 4k? We're actually recording 4k Two
(Anthony) But speaking of that, we're on camera now like we say our pretty faces glad to have this new format glad to be back in the goin up podcast How you been Elle?
(Elle) I've been good break was a lot. My sense. The we last recorded like so much has happened. My grandfather passed away. Recipes miss him. But he was like 85 and his funeral service was really beautiful. So doing better with that. I'm taking some cool classes this semester. I think you had a more eventful break than I'd
(Anthony) I can't share how eventful my disk since the last hour record. It's been a lot. But um, I want to ask if you don't mind sharing. You mentioned your passing your grandfather. And if I'm not mistaken, you said like you weren't for like you hadn't had family members pass away your lifetime. Yeah. Hi. And like, or how was it dealing with that?
(Elle) I have been very fortunate. The only family member I've lost is my great grandma. And she was like 102 and she died in her sleep. So it wasn't very upsetting for me. It's difficult. It's weird. It's like you think of things that make you think of him and you're like, oh, I should call him and tell him about it and then you're like oh, I can't or like his birthday is the day after mine and I've never celebrated my birthday before not like without him because his birthday is always the day after so I'm like oh pup His birthday is tomorrow and like his birthday is still the day after mine but he's not here Yes. Yeah so
(Anthony) Well I'm appreciate you even still like recording after the break because it's no timeline to or timetable to for grief or to heal from stuff like that. So like I say rip to your granddad and appreciate you for being here and appreciate you for sharing as well.
(Elle) Thank you
(Anthony) I like I'm also since we have a type of relationship to be very vulnerable being a podcast host I like having that sense of vulnerability with like my audience even if it's just like my own just to show like we're still human. That's why we always joke especially when all shades of chocolate like went fine make like a very like crazy outlandish joke one Please don't fire me too. But I do things like that because that's just me that's how I act on a daily basis. They like Jada Shakyra Do they deal with me on a daily almost daily basis? And I just want to have that bit of like human pass the camera or pass the mic if that makes sense.
(Elle) Well you can say on camera now right? He used to say on camera and then I told him that he wasn't on camera and he started saying on mic but you can say on camera again.
(Anthony) So whichever way you're hearing listening to us or watching us now we got multiple avenues but today's episode if you want to tell them Dr. Fromm I'm pretty sure it was your idea.
(Elle) It was my idea today's epic or tastes epic Episode No, I was gonna say topic. No, listen, I'm rusty. Rusty I'm gonna pause if you want to edit this out you can't
(Anthony) I'm gonna keep it I'll be keeping an eye on last year they had to learn keep my flubs like a drum. If you listen to multiple plugins you'll get anyway Energizer Bunny
(Elle and Anthony) I recently told Anthony this before we get into the topic, Anthony reminds me of one of the migos because he is constantly add on black and gold locks but oh no and God bless that is not it. Which will which will you compare me I said Quavo because he was the first one that came to mind like his alright let me stop Okay, first of all, I said that during January I read already I said that during January it has nothing to do with love because you ad lib that is true. What's an example are like yes now just say some are like he's almost got to click on my far to say birthday. You'd be like candles, like what it is during like every conversation so that's why you remind me of one of the migos it has not been Based on looks
(Anthony) Yeah it's because like it's how my mind works and there's she's as one of the few people that like I vocalize it But like every time usually in most instances a certain word would trigger like a memory or like I remember some so like she said birthday I'm like cake. She said candles but yeah, I'm making candles
(Elle) I saw candles my brother this is posted like men will say everything but just happy birthday I'm glad you're in my life because it was somebody like birthday post and his male friend commented cake and candles my brother and I was like that is something Anthony would say
(Anthony) no, no not that I wouldn't do because I find it's to add that joke is too accurate because I don't know why dudes do that. They just say happy birthday. It's not a happy happy G day.
That will give me man like bro what's the G like, my big day like those Happy birth day. But I love also at least on the podcast I'm a part of we never we get on it. Well at least to tabulate this was good. So today's episode will be random.
(Elle, Anthony and guests in the room) Well, I wanted to get all the random out and then move on to the topic. Today's topic is love songs. Yay. There's like a million people in this room. Right? Right. And we didn't get a single war. Yeah. They just want to respect our space blank to edit but yeah. Oh, I thought you meant like an actual blank. I was so confused. You just weren't passing? Yeah. It's gonna be an obituary to my middle school. You that's such a middle school thing to do. I'm not talking about the girl who bullied me in middle school. This reminds me and ever since it's been so funny, ever since I've been more lenient on my edits to see if it's ever becomes a problem. But Liz or Yeah, Liz had cussed on the home. I'm sorry. Houselights. And then she was like, we have a podcast called going deeper. It shouldn't be that bad. I'm like, You know what? It's about going deeper. No, it is fully in in us. Because I'm the one that picked the name.
(Elle) We were going to do just the tips, but we wanted it to be love and sex. So we're going to talk about love songs and sex songs today by sex songs. I mean, like songs about sex or songs that people listen to while they have sex.
(Anthony) So like when neighbors know my name by Trey Songz when that can't see, we're off to a bad start. Because I don't know that Shakyra would account
(Elle) As somebody who has gotten a noise complaint from their landlord because their neighbors complained because they were having sex too loud. I feel like that is the song I should know.
(Anthony and Elle) Was the noise complaint about you? Or were you the one making noise? No, it was about me and Mike. Michael this is a running joke and it's not his name. It's not his name. His name is not Mike butcher called him that you know. But, um, yeah, so I've also disclaimer before people roast me or cook me once this episode comes out. I'm horrible with song names and song titles and artists names but the melody like if you've seen the song like yeah, he's like that song by that guy. Yeah. And I told him that this was the topic two weeks ago, so he would have time to like look up the lyrics and know the name he just did not do it. Yeah, memories bad. Not gonna know. A lot of these like he will he'll say like, Oh, my favorite love song is and then he won't remember the artists that song name the album name? Nothing. I'll just start humming it and I'll be like, yeah, yeah. I know. So let's start us off. Dr. Brown.
(Elle) All right. So Anthony, what do you think constitutes a love song? So what makes something a love song
(Anthony) A song about being being in love Let me not be petty. Oh, I to give a series a more serious answer. I'd say a love song has to have like, the typical criterias of like a basic Love Song of like, complimenting your partner saying like you can't live without your partners and I love you kind of early somewhere in the song or having that type of like, sentiment in the song. So pretty much I mean, yes, I'm about loving somebody.
(Elle) So like, do you think like Love Song by Sara Burrell is which is the one where she says I'm not gonna write you a love song because you asked for i because you need one with that it's literally called Love Song but do you consider it a love song?
(Anthony) Well, based on that quote you said from the sony sound like it's not supposed to be a love song.
(Elle) I don't-no it's because her it's kind of like potential breakup song by AJ and ally. They said there's gonna be a lot of this because I know well, the viewers might know. They the it's it's her singing to her label. Like her label said this is your album. Your album needs a love song so she wrote a song called Love Song saying I'm not gonna write you a love song just because you think it will make my album sell better but then that song did super well. And potential breakup song literally says the lines this is the potential breakup song our album needs just one. That's pretty crazy. Which I have a friend she doesn't like songs but they mentioned that that it's a song.
(Anthony) I can understand that it's like or even though I kind of feel the reverse. I like when people do it. And TV shows when they like break the fourth wall and like say is a TV show like I like moments like that? So like if a love song if they if they're saying it's a song, that's all.
(Elle) So like we're gonna I found this article from timeout.com by Alexandra shade and live Kelly from Wednesday the 10th. January 24. Oh, I wonder if this is British? Because it says as the day is the date before the month but it's talking about the greatest love songs and it has Let's stay together i Al Green fantastic song all in me by John Legend. It's got Beyonce-
(Anthony) This your playlist you talm bout
(Anthony and Elle) what are you doing? Just why don't you just answer the question. What are you talking about? Because I said the article, the website name the people who wrote it, and I didn't hear you didn't hear any of it. No, that's why the question arises. He was not listening to me all I was yapping Yeah, but Olympic. If you think about it, podcasts are just yapping. Someone's at our door. Oh, it was Brett. He was just waving. He's just waiting. Yeah, yeah, no, true. No, I heard that. Yeah. But do you think breakup songs count as love songs? No. breakups. I feel like it's like a separate category. Unless it could be like a sub genre of love song but unless you're saying how like, you don't want to break up and you're talking about how much you love them our audience is confused from something and I know Yeah, I give up on against it something I've 90 way most of the time. There's like noise outside of the room and it's like people know we recording but I mean, I had to let it go because it bothered me to the point where it's just gonna be cut out cut out me rolling my eyes. Otherwise, I'm gonna look like I'm just a very irritating person to be around. Yeah, bread. Cut that up. Thank you very.
(Elle) So this is an article I'm just gonna start this whole section over. This is an article from timeout.com by oats is edited by Alexandra shade contributor Liv Kelly from this year for her from last month about some of the greatest love songs like Let's stay together by our green all of me by John Legend. Interesting they have Chanel Connors version of nothing compares to you. Not the prince. Her version is very, very pretty. I miss her. I didn't know her. I was just sad when she died. Dolly Parton temptations Adele stuff like that. What are do you have a favorite love song?
(Anthony and Elle) I couldn't I wouldn't be able to name it. Do you have like a few? I wouldn't be able to name them. I'm sorry. Get this while I went on that whole rant. I gave you two weeks. And it's like, no, I could I don't know how to look on camera, but I could check on my phone and look for certain songs. But Oh yeah. I thought you were gonna do this before we recorded. I don't remember you viewers. I gave him two weeks to research this topic. And I know that because I have mine.
(Elle) So my favorite love song is say you want to go by James Arthur. But I recently found out that he's homophobic. Which is deeply is that confirm deeply upsetting Yes. And not like based on what I'm just incident. It was like he got dropped by his record label because he had multiple instances and he wouldn't shut up. Okay. And I am very much I'm very morally strict. I don't listen to Kanye. I don't listen our Kelly I don't listen to like all these other people. Because they do stupid things. I don't listen to Morgan Wallen. He only really has two good songs. It's chasing you in whiskey glasses and anybody who says otherwise it's just wrong. So look there guy feels good, but like the point is, that's still my favorite love song. So you want to go by James Arthur, but that whole album is so good. It's just I was so upset to find out that he's a homophobe
(Anthony) What genre of artist is he ? Is he because I'm not too familiar.
(Elle and Anthony) Pop you say well let go. You probably know it. Yeah, probably. Yeah, again will probably say you won't let go. Say you won't let go. Thank you. You don't know that. It was all over the radio that it came over like 2016 I'm looking it up. Yeah, I probably didn't know it just isn't that clear right now. But what you heard Oh, you can hear me typing is fun. Oh, yeah. And you can see it like I look her like computer right? Well look at all the stickers. Yeah, these are really all some of them are really old. I'm definitely not as into BuzzFeed and solve as they used to be. But I stand by most of them. I got lots of bbose stickers. Do you have stickers on the front? Yeah, I think you got I see one. I have a state new sticker on the inside. That's it. Yeah, so Jada Shakyra You see how she got the chocolate stick? Crazy. Crazy Jenny we got going deeper right all right first of all going deep mistake you're crazy. We there are no going deeper stickers. I think there are actually they didn't have them made around the same time all the other ones were made. Remember second I didn't want to appropriate by putting all shades of chocolate on my laptop. So I wonder what is the line? What where do we draw the line between appropriate and just appreciate and I think it'd be weird if I had one that said like black girl magic. Okay, that's appropriating? Yeah, that's weird. Well, I also talked about me, we're literally your friend. That's true. I could get one Do you forgot space? Well, I guess on the front, yeah, yeah, I can put it I hidden the inside if you if it's this important to you, I will add one. So back to love songs. Okay God who is calling me. I was recording should I ask her? Did I hear you want to pocket? No, she just got a new job and we're very proud of her where she went or what type of job you want. It's a research job. Remote research job, but it's at MSU like she came up here. Not that kind of research. She's a dietitian. Either way, I mean, hey, look for a study. I'm very proud of her. She's very much deserves it and she's working for her alma mater. That would be the right time, right. My mother has two degrees from MSU. She I think we've talked about her before we have.
(Elle) Okay, so some other love songs. I'm a big Ed Sheeran fan. There is an Italian version of perfect with Andrea Bocelli. And it is so good. It's so it's like it has more than is it orchestral, orchestral energy, or casual candy? Right? That sounds very, I felt like an idiot saying it.
(Anthony) The English language do kind of get like that sometimes
(Elle) Yeah, as a linguistics minor for your trail. It has like violins and that's me playing the violin violins and more stringed instruments. It's a very beautiful version of the song and it's not just Andre Bocelli. Singing in Italian it's add to
(Elle and Anthony) Are y'all good over there. No, because I will say I appreciate him for drinking that water very quietly, like, thank you so much. I knew when there are there's gonna be three people in the room other than us. I was like, this is not going on while I was right I'm over here trying to talk about Ed Sheeran, the Italian version of perfect which is one of my favorite love songs. The camera can't see him trying to quietly exit. Let's see. Let's see if he's exceeded. Let's see if he will. I heard a little bit noise but by not a question, since you mentioned Ed Sheeran was shaping up a little song. Yeah, but I thought it was kind of overplayed. I just think he has other songs that are better. Yeah, that's usually happens with songs like that. Even even from an album Loki, you could argue is not the best song but it's a classic. I have a playlist called men being obsessed with their GF that has some of my favorite love songs. So it's an interesting overlap of country and r&b. Because when you think about it, if you take away the actual sound of the music and what it sounds like, country, music and r&b have a lot in common. So if you take away what makes music music and make an income, no, the lyrics are what remains like the subject like what they're taught. If you take out I meant the sound of the music message. You just keep going. I'm fed up with you. Quick question.
(Anthony) No real quick kind of off topic. But music related. What classifies a classic as a classic? Whether it be classic song or album? What makes the classic? Because I'm very strict on what I call I try to be all what makes it a classic?
(Elle) I don't know. I think some people would say it has to be around for a number of years. It depends on I feel like each genre would have their different requirements how well it does. How many people know the song outside of fans of that genre, like people know. Back in Black by AC DC, they might not be fans like I'm not a fan of rock music, but I know that song most people know that song and if you think you don't you would recognize it if you heard it. Yeah, so but he would die. I don't recognize my name. But proudly you would absolutely recognize kind of like a yelling thing. So I'm not going to sing it.
(Anthony) But um, one of my criteria for classic is just like it has to span like through generations. Or like, for example, I obviously I consider Michael Jackson most of his catalogue are classics but like, like kids know, Michael Jackson, people already know Michael Jackson parents, etc, etc. Or like, I just cracked my knuckles right in the mics are team and one of mine to be like, my usually my parents are sometimes grandparents, sometimes grandparents don't really listen to like, listen to specific music once they get to a certain age, but like shape of you, for example, it got like a billion views on YouTube, who knows the streams and my parents would probably know it if they heard it. So that's why
(Elle) I don't Yeah, it's like different requirements. But back to my men being obsessed with their GS playlist. I have over 172 playlists and they're very specific. I was telling my cousin about this at Christmas. I was like, I have a playlist called names and it's just songs that are people's names. And he was like, When are you ever going to be like, You know what I want to listen to right now. My name is playlist and I'm like, Yeah, that's fair. I have one called calendar in his songs that mentioned different months of the year.
(Anthony sings "January")
(Elle and Anthony) Like once upon a December from Anastasia or Anastasia no redhead. migos that was a perfect example. What you added yourself. moment I said Anastasia you said Anastasia redhead because if you don't know this redheads go see it. But we did we did this. Thank you Dana. The choreography we love to tell you she got tired. I just want to get my thoughts out about my leakin play. Listen, you keep interrupting me I provide some type of content if I don't gunden to provide but actually if only somebody had given you two weeks to think about the topic if only I did. I did give him two weeks okay just kept alive. That is a very good sign. I can't even be mad. I can't even be mad. Skip the if only I knew what my heart was telling me don't know what I'm feeling. Is this just a dream? Yeah, that's okay.
(Elle) But I think there is a specific type of like, male artists making songs with a like, it's almost worship women that is unique to r&b and country because I don't think you find it in pop or rock or any other genre. Like, if there's probably like a French genre I'm forgetting don't come for me. But it's like a type of you are the reason I wake up in the morning like you were the best thing that's ever happened to me that I think is unique to is unique to country and r&b. So like my men being obsessed with their GF playlist is like, back at one by Brian McKnight one you like a dream come true to just want to be with you, three, girl, it's plain to see that you're the only one for me and for repeats that's 1235 make you fall in love with me.
And after I believe my work is done. Then I start back at one you guys couldn't see. But Jana and Shakyra Perfectly gave the energy that I needed them to.
(Anthony) And also love you actually saying because that makes it much more audibly pleasing.
(Elle) If you were like, Why did she keep going with that because I was receiving the energy I needed to receive thank you both so much.
(Anthony) And I'm glad they helped you because I didn't notice
(Elle) I actually discovered I discovered that song because somebody you don't know that borrow. It's bad. I discovered that song because when they were they took like a couple of like a week, it took from Tuesday to Saturday for them to call the 2020 election and somebody would said like this, they're in that booth counting the votes like this, because he says I start back at one. And that's how I discovered that song. But I've also got time as loved by Josh Turner country song because of you by Neo She's everything Brad Paisley You Got It Bad by Usher. So that type of that type of music.
(Anthony) So I got a question for you. I have a question for you. And then judge Dana Shakyra There's not going to be serious years there'll be series so um, and it's obviously a different type of love. But when like Christians make certain songs sound like I love the Lord I love Christian or I love a guy would you consider those a sub genre of love song?
(Elle) I would I would consider them a sub sub genre of love songs. Maybe not a good? No. Do you mean like modern Christian music? Or do you mean like ingen hymns? Like, like stuff you would actually hear in the church?
(Anthony, Elle and guests in the room) Modern Christian music? Not modern Christian music is a little corny. Oh, I don't agree. I don't think there's a heartache. I feel like a lot of people would agree with that. I'll just say no, no, no. Speak for a lot of people. Not all of it. Markers. Music is live. We're probably listening to different types of monitor Christian music. Yeah. If that could be a whole nother topic. Because I I could agree with you, depending on where you were. But to answer your question, I think some songs by Jason Dallas could be said a little song. I don't want to give Dixon Dallas a platform. That is okay. Cool. Yeah. And we've talked about this before. Yes, I like on mic or us. Us. Oh, I am aware that real people cannot clear bait. I'm aware that it's wrong to speculate about people's sexuality. But there are real gay country artists that deserve much more attention than Dixon Dallas does. Whether you shadow someone I know.
(Anthony) And yeah, with his situation, while you look at his situation. Since his I don't know. That's just my opinion on it. I don't know because he hasn't clarified at least on my knowledge. He hasn't clarified if he actually is a part of the community or not. If he's not, I do find it. Like if they were to come out that he's not I do find it weird if he is making music about what he liked to do. And yeah, oh, oh, no, somebody's actually
(Elle) Okay. Andrew Mitch has a country as a country singer. He has a song called all in my head, where he's talking about bringing somebody home to his parents and how much they're gonna love them. And then he says, but I know that it's all in my head because they'll just wish you were a girl instead. And I think that's a more universally true gay experience. That is better to write country music about than Dickson Dallas. Yeah, that's understandable also, because I don't know if people outside country music know this. Sexually explicit country music is exceedingly rare. Like I can only name a few sexually explicit Country Music's off the top off like it's Dixon Dallas. The guy who sings I don't even know if I can say the name of the song on this podcast. do you say to or just blanket? It's called Richard down in Dallas? Okay, not actually Richard the nickname for for Richard Lewis has a song. The first time I heard that song I was driving and I pulled over. Like that's how rare it is to hear that sexually explicit and it's not told me about that song. It's not the country music. There isn't there aren't country songs about sex because there are like knockin boots by Luke Bryan or wagon wheel by Darius Rucker, and I'm aware of that. That's not the original version. I just don't know who sings the original My bad. You don't you don't know wagon wheel?
(Anthony and Elle) No, the first one I said I might do no knockin boots. Yeah. Yeah, obviously euphemism for sex. Darius Rucker, Rock Me Mama like a rag a wagon wheel. Rock Me Mama anyway you feel. So it's not that it doesn't exist. It's not explicit. Okay? Like I have a country playlist of like 250 songs. Only three or four of them are marked as explicit. Whereas like my 90s Rap playlist, it's like all of them first of all, so it's just when we come equipped with game anyway wife but we bought some bad boys. There we go. Yeah. I was so worried about I was so focused, because that's the the N word is what comes right before that. Yeah, we bought some bad boys and words F for life. And I was so focused on not saying the N word that I actually said the F word. I won't judge this better than you know. I won't judge you if you are but I do find why people who do this corny but are you the type of particle like this? No, not that I held for people just listening. It's like a shush thing that people do are you the type of white person to replace it with a different word like Ninja or neither?
(Elle) I wouldn't replace it with either of those. But if it's a word that can be substituted, like the clean version of Kiss me more by Sousa. Oh no, they just cut it out. It's messing with you feel like jail? I can't even exhale that song The clean version of that song is very good. Um, no, I'm not I would just not say I use that especially in rap. I use that moment to take a breath. Like for example, my favorite Meghan the stallion song although his might have topped in my favorite Megan the science song is circles because it's a sample of Jazmine Sullivan but she says bullet wounds backstab Mama died stills that a warm with myself in my head. Bi tch it's Baghdad new N word trying to come around and play clean up my clothes, that type of my heart Anita seamstress. She said something before that part two, but the second verse that song is my favorite verse of hers. By the time I get to the part where she says the N word. I'm running out of breath because I'm not a rapper. I don't have her breath breath control. So I like Yeah, but I haven't done like choral warmups and senior year of high school was like four years ago. So like the singing. Like I when I finally get to that point in that song, it's just like new, trying to come around, you know, so it doesn't make sense. I just breathe. Instead of substituting it with a new word you mentioned. Here's my topic.
(Anthony and Elle) Yeah, I just think Hey, Matt and Megan they met at Megan's Law to get a book that just bars for starters. But the other parts of that they get accents like why is she yelling? Again? Another hood like a bat. Like that's so funny. I also think she came for Drake. Yeah, people thought I was walking around with the same scores. Yes. I do hope especially as a battle rap fan as just a rugby fan as you do responding to Nikki to Nikki. I think it's a million times funnier if she does. It's more embarrassing on Nikki's bath but like even if this is bad, you told me my dad mom and calling me a pedophile. If you if you don't respond to that, that's crazy. Me personally. I think it's I think it's funny that she did because it wasn't even directed at Nikki like Nikki is the one that heard the line worried about Megan's Law and thought this is about my sex offender husband. You seem to have brought that on yourself. You're the one that married him and had a kid with him. Exactly. But if Megan were to try and deny that was about Nikki I called BS personally like come on now we know Yes, but I don't think the action should have been as big as it still hasn't Shut up. Yes, I know somebody's guilty and she knows about you so but can you think of any more love songs that you love? Try not to cry. Right away please. I wish to Sean were here so if you could tell us how he feels about rodeway because that was what I would literally get the camera put it on data just for because shot over I was very sad. I wrote there he has waivers Ember, is that his real name? No, I'd rather areas. I think it's just so stupid for falling for that. That's very embarrassing. Because that's the kind of thing that would be true. But no, I was asking the other day. There goes my there goes my baby. Goes mom sorry. So question Would that song by Charlie Wilson same song, same title. Would that also count as a love song? I think it does. Okay. All right. Matter of fact, my bag I think I've asked them which song is better? I like the Usher. That's own bro. Charlie. Last Name Wilson. Sorry, is bad for the Usher one because I like Usher more. But there's like lots of different love songs that like they're like musical theater has its own love songs. I've got a Disney playlist that has a lot of love songs like the original version of Once Upon a Dream, like actually from the old animated Sleeping Beauty movie is so good. It's so good. And I think I think it's Lana Del Rey that made the version that's much lower. That's a good song too. But the original duet watching the movie always makes me tear up because I think it's a really beautiful song. What about Love is an open door
(Elle) The songs that are in Disney movies now are more similar to Broadway or even pop music but more so showtunes type of love songs and less similar to the more not saying it's an opera but it's a different style that Snow White or even Cinderella like like Once Upon a Dream is I know you I walked with you once upon a dream. I know you the gleam in your eyes is so familiar ugly I love that doesn't sound the same way.
(Anthony) And the choir person to me loves how you said "I", like you
(Elle) What can I say, I have very spread vowels but that's a much different type of sound and song and vibe. Then, like we finish each other's sandwiches like this is corny. I'm sorry. I love Kristen Bell she went to the same grade school that I went to. She is from our Lok are no she's from Huntington Woods still. And that's cool and all but I it doesn't have like the magic to I'm not saying modern Disney songs are bad. I'm not even saying we should go back to that. I'm just saying that they're very different to me. Understandable, understandable. So there's another love song you can think of. I have so many. I try. I am not good at making like a like a long playlist of love songs. My playlists are more like, like fan edit songs or songs. I've seen a lot of fan edits. Like it's more likely to be hyper specific. Whereas like I have a heartbreak plus, but it's not that I have like my high school revenge fantasy playlist is remarkable. Which is really close to middle school for me, because I didn't I didn't really get bullied in high school. I got bullied in middle school. Man Well, the girl believe me looks like a horse. She looked like a horse and she looks like a horse now so God insulted you better than I ever could. That's great. She was mean I'm glad y'all named John got well named. Oh my god, I would never ever say her name like that. And before you say I'm not being a girl's girl, she is not a nice person. I am justified in saying that she looks like a horse she's got a really long face. Oh, do you show pics later and you will see that I am right
(Anthony) So Bojack Horseman yeah dog and so I just thought of one I know you may not you don't like one of the artists you probably won't like either artists but I think it's called the take Chris Brown and Tory Lanez es so you probably won't like either Oh, I don't want any means you get
(Elle and Anthony) We're gonna get into that in a second. But I guess that will be more of a say so yeah, we're gonna get talking about sex songs in a bit because it's a sex and love podcast No, I'm glad you're right. I'm actually you know any love songs and other languages. Hear me out. Hear me out with despacito be a love song? Oh, no, it's a sec song. Have you looked at the translated lyrics? Yeah, I'm not English, right. Or Justin Bieber? I don't say yeah, but yeah. Do you have the translated version? The salsa version? I listen to the salsa version of that song version so many times that I started getting ads in Spanish and I'm very seriously watching and I do listen to music in Spanish. I have a playlist called songs I like in Spanish that has like 4000 views. I don't know if you got to oh, I don't know if you got an opinion on this. But somebody said bad bunny has the Michael Jackson have his type of music he make? And I don't listen to him. So I don't have an opinion. I would say bad bunny makes it i gotta tell him but I could be incorrect. And I'm thinking that just because he makes music in Spanish if I'm wrong, I'm wrong. But I think the Michael Jackson of it I got on his daddy Yankee. I don't think it's bad bunny. I don't think bag bunny has been around long enough. So that might be a good comparison. I mean, gasolina is an incredible song. He's got great other songs too, but I feel like most people I either know it or would hear it and be like, this is fire um I don't know why that song just reminded me of gas pedal gas pedal makeup as he goes to a good like a red light like hey, so middle school dances with why were they playing those for middle school dance I didn't play my middle school dance kind of middle school as you go to season one. But I listened to music in a lot of other languages. I've recently started listening to a lot of music in Arabic shadow my friend Isabel I don't know if she listens Isabel if you're listening to her which will be silent.
(Elle) She introduce is mean to a lot of music in Spanish because she's Mexican American, but she also listens to music and Arabic. She's an aspiring polyglot, so she speaks like a bunch of languages. polyglot is somebody who knows like more than three languages. Oh, so she speaks a few semi fluently she speaks Mexican Spanish and English fluently. She knows a lot of Chinese she's learning Arabic now. She also knows a bit of Italian and French she's just a very cool person.
(Anthony and Elle) Random fun fact. So Jada, Shakyra. So apparently Shawnee can is fluent in Chinese. That is funny. I don't know who that is. My like Titian and really good friend. was a word. Well, is it official word? That's a good question. I don't know if she fluent in Cantonese or Mandarin. Just tiny. She's from my knowledge. Probably Mandarin them because they're Yeah, I would I can ask her specifically. Also shout out Sean Egan. If you need to reach this if you need your hair done, Shawn. I'll hit her up at life of shanti on Instagram. Well, did you supporting your friends? So some songs I know a love song in Dutch because my ex girlfriend's Dutch Shani SHA wn I love it. All right, I had to make sure no, I'm all for you supporting your friends. I'm probably not going to say it right but it's Maggie done by how it's a very pretty song It means can I hide with you? And like the melody is like done like it's a very pretty song. Oh no whatever random pad Panic at the Disco whenever you can imagine and
(Elle) Let's talk about why is the waiter in the church? Why is the you don't invite the waiters from the reception to your actual wedding. You don't even know who they are you just booked the venue and the venue comes with waiters says a bride she's as I'm casing the pews of a church corridor if your pace in the pews of a church or not let me let me walk you through this. If you are pacing the pews of a church corridor where are you? A church Correct? I guess Am I correct? I remember just I can't help but overhear in exchanging of words. What a beautiful wedding says the bridesmaid to who or to whom a waiter Why is the waiter there the fact that you know difference between who and whom and when to use it? Yes, I do. What why? No, I said I can call one hand take away two fingers. What is the winner doing in this church? That's just that irritates me about this one because you had to just say like a bridesmaid to a guest or a bridesmaid to a groomsmen or anyone else who would reasonably be at this church or you could have said as I'm pacing the pews or as I'm freaking out at the reception then the waiter makes sense. Like you had so many other choices and you pick one that doesn't make any sense to expect it'll be such serious thing. It is and those are the Dutch song that I was talking about. It's a good song but for some reason the single cover looks like looks like those Obama Hope posters you showed the camera let me show you guys know because once you see it you will know what I'm talking about.
(Anthony and Elle) Obviously it is better you better be angry because we look at you like black history what does this look like a political ad a Yeah, yeah, you got me yet to the camera great song. Why did she that's so why does it look like colorblind you know books that used to show you Yeah, why don't we do that? So context today? I do. Yes, I forgot my work context now. Oh my god, the the hands on the chain of my glasses don't whack into the headphones anymore. So are you officially like Team context. Now. I've been team contacts for a while I work contacts in high school. I just didn't. I hadn't gotten my contacts or I hadn't gotten my prescription done in a while and I hadn't ordered contacts at all. I like both because I think I look pretty similar with them. Like there are some people like I went to I've known people. If you have really small like deep set eyes and you wear glasses. It's like it's like a close up because it magnifies your eyes. So I think some people look better with glasses and some people do better with contacts. But I feel like I look the same. I'm trying to get my boyfriend get context how you feel about us. Have you seen this one on our glass? I think so. I can't I can't imagine you without glasses. I can't imagine you to without glasses. are we given a demonstration? All the way. Okay, see? I feel like they look so adorable. What are they Ah Shakyra Do you want to want to participate? We did go to a party once where? We were at a party. Do you guys remember? No, she's behind the screen. Oh, yeah, we were at a party. It was all of us. My gonna get to tell the story of it. I would just say I took my glasses off. Okay. I could barely put them back on. Okay, good day. Ugly. That's correct. I said put him back on because it's unsettling like, it doesn't feel like it's unsettling. No, it doesn't mean like you like that's not Anthony. That's like your like balcony. Like, it looks like an evil version of you is Antoine. So. So yep. So funny story. So I've gotten out of put them back on. No, I've gotten out of trouble for taking my glasses off. So I was in elementary school and remember your story. But I was in elementary school. And it was one of those situations where like, I already forgot my story. The table was banging. The table was being banned yelling so they punished the whole table. And I was sitting there like, I don't remember if I was chilling if I was part of the bad news, but they had all the kids line up and I have my glasses on. So I took my glasses off and just walked away and they didn't stop. See? You looks like a different like it looks like it's unsettling and that I'm not used to it. It's not unsettling because your face is unsettling. You misinterpreted that. Thank you for the clarification. I did obviously you think one I would say that. But also I would say that on camera. But like yo Your face is like what? No question. How long do we plan on well for this episode, just out of curiosity, because we gotta get to our we're gonna talk real quick about sec songs and then we'll dip and then we can do another episode about breakup songs. I have a long that I once threw up in my shower listening to break my heart by Toni Braxton. Break my say love me again. See, you know it. That song is so good. But ya know, I was in my fields. It was my first breakup. I had just been dumped. I was like, 19 threw up in my shower is just the same person you referenced in the break and was an episode. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Okay. So do you want to transition now over to now on to second of all in a pause if you want to fit it all in one episode, but no, no, I want to talk about love song songs, then we'll do a different episode for previous songs. Okay, so sex is do question for you, Anthony. Okay. Anybody who only listens to the love part of the podcast by is Gracie and you? Well, I don't know. Like family members of mine. I guess. I wonder if I could check that analytics was anyway. Do you have a sex playlist? No. You are missing out? Yeah, I've heard I was just telling you off the mic. I usually don't listen to music when I'm having sex because I'm so focused on this. I try to be focused on the woman I'm pleased that that moment but but with my music, she's over there. Literally. She's that's why whenever Jana laughs and she doesn't want it to like make a noise. She pulls her sweat. She looks like a turtle turtling right now. I wish I could see her but she's over there going. Because I'm cruising. I've done a joke cruising down the street in my tribe. It's I have a video of you and Stevie doing that is you know, okay, that's how I have a video of it. But I'm very funny. Yeah, I'd be too far. I usually need to focus on the song that has happened to me. I will start singing and my boyfriend does not like it. Why but we're in the middle of something here and I'll be like someone lounger Brown. And I'm like, I'm into it like it's adding to the experience but I'm using Yes. Yes. All right. me crazy. If I were like, no like what? My All right. All right. Tone it down. Still my boyfriend natural worse. I was making it your hump day is from a commercial? No, but it was a commercial with it. Anyway, we should do an episode about weirdly horny commercials. Have you seen the one about the dishwasher? It's like we do it every day. And the dude that they're talking about is running their dishwasher? Nope. Ridiculous. Okay, so my sex plus has Bruno Mars. Liz. Oh, no, no. Oh, I thought I thought you were saying show the camera. I was like, I want to be judged for having Five Seconds of Summer on here is one song is Valentine. But I have vertigo by Jason Derulo. And Jordan sparks before they broke up, obviously. But I thought they were cute couple brief by dosha cat. Comeback by Jojo. We were just talking about that one. She she called me. I did. It's a great song. If you were to have a sex playlist, what would you put on there? That's a good question. It would depend on the mood I'm in like if I'm Kim. There's a good there's a good opposition. So I'm about to say it would depend on if I'm trying to make love or if I'm trying to buy I don't know. Wk Yeah, I don't know if I technically would even like it because it's a love and sex pocket and that so see mine is like built like you Start with like the slower songs and then it asks like then it gets to make sense to because usually then it goes back down. Yeah usually and then you put that on repeat yeah and then that's that's a good one get the kit I feel like more people should think more that my New Year's resolution is to wink more you describing that crescendo decrescendo that shows you experience which, but man, I guess what it? Would it be crazy if we hosted a podcast like this and we weren't experienced? I was thinking it would be insane if we had a love and sex podcast and I'm not like because we talk about self love and other stuff too. But it would just be very there were there would be so many situations where I'd be like you know that thing and you like one of us would be like No, but basically we'd be fought beside all of the stuff Wow other people though not to each other but um yeah just being unexperienced in that field. It'd be like being a host of other states to talk to them not liking chocolate anyways, but already like if I were the one of the host of all shades chocolate come over here you exposure so the joke there is no no, you we go save as our very last episode. They talk they just say oh, they don't know. They don't know. So yeah, that's what I told her if you come up with your exposure. Well you said her and they know it's not us. So you've narrowed it down? Well, I made the joke initially. Yeah, but find out on our very last episode of Austin how you can put the the middle fingers down Queen. Put them down. Okay. It would be like if I were a host and I'll show you just when it makes sense. Yeah, it'd be awesome candy. I'm telling you. So every time I make that joke, she always be like I'm just white chocolate and white chocolate is nasty to be clear and whoa Hey No No disrespect to white chocolate No Come on. It's not good. Yes of us ask somebody their favorite type of chocolate they're either say I don't like chocolate. Or they say milk chocolate or dark chocolate. Nobody in their right mind would say dark chocolate. Dark chocolates. My favorite temperature. You don't like dark chocolate. Oh, it's terrible. It's it's I don't know if it's better stronger. Whatever the it's not the dark chocolates too bitter. It's that milk chocolate is too sweet. I like the very sweet so yeah, that makes sense. I know Prime best drink on the market not sponsored. But it would be cool imagine if we had a sponsor this is brought to you by Nord VPN because they sponsor like right this is sponsored by blue chew this sponsored by Honey Honey pack so sponsored by let me speed up putting you on to something this sponsor byproducts items. Speaking of honey pets in the work in the words of Linda Belcher from Bob's Burgers, sometimes you want to ride the roller coaster twice and you don't want to wait in line. Let me put you on to those do not work on women. And I had to eat honey to find that out because I really hate honey. I like I hate it. I think it tastes so bad and never played winning to pull up. Why would I ever want to? I'd have to walk around bottomless with just the red shirt on maybe? Who knows? You never know. That just brings out a random conversation. If you know if you're familiar with Tyson that he's he had all like, you know how girls were very big shirts. They won't lie and they'll have clothes on underneath. Have you ever Yes. So he did that. I was like, you know, just kind of like we should be doing this. I agree. I like night gowns they gotta make guys like girls but boys look comfortable. I want I want my sleep outfit me just be at 30 de de doing a joke Hi Miguel entropy swaggin I was literally gonna start talking about how I want to go to bed dressed like Scrooge then you're talking about nice we know from the Christmas Carol I want that old man stocking cap and like a long night gallon like one candle that I carry around. And I'm gonna be like Hong Xiu li Mee Mee Mee you're not seeing the vision Mee Mee Mee Mee like Scrooge pajamas. Like this. I want this to be me. Gonna be me sleeping. Oh, like this. I feel like I would get the best sleep of my life. I agreed. I look over well, I've had Nikon's before, but the problem with night gowns is that they punch up around your hips. So yeah, like you shouldn't sleep. Oh, I actually don't know how it is for men are not men. people with penises because I know not everybody with penis identifies as a man. The alliteration people. But for sis women or people with feminine reproductive organs. You shouldn't sleep with underwear. You got to let let it breathe. So I sleep in just shorts and a T shirt. If you sleep in an eye count. I'm impressed that you're aware of that. How do I know about my own body? No. You said if you people with penises to let it breathe. Yeah. Okay. Yeah, I'm impressed that you they. If you wear a nightgown and you're not wearing any underwear, nightgowns bunched up around your hips, so your your hoo ha if you will, I know I should say, because we talked we literally talked about anatomical words, but it's just fun to say who will be out. Like you'll wake up Thinking like ah I could be wrong. There's some benefits to that though. I'm not I'm I couldn't think of one if I'm sleeping alone. We can do research. No, no. No I'm saying looking at my bed that's my job my dive ephedra researcher Mike Dan Bobby, I mean, there's a cameras that people can see how red my face is. This is very serious. Jada and Shakyra you will have are and DeMonte y'all have favorite SEC songs, which would be surrounded back to if your answer could wait. Why are you sorry? Going back to whoa, wait, who said what are we going back to? This is a male was literally thinking about you do I'm so sorry. To my day. What do you want to throw it back? So you never know. We need to do a pegging episode.
no comment on this YouTube do you think we should do? Do no we won't make the will see the light of day? Yes. Why are men so weird about it? Because I don't know what's been the obsession with most people. I've dated wonder peg me know because I want to try it. So add up so much fun. Oh, it's about the power. It's about the work. We do Bauer's and take what's ours, and what's mine in this context would be asked? Okay, all right. Definitely. I gotta readjust my hair. Okay, okay. So as we reach the 44 minute mark, y'all didn't say your favorite. Editing wise, if I don't know if you're actually going to if you're gonna come over here, like speak to the mic, just so to make sure they actually hear you. Yeah. So yeah, we could we could come back next week. If we remember to say, Well, if we do want to break up songs we can have our my, my favorite song. I don't know if it's my favorite song of sex too. But my favorite song about sex is our first time by Bruno Mars. I think if you didn't lose your virginity, that song you missed out. When she said that to me before we started, I was like, dang, because I missed it. You missed out. It's about and it's not even just like losing your virginity. It's like anytime the first time you have sex with a new partner because it is your first time. And that song was just very good. Anything by Bruno Mars. Really? I gotta kind of sarcastic question. Do you believe in born again? virgins? Like if you go so long without sex does your virginity regrow? Well, virginity is a social construct and a myth that doesn't actually exist in real life. There is no way to prove if somebody is that's actually not a white robe. Yes, but it was like a medical way. So the idea of your hymen being something that for women and the thing is when people think about that their first thought is women because virginity exists to shame women. Shame. Yes. Right. I can understand I never thought about, like, what when people would get married, they would literally take the blood, or the sheet that you had sex on for the first time, and it would have blood on it sometimes, because the woman had never done that before, which is also evidence that she was in pain and hanging outside their window to prove that she was crazy. And it's also crazy to think about you don't always believe that when you lose your women don't always believe when they lose their virginity that was and it's highly possible that women were not even highly possible true that women were targeted for something that they have no control over. So learn these type of things. were crazy. Because I always especially as a guy not knowing I'm like, Okay, I don't want to hurt you. And then and I it's also so scary how bad men can be or men how bad they can be like, sometimes I had sex with somebody and before we started she was told me like, yeah, like somebody's bruised my hymen before or like bruised by inside you can bruise your cervix. Yeah, sorry, Mom. I'm so sorry. bruise my cervix before I'm like, Hey, you have to go very, very. your cervix is quite deep inside your vagina. So you have to really slam it. Which sucks. I mean, if you're into the pain I'm not here to judge I don't get it. But you know you painted my bed. Anyway anyways, anyways, anyways, what is your favorite song song about sex or sound have sex to again us? There are so many good ones. I'd have to live with. I mean, I mean, it's our pockets. I also have freaked by dosha count on there. Just because I like the sample. The cuff it wetter remix. It's called the wetter remix for a reason. Let me cook Thank you.Not gonna I'm gonna just say there's just gonna waste too much time. Songs like, matter of fact, I'm gonna have two songs. I don't think neither of these are six songs but just shout out two songs. One of them could be considered chill wasn't that blast girl you chosen? I don't know that one. Blast shadow hentai Dallas. I like that one, but also a really good song. It's called Naked by LMA oh my god, I love that love that song just from the message of love song. Yeah. Oh, he's, I think yeah, well once you look at that it's a love song. It's literally the opposite of a sec song because she's a weak team. Okay. What did you think I was almost I was there's a different LMA song that I was thinking of. I do like that. So now my older sister actually put me on to that song. Okay, shut up, Mary. Okay, okay. I believe I'm trying to make sure that it is LMA that I got confused is it not LMA who sings that song? Oh, you confused do different people. That's what I think I did and that's why I'm embarrassed for Canada we love Alberta the reason why we and me make these type of jokes is because they're so not true. And she's so like a great person to our culture. So that's why we always miss word. That's why I don't seem that embarrassed because they know I don't actually I'm not racist. I was lucky by to put you on blast tell you about Okay, wait, I did get two black men confused, but they have the same first name. So ello ello IR that's justified. And the song Three hold this song sounds similar. The song that I was thinking of is we don't have to take our clothes off by Li Oh, I think we don't have to take our clothes. To have a good time. Yeah, and it sounds kind of like naked and they have the same first name. So I feel like that is a reasonable misunderstanding. But I do really like naked by LMI. Okay, so since we have 59 minutes anyway, do you want to? You want how do you want me out irritating me. They got that same first name. Anthony over here does not know artists, song titles or anything, I get one mistake and y'all come for me. I just wanted them to wag the finger at you. With that being said, just to get to our we have 15 minutes to end this off with whatever you want. Um, since this is on YouTube, and people can comment on YouTube, I don't know if anyone will. But if you want to comment different things that you might want to see us talk about just feedback in general, we would really appreciate that. Definitely. And be constructive though. Like we're always open to feedback, but don't be like this is terrible stop, because that would hurt my feelings. I mean, that'd be feedback and just been feedback listing of militant groups. Like that's crazy. Because you could reply to that on the comments. Yeah, but we didn't I didn't reply to the haters on our Instagram post. Also, if you don't like it, and you want us to stop, I don't think you would make it to minute 59 But if there's stuff you want to see us talk about, let us know. And Comment your favorite love and sex. Please do yes essentially breakup songs for next week is gonna be next week. It may be if we don't do weird porn first. I want to do weird pause but I want to do that episode when we say do weird porn or not doing weird episode topic but wagging the finger there's like a witch Loki pause
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