The Thing We Never Talk About

In this episode, Tim sits down with tour manager & tour accountant Paul Dalen for a candid conversation about money, career, and what it actually takes to make retirement a real possibility after decades on the road. Paul traces a career that has taken him from front of house audio engineering to production management to artist management and back to touring, including a period about 15 years ago when he found himself broke and starting over from scratch in his mid-50s. He talks openly about what that reset taught him, how a combination of fiscal discipline and good fortune in the markets turned things around, and why he thinks the touring industry's culture of financial avoidance does real damage to the people in it.

Paul's question for Tim: When might an S corp or any other corporate entity be worth considering for freelancers?

Key Takeaways:
  1. Paul has spent his entire adult life in the music industry, moving across roles from front of house engineer to production manager to artist manager to tour manager — a career arc shaped more by relationships and opportunity than by deliberate planning.
  2. His approach to underpaid gigs early in his career was to say yes for a short run while making clear it wasn't his normal rate, a move that consistently led to better opportunities.
  3. After his artist management business failed around 15 years ago, Paul found himself broke in his mid-50s and returned to touring with his tail between his legs. His path back to financial stability was built on basic principles — budgeting, fiscal discipline, and consistent investing.
  4. He advises people new to investing to just start somewhere, even imperfectly, rather than waiting until they fully understand how to optimize.
  5. Paul's approach to spending is experiential rather than material: theater, travel, good meals occasionally, and tickets to shows he wants to see. He also notes that not eating out regularly has been one of the quieter contributors to financial stability over the years.
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What is The Thing We Never Talk About?

The Thing We Never Talk About is an educational podcast about personal finance for creatives and other weirdos. We'll discuss managing cash flow with a lumpy income, when to save & when to invest, and how to reduce stress & build confidence when it comes to your money. No hot stock tips, no complicated strategies, and no finance bro jargon. We'll hear from artists, musicians, creative professionals, and other weirdos about how they navigate these questions for themselves. The Thing We Never Talk About is hosted by Timothy Iseler, CFP®, a former recording & touring audio engineer with 18 years experience in the music industry.

Timothy Iseler: I end every conversation
with a question for my guest, and you

asked if we could discuss when an S
corp or any other corporate entity might

be worth considering for freelancers.

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Today I'm speaking with Paul Dalen, a
tour manager based in New York City.

Paul has spent decades in the music
industry and in addition to being

a tour manager, he has worked as
a front of house audio engineer, a

production manager at venues like
The Fillmore and The Warfield in San

Francisco, and as an artist manager.

Not only is Paul in the situation of
actually being able to retire after a

career in music and a life on the road,
but he also had to completely start

over from scratch around 15 years ago.

It's a really interesting story
to hear how he went from basically

starting over at zero to being able
to retire, and I'm really happy to

be able to share it with you today.

So thank you for being here, and
please enjoy this conversation

with tour manager Paul Dalen.

How you doing, Paul?

Paul D: I'm well, thank you.

How are you?

Timothy Iseler: I'm very
well, thanks very much.

Paul D: Good

Timothy Iseler: so Paul, what do
you tell people you do for a living?

Paul D: I just say simply that I'm
a tour manager and tour accountant

Timothy Iseler: Okay.

Do you find when you say that, that, well,
first of all, do people have follow-up

questions, and if they do, what's
one of the most common ones you hear?

Paul D: Well, lots of follow-up
questions, which always lead to

interesting answers, because typically
what folks outside of music imagine

a tour manager does is completely
inaccurate, and their inclination is

to always refer to me as the manager,
and so I have to correct that.

And so then that leads to the conversation
of like, "Okay, well, if you're not a

manager, what does a tour manager do?"

And again, it's lots of things
like, "Oh, so you book the shows?"

Well, no, I don't actually book the shows.

"Oh, so you book the travel?"

Well, no, I work with a travel
agent and oversee all the travel.

Things like that.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

When was the last time you had a
job outside the music industry?

Paul D: Uh, when I was 16, I worked at B.

Dalton Bookseller in Prairie Village,
Kansas, in the receiving department.

Timothy Iseler: Very good.

okay, so, you got started early.

How have you seen the economics of the
touring industry change in that time?

Are there some things that are
easier, some things that are harder?

What's different?

Paul D: From my own perspective,
as I've become more established and

older, and thankfully my reputation has
grown, it's been easier financially.

as a tour manager who settles shows,
the underlying economics, quite

frankly, I find very disturbing.

So with the increase of
cross-collateralized tours or tours

that are done entirely by one of the
two largest promoters, or perhaps in

the case of comedy, there's a couple
of other players in that space, I mean,

this is a whole other conversation
presumably, but the economics, I

think, have become unsustainable.

You know, and it's nothing, it's
no great insight that I have.

This is things that e-
everybody knows about.

The cost of tickets, service charges,
ancillary fees for parking and the cost

of refreshments and things like that.

I just don't know where it's gonna end,
and I don't think it's gonna end well.

Timothy Iseler: Hmm.

If you had to imagine a scenario
where there would be a reset,

what would that look like?

Paul D: Yeah, I've
thought about that a lot.

I mean, I think the reset will be
people steering away from doing

tour deals with AEG and Live Nation.

Now, there are some, as you well know,
and a- as unlikely been discussed

on other podcasts, there are some
really compelling reasons why people

accept those offers and why those
offers are made in the first place.

so the reset, as I imagine it, would only
be just kind of a return to, uh, more

diversified promoters depending on market,
even if it's one of the two big ones.

It isn't exclusively one or
the other for the entirety of

North America, for example.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

On some of the tours that I managed,
we-- I've never been on a tour that

was exclusively booked or promoted by
one of those big companies, but you'd

get an AEG show every once in a while,
and it would almost kind of be like a

festival date where it'd be like, "Well,
okay, this show we're gonna get a really

big paycheck kind of regardless of how
well attended it is, and that, that'll

pay for, you know, the three days of
travel when we're in lower markets

where we're not gonna make much money."

I think e-even at the level that
I was working at when I was a tour

manager, there's this understanding
that like that money comes from…

The money doesn't come from nowhere.

Like, the money comes from other shows
that made more money and therefore

they can throw around more money.

And I, I don't know if you'll-- if
this analogy will make sense, but I was

thinking recently about how, for the
music community that I was a part of

in Chicago, there was this feeling that
the '90s and a little bit into the early

2000s was the era where an independent
artist could make money selling records.

And I only-- This only clicked for
me earlier this year that it was

also the time when CDs were the
dominant form of sales and where the

consumer was getting the absolute
worst deal on buying the good.

So it's, it kind of reminds me of the
same thing of like when the consumer's

getting the worst deal, sometimes
on the other side the people are

like, "Okay, the money's so great.

Why would we say no to this?"

Paul D: Yeah, when an artist is pr-
that's a really interesting observation,

and I haven't thought of the historical
context or the narrative arc of what

I'm referring to in terms of how Live
Nation and AEG came to be who they are,

other than the vision of the people that
have run those companies and what they

saw and some of the things that they
did in terms of owning properties and

having owned and operated buildings.

And the quote from Rapinoe, Michael
Rapinoe, the, the, uh, chairman

or whatever the title is of Live
Nation, so many years ago when he

referred to the business model, I'm
paraphrasing, but this part isn't

paraphrased, as a river of nickels.

So that's really fascinating how this
is, instead of being based around box

office gross, um, and that's where
promoters in particular made their

money, how in O&O, owned and operated
buildings, it's a whole other thing.

Timothy Iseler: Mhm.

Paul D: Wh- a whole other
financial, uh, structure.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

Well, so you and I know a lot of the
same people and kind of ran in some

of the same circles for many years,
but we only met earlier this year.

Are you comfortable sharing
what we talked about?

Paul D: Well, you might wanna remind me or
guide this conversation a little bit, but

I contacted you because I was looking for
guidance in terms of financial planning.

Big, you know, capital F, capital P.

Financial planning and everything
that that means: saving,

strategy, taxes, retirement.

What am I missing?

You know, just everything that
goes along with having a robust

and thoughtful financial plan.

And in my instance, it was motivated
by approaching, hopefully retirement.

Uh, so I've done a lot of research
through the years, a lot of homework.

I'm reasonably well-educated about
certain things in the realms of

personal finance and savings, but I
didn't always act on that knowledge.

So when I reached out to you, it
was about trying to find somebody

to, uh, review what I was doing,
guide, fine-tune, things like that.

Timothy Iseler: Mm-hmm.

did you first realize that retirement
could be a real thing for you?

Paul D: It happened pretty quickly.

I'm not alone in that the, I don't
know if it's historically unique, but

what's happened in the stock market
in the past 10 or 15 years has changed

a lot of people's lives financially.

and I think that says it all.

I mean, without going into too much
detail, there were things that happened

in the tech sector, you would know better
than I in other sectors, that really if

you had even a modest amount of money
invested in some of these places, it, it

could have a, a rather meaningful effect.

Um, so I had some good fortune,
uh, that kind of skewed things.

I also just have had like, as you would
hope and imagine, you know, as I've

gotten older, my income has gotten better.

Timothy Iseler: Hmm

Paul D: So, you know, it was about four or
five years ago that I kinda went, "Wow, I

might actually be able to pull this off."

And also, like really paying attention
to Social Security and what a so- Social

Security payout in my instance would mean.

How much is that really?

and that was a pleasant surprise.

So somehow it seems like
it's gonna be able to work.

Timothy Iseler: How deliberate were
you about getting gigs that paid more

money, and how much was that just
sort of like your reputation grew

so bigger bands were reaching out?

Were

Paul D: Yeah.

Timothy Iseler: strategic about that or

Paul D: No.

Timothy Iseler: good fortune?

Paul D: No, no, just good fortune.

Yeah, n- yeah, I mean, I, I've always
been, I've always tried to be as flexible

as possible with, um, uh, meeting
budgets and salaries whenever possible.

But of course, that means if
it's a gig that I wanna do.

I also did something really early on that
I never ever regretted, which is, which

is, uh, there were a couple of really
important gigs in my past that started

as being rather substantially underpaid.

Timothy Iseler: Hmm

Paul D: what I would do in those
situations, and fortunately quite often

they were short runs, so what I would
often do is go, "I'd really love to

do this for two weeks at that salary.

If something happens after that,
I, I really couldn't work for that.

But let's, you know, let's get
together, let's do some shows, see

how it goes, and go from there."

That always worked in my favor, always.

Timothy Iseler: You don't have to
name any names, but can you give

an example of how, just any one
example of how that played out?

Paul D: Yeah, I mean, there's a number and
I don't mind naming at least, uh, I mean,

the one that comes to mind is Chris Isaak.

It's like I lived in San Francis- I
was still a front of house engineer.

I wasn't a tour manager.

That's worth pointing out that I've
done a few different things in my

career in music, including management
and venue production management.

I worked for Bill Graham Presents when
I lived in San Francisco and was the

production manager at the Fillmore
for a few years and also the Warfield.

But at any rate, in the c- case
of Chris Isaak, I had moved to San

Francisco, I think in around 1996,
and I got offered a short tour.

Chris's long-time, all the way back to day
one, front of house engineer had passed

and they were looking for a replacement.

They made me an offer that was, I don't
know if it-- I can't remember the numbers.

I don't know if it was considerably
less than I was accustomed to

getting paid, but it was, you know,
noticeably less, and that's what I did.

I said, "Yeah, that sounds great.

I, I really…

That's below my norm or what I'd
like to have," however I worded it,

"but I'd love to do it and let's
see where it goes from there."

And it went well and that led to a
gig that lasted for quite a few years

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

That's great.

You just, you mentioned something that
I think is really important, i- if you

are gonna take a gig that pays less than
you normally take, and you want to, and

you're not bitter about it, is saying
something like, "I want to do this," but

like acknowledging that this is less than
I normally charge, but I want to do this,

so, you know, I'm happy to do it, right?

Because I think

letting someone know that you're doing
them a favor is, uh, sends a different

message than just them thinking you'll
work for cheap because you, 'cause

you'll work for anyone or something.

You know?

It's a, it's a different message.

Like, I want this, but, you know, PS I'm
taking a pay cut, but I still want it.

You know?

I think that's really important.

Paul D: Well, it's interesting.

It's very, very interesting.

I would say that a little bit
of, of nuance is required there

because I don't think it is a
good idea to send the message that

you're doing somebody a favor.

And this happened to me not that
long ago, where an artist who is, you

know, who does very, very well, but
in terms of reputation and perhaps

sales is a bit, uh, smaller than what
I've been doing the past few years.

And when I first got there, there was a
lot of talk about how grateful they were

that I was willing to do this, and that
isn't really the dynamic that I wanted.

I didn't want anybody to think that
I was there doing anybody a favor.

I was there giving my all, doing
the best job that I possibly could.

The salary was the salary.

So yeah, the message for me was, back
in the day, would've been clear that,

yeah, this isn't what I normally
get paid, nor would, uh, what I

would be willing or, you know, some
version, some diplomatic version of,

of what, what we're talking about.

That, you know, I couldn't really
do this for any kind of a long

period, but I'd love to go out, see
how it goes, and then we can talk.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

That's great.

Thanks for making that distinction.

It can be a, know, sometimes it's so much
about reading the dynamic of the other

person, which, used to have to be done by
phone, so you'd have no, no visual cues.

And then once they're even, like,
talking to people on Zoom or FaceTime

or something, like, sometimes it
can be really hard to tell if what

you're saying lands with them.

But yeah, there is, there's often a
fine line of, like, wanting to assert

your value without, without making
it a challenge or drawing a line

in the sand or something like that.

Paul D: And you used the word bitter.

I think that's really important too.

It's like to take a gig that before
you ever get to the first show,

you already have a resentment.

That's not good.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

The, it sucks.

I mean, I, I hate to admit it, but there
were gigs that I took just because the

dates lined up and the money was fine, but
I didn't care about the bands, and, it's

just like, "Oh, whatever, I'll do that."

And, and I don't know if I showed
up bitter, but every time I did

something like that where it was just
like I wasn't excited, but the dates

lined up and the money was okay, I,
I never ended up having a good time.

And of the things towards the end of my
career touring was just realizing, like,

I hated being the person on the tour
or one of the people on the tour who

is always complaining about everything.

You know,

Paul D: The worst

Timothy Iseler: it's a bad…

No one likes to be around that person, and
then it's just such an unhappy existence

to be every day bummed out about it.

So…

Paul D: yeah, I swore I would never
be the grumpy old roadie, and I've

been reasonably, not wholly, but
r- reasonably successful at that.

And a couple years ago, I left a
gig that was just a great, highly

sought-after gig because I started
to feel like I was a little…

My enthusiasm was waning.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah

Paul D: And it was really hard
because it was a highly sought-after

great gig, great artists.

I don't have an ill word to say about
them or anybody, but it was all on me.

It's like I was just not…

I felt like I wasn't bringing it
like I once was, and it was like,

"Oops, I see where this is going.

I gotta get out of here for my own good."

And, you know, for their good,
but also for my own good.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

That's a good point.

I know-- I don't wanna make this all
about roadies, but I know so many

roadies who allegedly love the jobs
they have, but you never hear them

talk about how they love their jobs.

You hear them talk about how much they
hate their jobs or hate their employer or

Paul D: And

Timothy Iseler: catering

Paul D: there is and there has
historically been a culture of complaining

Timothy Iseler: Uh-huh.

Paul D: in touring.

And some j--

Timothy Iseler: Why do you think that is?

Paul D: I'm not, I'm not sure.

I'm not sure.

I haven't really thought about
it much other than I don't wanna

be around it and I don't wanna
work with people that have it.

You know, the, the notion that any one
of us, that the entire tour runs or

doesn't run on the shoulders of any
one person is not only inaccurate,

it's counterproductive and it's
poisonous to the rest of the tour.

And the same thing with the
overly dramatic, "Oh my God,

everything's a problem."

It's like, here's an example
I'll just give about myself.

It's like, you know, this whole
thing about, "check Master Tour.

It's in Master Tour.

Have you checked Master Tour?"

First of all, that's true.

I love Master Tour.

I'm, was a relatively early on the scene.

I think it's great.

I use it on everything I do.

I even used it on my personal
vacation with my wife.

But the n- but the notion that a
tour manager would say with any

regularity, "It's in Master Tour,"
or, "Check Master Tour," I abandoned.

I'm not saying I didn't
do it, but I abandoned it.

It's like my job is to facilitate the
flow of information to make people

feel at ease, to create a culture of
security and safety and support so that

everybody on the tour, musicians, crew
members, transportation, management,

booking agent, and all the, uh,
publicist, everybody else on the

team is taken care of and feels good.

So if that's the case, which it is, for
me to say, "Have you checked Master Tour?"

It just doesn't fly with me.

It's like somebody has a
question, I'm gonna answer it

Timothy Iseler: Mm-hmm.

think it also assumes a lot generally
about humans, not to say musicians

or touring people, but most people
don't really read the emails they get.

They don't really read
the PDFs they receive.

Most people just don't.

And when you find someone who does,
that's awesome and, and it makes it easy.

But I think the idea that, the people
who thoroughly read emails is the

majority, I think that's a wrong idea.

Paul D: Yeah.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah,

Paul D: I think it's also important
to acknowledge that I, I'm saying

this from the luxury of being on tours
where they're really well-staffed.

Timothy Iseler: Oh yeah, that

Paul D: You know what I mean?

If you're the one-person army, you're
the tour manager, the production

manager, the tour accountant, the
front of house engineer, and you're

also helping with merch, I get it.

You just don't, perhaps
you don't have time

Timothy Iseler: Yeah

Paul D: to, uh, deal with the
dissemination of information

in multiple channels.

Maybe you really do have to say that.

But at any rate, uh, just for myself,
it's like that's why I'm here.

Timothy Iseler: So let's-- I
wanna steer the conversation back

to this question of retirement.

So you mentioned something like
maybe four to five years ago it

started to seem like a real thing.

If-- How were you thinking
about it before that?

Like let's say maybe 10 years ago, was
it something you wanted but just didn't

know, or did you just kinda think you'll
work until you couldn't work anymore?

How were you thinking about it?

Paul D: Well, i- in my circumstances,
m- my story is that, I don't know,

maybe 15 years ago, I was broke.

Like broke, broke.

Like almost lost the house,
declared bankruptcy broke.

And that's because I changed fields.

I went into artist management.

I was a manager.

I had an amazing client roster, but
they were all the types of artists

who were artistically respected but
ge- didn't generate a lot of income.

So when I ran that into the ground and
then went, "Wow, I have to figure out

how I'm gonna pay the bills," and I
returned to touring, it was, uh, not

something that I did enthusiastically,
and I kinda had my tail between my legs.

I mean, I, I think I
was like 55 years old.

It's like going back on the road?

Holy crap, I didn't see this in my future.

Well, it turns out I liked it very
much, and I continue to like it.

But to answer your question, 15 years
ago, I kinda just started from zero.

It's like how am I ever
gonna pull this off?

So I became more fiscally responsible by
doing all sorts of things that anybody can

find out about and that you probably coach
your clients in, in terms of budgeting

and being responsible with our finances.

And then it also came to a time
where luckily I went back on the

road and people wanted to hire me,
and I was getting really great gigs.

So does that answer the question or does
it at least start to answer the question?

Timothy Iseler: it definitely does.

having an experience like that where
you, where you try something new and

you put yourself out there and then you
fail in a way where there's, there's,

you know, there's no way you can spin
it that that was a success, right?

I think so, like, that's horrible and I
don't want people to have those kinds of

experiences, but I think that often that
leads to a very different perspective

life and career and what's important.

And I wonder, in your opinion, how
much do you feel like getting back

into touring after that experience was
because you had gotten into, like, such

a, such a bad financial place or because
you had your tail between your legs?

Paul D: integral.

That was a huge part of it, and I
think it's im- I mean, now we're, we're

getting into the notion of personal
growth, which is great and important,

and an important part of being a
person, a person in our industry.

it's really funny, I just pitched an idea.

You know, the conference
in Lititz every year

Timothy Iseler: Mhm

Paul D: that Marty Hom and, and
Stuart Ross, uh, and whoever

else kind of do, I just pitched a
panel to them something along the

lines of, you know, you're fired.

What hap- you know, what to do with
these types of what people would

rightfully refer to as setbacks.

So in my case, yeah, it had
everything to do with that.

You know, being humbled in
conjunction with being humiliated

can, can be a great teacher.

Some people become bitter.

S- some people feel cheated.

Uh, there's lots of different reactions.

If a person chooses to see these difficult
times in their lives, whatever they are,

health, loss, trauma, seeing those as
opportunities for personal growth, which

I know can be extremely difficult, that
makes all the difference in the world.

So yeah, when I went and returned
to touring, whatever ego I had

had been deflated considerably.

And so yeah, it was really
helpful to go back in and just

go, "Yeah, I'm, I'm starting over.

I'm returning to touring.

I'm a 55-year-old guy who, like, doesn't
have a touring gig on his resume for the

past," whatever it was, "10 or 12 years.

Now what?"

So yeah, it, it was a huge part
in, in getting me refocused

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

mentioned that some of the things that you
tried to get right or, or set right were

things like budgeting and, and, you know,
building up some stability in your life.

And then you mentioned that, because
of the way the stock market has

been over the last 15-ish years,
how you've been able to turn that

into something really meaningful.

How did you get started investing?

Was, was that something you kind of
always knew about, or was there a

point where n- when it was new to you?

Paul D: There's kind of a version
one and a version-- or part

one and a part two of that.

For whatever reason, in the '80s,
I became in, uh, more interested

in being fiscally solvent.

I think I ran…

I mean, I don't think, I know, although
I don't quite remember when I ran into

problems with the IRS as a young person
where I got, like, paid as a 1099 employee

and spent all my money, and then taxes
were due, and I didn't have taxes, and

then I didn't file for a few years.

So, like, once you go through that magilla
of the extremely unpleasant experience of

having to deal with the Internal Revenue
Service in, in that way when they're

coming after you for money, I realized
that I didn't want that to happen again.

So, I just dove in and decided
to learn everything I could.

Again, this was in the '80s or
'90s, so the resources available

for personal finance weren't as,
uh, broad or easily accessible.

So what I started doing was
watching whatever CNBC was

called before it was CNBC.

So, like, whatever the first ever
cable channel having to do with finance

was, I watched it all day, every day.

And I read a couple books, like from
Peter what's-his-name, the guy from

Templeton who, like, invented mutual
funds, and some of these early folks

who talked about f- the very simple
principles of dollar cost averaging, n-no

load index funds, things of that nature.

Um, and that kind of set
me on the trajectory.

I didn't do it for the longest time, and
then when I got into financial difficulty

and management, I wasn't able to do it,
and I had cashed out everything I had.

You know, whatever gains I had had in
terms of a very, very modest 401k that

I had from when I worked at Bill Graham
Presents and whatever, all that was gone.

So I had to start over.

But I still had that, you know,
what I would call very robust and

some of those proven pathways to
stability and growth in finances.

Timothy Iseler: Mm-hmm.

if you were to imagine somebody who's
maybe, maybe where you were 15 years

ago or maybe in a, a better spot,
but just a touring person sort of 15

years younger than you, what would
you wish that they knew about money?

Paul D: I'm sure people have said
it far more eloquently than me, but

that it's a tool and a resource.

It obviously can have dramatic effects
on, uh, how we live our lives and

certainly how we live our lives as we
get older or if we become disabled and

can no longer work, which happens to…

I mean, I don't think
it's an exaggeration.

It happens to 100% of us at some point.

The issue is whether that disability
comes sooner rather than later.

Uh, and, and also that it's not com-
it doesn't have to be complicated.

So the information that I got and the
information that most people get when

it comes to financial planning can
sometimes be, uh, feel overwhelming.

And what many people don't understand
is that someone who isn't a certified

financial planner and who doesn't
have the word fiduci- fiduciary

in their title, correct me if
I'm wrong, that's a salesperson.

If they're not a certified
financial planner and they're not a

fiduciary, they are a salesperson.

So some of these large houses that do
finances, the point is to generate income.

We live in a capitalist society.

That's how it works.

So that can be a little confusing
and daunting to, to people.

So I guess what I would wanna say, uh, is
that it doesn't have to be complicated.

It can be quite simple.

Start somewhere.

Just start anywhere.

Start somewhere.

Like, even if you do end up with
assets under management and you're

paying a commission, that's better
than not doing anything at all.

It may not be what you wanna do five
years or 10 years after you enter

into that relationship with a, you
know, with one of these companies.

But just, like, get, get started.

Now's the time.

It's never too late.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah, that was my own
experience when I started investing.

I had always been pretty good about
saving money, but as a kid growing

up, I didn't know it was even a thing
I could do, and it was much back

then for ordinary people to do it.

But when I, when I actually started
investing for the first time, I

was really, really surprised…

I kind of thought, like, someone's gonna
tell me I'm doing it wrong or something.

Like, I, I literally, I remember I was in
Denver, Colorado, at a cafe on tour, and

I looked up, "How do you start investing?"

And it was like, "Open an
IRA, buy an index fund."

And I did, and I was like, "Wow."

in o- you know, one hour, I've done it.

This was, it was so easy.

And, and, and I know it didn't used
to be that easy, but to your point, I

think a lot of people want to wait until
they're very positive about what's the

right thing or, or, or optimi- make sure
they know how to optimize everything.

And I think if you can just
start with whatever's easy and

whatever you can stick with.

Paul D: Absolutely

Timothy Iseler: as you get
comfortable with it, maybe you

can up the amount of money.

Maybe, maybe you add some diversification.

But just whatever you can start with
and whatever you can stick with, I think

is, is great, a great way to start.

I wanted to circle back.

I don't know that it's exclusively
everyone who doesn't have the, the

initial CFP or the word fiduciary in
their description, but those are things

that sort of indicate that the person
you're talking with is obligated to,

at the very least, minimize conflicts
of interest and also not accept

things like commissions or any kind
of trailing sales fees, which most

Paul D: Yep.

Timothy Iseler: know about, but that

Paul D: Yep

Timothy Iseler: in the
industry, these trailing fees.

Paul D: Yeah

Timothy Iseler: And so, there is, there's
lots of very well-known investment

houses in the business of selling
products because it generates commissions.

And That doesn't mean they're choosing
bad things for their clients, but there's

a conflict of interest because if they
are recommending investment A because

they get more money for investment--
for selling investment A, that's not

necessarily always in your best interest.

So, uh, certified financial planners
and people who use the word fiduciary,

fiduciary means you have to act
in the interests of your clients,

Paul D: yes

Timothy Iseler: so, for me, I never
receive any kind of commissions or

kickbacks, and there are situations
where I have to recommend something that

is financially not advantageous for me.

Or I have to acknowledge, "I think this
is a good idea, but if you do that,

that means I will make more money."

So I have to acknowledge that up front.

Like, you know, that might
not be why I'm making the

recommendation, but there it is.

And, and I guess back to the same
issue of complexity, I think a lot

of times, also just sort of like diet
and fitness and things like that,

like the simplest plans are often the
best because you can approach them.

So

Paul D: Agreed.

Yep

Timothy Iseler: idea, spend
less money than you make.

You know?

Like set a little money aside for taxes.

Really, really basic things that
don't require a ton of complexity.

And I think everybody can get
really, really far with just a

handful of basic rules that you
don't even hardly need to write down.

You know?

Just really intuitive stuff, and if you
can stick with that, you might never

need to work with professional like me.

Paul D: Well, there's great value in
working with, with a professional.

You just have to know what
the professional is all about.

And not to belabor the point, but yes,
if you're working with a firm who's

creating extremely complex investments,
which I would argue have a great deal

to do with trying to make sure that you
don't leave because it some- becomes so

complex that you're baffled and you don't
know how you could ever get out of it,

even if you would want to, and you're not
working with companies that are selling

you or pointing to you, pointing you
to proprietary products that, like you

said, they get not only sales commissions
for, but ongoing trailing payouts from.

As long as you're avoiding
that, that's great.

I had a relationship with Merrill
Lynch for a number of years, which

means I had assets under management,
and there was nothing wrong with that.

And it was great until it was time
to move on, and then I moved on.

So, you know, I'm with you.

Just there's a handful of really
simple things that can people do.

I'm sorry I didn't mention IRA, SEP
IRA, Roth IRA earlier, but you brought

that up and yeah, that's integral.

That's a huge part of, you know,
creating who we're going to be

financially, what, what the picture's
gonna look like as the years go by.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

What's something you love
to do that's cheap or free?

Paul D: Oh, almost everything.

Well, that's not true.

There's a lot of things I like to do.

I really like hiking, uh, I really like
reading, and I really like exercising.

And in my case, I-- the gym
I belong to in New York…

I live in New York City, the gym
I belong to is like a community

center, so it's not very much.

I mean, I have friends that belong
to these giant chains that pay, like,

$175-$200 a month to belong to these gyms.

So there's lots of things.

Again, I'm older, so it's like my
need for excitement is pretty low.

But I mean, going to museums and going for
walks and enjoying the company of my wife.

You know, just to step back to a
part of the conversation earlier,

one of the things that led me to
contemplate retirement, uh, more

seriously was the lockdown, was COVID.

Timothy Iseler: Hmm.

Paul D: mean, I didn't pivot to anything.

I mean, I took classes.

I became a COVID compliance officer.

I took a number of different
courses that I never used, but it

was still great knowledge to have.

I sat at home for two
years, and I loved it.

In my case, I loved it, and it worked
very, very well in my relationship.

So that was when I kinda went, "Huh."

You know, I love being a, a, a macher
tour manager and flying around in the

front part of the plane and staying in
five-star hotels w- on tours when that

happens, but I don't love any of that as
much as I love being at home with my wife.

So that's when I started to
think about, like, "Wow, I,

I want, I want more of this.

I'm ready for more of this."

Timothy Iseler: there's so much of it that
I can't tell if it's just like me getting

older or the career change or whatever,
but there was definitely a point where I

was like, work forever, like taking time
off is, you know, why would you do that?

And now I'm like, oh, you
know, build my life around my

life and not around my work.

Paul D: Absolutely.

Can you hear the rain?

Is it too noisy?

Timothy Iseler: Nah, it's all right.

I don't

Paul D: Okay

Timothy Iseler: What's something you love
to do that's expensive but it's worth it?

Paul D: Um, theater, vacations.

So travel c- which, you know,
isn't, doesn't have to be

expensive, but can be expensive.

Uh, meals now and again.

I mean, we don't eat out much, which
is probably worth pointing out might

have something to do with the fact of
being financially solvent, is that we

don't, we don't eat out all the time.

I try to buy tickets to
shows that I wanna see.

I really try not to ask for guest
list slots if at all possible.

And so y- you know, sometimes that
can add up, you know, depending

on what show you're going to

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

Paul D: But sorry, no, at this
point, no th- there are no things.

It's all experiential.

Timothy Iseler: Great.

Paul D: There aren't any things.

Cars, I don't care.

None of, none of it.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

You mentioned not going
out to restaurants as much.

has that always been that way
or is that a recent development?

Paul D: No, it's pretty much, I mean,
thankfully I enjoy cooking, but my wife is

really a good cook and enjoys it as well.

and she has had, for the past number of
years, enough time on her hands to kind

of do that, so that's been very helpful.

But at one point, up until right before
the panic, we owned a second home up

near Woodstock, uh, and that was great.

But, you know, I don't n- I mean, owning
two, owning a place in New York and

owning a place in Woodstock and having
two mortgages, you don't go out to a lot

of expensive restaurants in New York.

I mean, you can, but
you're gonna regret it.

So that kind of set the tone too.

It's like that wasn't, that wasn't
our priority, going out to fancy

restaurants or expensive restaurants.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah, yeah.

That makes a lot of sense.

Uh, I want to be respectful of your
time, I end every conversation with a

question for my guest, and you asked
if we could discuss when an S corp

or any other corporate entity might
be worth considering for freelancers.

And before I share anything about that,
do you want to add any color or context?

Paul D: Well, what I realized
after submitting that is it's very

possible you've already covered
that territory in another podcast.

But no, that's really about it.

I would just add that I had an S corp
for a number of years, and I think about

five or six years ago I shut it down.

I'm embarrassed to say I can't remember
exactly what led to that other than

the advice of my accountant saying,
"This is no longer beneficial for you.

The tax law has changed," or something.

Timothy Iseler: Okay.

Yeah, that, that's very helpful context.

so before I start talking about S
corporations, I wanna lay a little

groundwork and this, it's, this is
essentially a conversation about

taxes, so that's why your accountant
was giving you that advice.

And at a very basic level,
there's different types of taxes.

I think everybody understands that there's
sales tax, there's property tax, you

know, I pay tax on my vehicle, and there's
income tax, which is what you file with

the IRS every April, and then there's what
we can call employment tax that pays for

things like Social Security and Medicare.

And when you have a W2 job, that's called
FICA, and when you work for yourself,

it's called self-employment tax.

And it's the same thing.

It's a slightly different amount,
but it's basically about 15%.

And one thing I wanna point out w- with
all those types of taxes is they don't,

they don't really influence each other.

So whatever I pay in sales tax does
not make my income tax less, and

whatever I pay in employment tax
does not make my income tax less.

Because I think that's an
issue that related to S corps

that is confusing to people.

So when it comes to business entities,
the most basic kind is called a sole

proprietor, and anybody who gets a,
a 1099 is a sole proprietor, whether

they know it or not, or whether
they have a business name or not.

And the reason this matters is
because the IRS considers 100% of

the profits from a sole proprietor
business to be compensation.

And so all of it is eligible for
self-employment tax, and all of

it is eligible for income tax.

Okay.

If somebody decides they want to maybe be
a little more formal with their business,

the next step is usually to register an
LLC, which is a limited liability company.

And as the name suggests, an LLC limits
the liability between what the business

owns and what the business does and what
you, the owner, personally own and do.

And, uh, a great example for why you might
want this is, like, a lighting designer

who designs some kind of a rig to go
out on tour, if there's something unsafe

about that rig and somebody gets hurt and
they decide, "I'm gonna sue the person

who designed this," they could sue your
LLC, and your LLC might be wiped out, but

your personal assets would be protected.

So you wouldn't lose your house
and you wouldn't lose your bank

account and so on and so on.

Paul D: Which was one of the reasons
I started my S corp, although

there, as you know better than I,
there are different, uh, abilities

to shelter your personal assets.

Timothy Iseler: Not everything…

Like for example, a lot of times
if you have an LLC and you wanna

get a business loan, the lender
will require a personal guarantee.

So there is the ability with an
LLC for the business to have a loan

and the owner to not be responsible
for it, but depending on what your

business is, they may require that.

But just at a, a legal
level, that's what it is.

And one thing that trips a lot of
people up is that an LLC is a way to

organize a business, but it is not
a tax structure, and LLCs are taxed

exactly the same as sole proprietors if
there's only one member, or partnerships

if there's more than one member.

And in fact, the IRS considers a
one-person LLC to be a disregarded entity.

Paul D: Yes.

Timothy Iseler: for it.

Paul D: Yep

Timothy Iseler: And so, uh, one thing I'll
hear a lot of people say is like, "I set

up an LLC because it's good for taxes."

It's not good for taxes.

It doesn't influence taxes at all.

It's just about liability.

There is a thing though called a
subchapter S corporation, and that,

whereas an LLC is a business organization
and not a tax structure, an S corp is only

a tax structure and not a business entity.

So a business entity has to be
registered, and then it can choose to

have the IRS treat it as an S corp.

And the reason that's important
or the reason anybody would ever

choose to do that is once you have
an S corp, an S corporation, you

can treat yourself as an employee.

And what that means is that part of
your business profit can be treated as

compensation, but a portion of it is
not treated as compensation, and that

means that whatever portion is not
compensation avoids employment tax.

So whatever portion doesn't get treated
as compensation is taxed roughly

15% less than all the rest of it.

And it has nothing to do with income tax.

S corporation does not
influence income tax.

It only influences your employment tax.

And those just-- Everything I've said
right there is already, I think, pretty

confusing for people because I've talked
to people where they have a, an S corp and

they're like, "How come my, you know, how
come that didn't change my income taxes?"

And it's like, well, it doesn't
have anything to do with income tax.

It's just the employment tax.

And so getting, kind of getting
around to your question about when

this might be worth considering.

So anybody who has a registered,
w-what would be called a registered

corporation, but like an LLC would be
considered a registered corporation,

can choose to be treated as an S corp.

You, you fill out a form, send
it to the IRS, and they will

treat you as an S corporation.

There's no requirement that it,
it's of a certain size or certain

amount of revenue, et cetera.

So you could have-- you could launch a
business with zero dollars in revenue and

no clients, and you could choose this.

But there is a requirement that you
pay yourself as a W2 employee, so

you're gonna have some ongoing payroll
costs, and there are extra bookkeeping

requirements, and At the end of the
year, you have to fill out a form and

send it to the IRS, and even though the
entity does not get taxed, you still have

to file extra paperwork with the IRS.

So it is extra work, and that
work typically costs money because

you're typically hiring your
accountant to do it for you.

And for that reason, it doesn't
make sense if you're not making

very much self-employed income.

So if you're getting, you know, ten
thousand dollars in ten ninety-nine

income, it's not even worth the paperwork
involved to save a little bit of money.

And you're only saving on employment
tax, so it really only makes sense

if your profits are large enough
that that number is large enough.

And I don't wanna get too numbers-oriented
about it, but just roughly speaking, if

you're making less than a hundred thousand
dollars, I don't think it's really a

priority to choose the S corp election,
because whatever you're gonna save is not

gonna be a huge amount of money anyway.

I think it's really when you start to
get into that, you know, hundred K plus,

especially if you're in a realm where
you're making like hundred fifty, two

hundred K, then you're in a position to
save a pretty significant amount of money

by designating a portion of your profit
to be, uh, excluded from employment tax.

Does that make sense so far?

Paul D: Completely.

And my recollection, not to interrupt
you, is that when I decided, when I

opted for S corp versus LLC, and I don't
know if LLP was even being discussed, I

don't recall, um, I didn't understand it,
and I literally just took the advice of

my, my accountant who said, "You, you,
here's what you wanna do and here's why."

And I went, "Okay, I'm not really
sure if I understand the differences

between one and the other, but I
trust you, and you know what you're

doing, and you're a professional."

And so I opted to, uh, become an, a
subjector, subchapter S corporation

Timothy Iseler: Yeah, and it's the kind
of thing, if you h- if you're working

closely with a CPA and you've got a
good relationship, it is the kind of

thing that you can choose, you know, one
year I wanna treated this way, the next

year I don't wanna be treated this way.

You can do that, but it requires filing
the correct paperwork with the IRS in

a timely manner, and so that's often…

It's not that you can't do it yourself,
it's just, you know, it's awfully nice

when you have someone like a CPA to
say, "I think this year it's gonna make

sense to do this," or, "I think next
year it doesn't make sense to do that."

Paul D: The actual filing of the
documents in my case, getting set up

as an S corp, and I used QuickBooks,
my recollection it was onerous.

But I also remember that once it
was set up, it was a piece of cake.

It's like, it's time to fill…

It's time to send in your 940.

It's time to send in your 941.

It's like it was all prompted.

The forms were generally filled
out based on everything that I had

put into QuickBooks already, um,
and that part was pretty simple

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

Yeah.

If you have any kind of…

QuickBooks can run your payroll for
you, there's another platform called

Gusto that I use that it's just a plat-
uh, payments platform, it doesn't have

any-- Like, QuickBooks has the benefit
of being an accounting software…

gusto doesn't have that.

But yeah, once it's set up, you
can just say, "I wanna pay myself

X amount of dollars per month or X
amount of dollars every other week."

And, and then it is easy, and it will,
yeah, it will automatically fire off

those reports to the IRS or to your state,
you know, state department of revenue.

But, you know, it's more
hoops to jump through.

So again, if it's not-- If you're
not making a significant amount of

money, I don't think it matters.

there is one thing I wanna mention,
which is a little bit of a nebulous

gray area, which is the IRS requires
owners of S corps, who are called

shareholders, requires them to pay
themselves "reasonable compensation".

Paul D: I remember that now.

Yeah

Timothy Iseler: that's the specific
wording on the IRS documentation,

"reasonable compensation".

But there's no rule about
reasonable, uh, what reasonable is.

So if you're a chef,
there's no guideline for

Paul D: this

Timothy Iseler: much is
reasonable as a chef, but this

much is reasonable as an author.

There's no guidance on that.

And so what I would say is I would
avoid getting too cavalier about how

lean you want to make your payroll
and how big you wanna make the,

the, uh, the remaining profits.

Th- this is all just kind of ballpark
rule of thumb stuff, but if you're doing

50% payroll, 50% profit or anything below
that, I think you're gonna raise some red

flags and you might get into some trouble.

I think if you're more in the ballpark
of, you know, maybe 75% of it goes to

payroll and 25% goes to profits, I don't
think that's gonna raise any red flags.

But again, there's no hard and fast
rules here, and that's another reason

you would really want a CPA to sign off.

I was actually just meeting with a
prospect the other day, and they asked

me about tax planning, and this is
always what I say to people is like,

"I know, I know a fair amount about
taxes and I can share my opinion

about taxes, but I'm not authorized
to represent anyone in tax court.

And there is also no, like,
advisor-client privilege."

So if, if, you know If you get
called into IRS tax court, I

cannot withhold anything, right?

Whereas with a CPA, their job is to
be an expert on tax law, and so if you

have a question about, "Is this legal?

Can I do this?"

They can answer that, and they
can also keep that conversation

private should you ever get audited.

So if you wanna do-- if you wanna
choose an S corp election, first of

all, it doesn't make sense unless
you're making a lot of money, but

also I would really, really strongly
recommend looping in your CPA and

getting them to, to sign off on whatever
amount of payroll versus non-payroll.

Paul D: Yeah, that's great.

I mean, one of the reasons that I
selected the S corp when I had it,

although it sounds like perhaps I was
incorrect in this, was shielding personal

assets to some degree because I was
working at a lot of festivals, Bonnaroo

and Outside Lands and Electric Forest
and the list goes on and on, and felt

that if anything happened, um, that
I could be included in a lawsuit and

that somehow having an S corp might
allow me to protect personal assets.

Timothy Iseler: Well, the S corp requires
you to first register a business.

So it's, you know, I don't know
this, but it's likely that you first

registered an LLC and then that LLC
elected to be treated as an S corp.

Paul D: That's not my recollection, but
it's very well could be, and maybe the

state of New York is different than-- Or
is this a federal thing or a state thing?

Timothy Iseler: a federal thing.

Paul D: Yeah.

Okay.

Timothy Iseler: yeah, it has to do with,

Paul D: Got it

Timothy Iseler: taxes.

Paul D: Well, this has been great.

Thank you so much.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah.

Well, thank you so much.

I really appreciate it, and it's nice to
catch up and to hear more of your story.

Paul D: Uh, I hope I'm down in
your neighborhood again before too

long and we can meet face-to-face.

Timothy Iseler: Yeah, please let me know.

I'd be happy to come out and say hi.

Paul D: Will do.

Timothy Iseler: All right.

Thanks, Paul.

Paul D: Thanks very much.

Timothy Iseler: Bye.

Paul D: Bye

Timothy Iseler: thank you to
Paul for speaking with me today.

As a former touring professional myself,
I know how distant or unlikely the idea

of retirement can feel when you don't even
know who you'll be working for next year

or what kind of money you'll be making.

And I really appreciated Paul's honesty
about having to start over in his

mid-fifties and how that experience,
as painful as it was, turned out to

be exactly what redirected him towards
a more intentional financial life.

I hope it's useful for anyone in
a similar position to hear that

it's never actually too late to
get pointed in the right direction.

That's it for today.

Next week, I wanna talk about an
interesting perspective I picked up

from a book by a person named Cullen
Roche called Your Perfect Portfolio, and

that is the idea that diversification
within your investments is sort of

like insurance against the various
quirks and risks that come with

each individual type of investment.

It's a little nerdy, but I think this
framework really makes it clear what

roles different types of investments can
play in building solid financial health

and why diversification is important.

I will see you back here next week.

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