Morning Cereal

Start your day with inspirational quotes, followed by a fun journey through nostalgic facts from this day in history. Then, we dive into Stephen R. Covey’s The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People 
In Part 2, Chapter 2, we’ll explore Covey’s timeless advice on building authentic connections, the art of influence, and creating positive interactions in every area of life.
In This Episode:
  • Daily inspirational quotes to spark your motivation
  • Fun historical facts from this day in history
  • A dive into Part 2, Chapter 2 of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective
Whether you're a leader, communicator, or just someone looking to improve your relationships, this episode is packed with actionable insights.
Tune in now and let’s grow together!
Resources:
Covey, S. R. (1989). The 7 habits of highly effective people: Powerful lessons in personal change. Free Press. 
 
All photo’s utilized in this video are licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported by Wikimedia Commons license and are free to copy, distribute and transmit.  No photos have been altered.

What is Morning Cereal?

Good morning, and welcome to Morning Cereal!
Pull up a stool, grab your favorite cereal, and let’s kick-start your day with a spoonful of inspiration, nostalgia and personal growth. Join your host, Shaen Inglis, as he highlights the music, movies, and moments that made the 80s, 90s, and 2000s unforgettable—kind of like digging for toy at the bottom of the cereal box. Each episode, Shaen also reviews a chapter or so from top wellness books, offering practical insights to help you set a positive tone for your day. Start your mornings right—no cartoons required!

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Good morning.

And welcome to morning cereal

Okay, good morning

and welcome to Thursday.

Well, you've made it past Wednesday and

now we're officially in the emotional

stretch of the week,

where we all pretend we're

gonna catch up on our to-do list,

but it's gonna be Friday before we know

it and then it's the weekend,

so we might as well just do it on Monday.

Well, it's not just another Thursday,

it's National

Chocolate Chip Day Thursday.

So if someone questions your breakfast

cookie, just tell them it's tradition.

And it's also bring flowers to someone

day, which could be

sweet or really awkward,

depending on who you

pick to bring flowers to.

And then lastly, it's

International Day of Families,

which is a nice reminder to call your

people, or at least

text them a gif that says,

"Thinking of you" with a picture of a

confused cat, you

know, however you do it.

All right, well, let's kick off the day

with some inspiration from Emmett Smith,

the NFL Hall of Famer and

all-time leading rusher.

Emmett Smith said, "All

men are created equal.

Some just work harder in the preseason."

It's a reminder that

success isn't always flashy,

it's forged in the

stuff no one sees, right?

The quiet mornings, the extra reps, the

off-the-record grit.

So today, do the work that future you

will thank you for,

even if no one's watching.

Today's news facts and

birthdays are for May 15th,

and we're gonna start back in 1928.

That's when the first Mickey Mouse

cartoon, "Plain Crazy,"

was screened in Los Angeles.

Now, this was a silent film in which

Mickey tries to fly an airplane,

and it was in

reference to Charles Lindbergh.

Then we're gonna skip up to 1940, and

that's when the first

McDonald's opened up

in San Bernardino, California.

Now, at that point in time,

hamburgers were just 15 cents,

and no one was Instagramming their fries.

Well, in 1940 on this date, this is a big

one that we all have

on our calendars too,

this is the day that nylon stockings

first went on sale to the general public,

and stores sold out in just days.

That's a fashion

trend that will never end.

Then in 1988, on this date, the Soviet

Union began to withdraw from Afghanistan

after nearly a decade of conflict,

signaling a turning point

in the Cold War history.

Okay, I'm gonna add a new segment here

that we're gonna get into where we're

just taking a look at

some of the top headlines

from around the country today.

Hot off the press.

All right, Target reported better than

expected quarter one earnings.

That was driven by lower inventory costs

and a surge in essential shopping.

So investors are watching to see if this

sets the tone for

retail earnings this season.

All right, next, the New York Times says

a bipartisan group of senators introduced

a new immigration legislation, which

focuses on the skilled

labored visas and border security.

So hoping to bridge a long standing

political divide here.

And then lastly, NPR has reported that

NASA has officially

partnered with private companies

to develop lunar habitats

for future Artemis missions.

Now what that means, humans may soon be,

you know, glamping on the moon.

Well, happy birthday to

you if today's your birthday.

You share a birthday with Hall of Famer

running back Emmet Smith.

He's 56 today.

Then actor and singer best known for his

Baywatch roles and on

Melrose Place, David Charvet.

He's 52 today.

And then lastly, British tennis legend

and Olympic gold medalist Andy Murray.

He's just 37 today.

And the number one song

on this date back in 1999.

Everybody knows it, "Live in La Vida

Loca" by Ricky Martin.

Now this track didn't

just top the charts.

It blew the doors off pop radio.

It actually marked the Latin crossover

explosion, if you remember

that back in the late 90s.

And it helped define

the late 90s music vibe.

It was bold.

It was bilingual.

And yes, it gave TRL its entire

personality for about three months.

All right.

Well, let's turn the page on today with

our ongoing journey through Stephen R.

Covey's "The Seven Habits

of Highly Effective People."

And we're still in part two, chapter one.

And we're zooming in on the sub-chapter,

"Expanding the Circle of Influence."

Now Covey's core message here is

deceptively simple, but wildly powerful,

as we've talked about before.

Effective people focus

on what they can control.

That means investing time and energy into

what he calls the circle of influence,

not the circle of concern, right?

The circle of concern, as we remember,

includes things that we care about,

but we can't directly impact.

Things like national politics, the

economy, climate change.

Our neighbors' obsession with leaf

blowers and water mitigation.

Well, meanwhile, the circle of influence

includes things that we can actually do

something about.

Our habits, our mindset, our work ethic,

how we treat people, and

how we respond to setbacks.

Now Covey is being very intentional here

to be repetitive on these concepts,

that we really ingrained them into how we

think and to how we

respond to things, right?

So Covey writes, "Proactive people focus

their efforts in the circle of influence.

They work on the things

they can do something about.

The nature of their energy is positive,

enlarging, and magnifying.

It causes their circle

of influence to increase."

So this idea of positive energy,

expanding your influence, is one of

Covey's central themes.

He's not just telling us to ignore

problems that we can't fix,

but he's saying that real power grows

when we stop

complaining and start building.

And at this point, he also continues to

remind us that different problems fall

into different categories, right?

We remember direct control.

Those are our own behavior.

Secondly, indirect

control, other people's behavior.

And thirdly, we have no control.

Things we just must accept.

But in each case, Covey offers a

proactive solution, okay?

So for those direct control, we need to

practice our habits and have discipline.

For those indirect control, we need to

use our influence and communication.

And for the items that we have no control

over, we just need to

practice acceptance and wisdom, okay?

Focusing on our circle of

influence builds credibility,

builds trust and

resilience within each of us.

So when we're steady and consistent, even

in the small things, people notice that.

Doors will begin to open

and our impact begins to grow.

So ask yourself, am I stuck in the

concerned circle or am I

acting in my influence?

Covey's advice is a

challenge and an invitation.

Don't wait for the change.

Be the change and watch

your influence follow.

So the takeaway, stop spinning your

wheels on the stuff you can't change.

And double down on what you can change.

Your circle will grow,

your stress will shrink,

and you'll start showing up in the world

with purpose instead of panic.

As Covey puts it, quote, "Anytime we

think the problem is out there, that

thought is the problem."

End quote.

Hey, thank you for

starting your day with us today.

Come back tomorrow for a fresh batch of

new quotes and facts

and talk about songs and a little bit of

book smarts as well.

But until then, focus on your circle.

Notice the beauty out there.

And maybe sneak a chocolate chip or two. Hey, have a fantastic day. Business and finance.

And we welcome special guests too.

So join us.

It'll be a good time.

I promise.

Thanks again for listening.

Have a fantastic day.

And we'll see you tomorrow.