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Rock bottom, like the beginning where you started single mom to now. What kind of things did you struggle with, and how did you overcome them?
Betzabe Wintermute:My name is Betzave Wintermute.
Linnsey Dolson:I look over, and she's so cute. She's in her business suit. She's got her boobs pushed up. It's like cleavage and I'm like, yes. People don't realize growing a business and raising babies is it's not for the weak.
Linnsey Dolson:Just seeing this new launch of it's like lingerie. Right? Oh my god. Come here. Okay.
Betzabe Wintermute:Let me tell you. Let me tell you.
Linnsey Dolson:I am gonna be ordering.
Betzabe Wintermute:Laura is gonna show them to everybody. Love yourself. Show your body, enjoy your moment, fall in love. It doesn't matter your age, but love it. When you love yourself, it's better than buttocks.
Betzabe Wintermute:You feel so young. You glow. You glow. It it is better than stem cells, I will say. Yeah.
Betzabe Wintermute:My nonprofit is where we go back and talk with you. Educations. I would like to, you know, build schools. I would like to help empower women with education. Look at you.
Betzabe Wintermute:Self esteem, You know? Teaching not only the mom, but teaching the kids. And what is the kid? It's the future. Business here, but
Linnsey Dolson:I want my shoes borderline stripper and the boobs gotta be hanging out.
Betzabe Wintermute:Right? Push it. Push it. Push Right
Linnsey Dolson:there to copy. Say your company name and then about it.
Betzabe Wintermute:We start all over again?
Linnsey Dolson:Oh, Well, no. No. No. No. Just yeah.
Linnsey Dolson:Just start. We're good. She'll figure out where to cut over. Alright. So It's yours.
Linnsey Dolson:Damn it. Because I use blue I use blue for something for
Betzabe Wintermute:It comes in some words.
Linnsey Dolson:Damn it. Where were Let
Betzabe Wintermute:me finish it. +1, 23. Oh.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh, I
Betzabe Wintermute:got it.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh, I love it. Okay. Okay. We're good. Welcome to Bare It All with Lindsay.
Linnsey Dolson:You this is our first episode in our new LA studio and I'm so excited you guys. And I have an incredible guest. This girl's vibe, I just love her. I'm gonna have to tell you about the first time I've seen her, but introduce yourself.
Betzabe Wintermute:Oh my goodness. Thank you, my love. My name is Betzave Wintermute.
Linnsey Dolson:I love that.
Betzabe Wintermute:You can call me Betsy.
Linnsey Dolson:Okay. Yeah. The I asked her how do we, pronounce your name, she told me, and I was like, I'm gonna let you pronounce it because I don't
Betzabe Wintermute:wanna really have it all. Here, the Latino style.
Speaker 3:I love
Betzabe Wintermute:We have the American style, so we can compromise.
Linnsey Dolson:There we go, so Betsy, I love it. I love it. So I gotta tell you guys, the first time I seen her, we were at an event in LA and it's like it was I think it was more on like mindset and all that kind of event. And I look over and she's so cute. She's in her business suit and I'm like, this is my girl.
Linnsey Dolson:She's got her boobs pushed up and it's like cleavage and I'm like, yes. Like I knew you were my girl because I'm the same way when I'm in a business suit. Business here, but I want my shoes borderline stripper and the boobs gotta be hanging out.
Betzabe Wintermute:Right? I'm like, that's my vibe. Push it. Push it. Push I know.
Speaker 3:And she's so cute.
Linnsey Dolson:I love that. But I can't wait to hear your story. Like, I've seen so many incredible things you have going on. Tell us a little bit about yourself and what you have going on.
Betzabe Wintermute:Wow. Yes. There's so many things. And being, you know, in this beautiful country, being an immigrant woman, coming from immigrant parents.
Linnsey Dolson:Right.
Betzabe Wintermute:I have a lovely father, my mother, my brothers and sisters, and working hard. You know? I was married, divorced.
Linnsey Dolson:Okay.
Betzabe Wintermute:And I was in the moment that you open the door, you don't have nothing. You build everything from the bottle.
Linnsey Dolson:I love
Betzabe Wintermute:stories. You're trying to to pulling up. You're trying to get in into the mountain, and sometimes you're falling down again. You have a tears. You've been in your knees, and you say, why?
Betzabe Wintermute:Why? Why me? Right. But at the end of the day, all those experience, all those emotions make you what? Make you a warrior.
Betzabe Wintermute:Yeah. The the tears you wipe up and says, okay. Just call me. What is next? I love
Linnsey Dolson:that. No. It does.
Betzabe Wintermute:Mhmm.
Linnsey Dolson:Because how long have you been here?
Betzabe Wintermute:Oh my god. More than twenty years.
Linnsey Dolson:More than twenty years. Okay. So your parents were immigrants and you came in here and
Betzabe Wintermute:you said
Linnsey Dolson:you started from nothing.
Betzabe Wintermute:From nothing. Sure.
Linnsey Dolson:Rock Bottom is the best foundation. Every I swear the most amazing people I've met all started at Rock Bottom. I love that. So tell me how you got here from rock bottom.
Betzabe Wintermute:Okay. So I was married, happily married.
Linnsey Dolson:Okay.
Betzabe Wintermute:And have two beautiful kids. And things don't go well. You say it was an experience. You learn it, and I have the choice. Or I start crying, why is happiness to me?
Betzabe Wintermute:Or the other one, hey, let's open the door, let's see my talents, and let's go. That's what I did. Thank God I have my career in the medical field, and I'm a first assistant of a surgeon, so I work in a surgical team. I also have my first business, it was a private care. Oh, okay.
Betzabe Wintermute:Yeah. It come out in my terrible divorce when you feel that you don't have nothing, and that you start taking care of patients and as your private care with care givings and stuff like, you know, the whole thing. And that experience make you appreciate life. Then not only one door is closing, is another big, big, huge door is open for you. Right.
Betzabe Wintermute:And you start to see how God create you, and you're gonna be developing all your talents. And they start with one business, the second business, and along being a professional, being a mom, being a single mom, trying to do those two careers, you know, being a father and a mom. You're never gonna cover the father figure because father figure has to be there. Right. By just being a strong mom, being a warrior, and it was my biggest I will say, work hard for that.
Betzabe Wintermute:Yeah. You know? I have a two beautiful you know, my daughter is gorgeous. She has her own business, independent.
Linnsey Dolson:Love that.
Betzabe Wintermute:My son is almost finished high school. So in that moment that you are growing up, that you are knowing yourself, and you are trying to see what else is next for you. But in my mind, it's always is why I can cheer, why I can elevate other people, why I can inspire other womans. Hey.
Linnsey Dolson:Right.
Betzabe Wintermute:Yeah. It's okay to cry, but wipe your tears,
Linnsey Dolson:get up, and make it happen. Well, and you're doing that while raising babies. Right? Because it's Exactly. People don't realize growing a business and raising babies is it's not for the weak.
Linnsey Dolson:It's not for the weak because you're like, okay, you wanna spend your like, there's two grounds. Right? Because you wanna push harder because you wanna build an empire for your children, but then you don't wanna be away from them either. Right? So it's like finding that ground.
Linnsey Dolson:And so I love that you did that.
Betzabe Wintermute:The balance and the moments, and sometimes single mothers, because I wanna talk about that. Right. Single mother is a title. It
Linnsey Dolson:sure is.
Betzabe Wintermute:You know, it's a profession because you need to compromise in different areas. On top of that, let me tell you, you don't forget about you. Right. Like you say, one and two, push it up because you have to feel beautiful. You have to feel pretty.
Linnsey Dolson:You have to love yourself. You can't pour from an empty cup. I always say that. Take care of yourself first. Like on the airplane, what do they say to do if it crashes?
Linnsey Dolson:You put your mask on you first before you can save others. No. It's that is the most important. So many moms forget that too, though. Don't you think?
Linnsey Dolson:Like, I see a lot of women I know that are like, oh, I haven't had time to shower. My hair in a bun. And I'm like, no. No. Take care of you.
Linnsey Dolson:Because when I look good and I feel good, I execute at a completely different level.
Betzabe Wintermute:We are an example who is at your side. Who is at your side? Your kids. They feel everything what Yeah. You just Every action, every walk.
Betzabe Wintermute:So I see my daughter right now talking to my son, woah. You're gonna be this is the last, you know, years of school. We're gonna plan it like that. And I said, done. She was training pretty good.
Linnsey Dolson:I love it.
Betzabe Wintermute:She's mama there. I'm okay, dad.
Linnsey Dolson:They see everything. They do. They do. Oh,
Betzabe Wintermute:I love that it this sounds moment. This is a beautiful cozy. You're making me feel
Linnsey Dolson:Oh, I love that.
Betzabe Wintermute:Goddess. It's exactly. Goddess.
Linnsey Dolson:You know what? So this is my first episode in LA. And when I seen you at the event, I was like, something about her. So I found you on Instagram. And then I started watching you on Instagram and I'm like, I want her as my first So
Betzabe Wintermute:I reached out to I just
Linnsey Dolson:I just love everything about you and the fact that you're like a single mom and you have all these things going on. I just seen this new launch of it's like lingerie. Right? Oh my goodness. Okay.
Betzabe Wintermute:Let me tell you. Let me tell you.
Linnsey Dolson:I am gonna be ordering. Yes.
Betzabe Wintermute:You know, Elura Wood is trying to send the message is to make you feel sexy, to make you feel beautiful, to make you feel thy spirit that you can love again, that you can show who you are, you'll be in love with you. It doesn't matter your curves over curves, your color, your race, and if you're in the middle of the mountain, you need to show them. You know, we are always thinking, oh my god. This part of our, you know, part of our, you know, body. I've been told, and I met this person who is, you know, learned from that is that when you love yourself, it's like it's a it's better than buttocks.
Betzabe Wintermute:You feel so young. You glow. You glow. It it is better than the stem cells, I will say to you.
Linnsey Dolson:No. Absolutely. Absolutely. You can see it on someone's face when they truly love their self and they're confident because
Betzabe Wintermute:I mean, you
Linnsey Dolson:just see it in every aspect of them. I mean, that's so I just I love that. And I feel like people are not confident in their bodies. Exactly. You know, they feel like they have to cover up or uncomfortable or any of that.
Linnsey Dolson:I think I'm like overly comfortable with my body. Like in this sense, but it's because I'm so confident. Where I'm like at a photo shoot and I'll just like change and I'm like, oh, wait. I need to go to the bathroom and
Speaker 3:change or I'm on cruises all
Linnsey Dolson:the time and if you're on vacation with me, at some point, I'm gonna pop a titty. It's just gonna happen. They pop out of
Speaker 3:my bathing suit at some point. And I'm never really embarrassed, but usually the person who catches a sight is way more
Linnsey Dolson:embarrassed than I'm like,
Speaker 3:oh, sorry. Put it back in. And because I'm just, like, confident with it. I'm like, this is me.
Betzabe Wintermute:You know? Because you are in love with yourself.
Linnsey Dolson:I am.
Betzabe Wintermute:So Elura is gonna be targeting all the you know, any audience out there, they wants to. Yeah. You know? They wanna wear. They wanna feel again.
Betzabe Wintermute:And that's the whole message. You know? I love beautiful? It's comfortable? Goes for different shape.
Betzabe Wintermute:It's colors. You know?
Linnsey Dolson:It's so cute. I love it. I love it. And so tell me a little bit about your plan of who you're trying to reach with that and your target, you know, market, all of that.
Betzabe Wintermute:My market is every woman. I love it. Yeah. Every woman out there. Yep.
Betzabe Wintermute:You know? If you're in your car, living in your car, wear it. And if you don't have a place, wear it. Because you know what? Let me tell you one thing.
Betzabe Wintermute:You're getting the energy, and you're gonna conquer things, and you're gonna get at things. You're gonna feel so pretty and it says, oh, okay, if I live in my car, I wanna get an apartment. I wanna get this. Because life is based and encounters small steps. Small steps.
Betzabe Wintermute:And you can grow, you can get it that one day you're gonna say, hey, I wanna get an education. Right. And please go into the medical field, go into the nursing. So I will say this is an inspiration coming from a very humble woman who I was in the battle. It started with nothing, and I can make it.
Betzabe Wintermute:You can make it. That's simple.
Linnsey Dolson:I love You know, that's the best attitude to have. Like, if I can do it, you can do it. I think that's where it's so important for people because, you know, for you and I, we currently are successful, but we started from nothing. Right? And showing people just the success, I feel like people can't relate with that.
Linnsey Dolson:They need to see the struggle. They need to see that, no, this was actually built from nothing. Like I was a struggling single mom or for me, I was a homeless drug addict, you know? And I have this life today and if I can do it from that, you can surely do it. Exactly.
Linnsey Dolson:And it's like sharing that hope and the raw vision of, like, truly where this began.
Betzabe Wintermute:And everybody has their own devils. Oh. Everybody has their own team to wanna make you disappointed, to make you feel that you cannot make it, to talk about you, to gossip about you. They wanna ruin your reputation. They wanna do anything.
Betzabe Wintermute:But let me tell you, they cannot do this because we are warriors. We can make it. We can conquer. And whatever we're going through, we're gonna make it happen.
Linnsey Dolson:I love that. And everybody how you said everybody has their own, like, demons or their own, you know, worries. I feel like we all struggle in different ways, whether it's anxiety, whether it's depression Oh, yes. Whether it's even a lack of energy, a lot of it is fear. So many people are just, like, so stuck in their fear.
Linnsey Dolson:And so these are all common things too. And it's like people don't understand that. The people who are successful, we still struggle with this. There's days I wake up and I really don't feel like doing shit. Like I don't always wake up like, woo, I'm ready to call for the world.
Linnsey Dolson:Exactly. Wake up and I'm like, I don't feel like doing shit, but I do it anyway. Or there's things that I wanna do and I'm like, oh, I'm super scared. What if that doesn't go good? But you do it anyway.
Linnsey Dolson:So tell tell me a little bit about that. As you went from like, you know, rock bottom, like the beginning where you started single mom to now, what kind of things did you struggle with and how did you overcome that?
Betzabe Wintermute:Oh, absolutely. Especially for me being an immigrant, you know? Yeah. You go and suffer for different different negatives, you know? Sure.
Betzabe Wintermute:People, gonna be saying, oh, your accent. Oh, your color. Oh, your this, this, this, this, this. It's a 100%. Boom.
Betzabe Wintermute:Boom. Boom. Boom. Sure. I learned this one for one of my mentors is my grandma.
Betzabe Wintermute:Oh, My father. Okay. People, they already passed. They influenced so much in my life. And always my father says is program yourself.
Betzabe Wintermute:Program yourself what you're gonna do the next day. See it. Visualize. You wanna get into a car, freaking see it yourself driving a car. Yeah.
Betzabe Wintermute:Period. And that's what I started doing. I visualize where I'm gonna be, where I'm gonna live, what I'm gonna do, how my business is gonna look, what is my daughter's gonna be, what is my son's gonna be manifesting.
Linnsey Dolson:Right.
Betzabe Wintermute:But picture it. Yeah. Dreaming. Close your eyes and see and then feel that if it's a beautiful car, and then hear the noise.
Linnsey Dolson:No. I love that.
Betzabe Wintermute:To do it. You know? You need to really rat it up. And the same happens to any woman. When I start doing and I was in a practical in the street, know how a place to live with two kids.
Betzabe Wintermute:Oh, wow. Very professional, and I lose everything. Marry a divorce can be so freaking ugly.
Linnsey Dolson:And Yeah. Oh, yeah.
Betzabe Wintermute:Being into, you know, in an abused relationship, you says enough is enough. When I say enough is enough, I knew that's when the the fight is gonna start. Your own battles.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh, yeah.
Betzabe Wintermute:But you know, like, you are not in the grids and then all of sudden you have a big thing in the back, you just only have a gut and probably nobody. Right. Probably nobody. And that's when did you program it yourself? I close my eyes and I see myself in my place, and I got this tiny small plate for my for my kids and then my first business, my my second business, and dreaming what I'm gonna do, and I'm still dreaming because nobody is gonna take your dreams.
Betzabe Wintermute:Nobody. Nobody takes what you have inside they can talk about. It's you who build your temple.
Linnsey Dolson:And that's your mindset. Your mindset. It's your mindset. Your mindset will make or break you. People don't realize that, and this is I say this all the time, but it's like, whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right.
Linnsey Dolson:And it's like, it doesn't matter if no matter where you're at, I was told a story that I was sitting like on a couch in rehab.
Betzabe Wintermute:Mhmm.
Linnsey Dolson:And I had just came from a twelve year meth addiction. And I'm sitting on this couch and I literally lost parental rights to my first five children. I had teeth missing. That's how bad I was. And I remember sitting there and I'm like, okay, what now?
Linnsey Dolson:Like, I'm sober, but like, what now? I have fucking nothing. And I remember sitting there and I manifested that so in detail just like you talk about. I said, I'm gonna have a business and I am gonna make a ton of money. And I remember at that time, all I wanted, my kids all needed braces.
Linnsey Dolson:And that was my first goal is to have enough money to put braces on all my kids. And I remember picturing myself like I used to watch the Kardashians. And I was like, okay. I'm picturing myself in LA. I'm picturing myself like these big houses.
Linnsey Dolson:And I'm like, I was manifesting in detail. I manifested my pink car. I drive a pink car, and I started manifesting that early on. And, like, it's exactly how you said. And I went from that couch within five years.
Linnsey Dolson:I had a multimillion dollar business. You see? And it's just like the manifesting. It was like, I at that moment, I didn't know how the fuck I was gonna do it. I just knew I was gonna do it.
Linnsey Dolson:Right? I didn't know a way, but I knew why. I was gonna do it for my kids and I was gonna do it for myself and I would And find a it's just the mindset. I it is. And it's like what you talked about.
Betzabe Wintermute:It's absolutely right. It not only dies, the right words, I can do this. Every time that I am in a moment that I feel somebody push me down and you feel like, oh my god, how what? It is me in this moment, and I close my eyes and says, Betzave, you can do this. It's easy.
Betzabe Wintermute:You can do this. Right. And that's the word everybody has to use it. Yes, I can do this. And I will do this way, this way, this way, and write it up and read it every day.
Betzabe Wintermute:And another one that I I I told my kids is, put it on in your in your mirror, which you just always wanna brush your teeth. Yes. You I can do this. I can read. I can do this.
Betzabe Wintermute:I can do the other one. I can build a business. You know? It it's just your mindset. It has to be Right.
Betzabe Wintermute:Positive every day and positive, you yes. Know, Over and over and and telling yourself, I'm beautiful. I matter. I can do this. I can go back to school.
Betzabe Wintermute:I can, you know, create a business. I'm gonna be the best mother today. I am gonna be teaching my kids that. I'm gonna prepare my kids because your kids is you have to prepare like a soldiers because we are not there forever. You know?
Betzabe Wintermute:We are not there forever.
Linnsey Dolson:Yeah.
Betzabe Wintermute:So one day, they have to be have their own experience. So that's the reason why as your moms, as your, you know, female figures for them is the most important thing.
Linnsey Dolson:It so is. And I think, you know, like, personal development. I as soon as I got out of, like, rehab, I was so hungry to learn. And because I truly feel that your income will never exceed your level of personal development. If you're not constantly growing and getting mentors and I remember, I think I drove everyone crazy.
Linnsey Dolson:I would find people and I'd, like, text them all the time.
Speaker 3:How do you do this? What do you do with this? What's your
Linnsey Dolson:opinion on this? Like, I was so hungry for knowledge because like I had been a drug addict for twelve years. I didn't know how to start or run a business, but I'll tell you what, I'm gonna figure it out and I'm gonna learn it. And so I was so hungry for that. So tell me a little bit about from those early days how you worked with the personal development.
Linnsey Dolson:Did you have coaches, mentors? Tell me a
Betzabe Wintermute:little bit about it. Absolutely. Between coaches, educations, I Right. Degred myself. I got my BSc.
Betzabe Wintermute:YouTube. Then not only that, more education. Live in America. In America, we have the opportunity to get any education. Whether you have money, we don't you have opportunities.
Betzabe Wintermute:Whether you are out of the other countries, we have opportunities. We It's like you say, we need to look in for nobody is gonna serve you as a place. No. Nobody. Education is the success in in our life.
Betzabe Wintermute:It's period. Whatever it is, get educated, read it, looking for, find out, get some mentor. You don't have money? It's no excuse. No.
Betzabe Wintermute:It's no excuse. No. It is any way to find an education, but that's the success. That's the key, I will say, for everything.
Linnsey Dolson:I love that. Because you already had your and you so what you were in the medical field. I wasn't So what were you or what are you in the medical field?
Betzabe Wintermute:And when I came to America, I was already a nurse.
Linnsey Dolson:Okay.
Betzabe Wintermute:But when I came into America, you start with nothing.
Linnsey Dolson:That's what I
Betzabe Wintermute:was wondering. You are nothing. You come in and doesn't transfer. I readily say hi in my beautiful sexy smile.
Linnsey Dolson:She's like, I
Betzabe Wintermute:just had this. Hello? And hi. But you know what? I got a good mentors, and I I had, you know, people who advised me, and I went back to the school and I get my educations.
Betzabe Wintermute:And I continue study because, you know, success is by you educate yourself. What did you read every day? What is what is what's your motivation? Not only because you have a profession, is everything settled. No.
Betzabe Wintermute:We need to learn any other things. We need to put ourselves in challenge because that's keep us young. That's keep your mind to get in know into stress, into future Alzheimer's and or any other stress. Because let me tell you, mama Zita, I'm 55. I need to keep I need to keep going.
Betzabe Wintermute:You know what I mean? So it does it does what I believe and I agree with you a 100%. I love Educations is the first thing.
Linnsey Dolson:So tell me some books that you've read lately because you talk about reading and I truly feel like every day you wanna be better than you were the day before. Right? And so tell me some read
Betzabe Wintermute:so many books, but I always go back, I book a secret.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh, I love
Betzabe Wintermute:You know what? This is very old book. No. It's the best. And let me tell you why the book is No.
Betzabe Wintermute:Tell us. Grew up in Peruvian, South America, third world country, my beautiful love country. My father came out one day. I was only, I believe, 15 years old, between 15, 16, and my dad, oh, he loved to read. So, my dad brought us book, and we need to read.
Betzabe Wintermute:So, when we see dad come home, everybody catch the book. But we are playing, but we pretended. Right?
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Betzabe Wintermute:But that book in special brought a lot of my attention at my age. And everything what I read is what I practiced. And, yes, I read many books for inspirations about business, how to be a successful business, how to be a good mother, how to be a better professional, how to do investments. So every book go back to this small one.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh, it's the best. It's an all time number one, and it talks I mean, it's just about the secret to it is truly manifesting it. Exactly. And your mindset have you met people? I've met people that I'm like, you are so smart and so intelligent, but with your mindset, that is why your life is the way it is.
Linnsey Dolson:Like, have you ever carried a conversation with somebody and after the conversation you're like, I see why your life is the way it is and it's the way you think about it. You always see the negative or I can't do it because of this. Well well, I have this. Well, I can't get this. So I've been trying find another fucking way.
Betzabe Wintermute:Exactly. Make that
Linnsey Dolson:shit happen. It's all mindset and I think that's why that's the best book ever because it it just gets down to it really comes and manifesting it and knowing what you want. Right? That's where, like, vision boards, I think, are so popular because it's the same thing as, like, manifesting with detail. You're looking at what you want.
Linnsey Dolson:Right? It you have that clear vision of what you want.
Betzabe Wintermute:It's just like that. It's a very I think, you know, and and I'm glad that I have here in this beautiful place with you and your beautiful energy to everybody can hear what our success is.
Linnsey Dolson:Right.
Betzabe Wintermute:You know?
Linnsey Dolson:And where it came from. Exactly. Most important part of, like, where it came from. And I love that you talk about, like, raising strong daughters and raising strong kids because I feel like it's so important they see us, you know, doing that and overcoming things. And, you know, unfortunately, my kids, the first part of their lives, see me in my addiction.
Linnsey Dolson:And but they got to see what I came from that, you know. And like my my older daughter, she's she's right here
Speaker 3:and she's like my assistant and
Betzabe Wintermute:she Gorgeous.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh my god. She's gorgeous. Man, God hooked me up. He hooked me up. I am so blessed.
Linnsey Dolson:And it's so cute because I see I'll hear her have conversations. And like the other day she was talking and she's like, yeah, your network is your net worth. And I'm like, fuck you. Yeah. It is, girl.
Linnsey Dolson:That's right. You go net worth.
Speaker 3:You get every person's Instagram in this room.
Betzabe Wintermute:Absolutely. Yeah. It does.
Linnsey Dolson:And they pick that up. They pick up what they see.
Betzabe Wintermute:Absolutely right. And talking about your experience and growing up, you know, in I will say with my kids. Yeah. Broken family, domestic violence, seeing the abuse, courts, you know, going to lawyers. Right.
Betzabe Wintermute:So that's where my kids grow up. And now seeing my beautiful daughter, independent, owning business, getting her bachelor's degrees, living in Japan by herself. What?
Linnsey Dolson:Yes. One day she came
Betzabe Wintermute:out and says to me, I am moving to Japan, and I was like, excuse me? Oh, I would've died. I'm the immigrant here.
Linnsey Dolson:You stay here. Let me just talk to you.
Betzabe Wintermute:But you know what? I say to myself, she needs to have her own experience. She does. As a mom
Linnsey Dolson:She does.
Betzabe Wintermute:We're trying to hold them. We're trying to protect them because we love them.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh, yeah.
Betzabe Wintermute:You know? Was so hard for me to see her get into the airplane and says, mama, this is my fourth time, but I make decision to move there. You know what? It was the best decision that I let her to get her wings. Do you know?
Betzabe Wintermute:Our animals teaching us so much. Right? And that's what I see. I saw my daughter fly. Now she's independent.
Betzabe Wintermute:She has her own business. She's happy. She find a boyfriend.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh, my goodness. Good girl.
Betzabe Wintermute:She's it's so amazing. It's all about
Linnsey Dolson:another country?
Betzabe Wintermute:In another country in a different language. It's insane. It's insane.
Linnsey Dolson:But that she went after that. She didn't just take it in her mind. She went after and made it happen.
Betzabe Wintermute:Good for Exactly. Exactly. So now my son is coming and I said, you know, my my handsome, you know, son. And it's like, what is next for you? What are you into?
Betzabe Wintermute:Oh, mom, I wanna be in the law. Okay. Perfect. Let's just start working. Let's just start doing it.
Betzabe Wintermute:Love that. Because you need you need to innovate your kids. You need to push your kids. Right. They're out of the cumbersome.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh, 100. And you know how you said that they dealt with, you know, seeing domestic violence and the courts and all that. I mean, my children dealt with me, you know, in and out. I've got arrested in front of my kids, like, you know, in and out of rehabs and just twelve years of wreckage. And it's the difference is that some people, if kids are kept in that and raised in that that whole life, then it's usually their product to their environment and it's I mean, they end up doing the same thing.
Linnsey Dolson:Right? It's repeated. They end up in a domestic violence relationship or that kind of thing. But if they see their parent breaking the cycles, right, you broke that cycle. You were like, no.
Linnsey Dolson:That shit is not getting passed on to my children. And you broke that cycle. And that's the difference because as we're all human. We all fuck up. We all I don't care how good of a parent you are.
Linnsey Dolson:At some point, you mess up. Whether it's you struggle with alcoholism, addiction, you end up marrying an asshole, like, whatever it is. But it's the point that you make those changes. Right? And and that's where a child could go through that kind of stuff, but it's just what you do with it.
Linnsey Dolson:Okay. Mom made not such good decisions, but guess what? That's not gonna define you.
Betzabe Wintermute:Turn it the negative and positive. Right. Right. Know, and impact. You know, only that into our kids.
Betzabe Wintermute:You're looking into the other side, your family. Oh, you're the black sheep in the family. You are different. You are getting divorced. You are getting this.
Betzabe Wintermute:You are getting business. You are leaving this stuff. But you are an example for all your womens. They only have the typical style. You need to be in that kind of box because that woman is.
Betzabe Wintermute:No. We change it. Hell yeah. We see and we are proud. Typical box.
Betzabe Wintermute:And that's what I come out with the LURA. LURA is gonna show them to everybody. Love yourself. Show your body. Enjoy your moment.
Betzabe Wintermute:Fall in love. Find somebody. It doesn't matter your age, but love it because you it does gonna be a change.
Linnsey Dolson:And I love that.
Betzabe Wintermute:Finish with this project. I have my next project that I'm going because I always in an exit. What is
Linnsey Dolson:the next? Well,
Betzabe Wintermute:my nonprofit. Okay. My view in my nonprofit is when we go back and talk with you, educations. I would like to, you know, build schools. I would like to help empower women with education.
Linnsey Dolson:Look at you.
Betzabe Wintermute:Self esteem, you know? Teaching not only the mom, you're teaching the kids. And what is the kid? It's the future. You teach them the future.
Betzabe Wintermute:You teach them one the percent. And that's where I am working right now, you know? Of course, you always kind of have the corner that they're gonna beat you up, the corner they're gonna put a lot of negative, but I don't see that. My sin and my view, I have a I have this is where I see myself. I have a I'm an instrument to put and to help and to embrace.
Betzabe Wintermute:Yeah. Not only the woman. If you're a man or if you're a woman or whatever person is there, they wanna grow, you can come with me.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh my god. You're doing all kinds of things. No. I love that. I love that.
Linnsey Dolson:And the lingerie, like how you talk about just loving their self and like showing their body. Some people you get a lot of I get bullshit, like comments from it, but I'm on social media. I'm used to it. Like, whatever. But I'll get people that are like commenting about it.
Linnsey Dolson:But you know what? I feel like when I wasn't so confident, like, early on when I'd got sober, like, I didn't feel so good about myself. Like, my teeth were bad, like, all the things. And then once I started, like, working on myself, like, had my confidence built. And I really truly feel like I love my body and I love who I am.
Linnsey Dolson:And I don't wanna be like covered up in sweats and a sweatshirt. And so I I love feeling sexy. Like I do. Sometimes I have to watch because I'm like, woah, wait. I'm 42.
Linnsey Dolson:I need to put a little
Speaker 3:more clothes on. You know what I mean? No. That's more I need to get some boob tape because, you know, I'm
Linnsey Dolson:but it's because like I'm I'm in that place in my life. Like, I'm that confident and I feel good and why not? Why not? And so I love that that you're reaching out. Where are you?
Linnsey Dolson:Is it online? Where can they
Betzabe Wintermute:find you? Gonna be online. We are gonna launch it on the twenty fifth. Okay. And twenty fifth.
Betzabe Wintermute:Why?
Linnsey Dolson:Tell us.
Betzabe Wintermute:We are we are six kids, and my Wait.
Linnsey Dolson:You you have six kids?
Betzabe Wintermute:Six brothers and sisters. Okay. And my family moved from Peru to Argentina, which I love Argentina. Growing up in Argentina, one of my sister passed away, and her birthday is August 25. Oh, okay.
Betzabe Wintermute:Honor to my wonderful sister who we have a great moments. We work together and for our family, I wanna honor and open in the day. My my sister was full of energy, sexy, beautiful, curly hair, and that's what I'm gonna it's gonna open in a day.
Linnsey Dolson:Yes. I love that. I that's so awesome. And I love all your marketing for it. I've been watching it on Instagram, and it's just like you're really giving that vibe of just, like, sexy and confident and everything else, which yeah.
Linnsey Dolson:Women need to feel good. They need to.
Betzabe Wintermute:And not only think about when the point oh, they can do that because they have money. You know? That's the whole things that they have in their thoughts when they're watching us. But let me tell you, it's not about money when you feel beautiful. It can be a 99 store lifted.
Betzabe Wintermute:It's the way you wear it.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh,
Betzabe Wintermute:yeah. It's the way you put in yourself. It's the way you walk. It's the way you think Yes. About It's that's all.
Betzabe Wintermute:It doesn't matter the purse is used or somebody give it to you. Right. Hey, it's the way that you hold the purse. It's the way that you talk. It's the way you walk and you say, that's me.
Betzabe Wintermute:I'm hot.
Linnsey Dolson:No.
Betzabe Wintermute:You know?
Linnsey Dolson:100%. I told you. I spotted you at that event and I was like, okay. Okay, Queen. I see you over there.
Linnsey Dolson:Yes. Like, you
Speaker 3:are so cute and I just love you.
Linnsey Dolson:I was like, I need to find her. So I found
Speaker 3:you on Instagram because it's
Linnsey Dolson:like Aw. You gave that vibe. Was like, I could look at you and be like, she's confident. She, you know, loves herself. And I just love that.
Linnsey Dolson:I feel like that's contagious. It's really contagious and more women need to see that. They need to see that, like, it's okay to feel good. I love when for some reason, people always send me, like, or message me when they're getting, like, plastic surgery. Like, hey, I'm getting my boobs done or hey,
Speaker 3:I'm getting this done. I'm always like, fuck it.
Betzabe Wintermute:Yeah. Do it. Yes. If you can do it, do it. If you wanna go out to the gym, go out to the gym.
Betzabe Wintermute:But whatever way, do it.
Linnsey Dolson:Right. Anything you've ever wanted to do, like no judgment. Whatever you wanna do that's gonna make you feel good, I've always been like, do the surgery if you want the surgery. Do it whatever you want, you know? If you wanna take the weight loss shot, if you wanna do whatever you wanna do, if it makes you feel good, that's all that matters.
Linnsey Dolson:It's And all that I think, you know, too, the other thing is like women feeling good no matter what size they are, what, you know, any anything. There's no like I feel like people think they have to be this set like Barbie look. And you don't to feel sexy. You do not.
Betzabe Wintermute:If we go back again to the mindset Yeah. Is what you radiate. It's your energy. It doesn't matter what is your curves, you know, it's what you carry. It's your just your your whole energy.
Betzabe Wintermute:Yeah. You know? When you love yourself again, it's like you are walking in the street and you get that attention because what? It's your energy, your positive. You're loving yourself and people and seeing, okay, I wanna be like that.
Betzabe Wintermute:Oh, I love the shoes. And they don't know that maybe it's a 99 store.
Linnsey Dolson:Right. Who
Betzabe Wintermute:knows? Right. Maybe you're wearing a a wonderful Hermes, but you know what? You don't you feel ugly in yourself. Right.
Betzabe Wintermute:It's not like you're selling the stuff. It's you, your brand, your name.
Linnsey Dolson:100. Yeah. No. I totally agree. And I feel like there's a difference of when you don't have that self confidence, you're doing things for other people to like it.
Linnsey Dolson:Or you don't feel good because you think other people don't like it or they think something. And I'm like, man, I'm only taking opinions from somebody if I rather if I wanna change lives with you. You can give me advice if I would wanna switch lives with you. But otherwise, do not give me advice. You know, if you have a basic ass life, because I'm not willing to live a basic life, do not give me advice on how to live my life or what's appropriate to wear or what I should do or talk shit to me because I have extensions or anything else.
Linnsey Dolson:So it's like once
Betzabe Wintermute:Talking about extensions.
Linnsey Dolson:Girl, I am all about I love it. People will be like, oh, your hair is so long. Well, thank you. I love extensions. But it's like once you get that inside you where I'm not I don't care what you think of me.
Linnsey Dolson:I'm doing I'm so confident myself. There is this photographer that I follow. I don't I don't know her name, but I follow her on I think she's on Insta. And she's so cute. And she's definitely a plus size model.
Linnsey Dolson:Yeah. But she does like sexy poses and sexy shoots. So she's in lingerie shooting and she does not She's in a thong at all. She's just like, I do me.
Speaker 3:And I'm like, okay, queen. I see
Linnsey Dolson:you. I love the cockiness.
Betzabe Wintermute:What a ex what a beautiful message.
Linnsey Dolson:It's so beautiful. And you know what? It's like I looked at our comments and there was I mean, so many people just, oh, cover up, disgusting, da da da da da. And you know what?
Betzabe Wintermute:Fuck you.
Linnsey Dolson:It's It's your way to see.
Betzabe Wintermute:Do you know when people come and they wanna give me advice and I say, thank you my love, I appreciate your advice.
Linnsey Dolson:There
Betzabe Wintermute:you That's all. Because that's the only thing. But if you come up with the, you know, the advice that I can able to transfer, motivate me to make me grow.
Linnsey Dolson:I love that.
Betzabe Wintermute:I love you. Oh my yes. My You are my queen. You are my king. Yes.
Betzabe Wintermute:Thank you. Yeah. Because you care about me. Right. But you come in with positive thoughts and to make you grow and to make you more successful.
Betzabe Wintermute:Thank you. You know? I love that. Oh my god. I admire you.
Linnsey Dolson:Right. No. That's totally that's so true people. And you're just like, oh, yeah. Thank you.
Linnsey Dolson:You know? Or I remember when I first came, like, out with my recovery story and because I post my mugshots. Like, I am just so raw with it. And I my the guy that had his company next door to my cleaning company, he comes over and he goes like, hey. So I think that's a really bad business idea.
Linnsey Dolson:And I'm like, okay. Thank you. But it's like, who the fuck are you? Why are you telling me that? Like, you know, it's just someone that I would take zero advice from and it was the best thing I ever did was kinda like share, you know, that's so raw and so open and just began my journey because I was embarrassed about it for a little while.
Linnsey Dolson:There was a time that I was like, oh my god, what if somebody finds out I went to jail? What and then now I put all my shit out there. You cannot pull anything out of my closet because it is out there. Yeah. It is out there.
Linnsey Dolson:Exactly. And, you know, you sharing
Betzabe Wintermute:cannot this. Be, you know, embarrassed for that experience because you know what? Let me tell you, experience make you perfect, make you unique. Yeah. Bring it on of that.
Linnsey Dolson:Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 3:Check it out.
Linnsey Dolson:Who cares? And it makes us
Speaker 3:funny too. I think trauma you know, self trauma kinda makes us funny too. Right?
Linnsey Dolson:We have like good personalities because once you like when you've when you've had nothing, you appreciate stuff on a whole new level. Right? It's like a gratitude. It don't you feel that? Like when you had nothing and you lived in I remember when I first got sober, got like this little apartment that the state helped pay for and there was fucking cockroaches.
Linnsey Dolson:Okay. It was like the only, you know, they pay it's like a section eight, like, kinda thing. And I was so grateful because I'd been homeless for twelve years. So I didn't care. I went
Speaker 3:to the dollar store and decorated it with all kinds of pretty stuffed cockroaches and all.
Betzabe Wintermute:Right? Exactly.
Linnsey Dolson:And so now, like, I appreciate everything on a whole new level. I'm just, like, so incredibly grateful for this life. Tell me a little bit about that.
Betzabe Wintermute:The well, the thing it is that you see and then I see it is that it's so blessed. That So we can able to, you know, conquer every step, and we are in the tap, enjoy life and and everything. But you know what? We are not scared to go back again because we can build them quadruplet and better. Yeah.
Betzabe Wintermute:That's the difference.
Linnsey Dolson:I love
Betzabe Wintermute:A person they never went through, they don't know how to start over again. We can know how to start all over again. Oh, yeah. We cannot to see them, and we enjoy coffee with a person in the street. I've done that many times, and I love it.
Betzabe Wintermute:They look at me like, are you okay? Why are you asking that? You're not enjoying the coffee with me? And he says, yeah. You are so pretty.
Betzabe Wintermute:Thank you. I appreciate it. And we start talking. I said, what's going on today? Tell me.
Betzabe Wintermute:And, you know, they feel and say, thank you. It values for me to you to sit down and have a coffee with me. I love that. And you for me, it's made me to be so thankful with everything that I have. Every moment is just an impact that you can able to have everything.
Betzabe Wintermute:And I know how you feel because, you know, to start from the battle, to conquer one of these, you know, addictions I work in in in in, in, you know, antidepressants, areas and the drugs. And and let me tell you, I value you.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh,
Betzabe Wintermute:thank admire you because it takes ovaries to do that.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh, yeah. No. You know? It's definitely it's, it's like an epidemic out there. I mean, so many
Betzabe Wintermute:Right now, it's
Linnsey Dolson:that's next project. So I'm opening up a drug and alcohol treatment center
Betzabe Wintermute:for an outpatient in San Diego. Beautiful.
Linnsey Dolson:So I'm so excited and we're gonna leave two god beds. So one girl, one guy. And I'm going out to Skid Row and other areas and I'm gonna Let's find
Betzabe Wintermute:put it.
Linnsey Dolson:Women and men and do a documentary and I'm gonna offer them free recovery and trade. You know, they have to be documented or I mean, we're gonna document the whole thing. And I wanna take them through the process. I want you to get sober. I wanna help you get your kids back.
Linnsey Dolson:I'm gonna find dentists to donate getting their teeth fixed, tattoos removed, all of it. It's
Betzabe Wintermute:My love, and don't forget me about me because we can help you with our team. Remember from the
Linnsey Dolson:staffing agency Totally clap.
Betzabe Wintermute:The staffing agency, I can pull all my doctors, my psych nurses. We can work as a team, as a warrant, and as a big mass to help all these people, because you know what? People forget about them. And what do they think? They judge them.
Betzabe Wintermute:Oh, who brought it up? Why? They have money. They stay giving them money. Don't give them money.
Betzabe Wintermute:No. You don't know whether the story.
Linnsey Dolson:You don't know what their story is. Exactly. It's wild. I've talked to some I talked to one lady and she was, like, on the streets homeless and she had used to be a nurse and had, like, a family and all of that and she had a surgery and got like they gave her like OxyContin or something
Betzabe Wintermute:Which is
Linnsey Dolson:for, yeah, for the pain. And she got so hooked on it. And then when they stopped giving it to her, it turned to like heroin. Everyone has a story, but that's why I share like my before. Because if you see me walking down the street six months pregnant homeless, I look like I had no hope.
Linnsey Dolson:At that moment looking at me, you would never have thought like, hey, ten years from now, that woman And could be changing people's so, like, you're really never too far gone. And so I see people different. Like, I see someone walking down the street. I remember getting kicked out of hotels with all my bags because I couldn't pay for the next day and like walking down the street with like all my bags and all that. So when I see that, I I see it so different.
Linnsey Dolson:Like there's a person in there. There's a soul in there. And addiction is like a living hell.
Betzabe Wintermute:Exactly. It
Linnsey Dolson:is a living hell on earth.
Betzabe Wintermute:And in their own jail because they don't see anything. They don't see anything. No. No. And let me tell you one thing is I admire you more because you're keeping working.
Linnsey Dolson:Oh, I love that.
Betzabe Wintermute:Not only to get up from that. Right. Because everybody can get up from that. Everybody can say, not tomorrow. I'm gonna be sorry for one month, two months, a year, and this.
Betzabe Wintermute:Well, keep it up, mama Zita. It's hard work every day.
Linnsey Dolson:It is. It really
Betzabe Wintermute:admire you for that. Aw. Thank you. And you're an example. Definitely, we need to put it together, open.
Betzabe Wintermute:You know, I have a great consultants for you if you want Let's open it. Let's help in. You know? Let's put it back their life to these people.
Linnsey Dolson:Dude, I love that. That's the thing is like, okay, I made it out of the fire but I wanna pull people out. I think the biggest flex in life is how many people's lives you can positively impact. That is the real flex. Like my my ultimate goal in life, and I think the best thing is to get rich making other people's lives better.
Linnsey Dolson:Like it doesn't get any better than that. Is ultimate flex. Right? Is to be able to build your life to what, you know, your what you've always wanted to by making other people's lives better.
Betzabe Wintermute:You're building a legacy Right. Because it's passing to your children. And your children will go in and go in and go in. This is it. That's a set.
Betzabe Wintermute:There's nothing else after that.
Linnsey Dolson:I
Betzabe Wintermute:know. It's legacy. It's the family. It's the the mentoring that you do. And and and then you know what?
Betzabe Wintermute:The universe, God, will help us because our feelings is gonna it's like a seed. It's gonna irradiate. It's gonna grow, and we're gonna have more people to help us.
Linnsey Dolson:Love that. I love that. Well, tell everybody where they can find you and a little bit about where they can find your new line that's coming out.
Betzabe Wintermute:Well, you can find me in, you know, on Instagram. You can find me through my business, Jorge three sixty Staffing dot com. Okay. You can find me with Laura. You can find me
Linnsey Dolson:What's your Instagram so they can find it?
Betzabe Wintermute:Bedsavewintermute. That's all. Yes. Perfect.
Linnsey Dolson:Awesome. Well, give her a follow and check out our new line because you're gonna love it. You so much for coming, you guys. Thank you.
Betzabe Wintermute:Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.