How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships

Dr. Joe Kort is a psychotherapist and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health and a board certified clinical sexologist. He’s in the Toaster to help us navigate the uncertain waters of your post-divorce sex life.

Show Notes

How has divorce impacted your sex life? Have you noticed a difference in intimacy as you move through your separation, dating, and even sex in your subsequent marriages? How has your experience communicating about your sexual interests and experience changed through divorce?

Dr. Joe Kort is a psychotherapist and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health and a board certified clinical sexologist. He’s here today to help us navigate the uncertain waters of your post divorce sex life.

Links & Notes

  • (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
  • (00:33) - Meet Dr. Joe Kort
  • (01:38) - The Changing Landscape of Sex
  • (02:23) - The Love Bomb
  • (03:12) - Healthy Sex Conversations
  • (07:15) - Changes in Post-Divorce Sex
  • (08:30) - What Is the Love Bomb?
  • (11:09) - Negotiating Sexual Differences
  • (14:10) - From Relationship to Relationship
  • (15:25) - Finding Yourself
  • (17:01) - Sexual Identities That Change
  • (18:42) - The Taboo of Sex Talk
  • (22:31) - Rebalancing Power in a Sexual Dynamic
  • (24:08) - Profiling Your Partner
  • (27:00) - Different Backgrounds
  • (28:38) - Practice
  • (29:53) - Discussing Previous Sexual Relationships
  • (34:21) - How the First Time Shapes Things
  • (35:42) - Priorities
  • (37:37) - Wrapping Up

Creators & Guests

Host
Pete Wright
Podcaster and co-host, Pete Wright brings years of marriage and a spirit of curiosity to the divorce process. He's spent the last two decades interviewing experts and thinkers in emotional healing and brings that with him to the law, divorce, and saving relationships in the process.
Host
Seth R. Nelson
Seth Nelson is the founding attorney and managing partner at NLG Divorce & Family Law. He is a Tampa-based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems.
Producer
Andy Nelson
Hailing from nearly 25 years in the world of film, television, and commercial production, Andy has always had a passion for storytelling, no matter the size of the package.

What is How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships?

Seth Nelson is a Tampa based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems. In How to Split a Toaster, Nelson and co-host Pete Wright take on the challenge of divorce with a central objective — saving your most important relationships with your family, your former spouse, and yourself.