128: 7 Signs You Need To Work On Your Mindset
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Genecia Alluora is a former Miss Singapore, Cafe Retail Chain Owner and Southeast Asia Woman of Excellence 2010, 𝑰𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝑷𝒓𝒐𝒈𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝑾𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏 2019. She is the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, the #1 female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia that connects more than 200,000 women across the region in the ‘Soul F’ membership program. For the past 17 years, Genecia coached celebrities, CEOs and politicians to be seen as a leader on stage. Today, with the Soul Rich Woman Blueprint and online academy, she mentors hundreds of thousands of women to bring their business and leadership brand online. With her coaching products, academy and membership, her vision is to support 1 million women to own and love the F-Word.
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Genecia Alluora: Hey, gorgeous, and welcome to today's episode. I'm your host, Genecia Alluora. Now today I want to share the seven signs you need to work on your mindset. Now, when it comes to money, sooner or later there will be a wakeup call. That happens for each of us. Maybe the last year has been a massive wake up call for you. Your business might have to change completely because you realize that your old ways of marketing don't work anymore. Or maybe you've decided that life is too short to do the work that doesn't like you up anymore. Often, a bad client experience can be the wakeup call you need. There comes a time in every entrepreneur's life when you feel like throwing in the towel, giving up. After all, when you start the business, nobody really tells you how much is going to mess up with your confidence.
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Genecia Alluora: Now, I just want to say this. You might have had all these moments yourself. Do you ever feel like there is an invisible glass ceiling holding you back from success? Maybe you've been stuck at a particular income level for years. Maybe you are telling yourself that you're too busy right now or the money isn't that important to you. Maybe you have conflicting feelings about wealth, worried that maybe it's not for you or that you have something to do something or you have to do something outside of your values to really make money or truly make enough money. If you are doing all that you can but still not making the financial breakthroughs you know that are within your reach, it's time to do something different. You need a money reset now. If you are under charging in your business, you feel like you're pushing against the flow of money and can't figure out why it's so hard. I've got some answers for you that might just crack the code.
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Genecia Alluora: I'm Genecia Alluora, founder of the number one female entrepreneur network here in Southeast Asia and also a Money Mindset coach. I also created the soul rich woman Blueprint that has helped thousands and tens of thousands of women to go break through and only love their F word. Being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and a happy family. I did not grow up with a good relationship to money and yet I've created millions of dollars in business revenue working to my strength and also wrote books, personal development books. And all I can say is we all can have it all. So if you think you might need to get another certificate or lose another ten kilos or some how magically become the perfect you before you can make money, I'm here to tell you that that is bullshit. Now, I have the seven signs for you that Money mindset is actually the next crucial step. If any of these seven reasons are true for you, then you'll love to work with me further.
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Genecia Alluora: Now, reason one you know it's your time. Finally, each year you set big goals thinking that this will be the year that your dreams come true. You might even have a book that is sitting on your computer 90% done or a program or a course that's ready to launch, but something's just stopping you. Every day you wake up and you think now it's the time, now it's the right time. But the moment your income doesn't match up with your intelligence or with your degree or potential and the gifts you offer up to the world, you are tired. And you are tired of waiting for someone else to choose you or you deem that you are ready to earn more. I'm sure you're frustrated in yourself that you haven't done it yet. But maybe today is today and you know that it's now or never. And I see that for you and I'm here to help you to make it come true. Reason two you love personal development but the money hasn't shown up yet. Well, you could be feeling like a fraud or flaky person right now because you're doing everything that's right. But it's just not working.
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Genecia Alluora: I bet you have a dream board, a vision board or you journal your goals regularly and you are a very positive person. You probably read every book that talks about making money, abundance under the sun. But you feel like there's still a missing puzzle piece. It feels unfair. If you're honest with yourself. You know that you have been sabotaging money behaviors that is working against you, but you can't really change them. Well, that's really normal. Reason three you don't earn what you are worth and you suspect that you are worth a lot more. The charge what you are worth thing gets a really bad reputation. Especially when we talk about it here in soul rich woman. You need to charge your worth. Do less battle trading. There should be a boundary. But you know, it really gets a bad reputation when we talk about these things. It's because women don't see that they are worth the amount and they are always using the excuse or that sentence. Women should just help women. Why should I charge or get someone to pay for my products or services?
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Genecia Alluora: Okay, I mean, you can't put a price tag on yourself as a human being, you're priceless. But guess what? Your business isn't. You actually have to name a price. Every day I meet people. I meet women who are simply under charging. They are doing pro bono work all the time. They are struggling to survive, or even if they are well to do, they are not able to scale their business to the next level. They know it, but they feel powerless to do anything about it. You might know it too, but you're still getting feedback that you are too expensive. Why should you charge when you're helping other people? You should be doing for free, you should be doing cheaper. And even when you know that you are drastically under charging and that's usually the problem. When you undercharge, you energetically attract clients who will never be happy, who are usually complainers, and people who will step on you to go to the next step or face. And that's really so frustrating. Reason four you want to live a first class, amazing life, but you're stuck in the runt. You are stuck in your cupboard.
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Genecia Alluora: I mean, I've been there and it sucks. You are sick of compromising areas in your life, like where you stay, what you eat, how you are treating your family, because we're talking about owning and loving the F word. So being fabulous, freedom, financial independence and a happy family. So you're kind of sick of compromising all these four F words in your life. Where you live, how you dress or how you travel. It's exhausting, super tiring to have to justify every single dollar, every single cent. Think about it. Wouldn't it be nice and cool to have a peace of mind that you can always make more money? You're seeing other women rapidly increasing their income and you are kind of jealous. Yes, don't look left, look right. Yes, I'm speaking to you right now. Sometimes you're kind of jealous that it's not you. All right, it's okay to admit it. Reason number five you already know that you need a money mindset makeover. Maybe this isn't the first time you've checked out my work or listened to my podcast or been to my website or seen my landing pages of my programs. You might even have gone through situations when you think, I've got to sort this out.
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Genecia Alluora: For example, when you start to perspire, when you talk to an accountant or anyone official or officially about money. Or you sit and procrastinate like sending out invoices. People send me their confessions all the time and say that they are so scared about money, in particular, talking about it and asking for it. You might even think you are really bad with money. But I've never met anyone whom I have not helped or I can't help. You'll be surprised about how practical money manifesting can be. And it's not about lighting a candle under the full moon and just making wishes. It's about taking a practical inventory of your past experiences and examining it with all your beliefs and heads around money. Reason six, you feel like you repel money. Maybe you have a real feast or famine relationship to money. You know how to manifest money quickly when you really need to. But it's not predictable or it comes at a great personal cost. Like for example, you're really stressed out or burned out. When you have a good month, you often attract unexpected bills or fines that will wipe it all out. So you're always going like two steps forward and one steps back. Ten steps forward and three steps back.
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Genecia Alluora: And that can be so frustrating. Reason number seven you want to make more money, but you're also scared. Some people are surprised to learn that even millionaires are scared. Making more money doesn't make the fear go away. Same for me. Even at the stage where I'm at, making money is scary sometimes. Now, for example, you could be scared by your own personal potential because of your vision for your life is huge. You sometimes worry about what it would mean to be truly wealthy, that somehow it would turn into a negative experience. Or you would sabotage it in some way. Or you are worried that some history of ghosts, of past souls of people will come back and ask you for money. Or you're worried about your parents will ask you for money. You're worried about your relatives coming to ask you for money if you are rich. You worry about tax bills because you worry about getting into trouble. You worry about losing your privacy or safety.
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Genecia Alluora: You worry you get scammed. You worry about friends and family asking you for more money. You worry that it's actually going to be a huge negative experience. And you can see where I'm going. This is really common. And you can see these conflicting things and how much they could be holding you back. Okay, so that's the seven pretty big signs that you need to work on your money mindset. How much money do you think you have left on the table because of your money blocks? Maybe your wake up call this year is that there's no time like the present to make your dreams come true. If you are still listening, it's pretty obvious that you have money blocks that you need to deal with. Everyone has their own flavor of money blocks and I'm here to help you identify yours and clear it. I've created a free masterclass to help you start clearing your money blocks and limiting beliefs and those subotaging patterns. It will walk you through, step by step, through recognizing them and then dealing with the 7th most common entrepreneurial money blocks. Okay? And then you can get it free today from soulrichwoman.com.
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Genecia Alluora: That is soulrichwoman.com. Remember, money blocks doesn't have to derail you. You can embrace them and move on to creating the life that you want, the F-word that you want for yourself, family, financial independence, being fabulous, having freedom. But it all starts with your awareness. Once you know your block, you then can stop subarging behaviors, that you can stop them, that they will not come and haunt you, and then you can move on to the next level. That's when you can make money no matter what. Again, that's at soulrichwoman.com. Okay, I'll see you there in a few minutes. Remember, this is your time and you are ready for your next step. For women who love the F word being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and a happy family, you can have it all.
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Genecia Alluora: Thank you for joining me today. I would love you to connect with me on Linkedin, Facebook, or Instagram and share with me your thoughts on today's episode at Genecia Alluora. Alternatively, you can send me an email at hello@soulrichwoman.com. I have a free gift for you on our website. Secrets of personal branding and also how do you delegate 80% of your to do list to your assistant so you can make money online and focusing on your zone of genius? And that is available at soulrichwoman.com. Join the number one leading female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia, connecting more than 200,000 women across the region. Be a Soul Rich Woman. Dream to shine. Woman leader, leader activated. Alone, you are strong. Together, we are unstoppable.