Open the Diary of an Inner Explorer, a podcast for true seekers, deep thinkers, and powerful souls who feel an inner calling to understand life beyond the surface.
I am Adela Ciurea, Inner Peace Architect and creator of Morpho Menelaus, a metamorphosis program for those ready to step into their truth.
This is not just a podcast—it’s my personal diary. For more than a decade, I’ve been keeping notes on Inner Journeys: my own and those I have the privilege to guide.
My diary is where I put words to the silent questions, the raw truths, and the treasures we uncover when we stop pretending—when we dare to look beyond masks, fear, conditioning, and limiting beliefs.
These notes weave true stories, true feelings, and true thoughts. Unscripted. Raw. Often translated directly from my diary—because my deepest reflections are written in Romanian, the language of my roots.
If you’ve ever felt like an outsider, if you’re searching for meaning beyond the noise, beyond the filters—welcome. Whether you practice meditation, study philosophy, or simply feel drawn to the infinite possibilities of existence, this is your invitation to expand beyond the known.
Join me every Friday for a new note from my Diary. Discover our stories. And maybe… unravel yours.
Did you ask yourself “what’s about this Magic Formula you’ve talked about in the 1st episode?”
Welcome to the third episode of the pilot series, created to explore the deeper layers of our journey. In the first episode, I shared my story. In the second, I explained the meaning of “Peace without Pretending” and the meaning of “Morpho Menelaus”.
In this final piece of the trilogy, we will explore The Magic Formula in this 3D world, its role in the path of inner exploration, and how it weaves into the fabric of transformation.
Let’s dive into understanding our possibilities and also take a look at the 3 errors that can prevent us from achieving them. Allow me to start with weaving the basic threads: what a 3D world means.
The 1st of April 2025
This is my third note to you and it feels just right for ending this pilot trilogy – because I’m going to tell you about all kind of 3s : 3D, 3 dimensions, 3 vectors, 3 errors, 3 fears, 3 treasures, 3 tools, 3 manifestations…
In this 3D world we have 3 dimensions: height, length, depth! And there are always 3 vectors.
Everything here is Trinitarian – made out of 3 parts. A tree has roots, branches and a trunk. Your body has limbs, a trunk and a head. Even your little finger is made up of 3 segments.
There is day, night and dusk. Light, darkness and twilight. Up, down, middle. White, black, grey. Mother, father, child. Thesis, antithesis, synthesis.
Whoever teaches that this world is made up of two things (duality) is possibly creating an error, like a false program in this reality – is modeling a false model of reality, which therefore leads to thoughts that are false. This last idea was expressed in a seminar by Romanian psychologist and numerologist Anatol Basarab. And I agree.
There might be other worlds where the experience is just to be, without doing anything. There is no duality there either – there is just a point in the vastness of the cosmos, a spark – but nothing else ! Because the spark doesn’t even move. As soon as it moves, it jumps out of the non-duality into the duality : passing from point A to point B !
So, there might be other worlds where the experience is just to be and to do : the spark is … and the spark moves. It does something, maybe it learns.
But this world, our world, is 3D. We have 3 vectors. Our world is Trinitarian.
Therefore, to materialize, to create matter, we also have 3 vectors: to be – to do – to have.
There are movements that teach the power of the mind, the power of the will, and so on… to get everything in the world without doing anything.
OK, I could meditate as long as I wish or think as powerful that I can : if I want a glass of water, either I gently ask someone, or I get up and go get it ! The glass will never fill up and float towards me on its own. :)
Yes, someone might pick up on my mental thought, might feel my demand and do the action for me. But this is rare.
I have to act upon my thought: to have a glass of water, I need to move.
What was my thought? I’m thirsty. I’ve identified my state. I am.
What is my action? I get up. I do.
What is the outcome of my action? I have my glass of water. I have.
These are the vectors of our 3D world: to be – to do – to have.
We are, so we do in order to have, to materialize.
This is how you can use the Magic Formula in this world: in order to embody who you are, to feel what you are, you need to act.
Yes, we are human Beings, not human doings, nor human havings.
But to have something – anything.. in this world, you need to take action – but not any action : your actions should always be aligned with your inner truth.
Let me explain why: We are all part of the Creation. Just like our little finger is part of our body.
The pinky knows that it is part of the body, knows what the body wants, what the body feels. And the body knows and feels everything that the pinky experiences.
What happens when the little finger starts to wiggle, to get out of the body’s harmony? How is it when it starts shaking by its own? Maybe the other hand will come to hold it and calm it down.
What if the pinky so strongly shakes that it shakes the entire hand and might disturb then the whole body? Maybe it will receive a tranquilizer shot to calm down.
But what if the little finger would decide to forcefully take a direction, using all its strength to pull the entire body after him? And there are no tranquilizers that work anymore. Then… maybe the body would decide to cut it off…
It’s the same for us in the Creation: do you align, are you in harmony with the All? Or not?
In the big symphony of the All, each one of us is a note. On the big loom, we are each.. one beautiful thread of light. Yes, we all know the entire symphony, the entire loom. But when we embodied this 3D experience, this life, we came with a specific note and color, a specific frequency.
You have your own and unique frequency that you can and should materialize in your life.
Once you tune back to your specific and unique frequency, you remember… you reconnect… you hear again the great Song of the Loom, the Universal Symphony… and you touch again the spaces between the notes, between the threads… : the Silence.
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Now look inside you: the Silence is between your breathing in and breathing out. You can touch infinite space by consciously holding your breath.
And now look around you: those who touched their inner silence, their inner peace, were able to create Beauty … and thus create and withhold more Silence and Peace. Think of the beauty of a temple, for example. Or … of all creations of Mother Nature.
As said my inspired line in the first episode: True Peace manifests in this world as beauty. And beauty creates more peace.
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Do you agree?
Take a moment to think about where or when you were able to feel peace. Or what was it that made you feel awe and atonement, what was it that took your breath away?
OK… I took a little detour from the Magic Formula. Where I arrived following the thread of “what it means to be aligned” took me by surprise too.
Well… must be a story that needed to be heard. :)
Now we understood why acting in alignment with who we are can create inner peace.
Remember that in this 3D world we have 3 vectors: to be – to do – to have.
Let’s spell differently the magic formula be – do – have:
For the physical body it can be spelled like this:
Be yourself – walk your path – have harmony.
For your soul, it can be this:
Be confident – Love – feel Peace.
For your spirit, it can mean this:
Be Magic – Create – feel Free.
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This sounds nice, you might say. But how come it looks so abstract? Maybe unreal?
We should talk a little bit also about the barriers, about the self-inflicted limits. What might prevent you from using the Magic Formula and embody your own truth?
One year ago I wrote about the 3 big errors that prevent us from succeeding our metamorphosis into our true selves. A caterpillar is just a butterfly that didn’t transform yet into its own true form.
What are the 3 errors that prevent us from tuning into our own true frequency?
You won’t be surprised to know that these 3 errors come from 3 big fears.
1. First fear - The Fear of beginning: of starting something different - we rather stay nicely tucked into our comfort zone, because then we are not confronted with the other two great fears: the fear of failure and the fear of others' judgment.
This first fear begins to make itself felt at the same time as the worry appears: Is this what I am meant to do in my life?
This is actually the fear of listening to one’s intuition.
1st Error: Limiting yourself and not listening to your intuition. You know you have something else to do in your life, but you remain in your comfort zone, reassured by the lullaby of your fears.
Like me. More than 10 years ago I’ve received my first architecture prize. That day, on the stage, receiving the trophy… I heard my inner voice: “Ok, this is done. Now do the next step!” I didn’t understand the mental image that popped into my head - I naively thought I would have to teach architecture...
I’ve continued my architecture building experience.
But, if you’ve listened to my first podcast, you know that I did quit that architecture office when I started to feel my confidence awakening, thanks to the internal transformations I had begun. I handed in my resignation without asking anything else in return, than my freedom.
Here’s how you can get over the fear of beginning: listen to your inner voice to make a first step, take a leap of faith towards your metamorphosis. You will then find a great treasure: your self-confidence.
2. Second fear - The Fear of judgment: what will other people think, fear of being judged, fear of deceiving, of not being accepted… fear of not being loved.
This fear of judgement hides a deeper fear: the fear of not being loved if we change.
Oh I know this fear so well... What will my parents think, after supporting me through ten long years of architecture studies? What will my fellow architects think of this choice when I had such a promising career? What will my family think now that I no longer have the glamour of being an architect?
2nd Error: Stagnating because of this fear of losing status, appreciation, and the love of others.
Do you think the caterpillar worried about what the other caterpillars thought when it started building its cocoon? Did it stay basking in the sun until the end of its days? Of course not! It took action, because it knew there was something greater waiting for it—its life as a butterfly!
I also stagnated because I thought I need love from the others to flourish. But I came to understand that my inner balance is more important - that is, loving and respecting myself. The more I fill my heart with love, the more love overflows, and the more it connects me with others.
The more we give, the more we get.
Do you know what it means to love one’s self, to respect one’s self? It means being your true self. The more you are yourself… the more love you will feel for yourself… and the more others will love you. Because love creates more love.
Here’s how you can get over the fear of judgement: be yourself, respect yourself and give yourself the greatest treasure: love.
3. Third fear - The fear of failure: of not succeeding, of not fulfilling oneself, and thus facing a harsh consequence that's hard to bear in this world: lacking money.
This fear of failure hides a deeper fear: the fear of not being “enough” by being one’s self.
3nd Error: Resigning oneself, giving up, believing that nothing can change or that it's better not to change.
But yes ! It’s better to change and free yourself from limiting beliefs, mental programs, wounds, traumas, and life paths imposed by yourself or others... because your abundance is behind all these limits. Your peace is behind all the fears. In your inner peace, you find who you are, and then you do what you were meant to do in this world. And when you align with your being and your purpose, your life aligns with you.
Here’s how you can get over the fear of failure: free yourself from limiting beliefs, mental programs and wrap yourself in the 3rd treasure: tranquility.
Surpassing these 3 fears with their 3 errors can lead you to take back your conscious place in the game of Creation.
You can stop following constructs made by others. You can start creating your own threads in the reality loom.
Now you know that behind the 3 biggest fears, you can find the 3 biggest treasures: confidence, love and peace.
On a spiritual level, you can learn how to use these 3 treasures as tools for your manifestation as a human being in this realm: as a true OM and be magic, create and feel free.
But that’s another story…
Thank you for listening—I hope it brought you something new… or perhaps helped you remember something very old… :)
I’d love to hear your thoughts. What did you think about the be-do-have Magic Formula? Or about the 3 treasures hidden behind the 3 fears? Feel free to share in the comments.
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See you next Friday! Until then… remember: Loom your wings. Weave your Path. Loom your Reality.