Pretty Okay Podcast

The Pretty Okay Podcast is back b*tches! And in this episode, Tayler and Sam dive straight into the deep end of the influencer pool—because while some of them are great partners, others make us think "Whyyyy?" From the frustrations faced by many small business owners to how influencers can do a better job of approaching them, get ready for a candid conversation filled with rants, revelations, and more than a few spicy takes. Buckle up for an unfiltered journey into the business of being Pretty Okay 👌 

What is Pretty Okay Podcast?

Welcome to the Pretty Okay Podcast, a chill (but sometimes spicy) small business podcast for people who are crazy enough to have one. Hosted by the Founder of Enji, Tayler Cusick Hollman, we cover everything from basic business practices to small business marketing. We sit down with some of our favorite small business owners and experts who share their stories, real-life experiences, and advice, all while keeping it (very) real and honest.

SAMANTHA: We're back, bitches! How's that for

an intro?

TAYLER: I love that.

SAMANTHA: Welcome back to the Pretty Okay Podcast.

I'm your host, Samantha Welker.

TAYLER: And I am Taylor Holman.

SAMANTHA: And it's been a minute.

TAYLER: It's been a minute. Like, however many

minutes are in a year? 500,000. No, 500, 25,600

minutes.

SAMANTHA: Right? Clock that. We made it 35 seconds

into the episode before Taylor sang. That was

pretty good.

TAYLER: That's a record.

SAMANTHA: But that is a very good way to remember

it. Honestly, that's the only way. Thank you,

rent.

TAYLER: Thank you, rent. I mean, I was like, there's

no, unless I'm picking up my phone and doing calculations.

I don't know that number.

SAMANTHA: So. I like that you say picking up your

phone and not picking up a calculator.

TAYLER: Oh, well, I only, you know. That's why

you're smarter than me because you has a calculator.

SAMANTHA: Well, you know, what did our teachers

always say? You're not going to always have a

calculator in your pocket. And it's like, no,

we do. Just kidding.

TAYLER: Oh, my God. That is 100% what our teachers

used to say.

SAMANTHA: Yeah. And you're like, it's like, no,

I do have one in my pocket, but I keep my actual

calculator on my desk. So I have both. So like

you're doubly wrong.

TAYLER: Oh my God. Oh, back to the days. Everyone's

like, Oh, yep. This is typical Taylor and Sam,

but this is what you come here for, right? The,

the rants, the, um, what's the word? Rants, soapboxes,

whatever, whatever comes to mind. It's very stream

of consciousness, which is why it's entertaining.

SAMANTHA: Yes. And, you know, rant wise, do we

have a doozy today?

TAYLER: We have a doozy today, you guys. This

one, Samantha started ranting about on... The

good old gram, as where any quality rant starts,

right?

SAMANTHA: Right.

TAYLER: And I promptly swooped right in and said,

we should make this an episode. So here we are.

SAMANTHA: Here we are. I think, too, when I started

it, I was like. I'm just going to write a blog

post or I'm just going to, I should just do a

podcast episode or something about this. I have

so much to say.

TAYLER: Yes. So what are we commenting about today?

SAMANTHA: Oh, great. We haven't even told them.

Did we tell them?

TAYLER: No. No, we haven't told them.

SAMANTHA: I was, Sam was just ranting. That's

all they know. Okay, well, it's going to become

as no surprise to anybody that I was ranting about

influencers. So here we are today.

TAYLER: So you can think of this as a follow-up

to our Trust Me, I'm an Influencer episode. Yeah.

But this one is, I think, going to be a little

bit more cutthroat. So buckle up, bitches.

SAMANTHA: Buckle up, bitches. I, yes, I have many,

many thoughts, obviously, which we will get into.

But yeah, I think this rant mostly stemmed from

frustration. And I know I'm not the only one.

Like, As soon as I posted those stories, like

every friend I have that has a brand is just like,

oh my God, me too, me too. So if you're listening

to this because you're like, oh, God, Sam's ranting

about influencers. No, it's not just me. So...

I'm trying to speak collectively for business

owners everywhere. Business owners, marketing

managers, whatever your seat is where you're working

with influencers. It's pretty much all the same.

TAYLER: Yeah, you know, and I have... Had this

interesting experience. You guys, since we last

recorded in an episode, I have birthed another

business. And so, right. So NG is out into the

wild. And I experienced this in a similar but

different way because people make this assumption

that if you have a tech startup, that you have

$50 million in funding sitting in your bank. And

hey, that is not what Engie is doing. We are totally

self-funded. We do not have extra cash to throw

around. But I'm still getting these requests from

not even necessarily influencers, just like people,

assuming that I have money to burn and asking

for dumb shit and like just coming in hot with

the requests. So. Yeah, I'm I am very much excited

about today's chat because, you know, it's. The

takeaway, there will be some actual takeaways

as there always are. Yes, yes, yes. But it's like

how to ask properly and not be an asshole influencer.

And then also like from the business side, what

do you need to do to maybe like repel some of

these folks from reaching out too often?

SAMANTHA: Yeah, you know, I think even in the

days before Taylor, came on the podcast, Julia

and I did an episode, like I think one of our

very first ones that was like how to not be. Gross

when pitching yourself to brands.

TAYLER: And

SAMANTHA: If you're an influencer and you're wanting

to get into the game, go listen to that one first

and come back. Actually, go listen to that one.

Then go listen to the... Trust me, I'm an influencer.

And then come back because this is like a tiered

subject here. There's a lot to unpack. So, I mean,

let's start with... Kind of just talking in general

about like. Who's an influencer? From a brand

perspective, what is an influencer? Aren't we

all influencers? We're all fucking influencers.

Like, are we still allowed to cuss?

TAYLER: Yes, absolutely.

SAMANTHA: Um, so influencers, people think are

somebody with a crap ton of followers who post

something and it goes viral. That could not be

farther from the truth these days. Like honestly,

it would be awesome if it was, that was how it

was for a hot minute when Instagram was, you know,

kind of rolling along and the very first influencers,

uh, were coming out. But I mean, there's a lot

of different buckets for influencers these days.

And I think that, you know, content creators is

kind of the main one that brands are looking to

work with. And we're going to get into all of

that later. But like, there's really two main

purposes of why a brain works with an influencer.

And I'm going to use the term influencer as like

an overarching thing here, right? But two reasons

they're working with influencers are either to,

A, generate sales, right? Hoping that their reach

gets people interested in your product. Or B.

Create content. Because when you have these different

buckets, you've got your content creators who

they might not necessarily convert all that much,

but to create beautiful content for you to use.

And they are incredibly valuable to your business,

but in a different way. Right. Then obviously

generating sales. So, I mean, I. Right now I work

with, I think, I want to say we have about 150

influencers on our roster.

TAYLER: That is too many to manage.

SAMANTHA: Well, yes, it is. I inherited them.

And, yeah, it's too many. I inherited them. A

big part, you know, and. As I've been with Briar

for the past year. Which I don't even know if

anybody knows that. Cause if we don't podcast

since I started with Brian,

TAYLER: I don't think so. So, you know, we all

heard my business birthing baby. What's yours.

SAMANTHA: Yeah, I mean, I didn't birth anything.

I just took someone else's, but.

TAYLER: I shouldn't put it like that.

SAMANTHA: But so I'm at Briar Baby now instead

of Sully Baby, heading up brand and marketing.

Very lateral move for me. Pretty much the exact

same role, just instead of baby wraps, baby hats.

Hence the beanie. I have to stay on brand. Actually,

this is Christy Dawn, so don't tell anybody. But.

I, yeah, I inherited about 150 influencers. And...

I'm going to try not to make this episode just

me complaining about the influencers that I work

with on a regular basis. Because I hate... You

think 150 is a lot, but at Solly Baby, we did

150. It reached out to 150 a month. So it was

a crap ton. And I know brands that do even more

than that. All depends on your product. We'll

get there. But. In terms of... You know, the ones

that I currently have. I've been able to figure

out which bucket to put them in. And so there's

a small group that goes into the content creator,

which it's like their shit's on brand for us.

We love it. We're going to use it. There's the

ones that... Have a smaller account, but for some

reason have a bitching like engagement rate. And

like some of our top. Converting influencers have

less than 3000 followers, but their audience is

super tuned in. You know, they're very. Like.

I would consider them an actual influencer because

people are influenced by them to buy shit. And

then we have the largest bucket. Which is just

people who want free shit and nothing happens.

I would say that's about 80% of those 150. Which

In general, is pretty common for most brands.

You know, and it's, it's. As a business owner

or a marketer, you know that it's just throwing

shit at the wall and seeing what sticks. We don't

know at the gate who's going to convert and who's

not. It's trial and error. You know, you're taking

a risk by... Gifting people product and whatnot.

Which That's another thing. Gifting versus paying.

Mm-hmm. A lot of influencers these days want to

be paid. And it's understandable, right?

TAYLER: They're creating content.

SAMANTHA: But unless they're getting paid for

creating content, getting paid to actually just

be an influencer. And like promote a product doesn't

work for brands anymore. It just doesn't. So if

you're listening to this, think about which of

those buckets you fit in, you know? And if you

haven't considered which of those buckets you

fit in. It's time to do some soul searching because

there's a good chance you're in that big old 80%

bucket.

TAYLER: Which is the most annoying bucket. And

those are the people that are currently reaching

out to me. Like, I had someone who... Wanted us

to upgrade their account, which there's no way

to upgrade their account because when you create

an ng account, you get access to everything, right?

Like we don't throttle anything. But they literally

just emailed me this morning asking that if they

would write us a review. If we would upgrade their

account. And I was like, putting on my soft kid

gloves as I'm typing, but in my mind I'm going,

fuck off. Like, if you want to write a review,

write a review. If you don't, don't. But don't

come at me asking for free shit just because you

are going to type some words that I don't even

know what you're going to type.

SAMANTHA: Yeah, that's an interesting one. That's

like... Bare minimum.

TAYLER: 100%. So annoying. Thankfully, I don't

know who this human is outside of having contact

via this email. So it's highly unlikely that they're

listening to this podcast.

SAMANTHA: Yeah, yeah. Sure, sure. You know, thinking

about which of those buckets you might fit into.

Content creator, you know, someone with a dedicated

community who's actually going to convert. Other.

I'll just say other is the third bucket. And you

know, here's the thing is that influencers have

the ability to track this. They know it because

a lot of the times brands are using a platform

like Grin or Shopify Collabs where they have a

back end and they can see how they're converting,

how many link clicks they're getting, how many

times people are using their discount codes, things

like that. So there's no need to be flying blind

as an influencer. And if it is something you really

want to do and you really want to be a content

creator for brands, you should be keeping an eye

on those metrics. Thousand percent, why wouldn't

you? Because, you know, I would be willing to

bet that all of these gals in the 80% bucket here

I've never looked at that and are still just continuing

to ask for free product, knowing that they've

gotten zero link clicks. Like... Hello. Yeah.

So. I encourage you to check out, you know, those

backends. And if you don't have those, like if

you're working with brands that don't have that,

which is, I think, kind of rare these days. Email

your influencer coordinator or whatever, and just

be like, Hey, how's it going? Like, what can I

do? If it's someone you were actually want to

build a relationship with.

TAYLER: Yeah, and if you are an influencer or

content creator listening to this or like exploring

the idea of adding this as a, you know, a revenue

stream for your business.

SAMANTHA: Yeah.

TAYLER: That's exactly what it is. You have to

treat it as another revenue stream of your business.

Therefore, you have to treat it like a business.

And a real business is going to track these numbers.

And... From the business side of things of who

you might be trying to sell your content to, or

create these relationships with, that's the first

fucking question I'm going to ask. Like what's

your average conversion rate on things, right?

Like, because as the, as the company, I want to

have an idea, even just a broad strokes idea of

what I can expect from you and the, and the money

or product that I'm investing in you. So. Yeah.

If you are doing that soul searching and you are

in that 80% bucket. Or you're looking at your

business and the influence that you have, the

influencers that you have, and you're looking

at that 80% bucket. You personally need to make

some pretty significant changes in terms of how

you're approaching your pitches, right? Yeah.

Or how you're just operating things in general.

SAMANTHA: Yeah. And I mean, that actually kind

of leads pretty nicely into. Talking about what

a brand wants from an influencer, right?

TAYLER: I kind of touched on it a little bit.

What a brand needs.

SAMANTHA: More singing. I've missed yours. Missed

it. Looking at it from a big picture, which...

I don't think the majority of influencers do.

You know, It's... Not free marketing for brands

to work with influencers. I've seen people post

stuff like that, like influencers that I've worked

with. And then I start following. I should say

I have a handful of influencers that I follow

on my personal account that I love, right, that

I've worked with. And I'm like, you're a rad human.

You do a great job. Great. I'm interested in what's

going on with you. Let's be friends. I also follow

like other ones. And then It turns me off from

working with them anymore when I see the stuff

that they're posting, because like, I'll see them

complaining about brands not wanting to pay them.

And things like that. And it's like, I don't think

you realize that. Influencer marketing is not

free. We are paying for the products that we're

making. We're paying to ship them. We're paying,

you know, we're paying for all like the platforms

that we use to work with influencers. Grin's not

cheap. That's like three grand a month. Oh, my

God.

TAYLER: That's how much that big one is.

SAMANTHA: Yeah, it's stupid. It's an investment.

Oftentimes you have people like employees who

are dedicated to influencer coordinating. That's

a salary. That's a person. Like none of this is

free to a brand. And then you're looking at the

profit margins. Like, you know, I know at Glitter

Guide, I was always amazed by the amount of beauty

products I would get sent. Like. Without asking.

They would just show up at my door. And it's because

beauty products have a much lower cost margin,

right, than we have for, say, making handmade

baby bonnets. It's a lot. Different, especially

if you're producing your product overseas. That's

also a big factor. So there's just all of these

things to kind of look at when you're looking

at the brand that you're requesting product from

or requesting to work with. Are they local? Where

are their products made? What obviously you're

not going to know the exact answers, but like

take a guess based on their industry, what their

profit margins might be. So, you know, if it's

a bottle of baby bubble bath. Great. Like they're

doling that shit out like candy. But when you

have stuff that's more handmade or more has really

a lot slimmer profit margins. They can't be doling

product out to everybody who comes in requesting

it. And I know like for us, we get a ton of repeat

requests, like influencers who just want new product.

Like if we come out with a new style, they're

like, great. Or, hey, my baby grew out of this.

Can I size up? And it's like, we're not just.

Like. Your closet. Outfitting your kid. Yeah.

And so I think, you know. That's just a big component.

To me, that's the biggest one that influencers

don't take into consideration is the actual business

and financial side of it is that. No, you're not

technically getting paid when you're doing a gifted

collaboration, but it's not free marketing for

the brand. Like if anything, they're taking a

bigger risk than you are. So yeah, 100% off your

fucking high horse. No, I'm just kidding.

TAYLER: But also, yes.

SAMANTHA: But also, I'm not kidding.

TAYLER: Yeah, no, I think that's one of the huge

things that just people in general don't realize

or appreciate is that everything costs something.

Even if your business does have like a dedicated

affiliate coordinator or influencer coordinator,

that's still time from that person's day that

is the cost on top of the, you know, the actual

financial investment. And I was talking to a new

friend of mine just yesterday and one of her kind

of broken record phrases to herself, maybe kind

of a mantra is minutes matter. Like that's what

she's really leaning into this year. And I was

like, oh, that is so good. Right. And that ties

into this whole thing where it's not free. Every

minute that a company is trying to execute on

any sort of request costs it money. So nothing

is free.

SAMANTHA: When did we agree that you could get

new friends?

TAYLER: Oh. Okay, fine. Sorry. She's in Florida.

If that makes you feel better, like I will.

SAMANTHA: No, it doesn't. Why are you hanging

out with people in Florida?

TAYLER: Well, on the internet. On the internet.

SAMANTHA: Lives in Florida and I'll trust her.

TAYLER: I know that whole state. Unfortunately

I know like more than a few people that are in

Florida. I'm like you need to leave. You need

to leave.

SAMANTHA: You're better than this. Yeah.

TAYLER: Oh my goodness. I like that though.

SAMANTHA: Minutes matter.

TAYLER: Yeah. The minutes matter. Everything matters.

Right. Time is money.

SAMANTHA: Money is power. Power is pizza.

TAYLER: I was totally going to say that. I used

that gif in an email newsletter for ng.that long

ago.

SAMANTHA: And I was like, oh, I know where she's

going with this. I'm so proud.

TAYLER: Yep.

SAMANTHA: Oh, so good.

TAYLER: You guys, you guys. Let's talk about something

helpful for all of the small business owners that

tune into this.

SAMANTHA: Are you saying the rest of that was

not helpful?

TAYLER: No, I think it is helpful. I'm just kidding.

It is helpful because you always want to know

like what shit is happening out there, right?

Like, you know, half of this, half of surviving

the lifestyle of owning a business is knowing

what could potentially come at you that is just

a total bullshit opportunity, right? Yeah. And

so that is, even though we're wrapping this up

as a rant, it's still very helpful for people

to know, right? Like, don't just give your shit

away for free. Please don't do that. And that

is so rampant in the wedding and creative industry,

just like people giving away things for free that

have hard costs. So please don't do that. And

the other side of this equation, for anyone who

wants to work with an influencer of any type.

What are the, we should probably talk about the

things that are positive that they should look

for in a collaborator. So we already kind of roundabout

talked about how that influencer should have some

numerical data. To give to you, provide to you.

And if they... Resist, that is a clear sign to

just like... The fuck out. Right. Yeah. But what

are other things that businesses and brands should

look for? In an influencer if they're considering

them. Asking for a friend.

SAMANTHA: Yeah, sure.

TAYLER: Asking for a friend.

SAMANTHA: I get a lot of media kits sent my way,

which... Are fine. Like, For me, I'm not really

looking to see the whole huge breakdown of who

your audience is and like which. You know, you

can see when they send over a media kit, I guess,

you can see the other brands they've worked with.

And that's helpful because then you can. Like,

be like, oh, cool, they've worked with so-and-so.

So, like... I've had brand friends too, who will

reach out like. In the same industry and be like,

Hey, Do you mind sharing some influencers you've

worked with who work really well for you? I'm

like, yeah, I'm happy to share those with you.

Because as long as they're not a competitor, you

know, if it's like. Somebody else with another

baby bonnet you fuck off um but i don't think

people most of the time people aren't that dumb

TAYLER: No, I would hope not. Please don't be

that dumb. Guys, don't be that dumb.

SAMANTHA: I mean, isn't that kind of just the

equivalent of like when people ask you to... Do

consulting to be a marketing consultant. It's

kind of the same thing. It is the same thing.

But like, you know. When there's people in the

same industry, but selling a different product,

like I'm happy to share that with them and vice

versa. I think it's good to, you know, if someone

has a track record, it's basically like asking

for a reference in a job interview. Um, And, you

know, like we said, a lot of it is just throwing

shit at the wall and seeing what sticks. But tracking

it on your end is crucial, which if you don't

have a platform like Grin or Shopify Collabs or

anything like that. I mean, honestly, Shopify

Collabs is free, so you should be on it even if

you're not. And because most brands are on Shopify

these days, Shopify collabs is easy to track.

Recommend jumping on that bandwagon. Um, and.

You know, I think... I've had people just send

over screenshots of their last few posts that

are like, look, my reel got X amount of views.

Like that's always handy. Big one for me, this

is just like a personal pet peeve maybe, is, you

know, canned. Blanket requests where they don't

even say your brand name in it. They're just like,

I love your brand. Would love to collaborate.

It's like. Try a little harder.

TAYLER: Yeah.

SAMANTHA: And. So like those basic canned inquiries

and then also. You don't fucking follow the brand

on social yeah I don't. The other day I was combing

through our influencers and I was like, these

ones don't follow us on social and we give them

free shit. Like, how does that make sense? Yeah.

How can they be an actual? Organic representative

of the brand if they're not engaged yeah and so

i mean that's a big for me that's a big sign if

they're not already following you when they reach

out like They're just on the hunt for free shit.

TAYLER: Yeah. And, you know, from from my side

of things, because I'm very much like actively

trying to find the right people that would be

good influencers and affiliates for Engie. Yeah.

And. I guess you would call it a tactic. I don't

know. It sounds really aggressive to call it a

tactic, but these are the things that I'm doing.

Strategy. Strategy. These are the strategies that

I'm doing. And so I'm trying to find folks, and

oftentimes I'm finding them on Instagram, just

seeing who's connected tangentially to my network.

And the first thing that I do is I follow them.

Right. And then I engage with them, like genuinely

engage with their content, liking stuff, commenting,

you know, just kind of friendly banter. For quite

a long while, before I ever think about making

an ask.

SAMANTHA: Because how long do you think would

you say ballpark?

TAYLER: Two months?

SAMANTHA: Okay.

TAYLER: I mean, I really, because, you know. I

mean, people could say this about me too, where

like maybe on the surface level, they think it's

a good fit. And then they really follow me like,

oh, maybe it's not great.

SAMANTHA: Yeah.

TAYLER: You know, because you just really have

to get to know someone if you're trying to build

some sort of real long term relationship. And

so I want to see if there are any sort of like.

I mean, let's just be real. I am looking for political

red flags. Like, does this person live in Florida

and think Ron DeSantis would be a great president?

SAMANTHA: Why are you making friends in Florida

then?

TAYLER: This person is not voting. Well, Ron DeSantis

isn't even on the ticket anymore. But this person

is definitely not a Republican. So she clears

that gate. But, you know, I think that that's.

That's important to know as a brand. Like who

are you proverbially getting in bed with? So you

need to scope that out before you are deciding

to tap someone in and really... Treat them. Well

and compensate them for their time. Because you

just, you know, you don't want to find out that,

oh, this person has been out there touting your

product, your service, your business, your brand.

And then like something comes out of left field

and you're just like, ooh. Now I have a nice PR

kind of crisis that I need to handle.

SAMANTHA: Yes. Yes. I, especially with big time

influencers. I always do a deep dive on them.

You know, it's always great to do a Google search

before you're working with somebody. Like if you're

just gifting somebody something like, OK, you

can look as deep as you want. If you're like doing

an actual paid partnership with somebody or a

collaboration, you need to Like, you need to be

your own FBI. Investigate the shit out of it.

Because things will come out. And I remember one

time with Solly, like. Wee. I think it was like

right before I left, but we gifted this gal something.

And she posted about it. And then like our audience

got so upset because she's. Can't remember what

her deal was her and her husband like were super

trumpy and super like they said some really like

shady shit i guess i genuinely don't remember

the details because i was like um If you're not

watching the camera or the video, I did not fart.

That was me saying I'm out. Just realized not

everybody's going to be seeing my hand motions.

Uh, yeah. So it's, you know, it's, it's easy for

people to get riled up. We know this, like we

know people are easy to get fired up on the internet.

Don't even get me started on the kite baby controversy.

TAYLER: Oh, I don't know what this kite baby is.

Did someone put a baby on a kite?

SAMANTHA: Yes, we'll circle back to that. We absolutely

put a baby on a kite. No, that's the name of the

brand.

TAYLER: Oh my god, you guys, this is such proof

that Sam and I work in different industries. Also,

as a non-parent, I'm like, I don't know what Kite

Baby is.

SAMANTHA: Oh, I'm surprised. I mean, it's like,

like all the news outlets have picked it up and

stuff. That's why I thought maybe you'd heard

of it. Like, yeah. Anyways. Yes. I mean, even

when you're just giving someone product, like

they're a representation of your brand, right?

And. Because let's be honest, like. People know

when somebody's posting something that's gifted.

Or paid. Instagram makes that very clear that

you need to. Say, this is a paid partnership or...

You could just tell.

TAYLER: Like, you know what I mean?

SAMANTHA: Like, you can just tell the way somebody

writes a caption. They're like, I love my... It's

like, yeah, we know. They gave it to you for free.

TAYLER: Which is fine.

SAMANTHA: For me, like... I think that. It's better

to be safe than sorry. So if you feel like there

might be red flags with someone,

TAYLER: Just hold on.

SAMANTHA: Wait, do the Taylor thing. Wait a few

months.

TAYLER: Scope it out. Scope it out. So, I mean,

in addition to really getting to know the people

that you're working with, I think. One of the

big mistakes that smaller brands make when they're

starting to work with influencers is... Not having

a contract. Right? Every grandma gets a contract.

Right, Sam?

SAMANTHA: Even your grandma gets a contract.

TAYLER: Grandma gets a contract.

SAMANTHA: Yes. It's a little different with gifted

than it is with.

TAYLER: Yes.

SAMANTHA: Compensation. If you're expecting something

specific in return for gifting product, you need

to be very clear about that. You need to outline

it in your campaign terms, however you're. Onboarding

your influencers. That needs to be written out.

If you're gifting them and just like... You know,

like, hey, I gave Mandy Moore a baby wrap. Really

hope she posted about it. I wasn't going to be

like, hey, Mandy Moore, can you sign this contract?

You know, it depends on the situation. Yeah, if

money is exchanging hands. Grandma gets a contract.

A lot of the times you get people who, even with

like a campaign. That they opt into, which is

the. Kind of the main way to do it in the product

industry. You get people still just doing the

bare minimum.

TAYLER: Mm-hmm.

SAMANTHA: I can listen. I'm going to rant about

a few things for this topic. But one of my biggest

ones, Unboxing is not fucking content.

TAYLER: Stop making unboxing videos.

SAMANTHA: Nobody bought anything based off of

somebody's unboxing video. It's boring. It's lame.

It makes you look like you're showing off the

fact that you got free shit. And it does nothing

for the brand that sent it to you. End rant.

TAYLER: And...

SAMANTHA: On our campaigns, I always put stuff

like. You know, because you put deliverables,

right? Yeah. So say you're launching a new product,

you create the campaign. That people can. Apply

for. From your influencer pool. So putting in

those deliverables in there, like I want. Two

Instagram stories on these dates for the launch,

one static and feed post on this date. And you

can put, or I always at least put things like

in parentheses, unboxing does not count.

TAYLER: Yes. Yeah. Because you want this content

to add value to your brand and your product, right?

And What people want to see before making a decision

to buy from you is how it works and how it helps

someone else. So that's the kind of content that

you want your, you know, your influencers, your

brand ambassadors, whomever, your content creators

to create, because that's actually going to help

you not just look at this beautiful, you know,

USPS brown box that I got.

SAMANTHA: Right.

TAYLER: And I pulled out this product.

SAMANTHA: Yeah. I'll tag you. I'll tag you in

my stories if you send me. Something. It's like.

TAYLER: Yep.

SAMANTHA: And the thing too, like with stories,

stories only last for 24 hours, right? So I know

a lot of people like to focus on their stories

because they tend to get better traffic these

days than in feed because the algorithm hates

us. But stories are just, they're too quick. Mm-hmm.

Like. They're too fast to be anything more. Then

a shot in the dark at converting.

TAYLER: Yep.

SAMANTHA: So if you're actually looking to like

build a relationship with a brand, you need to

offer more than just stories.

TAYLER: Yep. Yep. And... For all of the brands

out there, please track some metrics on each of

your folks. These people, like you said, Sam,

like they're going to come back to you and ask

for more. They're going to ask for more free shit.

And so it is your responsibility as the business

owner to know who deserves more free shit.

SAMANTHA: Right. So. And can I tell you who does

not deserve more free shit?

TAYLER: I don't know. Tell me.

SAMANTHA: So one of my big things. If you're going

to come back to me and ask me for more stuff.

Please don't be posting competing brands. Oh,

yeah. On your social channels. Yeah. If you're

deciding you want to work with a brand in certain

industries, right? Whether that be a certain apparel,

certain like technology, whatever. We'll just

continue to use baby hats, for example. So say

I send you a bonnet and then you come to me and

ask me for another bonnet and I go to your socials.

And you've just posted your baby in another company's

product. Tagging it like It just... It's not even

like, oh, she's working with our competitors.

It makes it feel so incredibly... Not organic.

TAYLER: Yep. Like, it feels gross.

SAMANTHA: It's like... It's gross. So that's a

big thing. If you really want to work with brands

on an ongoing basis, you have to build a relationship.

And that means, you know, engaging with them on

social media, following them on social media,

engaging on social media. Those are my favorite

influencers are the ones who I didn't. You know,

I'm not asking for shit. They're just doing it

because they genuinely love the brand.

TAYLER: Yep.

SAMANTHA: And that kind of in tandem means not

promoting other brands with competing products

if you want to continue working. With the original

brand. It's really easy to want to try to get

as much free stuff as you can. I get that. It's

they're like, it's exciting to have brands send

you stuff for free. But from my business perspective,

like you have to make smart choices. Yep.

TAYLER: Yep. And that's the lesson from today's

episode, folks.

SAMANTHA: Make smart choices.

TAYLER: Make smart choices and stop asking for

free shit, right?

SAMANTHA: Well, unless I mean, you don't have

to stop asking, but you have to be worthy of the

free shit. And having X amount of followers does

not make you worthy of said free shit. Like that's

the part people need to realize. Or when they

say like, well, I can create content for you.

It's like, OK, well, take a look at the brand's

content. If your content is not up to par or not

the same vibe and they're not going to repost

it, does nothing for them.

TAYLER: Yeah.

SAMANTHA: And, you know, I mean, I'm sure with

NG too. When you're looking to work with influencers

for your brand, please use the product correctly.

Don't post stuff using it incorrectly. That was

always a huge thing at Solly. People would post

these reels of them wearing their wraps and their

babies got like one leg out and they're going

to fall. And it's like, Jesus Christ. Okay.

TAYLER: Yeah. So

SAMANTHA: That's another thing. Pay attention

to brand guidelines.

TAYLER: Yes. Yes. And. OK, I'll revise my lesson

for the day is that both from the the influencer

perspective and the brand perspective, you are

looking for a true. Brand ambassador and loyalist

who believes in the business. Right. And so you

need to be that as an influencer and not just

be grabbing for stuff. And then as a business

owner, you need to be trying to connect with and

find those folks. So, you know, I have. Run different,

I know affiliates is different than influencers

to some degree, maybe to a major degree. But,

you know, when I look at The... Affiliates that

I've got, most of them fall into that 80% bucket

where You know, they will... Post their affiliate

link on a resource page of their website. And

then that's basically where it stops. And... That

it's like, that's not, this is not what we're

trying to do here. We're trying to look for people

who are genuinely stoked about what it is that

you're bringing to the table. So. So yes. So yes.

People. So yes. Influencers. We could rant about

influencers till the end of time. Sure.

SAMANTHA: But we don't have that much time to

record.

TAYLER: No, we don't. We don't. You've got two

small children. I have a to-do list that won't

quit. You also have a to-do list that won't quit.

So if anyone wants to continue this rant, you

know where to find us. We're all over the internets.

They are all over the internet.

SAMANTHA: Yeah.

TAYLER: So. Well, as we're wrapping up, you guys,

we have kind of a big announcement to make. Samantha

does need to step away from the podcast.

SAMANTHA: Yes, it's been.

TAYLER: You've been on, you've been doing this

for a long time. Five years.

SAMANTHA: That's a long time. It's a long time.

And I mean, I guess we can't technically count

last year because we just kind of went for last

year.

TAYLER: Also not a farting.

SAMANTHA: But I mean, you know, we didn't record

at all last year because I was just so overwhelmed

with work and the punk ass baby that, you know,

it just didn't work out. And I think I'm just

at a punk ass baby didn't work out. No, he worked

out fine.

TAYLER: The way you said that made it sound like

the punk ass baby didn't work out.

SAMANTHA: No, I kept the punk ass baby. I have

to get rid of the podcast. Something I had to

give. Yes. But, you know, I mean. It's been a

wonderful five years for me, five, four, whatever

you want to call it. We've talked about a lot

of really fun stuff and I think we've helped a

lot of people. But fear not because the podcast

is not going away. I'm just going away.

TAYLER: I mean, I am personally very sad that

you're going away. I was reading back through

some of our reviews and I love most of them are

like. About our relationship and our friendship

and just how there is a, a very special chemistry

to be totally cliche that we have. And I love

that we've gotten to share our weird fucking friendship

with the world. Because. It makes me so happy

that people, A, find it entertaining and B, feel

like we're a place that they can come to learn.

And so it really, you know, I am taking over the

podcast with all of the responsibility. I'm like,

let's do this. It's going to be different because

I won't I probably won't say fuck as much because

I don't know if all of my guests will want me

to say fuck as much.

SAMANTHA: We'll see. Those are the wrong guests.

OK. We'll see.

TAYLER: It'll be different, but I'm gonna definitely

keep. The baton going with all the small business

talk, all of the spicy topics. Like I want this

to continue to be a place where people are going

to get brutally honest. Yeah. I think conversations

about running a business. So, and who knows, maybe

every once in a while I'll drag Sam back into

a conversation. Yeah.

SAMANTHA: I'll pop in. I'll pop in every now and

then.

TAYLER: So, but yeah, I mean, I'll pop in. The

plan is to release new episodes on a monthly basis.

I have hired podcast editors because Sam was that

person and I just got to show up and be the pretty

face and talent.

SAMANTHA: In addition to all of the outlines.

Come on. And sell yourself short.

TAYLER: But, yes, I've had to hire someone because

I was like, I don't know how to do this.

SAMANTHA: It's a lot of fucking work. Hence why

I had to.

TAYLER: Yes, exactly. So but the podcast is going

to live on. It will still be the Pretty OK podcast

because that is the best podcast name ever. And

I don't think that much will change other than

the fact that it's going to be me and some other

rotating human on a monthly basis.

SAMANTHA: But which, you know, to be fair, has

been it's not a new thing. Because you picked

up an awful lot of slack in those early Milo days.

TAYLER: You know, those punk ass baby days, you

know, that is, that's what partners do, Sam. We

pick up the slack. So, well... That is, I guess,

the last episode of this iteration of the Pretty

OK podcast.

SAMANTHA: I bet you didn't know when I jokingly

asked you if you wanted to be my new co-host that

this is where you'd end up. I know.

TAYLER: And I still. Taking the reins. I know.

You guys, we've talked about this before. When

I was a guest way back when. It was kind of like

a joke. Like, hey, do you want to be my new podcast

partner? And I remember... And I immediately,

I remember texting Cassie and immediately I was

like, oh my God, I think Sam wants me to be your

podcast host, co-host. Like, I took it very seriously.

SAMANTHA: So I'm glad it worked out.

TAYLER: It did work out. But yes, little did I

know that, what, I think you and I have been doing

it for two and a half years, three years, something

like that.

SAMANTHA: More than that, because Milo is two

and a half.

TAYLER: Oh, okay. So like three and a half years

probably then. Yeah. Wow. Yeah. Yes, little did

I know that I would be taking the torch, but.

You know.

SAMANTHA: Well, here you go. Take it.

TAYLER: Taking it.

SAMANTHA: I can't wait to be a listener.

TAYLER: Judge the shit out of all of my guests.

SAMANTHA: Yes, if they're from Florida.

TAYLER: No one on my guest list is from Florida.

I promise you that.

SAMANTHA: Okay. Well, we'll see. So, but yes,

I know you're going to do great things with it

and I can't wait to listen to it.

TAYLER: Yeah, it'll be fun. Well. This is us signing

off from the Pretty Okay Podcast. Show notes will

be up on prettyokaypodcast.com. There will be

intermittent social media shenanigans happening

on Instagram still at Pretty Okay Podcast. But

thank you so much for tuning in to this episode.

We'll catch you next month. And Sam, I love you.

You're the best. Thank you for birthing this podcast

and giving it to me.

SAMANTHA: Hey. This is probably the only thing

I'll birth and give to you. So, you know. Love

you too.

TAYLER: All right, everyone. See you later. Bye,

guys.