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Just My POV is a raw, real, and refreshing talk show where a millennial aunt and her Gen Z nephew go head-to-head on everything—love, money, culture, gender roles, and the messy parts of growing up in two different worlds.
They don’t always agree.
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It’s not about who’s right.
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Hey guys, you're welcome to the freshest podcast on the planet. I'm Pro Cardi. And I'm Kelvin. And of course, you know, this is just my POV. Kelvin. What do you think about chemistry? Like, is there anyone that you've actually ever met that you kind of feel like, "No, I don't like this person. My energy and this person is not giving." Um, well, that doesn't happen all of the time, but you know, sometimes I actually meet someone and I'm like, "Uh, no, I don't like the person." And this is not because of the person did anything in particular. No, the person actually doesn't have to do anything. Sometimes your spirit just does not resonate with the person you meet. You understand? Like some people I to me personally and anytime I feel that way, I figure out that if I if I turn a blind eye to it, at the end of the day, there's actually something very shady the person is doing at the back. Okay. So, do you think that is okay? Because I I feel I feel like hang on a minute. So, I feel like yeah, there are some people that you may not like or be attracted to or like feel their energy, but I personally don't feel like it's okay for you to treat them standoffish a little bit. You get what I mean, right? Because I know that generally, you know, when you like meet somebody and then you don't really feel the person's energy. Sometimes you're kind of like, you know what, I just don't like her energy and then you just keep it moving and then give the person ask you the the whole time. There's no reason for that. I mean you can keep it civil but then you know you see um yeah so it's one thing to not like someone it's another thing to make the person uncomfortable about saying because okay so I feel it's okay for you to it's okay for you to not like somebody but I feel like you're the one who doesn't like the person so you should do the work of excusing yourself you know if you don't like someone exit the premises because if the person felt uncomfortable about your presence, the person wouldn't be there. Yeah. Do you understand? But if you like have business with the person, come on. I mean, living life in like in the world is inevitable, right? For you to for you to work with people, you need to work with people. You see them, you interact, you do what you know whatot. So there's no option of you exiting the building. You just have to manage that emotion. And that's where you guys have to work together to make things work. I just respect the person be there for the job you guys are there to do and just don't make it anything deeper than that because I feel like when you already know you do not like this person I personally get irritated like if I don't like you my body will be biting me believe me so so already when you now say that when you now say that when you overlook it that the person is doing something shady but the person hasn't even messed the person does not even know how would the person be doing something shady okay that reminds me there's someone who actually messaged me on Instagram. The person does the person does um commentaries on like some stuffs, right? And I don't want to be specific because the person will actually know. So this person actually messaged me and the person has not done anything. As a matter of fact, I actually appreciate this person's craft. But guess what? I don't like this person. And it's for a number of reasons. the person's aesthetic just does not you know sometimes sometimes you just can't be friends with a particular person and it's not because of the person just doesn't fit it just doesn't fit the plot you don't follow at all judging the person's aesthetic this has nothing to do with judgment also I feel like the person's mindset I've already concluded that it doesn't matter what this person is coming up with I'm just not interested yeah because you don't like the person's aesthetics that's what you said like come on and That's why I'm Jen Z. Excuse you. We do things solely based on the aesthetic. Period. So, do you see So, do you see how shallow that is? Extremely shallow. That one is applicable to who it's applicable to. No, it lacks depth and it's very shallow. Um you see if anything in the long run makes myself and this person eventually meet in reality and the person gives off a good vibe one that I can you understand like tolerate and then it's all right. So that's what I mean when I already but you know sometimes you just don't want to try like I'm not willing to try. Nobody is forcing you but like I said judging people based on their aesthetics is kind of crazy. So we live in a generation where body modification is like the rule of the day, right? And and and when we talk about body modification, I'm particular about cosmetic procedures like this is like anything we do to like you understand our bodies for aesthetic purposes, right? And it leaves me wondering because you ask people questions and they're like uh I did it because of uh I want to improve the way I look or so it leaves me wondering do you think cosmetic procedures are done as a result of insecurities? Of course. Of course. So first off everybody has what they're insecure about. There's nobody in this world that's perfect. So for this reason where you find that there are some issues where you're like oh I don't like this part of my body or I don't like this thing about me you might want to go and modify it. While a lot of people like to say oh no I feel like I'm so great I feel like I've got it together but still I just want to go and do you cannot deceive me because I know I know right now the thing about doing cosmetic procedures I actually love it. I think that it's good because I get to see these people living their best lives once they've done it. Like these girls are cashing out big time and I'm kind of like there are some of us who are like real and but anyways we are living our lives too and we're living a really good life. But what I'm trying to say in general is clearly it's because you're insecure. Even people who get like rhinoplasty even when they do like Botox and whatnot they're definitely insecure. You cannot lie to me. Uh I kind of agree with you on that one because uh me personally, right? If I was ever going to undergo any cosmetic procedure, right? I would be more comfortable hiding under the umbrella of I'm improving what's like already there. You know, that's like the popular line. I just want to enhance what already exists. Let me help you with enhancing what already exists. Go to the gym. Honestly, because that's what it is. Yeah. Because you can't you can't tell me that before before you undergo any of these things for improvement purposes, you need to have assessed it and for whatever reason you're not pleased with it or maybe you're pleased with it, not completely. See, that's an insecurity. The truth about enhancing what already exist is about going to the gym. Yeah, if your figure is a type of way, you go to the gym for people who raise eye to lose weight or to gain weight also because the gym is for both ways, right? To b whatever. But if you're trying to go under the knife, you're trying to change something you don't like. Simple and short. You cannot deceive me, cannot lie to me. I see you and I know you because I I have that feeling too about certain, you know, parts of my I don't feel like I'm perfect. I feel like there are a lot of event that I've tried to go to the gym for me in particular. Got it. There are a lot of things I would change. I trust you under the knife in the gym. I'm excited for you. Now, the thing is honestly because I love it. I people think it's a psychological problem, but believe me, it's very interesting when you do. You know what it you can't go to the gym to change the shape of your nose. Like you wake up the next morning and bam. Okay. So the thing about So the thing about someone like you, you don't need to get to go to the gym right now because you already you're already slim fit and then your body your figure is already Mhm. Anyways, as I was saying, your body is already cool. So if there's anything that you want to do, but now I kind of hear you say that you want to do your no. I hear you failed. So at least no but that one you can't even walk out your nose. Forget all that which they always tell you. Forget all that that they tell you that you should massage that thing and put that or fillers and those fillers they tell you that it's going to it's going to dissolve. But that makes you to have a bigger nose and a bigger nose because where is it dissolving? Other parts of your nose. Believe me. So no. If you're going to get a rhinoplasty, get it done. So, the thing about fillers, wait. So, the thing about fillers, it depends on the type of nose you're having issues with. The type of nose that you get fillers for are like those ones who like have that dense. So, you kind of need to That's very different from getting like a nose job. If you're trying to reduce your nose, you don't need fillers either. So, those are two very separate things. But, it's just making me laugh that a lot of people like to hide behind the idea. Plastic surgery. Plastic surgery. And they say, "I've never gone under the night. I've only had like fails." Nad cosmetic is not real. All right. But we're happy. We love you like that because I mean, the more confident you feel and the more and the better you carry yourself, I mean, the more expressive you would also be and the more friends you would have. So, for sure, I'm out for all of that and the confidence that comes with it. If you see these, But it is when they can capture you from any angle and I'm telling you and you're 100% my shoulder. Oh my lad is I'm telling you but this whole conversation is just bringing me to the next thing that I want us to talk about. Okay. So you know how everyone is improving with technology where your you know people are trying to you know correct their bodies, correct their looks even with uh Tesla the cars that don't electric cars that don't use like petrol and whatnot. All those improvements are absolutely great but I know that it affects all of us individually and collectively. When I say that there's an impact of technology on ships, friendships, relationships, family, because you get to you get to parties or you get to gatherings and everyone is on their phone, right? And I'm kind of like, can't we communicate? That's the reason we all came together. We can stay at home and be on our phones, but you know. Yeah. I think it's depending on the angle we're looking at it from. First of all, I feel like technology has done a very very big disadvantage to men approaching women. Let's even start from there. The fact that these days they would really they would rather text you on Instagram, Snapchat, somewhere is so agree than meeting somebody oneon one. So I don't agree with that. So the issue is because the issue is because they haven't met you in person. If they meet you in person, right? They can at least try to talk to you. Yeah. The few that have courage. Of course. Of course. Even the few that have the courage are also the few that will message you on IG. There are a lot of people who I have on my IG and on my socials that are just watching. They just like monitoring spirits your hair. So that's what I mean. Like they're just there enjoying the look. Oh, sometimes they like, sometimes they don't, and then they like, "Oh, love, love, love." Or love struck, and that's all. They don't even like, "Hello, baby. How are you doing?" None of that. But then I understand what you mean when you say that, you know, that they would rather message you because another thing is when you put up a post like maybe like a thirst trap, and it's not really because of them. They get now get the opportunity to feel free to type some of the dumbest messages to you, which makes no sense. And then when you confront them, they say, "Then why did you post it if you don't want someone to see it?" Exactly. It's not about you, bro. She should have sent it to your DM if it was for you. Don't you think so? Exactly. So but generally this is now you you were even speaking about like relationships like couples and whatnot but like generally speaking it really does affect us even in terms of like family. Tell me. Yeah because like now you have your family members but you guys have not seen in so long. You can go and visit them but you feel like because you can see your family or your cousin post on IG you feel like you already know your cousin story. you already know. Oh, I saw you. You traveled. I saw you. I've come back. Oh, you get like they settle for video calls. So, that's that's even that's if they even go through the process of calling you. The truth is a lot of times people feel like they're very familiar with you because they see you on socials. It doesn't mean that they've seen you in person. And because of that, they just get carried away with that idea. Oh, I know that you traveled yesterday. I know that you're back. I know that you went to the office. But they are not like hello how are you? How do you feel? How is your day going? What's happening in your personal life? And you know how social media isn't really like real life. Social media is just what you want people to see. It's what you want to portray to the public that they're going to work with. Yeah. So I mean for you, how do you manage having tech which is so great by the way? Yeah. But then keeping real relationships that are tangible that are Yeah. It's fair to say that is a very big distraction. Like it just distracts people because even for people who are like dating, right? Yeah. The the you know, you have so many people on social media. Yes. You know, so it gives you that uh that personality that don't really exist in reality and you're so comfortable with it, you're like, I'm that. Oh, you don't want to say the big words after saying it last. I'm that big. Come on, bro. And when in reality, you're actually not. Yeah. You know, a lot of people get carried away with those. That's why the ego doesn't match the girl. Like, she has just too much attitude for the not so pretty outlook. The same with the same with the guys as well when they are like in public spaces or like in parties maybe like you go out with your friends you go to like the strip now and then all of you are spraying money you go see the guy go like hey I'm a badass and they carry the money and like tell and I'm like bro you're sleeping on my so you didn't do bed you didn't do but specifically all those um content creator boys you know but I kind of felt like we should do better in terms of like keeping in touch with our with friends, family, different people. Like let's leave this idea of social media. Social media is great and I love it so much. You can I'm very active on my own socials so you can tell. But then I feel like we need to be more in touch with each other, our emotions, how we feel, how we make other people feel as well. And there are so many people on your like IG like now I have over like 200 how many thousand followers. Yeah. So I can like just flip and see so many people. But when I make a decision to come out and look for you, I'm driving to your house. I'm making a deliberate effort to see you because I feel, you know, I'm feeling for you or I or something. People should always bear it in mind that before social media, there was reality. Yeah. And everything you have on social media, you can actually lose it in a twinkle. Yeah. Absolutely. And then you're left with just true life connections. I swear. And that's when it hits the most. And I think you realize that all these people are telling you, "Ah, um, um, this of Legos, that of this, that Instagram body, girl, there ain't going to be nobody. Nobody's actually going to be there for you. Believe me, they're not going to be I've tried that thing once or more." I know. And I told you, but you didn't believe me. And then you found it twice shy. Well guys, let's all do better because it's very important for us to create very real connections. These real connections are the things that help us out. These are the real people that hold your hands when you're like in real trouble. All that social media thing, nobody, it's not very sustainable. Nobody is nobody is really being honest with you. All those love straw hat all those it's because they think it's going well for you. Yeah. But in real life the moment they're not going to be there for you. So let's all do better individually connecting you know directly with each other calling each other even if it's video uh video call FaceTime whatever let's just do better right with that being said guys let's come to the end of this week's episode of just my PO. But remember that you can uh watch this at the house chronicles. Also follow us on our own page just my POV podcast on IG and just my POV pod on Tik Tok. That's what it is. Until next time.