Make EdTech 100 with LindyHoc

The TikTok comments came in fast. "It's too late." "That's on parents, not teachers." "Banning is the only answer."

Lindy gets the frustration. But she strongly disagrees with the conclusion.

Because when students walk out of our buildings and into a world saturated with technology — and they will — what did we do to prepare them? If the answer is "we took the devices away," we failed them.

This episode is built around the one comment buried in all that noise: "Explicit teaching has a large place in education." Yes. That. Exactly that.

Lindy makes the case for explicitly teaching healthy technology use — what it looks like in classrooms, why parents can't teach what they were never taught, why going fully analog isn't enough, and why the window to get this right is shorter than it's ever been.

Part of the screen time series. Start with Episode 13 — "Not All Screen Time Is Created Equal" — if you haven't yet.

Episode 13 Not All Screen Time is Created Equal: https://www.lindyhoc.com/post/13-not-all-screen-time-is-created-equal 

ScreenPal webinar: https://screenpal.com/lindy-hockenbary-webinar 

What is Make EdTech 100 with LindyHoc?

Technology in education shouldn’t feel overwhelming, confusing, or disconnected from what actually works in classrooms. This show keeps it real. Each week, educator and K–12 EdTech Advisor Lindy Hockenbary shares practical strategies, stories from real teachers, and no-nonsense conversations about how to use tech in ways that feel human, joyful, and grounded in learning.
Whether you’re a teacher, a school leader, or an EdTech product builder, this show helps you Make EdTech 100 — real, relevant, and rooted in what matters most: kids.

Speaker 2: Welcome to MakeEdTech100.

I'm LindyHoc, educator, K-12
edtech advisor, and your host.

This is a podcast where we keep it real
about what actually works in classrooms.

No hype, no overwhelm, just practical
strategies, honest stories, and

tools that make a real difference
for teachers and students.

So come along with me on a
journey to MakeEdTech100.

Speaker: Today, we are going to continue
my series on the screen time debate.

So if you haven't listened to
episode 13 yet, I wanna encourage

you to go back and start there.

It's called "Not All Screen Time Is
Created Equal." It sets up everything

we're gonna talk about today.

You can absolutely listen without
it, but that episode is kind of

the beginning of this series, and I
will put the link in the show notes.

To start, I want to talk about TikTok.

I have been posting clips
from this podcast on TikTok.

I am a big TikTok user, if you
follow me, and so I'm trying to

post a lot more rather than just
consume, but actually contribute.

And recently, I posted one of my
tech check or tech rec clips from the

podcast where the guest and I were
discussing school cellphone bans.

The challenge with pulling these
clips from, you know, a 30 to hour

minute long podcast episode is
you only get a tiny glimpse of the

conversation and not all of the context.

And the argument that we were making in
the clip was that instead of having full

phone bans, especially the statewide bans,
they're not even allowed in the school

building type of thing, that instead we
should teach students responsible use.

And boy, oh boy, the comments that I
got on that video, I wanna start by

reading you some of these comments to
kind of frame our discussion today.

" Easily the best policy in schools this
year AKA someone who is really firmly in

the "we need to ban cell phones" camp.

"Eh, wrong.

Parents need to be looped in on this.

Engagement went through the roof
when we took them away and when

I ditched the Chromebooks even
more." " Maybe the parents should

teach them how to properly use a phone.

Not everything can be on teachers." "I
agree they should be taught the right way

to use a phone, but that's on parents.

We can't keep adding to teachers'
plates unless we are going to take

some things off." "It's too late.

We should have done that 20 years ago.

It's far gone now.

Banning is the only answer." " That is
like saying we can teach them how to

moderate drug use." "Nah, ban the phones.

Students do not need
these devices constantly.

An adult using one is
completely different.

It's an already developed
prefrontal cortex.

If we can get away from Chromebooks,
that would be perfection." This person

went on to argue that we should keep all
technology away from people until age

25, when our brain's fully developed.

Talk about a completely
unrealistic scenario, IMO.

But, so that was kind of like-- And that
was a good summary of, like, most of the

comments, but then there was this one
comment and it said, "Explicit teaching

has a large place in education." Yes.

That.

That is exactly what I
want to talk about today.

Now, before I go further, I want to name
something important because I think a lot

of those comments, the frustrated ones,
the just ban it ones, are responding to a

position I'm not actually taking and the
guest in the clip was not actually taking.

Again, they didn't have the full
context of the conversation.

Several commenters seemed to assume
that we were arguing for unfettered,

unrestricted phone access in schools.

Absolutely not.

We were not saying that students
should just have their phones out

whenever they want with no expectations
or no structure or no guidance.

I 100% do not think that
that's what we should do.

I think that's what led us to a lot
of the current challenge that we're in

now that's leading to these phone bans.

So, that's not my position.

That has never been my position.

My position is that
there is a happy medium.

There's a centrist approach that
the current conversation keeps

skipping over to go to one extreme,
which the completely ban it extreme.

That centrist approach
kinda looks like this.

We guide students, we set clear
expectations, we establish boundaries

Around when and how devices are used,
and within that structure, allow

use when it's appropriate, when it's
purposeful, when it adds to instruction,

when it adds to learning, when it's
intentional, when the teacher actually

maybe needs that technology access.

Not unfettered access, not zero access.

The happy medium, the centrist
approach right in the middle, the

guided, intentional, taught access.

The key word there is taught.

Now, two of those comments said something
I wanna address before we go any further.

Two separate people said some version of,
"Maybe parents should teach them how to

use a phone properly. That's on parents.
That on-- That's not on teachers," right?

"That's on parents, not on teachers."

And I wanna say, you are not
wrong that parents have a

role here, 100%, absolutely.

Parents have to have a role here.

It can't completely be on schools, but
it also can't completely be on parents.

The home is the first place that
the habits with these devices are

formed, and the place where a lot
of this needs to be reinforced.

But I also replied to one of those
comments and said, "Parents don't know

how to use them properly because they
were never taught either." And I come at

this from a very personal perspective,
from both being a part of the generation,

the very first part of generations that
started to get tech access in schools.

When I was in high school,
we had a computer lab.

We did a lot of PowerPoint
and Microsoft Office things.

It was right when MSN Messenger was
a thing, so in the computer lab, we'd

log on to MSN Messenger, and then
we'd like hide it from our teacher.

So like I was there as a student, so
that's part one of my personal experience.

Part two of my personal experience
is being a teacher, and I'll, I'll

talk a little bit more about that.

Nobody had conversations with
my generation about digital

footprints, algorithms, how platforms
are designed to capture your

attention and keep your attention.

Nobody ever taught us the difference
between productive use and

passive consumption of technology.

Nobody.

Now, I know The parents of the kids
that are in school were not taught

these things either, or at least the
vast majority of them, because again,

the parents are either my generation
or they are my former students.

My former students grew up,
became parents, and now they are

handing smartphones to their kids
without the tools to guide them

because nobody ever guided them.

It's like we have this chain, this
never-ending cycle chain, this just

infinite chain that goes round and
round, and it has to be broken somewhere.

So when we say that's on parents,
that can't be on schools, that can't

be on teachers, teachers are too
overwhelmed, yes, both are true.

Part of it is parents, part of it is
at home, but part of it has to be in

school, especially public schools.

Public schools are a public service,
and this is a public crisis, so

if schools aren't addressing this
crisis, there's a problem there.

You're a public service.

You've gotta address public crisises.

Crisises.

Crisises?

Is that a word?

I think it's crisises.

Crisises?

Okay.

All right.

We'll go with crisises.

We have to reckon with the fact
that we never equipped the parents.

We have a mega-generational
gap in digital literacy, and it

started long before smartphones.

It started when I was in that high
school classroom and computer lab in

Ekalaka, Montana, trying to hide MSN
Messenger from my teachers, and now it's

compounded a lot since then with every
new platform and every new device since.

Parents cannot teach what they were
never taught, what they don't know.

By the way, I get requests from parents
all the time for workshops for them.

I've done a few things.

I did a webinar for Varsity Tutors
that was focused on parents.

I've tried to kind of like connect
with libraries, public libraries, and

offer some workshops over the years.

I haven't tried in a
while, I will admit that.

But it's really tricky
for multiple reasons.

I won't go down that path.

But they... Parents are hungry.

Most parents are hungry
for this information.

So one thing to take away here from
being a school employee is that schools

have got to teach the parents too.

You can't just say, "This is on the
parents," and then just let it hang.

There's gotta be... I actually was in
a school a couple weeks ago, and this

conversation came up, and The person I was
talking to said, "We've tried to offer,

like, after-school events and hardly
anybody shows up. Like, we get a handful

of parents that show up for these things."

And I said, "Okay, how about this?" I
am all about right now micro-learning,

and especially micro-learning for
video and catching them in the scroll.

That's part of what this episode is
gonna be about, by the way, if I ever

get to that point and quit babbling.

So I said, "Hey I, I'm thinking of it
from the perspective of teaching teachers

and teachers teaching students, but
schools need to think about this as

teaching parents and caregivers as well.

So what if you create some 30-second,
maybe 60-second videos and post

them on your social channels?

Post them as Instagram Reels.

Instagram Reels are also Facebook Reels.

Post them on TikTok.

Post them on your YouTube channel
as YouTube Shorts, so you're giving

multiple avenues for parents to
be able to get this information."

So just something to think about.

So back to my point, parents can't
teach what they were never taught,

which is exactly why we can't afford
to keep waiting and exactly why

explicit teaching in schools with
students right now matters so much.

Now, the other part of those
TikTok comments were, we can't

keep adding to teachers' plates.

I hear it 100%.

Teachers are overwhelmed.

They're burnt out.

I get it.

Um, I wanna make the case today that
this isn't one more thing added to the

teacher's already impossible list, but
this is the thing that makes everything

else make more sense, and we've gotta
figure out some other stuff to cut because

technology can't be the thing to cut.

Technology infiltrates every
single part of our lives.

It affects how we vote.

Most people get their voting
information from social media now.

They don't get it from newspapers and
magazines and watching the evening

news at 6:00 like my grandparents
did, and still do to this day.

Every single evening they watch the 6:00
news, to the point that when they're

at my house, the TV goes on at 6:00
and they wanna figure out how to get

to live TV to watch the evening news.

Maybe it's 5:00.

What time is the eve-- See?

I don't even know what
time the evening news is.

5:00, 6:00, somewhere around there.

And we don't even have
live TV at my house.

All we have are streaming services.

So every time my grandparents come visit,
we have to figure out how to get to

live TV so that they can watch the news.

My grandma is going to be 90
In August, and my grandpa just

turned 87 a few weeks ago.

They've been married 67 years.

They still watch the evening news.

They are of a very, very, very, very
small percentage that still get their

information from the evening news.

But guess what?

They both have smartphones.

My grandpa is on Facebook.

My grandma doesn't really use
her phone, but my grandpa uses

his phone all the time, and it
is literally attached at his hip.

And he is on Facebook, and I know
that he is getting very specific

algorithmic content fed to his
Facebook feed at the age of 87.

So moral of the story, technology is it.

It's not the extra thing.

It's not the thing to
add to teachers' plates.

It's the thing that needs-- Not the only
thing, but it needs to be a central part

of what teachers do and what they teach.

I know the frustration is real.

Like I said, the exhaustion is real.

Teachers are stretched thin.

They're being asked to do more
with less every single year.

There are platforms out there that
are genuinely harmful in their current

form to many people, especially kids.

The concern is valid, but also, we can't
ban our way out of digital literacy.

We can't restrict our way to
responsible technology use.

Students live in a world
filled with technology, whether

they touch a device or not.

They encountered you just on your
drive to school or the office this

morning, encountered all sorts of
technology, security cameras that

scanned your face, stoplight systems.

You might have driven through, now we
have the lanes that adapt to traffic flow

if you live in a more urban metro area.

That's all technology.

It doesn't have a device.

It doesn't have a screen.

But it's all technology that
literally you can't live in modern

society without encountering.

If students are coming to your
school, even a virtual school, they're

definitely in virtual school 'cause
they can't interact with you without

technology in a virtual school, right?

They're interacting with technology.

So what do we do to prepare them?

That's the question.

So today's episode is about the thing
I think is most missing from this

debate, not more bans, not more access,
instruction Explicit, intentional,

skilled instruction in how to use
technology well, because that is something

we can do, and it's something we are
not doing nearly enough of currently.

Right now, the conversation about
technology and kids has two sides, and

both sides are shouting past each other,
and I realize I'm on one of these sides.

I'm on the side that is
saying, " Technology is powerful.

EdTech matters.

Don't throw out the
baby with the bathwater.

Kids need digital literacy." And
then the other side is screaming

at-- I'm screaming at them.

The other side's screaming at
me, "Technology is harmful.

It's frying our brains.

Algorithms are addictive.

Kids can't handle it.

Take the phones away.

Ban the devices.

Protect childhood." Right?

We're screaming, and both sides are
talking about access and the device.

More access, less access,
restrict, allow, moderate.

But nobody's talking about instruction.

Not access, instruction.

Because here's the thing,

we don't protect kids from
hard things by removing all

exposure to those hard things.

We protect kids by teaching them how
to navigate those hard things with

skill, awareness, agency, knowledge.

We don't teach kids about
stranger danger by keeping them

inside, locked away forever.

We let them walk to school.

We let them ride their bikes to school.

I see it every morning.

I live about three-- two, three blocks
from an elementary school and maybe

five, six blocks from a middle school.

So every morning, 8:00 to 8:30,
there's the mass, Monday through

Friday, the mass going to school,
kids walking, kids riding their bikes.

Especially this time of year
in Montana, they can actually

ride their bikes to school.

And then every day, 3:00
to 3:30, it's the opposite.

They're headed home, a lot
of them aren't with adults.

So we don't lock them inside forever.

We teach them what to do when an
adult makes them feel unsafe, so we

have the conversations with them.

"Hey, while you're walking to and from
school, what happens if an adult pulls

up and rolls down their window and starts
talking to you? What do you do? How

do you react?" Education, instruction.

We teach them.

We don't teach kids about alcohol by
locking them in a room until they turn

21, and they're legally allowed to drink.

We teach them what alcohol does to
their brain, why it's designed to

feel good, what responsible choices
look like We don't teach driver's

ed by keeping teenagers off of roads
until they're 18 and then handing

them the keys with no instruction.

We send them to driver's ed.

Driver's ed used to be
all involved with school.

It very much still is in Montana,
but I know a lot of states driver's

ed has been put outside the
school now, but it's still there.

It's still something that if
you're gonna drive before you're

18, you have to take driver's ed.

And then you also have to take a
test in order to get a card that

says you're able to drive, that
you know how to drive responsibly.

You know the ways of the road,
the laws of the land, the laws of

the road, I guess we should say.

And yet, when it comes to technology,
and specifically to social media and

the way algorithms work, our primary
strategy has been remove access,

ban it, take it away, and then hand
them a phone and wish them luck.

I just had a conversation with
someone the other day about how

you literally can't function in
society without a smartphone anymore.

I gave the example of my grandparents,
who are 87 and almost 90.

We had to get them smartphones
several years ago because even

going to the doctor, now the
doctors all have online portals.

So they would get these messages that
would be like, " Oh," or, you know, they'd

hand them a piece of paper at the office
that was like, "Hey, you need to log

into your online portal to access this or
complete this." And they're like, "What?"

They don't have internet at their house.

Like, what do we do?

So they have smartphones now.

Not having a device isn't logical.

You can't, unfortunately, the way
our society works now, you can't

operate in society without a device.

I think where I had this conversation, I
was in Orange County, California, and we

were talking about how even to park at
the location of the event that morning,

you had to go scan a QR code and log
into an online portal to pay for parking.

You can't even park
without having a device.

Back to that comment I got about
how our prefrontal cortexes aren't

fully developed till we're 25.

Yep, that's correct.

That's what science and research tells us.

Our brains aren't fully developed
till around the age of 25.

Their argument was, we just don't
give tech access till age 25.

That is not feasible unless all of
society are gonna collectively go together

and get rid of our smartphones and all
technology, which is not gonna happen.

I have done this, by the way, in many
workshops where I ask people in the

room, I said, "Raise your hand if you
are willing to hand me your phone right

now and just go without your phone." And
I usually will have anywhere from zero

to one to two people raise their hand,
depending upon the size of the audience.

That's it.

Now, I said this in episode 13, I'll
say it again, there are absolutely forms

of technology that warrant restriction.

Personal smartphones with addictive social
media algorithms running during school.

Yep, don't, don't need that.

Don't wanna do that.

Platforms engineered to exploit
dopamine systems and feed kids harmful

content, those platforms deserve
regulation at the company level,

not just at the classroom level.

I said in the last episode, we need to
regulate the algorithm, not the device.

Again, I'm not arguing that kids
should have unrestricted access to

everything digital at all times.

That is not my position.

I think that most, for some ages, all
technology access needs to be restricted.

That's my position.

Not taken away, restricted, managed.

Restriction alone without
instruction is not a strategy.

It's avoidance, and eventually kids
leave school, and if the only thing we

ever did was take the phone away, we
sent them out into the world unprepared

Now, I told you this is personal
for me because I was, as an elder

millennial/Xennial, I was the generation
that had just started to use technology.

Had just started to get cell phones,
not smartphones, but flip phones.

And then also when I was teaching, I
started teaching when I was only 22, I

think was when I started teaching, and I
taught middle school and high schoolers.

So I had students that were only
three or four years younger than me.

Some of my seniors were only,
like, three years younger than

me when I started teaching.

And when I was in college, Facebook
became a thing, and at the time it

was only open to college students.

It's amazing how many people don't
realize that, that Facebook actually

started only for college students.

So that was when I was in college.

I actually vividly remember the
day my roommate showed me Facebook.

She was in her room on her computer,
and she was like, "Lindy, come here."

So I ran across the hall, and she's
like, "Look at this thing." "I'm

connecting with all these people
that I haven't talked to in forever."

And I was like, "Oh, this is
really cool." So then I went in

my room and op- got on my computer
and created a Facebook account.

So yeah, college students only.

So then when I started teaching, that
was right when Facebook had opened in

the previous year or two to anyone.

So it was open to anyone.

It wasn't just college students
anymore, and this included my

students, especially my high school
students all had Facebook accounts.

And the advice that I got from the
adults around me, my mentor teachers, the

other teachers in my school, et cetera,
everybody told me to just ignore it.

As a new, brand-new teacher, a
very young, brand-new teacher, they

said, "Just act like it exists.

J- just ignore it.

Don't friend your students on Facebook.

Don't engage with it.

Kinda just act like it doesn't exist,"
was the advice that I was given.

And over the years, I've realized that
that was the worst advice possible.

Possibly the worst advice that
I ever received as an educator.

I've received some not great advice
in my first few years of teaching.

That is definitely in the top three.

I don't know if I could rank it the
worst, worst, but definitely in the top

three of worst advice that I received
as a new Especially new, young teacher.

Because what I should have done,
what I wish someone had told me

to do, was the exact opposite.

I should have been having conversations
with my students about what they were

posting, about the fact that nothing
on the internet ever goes away, about

how a photo or a post or a comment
that they made when they're 15, 16, 17

could affect their ability to get a job
at 20 and 25 and 30 and 35 years old.

I should have been talking about
digital footprints and what

they are and why it mattered.

But nobody told me to do that.

Also, nobody taught me, so I didn't.

I didn't teach my students.

I acted like it didn't
exist, and I moved on.

And I'm still haunted about that
to this day, especially considering

what I now do for a living.

Those students, the ones I never had
those conversations with, are now adults.

Many, I would say most of them, are
now parents, and they are handing their

kids smartphones with access to apps
and algorithms far more sophisticated

and far more addictive than Facebook was
at that point in the mid to late 2000s

.
And why are they doing it?

Because nobody ever guided
them through it themselves.

There were no restrictions at that point.

Things like Bark, the Bark app
that parents can put on phones,

that didn't exist at that time.

Facebook was really the only social media
for a bit, then we got Instagram, and

I don't know what order that came in.

So again, to those people that
are saying this is on parents,

we can't add to teachers' plates,

they don't know.

They don't know how to do it
'cause we never taught them.

I was one of the teachers who had a chance
to start that conversation back when the

stakes were lower and the technology was
simpler, and I was told to look away.

So I did, and now those students are
the parents, and the cycle continues.

We missed a generation, and
I think about that a lot, and

I think about the timeline.

Facebook launched in
20- around 2005, 2006.

It took 10 to 15 years for the negative
effects of not just Facebook, but

Instagram and all the other social media
platforms out there to have negative

effects on mental health, attention,
create political polarization I should

say extreme political polarization.

I shouldn't say it creates, it adds to.

That's better.

Adds to extreme political polarization.

The negative effects on wellbeing,
especially of teens and preteens, it

took 10 to 15 years for those things
to become visible enough and documented

to really make headlines, and then it
took another five to 10 years after

that for policymakers to actually start
acting on it, and that's why we're

just now seeing these device bans,
especially the ones happening at the

state level from state legislators.

We're living in the delayed response
to a problem that started 20 years ago.

Now, that's the social media timeline.

That was-- It was a pretty fast
timeline, especially I remember hearing

stats over the last 10 years about how
fast, like the number of signups for

every social media platform got more
and more and more in the first days

of each one as they were released.

Like Facebook was pretty low, but
then by the time Instagram came

out, it had more signups at the
beginning than Facebook did, and then

Snapchat and et cetera, et cetera.

But now let's talk about
and think about AI.

ChatGPT launched in November of 2022
to the public, so we're a little

over three years, almost three and a
half years in to generative AI being

accessible to anyone that has an
internet connection and a device, and

we are already seeing negative effects.

Three years, a little over three
years, and we're already here.

That timeline has compressed dramatically.

We do not have 10 to 15 years to figure
out how to respond to generative AI and

agentic AI, other advanced forms of AI,
the way we had 10 to 15 years to figure

out how to respond to social media.

We don't even have five years, honestly.

The effects are arriving
almost simultaneously with

the technology itself now.

We're not seeing this delayed
negative effect like we did

with social media, for example.

Which means we can't afford to
make the same mistake twice.

That's the moral of the story here.

We can't afford to act like it doesn't
exist like we did with social media.

We can't afford to wait until the
damage is fully visible before we

start teaching responsible use.

We have to teach now while we're
still in the early chapters, because

the window we have to shape students'
relationship with these tools is much,

much shorter than it was before, and the
cost of missing it is much, much higher.

Okay.

I will quit with my magnum opus now
and get to the meat of the episode.

I'm gonna say something and I want
you to sit with it for a second.

Kids are doom scrolling because it's
the only model they've ever been shown.

The unhealthy use of technology is the
default because it is all they know.

Nobody has shown them another way.

The algorithm has been their only teacher.

I was at that event in Orange County
last week, and I had a conversation

with a tech director there who has
13-year-old twins, by the way, and

he said-- He-- I loved his analogy.

He said it used to be like when we
were kids, we would say to our parents,

"Hey, we're gonna ride our bike down to
so-and-so's house." And your parents knew

that you were gonna go to so-and-so's
house, and that's where you were gonna be.

And they knew where so-and-so
lived, what their house looked like.

They've met their parents before.

Now, students open up a phone, and they
open up social media and the internet, and

they're transported somewhere around the
room to an influencer's living room or a

house or house that they rent to film in.

That's a thing, if you didn't know that.

That's what influencers do.

They rent special houses to film in.

So we no longer, like, know where
kids are going when they open up

their phones and, and the internet
in general, especially social media.

So think about what a student's
relationship with social media

actually looks like from the beginning.

They get a phone.

, I just saw, by the way, the Social
Institute came out with a survey

they did of, I can't remember, like
tens of thousands of kids and asked

them their feelings about technology,
yada, yada, yada, and they asked

them: What age did you get a phone?

The average age, 11.

11 years old.

So they get their phone, we'll say at 11.

They download the apps their
friends are on, which There's

constantly new ones, by the way.

It's really hard to keep up as an adult
because as soon as the adults learn

about the new social app, they kinda quit
using it and go start using another one.

And the development of these
apps is just as quick as that.

The apps show them what the
algorithm decides to show them.

They scroll.

The algorithm learns what they interact
with, what they don't interact with.

It gets better at holding their attention.

The cycle continues completely
uninterrupted with no adult ever

sitting down and saying, "Hey, do you
know what this app is designed to do?

Do you know why you feel the way
that you feel when you put it down?

Do you know that there's a team of
people whose entire job Is to keep

your thumb moving and scrolling
and scrolling, endless scrolling.

Do you know that you have more power
here than the app wants you to think?

Do you know that they're likely selling
your data, and that's why the app is free?

The amount of kids that I have these
conversations with that are just appalled

and shocked because no adult has ever
talked to them in that way about the

technology that overtakes their life.

We either give them the phone and
walk away, or we take the phone and

say, "Not yet." Or maybe there's an
in-between there where we put, like,

a bark app and limit their access
to these social media platforms.

Really, none of those teach much.

And then we're surprised when they can't
self-regulate, when their attention

spans are shorter, when they reach for
the phone the second they're bored.

I do that all the time.

Totally guilty of that.

When they can't put it down, can't
put the phone down, the addiction

aspect that we're seeing in
schools, of course, they can't.

Nobody taught them how.

Nobody's had the conversations with
them about regulating their use.

Like I've said, the parents were never
taught, and the teachers couldn't teach

it 'cause they were told to look away.

At least I'm generalizing there.

I was.

I was told to look away, and now
we're three generations into this

pattern and wondering why nobody
knows how to use a smartphone well.

Maybe not.

That's not the right word.

Not use a smartphone well, , but
use it responsibly and in

a healthy, mindful manner.

This is a teaching problem, and teaching
problems have teaching solutions.

Now, some of these comments I read at
the top of the episode, the one saying

that the algorithms are too powerful,
that companies have billion-dollar

behavioral science teams designing
addiction, those aren't wrong.

That's real.

I'm not going to stand here and tell
you that a 45-minute lesson plan

is going to fully counteract the
engineering power of Meta and TikTok.

I think ByteDance is the owner of TikTok.

Meta and ByteDance.

But Knowledge is protection.

Education is protection.

Awareness is protection.

Teaching kids to recognize what's
happening to their brain, to understand

why the scroll feels the way it
feels, to name it when the algorithm

has taken the wheel and is in the
driver's seat, that changes things,

not perfectly, but meaningfully.

And I'll go one further.

We teach kids about tobacco, even though
tobacco companies also had billion-dollar

marketing teams designing addiction.

That was when I was a kid.

That's what tobacco companies were doing.

That has since been regulated a bit.

We teach kids about alcohol.

We teach about gambling.

We teach about unhealthy relationships.

We don't say, "The forces working
against you are too powerful, so we

won't bother equipping you or regulating
those forces." We teach and we regulate.

Honestly, I think both is
needed in this situation.

There was a commenter on my TikTok video
that compared teaching healthy tech use

to teaching kids to moderate drug use,
and my response was, "That is not the

same thing on any level, and here's why.

We're not asking students
to moderately engage with an

inherently harmful substance.

We're asking them to develop skills
and judgment around a tool that

has both powerful applications and
harmful applications." And they're

gonna use regardless of what we do.

We just established that.

You really can't operate in
society without a smartphone.

That's not drug use.

That's like driver's ed.

That's what it needs to be compared to.

It needs to be compared to
learning to drive, a necessary

part of being part of society.

Technology deserves that same commitment
that we've given to learning how to

drive, and that we give every other
hard thing we've decided matters

enough to teach it in our society.

So I've made the case for
why we need to teach this.

Now let me get practical.

That might have been a little bit
longer than I expected, so thank you

for sticking around for my, , , magnum
opus, my PhD, my Sunday sermon.

I needed to get that out.

Could you tell?

Let's get into some more practical stuff.

When I talk about explicitly teaching
healthy and responsible technology

use, I'm talking about a few
different things, and I want to make

sure I name those really clearly.

First, teaching tech literacy and
digital citizenship, but reframed.

Some of you, depending upon your age,
may have sat through some version

of a digital citizenship lesson.

If you haven't, usually these lessons
are compliance-based, like, "Don't

post this, don't share that, be
careful online," blah, blah, blah.

Rules-based,

what I'm talking about is different.

I'm talking about teaching students to
understand how technology works, not

just what the rules are, not just, "Do
this, don't do this," like a set of rules

that you see in a classroom or a school.

I wanna teach them what is an algorithm?

How does it work?

What data is being collected
about you, and why?

What does engagement
optimized content mean?

How does this affect what you see?

Why does the For You page on TikTok feel
different from the Following page or feed

? When students understand the mechanics,
when they can see the system they're

operating inside and that sucked them
in, they start making different choices.

Not always.

Not always.

There's always, there's always
the some, but the majority, they

start making different choices.

Um, maybe not perfectly, especially at
first, but knowledge slowly starts to

change behavior for a lot of people.

Not just, "Don't post this," but,
"Here's the actual why behind it."

Second Teaching the difference between
a doom scroll and a productive scroll.

So I did a whole webinar, well,
it wasn't the entire webinar.

Part of-- Well, it kinda was.

A chunk of a webinar for
ScreenPal a few weeks ago on this.

I will put the link in the show
notes if you wanna dive into that

more, where I talked about one of the
reasons that teachers should leverage

short-form video is to teach students
how to productive scroll, and there

is such thing as a productive scroll.

I know.

I can see and hear some of your eye rolls
right now and some of your faces being

like, "Lindy, no, there is no such thing
as a productive scroll." There-- I, I will

tell you there absolutely is, and I have
figured out how to do a productive scroll.

That doesn't mean that
I don't doom scroll.

Believe me, I do doom scroll, but I'm
very targeted and purposeful at when I

doom scroll and when I productive scroll.

A doom scroll is what happens
when the algorithm is driving.

The student is passive.

They're not choosing what they see.

The platform's choosing for them based on
what will kinda keep watching the longest.

That content is often emotionally
activating because emotional

activation keeps us scrolling.

Fear, outrage, envy,
comparing ourselves to others.

That's the engagement gold for the
algorithm, and that's what can be harmful.

Now, again, there are
times that I doom scroll.

There's times where I just want to
shut off my brain, and that's kinda

how I do it, but I only spend five,
10 minutes doom scrolling, and I'm an

adult with a fully functioned brain,
so I know how to regulate myself,

and I know that I'm doom scrolling,

productive scrolling is different.

It's intentional.

It's making an active choice to
follow people who teach me something,

to use the platform to learn, to
curate my feed towards content

that adds rather than subtracts.

A personal example of this, People
ask me all the time, like, every

AI workshop that I do, "How do
you keep up with all this stuff?

How do you learn this stuff?

Are there newsletters that I can sign
up for that will teach me these things

and bring it to my inbox?" And I always
tell them, "You're not gonna like the

answer." And the answer is TikTok.

That's how I keep up with all this stuff.

Not the only-- I would say
TikTok and podcasts are the two

ways that I keep up with this.

I don't do email newsletters super well.

They land in my inbox, and
half of them I never open.

Probably even more than half of
them, to be quite honest, never get

opened 'cause my email is a mess,
and my email is a source of work,

and I wanna spend as little time as
possible in my email Versus when I open

TikTok or play a podcast, I'm in the
mindset of, "I wanna learn something.

This is Lindy time.

I wanna learn about... I think
ChatGPT just released a new AI model.

I wanna learn about that." So I'm gonna
go to my following section of TikTok,

where I have specifically followed
people that are gonna tell me what's

new in the AI world, for example.

So when I-- Not every time.

There are times I open TikTok to
doomscroll, but most of the time

when I open TikTok, I'm learning.

I'm not just consuming.

I am learning information, and that's
a choice I make intentionally as an

adult with a fully functioned brain.

Fully functioned, fully developed brain.

Maybe fully functioned brain.

No, we're not gonna go as far to
say my brain is fully functioning.

A fully developed brain.

And it's a choice that you can teach.

Now, that doesn't mean, again, we're
gonna hand students TikTok with

no, like, unfettered TikTok access.

No, that's not what I'm saying at all.

They are kids.

They don't have fully developed brains.

They need regulation.

They need guidance.

But we can still start to model
different ways that when they get

old enough that they can have TikTok,
for example, that they're doing it

mindfully and not just doomscrolling.

, Some concrete things that I teach
around this idea of a productive

scroll versus a doomscroll.

I teach students to audit their feed.

When you open up whatever you're
using, TikTok, Instagram Reels.

Kids don't use Facebook.

YouTube Shorts.

I just had a teacher tell me the
other day that they are shutting

down YouTube access for students.

Teachers will still be able to
share YouTube videos in their LMS,

but students won't be able to go to
YouTube anymore because students were

doomscrolling YouTube Shorts over lunch.

Because guess what?

They don't have their phones anymore.

They have their school devices,
so they're opening up YouTube and

scrolling through YouTube Shorts.

That's a perfect example of a teachable
moment to teach them, what are you

seeing in your YouTube Shorts feed?

Are you seeing stuff that
the algorithm is feeding you?

Or are you seeing stuff from
people that you have purposely

subscribed to on YouTube?

Who are you following?

Are you following people that are gonna
feed you healthy, productive content?

Or are you following people that are
feeding you- content that's causing you

to have bad feelings about yourself.

Is that the feed you choose if
you were choosing intentionally?

What would you change about your feed?

So teach the difference between a, what
on TikTok is called the FYP or the For

You page, where it's the algorithm feeding
it to you and determining what you see,

versus the Following page or the Friends
page, where you're seeing curated content

that y- you have chosen, or should I
say from people that you have chosen.

For You is the algorithm's feed.

Following and Friends is
people that you choose.

Most people on TikTok live in the For
You page without ever thinking about it.

So teach them to choose.

Teach students to notice how
they feel after scrolling.

Before you open the app, check in.

After you close it, check in again.

I even have them write down on a piece
of paper, "How are you feeling right

now?" versus, "How are you feeling after?

What changed?

Was it time well spent?" This
starts building their self-awareness

that self-regulation requires.

I already talked about this a bit, but
I wanna just reinforce to teach them

how to follow people who teach them
something, and teach them something

productive, and not teach them
something that's super opinion-based.

When students start following
researchers and creators who are

actually making things and teaching
things, people doing work they want

to learn from, their relationship with
that social media platform changes.

Third, model.

And This is really where my ScreenPal
webinar was focused, is around, like, how

you as a teacher can model the healthy,
responsible use of short-form video, is

what I was talking about in particular,
and using it as part of your class.

I think this is a big
focus this year for me.

One of the most powerful things a
teacher can do right now is create

short-form video for their students,
And there are many reasons why.

Part of it is relationship building.

I talk about that in the
webinar if you wanna watch it.

But the other big part of it is that when
you as the teacher are using short-form

video, like what they see in TikTok and
Instagram Reels, for example, when that

comes in an education environment with
like a 60-second instructional video,

you're now modeling what it looks like to
use video intentionally and purposefully.

And going back to what I was saying
before, how to find people that are

gonna give you healthy educational
content on these social platforms.

We know they're gonna use the
social platforms no matter what,

so let's teach them how to use
them to find good information.

That's how I use social media.

I do very little Facebook.

I'm big TikTok user.

I do a teeny bit of Instagram.

I do a lot of LinkedIn.

LinkedIn and TikTok are my two
social platforms because guess what?

I follow people that I learn a ton from.

Students notice what their teachers
do, and when a teacher is visible

in a way that they connect with, AKA
short-form video, that's so important.

That's a teacher modeling
the healthy, responsible use.

Again, if you wanna learn more about that,
go watch that ScreenPal webinar I did.

I'll put the link in the show notes.

It's also on my website in my
events section, lindyhawk.com.

Okay, number four: give students
opportunities to create, not just consume.

So yes, you need to model the
consumption of the videos.

Let students create short-form videos.

This gets back-- And not just short-form
videos, that's just one example of

like a create versus consume thing,
where we're actually doing both.

I talked about this a lot in the
last episode, episode 13, this idea

of putting students in the driver's
seat versus the passenger seat, that

not all screen time's created equal,
not all technology's created equal.

The most powerful thing we can
do for a student's relationship

with technology is to

change them from a consumer
that's doom scrolling to a creator

or a passenger to a driver.

When a student creates something,
when they're writing, recording,

illustrating, designing, they're
no longer on the receiving end of

someone else's content and ideas
They're building their own content.

They're building their own
ideas, their own opinions.

They're looking for evidence.

That shift changes how they see
the tools, how they interact

with the tools every day.

It changes how they see themselves.

It changes what they
think technology is for.

In the last episode, I talked
a lot about Book Creator and

Snorkel, some other tools.

Canva is awesome for creation.

Adobe Express is also
amazing for student creation.

I talked about ScreenPal,
that's a great one if you wanna

create videos in particular.

These are examples of tools, not the end.

Those are just a few, uh, that really
put students in the driver's seat.

And every time a student uses one
of these tools to make something,

to communicate an idea, to share
something they know, to reach an

actual audience, they're practicing a
fundamentally different relationship with

technology than the one that algorithm
is feeding them via doom scrolling.

That's healthy tech use, and that's just
a few ways that we can help explicitly

teach healthy and responsible tech use.

Now, I know some of you are thinking,
"But Lindy, it's not all about technology.

We've gotta do some things by hand.

We've gotta use paper.

We've gotta get skids-- uh, kids
off of screens." Absolutely.

100%. Absolutely, yes.

We, we want some of that.

We want, also want some of the technology.

There are real value in analog
experiences, handwriting, drawing, reading

a physical book, working through a math
problem with a pencil and paper, we should

build in tech-free time and options.

One of the things I talk about in my
book in terms of virtual learning in

particular, but it's the same with, with
in-person learning, is give students

choices, choices huge, and always have
at least one no-tech, one low-tech,

and one high-tech option for students
to show what they know about a topic.

Like I said in episode 13,
it's all about moderation.

It's all about intentionality.

It's all about use case, not existence
it's all about how the teacher

designs and uses the technology.

The same can be said for non-tech.

There's a lot of tech things
that a teacher could do that- I

think is not super purposeful.

There's also a lot of non-tech
things that teachers can do that

I don't think is super purposeful.

It's about intentionality with all of it.

There's a time and place for paper.

There's a time and place for technology.

The goal is never to maximize screen time.

The goal is never to maximize
paper and pencil time.

It's to let the teacher make the
instructional decision about what is

best for that particular learning goal.

You cannot teach healthy technology
use by avoiding technology entirely.

You can have a lot of
conversations with students.

You can put a lot up on the board or on
the projector or SMART Board, whatever

type of screen you have in your classroom.

You can put it up and have lots of
conversations with students where

they're not actually interacting with the
technology, but you're talking about it.

But at some point, there
has to be access there.

When I'm talking about AI literacy,
the definition I use has three

verbs: use, understand, and evaluate.

And I always say there's this really
great-- It's from Digital Promise.

They have a really great graphic
that shows that those three verbs

have to go together, and if one
of those verbs is missing, then

you're not fully AI literate.

If you understand AI but you're not
using it, you're not gonna be able

to fully evaluate it, the same goes
for all tech use, in my opinion.

And of course, that varies by age level,
developmental appropriateness, et cetera.

But you can't teach someone to swim
by never letting them near the water.

You can't teach someone to drive
by never letting them near a car.

You can't teach someone healthy
technology use by never giving

them access to technology.

At some point, kids have to be in the
water, and our job is to be in there

with them, teaching strokes, teaching
what to do when a current pulls them,

teaching how to read the conditions
of the water, not standing on the

shore saying, "Water is dangerous.

Stay here on the shore." They're
gonna get in the water anyway.

They're gonna drive anyway.

They're gonna use the technology anyway.

So, adults have to jump in the
pool and learn right alongside

them, teach right alongside them.

Students are already in the water.

They're getting smartphones
on average age of 11.

So, even if you take away the
phone completely during the school

day, they're on it after school.

They're on it early.

They're on it at midnight because
they didn't have access to it all day.

The technology is already in their lives.

The question is whether anyone
has taught them how To navigate

it and use it responsibly.

Going fully analog in classrooms
doesn't change the reality that

students walk out of the school
building and pull their phone out.

It just means we've opted out of
being part of the conversation.

One of the comments on my TikTok video
said something about to the effect

of teaching them how to properly use
their phone is proving to them that

they don't need them all of the time.

Yeah.

I 100% agree, but proving that they don't
need it all the time doesn't have to mean

completely banning it from the building.

Tech-free time is part of
healthy tech education.

The goal is not more, it's better
judgment about when screens

serve us and when they don't.

And I truly believe that judgment is
teachable, but it has to be taught

explicitly, not just assumed to develop
on its own when we remove the device.

So yes, build in tech-free time.

Absolutely.

Use paper when paper is the better tool.

Let kids write by hand.

Grab the Post-it notes.

I love Post-it notes.

If you've ever been to my workshops, I
always have Post-it notes on the table.

I also use index cards a lot.

Highlighters, grab 'em all.

All of that's good and appropriate and
part of healthy instructional design.

And also, when technology is
available, use it when appropriate.

And don't just use it, teach it.

Teach what the tool is doing.

Teach students to be in the driver's
seat rather than the passenger seat.

Teach them to notice, to choose,
to create rather than just consume.

All of these things can
be true at the same time.

We don't have to pick one or the other.

We don't have to say, "Oh, no, tech is
bad. We're gonna get rid of all of it."

Just like when schools started going
more one-to-one and get more tech

access, they didn't say, "Oh, we're
only going to use technology." Well,

some people that were doing paperless
classrooms did do that, but I told

you in the last episode, that was . If
you didn't catch that, if you're not

watching, that was me doing a thumbs down

No paperless classrooms.

That's not the goal

So coming back to those comments I read
at the beginning of the episode, I'm

not dismissing those comments at all.

The people who left those comments,
they're not wrong to be concerned.

They're not wrong that the
forces at work are powerful.

They're not wrong that this is hard, and
that we are asking teachers to do more.

What I want to push back
on is the conclusion.

The conclusion that because
it's hard, we shouldn't try.

That because the algorithms
are powerful, that teaching

responsible use is pointless.

That because kids struggle to
self-regulate, we shouldn't just take

the device away and call it a day.

Because here's what that
conclusion means in practice.

We send kids out into a world full of
algorithmically optimized, engagement

maximizing, attention hijacking
technology, and the only preparation

we gave them was a restriction that
expired when they turned 18, or better

yet, when they graduated high school.

That's not protection.

That's a delay with really serious
consequences, and we've already

seen what that delay costs.

My Facebook story is not ancient
history, even though it was 20 years ago.

The patterns that I failed to interrupt
by not having the conversations with my

students at that time are showing up in
their kids' lives, amplified, accelerated,

and way more sophisticated technology
than we were dealing with back then.

If you remember right, there was a
comment that basically said, "It's too

late, and we should have done this 20
years ago, and so now the only option

is just to take the devices away."

No.

I refuse to accept that it's too late
because that reasoning is exactly the

thinking that will ensure we miss the next
generation, too, and the one after that.

It's never too late.

It's never too late for
education and knowledge.

But the window is short,
and we have to start now.

So start naming it in your classroom,
not with fear, not with a list of

rules, with curiosity and honesty.

Have the conversations.

Talk to your students
about how algorithms work.

Ask them what they're seeing in
their feeds Ask them how they

feel before and after they scroll.

Create a space for the conversation.

You might be surprised how
much they already sense.

They just don't have the language
for it yet, so give them the

language to talk about it.

Model it.

Use technology purposefully in your own
professional life and the way that you're

teaching them, and let students see that.

Create short-form videos.

Show them what it looks like
when an adult uses these tools

with intention and purpose.

Be a counterexample to the bad
content that your students are

seeing in their algorithm feeds.

Give them something to make and create.

Create the conditions for your
students to be in the driver's

seat, not the passenger seat.

Use tech to create, to communicate,
to share with an authentic audience.

That is the most powerful shift I think
we can do right now, enabling creation.

And be an advocate, not just
for banning the bad stuff, but

for teaching the good stuff.

Be a centrist.

Leverage all the powerful parts of the
technology while mitigating all of the

bad parts of the technology, just like
we do with other things in our life.

It's all about moderation.

Push for both, name both.

Don't let the conversation stay
stuck on access when the real

work is teaching and instruction.

And for those who said we can't
keep adding to teachers' plates,

I wanna close the loop on that.

You're right that teacher capacity is
real, and the ask has to be sustainable,

but I gently push back on that framing
this as one more thing added to the pile.

Teaching students to use technology
well is not separate from teaching.

It is teaching.

Our society is so interwoven by
technology, and more and more

every day, especially now that AI
is getting more and more advanced,

it's starting to get super fuzzy.

Like, we can't separate technology
from how we operate as humans.

To summarize, those comments I got
on TikTok about how we can't teach

kids to use technology, about how
it's too late, how banning's the only

answer, I wanna say this directly.

I disagree, respectfully and strongly
disagree, not because your concern isn't

valid, it is a valid concern, but because
I have watched teachers do this work.

I have been in classrooms where students
were learning to understand algorithms,

to curate their feeds intentionally,
to create rather than just consume I

have seen what happens when you give
a student a tool and a purpose and a

real audience and say, "Make something.
Create something." And give them the

time and space and access to do that.

The relationship with technology
changes and the way that kids see

technology changes when we do that.

And I know what it looks like
when we don't do this work.

I lived it, again, as a
student and a teacher who acted

like Facebook didn't exist.

I was the teacher who missed those
conversations, and those students now

raising kids of their own deserve better,
and the kids of today deserve better.

We can't look away from AI the way
we looked away from social media.

The timeline is too compressed.

The stakes are too high.

The window is too short.

So we have to teach them now with
the tools we have in the classrooms

we're in with the students in front
of us, and we can't do that if the

technology access is being taken
away or moved into a computer lab.

All screen time is not created equal.

We're not talking about
the same technology.

It's not about the technology, it's
about the decisions we make around it.

And one of the most important
decisions we can make is to teach

students how to make good decisions.

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