I Used To Be Crap At Sales

How do you truly motivate a sales team? Most sales leaders struggle to keep their teams engaged and performing at their best - especially with 53% of the workforce being made up of Millennials and Gen Z.

In this episode, our host Mark Ackers sits down with Phil Putnam, the author of Desire-Based Leadership, to uncover the secrets behind scaling high-performing sales teams and retaining top talent. Phil shares a game-changing leadership framework that shifts the focus from company goals to what employees truly want - because when salespeople believe their job helps them achieve their life goals, performance skyrockets. 
We dive into real-world leadership mistakes, how to avoid costly attrition, and why traditional motivational tactics no longer work.
 
You’ll hear powerful insights on: 
  • Why most leaders fail to motivate their teams (and how to fix it)
  • How to retain top-performing sales reps and stop bleeding money on replacements
  • The harsh reality of ignoring the wants and needs of Millennial and Gen Z salespeople
  • A simple discovery model for understanding what drives your team, which you can utilise to drive top performance
 
You'll learn:
  1. Why do most sales leaders struggle to keep Millennials and Gen Z salespeople engaged—and what actually works?
  2. What’s the #1 mistake leaders make that causes top performers to leave, and how can you stop it?
  3. How can you predict whether a salesperson will stay or leave - and what can you do to keep them longer?
  4. What’s the real cost of replacing a salesperson, and how can you avoid wasting millions on unnecessary turnover?
  5. What’s the simplest way to uncover what truly motivates your sales team (beyond just “money”)?
If you’re serious about scaling your sales team, retaining your top talent, and mastering modern sales leadership, this episode is a must-listen.

What is I Used To Be Crap At Sales?

Even the most prominent voices in Sales were crap at Sales once.

Join bestselling Author, Founder and Sales Coach Mark Ackers as he speaks with successful Sales professionals about their early Sales struggles, and how they overcame these challenges to become the people they are today.

Mark Ackers: Phil Putnam, a
dynamic leader who helps

organizations unlock top
performance. Did you used to be

practice house?

Phil Putnam: Oh, yes. The way
that I look at it is that in

some ways I still am. There is
no done. There's no finished.

Growing, especially when it
comes to sales. I'm the first

person to put out a book that
really looks at leadership in

this specific way. Very typical
situation for a first time

leader, I was brought into a
global role with a very large

mandate and a very short period
of time to deliver results and

very limited resources. I'm
going to have to get my team

members to give me what I want,
which is quality work on time,

on a very regular basis, in
order for me to deliver my

team's number to my larger
business, the majority of senior

leadership, the ones who really
dictate are from the Baby Boomer

and older level of Gen X. The
majority of the workforce is

millennials and Gen Zers. So
there's a big difference there.

And I run into a lot of senior
leaders that basically say,

yeah, I get it, but I don't want
to you literally cannot succeed

without human employees. This is
not a problem that AI has

solved. There's no such thing as
a global enterprise, entirely

automated, machine driven
business. It's one of the most

important phrases. Any leader
who's not in those two

generations can hear millennials
and Gen Z ers value their time

more than they fear change. So
the attitude that a lot of

senior leaders have right now
towards job candidates and

hiring is that, well, I can
afford to lose people because

there's so many people looking
for work, and people are so

scared of not having a job right
now that they'll stick it out,

even when I'm not giving them
what they truly need. That is

not an accurate statement for
millennials and Gen Z years. How

should

Mark Ackers: a leader that might
have millennials and Gen Z

change their approach to
motivation? That's

Phil Putnam: where the
conversation really gets

interesting. I arrive at a point
where I ask the audience two

questions. I ask them, raise
your hand, if and only if you

truly love your employer more
than you love yourself. And I

ask them, raise your hand if and
only if you truly care more

about your company meeting its
goals than you do about yourself

and your loved ones getting the
life that you want. Now, I have

asked this question now to well
over 3000 people. How many

people do you think have raised
their hands yes to either of

those questions? Go on. Tell us
you mark,

Mark Ackers: hello and welcome
to another episode of The I used

to be crap at sales podcast. I'm
your host, Mark Akers, and today

I'm thrilled to be joined by
Phil Putnam, a dynamic leader

who helps organizations unlock
top performance and align their

teams with the ultimate goals.
Phil is a speaker, a workshop

leader, a coach and now an
author of desired based

leadership. Phil has a rich
career history ranging from a VP

to sales name and to coaching
executives. Phil is based in New

York City, which you will
probably hear elements of that

in the podcast, because I'm
already hearing taxis go past.

Phil's got really innovative
approaches and re methods to

reshape how leaders should think
about motivation and the results

that it can bring. Phil, welcome
to the I used to be crap at

sales podcast. How are you and
how is New York City this

morning? Well, thank

Phil Putnam: you for having me.
I'm wonderful. I'm super happy

to be here. New York is cold
this morning and windy, but

there is that kind of Bleak
beauty to it. I'm lucky enough

to have a beautiful view of one
of the rivers in Manhattan

outside of my window, so I get
to kind of see that beautiful

Mark Ackers: stuff. Well, Phil,
we called the podcast I used to

be crap at sales, because all of
our guests say the same thing,

and it's true for me as well.
But my opening question to you

is, Phil, did you used to be
crap at sales,

Phil Putnam: oh yes. And the way
that I look at it is that in

some ways, I still am, because
there is no done like there's no

finished growing, especially
when it comes to sales. So I sit

here today still crap at sales,
at some things, and I delight in

that. I've never been the person
that needed to deny the reality

of learning and of growth. I
mean, that's part of why I've

made a big chunk of my career
sales and learning, when focus

and enablement. So I sort of
delight in being in process

until the day we die. And that's

Mark Ackers: a great answer,
right? Like that growth mindset,

I suppose when people answer the
question of, yes, I used to be

crap at sales, there's normally
a moment that comes flooding

back, that moment of
realization, what was that for

you? What was the moment when
perhaps you were in sales and

you realized you were crap? What
happened? It's actually

Phil Putnam: my very first well,
my second sales job, my first

sales job, I worked at a fast
food restaurant, like a

hamburger restaurant, like
another version of McDonald's in

the US, and that was in
California where I grew up. I

grew up in Sacramento,
California. Then I graduated to

retail clothing sales when I was
in my last year of high school,

and it was an Old Navy just
think of like the H M of the

90s, but far less stylish. And
so I was interviewing for this

job just to be a regular sales
associate. And so one of. Parts

of the interview, the manager
said, go around, pick out an

item of clothing that you think
I might be interested in, and

then sell it to me. So the first
thing I remember is that this

was a female manager who was
interviewing me, and I go, and I

picked a men's shirt that was
not the right size for her. So

right off the bat, no knowledge
of the client's needs, no sense

of, you know, fit, customer and
product fit. And then I remember

that I just basically described
to her, like the color. And I'm

like, I've tried to sell to her
based upon the product itself. I

didn't ask her anything about
what she was looking for, what

she needed, what she was trying
to accomplish. I'll never forget

it takes about 30 seconds for me
to just like, flame out hard,

just crash and burn so hard in
this interview. And she after

I'm done, she just chuckles, and
she's like, wow, that was really

awful. Was like, Oh crap,
because I was 17, I wanted this

job. And she's like, look like
the best thing you can do before

you decide what to try to sell,
somebody is ask them, Is there

anything specific that you're
looking for that one moment of

sales education was probably the
most profound early piece of

sales education I ever received
is when she said, just start by

asking me if there's anything
I'm looking for. Feels

Mark Ackers: like that was very
much the Sell me this pen

version in a clothing store.

Phil Putnam: One thing that's
great about Old Navy, they're

part of gap Incorporated. So
they own gap. Old Navy and

Banana Republic, their sales
acronym for their floor

associates at the time was
basic, A, S, I, C, S, I also

like that the word itself made
me like go back to basics. You

know, begin with a greeting, ask
what they're looking for,

suggest a product, inform them
about the product, continue to

sell by adding on. I'm 45 years
old. Now, I worked there when I

was 17, and still, that's the
power of a acronym. Yeah, that

was their basic. Was their
acronym.

Mark Ackers: Let's talk about
just if we scanned your career

from then up until we sit down.
Now, everyone's got a howler, a

big mistake that they've made,
that's that's cost them a deal,

something that the audience
listening to are going to laugh

about, they're going to resonate
with. What would you say is,

like, one of your big mistakes
that you look back on in your

sales career?

Phil Putnam: Okay, so this is a
mistake I made earlier in my

career, and then just two days
ago, I didn't make this mistake.

This is a success story. Several
years ago, I was in a sales

conversation. We had achieved
product market fit. We'd

achieved, you know, business
value fit. And so the obvious

question, the buyer has of great
and how has this helped other

customers? Before? Can you
provide me with some data

points? I just said no, because,
to my knowledge, at the time,

this product was new to the
market, and I, as far as I knew,

my company didn't have any data
they could pull from. So I just

said, No, we can't provide you
with any data of how this has

helped other customers. And of
course, you know, I lost the

deal. The follow up is that just
two days ago, exact same thing,

and this is now I'm running my
own business, I'm selling my own

products, and I'm with this
decision maker and an in person

meeting, and she says, and can
you provide us some data on how

this has helped other customers.
In my head, I said, No, what

came out of my mouth was, let me
put something together for you.

Because what I realized in that
moment is the real thing that I

needed was time. Like that's the
first problem that I had to

solve was get more time to find
a way to give this customer what

they're asking for. Because
maybe there is data. Maybe I

don't know yet, but I probably
can solve this problem if I just

create time for me to do it. And
so then I was able to go home

and figure out, how am I going
to solve this problem?

Mark Ackers: Like you say, I
think it's that ability to you

hear a question, and it's not
that knee jerk reaction assuming

you've got the answer. It's, let
me get some time. Did you do any

clarity around what it is they
were looking for? Like when

someone says to me, if you've
got any data, that can mean lots

of things? Yeah, so

Phil Putnam: we'd already done
that earlier in the

conversation. This product that
I was selling them is relatively

new to the market, so I have a
limited number of customers that

are currently using it, and the
first one started using it only

four months ago. I knew the data
was going to be limited, but

also I know the problems that
this product solves. I'd already

made sure that this prospect I
was talking to needed those

problems to be solved in their
business. So I we'd already

zeroed in on a specific KPI that
they were looking for, which was

basically time and stage. They
didn't specify the stage they

wanted, but they just said,
we're really looking to address

our deal velocity challenges,
specifically through time and

stage. So that's

Mark Ackers: why that stat, then
was really helpful to you,

because I think that was the bit
that was just slightly missing,

is that the data they were
looking for. So Phil, how we got

to know each other is Sarah
brazier. Introduced us. She

said, you'd be a great guest,
and we started speaking. You

shared, initially, a couple of
chapters of your book. I've then

since had the full copy, which
I'm really appreciative of, I've

done some reading. The book is
called desire based leadership,

and it come out, it was October.
Wasn't it that you launched it?

Let's talk about that book.
First of all, who is this book

for and how would. You describe
it first and

Phil Putnam: foremost, it's for
leaders of people, so managers,

and this could be a manager of
any level, it's especially

poignant for middle managers,
like frontline managers and

second line team managers,
because they often get squeezed

the most on the expectations
from above, the needs from

below, and limited resources to
accommodate either set. So

that's really who it's for, but
it's really for leaders of any

stage, and then the larger
audience is an employee in any

role in any industry, because
it's really about your

relationship with employment,
and the fact that the motivation

that leads to top employee
performance at any level is a

result of somebody's belief that
they can get the life they

desire from the job they have.
That's about your relationship

with employment. Also, one of
the main things that helps

leaders do is stop trying to
solve behavioral problems with

operational solutions. And so
that's a little bit of a teaser

about what's in the book, and we
can really, you know, dig in

together from there well and

Mark Ackers: well, let's do
that. I mean the book really, as

you say, it focuses on aligning
leadership with what people

truly want. What inspired that
idea? Well,

Phil Putnam: very typical
situation for a first time

leader, I was brought into a
global role with a very large

mandate and a very short period
of time to deliver results and

very limited resources. And I
had inherited one team member

who was there before I joined
the company. I was given, you

know, head count to hire two
more, and I knew with the

expectations that were in front
of me, I had to generate some

big results in a very short
period of time, I'm going to

have to get my team members to
give me what I want, which is

quality work on time, on a very
regular basis, in order for me

to deliver my team's number to
my larger business, which is my

responsibility. It's how I keep
my job, it's how I get my

promotion. So I just sat down
and did something I very

normally do, I just applied some
common sense, and I thought,

well, what's the best way to get
somebody to give me what I want

from them, to give them what
they want? And so I just asked

myself, what do people want from
a job? Why do people work? And

the answer was so obvious and so
quick and clear, people work to

get the life they desire in
exchange, that is everyone's

number one career goal, because
nobody truly loves their

employer more than they love
themself. And so I thought,

well, if I'm going to use
somebody's ability to get the

life they desire from the job
they have as a basis of

motivation and also a basis of
decisioning about who am I going

to hire? I need to figure out. I
need to discover the details of

what that life is for each
person. So as I was interviewing

candidates or getting to know
the person I'd inherited and

learning how to mentor and
develop her, I just would say,

Hey, if you're comfortable,
because this is totally

voluntary, let's set aside the
job for a second and just, I'd

love to learn about the life
you're trying to get in exchange

for the work that you do. And
then I'll tell you honestly, if

you can get it here, because I
genuinely believe that if you

can get the life you desire from
the job you have, that's party

time, like you're going to be
fundamentally motivated to bring

me your best performance every
single day with a minimal amount

of friction. I'm going to get
what I need from you. My

business is going to get what it
needs from our team, and we're

all going to be happy. But the
reverse is also true. If you

can't get the life you desire,
or you believe you can't get the

life you desire from the job you
have, you're going to disengage.

Your performance quality is
going to dip. And if I can't fix

it in time, you're going to
leave, and my company is going

to have to pay the cost of
replacing you, and the cost of

replacement it is crippling to
every company's profitability,

and it's a major thing that's
being overlooked by almost every

company I'm aware of right now.
It is kneecapping profitability

all over the place. It boggles
my mind. Why more companies are

not concerned about this. Help

Mark Ackers: me understand the
time that's got on from this

journey. When I asked you the
what inspired this idea, you

went to a very specific moment.
When was that moment? What year

it was? Late 2021 Okay, so I
mean relatively recently, then

right before then, perhaps not
the way in which you were

managing people, but you had
that realization in 2021 is

that, is that, is

Phil Putnam: that what you're
saying? Yeah, and it was a

realization born of pressure.
And

Mark Ackers: since that
realization, you've obviously

had three years putting this
into practice, and you thought,

I want to write a book about
this. What's been the reaction

to this book from people that
have read it and reached out to

you? What have you heard from
people. It's

Phil Putnam: been really, really
supportive, which is wonderful.

There's two primary reactions
that have come the first is,

this is so obvious, but no one's
ever talked about it before in

this way. People are amazed that
I'm the first person to put out

a book that really looks at
leadership in this specific way,

because the fact that people are
trying to get the life they

want. From the work they do,
that's a universal human truth.

So when I say it, it feels
revelatory to people because it

hasn't been articulated in this
way before to them, but it also

lands with them as something
that's always been true inside

of them, and they just never
really realized it before in

this way. That's the first
reaction. The second reaction

is, oh, my God. The data, the
research in this book, is so

compelling. I was really
fortunate to find incredible

data from the world's most
reputable sources on business

insights. This is like Gallup
Deloitte, ADP, pay scale,

Mercer, like all these really,
really top level, reputable

sources, there's just so much
information out there about what

people want from their
employment, what they are and

are not getting from it, and the
financial benefit or damage

that's caused to organizations
when leadership either

prioritizes their employees
desires and their ability To get

it, or they don't prioritize it.
And honestly, for me personally,

there were four drafts of the
book that I wrote, between the

second and the third draft is
where the research came in. And

to me, that's where the book
really became itself. I really

didn't feel particularly
confident with data, to be

honest, before I wrote this book
and before I researched it, and

it turned out to be like a
playground for me. It became the

most enjoyable and most
fascinating part of creating

this book.

Mark Ackers: Let's just pick
apart something you said there,

which I totally understand.
People love their lives more

than they love their careers,
right? It just feels obvious

when you say that out loud.
Here's the question that I'm

going to try and articulate, how
does that change from generation

to generation? And the reason I
say that is when I look at my

dad and his dad and their
attitudes towards working

careers, that work ethic, and
that's that's even like

academically as well, right?
That is all encompassing. But

then when I look at the other
side of my face, kind of like

two totally different mindsets
collided. But then when I look

at other generations as well,
maybe like generated below me, I

see more of that, like living
their lives more I think COVID

sped things up in terms of
people realizing they can be

more flexible. They can work
from home. You know, you can

have later starts, earlier
finishes. Yeah, I'm going on a

slight rant. But how have you
seen this change generation,

generation? Because my feeling
is, the generations coming up

are going to align with this a
lot more than the generations on

their way out. I would agree
with that, and this

Phil Putnam: is a great
question, especially right now,

because the battle over return
to Office mandates is in a fresh

round of heat right now, and
it's a perfect microcosm of what

you're asking about I did a lot
of work with understanding each

generation's relationship with
employment. And then there's an

entire chapter in the book
that's dedicated to how to how

to effectively lead and motivate
millennials and Gen Z, ers, four

generations, primarily active in
the workforce, basically the

younger half of the Baby
Boomers, Gen Xers, millennials,

which are also known as Gen Y,
and then the older half of Gen

Z. So right now, Gen Z is
between ages 13 and 29 roughly.

Ages 13 to 18, roughly, have not
yet aged into the adult full

time workforce, or like ages 13
to 2021, basically starting with

baby boomers. Fundamentally,
they are a loyalty driven

relationship with employment.
They believe in sticking with an

employer even through the hard
times, because it'll pay off in

the long run. They also believe
that loyalty to an employer is a

mark of good human character. So
you can't be a good person if

you hop employers a lot. Also,
all the benefits of loyalty were

available to them. You know,
pensions, lifetime benefits,

meaningful employer
contributions to retirement

funds, unions, etc, profit
sharing was also more common

back then. Then there are the
Gen Xers, which I am, by the

way, I'm right on the cusp of X
and millennial, but I function

primarily as an excerpt. Our
fundamental relationship with

employment is that we inherited
our baby boomer parents

expectation of loyalty, but we
didn't get a lot of the payoff.

So our journey is often a 20 to
25 year journey to realizing

that we can have agency in our
relationship with employment,

that we don't have to deliver
loyalty to an employer who's not

paying it back off to us. That's
fundamentally what it is for a

millennial. This is the biggest
change in attitude in the four

generations, the biggest change
is between Gen X and

millennials, millennials and Gen
Zers. Fundamental relationship

with employment is to find
purpose in it without being

beholden to it. The best way to
articulate that is that they

need to work in order to feel
fulfilled. World, but when the

needs of work and life are in
conflict, they will choose life

over work. So they value their
time more than they fear change.

And to say that again, because
it's one of the most important

phrases, any leader who's not in
those two generations can hear

millennials and Gen Z ers value
their time more than they fear

change. The reason why that's so
important is because, especially

right now, there's a lot of
people who are looking for work,

and a lot of leaders have led a
lot of rounds of layoffs very

recently, and a lot of leaders
are continuing to look for ways

to cut costs. So the attitude
that a lot of senior leaders

have right now towards job
candidates and hiring is that,

well, I can afford to lose
people because there's so many

people looking for work, and I
can afford to underpay and

people are so scared of not
having a job right now that

they'll stick it out even when
I'm not giving them what they

truly need. That is not an
accurate statement for

millennials and Gen Z years in
general, those two generations

value their time more than they
fear change. They value getting

what they want from their work
experience more than they're

afraid of the change of finding
a new job. It's really important

lesson for leaders to learn
right now, I combined

millennials and Gen Z ers. The
best way to think about

millennials and Gen Z ers is
take what's true for millennials

and just quadruple it, and
that's what's true for Gen Z

years. Now, there are some
slight differences, but

essentially, that's where we
are. I find millennials and Gen

Z years to be the most similar
of the four generations that are

in the workforce right now,

Mark Ackers: I'm a millennial,
and I feel like and maybe I'm

only speaking for myself, but I
know when I speak to my friends,

both of them, we feel like we're
the last generation that, almost

we had that pressure from the
generation above us about got to

go to work the employer. We see
that in some of our parents

still work. You know that that
loyalty, that pay off and you're

grateful to have a job like, I
know my mother in law, that is

her attitude to my wife. BEC,
well, you're just lucky to have

a job to my wife. And it's like,
No, she's not. You know, she she

deserves that. She can't get
another job any other point. But

when I look at the generation
below me, I see the change as

well. And I I feel like
Millennials are more in the

middle than perhaps what you're
saying. But that might just be

my own reality. But, yeah,
really interesting way in which

you break that, you break that
down. I think when I, when I the

book that you shared over as I
say, I could see that this felt

like something that might change
generation to generation. How

does that shift in perspective
change how leaders should

approach motivation then?
Because a leader right now might

have what I mean myself. I've
got millennials and I've got Gen

Z. I've got both. How should a
leader that might have

millennials and Gen Z change
their approach to motivation?

Sure.

Phil Putnam: Well, the first
question if you're trying to

change the way a leader handles
their employees, the first

question you have to help them
answer is, why should they

prioritize the needs of their
employees over the needs of

their business? That's the first
honest question that any any

legit leader is going to have to
work through. Because most of us

have been raised to believe that
the employee exists to serve the

needs of the business and not
the other way around. I actually

have come to believe it's the
reverse. Because how do you

think the business succeeds?
It's when the employees deliver

quality work on time and when
their tenures are long enough

that your operational cost of
replacement and attrition is

under control. I think the first
thing you have to say is like,

Look, you have to prioritize
your employees needs, because

still today, over 90% of any
company's assets are produced

and delivered to the market by
their human employees. So you

literally cannot succeed without
human employees. There may be

some business models that can,
but this is not a problem that

AI has solved. It's not a
problem that AI will solve

anytime soon, if ever, like,
there's no such thing as a

global enterprise, entirely
automated, machine driven

business. You need humans, and
not only do you need them, they

are over 90% of what you create.
So that's the first reason, is

you, you have to figure out how
to leverage human labor, human

intellect, human skill, to reach
and exceed your goals. And

that's how a leader keeps their
job. That's how a leader pays

their bills. Once you've
accomplished that, then you, you

look at the fact that what's
universal across all generations

is that desire to get the life
you want in exchange for the

work that you do, and then you
just learn. Not just what does

each generation want, but what
does each individual want? And

that's really what the heart of
what the book teaches. The book

is very useful. So there's a
framework in there that I

developed through my years of
doing this that allowed me to

very quickly and very scalably
gather those details of the life

that an individual person wants
in exchange for the work that

they do, and then analyze the
likelihood of me giving them

that life. And once I had those
two outputs from this model, I

could then make an. Informed
decision on whether to hire

them, or whether or not, whether
to keep them on my team, whether

to give them more development,
because it becomes this. It

becomes an understanding of, are
they going to get the life they

want from this job in reality,
not in magical thinking that a

lot of leaders like to employ in
reality, is this job going to

deliver on this person's
expectations and needs, and if

not, I need to not waste their
time. So I'm very employee

first, and I'm very frank about
that. All I want is for every

person on earth to get exactly
what they want from the time

they have a life that time is
short, it's precious. It's also

the only resource we cannot get
back. Money is easy. Money

comes, money goes, it's fluid.
Time is not I think one of the

most disrespectful things you
can do to a human is

deliberately waste their time
and when in it, when a company

really

Mark Ackers: powerful words and
phrases said there, Phil, that

just just impossible not to
resonate with the model you're

talking about, obviously, is the
life motivational discovery

model, and I want to dig into
that. I think, I think it'd be

fair to say that most people
that listen to this podcast will

manage Millennials or Gen Gen Z.
Here's the thing that I often

hear when I speak to managers
about motivation, is so the

sales leaders, they manage sales
people, and they find

identifying true motivation
difficult, and that can be for a

few reasons. They sit down with
millennials, or they sit down

with Gen Z's and they say, You
know what motivates you? And the

top level answer is money. I
want to earn money. I know

you'll know this to be true as
well, but that only motivates

you for so long. As soon as you
get pay rise, that makes you

happy for a couple of days, very
soon, you start getting used to

that standard of living, like
you spend what you earn. It

doesn't motivate you, really.
The other problem they have is

perhaps the younger generation,
Gen Z, I don't know. I don't

know what I want, right? It's
not like they've grown up

wanting to be in sales. They've
they've fallen into sales. One

of the reasons I ask everyone on
the Quick Fire hours, what do

you want to be when you're older
is, I want to see how many

podcasts I can get into before
someone's as a salesperson. And

it'll probably be, it probably
never happen. So when you

imagine Gen z's, they're in a
career. They didn't grow up and

want to have. They didn't study
at school, college, university,

haven't got a degree in sales.
They just fallen into sales.

They become a slave to
commission because they start to

earn money, they realize they
probably couldn't get that money

elsewhere, but they don't
necessarily know what motivates

them, because they're still
quite young. Is it as simple as

a very common answer I want to
get on the property ladder? Is

that really what motivates them
day to day? I suppose, in a

roundabout way, what I'm trying
to ask you is, how do sales

leaders, and I know I'll be
setting you up here for the life

motivation discovery model. But
how do sales leaders really

understand what truly motivates
their employees?

Phil Putnam: You ask them, and
then you accept their answers.

It's really not complicated.
Here's where most leaders really

trip themselves up before
they've even gotten going in

this conversation, two beliefs
that leaders have to stop

believing and have to get
themselves out of if they want

to drive top performance from
their people in today's market,

they have to stop telling
themselves that they know better

what their people want than the
people themselves do, and they

have to stop telling themselves
that they actually have a hand

in scripting what their
employees want. You have no

place and no power to actually
make somebody want something

different than what they want.
Your only power is to decide

whether or discover whether you
can give it to them or not, and

then choose how you might
proceed based upon the answer to

that question. If you can't give
somebody what they want, but you

still want them to keep working
at your company. Your only real

options to do that are to
manipulate them or lie to them.

You have to convince somebody to
stick around for less than what

they truly want. That's awful
human behavior, and it will not

create a positive long term
outcome. I understand

Mark Ackers: it's an obvious
answer ask them. I understand

that. Let me just challenge that
slightly. When you're asking

someone motivates them, that is
with the context of they could

be really young. This could be
their first or second job in

sales. They didn't dream of this
job. They could have self

limiting beliefs, right? They
don't know what is possible.

They don't know what they could
achieve. Do feel like you can

get templated answers of get on
the property ladder. I'm money

motivated because they've become
a slave to that commission. I

suppose what I'm hoping you can
share with the listeners here

is, if you're sat with someone,
and I totally get by the way,

you can't want more for someone.
They want for themselves, right?

They they have to. You can't
engineer something for them. But

how do we as managers really
understand the motivation beyond

those templated answers, beyond
those self limiting beliefs,

beyond those they don't know
what they don't know? How do we

find out? And I say I'm hoping
that's where the life motivation

discovery model is going to come
in,

Phil Putnam: definitely. So life
is an acronym, l, I, F, E, the.

Letters stand for lifestyle,
income, feelings, employment,

and these are the four buckets
of information that the answers

that I would get when I was
developing this model most

commonly fell into. So let's
talk about the I the income,

since that's what you've asked
about. First of all, I think

that wanting to get on the
property ladder or being

motivated by money are
completely valid motivations. I

don't think it's my place as a
leader to judge those or to

think that they're somehow only
partially informed. Can you

recall a time in your life,
regardless of age, where there

was truly nothing that you
wanted, that you were aware of?

People always want something,
whether it's a popsicle or

whether it's a house this idea
that someone would not be aware

of what they want at that point
in time doesn't line up with

human experience and with human
reality. I think the mistake

that a lot of leaders make is
they expect somebody to be able

to say, what do you want
forever. That's not the

question. The question is
simply, what do you want? Now,

that's the need you need to
assess. Can I give them what

they want? Now, when it comes to
motivation, the promise of

someday is a motivation killer.
You'll get that promotion

someday. You'll get that house
someday, if you stick around,

people don't believe in that. So
if you hire somebody and you

say, Hey, you want to get a
promotion, we can really deliver

that to you, probably in two to
three years. They're probably

going to be okay with that, but
if you don't deliver on that in

two to three years, they're not
going to stick around for

another two to three years. And
hope of that promotion money

itself is almost never the goal.
It's what money will do for the

person, how they want to use it
to shape the life experience

they want to have, both with the
things and the activities they

do, the material part of their
life, and then also the

emotional reality. A great story
to bring this to life is that I

was doing, I was delivering this
workshop at a conference a

couple months ago, and I had
people from every generation in

the workforce in the room, so a
really great discussion

developed among us about the
different ways that those

generations look at their
employment, and the woman who

was from the millennial
generation who spoke up, I had a

person from each generation
share their experience, and this

brilliant woman named Ashley
spoke up and said, Well, I

entered the workforce right
after the 2008 market crash, I

did everything I was supposed
to. I went to school, then I

went to university or college. I
did everything I was supposed

to, that the world told me would
make it possible for me to get a

job and get into my adult life.
And then I got handed a global

financial meltdown, and yeah, I
had to live in my parents house

longer because there weren't
jobs available and the economy

wasn't favorable. It was the
worst economy, you know, in

recent history, certainly of her
lifetime. And then I've spent

every every day and every month
and every year since then, being

judged as entitled and lazy and
unreliable by the senior leaders

above me simply because of the
date that I was born, and then

what was happening in the
economy at the time when I was

going from college into the
workforce. And that made such a

profound impact on me when she
shared that, because I don't

think that most leaders today
take seriously how disruptive

and how challenging it was for
that, that era of the millennial

generation, to have to go from
university to the workforce in

the wake of the economic
meltdown. Someone says, I want

to make money. If I'm running
the model, the life, motivation,

Discovery model on them, I'm
like, great. What do you want

that money to do for your life?
That's where the conversation

really gets interesting and
really gets going. One of the

things I look for when I ask the
money discovery questions, the

income discovery questions is,
do they just say I want to make

X amount of money by x date or
by x point in time? Or do they

talk about the impact they want
money to have on their life, and

is that impact more focused on
the material aspects of life or

the psychological aspects of
life? And I tell you, I have run

this on 1000s of people now I
have never, ever had a single

person only say I want to make X
amount of money by x point in

time, not once. Over 95% of the
time, what people talk about

when they talk about money is
the impact they wanted to have

on their material life and, most
importantly, their psychological

well being. There

Mark Ackers: was so much there,
Phil that we could break into I

think the thing that I was
taking from this is, this is

where it's changed for leaders
that two to three years and that

people aren't afraid of change.
And I think if you're managing

the older generations, you can
almost spin that story, paint

that long term picture, that
vision that stay with us. This

will happen wherever you're
managing the younger

millennials, the Gen z's. You
really have got two or three.

Years to help them get to where
they want to get to. And if, and

if you don't deliver on that,
that's where they're not afraid

to move on. Lots of people that
listen to this will manage young

sales professionals from the
ages of 18 to 2223 and when they

talk about, because I love to
talk about motivation and

understand what motivates their
teams, etc. And they say one of

the frustrations is they find
that what they get back is, I

want to earn money, I want to
get the property ladder, because

it's so tough and, and again, in
England, that is, that is how

you're brought up, in education
from your parents, it's you've

got to get a house, get a
property ladder. And, and I

think it's so difficult and
almost almost unachievable for

people now, growing up like I
worry about my children. Will

they be able to buy a house in
1520, years time? So my question

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young that says they're money

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Phil Putnam: Great question.
I'll go back again to say it's

not the leader's place to judge
the person's desires. It's the

leader's place to learn their
desires and then judge whether

they can fulfill them or not,
because that is the key to that

person's motivation and the key
to their performance. Also you

have to remember that the place
where you stopped learning is

the place where you stopped
asking. So if all you gathered

from your employee or your this
job candidate when you asked

them what they were trying to
accomplish in their career was

money and the property ladder,
that's because you didn't ask

them any more than that, and you
don't really have operable

information if all you've
gathered is that they want to

make money and buy a house. So I
think the onus is on the leader

to continue the discovery to
Okay, and what will it do for

you? If you have money and buy a
house, where do you want that

house to be? What do you want
that house to look like? Who do

you want to have living in your
house? Those questions alone, if

you answered those questions.
For me, here's what I would know

as your potential leader or your
leader. I would know if I need

to worry about relocation for
you based upon where you want

your house to be. I would know
if you plan to build a family or

expand your existing family
based upon what your answer to

Who do you want to have in that
home with you? And if you want

to build a family or expand your
family, more people, more pets

means more money, more time,
more anxiety, right? Also means

a requirement of work life
balance. I'm going to want to

know that. I'm going to know
about a person's level of

ambition. I'm also going to know
about what time scale they

expect to get things on that's
all really important information

for me, then to analyze, well,
these this is the constraints of

my business. This is what I can
pay this person right now. This

is my company's personality when
it comes to the pace of

promotions and pay increases. So
if the information the person's

giving me would require
meaningful salary growth within

the next three years, but I know
my company's personality on that

historically is to keep raises
slow and small. Well, then I'm

probably not going to get top
performance from this person.

And is hiring them a smart
choice for me? Probably not,

because they're going to be
unhappy, and then I'm going to

be unhappy. That's an example of
how the information the model

gathers for you can be put into
practice very quickly in a very

important, very practical
decision. Phil,

Mark Ackers: that is exactly
what I was wanting you to say. I

was trying to push you down
next. I wanted you to run that

example. And

Phil Putnam: here's the thing,
though, the reason why there's

so much conceptual conversation
to have about this is because

there is so much ideological
growth that needs to happen

among the current crop of
leadership. And let me actually

talk a little bit about why this
is a really important insight

for leaders to take away a very
common question I get is, okay,

sure, I get the business value
of discovering what my people

want, especially if they're
millennials and Gen Z ers. But

why does that really matter? Why
do I need to prioritize the

needs of these generations?
Here's why, combined millennials

and Gen Z ers are currently 53%
of the global workforce. The

younger half of Gen Z, ages 13
to roughly 20 have yet to age in

to the adult workforce. So those
two generations together,

combined are on track to be two
thirds of the global workforce

by the year 2035 only less than
10 years from now. Also a

current report and from early
2024 from manpower. Group, which

is a global staffing, recruiting
and employment insights

organization, found that in 2024
there's a global talent

shortage, regardless of the
candidates that are in the

market, and the influx of that
after all the layoffs, they

found that 77% of all companies
across all industries globally

are struggling to fill their
open roles. The third thing I

want to put on the table here,
before I draw out the insight,

is that, because still the
majority of senior leadership,

the ones who really dictate what
happens at a company and how

hiring and firing and
compensation goes, the majority

of those people are from the
Baby Boomer and older level of

Gen X, right? That's where the
majority of senior leadership

power is still currently
consolidated, but the majority

of the workforce is millennials
and Gen Zers. So you have this

significant generational divide
ideologically between what an

employee should do and should
bring to the work and what they

should be motivated by. So
there's a big difference there.

And I run into a lot of senior
leaders that basically say,

yeah, I get it, but I don't want
to, I don't want to prioritize

the way that the majority of the
workforce looks at work. I want

to do things the way I do. I
want to do them and I want to

get the results I want. Great.
That's what you want to do. It's

not going to work. You think
millennials and Gen Zers are

entitled and lazy? You're wrong.
You're just wrong. They just

have a different relationship
with employment than you do. And

if you want a successful
business, the smart strategy is

to not alienate the majority of
the global workforce, because

over 90% of your business assets
are going to be created and

delivered by the humans in that
workforce. There is no business

case. There is no valid business
logic that supports continuing

to alienate and undermine and
mock the needs and desires of

the majority of the global
workforce.

Mark Ackers: So Phil, what would
you say to a listener who

doesn't believe this, that they
don't believe that the life an

employee wants is a stronger
motivator than the desire for

the company to succeed?

Phil Putnam: Great question. I
first would say, you're probably

not alone, but here's what I've
learned over the years of doing

this, I've spoken about this and
taught this at conferences and

and workshops within companies
over the past several years. And

there's something I always do.
Every time I do this workshop, I

arrive at a point where I ask
the audience two questions. I

ask them, raise your hand, if
and only if you truly love your

employer more than you love
yourself. And I ask them, raise

your hand if and only if you
truly care more about your

company meeting its goals than
you do about yourself and your

loved ones getting the life that
you want. Now, I have asked this

question now to well over 3000
people. How many people do you

think have raised their hands
yes to either of those

questions? Go on. Tell us zero,
actual, literal zero. I would

have to imagine that if I was
somehow wrong about this, at

least one out of those 3000
people would have honestly

raised their hand and said, No,
I joyfully prioritize my

employer's needs above my own.
That's why I believe it, because

not only does it land with me as
a basic human truth, but it's

been proven out now by 1000s of
people that I've had this

discussion with, what I

Mark Ackers: think is a
potential danger that businesses

might be, might be like walking
towards, is they might have very

senior leaders that have got one
eye on retirement, that just

don't take it that seriously,
they don't look to prioritize

those younger generations. They
they are of that mindset that

they're lazy, they're entitled.
But why change when you get to a

certain age, you've got one hour
retirement and you can have that

real friction. Have you ever
seen that play out? Oh yeah.

Phil Putnam: And I actually very
specifically address this in the

book, because the reality is
that, let's say you're one of

those leaders. You're like, you
know what? I'm retired in five

years. I just want to write it
out and not worry about it. I

don't want to change. Okay.
Well, when you retire, you're

still a participant in the
economy. So when you retire, it

doesn't remove you from the
economy. It just demotes you

from being a driver of that car
to being a passenger. You now

have whatever you know,
retirement funds you have, and

maybe you're on in some paid
board seats, or maybe you do

other things. You have passive
income, maybe of active income,

but still, you're impacted by
the economy. Also, most

executives who have been
executives for a while, a

significant portion of their
retirement investment portfolio

is stock in the companies that
they've worked for and led at

along the way. So how those
companies perform is going to

impact the quality of those
leaders post retirement life.

It's going to dictate what the
rest of their life is like, from

the end of their career to their
death. If you're a leader right

now, if you're a senior leader,
if you're a C level leader who's

five years away from retirement,
you. You have never had more

power in your entire career to
shape the way that the people

who are going to run your
company when you're gone are

equipped to do so. Do you want
to spend those five years

ignoring them and under
equipping them and basically

setting them up for failure and
then having negative impacts on

your retirement portfolio,
financially and your quality of

life, or do you want to use the
opportunity that you have right

now for the next five years to
invest in those people and

increase the likelihood that the
companies that your post

retirement life partially
depends on is going to be

better? And

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you can't argue with that. I

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struggle to make that real

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thing I'm thinking, what you're
talking about here, like it's so

clear talking to you and reading
the book like you just you know

exactly what you're talking
about, and you say it's all

research proven, it's data, data
backed. And I think it's so

clear anyone listen to this
that, like, they should just buy

this book, if they want to get
better understanding and

motivating their employees, it's
just really clear that you're an

expert in this. Therein lies the
challenge, right? Lots of sales

leaders are a sales leader
because they're a good seller.

That doesn't make them a good
manager. They just get promoted.

That happened to me? Right? It's
not like I was identified as a

great manager, I just got
promoted from being an

individual contributor, and
that's what happens in sales

leaders are former great former
sales people. But how does a

leader really learn all of this?
Because it's totally different

to being an individual
contributor, starting to manage

people and motivate people. How
are they going to put us in

practice? Like, let's imagine.
They don't, they don't have your

book. Let's imagine, right?
Because this is a new book, how

they meant to really navigate
this. So

Phil Putnam: here's the good
news, regardless of an

individual leader's personality
or what they're great at and

what they struggle with, one of
something people can always

choose to do is listen like,
listening is a choice. Yeah, for

some of us, it comes naturally,
and some people are naturally

better at it than others, but
it's also something you can

choose to do, and it's something
you can empirically become

better at with practice. Just
start listening to people, just

start asking them about what
they want. That alone will be

very transformational for a lot
of leaders, because what will

happen is, not only will you
develop that muscle memory?

Those that skill set of, oh, if
I want to know, I should ask.

But also you're going to start
seeing patterns in and themes in

the answers that you get. And so
what listening does is it equips

you with information that you
can then use to form the team

that you have at any given time
into an optimally functioning

group of people, right? You can
also then make good operational

decisions that will facilitate
the best success of those

people. And you can also avoid
operational dangers and you can

avoid bad hires. You can know
when to move somebody on. You

can know when to keep somebody
you can know when to go fight

for a raise, and use your very
limited political capital within

your organization on something
that's going to be beneficial,

not only to the person you're
trying to help, but also to your

own career. And also say, just
from a personal standpoint, I

was a terrible listener. I'm not
a naturally gifted listener, but

I become a world class listener,
all because in the first six

weeks of my first year at
college, university, so I was 18

years old, a friend I had at the
time, one day, she looked at me

and she said, You know what,
Phil, you're a terrible

listener. And I looked at her
and said, You know what, Sarah,

you're right. I am a terrible
listener. It was the moment

where I was ready to hear it.
And so what I decided in that

moment, I said, You know what?
My number one criteria of

whether my time in university
has been successful will not be

whether I get my degree. I'm
going to get my degree. I know

that's going to happen. That's
that's not a problem. My number

one criteria will be if when I
finish and I graduate, I can

honestly say that I've learned
how to listen, because I just

sort of knew by instinct at that
point that this was going to be

the most important skill a human
could learn, and it was going to

transform my life more than
anything else. I don't know how

I knew it. I just did so I
followed that instinct and I

spent, I did, five years in
college rather than four. I

spent all five years to. Just
obsessively exploring what it

means to listen. And it did, it
changed my life. So it is

something you can learn and it's
something you can practice,

whether it comes naturally or
not, in all humility, I do very

frequently have people express
to me, you're a great listener,

and I think why is because,
first of all, I actually take

the time to listen to them, but
also I'm curious about people.

And to go back to the question
you asked, really, which I think

at the heart of it is a question
about, what are some of the

characteristics that are
essential to being a really good

leader, right? That produces
great performance from your

people, and especially a sales
leader, I think the curiosity

about people is really,
essential. If I was talking to

you, what the day that your
manager came to you and said,

Hey, you should become a
manager, because you're a top

seller. And you said, Should I
do it? Phil, and I was coaching

you, probably the first and
maybe the only question I would

ask you, to help you decide is,
how curious are you about

people? Do people fascinate you
when you're in conversation, do

you find yourself asking a lot
of questions about the person

you're talking to, and do you
want to learn about them? Does

that come naturally to you? And
then, based upon your answer,

that would tell you whether you
should go into leadership or

not? If you're not genuinely,
fundamentally curious about

people, stay an individual
contributor. You're going to be

an incredible seller. You will
make so much money. You will be

so happy if you don't want to be
a people leader, and you choose

not to be a people leader, oh my
God, you're going to have a

great life and a great career.
You have to want to lead people

in order to be good at it. And a
lot of sellers don't want to

lead people, and that's
completely fine. I actually

think one of the ways that
corporate and sales culture has

really underserved and I think
harmed a lot of sellers is

there's this idea that if you
don't go into leadership, you've

somehow failed. That if you're
over 35 and you're still an

individual contributor, there's
something wrong with you. No, if

you don't want to be a leader,
don't do what you don't wanna

do. It's gonna be better for you
and your employers. So I think

one of the best things we can do
for the sales industry is build

out the reality that a lifetime
individual contributor Seller is

a completely valid, respectable
career choice, and we should be

encouraging it, rather than
trying to derail those people

into people leadership. I

Mark Ackers: think you're
totally right. But again, I

think that's where Millennials
are trapped, because they don't

get that message from above,
where maybe Gen Z will and

there's more awareness around
it. Let's talk about active

listening. It's it's a vital
skill for sales people, as it is

for managers. You spoke about
how you spend years trying to

become a better listener? Let's
imagine just you know, someone

is listening to this right now,
and they think, you know what? I

know that that's a weakness of
mine. What are some of the

things that they can start to do
to become a better listener?

From your experience, I

Phil Putnam: just started with
what I knew. So I was 18 years

old. I was a baby, so I just
started with what I knew. I was

like, What do I know about
listening? It's looking at

somebody. It's asking them
questions. It's discussing

rather than broadcasting, you
know, it's making sure the

conversation is two ways. And I
just started there, and started

with the tactical, empirical
things, the behaviors that I

could change on the surface. So
I made sure that I was listening

more, asking more questions and
then giving space for the person

to answer. I try to interrupt
less often, which I still

struggle with. I'm a chronic
interrupter, but I'm working on

it. So once I had like, the
external behaviors together,

then I started dealing with what
happens in my mind while I'm

listening. I went to internal
and I realized that, oh, I'm not

really listening to what they're
saying. I'm just preparing my

next response. That's not the
best way to go about this. I

actually want to process what
they're saying. So then it

became that, right? So it went
from the empirical then to my

mental posture when I'm in the
action of listening. And then

from there, it just got more
deeper and more nuanced, because

then it became like, Okay, well,
what are the different ways that

people give me information? Yes,
there's verbal what's their body

language. You know also, what am
I sensing? What are my

instincts? How much can I trust
those instincts? As I started to

get to that level, then I would
ask people questions that would

either validate or invalidate my
instincts. Because what I

realized about my instincts is
they're right for me, but they

may not actually be, you know,
right in the situation, they may

not get me the information that
I need. So it was just like

continued to develop that
relationship, and what I

discovered is that well over the
vast majority of of what made me

a better listener was not about
the behaviors that I showed to

somebody else. It was about my
relationship with myself. And it

was do I have the self
confidence and the humility to

prioritize somebody else? Do I
have the confidence and the

humility? Ability to prioritize
what they're telling me over my

ability to respond to it. That
was a lot of where it got to

very quickly. But those are some
things that that somebody who

wants to improve their listening
skills can do. And is there any

books that you would recommend?
Yes, and this is where I am a

little bit off the beaten path,
off the typical thing when it

comes to what books do you read
to become a better leader or a

better seller? I do enjoy sales
and business books, but where I

actually get my most profound
insights for serving people as a

leader is actually from fiction
and from memoirs, and also from

television and movies. The
reason why is that I find that

fiction and memoirs are far more
descriptive and insightful about

human behavior than business
books often are. Business books

are often primarily about
operations, and even if they are

written to address human
behavior, they still are trying

to solve behavioral challenges
with operational solutions, and

that's never going to be
particularly effective. I'm

drawn to media and fiction,
memoirs, biographies. I love

biographies. Biographies have
changed my life because that's

about human behavior, and that's
about behavior in context. It's

about history and also TV and
film, especially large, globally

embraced shows. They're the last
piece of monoculture that we

have. Culture has become really
fragmented, but still our

primary reference points that
shape the way we respond to

various things at work largely
come from our life outside of

work. I find those human themes
and those cultural themes that

define what people bring to
their relationship with

employment in TV and film and
fiction and memoirs and

biographies, far more than I
find it in business books.

Mark Ackers: What's the
biography that's had the biggest

impact on your life? Then there
is

Phil Putnam: a musician named
Nina Simone. Her primary career

was basically from the 50s
until, really, until she passed

away in the early 2000s her
autobiography is called, I put a

spell on you changed my life,
and so I read it the summer that

I was really becoming a
songwriter, and she really

helped me understand the kind of
relationship I could have with

my artwork, the difficulties.
She really gave me a perspective

on relationship with audience,
with conviction about yourself

and realities of fame. Those
were just very, very seminal

lessons for me at that point in
not only my career, but also

just my development as a human
you know, I was really deciding

what I believed about the world
and what I wanted at that time,

and when I was was 20 or 21 at
the time, it was very, very

powerful in forming my
relationship with the world

around me, and it was powerful
for me as a leader, because what

is your leadership style? What
is your life, if not an

expression of your relationship
with the world around

Mark Ackers: you? You know what
I'm really enjoying, Phil, and I

thought it's the same very way,
like the formative years, but

your formative years, like
everyone, like when you younger,

you tell a lot between the ages
of 18 and sort of 2122 but

you're so aware of those
formative moments. And even at

the age you are now, in terms of
how long ago that was, you're so

aware of your formative years.
And I think lots of people don't

really recognize the big things
that have impacted who they are

today. I love how you can just
go back to then and recount the

impact it's had on you. Here's a
scenario I just I want to flesh

out with you, right? So what
about those people that work for

big companies? They are middle
managers, that they're they are

small cogs in big machines, and
they manage people that perhaps

they're a mix of inherited,
hired, etc, but they know they

can't truly give the people what
they want, but they can't let

them all go, right like this is
their job, and they've got their

own motivations, and they've got
their own desires, and they need

the people below them to deliver
on there so they can get what

they want. Obviously, the advice
can't just be well, you should

let them go. This is cruel.
You're wasting their time. What

is that person meant to do when
they are that cog, but they've

got these cogs beneath them that
report into them, these cogs

above them. And you and they
know that it doesn't all tick,

but it does go round enough.
What's your real advice there?

Because it can't be to just let
them go. The first

Phil Putnam: thing you have to
do is choose to embrace reality.

Stop lying to yourself. Stop
lying to your employees. Your

Business constraints are real.
Your employees desires are real,

they either align or they don't.
You just gotta get really honest

with yourself about it. Stop
being in denial, and stop trying

to believe that asking your
people to take a plate of scraps

and behave like it's a buffet is
ever gonna work. Then what I

would do is I would run the life
motivation discovery model on

all of my direct reports. I
would get the data, I would run

the analysis, and then I would
go to my senior leader, and I

would say, This is what my
people want. This is our level

of ability to give it to them.
Because of that, this is my

forecast of what is going to
happen with my team in the next

six to 12 quarters. This is what
we. Need to be prepared for, and

this is what we need to build a
staffing and a Results Model on.

That's what I would do. There's
a couple scenarios that will are

most likely to play out. One of
those scenarios is that the

majority, if not all, of your
team will turn over in the next

two to three years because your
business constraints are so out

of line with the desires of your
employees, that you actually are

going to want them to turn over.
You cannot get top performance

from these people. That's what
the data tells you. So you

shouldn't try to get top
performance from those people.

You should try to turn them
over, not in a vindictive way,

but in a supportive way. Have
that honest conversation with

them. Say, I'm sorry. I can't
give you the future that you

want here. However, there are
other roles at the company that

I have found that could
potentially give that to you.

That's a great solution, because
then not only does that person

get the life they want from the
job they have, but your company

pays a far lower cost of
transitioning that person. You

also don't lose their
institutional knowledge. So the

overall benefit to the cost and
profit of your company is

better. But even if you can't
give them another role at your

company, I believe it is better
to help them move on to a

different company than it is to
keep them because once they know

they can't get the life they
want, their performance will

dip, and they will be dragging
your results down for as long as

they're there. It may be weeks,
it may be months. For some

employees, this goes on for
years, giving subpar

performance, and they're
dissatisfied along the way. That

is the most likely scenario when
you cannot give your people what

you want, and as a leader, you
do not have the ability to get

more resources to do so, like is
very often the case at large

corporations. The other, more
hopeful idea is that, hey, like,

I've got five people on my team.
We're in range to give three of

them what they want. That's
awesome. So let's build a

strategy that really plans on
those three people having a

longer tenure than the other
two. Maybe you change your

workload. Maybe you change your
mandate. Maybe you go get more

head count, whatever the case
is, running the model and then

being honest with yourself about
what you can expect from your

team members gives you
information and gives you lead

time to make a legitimate
strategy for your piece of the

operation. That's what I think
are some viable options in this

situation that you've described.
What an

Mark Ackers: amazing answer that
was, Phil, and just some great

advice. I love the idea of
creating a forecast next six to

12 quarters of look, this is
what the team want. This is what

is likely to happen. This is
when it's likely to happen. I've

got a plan. There are these
three or five people, whatever

it might be, and we could give
them this, and I accept these

two perhaps aren't going to
perform at the level we want

them to. That is when you become
a real leader, right, where you

really look after your team are
planning, I think particularly

in sales, which obviously I can
speak more confidently about,

given that's my background. But
we're just so focused on the

quarter, the hamster wheel, this
quarter, this quarter, and

planning that far ahead for your
team just almost feels crazy. A

really good answer. The other
thing that it led really nicely

to is kind of what you mentioned
the start, and this is, I

suppose we're entering the final
stage of the podcast now, but

you mentioned about retaining
that person, right? If you

believe that we can give them we
want, perhaps not in this role,

but you don't want to lose that
person. You mentioned really

passionately, very early on that
we must talk about the cost of

replacing people. And as I said,
I know this book's filled with

data, and you've done a lot of
research, why don't you really

have an open mic here to sales
leaders listening when it comes

to replacing people and the
costs and why people should be

more aware of this.

Phil Putnam: So data, data,
data, this is going to be the

data data people section. I'm
going to lay out very quickly

some numbers for you. So Forbes
and Gallup have both found that

the cost of replacing one
individual contributor could be

anywhere from 50 to 200% of the
salary of that role. The wide

variance in that range comes
from variance across industries.

So the median of that is 125% of
a role. The average cost of

replacing a salesperson in tech
right now is about 150% of their

ote. Let's say you are leading
at 100% company, and you're

currently running 15% annual
attrition. By the way, for a

reference point, the average
annual attrition amount in the

year 2023 in the United States
was 21% so if you're running 15%

attrition, you're 6% better than
the average good for you, let's

say their OT is only $150,000
then you have to replace them.

It's 150% cost to replace them,
which means you're going to pay

$225,000 US to replace that one
person. You're going to pay more

to replace them than it costs to
pay them, right? And this

factors in not only the full
operational cost of filling that

role. But then also nine to 12
months of limited productivity

while that person's coming up to
full productivity in the world.

So that total cost $225,000 to
replace one person. But you're

in 100 person company running
15% attrition. So if your

staffing plan is to stay at 100
people, you need to do 15

replacements this year to stay
at 100 people, $225,000 times 15

is $3.375 million so do you have
$3.4 million to throw away? I

don't. And even if you do,
should you the revenue

organization exists to generate
revenue, but that revenue then

get calculated into
profitability, and if you are

spending millions of dollars on
attrition that could be avoided,

you are just increasing the
distance between your company

and their profitability, and
this is a danger for any company

model, whether they're privately
funded or whether they're

public. Then let's contrast that
with the cost of satisfying your

employees. So pay scale Mercer
and ADP provide data that

together tell us that the
average salary increase across

all industries in 2024 for top
performance in the same role is

4.5% in tech, the average is 3%
for top performance as a bar

setter, if you do a 3% raise on
$150,000 salary, assuming 40% is

taken out for taxes, investments
and benefits, your actual

increase in your pocket for a 3%
raise for top performance is

$225 per month in today's world,
that is not a meaningful amount

of money. Bottom line with
225,000 or $225 a month, you can

buy a $25 meal nine times. You
can buy 27 grande lattes at

Starbucks. Because the average
price for a grande latte in

Starbucks, in the US is around,
I want to say, like $4 or

something. You can buy 12 and a
half Big Mac extra value meals

at McDonald's. That's what you
can do with the entire monthly

impact of a 3% increase on
$150,000 salary. Mercer and pay

scale, tell us, though NADP,
tell us that a raise that people

find satisfying, that will
engage them in their work, that

will deliver better performance,
that will increase their tenure,

is between five and 10% so
barely above the average that's

currently being given. So if you
go hog wild and you give a top

performer a 10% raise on an
$150,000 pay, that costs you

$15,000 rather than $225,000 and
if you do that 15 times the

total cost of satisfying 15
employees is $225,000 so take

your pick. Do you want to pay
$3.4 million to replace 15

people? Or do you want to pay
$225,000 to satisfy and keep 15

people? The last thing I'll say
is this, the beauty of this

strategic pivot, funding the
cost of attrition, to

prioritizing the cost of
replacement, or, sorry, the cost

of satisfaction, is that the
solution is immediately self

funding at a multiple because if
you avoid replacing one person

at the cost of $225,000 you now
immediately have the cash on

hand to not only satisfy that
one person that you saved, but

to satisfy 14 others. Now, many
listeners to this podcast right

now are leading sales
organizations that are less than

15 people total. Your total ARR
might be less than $3.5 million

this could revolutionize your
entire operation, and it's self

funding. How many business
solutions do we know that are

genuinely self funding? I'd

Mark Ackers: be sending this
clip of the podcast to some CFOs

please do if I was a sales
leader, because obviously

there's, as I said, I know that
comes from a place of research

and data as well, not just
personal opinion and really well

thought out argument. Go. I'm
gonna, I'm gonna make this the

last question, because I know we
could continue talking for

another couple of hours, no
doubt, but sales leaders today,

like everybody, really busy, but
let's imagine they're going to

read your book, but they they're
only going to implement one

thing. What do you think that
one thing should be? If you only

Phil Putnam: do one thing
differently, ask your people

what they want, not only will it
give you the opportunity to

potentially give them what they
want and reap the benefits as a

leader. But even if you can't
give them what you want or what

they want, asking them will
revolutionize your relationship

with them, because most people
have never genuinely been asked

what they want by any leader in
their entire career. That alone

is something that people find
motivating. And the

Mark Ackers: way in which you
broke that down with if someone

says, I want to get in the
property ladder, the way in

which you broke that down was
exceptional. And I think just, I

think people don't think to go
beyond that, like, it's so

funny. In sales, we talk about,
get beyond surface level pain,

get to the root cause. But I
think in those conversations

about motivation, we stick at
that surface level, okay, they

want more money, okay, they want
a house, okay, they want a job

title, but it's about getting
you. Deeper and look sales

leaders used to be good sales
professionals. They should be

able to run that discovery, but
I think we sort of accept that

surface level answer and don't
really get to the root cause. So

yeah,

Phil Putnam: and here's the
thing I want to close on. First

of all, there is nobody more
naturally equipped as a job

function to do what I'm talking
about than sellers and sales

leaders, because if we're good
at our job, we're great at

Discovery. And that's all this
is. It's discovery. This is the

big reveal at the end, right?
It's just solution selling.

You're just solution selling the
job experience to your employees

or your job candidate. You're
finding out what their needs

are, what are the problems
you're trying to solve in your

life. Great news. This job, this
solution, can solve those

problems for you, and I'm going
to enjoy the benefits as a

result. Sales leaders and
sellers, we're naturally

equipped to do this, and so it's
what makes it such an exciting

thing for me, because also being
a seller and a sales leader is

really, really hard. It's really
hard, and it's such worthy work.

It deserves so much respect for
so many different reasons, and

it's a fascinating job to be in.
If you're sitting there feeling

like I want to do this, but I
feel like I can't, I want to

tell you, actually, if you're a
seller or a sales leader, you're

probably more ready and more
naturally equipped to do this

than most other job functions
are. I

Mark Ackers: love that. What a
great way to end and the

podcast, Phil, you have been an
amazing guest, someone that is

clearly just so knowledgeable
about motivating employees

understand their motivation.
It's been amazing. And I think

when people get to listen to
this, they're going to take a

lot from it and know they're
going to want to buy your book.

Just remind everybody again,
what is the book called, and

where can they purchase it from?
It's called

Phil Putnam: desire based
leadership, and you can buy it

on Amazon, anywhere globally. If
you're in the US and you want an

autographed copy, you can buy it
from my website, which is Philip

putnam.com I only ship within
the US, and it's literally me

sitting on my couch behind me in
the screen, addressing envelopes

and autographing books, but
otherwise, globally, it's

available on Amazon. Well,

Mark Ackers: thank you. I've got
no doubt people listening to you

or will be absolutely convinced
you know exactly what you're

talking about, and we've just
covered slivers of what is in

the book, and I was really
grateful that you sent me a

digital copy. Phil, just want to
say again, thank you for coming

on. Thank you for sharing your
knowledge and insights. Has

taken you years to build up.
Lots of data has been researched

and read and put together, and
you've articulated so well.

Thank you for being a fabulous
guest, and I hope you had a

great time. I have thanks for
having me.