Soul Why? The Secrets Of The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint

127: 3 Things You're Doing That's Blocking Your Success

Entrepreneurs will say that their lack of success is due to external circumstances or bad luck.

But you know what, when it comes to roadblocks to success we are usually our own worst enemy.

Let’s talk about the things you are doing that are blocking your success.Don’t fret because if you seek success, you have the power and control to overcome the following obstacles. Stay tuned to learn more!

Free Resource: "Soul Why: Soul Rich Woman Blueprint" and "How to Delegate 80% of your to-do list" ---> https://be.soulrichwoman.com

Show Notes

127: 3 Things You're Doing That's Blocking Your Success

Entrepreneurs will say that their lack of success is due to external circumstances or bad luck.

But you know what, when it comes to roadblocks to the success we are usually our own worst enemy.

Let’s talk about the things you are doing that are blocking your success. Don’t fret because if you seek success, you have the power and control to overcome the following obstacles. Stay tuned to learn more!

You Believe The Stories You’ve Created About Yourself

02:39- 02:42 First: You Believe The Stories You’ve Created About Yourself. “I’m not creative.” “I’m a flake.” “I’m bad at marketing.” "I don't have anything to say." “I don’t like selling.”

02:53- 03:05 What are the stories you’ve been telling yourself for years and years? Did you know you don’t have to listen to those? In fact, you can prove them wrong whenever you feel like it.

03:08- 03:35 Make a list of all of these stories you have about yourself. Today is all about doing these exercises. Doesn’t matter if you think they’re true or not just put them down on paper. Look at them and address these right away by canceling out because by bringing them on paper and bring to your awareness and consciousness, you'll be able to work with them and work through them and acknowledge the remaining ones.

You Undervalue What You’re Great At

04:05- 04:08 Number two: You Undervalue What You’re Great At.

04:20- 04:25 Just because something comes easily to you, does not mean it isn’t valuable to everyone else.

04:26- 05:02 When you are doing the work that comes from your truest, most authentic self, it may seem effortless to you. It may seem like you can’t believe people will actually pay you to do something you love so much. It may seem like you should be working harder or sweating more like a cow. The reality is, you can provide tremendous value to other people and touch their lives with the knowledge you already have right now. And truth is that you can’t affect anyone positively if you keep waiting until you know everything before you even start.

05:20- 05:53 Imagine you were going to take a leave of absence from your business and someone was going to take over for you for a bit. I want you to start writing down everything you do and everything you know as if you were preparing someone else to take on your role. You’ll start to see very quickly that you know and do far more than you think you do. Seeing it all together may make you take notice of all of the brilliance inside of you that you take for granted every single day.

You Care Too Much About What Other People Think

06:01- 06:03 Number three: You Care Too Much About What Other People Think. 

06:36- 07:19 Frankly, life is too short to spend your precious time worrying if your job title is sexy enough, if your prices are too high, whether you have a lot of likes and a lot of shares on your social media posts and all the sake of pleasing everybody in the universe. And all of the pleasing and yes-woman or yes-man will throw roadblocks into your path to meaningful, on-your-own-terms success. So,  get clear on your mission. The action you need to take today is "what are you going to do?" Get clear on your mission, your big why. What amazing ways are you going to help people? Start making decisions from a place of service of that awesome mission.


Key Takeaways:
  1. You Believe The Stories You’ve Created About Yourself.
  2. You Undervalue What You’re Great At.
  3. You Care Too Much About What Other People Think.
  4. Focusing On Negatives.
  5. Beating Yourself Up.

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With a challenge to women everywhere to stop TALKING themselves out of their dreams, Soul Why? Secrets of The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint identifies the excuses to let go of, the behaviours to adopt, and the skills to acquire on the path to growth, confidence, and believing in yourself to be recognised as a leader online. Get clients online and to have more impact on the world!

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Genecia Alluora: Hi, I'm Genecia Alluora, founder of the number one leading female entrepreneur network in Southeast Asia, supporting 1 million women to own and love the F word. Being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and family. With a challenge to women everywhere to stop talking themselves out of their dreams. Soul why - Secrets of the Soul Rich Women's blueprint identifies the excuses to let go of the behaviors to adopt and the skills acquire on the path to growth, confidence and believing in yourself to be recognized as a leader online, with clients online, and to have more impact on the world. Stop believing the lies about who you.

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Genecia Alluora: So you can become who you are meant to be. You are just an F word away from the life you want. The marriage you want, the family that you want is going to be fueled by the business and life you build. Join me. Be a soul rich woman. Alone, we are strong. Together we are unstoppable. Welcome to the show.

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Genecia Alluora: Hello, gorgeous and welcome to today's episode. My name is Genecia Alluora and on this episode I want to share with you the things that you are doing to block your own success. Now, why do I say this? Having worked with women around the world, international clients, local clients, in the last many years of my career. I've seen beyond just the money blocks or things that happen in our life too. There's so many things that is holding us back from our own F word, even though we are just one F word away to being fabulous, freedom, financial independence, and happy family. But there are these blocks that I get very frustrated with. And that's why I'm here to share with you the three common blocks that block your success. Remember, you are stuck because you stuck yourself. So I'm helping you to unstuck, okay?

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Genecia Alluora: To get from stuck to unstoppable. Are you ready? Okay. First you believe the stories you've created about yourself. I'm not creative, I'm fake, I'm bad at marketing, I don't have anything to say, I don't like selling. What are the stories that you have been telling yourself for years and years? Did you know that you don't have to listen to all those? In fact, you can prove them wrong whether you feel whenever you feel like it. So I just want to say make a list of all these stories you have about yourself. Today is all about doing these exercises. Doesn't matter if you think that they are true or not. Just put them down on paper and really look at them and address these right away by canceling out, because by bringing them on the paper and bring to your awareness and consciousness, you'll be able to work with them and work through them and acknowledge the remaining ones. Right. And notice every time you are removing them, you will be able to move forward much faster. And of course, forgive yourself.

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Genecia Alluora: You will say this, right? I love myself and I set myself free. This is my time, and I'm ready for the next step. Repeat, I love myself and I set myself free. This is my time. I'm ready for the next step. All right, number two, you undervalue what you're great at. Now, it happens more often than I thought that it would ever happen, right? Because I've seen so many people. Now I just want to say something for you, because just because something comes easily to you does not mean it isn't valuable to everyone else. When you are doing the work that comes from your truest, most authentic self, it may seem effortless to you. It may seem like you can't believe that people will actually pay you to do something you love so much. It may seem like you should be working harder or sweating more like a cow. The reality is you can provide tremendous value to other people and touch their lives with the knowledge you already have right now. And the truth is that you can't affect anyone positively if you keep waiting until you know everything, even before you start.

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Genecia Alluora: The big piece here is that I've seen really so many people doing that injustice to themselves, they think they're always going to be an expert before they could do something else. So I just want to say that imagine that you were going to take a leaf of absence OCULA MC or Sobhana leaf from your business, and someone was going to take over for you for a bit. Now, I want you to start writing down everything you do and everything you know, as if you're preparing someone to take over your role. Now, you'll start to see very quickly that you know and do know much more than you, everything you do. So seeing it all together may help you to take notice of all the brilliance that is inside you that you take for granted every single day.

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Genecia Alluora: Because, like I said, you have the diamond that is within you and you deserve to shine. Number three, you care too much about what other people think. Remember I talked about the episode on criticisms? Well, yeah. You are a people pleaser. You like to say yes. You don't want to say no to people. You do a lot of butter trading, but you are missing out on the F word. Fabulous freedom, financial independence, and happy family. I mean, well, you don't want anyone to be mad at you or speak badly of you because you reject them. But empathy is a fantastic quality, and if you don't set those boundaries, you will really not be able to live the life that you want. And frankly, life is too short to spend your precious time worrying if your job title is sexy enough, your prices are too high, whether you have a lot of likes and a lot of shares on your social media post and all the sick of pleasing everybody in the universe.

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Genecia Alluora: And all the pleasing and yes and being a yes woman or yes man will throw roadblocks onto your path to a meaningful on your term success. So get clear on your mission. So the action you need to take today is what are you going to do? Get clear on your mission. Your big why. What are the amazing ways that you are going to help people start making the decisions from a place of service of the awesome mission when you are answering to a bigger purpose? Their voices don't matter anymore. Those voices of the naysayers'and, the dream slayers don't matter anymore. So I just want to say take action. All right, today we really all have a part to play in this. So please share this episode with a friend.

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Genecia Alluora: Share with your entrepreneurial groups because money, blocks and the stories we tell each other that's holding us back in the soul. German blueprint are just as important a topic for female entrepreneurs and we all have a responsibility to clear them, not just for ourselves, but the rest of our communities as well. And I believe this is your time and you are ready for the next step. The more you take action in a consistent way, the faster you build momentum and grow your business. If you love today's episode, please rate review and subscribe to our podcast on itunes and Spotify or any of the apps that you are listening in right now because it helps us to get found. Someone might just need to hear this episode today. As always, I love you and I appreciate you and I thank you for being here. You are the reason why I show up every day to walk with you and not in front of you. Thank you and I see you in the next episode. Bye for now.

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Genecia Alluora: The key to unlock consistent success. The key to unlock that diamond within you. No other things involved. This is what you need to do and must do tonight. You can do it because I've done it. As long as you have a mentor who can take you from where you are now to where you want to be, you can shortcut your success. You can be different in order to make a difference. Turn your talent into your business. Turn your passion into a paycheck by being you, by being you and owning you. Give yourself a second chance. Never say no to your failures. As a woman, we have the power in our hands. Never let your fears hold you back. Quit thinking and start doing. Life is really short and keep pursuing what you truly ever wanted to achieve. Women come together. Alone, we are strong. Together, we are unstoppable. The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint is going to be transforming your life today, yesterday, last year. Because you took action today, I'm going to say more power to you.