Her Health Code

Shopping for healthy foods in midlife can feel overwhelming — labels, marketing, and endless options make it hard to know what’s actually good for you. In this episode of Her Health Code, we guide women over 40 on how to make simple, realistic, and hormone-friendly choices at the grocery store without stress or confusion.
Whether you’re navigating perimenopause, menopause, weight changes, or just want to feel better and more energized, the foods you choose every week can make a big difference. We break down what to look for, what to avoid, and how to shop smarter so healthy eating becomes effortless.

✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:
 ✔️ How to navigate the grocery store with confidence
 ✔️ The key foods that support hormones, metabolism, and energy
 ✔️ Simple strategies to avoid overwhelm and make healthy choices
 ✔️ Tips for grocery shopping for yourself and your family
 ✔️ Easy swaps and habits that make healthy eating sustainable

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What is Her Health Code?

Welcome to Her Health Code, the podcast that helps women in midlife feel better in their bodies without the confusion or overwhelm. We’re two health coaches sharing real talk, personal stories, and our best coaching tips that help you reconnect with your body’s wisdom. Think of us as your health-savvy girlfriends, here to help you crack the code to feeling vibrant and strong again.

Jess & Michele (00:00)
Welcome to Her Health Code, I'm Jess. And I'm Michelle. And today we are going to talk more about food and how to get some healthy food on your kitchen table for your family and how to do it to save money and how to do it without overwhelming yourself in the grocery store. So Jess, you were telling me earlier about your bread dilemma. You were in the grocery store and you're like, why are there so many choices of bread?

Like everybody likes a sandwich, right? Everybody. Every now and then, right? And it is a good lunch to send with your kid every now and then. yeah, and if you're at a grocery store that has a thousand options, how do you choose? How do you narrow down the window? And I just think it's important to have many different options, like different levels of options, Like A, can we make our own sourdough at home? Of course we could.

Mm-hmm, I do love sourdough. do too and it's so good for your gut and it breaks down a lot of the gluten so even people with gluten intolerances can generally have a sourdough and not be bothered by it. But that's not always an option right? To make our own and to nurse the sourdough self, the mother, the starter. Yes, that is it is hard and it is time consuming.

But it is definitely worth it if you have the time and if you want to put it toward, you know, making your own bread. You just do need to be a little careful in the grocery store because the sourdough a lot of times in the grocery store isn't real sourdough. They're using yeast and they're using a lot of other ingredients. So my favorite place to get sourdough, of course, is like a bakery or an online bakery. ⁓ Those are my two favorite places to get it.

Yeah, if you don't have a go-to neighborhood bakery or someone in your neighborhood, you might even want to just get curious and find out is there someone in my neighborhood who bakes bread and has it available once a week. Yeah, that would be amazing. If those are not available, if none of that is accessible and you still want to be able to eat a high quality bread, I like to just look at ingredients that are from the earth, right? It grew on the earth. There's nothing foreign.

on the label. If I don't know what that word is, it is not a word. It's probably food. I think that's a great way to look at it. If you don't understand what the word is, your belly's not going to understand how to digest it. Your stomach also doesn't know that language. Exactly. The chemical language. Exactly. synthetic chemical.

All these synthetic chemicals, there's so many of them and we were talking about on episode one how overwhelming it is to have to remember all of them by name. Yes. So that you can be a detective every time you go to the grocery store and spend two hours reading labels. It's too much. Yeah, so if you pick up a thing and there's tons of ingredients, I just put that down. Yeah. Like that is too many ingredients and there's something not good in there.

And then you kind of maybe start getting to the point where you're like, okay, here's bread that looks a little bit more homemade, a little bit more wholesome and healthy. And you are looking at it going, okay, that's not an overwhelming number of ingredients. Hopefully less than 10. That's kind of my rule of thumb. Like as little as possible, but you know, 10 is kind of my cutoff. And can I read everything? Do I know what it is? And also like just a caveat, like I buy Dave's bread.

Okay, so you I was just gonna ask you like Dave's bread. Okay, that is your choice. is organic. Okay, all the grains and seeds that are in it I like and it obviously it has 21 seeds and it's whole grain and it has so it has more than 10 ingredients, but they're all like seeds and okay, things like that. So I do that and Ezekiel. It just kind of depends on what I'm using it for

So I do like Ezekiel. I like Ezekiel products in general. Like they have tortillas and they have bread and they're made ⁓ with no flour, which is what I like too. And so I like Ezekiel because it doesn't give me that bloated feeling that bread can typically make you feel like, I just ate so much.

And so I like Ezekiel for that reason. I use it for all kinds of things and I keep it in the freezer because I don't eat bread very often. And then, yeah, and then you always have it available and you don't let it go bad sitting on your counter. Right, because these breads are not going to have all of the...

different things in them to make them last on the shelf for 10 years. All the chemicals that are going to extend the shelf life for way beyond when it should actually be living without mold. ⁓ So that's an example of one of the things that you'll find in those funny names is the preservatives, the things that make it like maybe bouncy and spongy, right? The mouth feel, the perfect texture, the perfect look. I'm sorry, that is just not...

normal. I do think there has been a lot of companies in the past, think using that ingredient that creates the sponginess and a yoga mat in breads to that same kind of boing and that is absolutely disgusting. No thanks. Your gut does not want to be eating a yoga mat. Yeah, no thank you. So what are some other products that we can help people with that maybe, you know, they don't have time to make at home?

I think you know anything that you need to just have quick on hand like a pasta, right? Mm-hmm. I have a pasta maker How many times do you use that pasta maker used it during COVID it was fun? what's the fun project? haven't used it since to be honest And I think yeah every now and then it would be fun to pull it out and make it a project ⁓ But I'm not gonna do that on a normal

We know like day night. We're going to have a little spaghetti or something of that nature. And I'm Italian, so I do have a pasta dish a couple times a month. I just want to make sure that it's you can look on a box of pasta and you're probably not going to see a ton of things on it that you don't know what it is. However, I always do like to go for organic when it comes to anything that is wheat or a whole grain

You don't want it to have been sprayed while it was growing and they also spray it when it's harvested to dry it out. Did you know that? Well, I know that the wheat that they've made in the last 20 years, shouldn't say produced, is not the same quality wheat that was, back 20, 30 years ago. Yeah, it is not the original.

Yeah, I really do think it's it's almost like you have to be a food detective today like in today's grocery store You have to really pay attention to what is going in your body and your family's body And so we try to give you tips and tricks to try to make it a little easier to make meal time and Snack time a little easier for you for you ladies at home. is there anything else that you would say you? definitely always

to make sure if you're going to buy this item What else do you look for? Well I do have a sweet tooth as we've talked about before and so I really love like the creamy sweet texture of like ice cream but most ice creams are not quality ice creams and so that is something that I kind of

make in my blender. And you can make that with a variety of different ingredients with like coconut milk or heavy cream or and fruit and fruit and you can make the most delicious sweet dessert that tastes and looks like ice cream and make it in your blender. Yeah, you can definitely do little

easy simple hacks like that. You don't have to get out your ice cream churner. Exactly. Now again, a fun project especially with the kids. But not going to do it every time you have that. it's too much. It's just too overwhelming. It's way too overwhelming. But on the on the regular, though, I probably do that at least two or three times a week with like, like a smoothie version type ice cream, I would say. bananas as a base for that creamy kind of frozen structure.

Yes, and bananas even on their own are very delicious when they're frozen like it is very good Yes, if you're in a hurry just a frozen banana, right? you can even use it with yogurt I like to do the blueberries with yogurt and then you can just blend that up and it's like a blueberry. Yeah, it's so delicious It is but I do the full fat, know, yes Greek yogurt if possible or just regular yogurt, but always full

because you know, our brains like that. ⁓ our brains love extra fat, like good healthy fats. So good for us. That's another thing I was just thinking about when I said that just kind of popped into my mind is ⁓ that would be one thing to look for on a label is that it's not low fat or fat free. Yes, it was a big trend. I feel like they really get you with that whole like low fat. And I think they get it in your brain like, if I eat low fat, then maybe I'll lose fat. And that's actually

Completely wrong. You should always be going for a more whole fat version because that means it's less processed because when they take out the fat they actually have to add stuff in there like sugar and preservatives and some other fillers to make it taste good to have a good that good mouth feel right the good texture Yeah, that's definitely things that you'll find in Foods that are non fat ⁓ or low fat even are those added?

things that are just not something that our bodies really want nor need nor recognize. So and when we're narrowing things down, I think that you know, you're kind of just looking for those basics, right? Like I'm not going to make my own pasta, not going to always make my own ice cream, not going to bake my own bread, don't have a bakery that I can go to, you know, maybe often enough. So these are the things that you're going to be pulling off the shelf and you just want to make sure

that the ingredients are good and that you know I would always advise too like ⁓ to look at organic and non-gmo as often as possible because of the glyphosate and also just hybridize things like you're talking about like wheat has been hybridized throughout the but kind of in the natural way right like they've ⁓ grafted it with something else to make it more durable for weather

And so that's okay. Like whole wheat, yes, it is not the original, but it's still better than, right? It's still like better than the alternative, which is a genetically modified. Absolutely. Right? So GMO is a good thing to look for on the label if you can't get organic. So GMO is what we don't want. So that hasn't been tampered with by...

a chemist so that it can withstand being sprayed with chemicals. Yes, exactly. So we want to avoid that. So those are some great practical useful tips on just getting a couple of your staples where you know, they can be a quick staples. And that way you can integrate that with all your whole foods that you're cooking and serving to your family, your fruits, your vegetables, your, your meats, your whole grains and

make it accessible. Make it accessible. Exactly. And also, ⁓ when you're saying that, I know a lot of people are probably thinking now like, okay, non-GMO, organic, whole foods, all these things are kind of pricey, right? I know we were talking a little bit earlier about how to balance that out. And how do you balance that out in your budget?

one example that comes to mind first is frozen fruit, or mean fruit in general. So I love berries and berries I think are so so good for us are full of antioxidants are great for your skin. And I love them. in the wintertime, they're so expensive, and they're out of season. And so in the wintertime, all through winter, probably November all the way through like March, I buy frozen organic mixed berries and keep them in the freezer.

That way they don't go bad and you're always getting fruit at a reasonable price. I agree. That's a great tip because then you're getting organic and you're saving money and you're still getting the fruit. you might have to make it into a smoothie more often or smoothie bowl. I really like to do the bowls because my son doesn't always want to drink his fruit. And so either making it into something with a little bit more liquid.

adding a kefir to it. And then that way it's kind of like a ⁓ more like, it's almost like a protein shake, but ⁓ you still get the fruit, right? So you could do that. You can make it into a bowl and then eat it. Or you could just let them thaw out in a bowl. Like, and that's a lot of times what I do is I stick them in a bowl. I go have my shower and they're defrosted and delicious to eat them by the time I get down there.

Frozen mangoes are amazing. ⁓ that is a great night treat. So yes, I do love my frozen mangoes. So that's one of the things that I find that I can save money on because again fruit in the wintertime is very very expensive. So other than my frozen berries in the winter, I'm only really buying apples and oranges and bananas. And that's pretty much about it. Yeah, that's all that we really have.

Yeah, that's definitely a great tip. Also for vegetables because sometimes, you know, it's just quicker to not have to wash the vegetable and do all the things. It's quicker to just like put it in your steamer and steam it really quick, right? Yes, absolutely. Yeah, not have to chop and wash and do all the prep work. Yes, well I do have one more tip, Jess. Okay. And this is my tip about

herbs. So for the longest time, I was not buying herbs on a regular basis because I was just like, they're so expensive and I use it one time and then the rest goes to waste because it I don't cook with the same herbs every single day. And so now my money saving tip today is you can buy as many herbs as you want, clean them, wash them, and then put them in freezer containers, keep them in your freezer with a label and you can pull those out anytime you want them.

It's true. thyme, fresh dill, fresh sage, fresh you know parsley, anytime I want because I can just yank it from my freezer bag and put it in a dish. Yes, I agree with that because it is so frustrating when you go in and they're like all slimy and Yes and you're like I just only use this once and it's so frustrating. So just make sure that they're super dry. Yes. Because you don't want the water to freeze on them. Exactly. they're super dry, it's yeah.

in the freezer. I do that with ginger too for juices and smoothies. I like to just keep my ginger after I've washed it and you don't even need to peel it really. Yeah. But you could. You can peel it off the frozen ginger is actually quicker with a spoon. It really is. Yeah and I just I like to keep my ginger and turmeric in the freezer as well. and I don't know I guess that's kind of a it's not an herb it's a spice. Yeah.

It's kind of along those same lines. That's a good tip. Also, let's talk a little bit about seed oils because you might look at a label and say, okay, it's an organic product. know everything that's in here. I know what all these things are. And it's kind of deceiving because like sunflower oil, canola oil, those type of things, palm oil, right?

They are sneaky. I call them the sneaky. Very sneaky. And the reason why is you could look at, say, for instance, an organic hummus. Now this one gets me, this one gets me because I love hummus. But there are so many brands of hummus that are using canola oil or hydrogenated oil, which are completely unnecessary. Hummus is made with extra virgin olive oil. Like that is how it's made.

There shouldn't be any other oils in your hummus. And if you're having hummus with all these other oils, you're missing out on all the amazing health benefits of hummus. It is true. So that's a sneaky one. That is a sneaky one. And it's in your peanut butter too.

Some peanut butters. Some peanut butters, not all of them. It is in the no stir peanut butters palm oil to keep it from separating and even in your organic peanut butter. So here you are thinking, okay, it's organic, it's, in glass, all the things and then, you know, oh, no stir. That's good because if my kid opens it and they stir it up, it's going to be all over the counter, right? Yes. Well, not so much because the palm oil is added to it to make it not.

Yeah, separate again another sneaky thing. They're just trying to get your mind at like it's gonna be easier for you But in the end run, it's not good for you these little shortcuts because I mean you want to look for a peanut butter that just is peanuts and salt That's it. That's it Doesn't need to have anything other than peanuts salt And then it's good for you. Yes, just keep it simple and also I like to when we maybe talk a little bit about sugar

Being added to things another sneaky ingredient doesn't need to be added to peanut butter, but it can be right It is sneaky and my rule of thumb is like 10 grams or less. How about you? I try to keep it very low as well but if it has sugar which the ketchup that I get from Trader Joe's has cane sugar in it. So I definitely think the type of sugar

is important too. cane sugar, just feel like it's actually just what it is. It's not trying to deceive you with some weird sugar name. process, overly processed. So I am fine with a little bit of sugar as long as it's real sugar in my ketchup. But there's a lot of fake sugars out there. Like corn syrup is like one of the worst that drives me nuts. You go to a restaurant, they're always serving you Heinz and Heinz is loaded with corn syrup.

So bad. Another sneaky ingredient, right? sneaky ingredient. Yeah, because you expect it to be in cereals and things of that nature. candy. Yeah. If you're not buying, right, the ones that use cane sugar, but you're not expecting it to be in your ketchup. No. So definitely look at your ketchup as well. And your peanut butter. All the things that you're thinking, this should be fine. Yeah, exactly. Right? And yes, it is a little bit

on the budget to be buying these more high quality, less chemicals, organic, but the thing that I have kind of come to a realization over the years, because I struggled with it and I grappled with it at first too, and I was like half and half, and then I was like talking myself into, ⁓ but you know, it's okay to do this and it's not organic.

Here's the thing, like if you were actually eating more real whole food and fruit and vegetables, the need for other food, like, which is generally always going to be kind of more of a processed food in a box or something, becomes less because your body is full and it's happy because it got the nutrients that it needs from the whole food. So as much as possible, just kind of get those whole foods into your cart first and then

and then add in whatever it is that you, can't make yourself and then ask yourself after that, right? Like, what was the thing we were talking about, which is your new rule of thumb that you were saying, a mindset that you've recently really adopted. ⁓ well, I think, I think that's helpful, right? Yeah. Like at this point, I do. We have like the whole foods and we have our organic ingredients and we have

you know, the minimal, the bread and the pasta then what? Well, I think it comes down to your mindset. Like how, what is your mindset when it comes to how you want to prepare food or how you want to shop for food? because, ideally, it's the woman typically that is buying and cooking the food. And so it really comes down to asking yourself that question, is my ultimate priority, health and wellness and to make my family and myself thrive?

Or is it just to get it on the table as quick as possible, get it in their mouth because I don't want to think about it. Or if you're somewhere in the middle, and that's okay too. But I think just sitting down with yourself and asking yourself that question of like, what is my priority being the food provider of this family? And it really does help navigate through all these little things with types of bread and...

What are we gonna have for a treat or a snack or, you know? The temptations. The temptations. And I think having that certain mindset does, it sets the tone for you, grocery shopping and cooking and, you know, really offering ⁓ certain foods to your family. Yeah, I think that mindset is an important factor because if you have the mindset for health and eating for health and nutrition, I think it makes it all easier. I do too. Yeah.

I do too. When you're not just putting something in your mouth because you're emotional or you're upset, you're hungry, you're actually being mindful of it. Like, well, I haven't had any vegetables today. I think I need to add this. And then you're being curious about what you have in your fridge. And that's where the creative part comes in, right? Then you're like, I can mix this and mix this and mix this and do which my favorite thing is to just cook without a recipe. Right. Exactly.

Mindset is definitely always key factor whenever you're wanting to make changes in any behavior I think. Absolutely. Kind of checking in. Where is your mindset? And it's okay if it's not like a hundred percent, but just knowing where you're at and then honoring that and having grace for yourself and just being in a place of acceptance of where you're at and not putting pressure on yourself, but just having that awareness.

And then maybe, you know, eventually it's like, okay, now I can shift a little bit more into a different place creating more meals on my own and less boxed food and less processed food. And it's just a journey. And you kind of need to keep checking in with yourself all the time. I find myself at times being like so burned out and so overwhelmed that I'm like, okay.

prepared foods at Jimbo's. Where do I find that aisle? Right? Or I also think you need to have like one place where you feel like a takeout place is super healthy. So if you're in that mode of like, I don't have time to cook dinner, I need something healthy on the table, like you have to have your go-tos, right? That you're like, okay, I can go spend $30 and I can get a healthy meal on the table that everybody likes.

done. Yes, you have to have that place where you have permission. This is my go-to permission place where I just can't. I just can't deal. I just can't deal with what's on the table tonight. That's also a good tip. Yes, because we have to have all these tools in our basket. have to have the tools to give ourselves those, know, grace in those moments where we're just like, can't. Yeah. I also love pantry meals where

you go into your pantry and you figure out like, okay, I have some canned beans, I have some canned tuna, or I have some canned, A box of pasta. Yeah, a box of pasta. frozen Yeah, and some frozen peas. And you're like, okay, I'm gonna throw a meal together, here I go. And you just put, you know, if it has some veggies and it has a protein and it has a starch, and you kind of use some creativity and a few salt and pepper, spices, and. And then my go-to is like.

And then a sliced apple. A sliced apple on the side. Put some apples on the table and then we're good. Yes, exactly. So yeah, those are the nights where it's just like, I'm mailing it in. but but doing it in the best way possible. Right? Yeah, I agree. I agree. Well, hopefully some of these tips have helped somebody out there. we just can't wait to chat with you again about many other topics that are coming your way. So until next time, thank you so much for listening. Thank you.