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An episode drawing lessons from Huckleberry Finn. Freedom is the ability to make choices. Are you someone who struggles to make decisive choices or do you "hum and ha". As leaders of students, the ability to make choices is important for educators.
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What we are talking about today is an essential element of freedom – which is the ability to make choices. Unfortunately many of us self-inhibit and wrap ourselves up in chains by not using that ability well. So what I’ve got today is 6 tips to help you, and myself for that matter, get stronger at making choices.
I was cleaning up and culling my dusty collection of books this week and I came across an old favourite that sparked some thoughts that I thought I’d share. In relation to teaching and learning – I started thinking about how much I’ve changed over the years as a Trainer and Assessor and how new information would only lead to knowledge improvement if I responded in the right way. And then that new knowledge, which is a stimulus itself, has to be responded to in order for it to truly take effect and improve my life, and the life of my students.
In other words, I could only grow as a Trainer, and consequently help my students to learn and grow, if I developed abilities to respond well to such things as new information, systemic changes, personnel changes and more journey disruptions.
There’s a famous quote that kind of hard to confidently assign to someone but by some records it was Steven Covey and by others Viktor Frankl but no matter who said it it’s a really sharp slice of wisdom.
Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom. — Viktor E. Frankl/Covey
The book that I’m talking about rediscovering is Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain. This book is Twain’s magnum opus. Most of us know the gist. It is his story of a runaway boy (Huckleberry) and an escaped slave’s (Jim) travels on the Mississippi. The book plumbs the depths searching for the essential meaning of freedom. The book has caused controversy and conflict in libraries and schools across the US.
Author Jay Squires said “The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn” is a dangerous book. As all life manuals are.
Celebrated writer Toni Morrison (may she rest in peace,) described and even celebrated the book by saying “The hell it puts the reader through” as being exactly the point of it.
Ernest Hemingway went so far as to praise Huckleberry by writing that “All modern American literature comes from one book by Mark Twain called Huckleberry Finn.”
What both Huck and Jim seek is freedom, but they have different ideas about what that freedom looks like.
Jim wants freedom from literal slavery and to an existence that will allow him to be with his wife and children.
Huck wanted freedom from his father’s violent abuse as well as the societal collar that he felt people were placing on him.
On the journey to freedom Huck and Jim were faced with choices. Choice is an indispensable element of freedom and is the crux of this blog entry.
The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. The fears are paper tigers. – Amelia Earheart
In the book Huck muses on this question and is faced with an opportunity to answer it as he struggles with a dilemma that would see him doing the strictly speaking honest thing or lying to authorities. In a moment where Huck is queried about his raft, where Jim is hiding, and asked by slave hunters whether there is anybody else on board under the raft’s shelter, he is thrown into a whirlwind of conflict.
Spoiler alert: He chooses to lie and say that it is his sick and highly contagious father, mum and sister. That false info was enough to keep the slave hunters at bay.
In the theories of psychology there is agreement that the opportunity to choose is a valued good. A valued good being something which has a high quality, quantity, or worth but is offered at a low or bargain price.
But how do we make the RIGHT CHOICES?
We can’t always make the right choices. But we can get better at actually making choices without drawing out the process to the point of debilitation.
Here are 3 tips to help improve your ability to make choices.
I’ll follow up my next blog post with 3 more tips.
1. FEAR NOT THE WRONG CHOICE
Often what was the right or wrong choice ends up being arguable anyway. As humans we are not great at forecasting results. There are too many variables. So we can’t be afraid of making the wrong choices. Studies have shown that choices we make based on what we expect to be more pleasurable often come with consequences that are less grand than we had imagined. psychologist Daniel Gilbert from Harvard University said, “The hedonic consequences of most events are less intense and briefer than most people imagine.”
Wrong decisions – events that might cause pain are usually less intense than initially imagined as well. As humans we are built to be resilient. If we are sharp to it and willing to learn, the “wrong choices” can often help us to become better people.
2. CONSIDER HOW YOU ARE FEELING
AND – what might be affecting or causing those feelings and emotions, that are not necessarily caused by the faced decision. For example – are you irritable because you slept badly? Are you hangry? Did you just receive some sour news? Did you just receive some wonderful news? Our can emotions affect our ability to make logical decisions. A study by the University of California, showed that men are more likely to gamble when they are angry. With that said, emotions can also help us to make good decisions but considering their role in the decision-making process is a step that leads to the 3rd tip –
3. USE GUT INSTINCTS
Going with your gut – often referred to as the second brain – can be a powerful way to make decisions quickly. Our appraisal of a situation is automatic and can trigger an emotional response. This can protect us from making the same mistake repeatedly. Often when people continue to make the same mistake over and over again it is against what their gut is saying.
4. AVOID SUNK COST FALLACY
Sunk C F is when we show "a greater tendency to continue an endeavor once an investment in money, effort, or time has been made." This is why you can’t decide to sell or give away that item of clothing that you bought for a gazillion bucks even though you never wear it. There are of course less trivial decisions that this fallacy can absolutely play into and buying into it can lead to absolute stupidity in our choice making.
5. SHUN AUTHORITY, SOCIAL & PEER PRESSURE
I’m not talking about shunning sensible advice, direction, requests etc. but there have been plenty of studies that show how badly humans can behave and how atrocious we can act towards others when authority, social and peer pressure come into play. You may have heard of the Milgram experiment where Yale Uni psychologist Stanley Milgram was trying to figure out the psychology of genocide, shortly after the atrocities of Nazi Germany. Why had so many good people followed order that would see them brutally eliminating fellow human beings? Reading directly from the Wikipedia page on the experiment.
The Milgram experiment(s) on obedience to authority figures was a series of social psychology experiments conducted by Yale University psychologist Stanley Milgram. They measured the willingness of study participants, men 20-50 years old from a diverse range of occupations with varying levels of education, to obey an authority figure who instructed them to perform acts conflicting with their personal conscience. Participants were led to believe that they were assisting an unrelated experiment, in which they had to administer electric shocks to a "learner". These fake electric shocks gradually increased to levels that would have been fatal had they been real.[2]
Huck was a young boy, faced with questioning by adult authority figures. He was also in a space where he was upset at Jim because Jim had been talking about stealing his family from the plantation where they were being held. This upset Huck because according to everything that he had been taught, slavery was okay and Jim’s enslaved family were actually the rightfully owned property of some people who he considered to be good an decent people.
He was being mentally beat up by cognitive dissonance. We all face cognitive dissonance where we find ourselves holding on to 2 conflicting beliefs, values or attitudes. Often what we tend to do as humans wanting to avoid or escape this conflict, is look for the easiest out. That can mean turning off the argument and leaning into what we’ve always believed by rejecting or explaining away new information. We’ll treat it like it’s dangerous.
Well, it’s the dangerous thoughts that can often lead to escape from limiting beliefs.
Huck was faced with an “in the moment decision” plagued by so many decision making factors. The cognitive dissonance would have been super heavy.
How can we deal with these moments aside from running away from what is uncomfortable?
One answer is also my final tip:
6. KNOW YOURSELF
Know yourself and prepare to be faced with any and every decision. Don’t wait to be in a personally unprecedented moment. Getting to know yourself can help you to realise your prejudices. It can help you to know your strengths and weaknesses.
Self-knowledge can help you to base your decisions on facts and on wisdom and on human values rather than the opinions of others. Social theorist Thomas Sowell said,
“It is hard to imagine a more stupid or more dangerous way of making decisions than by putting those decisions in the hands of people who pay no price for being wrong.”
As we truly get to know ourselves, we gain confidence in ourselves and in our ability to make decisions that affect us. There is a lot of room for self-doubt when you don’t know yourself.
The book is all about Huck getting to know himself. He had to face some hard truths through his interaction with the escaped slave Jim. I think that it was this knowledge of self that was enough to help Huck make what most sensible and life-valuing people would say was the right one even if it was strictly speaking “dishonest”.
I’ll finish with a quote by the great wizard Dumbledore from Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets.
“It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.”
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