Finding Your Joy Spot

What if joy isn’t something you chase—but something you experience when you Just Own You?

In this episode, I share the story behind my why and how a quiet moment during a hellish season of life revealed my deeper purpose: to spread joy. 

Not performative happiness. But the kind of joy that lives deep in your bones—the kind that emerges when you Just Own You.

I’ll walk you through how I discovered the acronym JOY = Just Own You, and how this powerful truth connects us to the foundations of living an unapologetic, purpose-aligned life.

✨ Ready to find your own joy spot? This is where we begin.

From the podcast-the song I suggested listening to and then journaling through the prompts.

If you want to give it a try, you can sit and listen to this song and see what comes up. Listen to it once a day and see what shows up each day. It's not your standard meditation music as this sweet number is by my favourite band Earth, Wind and Fire :). Maybe it's even the music itself that feels good or it invites you to move- Just Own You and your experience with it.

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=X6KUwob9hSM&si=Mnj9ci8cMtuvoHqc
If you want to take this contemplation a step further

Journal with these prompts-just write the answers that come up for you, try not to pause-write for one minute atleaset when you answer the questions. You could take one a day for the next week.

What would it mean for you to wake up?

What does it mean for you to walk in the light?

What would it mean to bring more substance to your life?

What part of you has been pushed aside?

What are you worthy of that you have been setting aside?

What is your heart holding that you need?

What break or change are you longing for?

What did you learn about yourself from working through these prompts? What will you do as a result?

Even a minor change could move you closer to the joy you deserve-reach out if I you could use some support.

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What is Finding Your Joy Spot?

Finding Your Joy Spot is your wee spot of weekly joy—part reflection, part reminder—to come home to yourself.

Hosted by Leona deVinne, leadership coach and guide for wholehearted living, each episode blends soulful storytelling with research-backed tools to help you live a life rooted in real, lasting joy.

This podcast is for anyone ready to embrace who they are wholeheartedly and show up—bravely and unapologetically. Because real joy isn’t something we chase—it’s something we cultivate when we live our lives on purpose.

These short episodes are an invitation to pause, reflect, and reconnect with what lights you up.

Whether you're on a walk, making your morning coffee, or stealing a few quiet minutes for yourself—tune in and find your joy spot.

Hi, I’m Leona deVinne—and welcome to *Finding Your Joy Spot*.
This is your wee spot of weekly joy—where we pause, breathe, and reconnect with what really matters.

Each week, I’ll share a short reflection to help you embrace who you are wholeheartedly, show up unapologetically, and live your life on purpose.
No pressure. No pretending. Just real talk, grounded wisdom, and a little grace along the way.

Let’s find your joy spot—together. Want more Joy? Just Own You

Fifteen years ago, I became a coach because after studying psychology for a while, it seemed to focus on what was wrong with people and coaching was born out of positive psychology-essentially what was 'right' with people.

It focused on their values, their strengths, what they loved and what lit them up. I loved that idea-that felt more like 'me.'

As I've coached over the years, I've witnessed the power of people coming home to themselves and living and leading their lives from that space, which is my absolute Joy Spot. It's not always easy work for them or for me, as I live more in alignment with myself. There is always joy there when we do it.
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I was sitting in a session with my own coach when she invited me to participate in a quiet visualization.

At the time, I was going through a hellish divorce.
I wasn't feeling joyful at all—I was struggling.
But as I dropped into the silence, something unexpected happened.
It became very clear:
I was here to spread joy.
It shocked me.
Joy felt so far from where I was.
But the more I explored it, the more I realized joy wasn't something I had really understood. I thought it was about happiness, and I came to realize that the kind of joy I connect with is the joy that is deeply rooted in our truth.

In one of our last conversations I had with my coach before she passed away, she said not just the word 'joy'-Joy is an acronym for something really important for you and your work. The essence lies in that acronym, which I recently discovered.

As seems to be the case, at least lately, it came up in my meditation. I heard, 'Just own you. That's the essence of Joy.'

It hit, but when I started writing after my meditation, I put together the acronym I had been waiting for: J.O.Y.

Just Own You.

AHHHHHHH!! I could hear the angels sing (well, not really, but sort of)

This is my life's work. Own who I am and bring that to the world unapologetically.

And that's the magic that comes out in my most meaningful coaching conversations and work—helping people wholeheartedly embrace who they are and shine their light unapologetically in the world.

JOY = Just Own You

That's the joy I am here to help people uncover.
Just Own You.
Not the version shaped to meet expectations.
Not the one that shrinks to keep the peace.
Not the one who performs.
The real you.
The whole, deeply human you.

This is my 'why.'

To help people reclaim their truth, their voice, their light.
To live in alignment with their deeper why—
what my current coach calls "sacred why" that fuels everything for me.

Because without knowing our why, it's easy to drift and to feel disconnected, to lose our sense of meaning—
and with it, our joy.
I read this morning in a Blog post by Arthur Brooks, who talks about the science of happiness (a part of joy)

"The mental health issues we see today are a symptom of a deeper problem, which is a growing inability to define and understand life's deep meaning.
People—especially young people—often feel that they don't know the 'why' of their lives.
Worse, evidence suggests that they're not even looking for it, nor are we encouraging them to do so. This creates a feeling of emptiness, especially when times are inevitably rough.
The dramatic rise in people's screen time and internet usage is not the reason for this, but has made the problem much worse. It interrupts the default-mode network—the set of brain regions that become active when we are mentally at rest—which neuroscientists have found is crucial for finding high-level meaning, memory, future contemplation, and daydreaming."
— Arthur Brooks, The Science of Happiness

I see it in all age groups that we, perhaps because of the pace and demands of our lives, have lost touch with ourselves and, with that, a deep sense of meaning and purpose. Very often, we have never even considered our "why."

The truth is, we don't find our why in the busyness.
We don't uncover our joy in the hustle or noise.
We find it in the quiet.

Sometimes, that space is created with a support person or a good friend who invites deep conversation and contemplation. Or a coach (I would be lost without the support of a coach) or a therapist.

Something that has been helpful for me lately is meditating to specific songs and then journaling with what comes up and something we do in the Womb as well.

If you want to give it a try, you can sit and listen to this song and see what comes up. Listen to it once a day and see what shows up each day. It's not your standard meditation music as this sweet number is by my favourite band Earth, Wind and Fire :). Maybe it's even the music itself that feels good or it invites you to move- Just Own You and your experience with it.
https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=X6KUwob9hSM&si=Mnj9ci8cMtuvoHqc

If you want to take this contemplation a step further

Journal with these prompts-just write the answers that come up for you, try not to pause-write for one minute atleaset when you answer the questions. You could take one a day for the next week.

What would it mean for you to wake up?
What does it mean for you to walk in the light?
What would it mean to bring more substance to your life?
What part of you has been pushed aside?
What are you worthy of that you have been setting aside?
What is your heart holding that you need?
What break or change are you longing for?

What did you learn about yourself from working through these prompts? What will you do as a result?

Thanks for listening.
I hope something in this reminded you of what matters to you—your truth, your voice, your joy.
Sometimes it’s the small moments that bring us back to ourselves.

Take good care, and I’ll see you next time on Finding Your Joy Spot.