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158: Soul Why Secrets of Manifesting Step 5 (FINALE). If you'd like to speak with Genecia on how you can go from stuck to unstoppable: https://www.soulrichwoman.com/clarity-call or sign up for Soul Rich Woman Blueprint at https://www.soulrichwoman.com
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I believe we can change the world. But first, we’ve got to stop living in fear of being judged for who we are.
Hi I'm Genecia Alluora, Founder of the #1 Leading Female Entrepreneur Network in South East Asia supporting 1 Million women to Own & LOve The F-Word. Being fabulous, having freedom, financial independence and Family.
With a challenge to women everywhere to stop TALKING themselves out of their dreams, Soul Why? Secrets of The Soul Rich Woman Blueprint identifies the excuses to let go of, the behaviours to adopt, and the skills to acquire on the path to growth, confidence, and believing in yourself to be recognised as a leader online. Get clients online and to have more impact on the world!
Stop Believing THE Lies ABOUT Who You Are so You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be. You're Just an "F-Word" Away from The Life You Want, The Marriage You Want... The Family That You Want, Is Going To Be Fueled By The Business & Life You Build ... Join me, become a Soul Rich Woman. Alone we are strong, Together we are unstoppable!
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Genecia Alluora: Hey, gorgeous, welcome back. My name is Genecia Alluora and welcome to the final step of the manifesting formula. And this is the piece that really ties everything together. Step number five is all about receiving. Now, a lot of women are not really good at the receiving part, and I think it comes down to that naturally.
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Genecia Alluora: Either because of our family, because of the people around us, because of our upbringing, because of our husbands, whatever. There are always reasons why we are taught in a certain way, our education system. We are told to give more than we receive and only when we give. And then we will receive. So we are often taught all these things that we thought are good stuff because when we are giving, then we will receive, right?
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Genecia Alluora: And there's even a saying around it, so it's more blessed to give than to receive. Yeah, that's right. That's what the whole world is talking about. That's what everybody is saying. Education system, our family, our business associates, whatever.
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Genecia Alluora: So you are probably blocking abundance from the universe in big and small ways. Now, how often do you feel guilty for maybe having a success in your life because you're worried that it's going to make your best friend feel bad about herself? How many times do you feel bad or guilty for charging a client premium pricing in your business because you're worried what your peers may think of you, that you are being too money minded? How many times do you reject abundance because you think it should be given to someone else who maybe deserves it more than you deserve?
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Genecia Alluora: Maybe you never even let your friends buy you a meal or pay for coffee. I know it sounds small, right? But from a manifesting point of view, this is freaking huge. This is a really big deal. How often do you feel guilty, lousy or bad when you want to talk about making money, starting a side hustle, doing a business, or building your brand online, whatever that may be a kind of success, a dream, a goal and then you say it out. And then you feel guilty because you're worried that your husband, your family, your friends, or your peers, or in a certain group that people are in and saying like pointing finger at you and they are judging you. You're so worried they'll judge you by saying, hey, you're money minded. Why must you charge premium prices? Why must you charge for the work?
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Genecia Alluora: Why must you do your side hustle? You're worried that they will just make comments about you and make them feel bad because of your success. Made them feel like you are doing more than them. So you want to play small. Sounds familiar? From the manifesting point of view. That's why a lot of women are not able to receive. How good are you at even taking compliments?
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Genecia Alluora: Like when I thank you right now, I thank you and I love you and I acknowledge you right now, you who's listening to my voice in between your ears now. I want to acknowledge you and thank you for taking this audio program and listening up to step five. How good are you even in taking compliments? Because this is a form of receiving as well. Like, do you even accept it? Or you just completely deflect the compliment and go, oh, it's nothing. Oh, you know it's this.
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Genecia Alluora: And you're just going on and on about, oh no it's not, it's something. And you get this broken record happening in your mind and in your speech constantly. Let me show you how crappy it is, how shitty it's going to be. Because that is a form of rejecting abundance, rejecting your own F word, fabulous freedom, financial independence, and happy family. You're like, huh? Really? Yeah. Because if you can't even receive, then how are you going to build and grow your manifesting power?
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Genecia Alluora: So you can practice receiving compliments and that is going to help you to get adjusted to receiving abundance. So you can start from something really simple and really easy. You can say thank you instead of deflecting it. You could even say thank you, I received that. Or thank you for noticing. So that's so nice of you for acknowledging me. Yeah, you can say that. So now I thank you for listening to this audio training program right now. Are you receiving it to me thanking you or are you deflecting it?
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Genecia Alluora: So instead of deflecting, you want to receive more money? Start in small ways. Let your friend pay for a meal or coffee this time, so that you can practice receiving in every single way that you think of, that you can think of. Because it's okay to receive and not just to give all the time. It's also okay to receive a premium amount for your service that you're going to offer. Whether it's the coaching, whether it's your products that you're selling, it is okay to receive that. So practice in receiving in every single way. If someone says, I think you're awesome, how much do I have to pay you?
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Genecia Alluora: How much is your coaching service? Whatever amount that you say, 5000, 10,000, $30,000, say it, practice receiving it. And maybe someone recently offered to pay you for something and you're like, oh, don't worry, don't need to pay me, don't need to pay so much. Just a small token of appreciation is fine. Or you say, this is going to be on me, it's a freebie. I'm not going to charge you for the opportunities, I'm not going to charge you for my products or services.
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Genecia Alluora: So what have you sabotage recently on your opportunities to make money? What have you sabotage yourself recently? Are you aware? Now another way of becoming an amazing and gracious receiver is to have gratitude for every single form of abundance. On a side note, I always tell my people that I deserve to be rich when I serve and make an impact in other people's lives. Listen closely, I deserve to be rich when I serve, when I create value in other people's lives.
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Genecia Alluora: So notice the word deserve means that when you serve and you add value, you inspire and you create impact in people's lives. You deserve abundance. So have gratitude for every single form of abundance. So be really, I would say, aware of what goes on behind your mind. So what happens if you really struggle with this one? Because I really have seen a lot of women, they can't receive and they are stuck with the notion that why would somebody charge so much? Why would somebody be willing to pay premium prices? And then they will gossip, they will create negative talks, gossip among people, among their friends, and say, hey, that person is charging so high. And then they will judge themselves.
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Genecia Alluora: And when it's their time to say it's time to make money, they feel really shy and embarrassed and judged upon to charge because she themselves have already created that speech, that lingo and that expectation of I am not going to be like her. I am not going to charge premium prices like her, who would pay five figures for mentorship, who pay for a very high amount premium amount for the products that I carry. They set themselves up for not being able to receive. So what happens if you really struggle with this? Well, guess what? You have to go back to step number one and declutter even more negative beliefs.
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Genecia Alluora: Go back to step number two and refine what you're asking for. Maybe even change the group of people whom you're hanging out with because you are already set in a certain tone and way that you feel that you don't deserve or you're judging someone else who is charging for the same service that you're offering or something similar that you're selling and you feel so negative about it. Leave the group. Walk away from people who don't lift you up towards your dreams and walk with you towards your dreams.
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Genecia Alluora: So doing this manifesting work, the people around you is also important, so just take note of that. So go back to step number two and refine what you're asking for. Or maybe you feel like you are just a little bit lost. Don't worry. Just go back to the steps. Okay? Then go to step number three. Create more positive anchors. Leave the group. Maybe you're feeling frustrated and stagnanted. Go back to step four and take some inspired action. Meet the universe halfway. And don't just wait and sit back and wait for it to happen to you. And then. Okay? And then, wait for it to happen and fall from the sky. You know what? It's not going to happen, okay? It's not going to happen. So make sure that you don't sabotage yourself.
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Genecia Alluora: And you find that in the examples I've given you, there are always internal and external subbotages, right? Your own internal, your shiny object syndrome, your focus. You're not distracted, you're not focused. And so many things happen to you. The resistance is coming up, so just be aware of that.
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Genecia Alluora: And the external factors could be the family, the friends, the peers who are already gossiping and people are already seeing things in a certain way that there are some judgment on some people already. And because you judge other people, you also judge yourself. So just make sure you are aware of these subbotages. And like I shared with you, the way out is to be super grateful for what the universe and everything is trying to give you. So if you might be wondering, okay, then, what's next? Right, Genecia, what's next? How can I really master all these manifesting stuff? And honestly, do you really think it's as simple as I've shared with you in the entire audio program?
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Genecia Alluora: Well, it's kind of simple. However, you might need to dive deeper. You need to be taking the steps, right? Or you might be wondering how you can take it deeper and how you can work with me further. So what's next? Well, I'd like to introduce you to my coaching program and also the make it Happen Soul Rich Woman Blueprint. All right, this is where the next level starts. You can work with me one on one, or you can work with me in a group class with identifying your money blocks, identifying your negative self talk. These are the negative beliefs, the habits, the old money stories, the people that might not serve you, or the peer group that you thought that they are your friends, so called inverted common friends. But actually, they are in all states with you.They are in all journey with you. Because for you to move out and move up, you need to get out of the group that is already holding you back with their feelings, with their gossips, with their negative part, for example, charging premium prices. And for you to feel that, you need to feel the same as them. And then you will not be able to step out of your comfort zone. And that's what I always see.
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Genecia Alluora: These are all negative people beliefs, habits, or money stories that are really holding you back and keeping you small, keeping your dreams small, keeping your F-word small, keeping your goals small. So if you find yourself constantly doing pro bono work under, charging, over, delivering, and feeling burnt out, struggling to manifest the clients, struggling to get yourself seen as leaders, struggling to really be that full potential that you think and dreamt about, I can help through coaching and through my programs. So it is really your time to break through your income plateau and start earning the money you deserve. When you clear your money blocks and surround yourself with the correct, right, positive people, you are going to feel more empowered, more confident with your money and your ability to manifest more. For the last 20 years of my life, my courses, my events, my books have helped tens of thousands of women to manifest their dream lives, to earn the money they deserve by working on their money mindset, by working on owning and loving the F word, embracing the fabulous, embracing the freedom, the financial independence and the possibility of happy family.
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Genecia Alluora: And that Soul Rich Woman Blueprint has become my flagship training program. Plus you get lifetime access to this and support and monthly live coaching calls with me. And of course, if you do one on one with me, that is even going to be more specific and you are definitely going to break through. Seriously, the only thing that you need to do in order to be a master in creating, owning the effort, or manifesting your goals and dreams and become a magnet to whatever that you want is always to deal with your mindset.
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Genecia Alluora: Deal with your mindset, specifically the money mindset. And in my Soul Ricch Woman Blueprint in the community, we work with nine to five employees. We work with managing directors, CEOs of companies, full time female entrepreneurs, aspiring entrepreneurs, live streamers, podcasters, healers, energy workers, business coaches, bloggers. I even have authors. I even have people who are running communities themselves, photographers, graphic designers. I've got someone who sells fish as well. Their family deals with fish, selling seafood. I have worked with yoga teachers, Pilates instructors, spiritual entrepreneurs and so much more.
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Genecia Alluora: Now, these women are creating extraordinary results in their own life. Now whatever that result may be for them, because it is not up to me to do it for them, but it's what they see as their goals and dreams because they are making the decisions from a place of power, a place of ease and a place of freedom because they are given the permission to do so. And even though you are probably and you've probably heard of that, you need to have a perfect website or a better marketing plan. You need to find a rich husband. Just kidding.
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Genecia Alluora: I mean, it's like there are so many things that people are saying. But if you ask me, based on my experience and my journey, really, mindset is key. Once you have that, the technical part will come right? Once you have the why, the how will come right. So earning more money is available to you right now. Making more money is available to you right now. Being rich is available to you right now. Being wealthy is available to you right now. Having more fabulous, having freedom, having financial independence is available to you right now. So no matter where you are starting from or how behind you might feel either in your life or business. It's very normal to have conflicting feelings about money, conflicting feelings about your mindset. You've been conditioned from a very young age that money is not infinite, right? It's about scarcity. If you have more, you have less. And being rich makes you greedy, being rich makes you dirty.
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Genecia Alluora: Being wealthy means that you are bad and that you shouldn't make money from someone else. You shouldn't charge premium pricing for your coaching service, for your products or your service, even though that thing comes easily to you. You have studied that, you've graduated from that and you have put your experience together for that purpose. You feel that you should not charge or charge at a premium price. And if you are the only entrepreneur in your family, sometimes it does make a difference as well.
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Genecia Alluora: Or in a friendship group that are not full entrepreneurs. They are holding you back. They already start gossiping. They are always talking about negative stuff, judging other people. You can feel like you become an unrealistic dreamer moving towards your F word. Maybe sometimes you feel like you've got nobody to relate to or that nobody understands your desire to succeed. Or maybe you are just going through from program to program to program and you sign up for other free program and you're lost in all the information and you're just not sure how to move forward. Or if you have never seen examples of conscious wealth, you're always is seeing people born with a silver spoon going up, earning a lot of income, but you never really see real examples of people building up from scratch. And then you're going to stay stuck in guilt and shame because you have never seen examples of conscious wealth.
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Genecia Alluora: So if you can see, you can believe it for yourself and then that's the coolest part. So if you take action to move forward, you can create a ripple effect, you can create momentum throughout your family and community too. I'm here as a soul rich woman to contribute to the revolution of soul and rich woman having soul alignment to their purpose, to their passions, to their prophets, and at the same time being able to reach both on the inside, to be rich on the inside of them and express that richness through external materials or whatever it may be for them on this planet Earth, where people have the energy and ability to do so, rise up and help the humanity to be a safe, healthy and prosperous place for everyone.
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Genecia Alluora: That's what I'm here to do, to leave a legacy through my platform. Soul Rich Woman, so please don't hide your entrepreneurial dreams. Don't hide your f word. You want to win an award, you want to be more fabulous, you want more freedom, you want financial independence. Don't hide that because the environment, the people around you, the belief, the systems and processes, the education system have said that it's wrong to have all these things or out of fear of being disliked or getting it wrong. Don't hide them because of all these fears. Please don't. Who will that serve? That will serve nobody. Hiding will not serve nobody. There are no scenarios where you are going to turn into a mean money hungry bitch.
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Genecia Alluora: You're like what? Making money, wealth, having the F word just magnifies who you already are and you already have and everything that you need. It's just a magnifier learning this manifesting skill, magnifies who are you on the inside, right? So the perfect recipe of skills, talent, heart. To do this, you need some tools and support to help you to take everything to the next level, to up level your status, to get recognition in your own way and to fulfill the inner desires that you have regarding your business and your life.
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Genecia Alluora: And of course you are allowed to make money and inspire, help people. You don't have to choose. You are allowed to do just that. And if you are ready and you've been asking for a sign or mentor to help you, then here I am. And I'm not only the kind of money mindset mentor, I'm not only that, okay? I'm also in the business side. I can teach you and guide you from where you are now to where you want to be much, much faster. Of course, you can also do it without me. Your life will be totally fine without me as well.
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Genecia Alluora: But if this is a Nutch, this is the next step that you need. I invite you to take a leap of faith and explore your blocks. Explore growing your business. Explore building your personal brand. Explore growing your F word or achieving your F word, your dreams, your goals in a safe and loving environment. Well, absolutely no pressure. Like I said, this is the time that is for you, and you are ready for the next step. The magic is amplified when we all work together, and we are here to help make those dreams a reality. And we want you to succeed, too.
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Genecia Alluora: So we want to have people who want to go fast and want to go from stuck to unstoppable. And if this sounds like you, then get yourself registered. You can actually go to my Clarity Call link and book my time or just go visit the Soul Rich Woman website. And that is S-O-U-L-R-I-C-H-W-O-M-A-N.com, soulrichwoman.com. And if you like to speak to me on the programs that we have, which is the coaching program one on one coaching, you can go to soulrichwoman.com/clarity. That is S-O-U-L-R-I-C-H-W-O-M-A-N. Com/clarity. C-L-A-R-I-T-Y.
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Genecia Alluora: So you can actually just contact me and speak with me on that. Okay? To finish this Manifesting series, please join me in our final mantra. This is such a great pattern. I love that. Okay? Now be ready to rewire from those negative, irritating beliefs that's holding you back. Put your hand onto your heart and repeat after me. Listen closely. This is my time and I'm ready for the next step. I love myself and I set myself free.
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Genecia Alluora: This is my time and I'm ready for the next step. Okay, gorgeous, if you want to continue this conversation further, come and join us in the Clarity Call or the solo Truman Blueprint program. I can't wait to help you to create a beautiful business and life that will make you money and change the world, too. I'll see you there. Bye for now.